Episode 57: Gable Tostee

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Welcome back to Crime Besties. Here we are for another episode.
How are you today, Meg? I'm.
Good this week, how about you? Are you feeling a bit better
than last week or last time we spoke?
Yeah, yeah. You're feeling like tired and
lethargic and all of the things.That sounds pretty standard.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Mum life.
Yeah, oh mum, life, work, life, all that.

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Yeah, it's been a full on week. But no, we've actually had no
footy now and also one of the boys got to buy this weekend for
basketball. So our week for the sports stuff
midweek has been one training session and I cannot tell you
the. Luxury of it.
I'm actually, I'm feeling I'm coming into the weekend ahead of
schedule on the laundry. You know, like I've just managed

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to get all these little jobs done in the evenings that don't
get done because we're piss fighting around everywhere doing
all the the after school sports situations.
So I'm actually feeling somewhatas much as it's been a chaotic
week and a crazy week in work life sort of more so.
But in my in this stuff, I'm like feeling quite ready for a
cruisy weekend. Nice.

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I love that for you. I love that for you.
You would. Have had still at least two lots
of training sessions. Yeah, but that was OK.
It still meant we had two less than we than we normally do.
So that was lovely one. Of those being the Friday night
Which? Delighted to be done with the
Friday night. I love that even my eldest son,
he's like oh get my Fridays back.

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Yeah, 'cause it's so onerous on you to go and kick the footy
with your mates while your brother.
Trains. Oh God, he's just not that kid.
He's like, oh, just get tired ofsitting in the car with my iPad.
Oh. Yes, yes.
No. I'm very, very happy that the
footy season's over and we're down to 1 sport again, no.
Look, I mean I've I've loved watching the footy this season

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from both the Littles and the big.
They've both been great to watchand be part of, but I'm really
ready to have a bit more time back.
Yeah, it's just a a different, achange of pace.
A change of pace, definitely. Yeah.
We're recording this episode a week later than we first
intended because we lost our dogthis week or last Friday, a week
ago today. So we've had a bit of a sad week

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and it's taken us all like, Oh my gosh.
I mean, it all kind of happened so quickly.
I think I mentioned in one of the.
Previous the week before. Yeah, that's, she'd received a
cancer diagnosis and it just progressed very, very quickly.
And it got beyond to the point where we were able to do
anything at all aside from what eventuated.

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So yeah, it was really, we've had a really sad week.
And it's, I mean, animals are part of your family.
She's been around since before both kids were born.
And I mean, you guys have probably heard her 1000 times in
episodes with the barking. You know, she's just, she's
very, very much missed. It's it's, it's a really weird

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thing coming home and not havingher sort of greeting you at the
door and just, you can feel thatshe's not here.
She's not in the house. It's a.
I'm just feeling odd here that we won't know when the parcels
are being delivered. You know, and all those probably
not the worst. Thing no, but it is it's awful.
I just yeah, they are. There's so much they're they're
another child in your family and.

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It's really hard and for for theboys, it's really the first
significant loss they've had in their lives, which you know, is
lucky in some ways, but it's also a massive life life lesson
for Lucas, who's only 8. I feel like it's taken him a lot
to sort of process and get. Yeah, they're probably still
processing it to. I fully understand it all.

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Yeah. I mean, we don't.
I mean, death's so hard to comprehend.
It's so abstract. No matter what, It's so fine
when you go through it. Yeah, Yeah.
Oh, here we, he will be, he willget there.
But it's, I mean, she's always gonna be part of your life.
And that's right. I love that, you know, you've
got all those great memories and, and things that you'll
always have of her. And yeah, yeah, she's very

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special. She was such a beautiful girl.
Yeah. So that's been our week, really.
It's been, yeah, just sort of getting used to what's now the
new normal at home and, and all of that sort of stuff.
So lots of tears and lots of sadness, but also, as you said,
lots of happy memories 'cause she was such an amazing dog.

