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September 10, 2026 • 47 mins
What if poor leadership is costing your company far more than low morale?

In this episode of Executive Connect, Melissa Aarskaug sits down with Shaheena Janjuha-Jivraj, an experienced leadership advisor who has worked with government leaders, Fortune 500 executives, family businesses, and global organizations, to examine why leadership should be intentionally designed rather than simply inherited.

Shaheena explains how mediocre leadership can quietly show up through turnover, disengagement, stalled decisions, burnout, and lost opportunities. She shares why psychological safety and trust cannot be declared into existence, why successful leaders can become trapped by the very behaviors that once made them successful, and how a lack of tolerance for failure creates dangerous blind spots.

The conversation also covers leadership agility, emotional intelligence, self-reflection, empathy, accountability, and why training programs rarely create lasting change when senior leaders refuse to change themselves.

For organizations that want stronger cultures and better performance, Shaheena’s message is clear. Leadership is not a status or title. It is a practice built through behavior, reflection, trust, and the willingness to adapt.


What You Will Learn
  • Why bad leadership eventually appears on the balance sheet
  • How leadership turnover creates significant organizational costs
  • Why companies tolerate mediocre leadership for too long
  • What Shaheena means by intentionally designing leadership
  • Why leadership should be treated as an ongoing practice
  • How psychological safety is created through consistent behavior
  • What teams reveal when their leader leaves the room
  • Why blame and defensiveness signal deeper leadership problems
  • How successful leaders can become trapped by past success
  • Why leaders need to build a tolerance for failure
  • How humility helps leaders learn when old methods stop working
  • Why agility has become critical in uncertain environments
  • How leaders can understand how their teams respond to uncertainty
  • Why equality and equity are not always the same in leadership
  • How deep self-reflection helps leaders change outdated behaviors
  • Why leaders should study both their failures and their successes
  • How emotional intelligence supports creativity and innovation
  • Why connection matters when leaders want the best from their teams
  • How command-and-control leadership can produce results while creating burnout
  • Why leadership development must begin at the top
  • How accountability creates sustainable behavioral change
  • Why coaching can create a safe space to practice difficult conversations
  • How empathy can improve collaboration across teams
  • Why leaders should slow down before immediately solving problems
  • How observing without judgment can strengthen trust
  • Why curiosity can be more powerful than having all the answers


Chapters

(0:41) The real business cost of bad leadership
(1:50) What leadership design actually means
(2:11) Why organizations tolerate mediocre leadership
(3:55) Leadership as behavior, not status
(5:04) Warning signs of poor leadership
(5:53) Psychological safety and trust in action
(7:14) When leaders blame instead of adapt
(9:46) How success creates leadership blind spots
(10:24) Why high performers struggle with failure
(11:32) When old leadership models stop working
(12:18) Building tolerance for failure
(15:45) Leading through constant uncertainty
(15:52) Why agility is now a leadership superpower
(16:34) Understanding how teams handle uncertainty
(18:41) Knowing when your leadership style has expired
(18:54) Self-awareness and leadership evolution
(19:17) Equality versus equity in leadership
(20:01) Why deep reflection changes leaders
(20:36) Learning from what goes right
(23:09) Why emotional intelligence still matters
(23:53) Bringing humanity back into leadership
(25:23) Why connection drives better performance
(27:26) Why leadership training often fails
(28:25) The hidden cost of command-and-control leadership
(29:44) Why change must begin at the top
(30:16) Accountability as a leadership requirement
(30:59) Measuring whether behavioral change actually lasts
(34:08) Building a collaborative company culture
(34:42) Empathy, alignment, and shared goals
(35:23) Challenging assumptions across teams
(36:37) How behavioral change creates better solutions
(40:33) Why trust changes team performance
(41:01) Slowing down to become a stronger leader
(41:40) Observing without judgment
(43:03) Calling out a leader’





























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