Suburban Sex with Remy and Addy

Suburban Sex with Remy and Addy

Suburban Sex is a show for all of the sexy mamas, horny husbands and - let’s face it - exhausted parents that want to make married sex the best sex they’ve ever had (but who the hell has the time?). We’re Remy (devoted husband) and Addy (typical tired mom) - over 40 and married - but NOT to each other. We’re just your average friends next door, living in the burbs and trying to balance all-the-things while keeping our marriages alive. It’s science: hearing about sex encourages you to talk about sex which makes you think about sex and leads you to HAVE more sex. Join our sex talk!

Episodes

May 16, 2025 62 mins

On tonight’s episode of Suburban Sex, we face off around the topic of how flirtation looks in a modern relationship, the varying needs of men and women, and finally which sex has it easier in the bedroom?

Did the guys take this one or did Addy take them down?

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We’re back! It’s our first episode of Season 2 and we’re catching you up on all our life changes that kept us away. Cross country moves, job changes, and major surgery got in the way - not to mention our already busy lives with kids. Life be life’n. But, we’re settling in, dusting off those overpriced mics and bringing you back into our saucy bedroom talk. Remy’s wife, Reagan, joins us to kick off this new season where we talk: sex...

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Part 2 with Rene encourages us to think about the quality of our orgasms. Addy was on the edge of her seat for this one, as so often moms feel like they have to carve out time and mental energy for sex but don’t take the time to fully enjoy what a gourmet orgasm could offer. That’s right, ladies - we want gourmet all the way! 


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November 1, 2024 43 mins

Settle in for a two-part series with a local sex coach: Rene. Check out her websites below. She’s a 20 year established sex coach who has worked with over a thousand couples, writer of hundreds of articles/blogs, and author of an upcoming book “Empowered, But Empty.”

In this first part with Rene, we hear what vanilla couples can learn from polyamory couples in the way of open communication and trust. But there’s a dark side to ever...

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October 11, 2024 44 mins

Brad and Addy talk about their adventures in California wine country for their 10th wedding anniversary, including a smoking hot Corvette and a yoga yurt. Anything goes when you’re on a vacation without kids!

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October 4, 2024 50 mins

We’re back….  

And we have a random assortment of topics, pulling from listener letters and Facebook mom group #drama. Who else wants to know all about our underwear choices? Listen in to hear who loves to see that thong-thong-thong-thong-thong! 

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September 6, 2024 51 mins

We start with *just the tip*, then go into a “When Harry Met Sally” segment on whether men and women can really be friends. Remy’s wife Reagan joins the conversation to round out our perspectives and share their conversation starters to set healthy boundaries with friends of the opposite sex. Listen in for how many times Reagan sings a little diddy for us; bonus points for our listeners who send us an email with the total number of...

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August 30, 2024 47 mins

What exactly makes someone fun in bed? You know it when it’s good and you sure as hell know when it’s bad. But what’s the secret sauce?

Join us in a thought provoking conversation about the skills that make sex most impressive. That is, if Hot Tub Brad will let us finish it…he’s in a hurry because he knows he’s getting laid after the show ;)

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How well do you know your partner?

How well do you even know yourself?

Get naked and take some sexy quizzes with us (ok, you don’t have to get naked for this)! We’re sharing our answers and learning more about what makes us tick - both in and out of the bedroom. #themoreyouknow 

Quiz Links:

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https://bdsmtest.org

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August 16, 2024 46 mins

This week we discuss how we deal with conflict in our relationships and how it affects our sex life. The guys ask Addy for tips on how husbands can get more action, then they weigh in on their favorite grooming habits (yes, these men are actually going to talk about smooth balls)! We get Brad to open up more than we ever expected, so tune in for all the dirty secrets!

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August 9, 2024 57 mins

Winter’s back, as our “Lifestyle Doula”, gently walking us through the process of what it's like in the (swingers) lifestyle. NOT because we’re recommending it, but simply to open up the conversation (before you open up your marriage).

We talk about her experience as a unicorn (single woman joining a couple), attending global swinger clubs (that’s right, I said “global”) and more! She brings her confidence and big D energy to ...

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August 2, 2024 61 mins

We get a little lesson in kink from a divorced suburban mom. It’s not what you think, this underworld of kink… they walk among us! Our girl Winter stresses the importance of communication and trust to make it work, and ironically she’s found that her kink partners have better communication than her marriage ever did!

She’s myth-busting BDSM and makes it all seem less scary - no, really! It may not be for everyone but aren’t you ev...

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July 19, 2024 60 mins

This week we talk all about solo play. We all do it, especially when our partners aren’t around or in the mood. But instead of keeping it to ourselves, we get real about how we like it, when we do it and how often it happens. We also discuss how men and women think differently about self pleasure. Lastly, we confess whether or not we openly discuss self pleasure with our partners.

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July 12, 2024 51 mins

History buffs: unite! Who’s interested in hearing the history of the vibrator? Addy ran “extensive research” (aka watched movies) to drop some knowledge on the interesting beginnings of what has become so mainstream in the bedroom (ok - HER bedroom).

Then hear how Brad and Addy attempt a role play, acting as strangers, during their stay-cation. Did Brad have enough game to eventually get Addy home with him? Listen in to find out!

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We’re riding the coattails of the Hawk Tuah Girl: reminiscing about our drunken 20’s to get in the mindset of this new phenomenon. The 40 year olds in us think it’s the modern pornification of America, but you tell us where it came from. Any spitters out there? Then we join in on the fun with more “would you rather” questions - the sexy suburban version. 

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June 21, 2024 57 mins

Our friend Josh gives it to us straight about not being straight - married to a woman for 25 years before he came out of the closet. Now he’s living his best life and has great wisdom (and crazy stories) to share that you won’t want to miss!

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June 7, 2024 52 mins

Mistress Monroe joins us to discuss her new obsession: smutty, dirty books. She reads her daily dose of smut and romance which has turned her last year into the best sex of their 13 year marriage! Read that again. 

Her genres build up in dirtiness that empower her to talk more about sex and ask for what she wants. Her list of lustrous books are below to help you get revved up. Keep reading, my friends!


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Remy’s fabulous wife, Reagan, joins the show as we discuss the husbands’ least favorite topic: sexual ruts and dry spells. Booooooo! But, hey - that’s reality. We dig into the theory that men want sex to feel like everything is okay and women don’t want sex until everything is okay. Sound familiar? Listen in to hear how we see a light at the end of every dry spell tunnel. 

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May 17, 2024 43 mins

When married, you either have a core set of sex positions that you default to or “you get what you get and you don’t throw a fit!” This week we take a page out of comedian Jim Jefferies’ standup and list out our “core four” (or in some cases core two or three) and compare against our friends. Is married sex that predictable? Spoiler alert: it is. But, that’s exactly why we sprinkle in more to keep things spicy!


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May 10, 2024 49 mins

In this week’s episode, we answer the age-old question: is porn considered cheating? Note: we accepted zero bribes for this episode ;)

Porn is so easily accessible and yet seen as such a faux pas in the suburbs. Most long-term, everyday couples aren’t talking about it - and definitely most friends aren’t talking about it - but we know it exists. Does porn have a place in your marriage? Tune in as we get into the male and female per...

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