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Like she, you know, she was herewhen we brought both boys home
from hospital and we were looking at through all of the
photos of that. And she was so protective when
they were little. Yeah.
She wouldn't leave their sides. You know, we've got photos of
her like sitting next to their little rockers or sitting lying
next to their cots. So yeah, she was.
She was gorgeous. Yeah, that's the best.
I mean, you know, you gotta think of it in that way of like

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how special it's been to have her as part of the family and
they know what she's meant to you all.
And you know, they're here for areason.
And yeah, and it's sad they're not here longer with us.
Why? Can't they live a lifespan?
We do, and I was. Saying to you, that was the one
drawback of the breed of dog that I got was it really made me
hesitate in terms of getting that breed of dog, even though
it ticked all the boxes and everything, every other aspect.

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But he unfortunately being such a big dog has a shorter lifespan
than the most even. And so you kind of just hope
that they outlive any of those possibilities.
So, you know, but that, that's the thing, that's the worst bit
of it all, is that they don't live as long as us.
And that's it's it. But yeah, they, they're here for
all those right reasons when they're here.

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Yeah, I know all those movies, you know, they do those, there's
those movies where like, you know, the, the dog spirit will
like come into another dog spirit.
You know, they have another family and bring that family,
the joy. They've brought another family.
And I was like, those movies just bring me to tears so bad.
Like it's 'cause it really they are.
I mean, as I've said to you, every family needs a dog because
how love is not completely unconditional.

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Yeah. Whereas the dog's love is.
And I mean, I remember growing up my, one of my, my brothers
particularly was drawn to the dog.
And he would, you know, get in trouble at, you know, and
everything. And then he'd be outside seeing
with the dog, telling the dog, well, it's his troubles.
You know, like so many images ofhim sitting on the back step
talking to the dog about. He must have been in trouble a
lot. Oh yeah.

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Yeah. And you know, every kid needs
that, you know, because sometimes we are not having our
best day and that the dog becomes that person or that
thing that they can go to and and invent and have those
moments with that. You know, they they listen.
They listen every time. Yeah.
Yeah. So they are amazing to have in
your family. Yeah.
Yeah. Very much, yeah.

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Yeah. Oh, gosh, it's, it's yeah.
But that's OK. It's part of all part of it.
And we were lucky to have her for the time that we did.
So yeah, she, yeah, she was great.
Absolutely. I'm gonna dedicate this episode.
Totally, yes. Yes to Luna, Yeah.
So what else has been going on for you this week?

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I I had a 40th over the weekend.Now I was telling you this story
because Oh my God. OK, so I had a few drinks.
There were some shots, I mean. And let's just remember here,
you've already had your 40th. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
You've forgotten that, I think. I think, I think I did well.

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I was dropping it like it was hot and.
I love someone said now that I'mover 40 I need to drop it like
it's mildly lukewarm rather thandropping it like it's hot.
Well, I've learned that lesson the hard way because we got home
and it was not a late, late night.
I think we were home by like 1. But late enough.
Yeah, late enough. I got into bed and I was, you

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know, mildly inebriated. I get into bed and I fell off to
sleep. Fine.
Yeah. I woke up at like 3:30 in the
morning and my knees. As in like the drunkness, then
obviously when I'm. Obviously worn off and my knees
were absolutely killing me. Called over 40 knees Oh.
My God, I didn't realize it would change on a diet.

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Totes just downhill from. Here it's all the inflammation.
I don't even know, but for days later I'm like my knees.
I just cannot do this anymore. No dropping it like it's hot.
Not anymore. It's done.
Yeah. So I'm learning these lessons
the hard way. Obviously, I don't know if I'll
actually learn my lesson. I'll let you know next time I go
to a party. But.

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Yeah. Yeah, that was that was.
I mean, it was such a fun night.I love it.
Oh yeah. I bet you had a great time.
Yeah, absolutely. But poof, felt it for a few days
later those. Knees don't quite hold up no
more. And then I was, I was the
following morning I had, I was the trainer for Ollies footy
team and I reckon I had to run out onto the.

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Fold like it's just. Four or five times.
Murphy's Lord every other game you don't have to do anything.
Yeah. And our runner who's one of the
dads on our team, he like a kid went down and I was like running
over there thinking I was doing really well.
Well, he's like flown past me. Like my knees.
Oh, my knees. Yeah, I can't run that.
The Voltar hasn't kicked in. Yeah, that's right.

