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November 6, 2025 18 mins

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In this episode of Make Time for Success, Dr. Christine Li explores the topic of releasing control and embracing flexibility in our lives. Inspired by real reactions from her students, she dives into why we crave control, the downsides of holding on too tightly, and the benefits of trusting ourselves, practicing detachment, and nurturing flexibility. She shares practical insights and personal reflections to help listeners rethink their relationship with control and invites everyone to experiment with a little more ease and openness.

Timestamps:

  • 00:00:01 – 00:01:17: Dr. Christine Li introduces the complex topic of control.
  • 00:01:19 – 00:02:40: Shares the backstory—student reactions sparked the episode.
  • 00:02:40 – 00:06:41: Why we crave control, its downsides (perfectionism, anxiety).
  • 00:06:41 – 00:15:00: Five main points on releasing control: transience, accepting change, inner purpose, flexibility, and detachment.
  • 00:15:00 – 00:18:00: Encouragement to relax control, reflection prompts, and resource link.
  • 00:18:02 – 00:18:43: Closing remarks and invitation to connect.

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