MHR EP 2633 “Not so Fast”

What is the one thing that will ruin your eternity with your loved one? Jeannette’s message this week reminds us that being in a hurry to join your loved one in Heaven in not the answer. Listen as she details why, and as she reminds us, “Don't stop living because someone you love has passed. Live fully because of the love you share, and continue your journey together.” ©

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Episode Transcript

SPEAKER_01 (00:03):
What is the one thing that will ruin your
eternity with your loved one?

SPEAKER_00 (00:09):
What if I told you that there's more to it?
That there are benefits andresources from heaven that are
available to help you in thislife, and you've never heard
about them.
Are you curious?
Well, join Gordon Merrill as hedigs deeper into making heaven
real in this life.

SPEAKER_01 (00:37):
Welcome back to Making Heaven Real as we present
messages from Jeanette.
This time, Jeanette addressesthe statement that you've
probably heard on this episodeor on this podcast several times
previously.
The statement is don't doanything to end your life early
because it will ruin oureternity together.

(00:59):
If you follow Making Heaven Realmuch at all, you've heard me
mention this several times.
This was a direct message fromJeanette two weeks to the day
after she passed.
We were extremely close, in waysnot yet fully discussed on
making heaven real, but it maybe the topic of conversation on
a future episode.

(01:19):
But for now, she was just veryinsistent that I get this
message very soon after herpassing.
Why?
Well, let's listen to hermessage now and how she sheds
light on this urgent statementfrom March 2024.
The last couple of weeks shetold us to live out loud,

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explore, seek adventure, andlive fully.
But the question we all havestill on earth here on earth is
how do we live to the fullestwhile still grieving?
She says, the more that youstand up, the more you drink
water, the more you take yourvitamins, you stretch, exercise,

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and go on with your day, youwill get little glimpses every
day that God brings to you.
Little glimpse of joy, littleglimpse of understanding.
Understanding that you'reprotected.
And feelings have never, thatyou are never alone.

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You will always haveopportunities to grow and
stretch.
There will be time for everybodythat grieves if they follow the
pathway of assuring that they'retaking care of yourself, that
you will be able to feel lifefully and understand that you're
living life not only foryourself, but for the ones that

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you grieve for.
If you're moving forward, it'snot detrimental to the memory of
whomever, but that you're doingthis with the person you're
remembering.
Those of you who follow MakingHeaven Real have heard me
reference a message Jeanettegave me shortly after her
passing.
Don't do anything to end yourlife early because it will ruin

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our eternity.
At that time, I knew thismessage was important because of
how strongly she impressed itupon me and how strongly she
worked at making sure I got thatmessage very quickly.
But even then I don't fulldidn't fully understand all that
she meant by it.

(03:32):
Now, through her recent message,I believe she's helping us
understand the deeper meaning ofthese words.
Over the last few weeks, JedTanet has encouraged us to live
fully, seek adventure, embracelife.
Well that raises an importantquestion.
How do we do this?

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How do we go on and not handleor deal with the feelings of
loss?
What struck me most about hermessage is that the living fully
is not a betrayal of the personwe miss.
Moving forward does not meanleaving them behind.

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Instead, we continue the journeywith them.
According to Jeanette, we areliving not only for ourselves,
but also for those we love andgrieve.
Every time we choose life,growth, hope, and healing, we
honor the love we shared, and wecarry that love into the next

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chapter of our lives.
The message I hear from Jeanetteis clear.
Don't stop living becausesomeone you love has passed.
Live fully because the love youshare and continue the journey
together.
So, Jeanette, what has happenedwhen someone ends their life too

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soon?
She says, when it's not yourtime, what we're illustrating
here isn't as rosy as Gordon hasjust shared.
But if a person was to taketheir life before the moment
that the Spirit has allotted, itdoes take time to go through
sadness, tears, fears, regret.

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We're not saying that you'regoing to be in a dark space
forever, but it's not as easy asit sounds.
That dark place can be verylonely from what we in heaven
understand, and we pray forthem.
But we know that they're therefor a reason, and it will take
time for them to release theenergy and for them to

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understand why their choicesmattered.
It's absolutely opposite of whatGod wants.
God gave us life for a reason,for us to grow and experience,
learn, share, care.

(06:09):
She says, when you extinguishthe light early, you didn't give
the earthly realm all thecooperation you were supposed to
share.
Remember last week when she saidonly you can share the light
that you hold?

(06:29):
Here she's saying, if youextinguish that light early,
you've cheated Earth fromsomething God intended.
So, Jeanette, how does this ruinus for eternity?
She says, if you ended your lifeearly, you would go into this

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dark place, and it could take usa long time to find each other
again when you emerge.
By then your frequencies wouldbe different.
We would no longer matchfrequency.
And that would change our wholeoutlook of our journey for maybe

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thousands of years.
Janet explains that movingforward through grief is not
leaving a loved one behind.
It's carrying them with you intothis new chapter.
Every time you choose hope overdespair, participating in life,

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care for others, and embrace newexperiences, we honor the love
we shared with them.
Those who love you in heaven donot want you to stop your
journey.
They want you to continuegrowing, continue healing,
continue exploring, and continuebecoming all that God created

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you to be.
Through that growth, your lightbecomes brighter.
And here's the key yourfrequency becomes stronger.
How does that help?
Because then your eternalconnections deepen.

(08:21):
So when grief whispers that lifeno longer matters, remember this
truth.
Your frequency is still beingwritten, your stir story is
still unfolding, your purpose isstill active, and every day you
choose to live fully, you areparticipating in the beautiful
expansion of your soul andpreserving the harmony of your

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connections that will lastforever.
I think the one thing that meantthe most to me when she came
through with that message, evenway back in early 2024, a lot of
what I know now and a lot ofwhat I have shared with you on
this podcast was things thatwere new to me to learn over

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that time period.
But the thing that meant themost to me in that one statement
early on, if it's going to takethousands of years after the
time spent in the dark zone torecover, and then after that
takes thousands of years for youto find your loved one, and then

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you may not even connectproperly because you're on a
different frequency by then.
How much time do you actuallyhave left on this earth in this
lifetime?
None of us will be here for athousand years.
So where can you come up withany justification for worth to

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end your life early, to enterinto a dark zone, emerge on a
different frequency, takethousands of years to find each
other, and then probably stillnot be on a compatible frequency
when you're done.
Nothing about what's left inyour life's plan in this human

(10:27):
suit is bad enough for you toend it early and jeopardize your
future.
Think of this mantra during thenext week.
Every day I live, learn, love,and grow.

(10:49):
I strengthen my frequency.
My journey matters, my purposematters, and my connection to
those I love grows strongerthrough the life I live fully.
So to close this on kind of alight note, those of you who

(11:11):
follow Making Heaven Real, I'msure have heard me mention
several times that Jeanette wasan attorney.
So I asked her to put on herattorney hat and close out the
episode with a closing argument.
And here's what she had to say.
So, ladies and gentlemen, letthe record show this.
Your life is the evidence, yourjoy is the testimony, and your

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willingness to live fully is theverdict.
Which makes heaven real.
Case closed.

SPEAKER_00 (11:46):
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and his resources during ourtime together.
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heaven real in this life withGordon Merrill.