Wolf Pu$$y and Shallow Tales

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Why do we judge people by their sneakers instead of their spirit? Why do we stay in relationships that look good but feel wrong? This week on The Heavyweight Podcast, we’re pulling back the curtain on shallow behaviors, materialism, and the illusions we cling to in the name of status.

👟 $20 Shoes, $200 Assumptions:
We kick things off by exposing the ridiculous—but very real—ways people change how they treat you based on the price tag of your outfit. It’s not just about fashion—it’s about how deeply rooted status and image are in how we assign value to others (and ourselves).

💔 When "Looking Good" Means Losing Yourself:
We get vulnerable about times we've stayed in relationships that weren’t good for us—just because the couple "looked right" to the outside world. Spoiler: the inside was a mess. From red flags we ignored to the ways attraction masked toxicity, this segment gets real.

📱 Social Media = Smoke & Mirrors:
"Social media disrupts reality and paints a facade." Say it louder. We go in on how platforms push us toward comparison, image curation, and fake intimacy. Some of us even share stories of relationships that were more Instagram than intimacy—and how it all came crashing down.

📞 Who You Call at 1AM:
Here’s the challenge: open your phone. Who would you call at 1AM with a flat tire? That list—the real ones—is what counts. We break down how to identify authentic connections that go beyond looks, likes, and luxury.

This episode is a truth serum for your social life. It’s funny, it’s raw, and it might just make you rethink who and what you’ve been prioritizing.

🎧 Tap in now and ask yourself:
 ➡️ Are you living real—or just living filtered?
 ➡️ Who actually sees you beyond the surface?

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the Heavyweight.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
Podcast.

Speaker 3 (00:04):
The message behind saying the title of the
Heavyweight Podcast is to beable to say that we can weigh in
on some heavy shit.
What we're talking about isimportant from every aspect of
it.
It's a heavy weight.
It's not just about physicalweight, but the weight of things
that can weigh our minds.
So I think it's dope that wecan have this conversation.
So I think it's dope that wecan have this conversation.

Speaker 2 (00:29):
What's up, everybody?
We're back here again withanother episode of the
Heavyweight Podcast.
This will be episode 196, andI'm your girl, des, the Diva,
everybody introduce yourself tothese people, please.

Speaker 4 (00:44):
I'm Miles.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
Miles Miles, I'm Miles Miles.
Oh shit, I can't say that.

Speaker 4 (00:51):
I can't say that, say it.
Oh broke dick Ellis.
Oh shit.
Now we gotta clarify are youbroke like money broke, or is
the member broke.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
It's just like in the cell.
That's old broke dick.

Speaker 4 (01:10):
Just leave him alone, dog and I said I was Miles
because I'm sitting next toMoesha.

Speaker 1 (01:22):
Spider-Man.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
For some reason with an awkward sigh.
I'm McFly.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
I'm Patrick Ewing oh good, I hope not baby.
Cause baby the way you look,that man look like how are y'all
weeks?

Speaker 3 (01:42):
cause Patrick baby he knows what our week was like he
, he, that's, he smelled it.
Kevin, I didn't know you werepreparing those ribs on friday,
excuse me right, okay, oh god,three days later, how's?

Speaker 4 (02:02):
was your week, kevin.
Good, good, that's what's up.
That's what's up.
Yeah, my week was good too.

Speaker 2 (02:08):
Thank you, Broke Dick no complaints Damn, that's what
they be, saying Pause, pause,make a point.

Speaker 3 (02:26):
Yeah, my week.
Yeah, yeah, I'm good.
I was thinking about ribs onFriday did you have ribs on
Friday?
No, I was thinking.

Speaker 5 (02:30):
Patrick Ewing would really know that shit, he
smelled it he put some slap yourmama on there, didn't he?

Speaker 4 (02:36):
that's funny because you know the show Big Mouth
Patrick.
He has a restaurant on the show.
It's a rib.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
Not doing this we Not doing this, we're not doing
this.
We're never going to get pastthis point.
Miss Lady, how was your week?
Baby, it was great.
Mo, how was your week?

Speaker 4 (02:56):
It was cool man.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
Cool, man, yeah, man yeah man, how was your week?

Speaker 4 (02:59):
Yeah man, how was your week?
It was cool, cool, chilling,chilling.
How was your week?
Yeah man, how was your week?

Speaker 2 (03:03):
It was good Cool, chillin', chillin' that's up,
that's up, chillin' Chillin'.

Speaker 4 (03:07):
How did Northworth do it?

Speaker 2 (03:08):
It was pretty good.
You know what I'm saying.
Daddy still trippin'.
Daddy got me a new Saturn.
Cool we cool.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
A Saturn.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
Like a car Make Saturdays.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
no more, can't make some jokes, still ain't fucking
with Miles, really showing ourage.
What was her boyfriend's name?

Speaker 5 (03:30):
The nigga from Gangstar oh Fred Shredrow.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
What was his name in the show?
Q Still wanna fuck Q.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
Yeah, that's my man.
He still looks great for hisage, like a light-skinned Tupac.
Nobody look like Tupac.

Speaker 3 (03:42):
I'm just saying, that's why you.

Speaker 2 (03:43):
Well, I can kind of see, because he kind of do that
that way, nigga.

Speaker 4 (03:45):
I saw a picture of Tupac last week.
The nigga was in Jamaica.

Speaker 2 (03:48):
They say he's still alive.
I would love for that to be thetruth.
If Tupac is still alive, baby,if you're still alive, call me.
Call me.

Speaker 5 (03:59):
But did they have a?

Speaker 1 (03:59):
funeral for him.

Speaker 5 (04:00):
Like where we saw his what they say tinfoil off top
yep tinfoil off top.

Speaker 1 (04:03):
I don't know what the nigga?

Speaker 2 (04:05):
let's get into this thing, so we can.
So we can get this.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
I'm noticing a trend though Des what's that DaBaby
Fredrick Star Tupac, you likeshort angry niggas?
Yeah, I like.
She like rough nicks yeah, Ilike rough.

Speaker 2 (04:18):
I like rough outside of my husband, because my
husband is not a rough nigga,he's chill.

Speaker 4 (04:24):
I like.
That's one spot you grab by theback of your neck, by the
fucking neck.
Turn her ass around.
Yes, that's what she want.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
That don't mean come do that shit when you see me,
but I'm just saying for theright nigga.
I do want to be snatched up.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
What did Pumps in the Bump video do for you?
How was it?

Speaker 2 (04:49):
They're do for you.
I was in there like put me inthe boat.
Okay, MC shit, All right.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
All kinds of fucked up.

Speaker 4 (04:52):
Okay, this nigga said it's camera time.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
Okay, shit, yeah, definitely, I definitely like a
rougher nigga.
I do.
I do Because they know how.

Speaker 4 (05:01):
You need to talk to your therapist about that trauma
.
It's not trauma it's not trauma.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
It's not trauma.
It's not trauma because Iusually go for a dude that's
rough and can be rough and knowswhen to be rough, but it's
still very kind and gentle how'sthat worked out for you?

Speaker 3 (05:15):
it's worked out fabulously so you don't like it
when all they want to do is zoomand a fucking boom boom nigga
just a check baby.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
Check baby one, two, three, four.
Okay, I don't give a damn I'mjust letting you know right now
y'all not gonna harass me todayand y'all not gonna harass me.
Let's get into this thing.
What are some common shallowbehaviors that people engage in
without even realizing that theydoing it?

Speaker 4 (05:42):
they kill muffins for shoes bam.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
Okay, shoot my bang bang, stick my whole foot in it,
thank you.
Thank you, and talk about mylittle furry shoes.
In case y'all are wondering whythey keep bringing up these
damn muffin shoes, they aretalking about my little, my
little furry shoes.
They gonna make anotherappearance.
I got the motherfuckers in morethan one color, so now y'all
talking shit and they gonna beat another.
I'm gonna try to slice them infor the summertime.
Here I got some sandals withfur on them.

