Talk Sex with Annette
Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
Episodes
Want to take your oral intimacy skills from “pretty good” to absolutely unforgettable? In this episode, I’m breaking down the advanced rhythm, pacing, and attunement techniques that cause full-body reactions, deeper connection, and those moments where she completely loses control.
This isn’t about flashy moves or performance pressure.
This is about understanding the science of her arousal, her nervous system, her ...
Talking about kink doesn’t have to be awkward — in fact, when you do it right, the conversation itself becomes part of the turn-on.
In today’s episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re breaking down how to explore kink with a partner in a way that feels safe, connected, and genuinely exciting… long before anything physical happens.
I’m joined by Lisa Opel, pleasure coach at Joy Club, author, educator, and speaker who teac...
Most people think climax is one quick moment — but her body is capable of so much more. Rolling orgasms are deeper, longer waves of pleasure, and once she learns this rhythm, intimacy changes for both of you.
In this episode, I break down how to help her stay in sensation longer, understand her arousal curve, and use the Kiiroo Pearl 3 to build the rhythm that allows rolling orgasms to unfold naturally. This is a skill...
In this episode, we’re breaking down exhibitionism — why being watched can feel exciting, how to tell if it’s your kink, and simple ways to explore it without making things awkward.
I’m joined by Laura Desiree, creative director of Sanctum and a powerful voice in performance and desire. We cover:
✨ What exhibitionism really is
✨ Why being seen can amplify pleasure
✨ Signs it might be your kink
✨ How to tr...
Want to be the best she’s ever had… without needing a big anything?
You’re not alone. Most men secretly worry about size, performance, or whether they measure up to her past partners. But here’s the truth:
What makes sex unforgettable has nothing to do with what you were born with — and everything to do with what you do with it.
In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the real skills that make you her top-tier experi...
Why are boyfriends suddenly embarrassing? A recent piece by Vogue titled “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” sparked a global reaction, pointing out that some women are now hesitant to post their partners, claim relationships publicly, or even say “boyfriend” without flinching.
In this episode, I chat with sex + relationship coach Sienna Sinclair about what’s really behind this trend.
We explore:
- Why boyfrien...
On today’s episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m answering one of the most common questions I get from men:
“How do I get my partner to want intimacy again — not out of obligation, but because she actually desires me?”
The truth is this:
Most women don’t open from direct sexual touch.
They open from nervous system activation, emotional attunement, and how your hands move across their body before anything intim...
Grindr isn’t just a hookup app—it’s where identity, secrecy, and desire collide. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Zach Zane, author of Boyslut and the official Sex & Relationship Expert for Grindr, to talk about what’s really happening on the world’s most infamous app.
We’re diving into the truth about discreet profiles, married and “straight” men exploring in secret, and how Grindr has evo...
You know that moment when you think she’s into you… but you’re not sure?
Or maybe you’ve been with your partner for years and you’re wondering—does she still want me like that?
In this episode, I’m breaking down the three subtle, science-backed signs that show when attraction is real—and exactly how to respond when you see them.
This isn’t pick-up artist nonsense. It’s real neuroscience, psychology, and connection....
You want to bring toys into the bedroom… but every time you try, it feels awkward, forced, or like it kills the vibe. So the toys go back in the drawer and you go back to “just us” — even if “just us” has started to feel a little routine.
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate) — sex educator, product developer, and one of the most trusted voices in the pleasure product worl...
If you’ve ever “faked it” just to wrap things up faster — you’re not alone.
But what if your body could learn to create the kind of deep, full-body pleasure you’ve been pretending to have?
In this episode, I’ll show you how to train your pleasure rhythm — the real key to unlocking authentic, lasting orgasms. You’ll learn how rhythm shapes connection, syncs partners physically and emotionally, and helps your body r...
In this episode we’re diving into Group Sex 101: The Real Rules That Keep It Hot (and Safe).
So you finally got the invite: the group chat is buzzing, the lube is packed, and you’re ready for your first play party, threesome, or poly adventure. But before you dive in, do you actually know how to keep it sexy and safe?
In this episode, I’m joined by Milla Impola, condom and lube expert from ONE® Condoms, to talk about wh...
Not all orgasms are created equally.
There’s a world of difference between a quick release… and the kind of deep, full-body orgasm that makes her melt into you. And here’s the kicker: it’s not about going harder or faster.
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down how to create deeper, more connected pleasure through rhythm, pressure, and body awareness. We’ll cover what most people get wrong whe...
Most people talk about threesomes like they’re either a wild fantasy or a relationship wrecking ball. But here’s the truth—when done right, a threesome can deepen intimacy, build trust, and light your desire on fire.
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Ally Iseman—ICF-certified relationship coach, kink-aware educator, and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure. Ally’s work has been featured in The New York ...
If she’s not coming and your first thought is “she’s just hard to please” — it’s time to rewrite the script.
Arousal isn’t guesswork. It’s science you can feel with your hands.
In this video, I’m breaking down the real physiological signs of arousal — including vaginal tenting, pelvic floor engagement, and breath/body shifts — so you can learn to read her body like a map and build the kind of orgasm she doesn’t forget.
Y...
Curious about the hotwife lifestyle? 🔥
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Hot Wife and Wifey Ambassador Serenity Cox to break down one of the most talked-about relationship trends right now. We cover what it really is, how couples build trust and set boundaries, and what to know if you’ve ever been curious about exploring it.
This conversation is all about consent, connection, and real-world rela...
Submission isn’t weakness. It’s power offered—not power lost.
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood dynamics in kink: how to top as a submissive.
This isn’t about topping from the bottom. It’s about guiding the scene with your breath, movement, and energy — without ever taking control away from your Dominant.
We’ll explore:
🖤 How powerful submissiv...
What if the key to fixing your sex life wasn’t more talking… but smarter tech?
Whether you’re dealing with a dead bedroom, long-distance disconnect, or just feeling stuck in a sexual rut, today’s episode is all about the new generation of smart sex toys designed to help couples reconnect in ways that actually work.
I’m joined by Toon Timmermans, CEO and founder of Kiiroo, the company behind the groundbreaking Luxus — an...
What if locking it up could actually unlock better sex?
Welcome to Locktober 2025, the orgasm control challenge that’s helping men become more attentive, connected, and seriously better lovers. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Lilith Fox — a queer, BIPOC, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous Board-Certified Sexologist and Certified Sexuality Educator who actually practices chastity play with he...
What if the hottest thing you could do for your partner… was not come?
Welcome to Talk Sex with Annette, where we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood—and surprisingly intimate—kinks out there: male chastity. Whether you’ve seen the cages popping up all over your feed this “Locktober,” or you’re just curious what all the denial hype is about, this episode breaks down how to try chastity play without freaking ou...
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