Homecoming, Cooties, and Side-Eyes

A perfect-weather homecoming turns into a masterclass on what really sustains us—rituals that root identity, small alerts that protect our peace, and honest talks that make relationships sturdier. We start with the warmth of tailgates, band pride, and the funny near-miss of a fake valet in a brown sweatsuit, then move into an inheritance dilemma that hits harder than expected: a $1.8M house promised to a cousin’s grandson while a new spouse carries most expenses. Is that fair, or just familiar? We unpack late-life love, legacy, and what security looks like when history and obligations collide.

From there, we swing into levity—would you rather fight a horse-sized duck or 100 duck-sized horses—and use the laughter to clear space for practical wisdom. Balance in a young marriage isn’t 50/50; it’s a living agreement. Some weeks are 80/20, some 20/80. The goal isn’t symmetry; it’s teamwork. We share simple, no-guilt self-care ideas that don’t require spa budgets, and we double down on a key truth: say what you need out loud. Mind-reading is not a love language. Along the way, we examine money quirks (random Amazon buys, instruments, the empire of “stacks”), and how to budget with compassion for curiosity and comfort.

We close with side eyes and gratitude: a loud boxing guy turning the gym into a stage, a growing cologne collection that somehow makes strangers hand out compliments, the relief of cooler weather, and kids who still love hanging with their parents. It’s a refreshingly normal ride—funny, honest, and grounded in choices that make love practical. If you felt seen, share this with a friend who needs a nudge toward clearer conversations and kinder routines. Subscribe, rate, and leave a review to help more listeners find the show.

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Episode Transcript

SPEAKER_00 (00:03):
The refreshingly normal podcast.

SPEAKER_01 (00:34):
Child, look at the dang camera.
Welcome back, you guys.
I am Kifla.

SPEAKER_04 (00:40):
I am Lucretia.

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And you are listening to the Refreshingly
Normal podcast.
Thank you so much for joining usevery week, week in and week
out, being loyal listeners andloyal friends and fans and all
that good stuff.
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(01:08):
favorite podcast of all times.
For sure.
Of course.
Well, um, seems like you'reunder the weather.

SPEAKER_04 (01:16):
Yes.
Okay.
Um got cooties either fromhomecoming.
Or from middle school or highschoolers.

SPEAKER_01 (01:27):
Okay, yeah, yes.
It could be any one of those.
Yeah, they all are cooties,cooti carriers.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (01:35):
Especially those hornets.

SPEAKER_01 (01:38):
That's right, because once you catch something
from the hornet, baby, you can'tget rid of that.
You know what I'm saying?
So how did you enjoy uhhomecoming?

SPEAKER_04 (01:51):
Well, I enjoyed homecoming.

SPEAKER_01 (01:54):
Okay.

SPEAKER_04 (01:55):
Um I I mean it was the same as like what it always
I mean, we go to the tailgating,we go to the game, we get to see
all of the people that we Ithink most people I've met.
I don't think there's anybody Ihaven't met.
But most people I've met, so getto see all the people that are

(02:18):
excited to see this guy.
They act like they're excited tosee me, but they excited to see
me.

SPEAKER_01 (02:24):
They're excited to see us both.

SPEAKER_04 (02:26):
Um, but anywho, so got to do the tailgating and
chit-chat and walk around.
And um the weather was verynice.

SPEAKER_02 (02:38):
Very, very nice.

SPEAKER_04 (02:39):
The weather was very nice.
The only thing I that I guess ismy thing to change.
Um, we didn't go the nightbefore.
And um, I think this was thefirst time that we got up and
went the morning of.
And whoo, child, that is justtoo much of a day.

(02:59):
It was tiring because I had toget up because you know, y'all
know I've made a commitment torunning every day.
I knew after being at thehomecoming and after having
several drinks and being outsideall day, like trying to go back
to the hotel and run.
I was not gonna want to do.

SPEAKER_02 (03:16):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (03:16):
And then just in case, in quotations, we was
going to the rooftop bar.

SPEAKER_01 (03:26):
Thank you, God.
Thank you, God.

SPEAKER_04 (03:29):
And we were going to the rooftop bar.
I just didn't, you know, Ididn't want to have to run
before that.
Bitch, um, so I had to get upand run in the morning.
And so that was 6 a.m.
Then get dressed and get thingspacked up to go.
But um, yeah, I would.
I don't want to do that again.
I want to go the night before.

(03:50):
All right.
Y'all, I can't be sick, child.

SPEAKER_02 (03:56):
You can't be.

SPEAKER_04 (03:57):
Um, and then um, and our hotel.
I like our hotel in Montgomery.

SPEAKER_01 (04:03):
What's the name of it?

SPEAKER_04 (04:04):
Trilogy.

SPEAKER_01 (04:05):
The trilogy.

SPEAKER_04 (04:06):
It's a Marriott Hotel.

SPEAKER_01 (04:07):
Yeah, signature hotel.

SPEAKER_04 (04:09):
Signature hotel.
I just really like it.
I like the our room this timethat we got was a corner room.
Very um spacious.

SPEAKER_01 (04:17):
Some kind of ballroom.
What was it called?

SPEAKER_04 (04:18):
The the ballroom.

SPEAKER_05 (04:20):
It's actual ballroom there, honey.

SPEAKER_01 (04:21):
No, but it but that's where it was.
No, it was near the ballroom,yeah.
Area.
It was it was actually calledthe something ballroom.

SPEAKER_04 (04:28):
Oh, okay.
I really like it.
The people that work there arealways very friendly.
It's a it's attached to aStarbucks.
It's really cute inside, butit's just comfortable.

SPEAKER_01 (04:38):
So Somebody almost got us though when we got there.

SPEAKER_04 (04:42):
Oh, yes, y'all.
When we were there, uh, we pullup and um valet, or so we
thought.
So we pull up, and this personis saying, pull up, you know,
come around and pull up on theother side of this car.

SPEAKER_01 (04:55):
And I see him and he's like in a But we weren't
going to valet because you hadsaid Yeah, no, we hadn't.
No, we were just going to Yeah,because you said, hey, it's
probably better for us to justlet me.
Ooh.

SPEAKER_04 (05:06):
What?

SPEAKER_01 (05:07):
Okay, tell me what you said.
Go ahead, say what you'resaying.

SPEAKER_04 (05:10):
We were gonna go to dinner.

SPEAKER_01 (05:11):
Right.

SPEAKER_04 (05:12):
We were just going to check in.

SPEAKER_01 (05:13):
Right, okay.
That's what you were gonna say?
Yes.

SPEAKER_04 (05:15):
Oh, I'm so sorry.
We were just gonna go to dinner.

SPEAKER_01 (05:17):
We just go and check in, and then there's no need for
us to park.
But I'm sorry, guys.

SPEAKER_04 (05:23):
I thought he was gonna say something else in
regards to we the reason therecame, there, there came a reason
why we could not valet.
Like we couldn't valet.
So when we pulled up, it was aguy in a brown sweatsuit.
And I was like, huh.
When they start letting valetwear regular clothes.

(05:46):
So, anyways, when I pulled up,he opened up my door and
everything.
So I got home now, and then Isaid, Lady, I said, Hey, um,
y'all valet wear regularclothes?
She said, hmm?
I said, the valet, I said, dothey wear a uniform or do they
wear she goes, oh no, no, heshould have on a shirt that says
Marion or whatever or somethingon it.

(06:08):
I said, Oh, it's a man out therethat's acting like valet and he
has on a brown track suit.
She says, Oh, girl, don't y'alllet him take y'all's car.
Child, that sounds like a movie.
And so, um, of course, we didn'tlet him take the car, but we
couldn't let him take the carbecause somebody left their key,
car key, car, car, car card.

SPEAKER_01 (06:29):
Key card.
I left the Tesla key card um athome.
Yeah.
Um, so I normally bring it withme, but you know, this time I
accidentally.

SPEAKER_04 (06:38):
Yeah, so we had so we couldn't because we could
only use it from our phone towork um Tesla.
So we couldn't do it anyways,but yeah, it was some little
main.

SPEAKER_01 (06:47):
It's a good thing I didn't bring it, so you know,
because who knows, we probablywould have been a little more
apt to say.
Let's go ahead and just notthinking, you know.

SPEAKER_04 (06:55):
The brown man in the sweatsuit would have had the
Tesla.

SPEAKER_01 (06:58):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (06:59):
Anywho, so that's a little bit about my side of the
weekend.
How did you enjoy homecoming?

SPEAKER_01 (07:07):
I enjoyed it.
It's always good to be um back.
Um Alabama State, I will admit,was one of the highlights of my
my uh life.
My life, my life.

SPEAKER_03 (07:22):
Life highlight?
You had a lot of thingshappening.

