Copy of EP 1: Why Knowing Your Intuitive Gifts Is Non-Negotiable

Episode Transcript

Stephanie (00:00):
Welcome to Intuitive Real Talk, the podcast where I'm
going to cut through all the bs.
I'm gonna light a fire underyour spiritual ass, and I'm
gonna remind you your intuitionisn't weird.
It is your superpower.
Hi, I'm Stephanie, a psychic,medium intuitive coach, animal
communicator, paranormal expert.
Yep.
All the things intuitive.

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I'm also a professional truthdropper.
So what are we gonna do here?
We're gonna dive into it all.
Shadow work, spirit talk,intuitive gifts, and yep, even
aliens, like a spiritualdumpster dive.
But with purpose.
There's gonna be no gatekeeping,no fluff, no performative love
and light bullshit, just raw,unfiltered conversations for

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people who know they came hereto shake shit up.
Let's get into it.
Hi there.
Gosh, I am so excited to jumpinto my first episode with you
of Intuitive Real Talk.
This episode I'm gonna talkabout why it's so dang important
to know your intuitive gifts.
And no, it is not about becauseyou're gonna have to give

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readings.
No, it's not because you have totell the public, none of that.
It's all about why you need toknow why your soul came to this
earth specifically with certaingifts.
Everyone has all gifts, but somewill be more dominant than
others.
But if you think about it likethis, some individuals came

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here, they cannot see, theycannot hear, they cannot speak.
It's because even though theyhave a gift, they're using it
differently than what would beconsidered the more the norm,
dominant way.
Right?
And so they may be seeing withtouch, with feeling.
Knowing all the things.

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And so when you think about itlike that, our
intuitive gifts
are similar.
That's why I'm not a huge fan oflabeling, especially with the
clair's like clairsentient,Claire Ian, all those things.
You can look all them up, right?
Today I wanna talk about whyit's important just for you to
know what your dominant,intuitive gift.
Or gifts are and why you wouldneed to tap into them.

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Because a lot of times peoplesay to me, you know, gosh, I
don't wanna give
readings.
I don't wanna be out in public.
My gifts scare me.
This is scaring me.
And that could be because of howthey were brought up.
It could be just something that,Hey, I chose it, but my
human side
is rejecting it for my journey.
There's just a variety ofreasons why people.
Will either tiptoe or not use ituntil kinda shit hits the fan

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and then they're forced to useit, or they'll get to the point
where they're like, dang it, Iknew it.
I felt it, I heard it, whatever.
And so it's literally your soulspeaking to your human shell
that says hey, I'm trying togive you a warning because
everything is energy, right.
Okay, so why would you stillneed to know your intuitive

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gifts?
Essentially, when you know yourintuitive, gifts, your sixth
sense, you'll lean on thatdominant gift you will.
Know how to make decisions, howto do like the shadow work, how
to parent, how to be a partner.
Whatever roles that you are in,it will help you to flow so that

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you have healthy boundaries sothat you let go of anxiety so
that you're not worrying everytime that you're like all, I'll
just be honest.
Some people just worry all thetime, and the reason why they're
worrying is because.
They can feel the energy, butthey're not trusting their
intuition or they're notunderstanding that some of that.

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Stuff that they're feeling isn'teven theirs.
If they were truly tapped in,grounded doing all the things,
then they're just like, oh,okay.
That's not my shit to carry.
Yeah, I get to let that go.
Or, oh, this is ancestral orgenerational, oh, past life
energy that's hitting me.
And I get to acknowledge it,lean into it, heal it, let it
go.
You know, that's another, andthat's gonna be another topic

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for a different episode, buttoday it's all about remembering
that when you tap into you.
I mean you fully, what happensis you start to thrive
differently.
You start to not look externallyfor people to make you happy.
You won't look externally forvalidation or confirmation.

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You will read the energy in away that's healthy for you.
It will help you in your rolesof whatever they look like, but
it will also help you to reallystart to connect in and not feel
so damn stuck.
You know what I mean?
A lot of times people will sayto me, gosh, I just don't know
what will make me happy.
I.

