Why are so many men feeling lost when it comes to sex & dating? From porn, performance pressure, social isolation, fear of rejection, lack of good role models, a hyper-sexualized society and the lingering impacts of MeToo - modern men are facing a perfect storm of challenges that are very difficult to navigate - and are rarely talked about...
🔴 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
Today I'm joined by Caitlin V (a renowned sexologist and men’s coach) for a deeper look at what’s actually going on beneath the surface.
IN THIS EPISODE:
0:00 Welcome & Intro
6:26 The State of Modern Men (in Sex & Dating)
8:33 Impact of MeToo and Porn on Men’s Intimacy
11:35 Pornhub Searches Reveal a Deeper Longing for Connection
15:19 The Hard Truth About Dating
18:03 What Happens When Women Start Initiating?
20:30 The Fantasy of Dominance: Why Simple Gender Roles Seduce Us
22:54 The Male Confidence Crisis
24:27 Dating as a Life-Transforming Journey
28:13 Better Sex Is a Skill: (Why You SHOULD Practice)
29:04 Where Most Men Get Stuck
32:03 The Truth About Erections & Emotions
34:01 The Antidote to Anxiety in Bed
39:16 Semen Retention & Sexual Discipline
42:03 Can Semen Retention Hurt You? (Research Discussion)
47:04 The Power & Importance of Ejaculation
55:02 Squirting: What's the Deal With This?
01:01:11 Squirting, Shame, and the Trap of Goal-Oriented Sex
01:07:15 Caitlin’s New Music-Responsive Sex Toy: Pleasure Beyond Vibration
CONNECT WITH CAITLIN :
🔸 Caitlin's Youtube Channel
🔸 Caitlin's New Music-Responsive Sex Toy
🔸 Caitlin's Website
WORK WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025)
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September, 2025)
🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025):
🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
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