SPEAKER_01 (07:25):
I'd have, I had, but then that's what because a lot
of growth, maturity happened atAlabama State, second chances
happened at Alabama State.
Um a lot of good things.
Um discovery, you know, ofmyself, um, who I am, and who we
are as a people.
A lot of that happened atAlabama State.
So when I when I get to thecampus, it just makes me feel

(07:48):
some kind of way.
When I wear the shirt, when Ijust talk about it, I feel some
kind of way.
So anytime I can come back, uh,it's great.
Plus, I love, I love the game,and uh because I love our band,
it's just amazing.
You know, um, it's crazy becauseI was in the hallway today.
I had to deliver a paper to akid that was in in school
suspension, and nobody was inthe hallway, and all of a sudden

(08:11):
I just found myself marchinglike I was in the band.
And I was and I was I wasgetting it too like that.
And I the whole time, I waslike, and now I just started
laughing.
I was like, look at me.
Um but I I really enjoyed it.
It was good to see uh, you know,like I say, a lot of my
fraternity brothers, a lot offriends, a lot of um people that

(08:31):
I haven't seen in a while.
Um it's it's all it's alwaysgood to be seen, you know, when
people are genuinely uh excitedto see you, and vice versa, when
I'm genuinely excited to seesome people.
Uh that's good.
Um, of course, we were therewith Kimani.
It's always good to see him.
Um and just to see him how he'smatriculating through it all,

(08:56):
growing and stuff like that.
Uh it's it's very interesting tosee that part.
Um, but the weather was great.
The the tailgate area before thegame was not overcrowded, so the
adjustments that they made wereamazing.
Uh the game was cool, real goodgame.
We, you know, we got a greatquarterback this year.

(09:17):
Last year, we was playing ourfourth stream quarterback, which
was actually a converted widereceiver, so we were struggling.
And so now we're we're you knowdoing a real good job.
Um what else?
What else?
What else?
That's pretty much it.
Um I really, I really enjoyedmyself.
Really enjoyed myself.
Um I could do it again.

(09:38):
You know what I'm saying?
If it was another homecomingnext week, I could do it again.
But I would like to go to, youknow, m more than one game a a
year.
That'd be cool just to pop up.
But, you know, I know because Ithink if we just went to a game,
we wouldn't necessarily have tostay in a hotel.
We could just go down there fora particular game that we knew
like was a good band and a goodteam playing, just dip and come

(09:59):
back.

SPEAKER_04 (10:00):
Yeah, you could do that.

SPEAKER_01 (10:01):
Yeah.
But I really enjoyed it.

SPEAKER_04 (10:03):
Well, very good.

SPEAKER_01 (10:04):
Yep.
So um has anything happened uhgreat for you since we last
recorded besides the homecoming?

SPEAKER_04 (10:16):
I'm still trying, I feel like catch up from
everything from the weekend.
Um this week I got a chance toum speak to some students at
Kennesaw State University justabout some mental health things.
Um, so that was cool to have theopportunity to do some
activities with them.

(10:36):
Um, they are future healtheducators.

SPEAKER_01 (10:40):
That's right, health educators.

SPEAKER_04 (10:41):
So that was cool.
Great people.
Yeah.
So that was nice to um go thereand have an opportunity to Did
you say my husband's a healtheducator?
I didn't.

SPEAKER_01 (10:55):
Good job.

SPEAKER_04 (10:56):
Uh my time was like really short.

SPEAKER_01 (10:58):
Oh, man, that took so long for me to just say that.

SPEAKER_04 (11:01):
No, because normally normally, no, no, normally when
I do my presentations, I alwaystalk about my family and all the
things.
But when she told me I had sucha short amount of time.

SPEAKER_01 (11:14):
Yeah, you don't want to waste that time.

SPEAKER_04 (11:16):
Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_01 (11:18):
That's a long time.

SPEAKER_04 (11:19):
Any hootie-doo.
Um, yeah.
So that was um, that was umsomething different this week
that I got to do um that Ienjoyed.
Okay.
Anything for you?

SPEAKER_01 (11:36):
Um, no, nothing really.
Uh the campus has been quiet.
Uh the gym has been.
It's been different.
I'm seeing a lot of new faces inthe gym.
I think I wonder if they hadsome kind of special or
something going on, but I'mseeing a lot of new faces in the
gym during the time we normallygo.

(11:58):
Um, so that's uh interesting.
And one I'll talk about in myside eye of the week.

SPEAKER_06 (12:04):
But uh oh.

SPEAKER_01 (12:06):
But no, it's it's been good.
My um workouts have been alittle, I don't know.
It's just been a littledifferent.

SPEAKER_04 (12:14):
What you mean?
I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 (12:16):
I just I my energy level is sort of down.

SPEAKER_04 (12:20):
Maybe you got cooties too.

SPEAKER_01 (12:22):
No, I'm good.
And I don't want to do too muchcaffeine.
Mm-hmm.
Um, but I don't know.
But I'm getting in there.
I'm still doing, you know, stilltrying to lift heavy because I'm
trying to go through atransformation, a physical
transformation.
And it's gonna be slowly butsurely, but I'll get there.

(12:42):
Yeah.
Yep.
All right, so let's uh get tosome of the topics today.
I wanna I wanna talk about somethings.
Okay um first, you sent me astory.

SPEAKER_06 (12:58):
I did.

SPEAKER_01 (12:59):
Yep.
And the cool thing about thestory, you know, it's it's now
time coming around for uh whatdo we call that?
Open open enrollment for yourinsurance and stuff like that.
So all of you out there thatare, you know, getting ready to
do your insurance for next year,uh, don't forget it.
Um but it's time for openenrollment.

(13:20):
And um right when you sent thestory, I was looking at, you
know, and it was likebeneficiaries and all that
stuff.
And it was funny that the storyrelated to inheritance or
beneficiary of a person, ahusband and a wife.
And I just thought that wasironic that I was actually
looking at my beneficiary stuffand getting ready to actually

(13:44):
try to see how expensive ourinsurance is gonna be for next
year.
Um, but knock on wood, God'sgonna take care of it, we'll be
straight.
We ain't gotta worry about it.
We won't feel it.
So, did you find the story?

SPEAKER_04 (13:57):
I do, I have it.

SPEAKER_01 (13:58):
All right, go ahead.
Read the story.

SPEAKER_04 (13:59):
So she says, I am 73 and my husband is 76.
We married three years ago.
I moved overseas to be with him.
We are in excellent health, andstatistically, we have another
10 to 15 years of life ahead ofus.

SPEAKER_00 (14:18):
Amen.

SPEAKER_04 (14:19):
I have grown children in their 40s and one
grandchild in the U.S.
from a previous marriage.
My European husband has twoex-wives and no children.

SPEAKER_02 (14:31):
Okay.

SPEAKER_04 (14:31):
My income is almost double what he receives from his
pension, as his former wivestook a considerable share.
So I pay two-thirds of ourliving expenses.
That's okay with me.
It allows us to travel more andhave more fun than we would if
we lived separately.
What bothers me is that myhusband's heir to his main

(14:56):
asset, the home we share, whichis worth approximately$1.8
million, is a cousin's grandsonwho is now 10 years old.
This is on the grounds that thischild alone can carry on the
family name.

SPEAKER_02 (15:14):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (15:14):
My own estate is worth a bit more.
I don't need it for income, andit will all go to my children,
but I have willed my husband thelifelong use of an apartment I
own, which he can rent out foran extra income if I die first.
He will also get half my U.S.
Social Security.

(15:35):
I am not eligible for a widow'spension should he die first.
So if I were widowed, I'd haveto move back to the U.S.
to be closer to my children.
But I feel slighted by beingbypassed with the money going to

(15:55):
the 10-year-old cousin, littlecousin.

SPEAKER_01 (15:58):
Yeah.
Um, she said, should I that's a10-year-old cousin's grandson?

SPEAKER_04 (16:03):
Mm-hmm.
Yes.
And she says, should I justaccept the situation as
reasonable for a late marriage?
Or would an impartial observersuggest an alternative?
It's hard to figure out what is,in parentheses, normal.

SPEAKER_01 (16:22):
I I would say, because I was just thinking
about it.
I understand because he he hasno children of his own.
Um, and he can't say carry onhis name because you know,
passing somebody down a housedon't carry your name on.
Um, but oh yeah, that's true.
If if anything, he should put inthere once she passes away, then

(16:46):
you can receive like she he isthe second beneficiary.
But she cannot sell it.
You know what I mean?
They should it should be likethat, well, she can't sell it,
and then once she passes away,then he gets it.
Because fearfully, if they'reliving in that house, I don't
remember I was trying to recallif they were saying where they

(17:07):
were living.
If they're living in his house,and then when he dies, what's to
say they won't kick her outbecause that's actually the
little kid's house now.

SPEAKER_03 (17:16):
Well, she said that she would have to go, she would
have to go back to the U.S.
with her family.

SPEAKER_01 (17:20):
But I know she said that, but I didn't know if she
she didn't say she would have togo because they wouldn't let her
live there.
Oh, she didn't say that.
Right.

SPEAKER_04 (17:28):
That's what I was Well, I don't know.
I feel like I can see why hehasn't shifted or changed things
because it's been just threeyears.
Yeah.
And he's probably thinking, I'drather my this stay in the
family because this is I don'tknow how long he's had the
house, but the time that he'shad with the house and probably

(17:51):
the time that he's had with hisfamily and invested in his
family far outweighs theinvested time with her.

SPEAKER_01 (17:59):
And I think she's mad too, though, because she
just says she lifelong willedhim the apartment that he could
use for rental.

SPEAKER_05 (18:08):
She just happens to have an extra property.

SPEAKER_01 (18:10):
I know, but I'm just saying of her house.
She's like, but it's will tohim.

SPEAKER_04 (18:15):
But her house is will to her children.

SPEAKER_01 (18:18):
Yes, but the she got another piece of property
though, that she at least willedto him.

SPEAKER_05 (18:23):
Okay.

SPEAKER_01 (18:23):
So I guess she's like saying, well, dang, at
least I could probably getsomething out of it.

SPEAKER_05 (18:28):
Well, that is her chance.