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I just, I feel so much anxiety.
I worry all the time.
I don't know how to make mydecisions on things that I wanna
do.
I'm scared, but I keep havingthese cravings, I am craving to
travel or to quit my job or to,you know, get in a relationship
or to have a child or whateveryou're craving or wanting, I

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should say, because that's yoursoul's.
Bucket list kicking in, andyou're meant to listen one to
your soul, which is also divinesource.
Whatever resonates with you aswell as your human side is
trying to process everything.
So if you used your sixth sense,what would happen?
Things would flow.

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Why do you have eyesight?
So you can see in the 3D world,right?
Why can you hear, so that youcan hear, so that you can feel,
so that you get touch?
All the things our human sensesare meant to be amplified by our
intuitive senses.
So this way when we touchsomething, we remember the

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feeling.
When we see something, we get animprint in our brain.
When we hear something, we nowhear the sound.
When we smell something, we nowhave a memory of that.
Smell all of our intuitivegifts, amp that up.
So if Spirit is trying to talkto us, boom.
You may have a memory of asmell, you may see a picture in
your brain, you may hearsomething that's in your head.

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You know, there's all thesethings that happen and that's
how they're trying to talk toyou because they're like hey.
You've already experienced this,you've already touched it.
You've already felt it.
Now we need you to understandwhen we're talking to you,
because now your human side istranslating spirit.
It's translating your higherself, it's translating divine
all of the things.
And so that's why they want youto use all of your human senses,

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but implement your, intuitivesenses so that everything flows.
So it just kind of feels like,oh, okay.
I don't need to carry all thisweird shit.
I don't need to second guessmyself.
I don't have to have thatanxiety.
I don't need to worry.
I get to have those healthyboundaries.
I get to know if you are agaslighting person or that

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you're projecting your fears orwounds onto me.
And I also know how to clear myenergy and how to push my energy
out so that I am protected sothat this way.
I am working and living andthriving on my journey rather
than everyone else's journey.
I don't have to sit there andfeel bad or guilty or blame

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myself for, Living my truth anddoing the things that light me
up.
And so when I say it's soimportant to know your intuitive
gifts, most of the time when I'mcoaching someone or giving'em a
reading, it's because they don'ttrust themselves.
They don't listen to their innerdialogues.
And when I say inner dialogues,I don't mean like our human

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mind, that's like going aroundin a circle.
You know what I mean?
It's more of a.
I am listening to my soul aswell as all of the other things
that are helping me on myjourney.
And I'll, a lot of times peoplewill be like, I feel scared of
my gifts, or I just keep secondguessing'em.

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You second guess them becauseyou don't understand how they
work and every time you havesome sort of upgrade or,.
There's an energetic shift.
You gotta recalibrate.
It's kind of like when yourcomputer, doesn't, a download
and upgrade, whatever it does,you gotta reboot it, right?
It is the same thing withourselves.
We have to recalibrate and it'skind of like doing simple little

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exercises with ourselves of whatwe can do to help, to
recalibrate, to make sure thatwhen we're using our intuition,
that we're not second guessingourselves, so essentially.
When people are in their head alot and they're thinking a lot,
or they've been in arelationship or they grew up
with someone that might havebeen very narcissistic or

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gaslighting or played thevictim, you may have a narrative
in your head that one, I'm notgood enough, or, my opinion
doesn't matter.
Speaking, my truth doesn'tmatter.
And so when that starts tohappen, you gotta learn your
gifts differently because nowyou are carrying their energy or
what they projected onto you,which dimmed you down.

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And so essentially what yougotta do is just kind of like
work on your gifts in a way of,do I need to verbally say it out
loud to see what dings in mybody?
Do I need to just know it?
Do I need to hear it in my head?
Do I need to see it?
Do I need to feel it?
Do I need to.
Whatever.
There's so many ways our giftswork and sometimes it's like a

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stepping stone, like a lot of,natural intuitives, they were
born awake, like they neverclosed down.
I am a natural intuitive.
I've always been awake all mylife, but my gifts fluctuate
very much.
It could be extremely dominant.
One way, and then all of asudden I start to work with

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someone else, support and guidethem.
It could flip on me or I couldbe sitting there and all of a
sudden I'm hearing messagesdifferently or I'm smelling
things differently.
So things will change as you useyour gifts more.
And how you're evolving becausewhen we first start, we gotta
feel all that crap, right?
A lot of natural intuitives alsohave a really, usually not a