(06:07):
I have a magnifying glass.

Speaker 1 (06:09):
It's too hot for them .

Speaker 2 (06:12):
It's a match, it's okay.
I have several pairs.

Speaker 3 (06:16):
Just letting you know it gets hot in the summertime.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
Are the bears yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
Because they're cute and they become like a purse.
We know Cute, all my shoes gota purse.

Speaker 4 (06:29):
The question the fire marshal said you can't handle.
What was the question?

Speaker 2 (06:33):
Tell me, tell me directly.
Yes, you want me to ask thequestion again.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Yeah, I got lost.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
I'm sorry.
The question is and I'm sorrythese questions were cultivated
by mo um what are some commonshallow behaviors that people
engage in without realizing thatthey're engaging in it?

Speaker 1 (06:56):
that would be one.
We know what we're doing now,but like a lot to do and that's
a younger generation peopleprobably still do that.
Yeah, they do at grown-up likepeople's clothing and shit like
that or just what they have.
You know, you got that shit.
It's like that don't meannothing nigga, like people care
about that stuff still somehowlike the branding and stuff like
that.

(07:16):
So I think that's a common one,especially between, I guess
even in like hip-hop and allthat, because we always do that
like Like shit on one another.

Speaker 3 (07:25):
For I've been complimented about some orange
shoes I bought from Amazon for20 bucks because they look like
$120 shoes and when they heardit was $20, they kind of like oh
, you lying.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
Did I not tell you I like these shoes, like two days
ago?

Speaker 3 (07:40):
I'm just saying it's crazy.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
The price makes people change yeah.

Speaker 3 (07:44):
Like they'd be like like oh word, Nah, You're like
yeah, it's $20.

Speaker 4 (07:47):
China's on told us the real yeah.
Now China's on told us Nick, wedone made all this
motherfuckers for $10.
Everything Damn.

Speaker 5 (07:56):
Materialistic stuff is shallow.

Speaker 2 (07:58):
No, because China over there making the Louis Vs
and everything they said it.

Speaker 5 (08:01):
Oh no, I know, but I'm just saying like
materialistic things areprobably the most shallow
behavior that people have onthis planet.
Because the stupid thing isI've seen a dude with a brand
new iPhone gold chain, sagginghis ass down his pants with a
nice Gucci shirt on, but don'thave a car.
Doesn't make any sense.
It's about priority and thething is is people think what

(08:23):
you have is basically adefinition of your character?
There's millionaires that havetons of money but shitty ass
attitudes and don't know how totreat people, but people are so
involved in shallowness of ohhe'll take me here, he'll buy me
Gucci, he'll buy me gold thatthey could care less.

Speaker 2 (08:37):
Yeah, I met one of the richest men in the world.
I think I had on some regularass new balances, some regular
ass jeans, and I didn't evenknow who the fuck he was when I
first met him.

Speaker 5 (08:43):
That's why he's rich.

Speaker 2 (08:44):
Calm down with New Balances.
Okay, new Balances is fire.
I'm not even gonna lie.
I got a couple pairs.

Speaker 4 (08:48):
Those are dad shoes.

Speaker 2 (08:49):
Fire.
I got a few pairs.
That's because these bitchescall me daddy so I guess it
makes sense for me to have dadshoes.

Speaker 4 (09:00):
She just always Desby and Des, I would say an
activity.
People that I perceive asshadow is like people who walk
around with false sense ofentitlement.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
Yes.

Speaker 4 (09:13):
They think because you obtain a certain level of
status or you have a certainamount of money or you look a
certain way, that you're justentitled to certain like
treatment or behavior.

Speaker 5 (09:24):
I think another aspect of shallowness has to do
with looks, because you guyswere kind of touching on this
earlier.
You could be a bad bitch and bethe shittiest person on this
planet, but some people are soengrossed in oh she's bad, I've
got to keep her.
Or it goes for women too, like,oh he's fine, gotta keep.
No, stop being and I'm notsaying that there hasn't,

(09:45):
doesn't have to be a certainlevel of attraction, but it just
doesn't have to be so engrossedin physical.

Speaker 2 (09:50):
Yeah, but to tie that into to shallowness, because
that's not when it's coming fromthe outside and it's not the
person being shallow, it's thepeople that know they look good
and feel like they're entitledto a certain amount of things,
like.
So that ties back into what wewere talking about earlier with
the women who think that theyokay, I look this way.

Speaker 4 (10:10):
This nigga can't take me to this restaurant, that's a
sense of shallowness, that bestof jack in the box.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
Yeah, I'll use my military discount that's funny
as you say that.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
I think it's like uh say what we refer to this.
When you say, like the people'ssense of entitlement, there's
also the, the expectations theyput on people because of what
they look like.
So like when you look at themand you say, like the people's
sense of entitlement, there'salso the the expectations they
put on people because of whatthey look like, so like when you
look at them and you're like,well, because you're this size,
you probably can't do this yesand then when you see that
you're like what are you basingthat on?
oh, you're obviously this andyou're like that's a shallow way
of looking at it.

Speaker 1 (10:39):
You don't know what physically so, that's how I used
to do with kids in sports yeah,oh, you're a center yeah, you
should play here like oh, he'skind of nice yeah like okay,
y'all ready, everybody answer.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
How can someone recognize if they're being
superficial um in theirrelationships or in their daily
interactions?

Speaker 3 (11:01):
if the only the first thing you notice is physical
yeah, that's tough if you saidthe reason why you got with her
is because she had a fat ass allright.

Speaker 4 (11:12):
So what happened past that I feel attacked, nigga and
you go.

Speaker 5 (11:18):
What about that?

Speaker 3 (11:19):
well, you know she has a great personality.
I realized that after it's likeno, you just like just fat ass.
Yep, oh, you're saying if it'sjust a fat ass, yeah, I mean it
can.
I could say reel you in, but ifit's the only thing making you
say yeah, that's it I thinkagain.

Speaker 4 (11:35):
Like I was saying, I think it's the people who get
with other people just so theyappear to have a certain
aesthetic you have nothing incommon and it's just you're just
, you're doing this just forlooks, just so you can be
perceived a certain type of way.

Speaker 2 (11:48):
Yeah, I definitely agree.
I mean, in what you werespeaking of, I think physical
attraction is important.

Speaker 4 (11:52):
But if that ass is bad, I'm coming back.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
I was just going to say I think physical attraction
is important.
It's the first thing you see.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
Yeah, when you first see it it's cool, but if you say
that's all, it's keeping youthere Like fuck.

Speaker 5 (12:02):
Physicality should not be able to keep you, because
there are men and women thatwill both sit there and they'll
be like oh she just dog shittedon me, but she's fine, so I got
to keep her.
Oh he just I caught himcheating, but he's so fine girl,
I got no.

Speaker 4 (12:19):
I'm keeping Chris Brown no matter what that nigga
do, he definitely cheating.

Speaker 2 (12:22):
I don't give a fuck, nigga me too, nigga, I don't
give a fuck, nigga you cheat isthat the glasses?
You fucking a bitch.
I'm a fucker too.
I don't give a fuck, I don'tcare, we'll share.
We can share this bitch.
What's your bring her here itfeels like let me get my
backpack out the car.
This makes such progress.

Speaker 3 (12:38):
And then she'll be like yeah, that's like like fuck
, like this shit can go eitherway.

Speaker 2 (12:48):
Now she's saying the nigga look good enough no, just
chris brown we can run trainsjust yes, just chris brown, just
chris brown and the baby andthe baby and the baby.

Speaker 3 (12:59):
Yeah, let's go.
Because he said trains.