SPEAKER_01 (18:29):
And I I know that's her choice, but I'm saying I
understand where she Iunderstand where both of them
are coming from.
He's saying, well, what's tosay, you're gonna be here, and
she's saying, well, dang, I I,you know, I gave you, I willed
you the apartment for extraincome.

SPEAKER_04 (18:43):
She didn't have to do that.

SPEAKER_01 (18:44):
She didn't.
She she definitely don't likeshe could get the apartment
back.
Yeah.
Right now.

SPEAKER_04 (18:49):
You should take it out and write it out.

SPEAKER_01 (18:51):
And don't even worry about it.
Yeah.
I mean, it's a lot of things shecould do.

SPEAKER_04 (18:55):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (18:56):
But, you know, I I I'll just say I understand where
I understand both of them arecoming from.

SPEAKER_04 (19:01):
But then if we're talking about equivalency, her
apartment is probably not worthas much as his$1.8 million
house.

SPEAKER_01 (19:12):
It might not be.

SPEAKER_04 (19:14):
So that's not even the same.

SPEAKER_01 (19:18):
But well, okay, so what if if we're talking about
equivalency in his death, whatshould he get give her?

SPEAKER_02 (19:31):
Nothing.

SPEAKER_04 (19:32):
I won't say nothing.
I just guess I'm just thinkingit's such a late marriage.
They're so old.
I mean, I don't say old, butthey are old.
They're 70s.

SPEAKER_01 (19:41):
They're seasoned, very seasoned.

SPEAKER_04 (19:42):
They're very seasoned.
So they're so old that they'vehad these lives with, you know,
like even for his um, well, hedoesn't, and the problem also is
that he doesn't have his ownchildren because if he had his
own children, then his housewould be going to his children.
But unfortunately, he doesn'thave children to give it to.

(20:03):
So maybe for him, although wesay it's a cousin's grandson,
maybe they have a closerelationship.

SPEAKER_02 (20:10):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (20:11):
Maybe he treats him like a grandson because he
doesn't have his own kids andnever had grandchildren.
So maybe that's and it neversaid, is he an only child?
Because he didn't, they didn'tmention brothers or sisters for
him, or maybe he outlived hisbrothers or sisters.
So he's this is just what'sleft, you know.

SPEAKER_01 (20:30):
Yeah, because he didn't say nothing about any
niece or nephews.
So that might just be it.

SPEAKER_05 (20:35):
He might just be an only child.

SPEAKER_01 (20:37):
Yeah.
So he got a lot going on too,because he still, like she said,
a lot of his money is splitbetween his two ex-wives.
So they can't even talk aboutequivalency because she already
said her house is worth morethan his.

SPEAKER_04 (20:51):
And she got another property.

SPEAKER_01 (20:53):
Yeah, she got another property, and he he's
not making enough money anywayto do stuff.
So she she's the he she hestruck it rich with her.

SPEAKER_04 (21:02):
Yeah, and the thing about it is if anything ever
happened to her, like he doesn'thave kids to go home to to take
care of him.
And and then on top of that, hegot burned so bad by the two
ex-wives, he's probably like,I'm not getting burned again.

SPEAKER_01 (21:19):
He probably got all kinds of stuff stowed away.

SPEAKER_04 (21:21):
Yeah.
He probably said, I'm notgetting burned again.
No, ma'am.

SPEAKER_01 (21:25):
She should have said, when did he leave the
property to the 10-year-old?
Was it before they got married,before they met, after they
married, or something like that?
You know, just give you a littlemore context.

SPEAKER_04 (21:35):
I understand.
I feel like he he, I don't knowif he was the one that messed up
the marriages or not, but I cansee, I can understand his
reasoning for saying, I'm notleaving women, nothing else,
because most of his money isgone from the state.

SPEAKER_01 (21:53):
She needs to learn now to go ahead and get her
property out of his name, too.

SPEAKER_04 (21:58):
Yeah.
I mean, I think at that age thatthey're at, I mean, of course,
there's less life left to live.

SPEAKER_01 (22:08):
Less in front than what they have in mind.

SPEAKER_04 (22:10):
Mm-hmm.
That just focus on enjoying yourlast days.
Why are you worried about whathe's leaving you?

SPEAKER_01 (22:15):
But you, I mean, you have to, it's well, I don't want
to say what he's leaving you.
Well, you still kind of want toknow what they're doing.

SPEAKER_05 (22:22):
Either anyway.

SPEAKER_01 (22:23):
Yeah, I mean, you still.

SPEAKER_05 (22:24):
I mean, she's gonna be fine anyway.
Why is she worried about whatthat man is gonna leave her?
That's true.
Now, if I was him, I'd be alittle suspicious of that.

SPEAKER_01 (22:30):
If you died, like, I'll be fine without your
insurance.

SPEAKER_06 (22:35):
Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_01 (22:36):
Because I got a you know, a job that I can make it
work.

SPEAKER_04 (22:38):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (22:39):
I'll be fine without your insurance money.

SPEAKER_04 (22:43):
So, I mean It would help, but I'd be fine.
Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (22:48):
And if you can't pay for this house, I'd be okay,
take it.
It's just me.

SPEAKER_04 (22:54):
And and does he have insurance money?
She can go get uh well theyprobably they probably get a um
insurance plan right now andprobably too expensive because
of the city.

SPEAKER_01 (23:02):
She said she don't qualify for his pension or
something like that, right?

SPEAKER_04 (23:05):
Yeah, she doesn't qualify.
Yeah, even see.

SPEAKER_01 (23:08):
She don't get no money actually.

SPEAKER_04 (23:09):
That's why he probably was like, Yeah, I get
married again, because she can'tget my pension.

SPEAKER_01 (23:12):
She can't get nothing.
She don't get my house, shedon't get nothing but my loving.

SPEAKER_04 (23:17):
Yeah.
He probably said, that's what Iwant.
Somebody who just wants me formy loving.

SPEAKER_01 (23:21):
For my loving.
And nothing a little blue pillcan't handle.

SPEAKER_04 (23:25):
And I bet we might go check on them right now.
They may not be together becauseif he knew she wrote this letter
worried about what he leavingher.

SPEAKER_01 (23:31):
He might be dead.

SPEAKER_04 (23:32):
He probab Oh no.

SPEAKER_01 (23:36):
I'm just saying.

SPEAKER_04 (23:37):
They might be.

SPEAKER_01 (23:39):
It might be.
The measles coming back.
So they might get him.

SPEAKER_04 (23:45):
It might get him.

SPEAKER_01 (23:46):
That measles jump on him, boy.
It's oath.

SPEAKER_04 (23:48):
That's it.
When he's 76.

SPEAKER_01 (23:50):
Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_04 (23:51):
You a goner.

SPEAKER_01 (23:52):
That's right.
But I'm going to be around for along time, though.

SPEAKER_04 (23:57):
Better not get that measles thing.

SPEAKER_01 (23:58):
Oh no, I'm be like the Bible.
Like them people in the Bible,400, 500 years old.

SPEAKER_04 (24:03):
Okay.
400, 500 years old.

SPEAKER_01 (24:06):
I'm going to be around a long time.
You're going to be like, oh myGod.
Well, no, you ain't going to benothing.
You're going to be.
I'm going to be around for along time.

SPEAKER_04 (24:14):
All right, child.

SPEAKER_01 (24:15):
Watch.

SPEAKER_04 (24:16):
Okay.

SPEAKER_01 (24:17):
All right.
Let's uh what else you got?
Give me another.
We got some stories over there.
Give me a let's answer aquestion.

SPEAKER_04 (24:22):
You want to answer a question?
I'll say, I don't have any morestories.
I just thought that story wasvery interesting, but I do have
a question.

SPEAKER_01 (24:28):
Yes, I want to answer a question.

SPEAKER_04 (24:30):
Okay.
Would is a would you rather?

SPEAKER_01 (24:34):
I love would you rather.

SPEAKER_04 (24:36):
Would you rather fight one horse-sized duck or
100 duck-sized horses?

SPEAKER_01 (24:50):
A horse-sized duck.

SPEAKER_04 (24:53):
And do I trust you to have my back in this battle?
I don't know why they're askingthat.

unknown (25:00):
Because I don't.

SPEAKER_01 (25:01):
You don't trust God is so good.
Every time she started talkingout of her neck, then all of a
sudden he makes her cough.
Thank you, Dod.
I'm sorry for coughing, y'all.
Exactly.

SPEAKER_04 (25:12):
I do not want to be sad.

SPEAKER_01 (25:13):
That's why you need to act right.
You need to act right.

unknown (25:16):
Help me cheese.

SPEAKER_01 (25:17):
But um because a hundred duck-sized horses.

SPEAKER_04 (25:23):
Yes.
Or one horse-sized duck.

SPEAKER_01 (25:28):
I'll take the horse-side, one horse-sized
duck.
Yeah.
Cause I I'll poke his eyes outfirst.

SPEAKER_04 (25:36):
Oh, well, you can still reach him, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (25:38):
Yeah, I'll poke his eyes out.
Then when I poke his eyes out,then he's lost.
Then I'll it'll give me theopportunity to like try to break
his leg or something, or, youknow, get on him.
And if I get on his neck, I'mgonna choke him.
I'm gonna choke.
He might fly though.
I walk around and I'll I'llsnatch a feather off of his wing
every chance.

