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November 19, 2025 22 mins

If you’ve been feeling “off” lately — not broken, not failing, just quietly disconnected from your own life — this episode is going to speak to you. Today, Rachel Brooks opens up about a season so many women silently walk through: the feeling of being stuck, even when everything looks fine on the outside.

This isn’t about laziness or lack of motivation. It’s about the internal shift that happens when who you’ve been no longer fits who you’re becoming. In this honest, reflective conversation, Rachel unpacks why this happens, what it means, and how to listen to the deeper guidance pulling you forward.

If you’re tired in a way sleep can’t fix… if you’ve outgrown a version of yourself… if you’re craving clarity, direction, or permission to slow down — you’re not alone. You’re not behind. You’re not failing. You’re becoming.

What You’ll Hear

  • Why “feeling stuck” is often a sign of inner growth
  • The hidden emotional load women carry that leads to burnout
  • The tension between who you were and who you’re becoming
  • Why clarity doesn’t come from forcing — it comes from honesty
  • How to navigate the “messy middle” without blowing up your life
  • The truth about limits, identity, and becoming who God created you to be

Timestamps

00:00–04:00 — The quiet heaviness of feeling stuck

04:00–10:00 — When life looks fine but feels misaligned

10:00–15:00 — Two truths: limited + limitless

15:00–20:00 — The pressure women carry and the identity we lose

20:00–27:00 — Why becoming feels messy, raw, and disorienting

27:00–End — The invitation to reset + the next right step

Key Insights

  • Feeling stuck is not failure — it’s an internal shift
  • You can be limited and limitless at the same time
  • Becoming requires honesty, not pressure
  • Identity isn’t lost — it’s uncovered
  • You are not behind; you are evolving

Quote

“Clarity doesn’t come from forcing. It comes from honesty — and honesty comes when we stop performing our lives and start listening to them.”

Your Next Step in Becoming

I Am Enough Reset (Free) A simple 10-minute reset to quiet the noise and reconnect to yourself when life feels too loud. → https://iamrachelbrooks.com/reset

I Am Becoming (6-Week Devotional + Journal) Rediscover who you are, realign with who God created you to be, and rebuild from within. → https://iamrachelbrooks.com/iam-becoming

Connect with Rachel

Instagram: @iamrachelbrooks

Website: https://iamrachelbrooks.com

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