Speaker 2 (13:01):
Wow that's an awful train.
He said trains, I like him.
I like Chris Brown, baby.
He got that shit I like overthere.
He got that shit, I like overthere.

Speaker 5 (13:18):
I swear to God, I'm going to fuck what that nigga do
.
Kevin, I get it.
You got that one person.

Speaker 1 (13:21):
Michael E Jordan used to be mine.
He cute, he got some shit withsome boppin' in him.
Michael E.

Speaker 2 (13:25):
George used to be mine, yeah.

Speaker 1 (13:26):
Fuck Period.

Speaker 2 (13:27):
I do want some boppin' in him, Wasn't.

Speaker 1 (13:29):
the question was was it to be?

Speaker 2 (13:31):
shallow the person to acknowledge it or whatever,
because that's where I wasconfused.

Speaker 1 (13:39):
The question was how can you recognize if you're
being superficial, like I don'tknow?

Speaker 4 (13:45):
I feel like you know that off the top, shouldn't you?
That's if you're self-aware.
Yeah, I think we live in aworld where a lot of people are
not self-aware.

Speaker 1 (13:54):
So then I feel like in that regard, you would need
dope friends to be like hey yolike you're going down the bad
path.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
You need dope friends and you need to be able to
still hold that accountability,because just because, somebody
told your ass you did it don'tmean you're going to accept it
and be accountable for it yeah,because it's hard to.

Speaker 3 (14:09):
I guess it would be hard to recognize that if you're
in it and making thesedecisions that's true that's
true, because Des, I'm going tolet you know right now if you
was with Chris, I get that thisis your, but he's doing some
shit.

Speaker 1 (14:24):
I'm going to tell you Well, and if you don't listen,
let me say something, Chriswhere I saw a motherfucker find
I will line the Coke up for him.

Speaker 2 (14:31):
I don't give a fuck this.

Speaker 1 (14:32):
I love him, so you just going to kill it here.

Speaker 2 (14:37):
baby, you can just here that's a rail.
I love him.
I don't do coke.
I don't know how much supposedto be up there.

Speaker 1 (14:45):
That's too much.

Speaker 2 (14:47):
Just do a sprinkle.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
Put down a polar bear .

Speaker 2 (14:50):
I love him and I'm going to hear you, friend.

Speaker 3 (14:54):
I was just saying, as a friend, I would have to say
something.
But what do we?

Speaker 2 (14:57):
do if she don't listen.
I'm taking one for the team andnow you can get up there and
open up for Chris Brown.

Speaker 1 (15:02):
No, we're not going to do that.
We're going to say, hey, tellChris to send some mics, a
couple cameras.

Speaker 3 (15:08):
That'll be a better option, and I will.
I'm taking one for the team.
He said the wrong Migos died.

Speaker 4 (15:15):
That was classic, I forgot about that.

Speaker 1 (15:18):
That was so fucked up .

Speaker 3 (15:18):
I forgot about that, but he made a point and that
shit hurt.

Speaker 2 (15:22):
Yeah, he probably shouldn't have that, but he made
a point and that shit hurt.
Yeah, he probably shouldn't.

Speaker 1 (15:25):
That shit hurt me Because we was all like oh, he
was in the booth.
What'd he say?
Oh, I lost.

Speaker 2 (15:34):
Yeah, oh God.
What's the next question?
Why do people sometimes defaultto their shallow behaviors,
even when they're valued deeperin their connections?

Speaker 4 (15:42):
Because that's where they're comfortable and safe.

Speaker 2 (15:44):
Yeah, it's a safe space period.

Speaker 1 (15:46):
It's a safe space, it's you hiding yourself from
having to deal with reality.
They haven't conquered theirinsecurities.

Speaker 2 (15:56):
Is that the question again?
Okay, hold on, that's what Ibelieve it was.
Why do people sometimes defaultto their shallow behaviors,
even when they value deeperconnections?

Speaker 3 (16:05):
Because they want to be accepted by what the society
has told them is acceptable yeah, definitely so.

Speaker 4 (16:12):
Do you think if they they're only doing it to be
accepted, they're around thewrong people?

Speaker 3 (16:16):
yeah, yeah, I definitely think they're around
the wrong people.
It's it's not right, but it's.
A lot of people get to thatdefault because they feel like
they want to be accepted bytheir peers and they feel like
if their peers are going toaccept them by keeping that
aesthetic, shallowness orwhatever it's, they're going to
go right back to that default,even if they're, they have a

(16:36):
genuine connection for differentreasons.
People like comfort and theywant acceptance.

Speaker 4 (16:43):
Yeah, there's no growth in the comfort absolutely
not you.

Speaker 5 (16:51):
I agree with everything that they've been
saying.
It's very valid.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
I said it's just some of their insecurities.

Speaker 4 (16:57):
They're insecure why you gotta be a nigga.
Is that not a?

Speaker 1 (17:00):
nigga with an R or U that's broke dick, it's all
broke dick, that's broke dick,it's old broke dick, it's old
broke dick, old broke dick, itgoes together.

Speaker 4 (17:10):
You got to say the old first like little the old
thing Guess the whole thing,guess every time Boy, I'm not
going to play with y'all, okay.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
How does social media encourage shallow behaviors and
how can you?

Speaker 1 (17:26):
Felonious lies.

Speaker 2 (17:27):
How can we correct that?
You said what.

Speaker 1 (17:29):
Fake ass lies yeah.

Speaker 2 (17:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:31):
Highlighted as if it's real.

Speaker 3 (17:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (17:35):
Nobody's going to show you their fucking
weaknesses or flaws Social mediadisrupts Social media is like
Disney paints a facade, nightand shining armor and not saying
that there aren't good men andwomen out there that can give
you a happy ending.

Speaker 4 (17:48):
But social media is definitely.

Speaker 1 (17:51):
There's a place Right next to the pizza parlor.

Speaker 5 (17:56):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (17:57):
All right, what's that address?

Speaker 5 (18:00):
Well, right over there near Alabama Street, where
that lady is, where that ladyis.

Speaker 2 (18:04):
She got the guac guac for a price, oh my God.

Speaker 5 (18:07):
But yeah, social media is a facade.
You get five seconds ofsomeone's happiness and I'm not
saying that we don't live happylives where what we're posting
is not true but I would saymajority of the time you will
see people post and post andpost bullshit.
So they want people to thinklike they're glorious when low
key post and post bullshit.
So they want people to thinklike they're glorious when

(18:27):
low-key they could be broke ashell and living in a completely
different world.

Speaker 4 (18:28):
It's like you guys said they're only going to post
the highlights.

Speaker 5 (18:30):
For sure, not the lowlights, not how you got there
, not anything else.

Speaker 4 (18:33):
Because who feels like posting when they're going
through shit?
Right?
You too busy stressing overwhat the fuck you're going
through.
You ain't sending people priorto the videos.

Speaker 1 (18:41):
That's fake.

Speaker 2 (18:42):
Let me put this shit on real quick.

Speaker 4 (18:44):
It's like what Nipsey say.

Speaker 1 (18:45):
Nipsey said that thing the best.
It's like if you share yoursuccess without your struggles,
you're a fool For sure.
And it's like, yeah, everybodyknows when you go through
struggles.
Why are you hiding it?

Speaker 4 (19:00):
I share my struggles keeps rolling.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
You what?
What did you say?
What did you say?

Speaker 3 (19:08):
Nothing he said you do it, this particular topic.

Speaker 2 (19:10):
No, that's not what he said.
Hold on, nigga, Stand up.
What you said.

Speaker 4 (19:13):
Cuz she did it again, I said I said that I don't even
listen to your videos.
I just like it and keepscrolling.