(25:58):
So he can't really see.
So I pull a feather.
And I pull it and I keep pullingfeathers till he can't fly.
You know, so once he once allhis wing feathers are off, then
I got him.
Then I get on his neck and Ichoke him out.
I choke him out.

SPEAKER_04 (26:11):
You're gonna choke him out though.

SPEAKER_01 (26:12):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (26:13):
You can choke out a horse-sized duck.

SPEAKER_01 (26:16):
Yes.
You'd be surprised what what youcould do when you have to.
But a whole like a a duck.

SPEAKER_04 (26:24):
Don't they little heads go like.

SPEAKER_01 (26:26):
I mean, they could do all kinds of stuff.
They can reach back behind andjust You get up just right.
You get him just right up here,and he can't do nothing.
Right that way, or you can justgo front and back like that.
And I just hold on till he dies.
I will.

SPEAKER_04 (26:42):
I think I do a hundred size.
I mean, a hundred duck sizehorses.
Cause I just kick them likesoccer balls.

SPEAKER_01 (26:50):
You gotta kick all them, you gotta kick them
several times.

SPEAKER_04 (26:54):
Well, I just kicked it.

SPEAKER_01 (26:55):
Several, several times.
I'll be a kicking here well.

SPEAKER_04 (26:57):
I'll be a kicking fool.

SPEAKER_01 (26:59):
Yeah, you will be.
And they can kick too.
Just think no little horses kickyou in your shin.
Oh, that might hurt real bad.
Or your little ankle bone.
Oh.
Or they just find their pants onyour toes.
No, I stomp them.
Yeah, you could.
You could stomp.
You could get quite a bit ofthem.

SPEAKER_04 (27:18):
I can get at least at least 50 of them.

SPEAKER_01 (27:21):
You kick them just right, you could probably
rupture a spleen or somethinglike that to break the neck.
Yeah, you can get it.

SPEAKER_04 (27:27):
I feel I will feel at least I feel more
accomplished.
Because once you see one kind offly, you feel like I got
something.
But you're gonna have to feellike.
They ain't gonna fly.
No, I mean fly like kick them.

SPEAKER_01 (27:39):
Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (27:40):
But with the with the horse duck, you're gonna,
it's gonna be a minute.
It's almost like, what was thatvideo game where you had to keep
punching and punching andpunching?
Mike Tyson punching andpunching.
No, um not punch out.
Like you was fighting likemonster-looking things.

SPEAKER_01 (28:00):
I don't know.

SPEAKER_04 (28:01):
Maybe more to combat is what I'm thinking of.

SPEAKER_01 (28:04):
Maybe so.

SPEAKER_04 (28:04):
But you have to keep on going and you can hit them,
and they still like you gottaget so many hits.
And that's how it would be withthe with the big old duck.
Maybe you get them down or maybeyou won't.
And in the end, will it be you?

SPEAKER_01 (28:20):
Oh, I I get some motor oil and pour on them.
Because you know how them ducks,when they get that oil like in
the ocean and stuff, they can'tdo that.

SPEAKER_04 (28:27):
They can't do nothing.

SPEAKER_01 (28:28):
They can't do nothing.

SPEAKER_04 (28:29):
You're gonna well, you're gonna need a lot of them.

SPEAKER_01 (28:31):
And I just pour the oil on her, just sit back, let
them die.
Ain't he got to fight them.

SPEAKER_04 (28:35):
That's a good, that's a good idea.

SPEAKER_01 (28:38):
And just sit there and watch them and just sit
there in a chair and just belike smiling at them.

SPEAKER_04 (28:42):
That's a good idea.

SPEAKER_01 (28:43):
Look at you.
You done ducked up now.

SPEAKER_04 (28:45):
But they can still walk, can't they?
They can't fly, but they canstill.

SPEAKER_06 (28:49):
He might not be able to walk.
He might be slippery.
Oh my goodness.
I don't know.
I don't know about that.
Yep.
Mm-mm.
What else you got?
That's a weird question.

SPEAKER_04 (29:03):
Um, what a bit-Well, hold on.

SPEAKER_01 (29:04):
You said I won't have your back.
If you fighting them 100%.

SPEAKER_04 (29:08):
That's like a monster.

SPEAKER_01 (29:09):
Now, if the one little hundred You wouldn't have
my back on a big monster horseor duck, but I would have your
back.

SPEAKER_04 (29:16):
I would.
No, I would I probably would bescared.
I'm sorry.
I'm not gonna lie.
I would be scared of ahorse-sized duck.
That's just weird.

SPEAKER_01 (29:25):
Yeah, I would I would get them.

SPEAKER_04 (29:27):
Now I would help you with the little horsey things.
Cause that is less intimidating.

SPEAKER_01 (29:33):
I wonder if you could ring their necks easy,
like you could ring them.
Oh, just pick them up and go andjust snap and pull it off like
this.
Yeah.

unknown (29:40):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (29:41):
I could do that.
Yeah, see?

SPEAKER_05 (29:43):
We'll be more successful with that than trying
to beat up a big old duck.

SPEAKER_01 (29:46):
Grab them by the hind legs and hit them on the
ground real hard.
Like that.
Two at a time.

SPEAKER_04 (29:51):
Hit them together.
Take that and then go like this.

SPEAKER_01 (29:54):
Yeah.
Yeah, you can get them.

SPEAKER_04 (29:57):
See?
That's a better idea.
Mm-hmm.
Than trying to beat up a bigmonster duck.

SPEAKER_01 (30:03):
Yeah, probably so.
Regardless, I'm gonna fight tothe end.

SPEAKER_04 (30:08):
I mean, I guess I'll have to.

SPEAKER_01 (30:10):
Right.

SPEAKER_04 (30:11):
If I wanna live.

unknown (30:14):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (30:14):
That's just like if I fell, I used to fell off a
building, I would flap my arms.
Cause you never know.

SPEAKER_04 (30:22):
You'll look.

SPEAKER_01 (30:24):
You never know.
I'm gonna fight to the end.

SPEAKER_04 (30:27):
Child, that is gonna be.

SPEAKER_01 (30:28):
I'm gonna flap my arms everything.

SPEAKER_04 (30:30):
You ain't gonna flap them long.
Because once gravity kicks in,you are a goner.

SPEAKER_01 (30:35):
I'ma flap them.

SPEAKER_04 (30:37):
Red pull.
It gives you wings.

SPEAKER_01 (30:40):
Yep.
And I'm gonna say like that.
You never know because it mightmake you stop.
Who knows?
I'm gonna try everything underthe book.
Flap.
I'm gonna go.
I'm gonna do everything I canfalling off that building to see
if I can stop.

SPEAKER_04 (30:58):
Good luck with that.

SPEAKER_01 (30:59):
Yep.

SPEAKER_04 (31:00):
Good luck.
Okay, here's a serious powerfulquestion.
What advice would you give toyoung couples about balancing
family, career, and self-care?

SPEAKER_01 (31:18):
Um the main thing is you you do have to take care of
yourself.
You you have to I would say youare a priority, but you're not
um the only priority.
You know what I mean?
Like if you're not a healthyperson and if you're not

(31:40):
mentally stable, you can'tprovide anything to your family.
You you can't you can't be therefor them.
But at the same time, you can'tjust say, well, I'm gonna only
work on me, and now you're stillneglecting everything around
you.
Um it's a uh, it's it's not aneven distribution either.

(32:03):
You know, there's gonna be timeswhere you're gonna give more to
yourself than you'll give toyour family, and then there's
gonna be times you give more toyour family than to yourself.
You have to pay attention toeverything.
Treat it like a, you know, whenyou go to those restaurants and
you everything is on, like it'sa family-style dinner and they
have that revolving tape.

SPEAKER_05 (32:25):
Like the chocolate.
Yeah, like the age.

SPEAKER_01 (32:26):
Uh-huh.
And so you kind of gotta yougotta nibble a little bit off of
this, turn around, nibble alittle bit off of that, you
know, but at the same time, yougotta make sure you're paying
attention to what's getting thisattention and what's not getting
the attention.
Um man.
If you go into a relationship, afamily, or anything, knowing

(32:50):
that where you will be down theroad is not where you are now,
um, I think that's motivatingfor them.
You know?
Um and don't think of it as anegative way, think of it as a
positive way.
So it's it's just like sayingthat you you you will get

(33:10):
better.
You will get better at being aparent, you'll get better at
being a a uh a spouse, you'llget better at being yourself.
So I think that's very importantto know too, that where you are
right now is not where you'regonna be five years from now if
you work at it.

SPEAKER_04 (33:27):
Yeah, I was gonna say, yes.
That you have to also put in thework and then acknowledge um and
reflect what adjustments need tobe made.
Um not put the fault on others.
Yeah.
But what can you do?

(33:48):
Yeah, what can you do?

SPEAKER_01 (33:51):
Yeah, it's um I know I always if I'm ever doing
anything wrong, it's neverintentional.
Like, I do not go out and say,I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna
make this person mad today.
I'm gonna it's not intentionalfor me.
That's it's just not in me to dothat.
Like, even if I try, I'll feelsome type of way.

(34:14):
So I can't do it.
Um, and so I'm always trying towork on myself.
You know what I mean?
Because I know if if if I'mbetter and I know the love I
have for my family, you know, myfriends, my, you know, the just
people that are around me, Iknow that that will elevate too.

(34:38):
Because I'm better.
You know what I'm saying?
And my intentions, I I mean wellby my intentions.
So the better I get in thatarea, I can't help but to
elevate everything else aroundme.

