Do you ever find yourself asking, “Who am I, really?”
In this inspiring conversation, Rachel joins Bridget Aguirre to share her personal journey of discovering true confidence—not through striving, achieving, or doing it all—but through knowing who and whose you are.
Together, they unpack what it means to find peace in identity, freedom in surrender, and purpose in faith. Rachel opens up about the turning point that shifted her from burnout and pressure to rest and confidence rooted in Christ.
If you’ve ever tied your worth to what you produce, how you perform, or what others think, this episode is your reminder that your value isn’t defined by titles, numbers, or perfection. It’s found in your Creator.
Timestamps
[00:00] Welcome + Rachel’s personal journey of striving and burnout
[03:00] The question that changed everything: “Who are you?”
[06:00] Identity, faith, and confidence—how they work together
[09:00] The danger of perfectionism and performing for worth
[11:00] The power of rest and learning to slow down
[13:00] Letting go of comparison and trusting God’s timing
[16:00] Tools for rebuilding your identity and confidence
[18:00] The three pillars: Identity, Faith, and Confidence
[20:00] Final encouragement: You already are enough
Key Takeaways
Favorite Quotes
“Confidence isn’t about having it all together—it’s about trusting the One who holds it all together.”
You’re not what you do. You’re not your past. Your worth is unshakable when your identity is anchored in Christ.”
“We are human beings, not human doers. Rest is not weakness—it’s where strength begins.”
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