Does your teen's every mood feel like your job to fix? Or do you find yourself walking on eggshells, worried anything you say will set them off? Helping teens handle big emotions is one of the hardest parts of parenting, especially when we're running on empty ourselves.
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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jenny Woo, a Harvard-trained educator, emotional intelligence researcher, and founder of Mind Brain Emotion. Dr. Woo explains why today's young people are in an "emotional recession," why there's no such thing as a bad emotion, and why validating your teen's feelings builds resilience instead of weakness.
Her biggest message: doing less has more impact. When we stop rushing to fix and let teens work through some discomfort, they learn they can handle hard things.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN
- Why "emotions are data," and how naming feelings precisely helps
- Why validating your teen's feelings isn't coddling, and what dismissing them does
- How to model calm when you're stressed and exhausted
- Why your teen unloads on you, and how to stop carrying their feelings for them
- How letting teens face small failures builds resilience and empathy
- How "phubbing," or phone snubbing, affects your connection
EPISODE CHAPTERS
- 00:00 Why teens need emotional intelligence
- 01:15 Dr. Woo's path into emotional intelligence
- 03:24 What emotional intelligence is
- 06:17 The emotional recession in today's teens
- 08:47 Why teens are struggling more now
- 12:10 Phubbing: how our phones affect our teens
- 14:43 Getting comfortable with discomfort
- 18:25 Modeling calm when you're stressed
- 21:56 Walking on eggshells: why teens find parents annoying
- 25:28 Letting your teen be upset
- 26:46 Why you're your teen's emotional dumpster
- 27:43 Letting go of the need to fix
- 29:56 Why doing less is doing more
- 31:46 How teens build empathy
- 35:15 Is validating feelings coddling?
- 40:20 How resentment builds, and how validation helps
- 42:38 One big takeaway for parents
RESOURCES MENTIONED
- Mind Brain Emotion: free tools and resources
- 52 Essential Conversations card deck by Dr. Jenny Woo
- 52 Essential Coping Skills card deck by Dr. Jenny Woo
CONNECT WITH DR. JENNY WOO
- Website: MindBrainEmotion.com
- Instagram: @mindbrainparenting
- Facebook: @mindbrainparenting
- YouTube: @mindbrainemotion
- X: @mindbrainparent
CONNECT WITH DR. CAM CASWELL
- Website: AskDrCam.com
- Instagram: @DrCamCaswell
- Parenting Teens Academy
ABOUT THE SHOW
Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam is hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach. Each episode gives you practical strategies, expert advice, and real-world insight to build a stronger relationship with your teen.
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