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Oh, I hadn't even smashed an anti-inflammatory at this point,
but I'm like, I'm going to need to because I'm not going to be
able to get out there or something bad happened.
Got to get on that horse gel. Yeah, I think the horse gel, oh,
that horse gel is great. It is so good.
Yeah, I. Love it.
Oh yes. Welcome.
Welcome. Cheers.
It was a trial by fire, but I'm here.

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Yeah. Yeah, oh God, you know, I feel
that pretty much every day, you know, like I know the other day
I was in my office and the person had arrived.
I need to see them and and he'd gone through like as if, you
know, he didn't want to see me sort of stuff, but I need to
grab him. So I was like, I better be quick
kind of thing. Got up out of my chair and went
oh wait, oh God, wait till the body's got to unseize after

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sitting down for so. Long.
Yeah, you've been sitting down. Now you can't.
Just don't just be so presumptuous as to think you can
get up and move. Move.
Move. Quickly.
Forget that. Yeah.
No, no. No, no, no, not anymore.
Join. The 40s club.
Yeah, but I'm feeling like as itgets warmer, it'll be easy.
Right. Well, sorry.
No, no, just. Give me some egg for God's sake.

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No, it does get better in the warmer weather.
That's good. Thank you.
Thank you. That's all I needed.
But just don't go doing stupid shit.
Yes, ma'am. I've seen people like do the
whole like, you know, like when I, you know, before I was 40, I
could, you know, those the benchseats, you know, kind of thing.
And you'd, you'd get it. You're getting real quick and
easy. And then after 40 it's you gotta
lift your leg over the bench. Ohhh yeah, yeah.

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That's where you're at. That is where we're at.
God, I've got quite a few shout outs today, so I might get going
with those. Thank you to everybody who's
commented again this week. I feel like it just happens
every week, but we've had another record week in terms of
comments on our episodes. So I'm talking on Spotify, Apple
Podcasts, and we've also had lots of comments on our Tik Toks

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and Facebook groups as well. So please keep those coming
because not only do I love reading them and I think I said
this in a previous episode. Well, if I need a bit of a pick
me up, I'd just head on over to buy me a coffee and read what's
been written in there. Because.
Absolutely. You know, love it.
Real pick me up. So this week I've got to say,
we've got to say thank you to Chantelle Ellen, Theresa

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McNamara, Rachel Johnson, who gave us, who bought us a couple
of coffees on Buy Me a Coffee because she won a $10 bet with
her boss. Oh yes.
And and she's like, I didn't know what to do with my $10.00,
so I decided to give it to you guys.
So I think her boss listens as well.
So, you know, thank you to Rachel and to her boss, Love.

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That one, thank you too. Yes.
Good on ya to Julie Slinner, whohas also given us a case
suggestion for one that we didn't have on our list yet, the
West Memphis Three. Yes, I can't believe we didn't
have that on our list. I don't believe.
That now all right. Perfect.
So thank you, Julie Katrina Jenner, who thinks that we need
to absolutely make some absolutepiece of shit merch.

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So I don't think she's saying the merch will be the absolute
piece of shit. I think she's saying that we
need to have. I don't know.
I'd be. Pretty crap at it.
We're looking into it. We're looking into it.
This is all very new territory for us.
Oh God. So we will not release anything
that's an absolute piece of shit, but we can release
something that says absolute piece of shit.
We'll, we'll keep you posted. We've said this before I think,

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I can't remember if we said it on the actual podcast or not.
Like but no one wants to wear a T-shirt that says piece of shit.
Yeah, but they do, it turns out clearly.
So we'll do. Katrina's not the only one.
We also oh someone else I think it might have been someone else
did mention that they they. I remember reading that as well.
And then one of the mums at school.

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Yes, she's down for. It she is, Kim is 100% down for
it and I can imagine her wearingit too.
Not because she's a piece of shit, but anything.
Because it. But yeah, she loves it.
She loves. It it's just and like, yeah,
we're here for that. So I think we might have to bite
the bullet. But also, guys, please let us
know for the wider community, Yeah.
Is it worth us putting out merchthat says well we probably

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wouldn't write the word shit we'd have?
To do POS on it, I don't know. Or or would we do like SH star
tea or something? Yeah, let's do that.
Let us know, yeah, what you wantand we'll look into it a bit
further. Then we've got Claire Lombardo,
who found us by accident, and I loved that she signed off her
little thing on Buy Me Coffee. Much love.
And murder, Claire. Murder.