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typically happy go lucky,childhood.
There's just, it's just like aroller coaster.
And when they get older, nowthey gotta process all those
wounds and crap like that.
Your gifts are still going.
They just may be a littledifferent and not as a healthy
gift.
Right.
And by that I mean You may useyour gifts more as, manipulation

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because you can read the energyreally well, you know, things
like that and so when you thinkabout it like things are always
changing.
They're always.
Evolving, and the more you heal,the more shadow work you do, the
more you implement them.
They evolve in a way that's morehigh vibe, more growing, and I
don't mean high vibe, false,positive bullshit, like, I mean

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like they're actually evolvingand getting stronger.
And it's kind of like when youstretch your body, at first you
may feel not flexible.
You may be like, oh, my musclesare sore.
But the more you do it, the lessflexibility issues that you
have.
You start to like, really, I amjust, I feel great.

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I.
Right.
And so as you're stretching themout, as you trust them more,
they're gonna grow for you,which helps you so that this way
you aren't in those negativerelationships.
You aren't in those situationswhere you're like, I just don't
know what to do.
So when you are first startingout, let's say you're not a
natural or you just have nevertrusted your gifts, or you just

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don't truly understand how theywork, whether you are a natural
or something happened to wakeyou up, or you have just all of
a sudden you just hit that spacewhere you're like, there's gotta
be more out there.
I know there is.
I'm sick of having this anxiety.
I'm sick of worrying.
I'm sick of doing the thingsthat's waking you up.
Then all of a sudden you go intoyour spiritual awakening and all

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that fun stuff.
And so when that starts tohappen, you gotta learn how your
gifts work.
You just do.
A lot of times when I'm coachingpeople, they'll be like, I'll do
exercises with them, and they'relike, oh, this is great.
But they use it just once tosee, yeah, I actually have, this
is how my gift works.
But then they don't use itanymore.
Then they're all of a sudden,like, maybe I was making it up.

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So you have to use it just likeany other muscle.
You gotta keep using it.
And the more you train yourself,the more you trust yourself, the
more it.
Flows for you.
Now, will you have the samegifts as me if you were a
medium?
More than likely not.
And the reason why I say that isbecause when we compare

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ourselves, what happens is nowwe're just like, am I as good as
this person?
Am I better than this person?
It has nothing to do with that.
Comparison is toxic as crap.
So please don't do comparisonbecause then now you're trying
to almost.
See, am I at this level that'shere or am I at this level

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that's down here and you justdon't want to play that game?
Because then we almost get tothe point where we worry if we
miss something.
We worry if something happensand we made a decision out of
what we felt like our gut wastelling us, and it didn't happen

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the way we thought it was goingto, but it actually did like
down the road, like if you thinkabout it, you throw a pebble in
the water and it ripples out andbecomes big.
So even though your decision atthe time didn't feel like it was
right down the line, more thanlikely it will be because I've
told people things like I'll belike this isn't gonna work out
for you.
And then they'll try it andthey'll be like, oh, it worked

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out.
Then like a couple weeks later,all of a sudden they're like,
well, shit, it actually didn'twork out.
Or it was toxic as crap becauseI forced it.
You know what I mean?
And so it's all about lookingwithin, understanding how you
work with your gifts, and thendeciding how you want it to work

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for your gifts.
Is it to release the anxiety?
Is it to know yourself?
Is it to give readings?
Is it to just.
Be able to navigate life in away that I wanna do the black
sheep healing, or I just wannado healing all around.
Like if you think about a lot ofindividuals that are in law
enforcement, military, thingslike that, what do they say?

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Oh my gosh, all of a sudden mygut dinged I had to do this, and
it saved us from whateversituation they were involved in.
Right?
When we trust ourselves, ithelps us on our journey.
In more than one way.
And so, gosh, I hope that thisfirst episode made you feel a

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little bit like I do need tocheck out my gifts.
And I hope that it made you feelvalidated in some of the areas
that you may be exploring.
And so if you have any questionsor if there's something that you
want me to expand on, feel freeto leave a comment and feel free
to share this with anyone thatyou think may be interested in

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hearing all about why it'simportant to know your gifts.
And if you'd like to book asession with me, feel free to go
to [e-mail].
Until next time.