The only thing constant is change. Stew and Zan sit down to reflect on the nine months since their last pod and how rapid change is reshaping the way they see themselves, fatherhood, marriage, and the world around them.
In between the heavy, you’ll also get the bachelor party + Detroit wedding recap, an almost-too-vivid doctor’s office story, sobriety talk, catcalling from both men and women, and even a Russian bathhouse adventure.
We had a lot to cover. Pull back the covers, grab your beverage of choice, and join us unfiltered 🧃 this is Lunchbreak After Dark.
Ok fine, it’s the same brown-bag Lunchbreak you know and love. “Peanut butter and jelly, again?! Gee thanks! 🥹”
📍 Topics
- (00:00) — Sloppy Seconds & New Beginnings
Back in the studio after 9 months, why the episode title is clickbait, and how life’s been lifing. - (19:26) — Detroit Weddings & Russian Bathhouses
From bachelor party brotherhood to spa adventures — Detroit gave the guys stories for days. - (25:30) — The “All-Man Orgy” Accusation
When you turn down a wild proposition in Detroit, and suddenly your whole crew gets labeled. - (30:36) — Fatherhood = Beautiful Chaos
Stew reflects on paternity leave, bonding with Langston, and learning to balance being a husband and a dad. - (42:48) — Sobriety & Identity Shifts
Zan talks quitting drinking, spiritual growth, and learning to love the new version of himself. - (51:37) — Vulnerability & Hotel Intruders
The bathroom gets ambushed mid-scroll — a too-real reminder to always latch the door.
Words of the Day:
- Petrichor — that earthy, fresh smell after rain when water hits soil and releases natural oils.
- Eleemosynary — related to charity or giving; being generous for the sake of others.
- Avuncular — like an uncle; friendly, kind, or supportive in that “wise uncle” way.
Intro Song: Common Man - David Ruffin
Outro Song: Changes - Charles Bradley
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