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So thank you, Claire. And then to Lisa Porter, who
said she found us, that she was going down a mushroom lady
rabbit hole. Yeah.
And somehow stumbled upon us and.
Because we haven't done a mushroom episode yet.
We have. We've touched on it, but we've.
Spoken about her, but we haven't.
Obviously, we're still. We will get there.

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And she she said at the bottom. Staying curious.
Yeah. Thank you for staying curious,
Lisa. And then we also had a lovely
message and and buy me a coffee as well from Kate, who's like at
tagline or whatever is at gatherand sew.
I haven't actually looked up herInstagram but please have a look
because I think she does clothing alterations and that

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kind of nice and she said she listens to us while sewing and
doing all of the mug. Things oh, I need to get on to
her. And she I'm always.
Too short for my pants. Yeah, well, yeah.
And she can sympathize with all of the mum life stuff and the
eating and all that sort of stuff.
So, yeah, you know, we're all inthe same boat here, ladies.

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And yeah, the odd. So I was.
Looking at our stats on that recently and I think it's
something like 9%. Yeah.
So how high and welcome all of you and thanks for joining me.
And we do get the like a lot of comments from men on TikTok
mainly I would say you probably come through that way.
But we've definitely had, I knowwe had a dad once he he
commented and loved our show andhe loved our precision on our

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swearing. Just how articulate we are.
How did you see that comment? Actually, it was great.
He's like, I just hope if my girls are gonna swear or
something, then they learn it. They let you do it like you do.
Oh. Look, I'm glad we can be a role
model for someone. I think I explained to him that
you know, well there is researchto show that, that that women

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who swear are more intelligence.Well, you know, I mean, we prove
that case, don't we? Totally prove that.
Oh. God, yeah.
All right, should we get into today's case?
Let's get into. Today's one it's this is a yeah,
good one. It's a total mindfuck.
It is one. It really, really is.
Yeah. So actually just really quickly
before we get into that I we need to mention that we are

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Please suggest anything that youwant to hear us talk about.
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Me too. And I think we can build like a
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Please come and join us big oh great fun.
Great fun. We will have a lot of fun over

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Oh yeah. Really scary, no?
That'll be fun. Then we can have interaction
with like that's. True.
Yeah. Great.
No, that is cool. That's really cool.
Yeah. Love it.
All right, all. Right, let's get into today's
episode. Well, isn't he just.
Oh my God. So today we are talking about

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the case of Gable Tosti and Warina Wright.
I think most people will have a vague idea or definitely will
have heard about it. Yeah, in the media.
It happened in 2014 and I remember at the time hearing
about it, but I didn't know any of the details.
I really want. To learn?
Not really. I knew I knew she'd fallen from

(18:06):
the balcony. I knew there was conjecture
around whether he was involved or not, but I didn't really know
anything else that was about it.This one got me when it
happened. I was really hooked on at the
time kind of going like, what the hell, like this Just I I
think, well, to be honest, I reckon he he's he's probably
falls in the category of almost the original Tinder swindler.
Like, I think this was really the full, the first real case

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around the whole idea of like these apps that were being used
for dating and then this eventuated to someone dying that
we really sort of heard of in the media.
Yeah. But for, for me, I, I, I think
feel that that would be the case.
Yeah. And we had a little bit of a
taster of what Tinder is on a couple of weekends ago to like

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to go with this case. So we, we grabbed a a young
friend who is, is on Tinder and we we don't mention it because
we've said to her not allowed toshout her out until she does
certain things for us. So yeah, that's.
Right. She still hasn't done what she
said she was gonna do, so she's not getting an actual named
shout out today, No. But we grabbed her phone.
Got it up too. Ohh, God, no 'cause I spoke to

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about it actually just yesterday.
So so we were learning how to use this Tinder because I had no
idea what the hell to do. And you're like, I know you had
to swipe, but which way do you swipe Amazon it like, you know,
swipe it every. Nah, Nah Nah Nah it really.
Gets me how like it it's literally and it's kind of I can
understand the addiction of it of like looking through all