SPEAKER_04 (34:50):
I like that you said intention because I think that's
what people have to be mindfulof.
That's a part of reflection too,because you have to to you do
have to ask yourself what wasyour true intention behind that
choice that you made?
What why did you make thatchoice?
Why did you decide?
What am I why did you decide toum do whatever that thing was

(35:15):
and then uh see did you did youreally have true good intentions
so that you can um you knowadjust as necessary or repair
whatever um harm was causedthrough that um decision that
was made.
I think when it comes tobalancing all the things family,

(35:40):
work, self-care, um if you aremarried or young oh yeah, we
were talking about a youngcouple, right?
Um the idea of everybody giventheir equal equal parts at the

(36:01):
same time, um I don't wanna sayI don't say it's not
appropriate.
So like you need to have apartner that can fill in when
you aren't able to give your,you know, so it may be a time

(36:22):
where they're given 80 andyou're given 20, depending upon
um what's happening um in theirlife, and then vice versa.
Um, but it should, you know,balanced out, it shouldn't all
be on one person.
But the idea of everything beingequal, like there are times
where it will be equal, butthere are times where it won't

(36:43):
be equal.
But the idea is we're a team.
So what are we doing to get thethings done that need to get
done?
What are we doing to, in regardsto caring for our children, are
we working together to get thatthing done when it comes to our
own relationship?

(37:05):
What are we doing together toget that done?
I think some people get socaught up on things being fair
and that sort of thing, yeah,that they lose the fact that um
it's not gonna always be that50-50.

SPEAKER_02 (37:20):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (37:21):
And then when it comes to self-care, I think
sometimes in our world we thinkof elaborate things, and
self-care does not have to be aspa day.
It doesn't have to be, you know,some big elaborate playing
girls' weekend, um, that sort ofthing.
Self-care could be that you goto she does this every time,

(37:45):
y'all.
Every single time she does that.
She does this.
She's like a child.
You're like a child, littlegirl.

SPEAKER_01 (37:56):
Yep.

SPEAKER_04 (37:57):
Anyways, um, so self-care doesn't have to be
anything elaborate.
Self-care could mean um maybeyou just take some time and you
go to um take some time and goto Starbucks, and maybe you just
have drink your coffee and reada book or um scroll through your

(38:19):
phone and TikTok while you arejust at Starbucks by yourself.
Um, whatever your thing is, thatyou're able to do that.
Maybe it means that you takeyourself on a walk with whatever
music you want, and that's whatyou give yourself.
Um, I mean, so I think self-careis just that your thing, but it
doesn't have to be anythingelaborate or expensive.
I think we get caught up onthat.

(38:40):
Um, that we don't take care ofourselves in that in because we
think it has to be somethinghuge or or big.

SPEAKER_01 (38:51):
And I think a lot of people are guilt or feel guilty
about being taking time forthemselves.

SPEAKER_04 (38:57):
Yeah, I I think that's so because I will say I
remember when the boys were inum daycare.

SPEAKER_01 (39:05):
You mentioned that before, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (39:06):
When the boys were in daycare, I knew people that
would get off of work, go home,stay home, and then daycare
closed at six, they go to pickup their kids at 5.55.
And to me, I felt so bad aboutlike doing that because they've
been at daycare all day.

SPEAKER_02 (39:25):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (39:26):
So for me, when I got off of work, I went to go
get them um because they theyhad been there all day.
Um, sometimes, like we had thethe membership at um 24-hour
fitness.

SPEAKER_01 (39:41):
No, no, LA Fitness.

SPEAKER_04 (39:42):
LA Fitness.
And so they had the Kid KidsClub or whatever that's called.
And so I would go and get themfrom the daycare and take them
to the kids' club because it'sjust a different atmosphere.
It's fun, it's not, it's notreally rules in there.
Um I mean, there are rules, butyou know, it's just it's not
structured.

(40:02):
It's just really they have agood time.
So give them a differentatmosphere to be there because
oftentimes when I tell them,come go get them, they're like,
We're not ready.
And I was like, it's time to go.
Um, so trying to do things likethat.
So sometimes it is okay if youneed to just take some time and
not get them until 555.

(40:23):
But I just don't feel like thatshould be every day.

SPEAKER_02 (40:26):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (40:27):
So, but sometimes you do need to take that, um,
take that time just for yourselfand not feel um guilty about it.
And then sometimes I think alsowith balancing, um, if it means
that you know what, I don'treally want us to eat McDonald's
today, but I just this is Ireally just need a break from

(40:52):
cooking today.
And you go get the McDonald'sand it's fine.
Like some of those things arethings to me that are self-care.
Because if you are just tiredand the idea of thinking about
going to grocery store, cookingand doing all things, it's okay
if you have one kind ofunhealthy meal.
Um, because that is to meself-care too, because you're

(41:13):
taking care of yourself, becausemaybe that one meal could just
push you over the edge.
I mean, because you know, youyou're you just need a break.
So I think also communicationwith your partner is important
too, that y'all have a way tocommunicate your what you need.

(41:33):
I think some people, when theyget into relationships, they
think people should just know.
They ought to know.
I shouldn't have to tell them.
No, they should not know.
Because you both are twodifferent individuals.
Um, and you can't be mad if youdidn't tell them what you needed

(41:56):
or what you wanted.

SPEAKER_01 (41:59):
Yeah.
But we see that, we see that.
I mean, we went through a phaseof that, you know, and I was
like, I don't know.
Like, you gotta tell me, youknow, what it is.
I'm I'm I'm trying.
And if I knew, I would do betterbecause I don't want to to have

(42:22):
you upset.
I don't want to have you mad atme.
You know, and and you know, wewent through a phase like that.
He was like, you know what?
Yeah, he does, he is, he is veryintentional in what he's doing
for us and for his family.
And sometimes we do fall off.
Sometimes we need a littlereminder, don't forget, but not
the fact that, you know, we'rewe're always assuming that one

(42:48):
um already knows or that we likeit this way, and then we really
don't, because we're learningeach other in this process of
marriage.
You know, um, you know,especially earlier on, you know,
we think about it.
Every year is a new year we'venever um seen before.
Right.

(43:08):
Every day is a new day we'venever seen, you know.
Uh every new accomplishmentcomes, every new setback is
something we've neverexperienced before.

SPEAKER_04 (43:18):
New jobs for us, new cities.

SPEAKER_01 (43:20):
Right.
And so these are things that wehave to um adjust to, you know,
to together.
Um but yeah.
All right, let's go to the nextone.

SPEAKER_04 (43:31):
Okay.

SPEAKER_01 (43:31):
We could talk about this all day.

SPEAKER_04 (43:34):
Yeah, but you need to ask for what you want.
Um I had that conversation withmy mama today.
She says, I wish your daddy justwould, he's just never really
been romantic.
I said, Well, did you tell himwhat you wanted?

SPEAKER_02 (43:44):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (43:45):
Because his daddy wasn't romantic.

SPEAKER_02 (43:47):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (43:48):
So oftentimes, I mean, you can only be what you
saw.
I mean, so I said, So you shouldhave told him what you wanted.
So she's like, Yeah, you'reright.

SPEAKER_01 (43:59):
And and one thing on that, too, is this what women
don't understand about mensometimes is like we don't know
what y'all are feeling.
There are romantic phases thaty'all feel based off of uh based
off of your hormones, based offof uh something you saw.

(44:23):
And you know, it's like, oh,that is still amazing, you know,
and it has changed everything.
So everything we've done justnow has been wrong.
I'm like, what?
It had nothing to do with me.
It was something that you sawthat you found was so cute and
it's so beautiful, and it's newto us.
Let us know, you know.
If you give us 10 things thatyou say, oh, this is so these

(44:45):
are things that I like.
And then next thing you know, ifhe never acts upon those things,
then yes, he's just not doingright.
But if you give him those thingsand then let him in time act
upon them, you know, that's justhow men operate.
You know.
Like we had a conversation aboutsomebody uh a while ago about a

(45:07):
couple was um asking the otherone about uh marriage, you know,
an old couple that we knew.
They was asking about ummarriage, and he kept asking
what what kind of proposal youlike.
Oh, yeah.
What kind of engagement youlike.
And we was like, why?
You know, but you know, as men,we kind of want to get it right,

(45:31):
that perfect thing, and we neverknow, you know, um what you're
thinking.
You know, so some people say,well, it takes away the
spontaneity of it all.

SPEAKER_04 (45:39):
But then also we just want to make sure we're I
guess you have to also knowyou're who the person is you're
doing it for.

SPEAKER_01 (45:45):
Yeah.
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (45:46):
So as well.
All right.
So this is just a lightheartedquestion.
Who spends the most money onunnecessary things in your
household?
And what's the last ridiculousthing you bought?

SPEAKER_01 (46:00):
I know you'll say it's me, but I oh I don't say
it's ridiculous because I I havea use.
I have a want for it.
You know what I'm saying?
So oh, be careful, Cinnabon.
Um, I think that's a matter ofopinion.
You know, and you could say it'sme, that's fine.

(46:22):
But then I could take away my mesaying what I don't do anything
intentional to do wrong orhurtful.
Again, I'd be like, you knowwhat?
Well, what about what you justbought?
God has got me again.
What about what you bought?
I think it was useless.

SPEAKER_04 (46:40):
But I don't think it's useless, but there are just
things that um They have norhyme or reason to you why I
bought it.

SPEAKER_01 (46:49):
And then you'd be like, What do you need that for?

