Swapping Secrets

Swapping Secrets

Swapping Secrets invites you behind closed doors—into a world of open-minded love, queer glances, and unapologetic connection. Hosted by Jess and Lawrence, this podcast unveils juicy real-life stories, fierce-first tips, and playful provocations from inside the Our Secret Spot community. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or full-time kinky, expect sharp insights, consent-driven conversations, and the kind of laughter that lasts long after the microphone turns off. Released biweekly. Tune in, subscribe, and never miss a secret.

Episodes

March 12, 2026 43 mins

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club — the world’s largest women-only community for bisexual and bi-curious women.

With over 27,000 members worldwide, Skirt Club has created a safe, empowering environment where women can explore sexuality, identity, and desire without pressure or judgement.

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In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play.

We unpack:

• What to do when another couple chang...

February 10, 2026 64 mins

What happens when curiosity turns into lived experience — and desire reshapes your identity, relationships, and sense of self?

In Part 1 of this raw and reflective episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack how sexual desire can both liberate and destabilise. From early curiosity and boundary-blurring moments to the em...

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Midlife used to be framed as the beginning of the sexual slow-down. Less desire. Less energy. Less spark.

But what if that story is completely wrong?

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by globally renowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton to unpack what she calls The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance — a powerful ph...

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In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Bradford and Angela from the By The By Podcast to unpack the emotional mechanics of jealousy, envy, fear of missing out, and the boundaries that keep open relationships healthy, sexy, and sustainable.

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Naughty Christmas swinger stories are the unofficial love language of the holidays — and OSS has plenty to unwrap.

In this extra-spicy Christmas special, Jess and Lawrence dive headfirst into naughty Christmas swinger stories sen...

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Self-pleasure has quietly shifted from a whispered taboo to a full-blown cultural reclamation — and few people have championed that transformation more powerfully than Rosie Rees.

In this episode, Jess and Lawrence dive deep into the world of empowered intimacy, slow ...

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Consent is easy when it’s a bright, enthusiastic “yes.” But what about the murky moments — the mixed signals, the non-verbal cues, the awkward pauses, or the moments you only realise after the fact that something felt… off?

In this episode, Lawrence, and our guest Prue, dive into the real-world grey areas of consent — the ones that don’t sho...

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Jess and Lawrence pull back the curtain on one of the most real, raw challenges in the lifestyle: how to balance parenting with swinging, non-monogamy, and staying sexy.

From babysitters to bedtime, stigma to scheduling — this episode is a candid look at the juggling act of raising toddlers while still embra...

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Jess and Lawrence are diving into the practical side of love, lust, and lifestyle — how to stay safe, healthy, and confident in open and non-mon...

No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2)

Jess and Lawrence are back with Part 2 of the New Relationship Revolution, joined by special guest Lucy Banks — PR powerhouse, CEO of the Australian A...

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Jess and Lawrence return with Part 1 of a two-part special exploring the new relationship revolution. In this episode, they dive into how younger generations are rethinking love, intimacy, and commitment — moving beyond traditional models and embracing non-traditional paths like swinging, polyamory, and relationship anarchy.

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Welcome to the brand-new Swapping Secrets podcast — the revamped show from inside Our Secret Spot. Jess and Lawrence are back with cameras, lights, and plenty of cheeky stories to kick off the new era. 

In this episode, we dive into first time swingers club stories — the funny, the awkward, and the oh-so-sexy moments of starting out in the life...

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It’s not Episode 101 just yet, but we couldn’t resist bringing you a mid-season treat — the juiciest, funniest, and most outrageous moments from the pod so far. 🔥

In this spec...

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It’s not Episode 101 (yet), but we’re keeping your earbuds warm with a juicy mid-season treat. 💦

In this special in-between-isode, Jess...

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July 23, 2025 37 mins

We’ve officially hit the big 1-0-0! The OSS 100th episode is a celebration of you – our amazing community of listeners, guests, and sexy supporters.

To mark the occasion, we asked you to send in your most memorable podcast moments, ...

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July 16, 2025 2 mins

We’re coming up on 100 episodes—and we want you to be part of the celebration! In this episode, Jess and Lawrence share some exciting news about what’s next for the podcast. We’re calling on our listeners to send in their favourite podcast moments—whether it’s a wild story, a laugh-out-loud moment, or something that made you feel seen. Email, message, or send a voice note!

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Juiciest June swingers club stories don’t get much wilder than this. In this episode, Jess and Lawrence share everything that went down at Our Secret Spot in June—starting with a woman being fingered at the bar, right in front of everyone, before dragging her lucky companion upstairs to finish what they started.

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In episode 98: Threesomes, Orgies & First-Timer Feels (feat. Ben & Paige), Jess and Lawrence chat with OSS newbies Ben and Paige, a couple who’ve jumped headfirst into the swinging lifestyle. With just two visits to the club under their belts, they’ve already experienced a lot – from spontaneous threesomes to full-blown orgies and...

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In Episode 97: Open Legs, Open Invitation: A Newbie Night Tale (Moaning May 2025), Jess and Lawrence return to share one of the most jaw-dropping OSS stories yet—a newbie night sex story about a cock-hungry guest who arrived with one goal: to say yes to ev...

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