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these people and going, Oh yeah,I like you.
No, I don't like you, not like you.
And but it's so subjective of like just a photo.
I mean, we're so superficial a couple where you'd go like then
you can click on and find and see more photos.
But it's again all based on photos and what people look.
Like, and they do have their little captions because I
remember when I looked at at oneof them, I was like, Oh yeah, it

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looks nice. And then I read something that
he wrote and I'm like, oh hell no, no.
No, no, your initial reactions are all just based on.
But then I think, I think that was the guy that I accidentally
then swiped yes on. Yeah, we.
Kind of went one way, I went thewrong way, what do I do?
And she's like. Immediately he messaged her,
Yeah. That's right.

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And she was like, oh, just ignore it.
Don't. Worry, I know 'cause I yesterday
said to her, Oh, so how's, how'syour Tinder profile going now?
Since we've been playing around with it and that guy's been
messaging. No, Oh my God, I'm so sorry.
She just keeps ignoring him, buthe's just, he just keeps sending
her love hearts. Oh, yeah, 'cause that's what he
did. Like literally within 30 seconds
of the matching, yeah, he sent her love heart.

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And I was like, oh, sorry, can you block?
Surely you can. Block.
Sure you can. I'm sure you can, I said to him.
Just maybe talk to him. Oh, maybe I'd like I
accidentally found their soulmate.
Well. This is it.
You just never know how even this you're judging off of a
photo. Quite possibly.
You're literally swiping the wrong way on your on your
soulmate. Who knows?
Yeah. Yeah, but it's a it's a really

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an I I'm just the wrong generation for it.
Maybe. I don't know.
Although there's plenty of people my age on there, I guess.
Oh. Absolutely.
I can't come at it. You know, we were settled in
relationships before this becamea thing, so it's not something
that you or I have ever done. But I actually looked up some
Tinder stats because I was really fascinated by the amount

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of users and how people use it. Because our friend who you're
talking about, we were asking her like how much she pays and
it is expensive. Oh really?
I had no idea you even paid for it.
Oh yeah, you have to pay. Oh God, I had no idea.
In order to like you get you paid, there's different like
levels and how much you message someone and all of that.
So in 2024, which is the latest stats I could find Tinder

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brought in. This is worldwide 1.94 billion
U.S. dollars in revenue. Crazy.
They're right. They're right.
Everyone but I think men have topay more maybe?
I'm not really sure. Is it a bit like the whole
actually Madison deal like in the maybe maybe.

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There's 60 million monthly userswho are active.
Yeah, in it's available in 190 countries.
How many countries are there in the world, Like 193 or
something? It now back in this day.
So when this case happened in 2014, there were 1 billion

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swipes per day on Tinder around the world. 1 billion swipes.
So yeah, I can see you, you you go Yep, Yep, Yep.
No, no, no, no, no, no. We.
Probably did 20 whilst we were just.
Standing there for 2 minutes, yeah, there were 12.
Million a lot with the no direction.
Yeah, there were 12 million matches in 2014 out.

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Of a billion, Yep, a billion swipes to 12 million a matching
that's. Very low.
Low, it's really in terms of like, yeah, OK.
The average engagement per user per day is 90 minutes.
That's average. So the average user, this is
back in 2014, spent 90 minutes and so you can see how you get a

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billion swipes before they're swiping for 90 minutes a day.
Jesus, you can probably get 1000swipes in.
See I OK see I thought that the way Tinder worked was something
to do with your location and that too, and that you're only
OK. So I thought you only.
Patient. Got like to me, I thought you'd
open up the app and go, oh, likethere's only a couple people in

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my area that are on Tinder, you know what I mean?
Like. But I, I think so many people
are obviously so many people if they've got 60 million monthly
active users, yeah, that's a. Lot.
That's a lot, yeah. OK wow.
It just blows my mind. Yeah.
But I just don't understand it as a dating.
I don't know. What is it?
What don't you understand? Like I.