Speaker 2 (19:19):
And that's all right.
I know you don't, but that'salright, you ain't gotta listen
to my shit she struck me downtwice.
I'm sorry and I love you and Ireally am sorry for doing that.
I didn't mean to interrupt youit hurts my feelings.
It's cause this nigga over herebe talking shit and I be having
to address that shit at thetime.
How the fuck you gonna say Idon't even watch your damn
videos.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
I'm funny.

Speaker 3 (19:46):
I think it's interesting that this topic
makes me keep thinking about aparticular couple that I had to
constantly keep stressing thepeople around me over and over
about how fake the relationshipwas and the only reason why he
was with her is for theaesthetic of saying, wow, you
had a trophy wife.
And that every time I kepthearing the praise, oh, they're
so perfect.
And I would tell them like it,it's the front, it's for social

(20:08):
media, yeah, and over and overit was like no, no, no, they got
to be in love and then, sureenough, they got divorced
immediately.
And then I won't tell thedetails of why they got divorced
and what was going on, but calla spade a spade then they go to
high school with us yeah, butit wouldn't have been our year,
you wouldn't do I know year

Speaker 2 (20:25):
do I know these people you know these people,
they weren't in our year.

Speaker 3 (20:31):
I kept saying they weren't black okay that's too
many questions I can't ask.
I just know that it was anaesthetic that everybody that
you would come across go ohthere's, she's so lucky.
And I'm like if, if you reallyknow what was going on, you

(20:52):
wouldn't feel that way.
And then eventually it just itdidn't last long and I think
they're actually better offseparate, but it was.
It was all for the wrongreasons.
He wanted a trophy wife shewanted she wanted privilege yeah

Speaker 4 (21:11):
you got more questions.

Speaker 1 (21:14):
He was playing I don't know, did she?
Is she spoken for already?

Speaker 3 (21:19):
immediately.
That's what afterwards.

Speaker 1 (21:21):
That's what I figured wait.

Speaker 2 (21:23):
Why you ask that?

Speaker 1 (21:27):
because she's a trophy wife.

Speaker 2 (21:29):
I'm not trying to holler at the bitch.
I'm not talking to you.
That's the first thing.
I'm not even talking to you.
I just wanted to know why heasked that question.
I know you not hollering at her?
We know that.
I just wanted to know what youmeant by.
Is she spoken for already?
What was the next thing thatyou was going to?

Speaker 1 (21:47):
say that's it.
That's what I asked her.
Curious if that was probablycorrect, that was correct.

Speaker 3 (21:51):
Yeah, within like three months, yeah.

Speaker 1 (21:53):
I was like months, maybe weeks.

Speaker 3 (21:55):
Inked and dry.
I believed before.

Speaker 2 (21:57):
But that's just inked and dried.
I mean you want to go there?
No, I'm just saying I'm goingto talk about you.
I don't give a fuck if you aretalking about me, Because at the
end of the day, the day goingto end.
Don't let your traumas triggeryou.
I'm not triggered, did she just?

Speaker 4 (22:14):
do that I did.

Speaker 2 (22:17):
Next question.

Speaker 1 (22:19):
She said at the end of the day, the day going to end
.
Next question nigga.

Speaker 2 (22:24):
Okay, and let me just say this oh, you're going to
make me just tell on myself.
I wish you the best.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
Oh shit, no, you don't nigga.
Don't tell on yourself, Just goto the next question.

Speaker 4 (22:36):
Why would I not wish you the best Des?

Speaker 2 (22:38):
Do you think that likes and followers make people
more superficial in theirself-expression?
Yes, it does.

Speaker 4 (22:43):
I'm not going to say all, Not all yeah.
Not all yeah, of course, that'sthe wrong way to say it.

Speaker 5 (22:47):
People thrive for likes and getting heightened
what?
Or my biggest thing is oh mygosh, I lost a friend.
Okay yeah like.
So I think it's the motivebehind it that yeah dictates.

Speaker 3 (23:03):
So if you're trying to get paid, yeah, you're trying
to get paid.
That should make a difference Iget it you like I lost a friend
like hey that's a whole hundredthousand dollars.

Speaker 5 (23:12):
Like yeah, like you're thinking that way it's
different.

Speaker 3 (23:13):
but yeah, I Like you're thinking that way is
different.
But yeah, if you're if this forthe like, whatever high that
comes with it, yeah, it's awhole different thing.
But yeah, if you're like, ifthis is a business move, yeah,
you feel it.
I get that it's a new drug.

Speaker 1 (23:29):
It's like a new drug yeah.

Speaker 3 (23:33):
Not quite like.

Speaker 1 (23:33):
PCP but.

Speaker 4 (23:35):
Oh my God, been on.

Speaker 2 (23:39):
Been on, not quite like PCP, but oh my god, what
are some signs that someone iscurating a shallow online
persona versus being authentic?

Speaker 1 (23:44):
they two different niggas when you see her?

Speaker 5 (23:46):
yes, you got the catfish bitch and the
non-catfish bitch every time yousee my person you're like nigga
.

Speaker 4 (23:55):
This is not who you are.
I know niggas like that.
Like nigga.
You don't even're like nigga.
This is not who you are.
I know niggas like that.
Like nigga.
You don't even talk like this.

Speaker 1 (24:01):
What are you?
Who is this person?
So you dressed up in yourregular clothes and acted like
that.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
Yeah, none of these guys.

Speaker 3 (24:08):
It makes you think about that same same people.
Because after he he starteddoing some shit on post and
you'd be like nigga, I've neverheard you talk this way, but
it's like it's one of themthings where it's a a certain
perspective that he wants to beperceived by everyone else Cause
he wants to say bitch, you lostme.

Speaker 1 (24:26):
I'm not dropping names.
I'm not dropping names and itgoes back to having dope ass
friends.
I've been, I've talked someslick shit before and had some
friends be like shut up nigga.
Like, oh you right, I'm goingto just shut the fuck up.
You humbled me.

Speaker 2 (24:43):
Did you answer the question Me?
I think we made it clear, Nigga.
If you're one nigga in personand you're one nigga behind the
scenes, it's a bad situationBecause I'm just saying you were
a different nigga last episodea different nigga.
Last episode that's what he wasdoing.
I'm the same bitch every time.
I'm the same bitch every time.
It depends on what we talkingabout.
If we talking about somethingmore deep and sensitive, then
the nigga is going to be deepand sensitive.

Speaker 3 (25:04):
Let's take a picture from this angle.
You look like you're coming offlike some cypher.

Speaker 2 (25:13):
I might want to do a McFly lounge after this.
You don't know.

Speaker 3 (25:15):
Shit Don't, I will.

Speaker 2 (25:17):
Shit, you don't know.

Speaker 4 (25:18):
I might get down.
We're not putting that trashout?
You ain't right.

Speaker 3 (25:23):
We let your trashy ass get up here every week.
Oh, my God, All righty.
She said that with a smoothvoice too.
I'm trash to you, but to who itmatter to.

Speaker 4 (25:32):
I'm everything, whatever.

Speaker 2 (25:34):
That's why you can't hurt my feelings there's only
one woman on this earth thathurt my feelings.
You don't hurt my feelingseither.
Just one two yeah.

Speaker 3 (25:43):
I was just saying, like it my sisters are pretty
good at it too.

Speaker 1 (25:48):
I love them though you just gotta let shit rise.
Sometimes niggas be lying, Iknow.
I just said you gotta checkthem what's up in real time
where you at, we waiting on you.

Speaker 2 (26:05):
I was letting you niggas talk, y'all little fuck
ass shit come on now.

Speaker 4 (26:09):
Did you take some?

Speaker 3 (26:10):
of my tequila let's just clarify them.

Speaker 4 (26:13):
Niggas over there them niggas over there.

Speaker 3 (26:16):
I'm out of it, so I can't.
I can't partake in theconversation because I was, I
was excluded.

