Danielle Sebastian's Journey as a Spouse of a Survivor of Childhood Sexual Abuse

Danielle's story is about her difficulties getting into a healthy relationship with her husband after he disclosed his sexual abuse history. Her story highlights the issues spouses of survivors commonly experience, including trust issues, emotional instability, and avoidance.: The biggest impact for survivors and their partners is the loneliness and secrecy of the abuse. There is a lot to get through, and open discussions about needing help are key. The financial ramifications of needing help can be daunting, and faith is often impacted by survivor's experiences.

 

Danielle Sebastian is an expert on identifying and overcoming trauma in relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Resilient Wives: A Guide for Wives Supporting Their Husband Through Childhood Trauma Recovery" and has helped hundreds of women navigate and repair their marriages as they support their husbands through trauma recovery. After 8 years of strain in her own marriage and through years of extensive research and development on trauma, relationships, and self-care, Danielle created a signature "Wife-CARE" framework. She is a sought-after speaker, and her thought leadership has been presented to audiences of over 1K. Danielle was recently featured on competitive gymnast and the first known survivor of sexual abuse by former USA Gymnastics team doctor Larry Nassar, Sarah Klein's podcast, "Bar Fights: Taking on Issues that Matter." Happily married for 12 years and the mother of 2, Danielle has dedicated her life to helping wives reconnect with their husbands and heal together. But most of all, her passion lies in assisting wives to prioritize their wellness and finding community as they work toward a healthier marriage.