SPEAKER_04 (46:51):
Yes.

SPEAKER_01 (46:52):
Sometimes I want it.

SPEAKER_04 (46:54):
Yeah, quite often.
If y'all probably looked at ourat our Amazon uh past orders,
you'd be like, what was thatfor?
And why did he buy that?
And why he got that?
He is a very random shopper.
And sometimes when we go places,he thinks I'm being agitated or

(47:18):
whatever.
I'll be trying to get him out ofaisles because he we will end up
with the whole store because hefinds a need for a lot of
things.

SPEAKER_01 (47:32):
I'm very creative.
My mindset, what you ain't goingto know because you're gonna
bark and tell me to tell you.

SPEAKER_04 (47:38):
Yeah, she is.

SPEAKER_01 (47:38):
So I'm very creative in in my mind, and I can always
see something like, oh, I can dosomething good with this.
That's why I'll be a greatcontestant on Survivor, because
I'll find something and find ause out of it so fast that I'll
be all the way to the prize.

SPEAKER_04 (47:55):
Like, and then we get multiples of things.
I think I think he has threeguitars.

SPEAKER_01 (48:05):
Only well, I have two that I purchased, and then I
confiscated the voice becausethey're not using it.

SPEAKER_04 (48:12):
He has three guitars, and he can pluck.
I mean, I'm not gonna say play,he can pluck it.

SPEAKER_01 (48:23):
I was doing very well at one point, and then I
moved to something else.
And I'm undiagnosed with ADHD, Iguess I should say, huh?

SPEAKER_04 (48:34):
Yeah, and then we have these um what's those big
giant flutes things called?
I'm looking at it, y'all.

SPEAKER_01 (48:42):
Those uh I am sound flutes, they're like uh
meditative flutes.

SPEAKER_04 (48:47):
He has those.

SPEAKER_01 (48:49):
Um I play uh the black one I play.
I'm telling y'all this one I'mstill because it's it's a lot of
air.

SPEAKER_04 (48:57):
We could have a mighty, mighty good garage sale.
Oh, because I mean, we got alittle bit of everything.

SPEAKER_01 (49:12):
That's what makes me so unique, is that I am a person
of many likes, and I can have aconversation with anyone about
anything.

SPEAKER_04 (49:23):
He can.
And I was gonna share one morething, but it's my side eye.
So I have to save it for theside.

SPEAKER_01 (49:31):
I could be an old boredom Jordan, but I won't be.
But I could be.
I could probably be a boardedJordan for like a year.
Yeah.
She would hate that.

SPEAKER_04 (49:42):
Okay, wait.
Here's another thing.

SPEAKER_06 (49:45):
Nothing.
Go ahead, keep going.

SPEAKER_04 (49:47):
It's not a balt thing.

SPEAKER_06 (49:49):
Well, keep going.

SPEAKER_04 (49:50):
It's just a part of your little ADHD mind.
Go ahead.
But this has been since then wedated.
I remember when I went to yourapartment and he just like
stacks of things.

SPEAKER_01 (50:01):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (50:02):
He has just stacks of things and I uh, you know,
like magazines or books or justdifferent things.
And I noticed that he hadstacks, and I was like, what?
What is with this stack thing?
And I didn't say anything.
I thought maybe he just didn'thave enough storage or that's
too um or whatever.
Uh-huh.

(50:23):
We still are battling thestacks, and I'll buy a cute
little basket for the stacks.
And then I look next to mylittle basket, and a new stack
has started.

SPEAKER_01 (50:36):
That means I need another basket.

SPEAKER_04 (50:38):
Oh no, then we wouldn't have any bedroom
because the bedroom would justbe filled.

SPEAKER_01 (50:44):
I need another basket.

SPEAKER_04 (50:46):
I could find a way to organize the stacks that
would make me.
What's the lady name?

SPEAKER_01 (50:50):
Susie Jean?
The one on um.

SPEAKER_04 (50:53):
It'd be fine because Susie could come do it, but then
when she leaves, where wherewould the stacks go?
It'd be different.
I don't know, child, but thoselittle stacks and um yeah, those
little stacks.
I wish we could do somethingabout the little stacks.
And he claims he knowseverything that's in those

(51:15):
stacks.

SPEAKER_01 (51:16):
Pretty much.
Well, I did before COVID.
Now with my brain.
That's your story.

SPEAKER_04 (51:22):
See, that's what he says.
He has brain fog, but then lastweek he can remember every
episode of You know it'sremember every episode of
Abbott.
Word for word.

SPEAKER_01 (51:34):
You got brain fog too?

SPEAKER_04 (51:36):
I do.
I didn't say that I didn't.

SPEAKER_01 (51:38):
Well, I said that I did, and then you don't want me
to have it.

SPEAKER_04 (51:43):
I think it's called selective brain fog.

SPEAKER_01 (51:47):
Well, selective brain fog.

SPEAKER_04 (51:49):
No, he has brain fog.
Maybe it comes with old age.

SPEAKER_01 (51:53):
It might be true too.

SPEAKER_04 (51:55):
Maybe that's what it is.
Okay.
Last question.

SPEAKER_01 (52:00):
Okay.

SPEAKER_04 (52:01):
If someone gave you a million dollars.
Ooh, wait.
Okay, no.
If someone gives you a milliondollars, but you had to spend it
in twenty-four hours, what wouldyou do?

(52:24):
A million dollars in twenty-fourhours.
Whoa.

SPEAKER_01 (52:29):
A million dollars in twenty four hours.

SPEAKER_04 (52:32):
I don't think that's too hard to spend.

SPEAKER_01 (52:34):
I mean, it's not, I would I would probably buy some
land.

SPEAKER_03 (52:39):
Okay.

SPEAKER_01 (52:40):
Um yeah, I would buy a nice flat piece of land with
uh trees on it.
So I could uh especially outhere in Georgia, because then I
could sell the trees, the pinetrees, and um at least lease
that part to a uh a company thatway I could make money off of

(53:03):
that.
And um if it was kind of realrural, I could lease the other
part of it to maybe a coupleacres to like some kind of farm,
something like that.
But yeah, for a million dollars,I would buy me a nice, nice
piece of land that I can makemoney off of.
Yeah.
Cause then we can get our housebuilt on that.

(53:25):
My compound.
Eventually get my compoundbuilt.
Because then we can sell thishouse.

SPEAKER_04 (53:30):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (53:31):
And we we'll build us a ranch out there.

SPEAKER_04 (53:34):
I think I take, well, my million, I take half of
it and invest it in a highinterest IRA so that I could
have money after the day.
And if I could, if they said youcould, that's what I would do.
And then I think the housingmarket is so crazy right now.

(54:00):
But maybe I would, maybe Iwould.
Maybe I would.

SPEAKER_01 (54:05):
You only got$500,000 left, you're only gonna be able
to get a three-bedroom.

SPEAKER_06 (54:09):
I mean.
Yeah.
Yeah.
You're only gonna be able to geta three-bedroom somewhere.

SPEAKER_04 (54:16):
But I could have a good down payment on something.
So a good down payment on a on aon a dream home.

SPEAKER_01 (54:25):
And sell this one.
Pay this off and then get theequity out out of what we got.

SPEAKER_04 (54:29):
And then get a good down payment on a dream home.
Or pay a good m part portion ofit.

SPEAKER_01 (54:36):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (54:36):
That's it.

SPEAKER_01 (54:37):
Anything you can get yourself back to, if you can get
yourself back to what you'repaying now.
You know what I'm saying?
With with all the extra moneyfor the down payments and stuff
like that, oh, you'll be ingreat shape.

SPEAKER_04 (54:47):
Yeah.
And then I have money that I'mmaking money off the intr I get
something every year off myinterest of money invested.
Be doing real good.

SPEAKER_02 (54:56):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (54:57):
That's what I would do.

SPEAKER_01 (55:00):
Sounds like a good plan, man.

unknown (55:02):
Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_01 (55:03):
Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_04 (55:04):
That's what I would do.

SPEAKER_01 (55:06):
Ain't nothing wrong with doing that.
And you get your cleaningpeople?
Of course.
Keep them on uh what were wedoing before?

SPEAKER_04 (55:18):
Once a month?

SPEAKER_01 (55:18):
Once a month.
So how how often do you getthem?

SPEAKER_04 (55:20):
I still do once a month.
Okay.
We're not dirty like that.
Once a month is plenty.

SPEAKER_01 (55:27):
Yeah.
Yeah.
That was once a month.
I thought it was coming a littleearly, didn't it?
I mean, somewhere.

SPEAKER_04 (55:32):
Just once a month.

SPEAKER_01 (55:33):
They was doing a good job.
We weren't dirty at all becauseour house was looking, well, it
was looking, it looks good now,but still.
We just come home, had thatlook.
It was like the grandma when shecame in on Friday, but instead
of smelling that um that stuff,that sex, we were smelling that

(55:53):
that pledge.

SPEAKER_04 (55:54):
Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_01 (55:55):
That good Clorox clean.
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (55:58):
Yeah.
Once a month is good for me.

SPEAKER_01 (56:00):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 (56:01):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (56:01):
The people clean the people we had in California were
amazing.
The one that washed the clothesand everything.

SPEAKER_04 (56:06):
Oh, yes.

SPEAKER_01 (56:06):
Our California people were so good.
Them juggers were amazing.

SPEAKER_04 (56:10):
They were so amazing.
Yeah, I like them a lot.
They were great.