Speaker 1 (26:21):
Listen my nigga my nigga hey, yo no shit like peep
this you spitting why you doingyour radio voice.
I'm just saying, like she beenradio hosting, I like it y'all
getting my dick listen, youstupid niggas, I'm gonna put
that shit on every time, everytime and I do and do and do.

Speaker 2 (26:47):
I'll put that shit on nigga.
I'll be the type to get out mymotherfucking casket and put
that shit on and get back inthat bitch if you do that.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
I'm leaving.

Speaker 4 (26:55):
I'm out the church.
I'm standing up and I'm likey'all niggas can stay.
If you want, I'm out the church.

Speaker 2 (27:02):
Y'all gonna see my cute outfit I picked out.
I ain't got time for this.
How can you tell if afriendship or relationship is
based on death rather thansuperficial interest?
Based on what?

Speaker 3 (27:12):
Death.
I've seen how this movie ends.
It don't go well for niggas.

Speaker 4 (27:15):
Death.
I seen how this movie ends.
It don't go well for niggas.

Speaker 5 (27:18):
Des, said she opened Cassidy Sharp Period, I think
you, that's crazy.

Speaker 4 (27:21):
I'm sorry you got to reread the question Because I
didn't.
The Cassidy shit do me, I'msorry, leave me alone.
I'm going to hold goddamncharge QH and you got to shut

(27:43):
somebody got to put on.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
Let's see how can you tell if a friendship or
relationship is based on depthrather than superficial interest
conversations.

Speaker 5 (27:54):
Conversation and time .

Speaker 2 (27:55):
The time because people can change.

Speaker 5 (27:58):
I mean, look at the situation I'm in with that car.
I told you about it, we talkedabout it.
Yeah, girl, yeah, no.
So I didn't think that she wasgonna do no shit like that and I
won't call her out by her namebecause I'd just be fucked up.
But you don't.
You don't know who you'redealing with until shit hits the
fan.
I honestly feel like friendshipis a lot like a relationship.
If a person is not going to bedown for you for the good, the

(28:20):
bad, the ugly and in between,and be honest and provide
in-depth conversation and bethere for you, they're there for
superficial bullshit, period.
And there's no other way aroundit.
Because in friendship, youcan't lie to your friend just
like you.
You can't lie to your friendJust like you're not supposed to
lie to your spouse.

Speaker 2 (28:42):
I lied to these niggas.

Speaker 1 (28:43):
I'm just kidding I feel like you could tell if you
like how you were saying throughyou guys saying conversation
and shit, but I'm like peoplecan fucking lie to you in your
face for years at a time,fucking lie to you in your face
for years at a time and, uh,it's up to you, I guess, to
realize, do they give a fuckabout anything in my life?

(29:03):
like that's kind of one way totell.
Like are they gonna?
How do?
How did I say this to somebody?
I'm like, open your phone andlook at who the fuck you would
call if your tire would be flatin the middle of the night.
They'll come, that's not notall the niggas you love your
phone and look at who the fuckyou would call if your tire
would be flat in the middle ofthe night and they'll come.
That's not not all the niggasyou love will show up.
They love you but they ain'tcoming.

(29:24):
I'm calling a triple A nigga Ipay for, but I'm saying you can
like 1-888.
Don't put the rest there.
But like if you could discernthat and things of that nature,
I feel like you know you'rebeyond that super fit, because
even if it's a nigga who's notcoming, yeah, you're like I know
him well enough to know thatthis is where it is.

(29:45):
It's not out of like malice,it's just like that motherfucker
is not getting up, yeah, soit's having a true understanding
of one another.
Like if they don't, yeah, Iguess you can tell, like just by
their actions on how they, ifit's all about them, then it's
obviously not.

Speaker 4 (30:01):
I'm going to piggyback off what Kevin said.
I think you subconsciously knowwho your real friends are.
I think so Like you know,exactly who to call and who not
to waste your time with, becauseyou got some friends who, like
man, like you were saying likeif you were to call somebody at
one in the morning they'd belike this is weird and they know
it's out of place, so theygonna answer because they got
something gotta be wrong, typeshit well, I had a friend who

(30:21):
told me to my face and he waslike, if you call me at one, I'm
not, I'm not picking up, it'slike alright hey I

Speaker 1 (30:30):
know not to call your ass shit at at least she told
you.

Speaker 4 (30:35):
I know yeah, but I mean definitely, I think the
conversations matter.
Like I asked what I'm saying,like the time spent, the depth
of the conversation, like areyou always talking about surface
things?
Are you guys actually talkingabout life?
Or like are they actuallycoming to you to seek advice?
Are they listening?
Are they actually taking youradvice?

Speaker 5 (30:53):
like there's ways to determine you know the levels of
this shit, true, yeah, well,and the other thing, too, is you
should never have your friends,don't ever make you choose,
because and you and I had thatconversation I had a friend that
told me you either choose me orthe guy you're dating.

Speaker 4 (31:10):
I was like the fuck oh no, I don't do that, that's
weird like are you?

Speaker 1 (31:14):
jealous, I say you don't sleep with girls so what's
I'm?

Speaker 5 (31:17):
like well damn, does she want you?
No, I just think it came downto a fact that, because I wasn't
spending as much time with herbecause I got involved.

Speaker 4 (31:26):
She wanted you don't we, don't we, when you a girl
adults like yeah that's.

Speaker 2 (31:32):
I mean, that's missing girl, shit.
No, that's missing girl, shit,no that's.
It's weird that bitch wantedher, because that's weird as
fuck.

Speaker 4 (31:38):
I think I said this before the video.
He's like.
He's like yeah, my boy, you gota girl.
I ain't mad at him.
He over there getting toppedoff and look at me, my lonely
ass in the gym, Guess.
I just keep pushing thesefucking weights, so I get his
dick or my conversation picklike what that's weird that she

(31:58):
would even require that from youand it was.

Speaker 5 (32:00):
It just came out of those things because, like I
said, men go through thingsquietly and I've had to learn
that and not they don't alwaysoffer up, you know, everything
to you if they're trying to likedeal with stuff.
And so you know, during a timewhere things were like kind of
quiet, she was like, oh, he went, another bitch you.
Things were like kind of quiet.
She was like, oh, he withanother bitch.
You're stupid, you got handystreets Like I was like damn,

(32:21):
that's not like somebody whodoesn't hate her she is she
always single?

Speaker 4 (32:26):
Yeah, ma'am, you know , you know, you know.
She remind me of the chick onthe phone talking to the Kung Fu
Wolf bitch.

Speaker 3 (32:32):
Yeah, you know that's usually the always single but I
friends like that they.

Speaker 4 (32:42):
I think they want their friends to be single so
they can be in the same.

Speaker 2 (32:44):
Yes, yeah, so y'all can be outside, but that's what.

Speaker 4 (32:46):
I turned to.

Speaker 5 (32:47):
I'll ask you this, since we're talking about it and
I'll make it quick so I gotinvited to a Valentine's Day
dinner with her and some othergirls the gal time thing and
basically what had happened isshe told me, because I would
normally ride with her out so Ididn't have to drive.
She was like, after we're doneeating dinner, myself and the
girls, we're going to go to thebowling alley and me and two of

(33:09):
the girls are going to haveblind dates come.
So I told her I'm not going andshe's like why?
And I was like cause that'sgoing to look hella fucking
weird.
I was like I'm dating somebodyand two other niggas are going
to just show up.
I was like anybody from theoutside looking in would look at
that kind of weird.
I'm like I don't know them, Idon't need to be there for that.
And so I told her I'm justgoing to go ahead letting your

(33:32):
man control your situation.
I was like, oh, I haven't eventalked to him about it I just
don't want to watch this.