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You would go and meet up with someone that you have no idea
who they are other than what they look like and potentially
even like, particularly back in 2014.
I know now they have protectionsa little bit on this.
Yeah, but you don't even know ifthat person who rocks up is
actually the person in the photos.
Yeah, yeah, that's changed now it's.
Changed now, but even still you could get it.
They can get around it. I think I from my understanding,

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OK, but it's less it's, it's a lot more.
It's hard, difficult to get around.
Yeah. But definitely back in 2014,
100% you could have found that you walked into a situation
where it was completely not the person on their on their profile
or they used photos from 10 years ago, sort of stuff that
you go, oh crap. I thought I was dating a 30 year
old and now I'm walking in here a 60 year old.

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Yeah, Yeah. So I just feel like it's.
I just think how else I was reading some commentary about
this case in particular. So Werena Wright was over in
Australia because she was attending an ex work colleagues
wedding, a friend's wedding. Yeah, and she was staying with

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another friend at the time. But this other friend had other
commitments that she needed to go to.
So what was Werena to do all day?
Someone someone wrote in a in anarticle I was reading about
this, You don't go out to meet friends like you're not going to
go out and seek out friendship. So Tinder's a good way to meet

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someone to spend time with when you're in a place like that and
but. It's just, it's just a hook up.
Well, I, I guess for some peoplethat's what it is, but for some
people, I think, I'm sure they want genuine connection.
This is it. And I, I think that's where
there's like a different users have different expectations of
who they're walking into. Yeah, and.

(25:35):
Like in this situation I dare say from know what I know of
Gable Tosti, he was literally there to like meet her to have
sex. Oh 100% he was.
I mean, we, we know that from things, he's then since
admitted. Yeah, and I guess in some ways
she was too, in that she was notfrom here, she was from New
Zealand. She was here for a short time
for a wedding, etcetera. That she wouldn't.

(25:57):
I mean, look, she had had a pretty, pretty bad breakup in
New Zealand before coming to Australia.
And so she was coming here and she was getting onto the app,
you know, kind of like, you know, go, oh, someone will make
me feel good about myself and made-up with somebody that, you
know, that I can feel that I've got, I've still got it like
after having a pretty bad breakup, which I can fully
understand that. And getting yourself out there.

(26:18):
I think she'd also had a an encounter in New Zealand before
she came to Australia on Tinder.That was actually fine.
Yeah. Like, it was a yeah.
They hooked up and it was, but it was a pleasant and happy
experience and they just kind ofmoved on.
Yeah, that's right. Yeah, yeah.
So she after this bad breakup, she, that's where she'd kind of
like, gone. Oh yeah.
Had had a positive experience with Tinder beforehand I guess,

(26:40):
yeah. Yeah, sorry, but there.
But I still think there's a difference in their expectation
of what was gonna happen on that.
But if you look at the messages they were sending to one
another, she knew. She knew that was what the his
intention was because, yeah, he wrote in one of the messages
that he sent to her that he was,what did he say?

(27:02):
He was a freak. A freak between the sheets or
something. And yeah.
Oh, he's so fucking gross. There's some I mean, we'll get.
To a lot of it. But he's like, he's fucking
foul. Yeah, but he of the things he
says to her are fucking foul. Yeah, but she still went along
with it and and still wanted to meet up and all of that.
So look, there's you're right inin saying that you don't know

(27:25):
who you're meeting up with. But then also we all make these
choices. I'm not saying she chose for
this to happen by any stretch ofthe imagination.
Not this, no, but they've gone back to his anyway.
Let's let's. Start from the start from the
start, yeah. So this all happened on the 8th
of August in 2014 where Rena hadarrived in Australia on the 29th

(27:46):
of July and I think she was staying, plan had planned to
stay for a couple of weeks to obviously attend the wedding,
which had already happened. But then she was going to do
some sightseeing and she was staying in Surfers Paradise.
She was staying in Queensland. Yeah, it's a beautiful spot,
very touristy, lots going on. She was meeting up with some

(28:08):
other friends that she had in Australia and just having a
really lovely time and. 26, she was just, you know, living life
and, you know, getting out, getting yourself out there, you
know, I guess and having experiences because she was,
from all accounts, she was she was born in Philippines and then
moved to New Zealand when she was three.
Yeah, her family was 7th Day Adventists.