SPEAKER_01 (56:15):
They were amazing.
All right.
So let's move on.
This is short.
This week is going to be shortepisodes.
I'm sorry I keep clearing mythroat, y'all.
It's water right there.
You want to drink some?
This one's new.

SPEAKER_04 (56:26):
Okay, give me that one.

SPEAKER_01 (56:27):
Um move on to side eye of the week.
Okay.

SPEAKER_04 (56:32):
You doing yours first because you seem ready.

SPEAKER_01 (56:34):
No, I'll do mine first because you're over there
trying to drink your water.
And uh, so that means you'regonna be sounding like Cinnabon
tonight in that snoring.

SPEAKER_04 (56:42):
Yes, and I apologize in advance.

SPEAKER_01 (56:46):
It's a good thing I'm recording with my phone
because I would play it for thepeople.
I would definitely play it forthe people.
I recorded you the other night.
Oh my Lord.

SPEAKER_04 (56:57):
Anyways, tell your doggone side eye for the week.

SPEAKER_01 (57:01):
You about to be my side eye.
All right, anyway, my side eyefor the week.
All right, like I said, there'sa lot of new people coming to
the gym.
And so I I had my headphones on.
The the you know, my AirPods.
And I have them on noisecanceling.
And all of a sudden you hearsome I was like, what in the

(57:27):
world?
I'm like, what's going on?
So I finished my cardio, andit's time for me to go do legs.
So I walk over there towardswhere the uh the uh boxing stuff
is.
And old buddy and us just do ashort little round guy, just

(57:48):
boxing, you know.
His hands alright, they don'tlook like all that, like the way
he sounds.
Just hitting it.
Every tap, he gotta be loud.
Like it as if he's at his ownpersonal gym.
It was getting to the pointwhere even the trainers were
looking at each other and theywas like, you know.

(58:08):
Doing too much.
Yeah, and so the the last fewdays, he's been having a friend
that went, and they dressed justalike.
They got the shorts on, theblack leggings underneath, the
tights.
Um, but it looked like the samefit.
Watching?
No, like the same fit.
Oh, every day they got on thesame phone.

(58:28):
It probably doesn't.
I'm gonna check.
And I said, Yeah, it looks likeunless he got an Amazon pack of
six, everything looks the same.
And he and the night he gotbuddy in there working out, and
you can tell they ain't becausethey're not that strong.
And when he's doing certainstuff, he's like proper form.
You know, I'm a form person.
Like, that's a pet peeve ifyou're not doing working out

(58:49):
with proper form.
That really, you know, gets meall jacked up.

SPEAKER_04 (58:53):
Ties your high.

SPEAKER_01 (58:54):
Yeah, it ties my high.
And so he was just constantlyjust working out wrong.
So then he gets into the intothe uh sauna, and normally when
I get into the sauna, I meditatefor 10 minutes.

SPEAKER_04 (59:05):
Oh, he got in the sauna.

SPEAKER_01 (59:06):
Yeah, I meditate for 10 minutes, and then so he was
in there, he meditating after I,because after I got meditated, I
opened my eye, I was like, oh,buddy in here.
He over there sitting, and youknow, I sit with my men in my
meditative pose, and he'ssitting in a meditative pose,
and he he meditated for probablyabout four more minutes, and
then all of a sudden, he'ssitting down boxing.

(59:31):
I said, bro, I'm just lookinglike You just meditating.
Right.
I'm like, chill out.
Like, what if what if I want tomeditate again?
What you gonna do?
And so he just just just toomuch, he's just doing too much
in the gym, man.
So I hope that he gets theresults he's looking for.
You know, I'm praying for him,praying for the attention that

(59:52):
he he wants and all that stuff.
But uh, yeah, he really got alittle side eye of me.
Yeah, little billy blanks.

SPEAKER_04 (01:00:00):
Billy Blank.

SPEAKER_01 (01:00:01):
Yeah.
If you wearing them sameclothes, or they're Billy
Stanks.
That's what you my bad.
All right.
Go ahead.
What's your side?
Get back over here.

SPEAKER_04 (01:00:12):
Well, my side eye kind of goes with the buying re
uh excessive things.

SPEAKER_01 (01:00:22):
Yeah, go ahead.

SPEAKER_04 (01:00:23):
It ain't really excessive, but it's funny to me.

SPEAKER_02 (01:00:26):
Go ahead.

SPEAKER_04 (01:00:27):
So this side eye goes to the man sitting to my
left and also a man sitting inDothan, Alabama.
His name is Jenaski.
So first the cologne came thatJanasky put him on.
Put them on too.

(01:00:48):
Now that one, it did smell goodbecause every time we went
somewhere, somebody would alwayssay, it's almost like I don't
know if y'all seen the TikTokswhere people go by and say, mmm,
you smell good.
What you got on?
But it's staged.
Maybe they ain't staged.
Because when we go places thatone, men, women, everybody, you

(01:01:10):
smell good.
What's that cologne?
But honey.
After that one, Amazon, I said,another cologne.
Oh, yeah.
Janaski told me about this onetoo.
He said this one smelled realgood.
Talking about the cafeterialadies at his school.
Cafeteria ladies at uh Jenaskischool.

SPEAKER_01 (01:01:32):
They want to give him free biscuits.

SPEAKER_04 (01:01:34):
They want to give him free biscuits, free
breakfast, free lunch.
Because he be smelling so good.
Then here come, here come umAmazon again.
Another one.
Oh yeah, Janaski.
So I said, what goodnessgracious.

SPEAKER_01 (01:01:54):
Because look, one quick thing.
When I when we, you know, whenyou buy me cologne, remember you
buy Christmas, it would beexpensive.
It would be like$100.
And my cologne lasts forever.

SPEAKER_04 (01:02:05):
Yeah.
They do last forever.

SPEAKER_01 (01:02:07):
Like I have bottled that creep.
That's quite a lot.
Yeah, that's in like what?
More than five years, somecologne that I have.
And so it's so expensive.
But this stuff Janaski showedme, it was like$25,$35.
And I'm like, oh my God.
And the scent really lingers andstays on you.
You know what I'm saying?
And it's not overpowering.

(01:02:29):
Like I like a good smell, goodscent.
And um, and I'm like, yo, forsomething that cheap to smell so
good, not overpowering.
And I mean, who, you know, shegot one, her man smelling all
fresh.

SPEAKER_04 (01:02:46):
Ciao.
So today we got another one.
This one got a stallion on it, aMustang on it.
So I don't know what it smellslike.
But uh beside eyeing this guyand Jenaskies, how many doggone
colognes, fragrances do y'allneed?
I can only imagine how manyJanaski got.

SPEAKER_01 (01:03:07):
Oh, he got a lot.

SPEAKER_04 (01:03:08):
I mean, he probably got a whole closet of just
colognes.

SPEAKER_01 (01:03:11):
Flynn, send me a list.
Um, you know, we got I gotta getsome.

SPEAKER_04 (01:03:15):
He going down the list too.
He's going down the list.
I said, goodness gracious, I'mgonna have to go start going
over and using his fragrances.

SPEAKER_01 (01:03:24):
Yeah, because some of them are uh, what they call
it, um, not coed.

SPEAKER_04 (01:03:29):
Maybe I need to talk to Tamika.

SPEAKER_01 (01:03:30):
Unisex.

SPEAKER_04 (01:03:31):
Maybe I need to talk to Tamika.
The Tamika got the same listJanaski got, but in the female
version.

SPEAKER_01 (01:03:35):
Yeah, she might, she probably do.

SPEAKER_04 (01:03:37):
I might need to ask Tamika so I can get me some uh
uh fragrances coming.
So when I go out, people belike, ooh, girl, you smell good.
Mm-hmm.
She does.
And do.

SPEAKER_01 (01:03:48):
And do.
But yeah, shout out to my my myfraternity brother, Janaski
Fleming, um, for putting me onall those smell good fragrances
out there in Doton, Alabama.

SPEAKER_04 (01:03:59):
Keep in buying them, Janaski.
They coming.
They coming.
All the colognes.

SPEAKER_01 (01:04:07):
I'm probably gonna.
It's I got like two more that hehad showed me.
But I'm gonna wait.
I'm gonna pump the brakes.
I'm gonna get I'm gonna get themlater.
The one I got just that came intoday, he said that scent don't
linger as long.
But we'll see.
Because it's at on our skintype.
So my skin, I mean on his skintype, so mine may be a little
different.
We'll see how long it lasts.

SPEAKER_04 (01:04:26):
All right, child.

SPEAKER_01 (01:04:27):
Yeah, so we'll see.

SPEAKER_04 (01:04:28):
So that's my side eye.
How many more colognes are webuying?

SPEAKER_01 (01:04:33):
Tell him where.

SPEAKER_04 (01:04:34):
So that I guess that's one gift I ain't got to
worry about.
So that I won't have to docologne because we got enough to
last us till.

SPEAKER_01 (01:04:42):
And that's some good ones too.

SPEAKER_04 (01:04:43):
His 400th birthday since he lived until he's 400.

SPEAKER_01 (01:04:48):
Yeah, that's some good ones.
So all right.
So what are you looking for?
What are you thankful for?
Grateful for before we get outof here.

SPEAKER_04 (01:04:56):
Um, let's see.

SPEAKER_01 (01:04:58):
Our gratitude.

