Do you ever feel exhausted from deciding the same things over and over again—bedtime, screens, snacks, chores? That constant re-deciding drains your energy, weakens boundaries, and leaves you frustrated by 3 p.m.
In this episode, we’ll unpack the power of pre-deciding—how making clear choices ahead of time helps you follow through with calm confidence.
You’ll learn:
- Why pre-deciding saves your energy and sanity
- What it means if you can’t stick to what you’ve decided
- How guilt and people-pleasing make consistency harder
- Simple steps to start pre-deciding today
- How to identify where your lack of pre-determination causes chaos
By the end, you’ll see how deciding once—on purpose—can bring peace to your home and confidence to your motherhood.
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