Speaker 2 (33:38):
You just bitch you a hater yeah, she'll never be
married and you a hater.
That's weird like isn't it.
What's wrong with you politelydeclining?
It's not like you was likebitch.
I'm not gonna go to thegalentine's day, bitch, I'm
gonna just go ahead.
After we're done eating, I'mgonna go ahead and excuse myself
.
I don't need to be at no blinddate, and she ain't even with
the blind date.
Nigga, no more, huh, no ofcourse not.

(33:59):
Well, and then the other thingtoo is she's okay, she ain't
cute she doesn't mean, she uglyshe ain't cute the way you just
said okay, the way you looked atme when you said okay, she's
not because when she said, okay,it drops, no, the reason how I
know is because this bitch herewill tell you when you're cute.

Speaker 3 (34:15):
Or she's trying to make sure that it doesn't sound
shallow, because this is theepisode.

Speaker 2 (34:23):
No, she'll tell you.
She'll tell you when you'recute, You're a bad bitch.

Speaker 5 (34:26):
you're a bad bitch.

Speaker 2 (34:27):
She'll let you know she's okay.
The poor lady ain't cute, ma'am.
No Work on yourself, sweetheart.
That's not a real friend,though, work on yourself,
sweetheart that's not a realfriend though.

Speaker 3 (34:37):
Yeah, that's right.
Yeah, that's right yeah a realfriend.

Speaker 4 (34:39):
A real friend would champion the fact that you found
companionship.

Speaker 5 (34:42):
Yeah, a real friend, happy for you but a real friend
would be happy for the fact thatI co-signed for that car out of
there and because I asked herto refinance shit else.

Speaker 2 (34:52):
That's what goes with them.
Oh no, I never, ever will Ifthey not potting listen.
Listen, if the bitch ain'thanding off, no coochie, don't
you fucking sign for shit else,drop that ass off.
Oh period Fuck that I wouldn'thave fucked her anyway, don't
you sign for shit else.
No, I never, ever will If ain'tnobody handing off no dick or
no coochie you don't sign fornothing.

Speaker 4 (35:23):
I'm not signing that shit, that's crazy, but they
doing it.

Speaker 5 (35:24):
I'm just saying, god damn, you didn't get nothing off
the deal.

Speaker 4 (35:26):
I forgot what the question was.
I will you know I'm deadserious.
I need like when people on the5th of april, so she has a very
shallow friendship with old girl, yeah, it's not friendship, so
you gotta tie it back together.
It's not friendship.

Speaker 2 (35:43):
You do okay, yeah, situationship she took your
kindness for weakness.
She saw that you were willingto be helpful and that you cared
about your friends and makingsure that they're good.
Because I remember you, youknow you explained to me the
circumstances to which and whyyou co-signed on a car and she,
she took.
She took you.

Speaker 3 (35:59):
So yeah, don't be that, don't be that nice, no
more.

Speaker 2 (36:03):
Yeah, some bold shit, it's not a little bit of money,
that's not a little bit ofmoney at all.
Don't be cool with that, withnobody, don't anybody got no
hands.

Speaker 3 (36:12):
Y'all throw hands, ever no they didn't fight.

Speaker 2 (36:15):
Did you fight?
No, no, because she ran.
Yeah, she ran.
I would hit that bitch with acar.
I can't say what I think couldbe done, because we're on camera
.

Speaker 1 (36:26):
Yeah.
Trying to keep it PC.
We could solve this I got ahomegirl in Colorado.

Speaker 2 (36:31):
Bump that bitch with a car right now.

Speaker 3 (36:32):
Bop.
That's some bullshit.

Speaker 2 (36:34):
Well you don't.
Why are you on camera?
That's some bold shit.
Well, you don't.
Why on camera?
I didn't say which bitch I knowa lot of.

Speaker 3 (36:39):
To be fair, there are a lot of rapper niggas that
snitch on themselves these dayshave you watched no Jumper
lately?

Speaker 1 (36:44):
yeah, no, we haven't yeah they went belly up.

Speaker 3 (36:51):
Yeah, well them niggas went to.

Speaker 1 (36:53):
Yeah, you just hear a whole lot of low quality phone
calls.

Speaker 3 (37:02):
You were receiving a phone call from an inmate at
yeah, snitching on themselves,you, goddamn right.

Speaker 4 (37:06):
That one dude.
Just I ain't saying shit.
What'd you say?
What's the next one Des Mm-mm?

Speaker 2 (37:12):
Mm-mm-mm-mm.
She don't know, you, she readShit, I'm trying to figure the
fuck out I don't know where weat.
Did we already do?
Um, well, she, she justanswered the question, but how
do you realize you're in ashallow relationship?

Speaker 3 (37:28):
yep, we did that we did that one that

Speaker 1 (37:30):
was the one okay.

Speaker 2 (37:31):
What exercises or habits can help you?
It can help someone become moreself-aware about their own
shallow tendencies.
I don't have shallow tendencies, so it's not really that's hard
it's not really then I don'tdon't do it, don't do it.
I don't have that, just let itbe.
Tell me, tell me what they are.

Speaker 1 (37:49):
Let it be no, no, fuck that hey them, shoes be
floating in the shallowestwaters.

Speaker 2 (37:58):
You know I usually like you, but you start acting
like this nigga, he tried topull me in.

Speaker 4 (38:07):
What?

Speaker 2 (38:07):
are they?
I didn't say nothing.
I didn't say nothing.
I don't have shallow tendencies.

Speaker 1 (38:14):
Yeah, because the shoes keep you floating.

Speaker 2 (38:16):
She don't have shallow tendencies.
What you niggas doing.

Speaker 1 (38:19):
Well, what would be an exercise for someone who did
Telling them to shut the fuck up?
That's an exercise.

Speaker 5 (38:26):
That they could do.
No, that you can do for them,and then they can learn it.

Speaker 1 (38:30):
So you just tell everybody shut the fuck up.
That's quite shallow in itself.

Speaker 5 (38:37):
It's not shallow because it's real like fuck them
.

Speaker 2 (38:41):
I think, just, I think just appreciating your own
actual, natural reality yeah,will help you.

Speaker 1 (38:46):
I know this sounds weird and I fucking really mean
it.
I really do mean this.
You could like volunteer atlike homeless shelter and shit
and see the other side of things.

Speaker 4 (38:59):
So they can walk around for like at least one
minute.

Speaker 1 (39:00):
Oh, they just go.

Speaker 4 (39:02):
He's so cute.
Well, I know I'm going home.
Until they give me a steak, Iguess.
Eat these goddamn mashedpotatoes and shut up.

Speaker 5 (39:12):
Go get some oxtails.
Yeah, I guess that couldbackfire like a motherfucker.

Speaker 4 (39:17):
I think the only thing you can really do is
practice being more self-aware.

Speaker 1 (39:21):
Yeah, that's tough.

Speaker 4 (39:24):
It is tough.

Speaker 1 (39:24):
It's tough.

Speaker 4 (39:25):
Yeah, it's tough.
How do you?

Speaker 1 (39:27):
even get aware.

Speaker 4 (39:29):
And then, going back to your part practice being
self-aware and then trying toempathize with how you are
treating others and how you'rebeing perceived by others Nigga,
because perception iseverything.

Speaker 1 (39:39):
I know some people that nobody likes, like nobody
likes, and I'm like I don'tfucking talk to anybody and
they're like I don't understand.
Like nobody fucks with me.
You still ain't trying tofigure out why nobody fucks with
you.

Speaker 3 (39:54):
There's a few people we've worked with that I can
sympathize with.

Speaker 4 (40:01):
You going to name some names Devin Damn Devin.
He know why nobody fucks withhim.

Speaker 1 (40:06):
He know he's self-aware, he won't fix it no,
I told him oh, okay, yeah, thereyou go.

Speaker 4 (40:11):
Bitch ass, nigga.

Speaker 1 (40:13):
Did he change it?

Speaker 4 (40:15):
don't matter, it's up to you.
When I see him.

Speaker 1 (40:17):
What that means.
Negative, I'm negative.