SPEAKER_04 (01:04:59):
Um, I'm grateful for um, I know we went to homecoming
this weekend, but um I don'tknow if people think it's weird
or not, but I'm grateful thatour child likes to hang with us.
Even though some people probablylike, why is he with them the

(01:05:20):
whole time?
Because he likes us.
We a good time.
But I don't know.
I'm just grateful that they liketo hang with us.
They don't think it's weird.
If we say let's get up and go,they're ready to go with us.
Um so I appreciate that um ourboys or young men um like

(01:05:42):
hanging with their mom anddaddy.

SPEAKER_01 (01:05:43):
Okay, good, good, good.
I'm grateful for um thetemperature adjusting.
You know, I'm I'm grateful forthat.
Um so it's uh it's it's it'sstarting to feel good.
Like today is supposed to be inthe high of 81, tomorrow's
supposed to be 71.
And it's supposed to be like inthe 70s for the next 10 days.

SPEAKER_04 (01:06:06):
Okay.
It was hot today for me.
When I was walking on thatcampus, probably was Louisa was
hot.

SPEAKER_01 (01:06:11):
It was humid today.
That's one thing about it.
It was very humid.
But um, it's gonna be nice fromhere on out.
Um, I'm also grateful that Ifinished that book and I started
a new one.
It's called The Secret Life ofMaggie Maggie Gray.
It's pretty good.
It's it's it's similar to like auh What was the other one

(01:06:31):
called?

SPEAKER_04 (01:06:32):
Still don't know it.
Still don't even know it.

SPEAKER_01 (01:06:38):
Was it If you love me?
I think it was.
Oh man.
Where's your phone?
Hand me your phone, I'll findit.
I want to say it was if you loveme or something like that.
Um but um yeah, the the secretlife of Maggie Gray.

SPEAKER_04 (01:07:01):
It is uh Is it by the same author?

SPEAKER_01 (01:07:04):
Or is it a different thing?
It's a different author, yeah.
Um, let's see.
This one's real good though.

SPEAKER_04 (01:07:11):
Well, while you're finding that, um something that
I'm looking forward to isSaturday.
I'm looking forward to sleepingin because I don't feel like
well this Saturday I didn't getto sleep in.
I really look forward to that onSaturdays, and then Sunday was

(01:07:34):
still like get up, moving,doing.
So I'm looking forward to achill weekend um this weekend,
and just to kind of catch up onsome household things.
But um, yeah, I'm just lookingforward to a slow weekend this
weekend.
So hopefully that will occur.
And hopefully I will feel well.

(01:07:55):
I do not want to be sick either.

SPEAKER_01 (01:07:58):
Yeah, I don't want you to be sick.

SPEAKER_04 (01:08:00):
So hopefully I'll be well.

SPEAKER_01 (01:08:01):
The secret world of Maggie Gray.

SPEAKER_04 (01:08:04):
Okay.

SPEAKER_01 (01:08:05):
Yeah, it's like it's it's about a vampire, a witch.

SPEAKER_04 (01:08:08):
A vampire.

SPEAKER_01 (01:08:10):
I knew you were gonna say that.
A vampire, a witch, and a siren.
Oh, what is a siren?
It's like the ladies that be inthe water, it's quiet, and they
make that loud screech, butthey're very beautiful and
they're attract people to be.
But listen, you probably wouldunderstand anyway.
A vampire, a witch, and a sirenget accepted into a magical
HBCU.

(01:08:31):
And it says, the rest I'm notallowed to say, but just know
there is a talking cat namedKwan.
But it's very, very good.
It is very good.
Trust me, y'all.
It's like uh an adventure moviethat you would watch.
But trust me, anybody, if youlisten to it, I guarantee you
hooked.
Um, but the other book, y'allgotta just I'll get to that.

(01:08:52):
I gotta find that later, but itis so good.
Yeah, it is so good.
The Secret World of Maggie Gray.
Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 (01:09:00):
All right.
And what are you looking forwardto?

SPEAKER_01 (01:09:02):
Um, I said I'm looking forward to the weather
change.
Oh, oh, what I'm gonna listento.
Oh, the weather, okay.
Yeah.
Okay.

SPEAKER_04 (01:09:06):
I forgot.

SPEAKER_01 (01:09:07):
Yeah, the weather changed.
Okay.

SPEAKER_04 (01:09:08):
I thought that's what you were grateful for.

SPEAKER_01 (01:09:11):
Oh, we gotta look forward to something?
Mm-hmm.
I'm looking forward to theweather.

SPEAKER_04 (01:09:14):
Oh.

SPEAKER_01 (01:09:15):
I'm looking forward to to sweats.
You know, I love to wear me somegood sweats and hoodies.
Um plus we got those comforthoodies that we did the the try
on haul.

SPEAKER_04 (01:09:24):
Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (01:09:25):
You need to put those on.
Um, I need to order me someshoes from um Nike.
Um, I should.

SPEAKER_04 (01:09:31):
I had it, I'll save this side off for next week.

SPEAKER_01 (01:09:33):
Yeah, so I gotta order me some shoes.

SPEAKER_04 (01:09:35):
So we can stay positive.

unknown (01:09:37):
Yes.

SPEAKER_04 (01:09:37):
What do you order the shoes for?

SPEAKER_01 (01:09:39):
Um, my gift.
You gave me, remember you gaveme that.

SPEAKER_04 (01:09:42):
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (01:09:43):
So I want to go ahead and use it.
And so I want to order someshoes that I can wear, you know,
with some of my sweats and stufflike that.
Uh some pastel color shoes I'vebeen eyeing for a while.
So well, let's get on out ofhere.

SPEAKER_04 (01:09:56):
Yes, I'm gonna need to go take me some meds.

SPEAKER_01 (01:09:59):
Yeah, so you can dope yourself up and take
Cinnabon out to potty.

SPEAKER_04 (01:10:02):
Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 (01:10:03):
Ladies and gentlemen, this has been the
Refreshingly Normal podcast.
I am Kifla.

SPEAKER_04 (01:10:10):
I am Cree.

SPEAKER_01 (01:10:12):
And we will see you guys next episode.
I don't know.
I was gonna say next week, but Iwould love to film another one
within the next couple days.
Hopefully, this ladies.

SPEAKER_04 (01:10:23):
Hopefully, I feel better.
I hope I wasn't boring because Igotta cough.
I was trying not to cough all ona thing, but child.
I'm sorry, right.
I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_01 (01:10:30):
We'll have to see about this.

SPEAKER_04 (01:10:32):
Also, feedback on my rap last week.
What y'all thought?
Zero out of ten, what you giveit?
What you give my rap?

SPEAKER_01 (01:10:42):
Blue.

SPEAKER_04 (01:10:46):
You going to hell.
You going to hell.
Any of y'all knew know what he'stalking about?
He's going to hell.
Coincide.
Coronavirus! Coincides withCardi B saying that Nicki Minaj

(01:11:06):
sons uh You're gonna just tellhim, you could just leave it
alone.

SPEAKER_01 (01:11:10):
Well, y'all look it up.

SPEAKER_04 (01:11:12):
I ain't gonna say it.

SPEAKER_01 (01:11:13):
No, you might well go ahead and tell everybody what
it was.

SPEAKER_04 (01:11:15):
I forgot what it was.
She said his favorite color isfive.

SPEAKER_01 (01:11:21):
So it'd be alright.
Mama leave that alone.
Mm-mm.
Cause I am not going to hellwith you.

SPEAKER_04 (01:11:27):
You already said it, brother.

SPEAKER_01 (01:11:28):
No, I didn't.
You said, I said, what youbrought up about her.
I was talking about you.

SPEAKER_05 (01:11:35):
What'd you say blue?
What blue mean?

SPEAKER_01 (01:11:38):
That's just saying, I was just, you said one to ten.
Ask me what it was.
I said blue.

SPEAKER_04 (01:11:42):
Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_01 (01:11:43):
So.

SPEAKER_04 (01:11:44):
So you Nicki Minaj son?
No.
I'm saying I couldn't.
Because you don't know thenumbers.

SPEAKER_01 (01:11:48):
I couldn't be talking about blue Ivy.

SPEAKER_04 (01:11:50):
You don't know the numbers between difference
between your numbers and colors.

SPEAKER_01 (01:11:52):
And see, you going to hell faster.
You already almost there.
Get your t.

SPEAKER_04 (01:11:58):
I didn't say it.
I'm sorry.
Take that out.
Don't put don't post that part.

SPEAKER_01 (01:12:02):
Too late.
Child, it's so much we gottaedit out of this episode.
We might not even use it.
About to do another one.

SPEAKER_05 (01:12:10):
Why?
What else we say?
Oh, my coffin.

SPEAKER_01 (01:12:12):
It's yeah.
All right, ladies and gentlemen.
We're gonna get out of here.

SPEAKER_04 (01:12:16):
This is real life.

SPEAKER_01 (01:12:19):
But they don't never mind.
What?
They what?
No, I'm saying they right, yeah.
Farting is real life.
If it ain't gonna be on herejust farting all the time.
Well, some people do watch thosepodcasts with me.
I can't help if I call.
They used to do that on uh,what's that old guy?
I can't help if I call HowardStern.

SPEAKER_05 (01:12:36):
I really tried to hold my coast.

SPEAKER_01 (01:12:38):
It's okay.

SPEAKER_05 (01:12:39):
But I couldn't help it.

SPEAKER_01 (01:12:40):
Ladies and gentlemen, we get enough out of
here.
Unless it's L RefreshinglyNormal Podcast had the proof.
We'll see you when we see.