(28:29):
But and her family described heras being someone who was quite
strongly opinionated on things, but very caring and motherly as
well. Yeah.
So she had this real soft side that she was just someone who,
but she's also a bit of a nerd and I love that.
Yeah. So she loved her Dragon Ball Z,
but on the other extent of that,she was really adventurous.
So she did a lot of like variousthings in terms of adventure

(28:51):
things she's, you know, skydiving's and all those sorts
of things. But she she so she liked her
skydiving and did lots of thingslike that.
But she, what she trained in wasMuay Thai, so she had a little
bit of, you know, martial arts experience background, yeah, as
well. So she had like, so many
different elements to her personality.
Yeah. And but yeah, I love the Dragon
Ball Z. She's just, she was and really

(29:13):
mad on it. Yeah.
Just like my brother was back inthe day.
Oh. Serious.
She loved it. Oh, he loved it.
She also loved, like, anime and was into all of that sort of all
of that sort of stuff. Yeah.
So she lived with her younger sister Maretza over in in Lower
Hut in New Zealand. She worked as oh, now what did

(29:36):
she work as? Oh, she worked in a call centre
for a bank. And she wasn't like super into
it, but it was sort of a means to an end, I think in terms of
she had enough money to be able to do those things, live her
life. Her friends would often come
over for these. Like they would play, I'm gonna
say Nintendo, but it probably wasn't Nintendo, like
PlayStation games. And they would come for the

(29:57):
entire weekend, bring their consoles and all play together
and and have a really, really great time.
If that's what you're into, you go girl.
Yes. Yeah.
So she. Oh, they played Final Fantasy,
if that means anything to anyone.
But that was their game of joy. It's.
In that realm. Yeah, she liked Hello Kitty, she
liked shopping on eBay, she loved an eBay bargain and

(30:20):
apparently she would like, go and buy shit off eBay, try and
then like sell it for more, thatkind, you know?
Yeah, right. Is a bit of a side hustle.
Love that she was into last minute Rd. trips and conspiracy
theories. Yes, I loved reading that about
it. She was into conspiracy theory.
Yeah, so cool. So she probably would have been,
in some ways, our kind of girl. Yeah, yeah.

(30:40):
But you're right when you when you say people said she was very
hardline. If she thought something, she
was incredibly opinionated. She would not back down.
Yeah. But if you were her friend, she
had your back. Yeah.
She was 100%, you know, all over.
All over you. Yeah.
Her dad's name was Warren, and that's actually where her name
was derived from. So Warina was derived from

(31:02):
Warren. Yeah.
And as you said, her mom was Filipino and her name was Mirza
Beth and they were devout 7th Day Adventists.
So when they came to New Zealand, when they immigrated to
New Zealand, they just went intothe 7th Day Adventist community.
Basically, they went to the 7th Day Adventist school.

(31:24):
And I think her mom ended up becoming like a, is it a pastor
in that church? I'm not sure.
But she became like a missionaryor something within the church.
So they were very, she was very sort of devout in that way, but
that wasn't really marinas path.No, no, she wasn't really into
it. Yeah.

(31:45):
She was, you know, described as being a really beautiful,
naturally beautiful girl. She had big brown eyes and high
cheekbones, lots of long hair. And when you look at photos of
her online, you can absolutely see that she was, she was very
naturally beautiful. She didn't wear a lot of makeup.
She was, yeah, just naturally, like a really, really lovely
looking, lovely looking girl. Yeah, I dare say that Gable

(32:09):
Tosti saw her on Tinder on photos and was like for swipe,
whichever direction that is that.
We'll say yes. Let's swipe the yes.
Way the yes way. Well, so because when Marina saw
Gabel on on Tinder, she actuallyimmediately said that he looked
like and Australia's answer to Sam Winchester.

(32:29):
And for those who don't know, he's the guy off of
Supernatural. See, my original thought was
Taylor Lautner. I've heard that too, and
apparently she even says that atsome point as well, in case I
think you hear it on the the recording that we'll get to.
Yeah, that she mentions that as well, so I don't kind of get
either, but maybe it's 'cause I know what I know of him that I
don't like, see. I definitely see the Lautner.

