Most poly families are one crisis away from a legal nightmare — and they don't know it. In this episode, Alonzo sits down with attorney Toby Adams, who has spent 14 years specializing in family law and estate planning exclusively for poly, queer, kink, and neurodiverse communities. Toby breaks down what rights actually exist for poly parents in California and beyond, how to get all three parents on a birth certificate, why a will or trust can protect your polycule where the law won't, and what happens to your home, your children, and your partner's belongings if you never put anything in writing. Allegra Pescatore, general manager of Toby Adams Law and a poly community member herself, adds a deeply personal story about losing a partner with no legal protections in place and why that moment changed everything she understood about why this work matters. This is the episode you didn't know you needed. Listen before you need it.
Alonzo Banks (Host) · Attorney Toby Adams, Esq. (Toby Adams Law) · Allegra Pescatore (General Manager, Toby Adams Law / Author) · Captain Lynn
Toby Adams, Attorney at Law : http://www.TobyAdamsLaw.com
Allegra Pescatore : website: authorallegra.com
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