Making It Work: The Kink Collective

What does it actually look like when three people build a real life together? Not the theory, not the fantasy, the dishwasher, the finances, the king size bed, the moment someone asks if you want to wear a ring. Alonzo sits down with Kat, Joshua, and Natalie of The Kink Collective to talk about how a triad that has been living, working, and traveling together actually makes it work day to day. Joshua opens up about two decades of relationship failures before he finally found the courage to say what he needed out loud. Kat talks about what it felt like to always be the one in the way — and what it means to finally be with people who genuinely want her there. And Natalie, the newest member of this family, explains why she chose to stay when things got hard instead of running like she had before. No one is selling a perfect life here. They are just three people who did the work and can tell you exactly what that looked like.