Marriage and Communication After Baby Part 1

Let’s try to understand one another for more productive partnerships better when it comes to parenting. This is what I’ll be exploring in my multi-part series here on my podcast. I don’t think men (husbands, dads) purposely don’t worry ahead the way we do. If they could, some of them would take that load off our shoulders and close some of the tabs for us, but they aren’t wired to think that way. It’s not that they’re lazy or they don’t care; it’s just not in their DNA like it is ours. Undoubtedly, I will get comments yelling at me about not being inclusive and gender-generalizing. But this entire series is my cliffs notes and my added thoughts to approximately 10-15 books I just devoured on marriage, communication, female vs. male brains, motherhood, parenting, and love languages. I am not pulling this information out of my ass. If we continue to completely disregard our gender differences, from our brains to what our society through patriarchy has created, we are being completely ignorant of our differences. When we learn about our differences and learn to speak each other's language, THEN we can bridge the gap and find creative solutions to stronger, more successful marriages and partnerships in parenting. I genuinely believe that after reading everything I’ve read from psychotherapists, doctors, and scientists and the abundance of data and insights from hundreds of surveys across all races, religions, and socioeconomic statuses. I took these 10+ books and connected the dots, and created a playbook for parents. Tune in over the next few weeks as I drop more and more knowledge.