So earlier this week I talked about what it feels like when you don’t have anybody to reach for. But what about when folks are around — and you still feel alone? That’s a whole different kind of grief.
This episode is about that space. The space where people love you, but they don’t really see you. Where the help is supposed to be there… but somehow, you’re still carrying it all.
If you’ve ever looked around and thought, “Why does no one notice how much I’m holding?” — this one’s for you.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
- What Being Seen feels like when it’s missing
- How to stop swallowing that quiet grief
- Real talk about what support really requires
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- Take the Support Language™ Quiz. and learn how you actually receive support best.
- Get Support Right in Your Inbox: Gentle words, real-life reflection, and soft reminders every week
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