Speaker 4 (40:22):
Do I fight?
Yeah, you gonna fight.
Devin To love as hard as I love.
You gotta be able to fight.

Speaker 3 (40:26):
I'll fight.

Speaker 4 (40:26):
Devin you what, what.

Speaker 2 (40:28):
You I would yeah.
Girl.

Speaker 1 (40:31):
I.

Speaker 2 (40:31):
Piece of shit, huh.

Speaker 3 (40:33):
I, I, he got to be a piece of it.
You don't hear me say that no,I don't you know.

Speaker 2 (40:39):
Just out there wanting to fight, I'm not seeing
him his angriest, but I haveseen him severely perturbed look
here, and I didn't.
I wanted to go home.
I didn't want to be here, whenthat nigga he wasn't even angry
that day yeah, I was ready tofuck him when that nigga get
angry ain't nothing you can do,that's what I said.
I haven't seen him at his height, but even in that irritation,
in that moment, I was ready togo.

(41:00):
I was like hell.
No, because if he get anymadder than this nigga, this
shit, finna go.

Speaker 5 (41:03):
There's a guy I work with.
I'm not going to say his name.

Speaker 3 (41:10):
He walks around our office.
Pussy was friday after next, soyou gotta explain I don't leave
there like he unbuttons his.

Speaker 2 (41:16):
Oh, you got a hairy chest like you got taco meat on
this shit.

Speaker 1 (41:24):
No it's worse.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
I call it wolf pussy, because it's just like only in
america type shit, it's wolfpussy chest and he black?

Speaker 5 (41:33):
no, okay, um, but he walks around just like how kevin
had mentioned.
Nobody likes this nigga.

Speaker 3 (41:39):
No one likes him and he still be engaging a
conversation, and it's one ofthose minutes where you have to
be better, because I want totell him button your shirt up
and shut the fuck up as hecontemplated if this was pussy
pussy is how you described itthat someone could literally
walk up to him and grab him bythe wolf pussy and just fuck his
day up.

Speaker 5 (41:56):
You could like bring that shit and be like come here,
do some Mortal Kombat shit, getover here.

Speaker 1 (42:01):
I want to work on trying to be like Patrice O'Neil
and just saying what's there?
Because he was talking aboutsomebody with a big old bump on
their neck and he was like Ijust get passes and be like, hey
, my man, what's up with thatbig old bump on your neck?

Speaker 5 (42:15):
I just get passes and be like, hey, my man, what's up
with that big old bump on yourneck?
I'm not even mad at that?

Speaker 1 (42:19):
Yeah, I just want to ask him, hey, why you want to
act like that?
What's up with this?

Speaker 4 (42:23):
I can't even see, I don't know.
Is that medical?

Speaker 5 (42:25):
or why do you have a vagina on your chest?

Speaker 3 (42:27):
If he's hated that much he might want to.
Because if somebody pulled apatch of that wolf pussy out and
you got a patch missing, hey,you know what I'm going to show
up with?

Speaker 1 (42:38):
like a Norelco, I'm weak.

Speaker 5 (42:43):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (42:45):
Landing strip.

Speaker 4 (42:47):
It's more than a landing strip.
That's a desert.

Speaker 3 (42:50):
That butt net shirt.

Speaker 4 (42:51):
Now you and HR are trying to explain yourself.

Speaker 3 (42:53):
Well, come on, dog, you saw it.

Speaker 2 (42:56):
Don't nobody like that motherfucker?
Let me see if I have Y'allnasty.

Speaker 3 (43:01):
I gave that nigga a taper.

Speaker 2 (43:03):
Yeah, nasty His show, let's see.
We got time for two more, twomore, thank you.
What exercises or habits canhelp someone become more
self-aware about their ownshallow?
Did I do that one?

Speaker 3 (43:17):
You were doing that one now With the wolf pussy,
okay, Can shallow behaviorsserve a purpose?

Speaker 2 (43:24):
or girl?
He look like that nigga who belike don't know what you need.
Oh Lord, he do your bodylanguage.

Speaker 3 (43:37):
So wait, did you take a picture of him getting into
this you have a picture of him?

Speaker 1 (43:42):
no cause, we work together.

Speaker 3 (43:44):
I can't do it in the spirit of the episode he do do
it.

Speaker 4 (43:52):
I feel you.

Speaker 3 (43:55):
I'm not trying to be shallow, he looks away.
I was saying call somebody.
It's kind of shallow.
He looks like the dude.
You see the dude who be singingthe songs.

Speaker 2 (44:05):
The guy he's like mustard Nigga sucking bud, but
somebody got to do it.

Speaker 3 (44:11):
Yeah, I'm not.
I'm trying to be respectfulwhat?

Speaker 4 (44:16):
was the question.
Come on.

Speaker 2 (44:19):
Can shallow behaviors serve a purpose?

Speaker 1 (44:21):
Yes, Self-preservation like a
motherfucker.
Hey, he walking around fucking,he's unaware.
Ignorance is bliss right.
It's not real.
That's not true.

Speaker 2 (44:38):
That's the only thing I could think of for
shallowness is self-preservationyeah, yeah, okay, let me ask
this last question, because Ithink that's a we across the
board agree on that one.
Um, how do you balance beingsocially polished without coming
across in inauthent orsuperficial?

Speaker 3 (44:56):
I am not socially polished, I am awkward as shit.

Speaker 2 (45:00):
I am.
I must be awkward too, becauseI don't think you're awkward,
I'm awkward, I'm weird.

Speaker 3 (45:08):
I think it's okay to be weird, though you nigga
Welcome, welcome.

Speaker 1 (45:13):
You.

Speaker 5 (45:14):
Girl who he talking to.
Oh, weird as this we are weird.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
It's fine, that's fine.
Um, that's the beauty of it.

Speaker 5 (45:23):
So can I answer that question?
I listen, I don't think you're.
You got to give yourself morecredit than that.

Speaker 3 (45:29):
But I think you learn , I don't think I don't mean, I
don't mean weird I don't thinkthere's nothing wrong with it.

Speaker 5 (45:34):
No, I don't mean weird.
I feel like you have prettygood people skills.
Yeah, I really do feel like youdo.
But the thing for me is I'm inthe limelight with parents,
faculty state and everything,because I can sit here and say
I'm socially polished.
I can turn the white shit up Metoo, where I'm like oh so,
hypothetically, kristen, youmean, and honestly it just, it

(45:57):
just depends I have to besocially right there in order to
succeed with what I do.
So I polish it.

Speaker 1 (46:04):
Don't make that be polished, though.
Don't allow that, but allow thewhiteness to be the polish.

Speaker 5 (46:09):
Well, I'm code switching.
I got you.
I got you.
I understand Because I know,and there's a way to do it.

Speaker 1 (46:15):
You can still be authentic.
I've learned that knowledge isa motherfucker.

Speaker 5 (46:21):
For sure.

Speaker 1 (46:21):
It's a motherfucker.
For sure, because people willtry to trip you up on certain
things and if you say the rightthings, they go.
Oh shit, I better shut the fuckup see where it is.

Speaker 5 (46:39):
Because even with like our like, with our head
honcho, she's right before thehighest.
She secretly knows to leave methe fuck alone.
But because the fact that I cankill her with knowledge at her
own shit she leaves me alone.
Because I see how, like my bossand other people like talk to
other people never have dealtwith it ever and I won't,
because I'll tell a bitch realquick who the fuck are you
talking to?
I don't give a fuck if that'smy boss's boss's boss.
You still have to have a levelof respect yeah, it's a human I

(47:04):
come to work, I do my fuckingjob.
I make you guys money.
Leave me the fuck alone.

Speaker 4 (47:09):
So but hey, sometimes you gotta throw down with your
supervisors in middle street.

