In this powerful episode of In Sickness, Bob Coughlin and Paul Kidwell explore what happens when caregiving ends not gradually, but suddenly - with the death of a spouse. Overnight, caregivers lose not only the person they love, but also the identity, structure, and purpose that defined their daily lives. This transition is profound, disorienting, and rarely discussed openly.
Clinical psychologist Barry Jacobs, a nationally recognized expert on family caregiving, joins the conversation to help unpack the emotional, relational, and psychological shifts that follow the end of caregiving.
He is joined by two caregivers who have lived this reality:
• Jason Binder - who lost his wife to glioblastoma
• Kathleen Bond - whose husband Jim lived with multiple myeloma for more than 30 years
Host Paul Kidwell also shares his own experience of losing his wife to Parkinson’s and dementia, offering a deeply personal perspective on grief, identity, and rebuilding a life after caregiving.
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