Sex. Queen Energy.

Queen energy is all about how to position your sexual self with value. It is about protecting your energy by making it less accessible and more desirable. In this episode, we discuss issues revolving around choices when it comes to love and having sex.

How can you like me if you don't know what kind of female I am? And I think that people just pretend, like this is super superficial. 

That's why you have a bunch of brokenness, and a bunch of women and a bunch of men that are having sex with people, and they still have so much brokenness inside of them. In this episode, we discuss issues revolving around choices when it comes to love and having sex.

Why would I give myself to somebody that does not care about me? To please them?

You need to put yourself in a position of value. And the way that you do that is by becoming something that is to be desired and valued.

And what are things that are desired and valued things that everybody can have? You cannot be very accessible in a sense.

Women, nowadays, are very empowered. But at the end of the day, you have to know that the fabric of who you are is not a man, and that you do operate a little bit differently, and that your goals and some of your desires might not be the same as every other guy. So you want to line up your goals and desires with somebody that values a woman in the way that you would want to be valued. 

How can you be sleeping with somebody you don't even know? And then you expect him to value you the way that you want to be valued. When you don't even know who this person is. You don't even know what his morals values are, his moral compass, the way he thinks of women, where his family is like, what is the way his father treats his mother, or the way that he's seen women being treated. How does he treat women? How would you know these things without knowing someone right?

Stay tuned as I come up with food for thought that’s relevant to both guys and gals.

Key Takeaways:

I reserve myself for myself. Not even for you but for myself (4:08)

You need to put yourself in a position of value (5:00)

Lining up your goals and desires with one who values a woman… (6:27)

Your body is your business. You just can't let anybody in there (8:14)

How can you like me if you don't know what I think? (9:03)

You’ve got to have a clear definition of what you want in your life (11:53)

These men out here are putting pressure on girls to have sex too soon (13:52)

If you cared for her, you’d allow her to have value for yourself. You’d wait (14:00)

Why do you want to have sex with somebody you're not proud of? (14:54)

If you're not loving yourself, how’s that person supposed to love you? (15:57)

You are what you settle for (18:54)

Love is the key; love is power; love is the healer (20:35)

Respect yourself, love yourself (21:26)

Be the kind of person that you're even looking for (23:35)

Guys, if you had a daughter, sister or any woman that you love… (30:41)

When you start loving yourself in a high way, people treat you differently (31:40)

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