In this powerful and eye-opening episode of Please Me, we're diving into the uncomfortable but critical topic of how abuse often hides behind the mask of love, jealousy, and control. Host Eve sits down with Shawn Schutt and Amanda Courier, co-hosts of the Touchy Subjects podcast, to unpack the hidden layers of domestic violence and sexual assault—and how abusers manipulate relationships long before physical violence ever occurs.
Shawn and Amanda specialize in breaking the silence around topics most people avoid—and today, they’re exposing the subtle yet dangerous tactics abusers use to gain power and control, from isolation and jealousy to phone surveillance and emotional manipulation.
In this episode, we discuss: The true definitions of domestic violence and sexual assault How jealousy is often the first red flag—and why society normalizes it The role of identity and how marginalized communities face unique risks Abuse tactics like isolation, phone control, and manipulation disguised as "love" Why leaving an abusive relationship is far more complex—and dangerous—than it seems Steps to safely leave an abusive situation and how to seek support
Whether you're navigating a relationship, supporting a friend, or just want to be more informed—this is an essential conversation everyone should hear.
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about domestic violence, sexual assault, and manipulation, which may be distressing for some listeners.
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If you or someone you know needs help, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org. Additional Episodes Mentioned:Diddy Party
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