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February 23, 2024 9 mins

Embark on a quest of love and laughter with me, your trusty guide, Stephanie Smith and the voices behind "Once Upon a Fantasy". We're rolling out the red carpet to the kingdom of romance where trust is king, and a safe word is your knight in shining armor. From the accidental alchemy of laundry mishaps to the crafty choreography of IKEA furniture assembly, we weave tales of everyday enchantment that spellbind the heart and tickle the funny bone. Unearth the treasure trove of maintaining intimacy and excitement, as we reveal how a dash of role play and a sprinkle of dialogue can transform your love story into an epic adventure.

Prepare for a carnival of affection where the merry-go-round of mutual delight spins with the thrill of the unexpected. I'm here to share the secrets of becoming the game's master or mistress in your own romantic saga, turning trust and dependability into the sexiest of bedrocks. Our conversation is a delightful dance around the sacred flames of the bedroom, where respect becomes our rhythm and consent sets the beat. Tune in for an episode that celebrates the capricious capers of coupledom and unlocks the everlasting charm of love's little surprises.

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Welcome, dear listeners, to another podcast of
Once Upon a Fantasy, the onlypodcast that dares to ask the
question is reality just notcutting it for you anymore?
Hi, welcome back to let's TalkAbout Sex with Stephanie Smith.
I am Stephanie Smith, your host, and today we're going to

(00:22):
outline why.
What is the need for fantasy?
I'll tell you.
Why Do you ever find yourselfstaring longingly at your
partner over the breakfast table, wishing they just sprout wings
and fly you out to the office?
Or perhaps you've been caughtwhispering sweet nothings into

(00:44):
your significant other's earlike speak to me and elvish my
love, or I'd trade all thebitcoins in the world for a
single ride on your dragon.
But fear not, dear mortals, forhere in the hollowed walls of
our podcast, we know that thereal magic in relationship

(01:05):
starts when you accidentallywash your white shirts with your
red socks.
Now, that's a love potion goneWrong.
Oh, indeed, and let's be real,who needs a knight in shining
armor when you can have apartner who's brave enough to
face the most terrifying ofbeasts, assembling IKEA

(01:29):
furniture together without asingle argument?
Hallelujah.
Join us as we dive deep intothe enchanted forest of couple
dome, where we'll exploredungeons of desire and the fairy
tale fantasies that keep thespark alive, even when the only
sparks you usually see are whenyou accidentally electrocute

(01:54):
yourself changing a light bulb.
So grab your metaphorical swordand shield or, you know, just a
comfy pillow, and prepare toembark on an epic journey of
love, laughter and perhaps atouch of role playing, because,
let's face it, sometimes thereal fantasy is thinking your

(02:16):
relationship doesn't need alittle spicy nut.
Without further ado, let's turnthe page to chapter one of
today's escapade.
Pause upon a fantasy where weboldly explore the happily ever
after that only exists when youforget to pay your internet bill

(02:39):
.
Ah, the illustrious realm ofthe game's master or mistress, a
title that may evoke a mix ofintrigue, a dash of blushes and
a twinkle of mischief in theeyes of those who dare whisper
it.
Let's dive into this enchantingworld with the grace of a

(03:02):
ballroom dancer and theprecision of a maestro, shall we
?
First, let's tip our hats tothe titillating notion that,
indeed, to be a game's master ormistress is to hold the keys to
a kingdom of fantasy andcontrol.
It's like being the conductorof an orchestra, where the

(03:25):
instruments are pleasure and thesymphony is one of mutual
delight.
For the nervous novice, thepresence of a benevolent ruler
can be as comforting as asecurity blanket at a ghost
story session, albeit a ratheradult version.

(03:46):
Now, to dome the crown of thegame's master or mistress is not
just to wield power, but toembrace the role of the ultimate
party planner.
It's the kind of task thatwould make even the most
seasoned event planner break outin hives.
Yet it's the kind ofentertainment that can tickle

(04:10):
the fancy in ways that monopolysimply can't.
And let's not forgettrustworthiness and
dependability are the twinpillars upon which this naughty
empire stands.
Surprise, these are hardly thetraits you'd expect to find in
the same sentence as erotica,yet they are as crucial as the

(04:34):
change to a swing set.
After all, trust is the sexiestof foundations for any couple
venturing into the playfulexploration of their desires.
Now, the goals and rules of thegame are simple, yet as
essential as the do not disturbsign on the door, aimed to

(04:56):
promote trust, excitement, eageranticipation and an x-rated
imagination.
What you're not aiming for isan Olympic record for how
quickly things can go from oohto ouch.
Gentleness, dear friends, isthe name of the game, even when
the game involves handcuffs,speaking of which, let's take

(05:21):
safe words the linguisticsuperheroes of the bedroom.
They're the open, says me, thatensures everything stops at.
I'm not really feeling like apretzel today, Thank you, it's
the word that means no.
Seriously, I need a break, notI'm just playing hard to get.

(05:42):
Choose wisely.
Flugal horn is far less likelyto be uttered by accident than
stop.
Remember these exhilaratingescapades are not a solo mission
.
It takes two to tango, and evenmore to tango with handcuffs.
Both players must engage in thesacred dance of dialogue,

(06:07):
establishing boundaries andrespecting them like the most
cherished of treasures.
So, dear adventurers, as weembark on your quest to the land
of central Gamesmanship,remember be kind, be safe and
let the games begin.
And if the heat of the momentever gets too hot, just remember

(06:30):
the golden rule when in doubt,leave it out.
After all, the best games arethe ones where everyone is
eagerly Awaiting the next round.
All right, I hope you enjoy thispodcast about Fantasies, this
one about mr and master and howto play, and I'm going to just

(06:51):
keep on bringing you more andmore Fun ways to play together.
If you have any ways that youwant me to address here in my
podcast, please Absolutely sendme an email.
I would love to hear from you.
Otherwise, slantje is shantje.
Health and wellness in the newyear.
I'm doing my best to talk in InGaelic.

(07:15):
It's very difficult for me.
All right, thank you for atleast engaging with me.
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