Speaker 5 (47:14):
Oh, be prepared you want to fight your boss?

Speaker 2 (47:18):
somebody did a damn job getting on their nerve
Supervars in Middle Street.
Be prepared, you want to fightyour boss.
Somebody's a damn job gettingon their nerve and they're going
to get fucked up.

Speaker 3 (47:22):
You want to fight your boss, catch him in the
street.
Him, that's him.
It was a particular supervisorI throw hands with, but he's
talking about somebody else.

Speaker 5 (47:33):
I don't fuck with him either, but I'm not willing to
throw hands hands with them.
What about that bitch that usedto make your guys's life?

Speaker 3 (47:38):
horrible for driving the cars.
I wouldn't throw hands with herI it's a girl yeah, I would.
I would hire somebody to findsomebody she made me feel like
shit.
So yes, I would fire, I would.
I would find somebody tojocelyn yeah, the one that you
don't mind saying the name onthis motherfucker boy.

Speaker 5 (47:54):
I tell you I don't think she's with you're not.

Speaker 3 (47:56):
She's not with you guys anymore but it was funny in
that class when I found out somany motherfuckers she fucked
over.

Speaker 4 (48:02):
I was like oh, all right, yeah, I should get my
sister to beat her ass.

Speaker 3 (48:06):
Yeah, cause she fucked over a lot of people that
could probably drive and dojust fine she's just being a
bitch.

Speaker 1 (48:14):
I said, if I yeah, I would find somebody to fuck her
up.

Speaker 3 (48:18):
I'm like, hey, we'll figure this out.

Speaker 2 (48:20):
Oh my God, I don't want to find anybody.
I think I'm a pretty polished.

Speaker 5 (48:24):
You definitely are.

Speaker 2 (48:25):
I think I'm a pretty socially polished person.
Thank you, why are you getting.

Speaker 1 (48:30):
Hey, this is jokes, baby you running out of pocket.

Speaker 2 (48:34):
I was talking to her.

Speaker 1 (48:35):
I thought you was like.

Speaker 5 (48:37):
I don't think there's .
I think I have the demeanorthat fits where I'm at for sure
you can read the room and knowwhere you fit in so, all while
still being authentically me,you still gonna get a little bit
of me, no, matter what I saycause.

Speaker 2 (48:51):
Even at work, when people are rude to me I, they
get a very Desiree responsePerfection she used the whole
name.
Very Desiree response I heardmy last email.

Speaker 5 (49:03):
You can go fuck off, but hey, it's nice talking to
you.

Speaker 1 (49:07):
I like your guys' definition of cordial, because
it's not.
I don't be cussing at peoplelike that I can be cordial, but
get the fuck away from me.
I don't be cussing at peoplelike that.
I can be cordial, but get thefuck away from me.
I don't cuss at nobody.

Speaker 2 (49:19):
I literally had a customer cuss me out the other
day.
First of all, he got on thephone.
He told me first of all, Isound like a nigga, or I sound
like I love niggas, and I saidwell, as a matter of fact, I do.

Speaker 3 (49:29):
What was it?

Speaker 1 (49:30):
Damn, that's crazy.

Speaker 3 (49:37):
He was yeah was yeah.

Speaker 2 (49:38):
Did he have a little country in his voice, or was he?
just straight up like properwhen he said it, then I had,
then then I have, I I've had youknow customers that I've been
done customer service my wholelife.
So I think when you do customerservice for so long, you
develop a way to say shitwithout saying it.
But you know what the fuck?
I just said yes.
So I have a very like you knowand I'm and I'm.
I have a very like you know andI'm and I'm.
I have a really good ability toawkwardly I don't know why,

(50:00):
cause I can't do this shitnowhere else but I have a really
good ability at staying calm,probably cause I'm paid well
that you, you, now that I'mthinking, about it.

Speaker 5 (50:07):
The calmness is where I know.
I know that.

Speaker 3 (50:13):
Devin's talking about that.
I see now, what's that?
Sitting over here, I see thefacial reactions.
I'm like this nigga here.
Yeah, all right.

Speaker 2 (50:20):
And I'm glad you see it, because that's why, when I'm
sitting over there and I cansee I say something and he done
made a face, I got to saysomething back.

Speaker 3 (50:27):
Oh shit, that's funny .

Speaker 2 (50:28):
This has been another damn episode but she explained
it.
She said at work, I am calm atwork.

Speaker 3 (50:35):
Before we sign off, I'll say to Devin Fuck Devin.
Yeah, that but, nigga justimagine the shookness you had
when you didn't realize I wasaround that corner.
Keep that in mind the next timeyou disrespect somebody else I
will say this Scared to deathand scared to look shook.

Speaker 4 (51:00):
For his statue.
Mcfly is a very soft-footedperson.

Speaker 1 (51:04):
You cannot hear this nigga.

Speaker 4 (51:06):
This nigga is like a husky you don't know he's coming
Feel a presence on me, huskyMcFly.
You don't know, you won't knowuntil you't know, and then you
turn around.
They just look at you like yeah, you fucked up that's the drop
I had on him you fucked up.

Speaker 3 (51:25):
I just wanted to know how you gonna hear my fat ass.
I'm gonna fuck him up if Ichose to, but yeah hey, well,
just remember that shook once.

Speaker 5 (51:34):
Devin and Wolf Pussy.
Let's go and just remember thatshook once.

Speaker 4 (51:36):
Devin and wolf pussy.
Let's go and just know thatit's still on site language
please do me look here it's,it's two niggas.
That dev is one of them, it'stwo.
If I ever catch y'all niggasand I'm not in uniform, it's all
, just just the whole thing isthe other one.

Speaker 3 (51:52):
There's a lot of people that they're lined up in
that line.
I'm just not one of them justbecause I don't there's enough
people that want that are linedup in that line.
I'm just not one of thembecause I don't there's enough
people that want to fuck them up.

Speaker 2 (51:58):
Oh, Devin is just the nigga that they don't like at
the job.
Nobody likes Devin at the job.
Devin leave niggas alone at thejob pocket.
If I'm ever with you let meknow please.

Speaker 3 (52:09):
Right like Devin, right there nigga, and then he
just and hit a nigga and I waslike he don't think he is though
yeah what's wrong?
Oh, he me no, we're talkingabout what I do.

Speaker 2 (52:20):
What I do?
He a brother.

Speaker 4 (52:23):
I'll let you know, kevin.

Speaker 3 (52:24):
Hey, kevin, go to the car he don't act like yeah, he
think he don't think he is thatnigga the hell he a brother no,
he not.

Speaker 2 (52:33):
I think we talked about somebody.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
Never mind, that's a whole nother episode, nope.

Speaker 4 (52:38):
He looked like one of the twins off of no he looked
like Professor Klump no helooked like one of the twins
Devin you big.
Devin, are you?

Speaker 2 (52:44):
talking shit you ain't even going to have.
You should take a picture, soyou just run circles.

Speaker 4 (52:47):
That nigga did keto but he was eating Cheetos and.

Speaker 3 (52:52):
And explain to me how you could fit an entire tall
can of Arizona iced tea in yourback pocket.

Speaker 2 (52:56):
Desi.

Speaker 1 (52:58):
Well, he got the big jeans.

Speaker 5 (53:00):
Not the genetics.

Speaker 1 (53:01):
All right, I'm done there, you are.

Speaker 4 (53:03):
Big jeans.
Hold on, hold on, okay, keep itgoing.
Ask one of the part-timers totell your story about the day he
shit on himself.
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (53:10):
I know that story, desi shit on himself.
This has been another episodeof the Heavyweight Podcast.

Speaker 4 (53:19):
We thank you guys for looking.

Speaker 2 (53:21):
Make sure you like, subscribe, share, comment.
All that shit, Peace.

Speaker 1 (53:23):
Peace.
Oh, I'm sweating.
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