Judgement, Part 2

In the second part of Daniel and Leggy’s discussion on judgement, the 2 LADS conclude that judgement can be a dead end in any relationship, then they talk through ways to recognize when and why we are judging a situation in order to find a healthier and more productive pathway forward. They also explain why they believe it’s important to investigate where our own judgment comes from and recognize that we all have the capacity to do the things we’re judging. Daniel sums up his thoughts saying, “You’re always a foot away from the ditch.” And Leggy offers some closing advice: “Keep checking yourself before you’re wrecking yourself, brothers and sisters.”

The 2 LADS podcast tackles big topics with brutal honesty and vulnerability; replacing shame and guilt with truth and love in the quest for emotional and spiritual growth. These conversations are unflinching, uncomfortable, funny... and ongoing. 

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(02:50) - The danger with judgement - “All I can distill it down to is trying to be more discerning with what judgment is all about.”

(08:51) - Judgement vs. Accountability - “I think judgment just stops. Once it has come down, that's where it ends. Whereas accountability is more ongoing.”

(09:42) - The Big Ugly and projecting - “It's pretty rare where you can just find a human that hasn't got any Skeletons in the closet.”

(14:10) - The real power of non-judgement - “I want to be a person that you can come to with anything.”  

(18:00) - Baggage and wounds - “We've all got this problem, which is life is fucking painful and really ruinous. And we all are trying to figure out the best strategies and some people's strategies are more socially acceptable.”

(22:22) - The relationship between judgement and control - “We put all these things up that make us think we're in control of the universe. Then a fucking hurricane comes and your whole house blows up.”

(24:31) - Insecurity begets judgement - “Really secure people, they're really interesting in how they deal with the world. I've always admired that they don't have that judgment.”

(30:20) - Self judgment and the judgment paradox - “There is an element of like your judgment doesn't matter, but then it also does to keep you in society a little bit.”

(34:36) - Judgment needs to be looked at more closely - “You’ve just got to keep investigating it and keep accessing your humanity in order to understand that you are the same as everybody else and you also have the capacity to do those things.”

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The 2 LADS podcast was created and produced by actor Daniel Sharman and music producer Christian 'Leggy' Langdon. With additional editing and production by Katie Sunku Wood and StudioPod Media. Sarah Jade Wilson is the Brand Director. With photography by Diana Mantis. Graphic design/video editing by Aldona Kowal. Music Composed, Mixed and Mastered by Christian ‘Leggy’ Langdon.