(32:50):
I don't see the Sam Winchester, but then maybe in some of his
photos on Yeah, he. Might have looked a bit like
that, certainly not in later years.
He looks like either of those. Yeah.
So, but I mean, in photos, this is where I kind of this is where
I go the whole like I I can't stand this whole making
judgement on people, like from aphoto.
I get it. Because.
Yeah. I mean, there were photos of him

(33:11):
that you kind of go as he lookedlike a young man who was fit,
healthy, you know, I guess in some ways a typically what you'd
call a good looking bloke. Yeah.
Inside, you know, like if you'reinto that.
Yeah. Like you wouldn't, you wouldn't
look at his photos and go he looks like a weirdo.
Some of this smile, some of his smiles, Yeah, but then.

(33:32):
We're we're looking at it. That's right.
If I remove all of what I know of him, Yeah.
I feel like, yeah. If you were swiping away, you'd
kind of you'd double look. You'd look OK.
Yeah. It's interesting.
Yeah. And yeah.
He picked his photos carefully. Yeah.
Sorry. I mean, we always put our best
foot forward on social media. And if you're putting your yeah,

(33:52):
yourself out there to get a date, of course you're going to
put all the nice photos, the nicest photos you can find of
yourself on there. Absolutely.
But he he preyed on women. Yeah, through Tinder.
So it. Would not just through Tinder,
No no. Well, that is true not just
through Tinder. So growing up he so his mum, oh
let me find their names. So his mum was Helene and his

(34:13):
dad Gray and he had a younger brother I believe named Tennyson
right now that he grew up in a very sort of upper middle class
family. His dad owned a flooring company
and was it was a very successfulcompany.
So they were able to afford a really nice life for themselves
and for their children do. Find it really interesting where

(34:35):
the family, and I think it's come from, the family have put
forward more so that that dad's a salesman.
Yeah, because it doesn't sound like they're wealthy.
This family were. Wealthy.
Oh, they were wealthy. Yeah.
And I mean, it's definitely out there.
People know that they're wealthy, but I think they try
and like, they like to try and make out that they're not.
It's in for this context. Yeah, because it, it makes them

(34:58):
look somehow better. Yeah.
Sympathetic. Yes, So that.
But they were, they're absolutely wealthy.
They live so their mum and dad, their mum and dad now live in a
gated community and in this absolutely spectacular, like on
a golf links. It is beautiful.
Carrara. Yeah.
It's West of like the Gold Coasttourist strip kind of thing.

(35:19):
Absolutely stunning and a beautiful part of the world to
live in. Absolutely.
They also had purchased the flatthat that Gable lived in, in
Surfers Paradise, 14th floor. Yeah.
In an apartment building. Really lovely.
Like, Imagine as a. Well, he was 28 at the time.
Yeah, imagine being a 28 year old and having a bachelor pad

(35:41):
like that, that you didn't actually have to pay.
For but this is the thing, if welike go back to who he was as a
person and the family dynamic, Yep, that's just an expectation.
I think of like that's what he would live like.
Yeah, he did. He attended a private school in
the area. Oh.
Let's get into some of his escapades at school.
Let's, let's and after, just after.

(36:03):
Just after school, yeah. So when he was at high school,
he was making counterfeit ID. It was just after he finished
school. Was it just after he finished?
Sorry, Yeah. 2003 so we don't actually know his birth date.
It's been suppressed what his actual birthday is, Yeah, But we
can sort of where things these things are.
But yeah. So 2003 after he just finished.
School, yeah, so he had and a mate were making fake IDs for

(36:27):
schoolies essentially because for those of you who don't know,
schoolies is like a spring breaktype thing in Australia where at
the end of year 12:00. So at the end of your formal
education, you go and you have aweek or whatever where you just
let loose, Drink, eat, drink, bemerry.
And the Gold Coast is a place that attracts a lot of

(36:50):
schoolies. So a lot of kids who are who are
doing that, and a lot of them might not be of age yet.
In Australia, you need to be 18 to be able to go clubbing and
and drinking. Yeah.
And so he founded this, right? Like so he and his mate in I
think. Two of them there was 2 mates.
And he 02 mates was it? Yeah, but they earned $30,000.

(37:10):
Yeah, before they got caught within.
It was such a short amount of time.
Yeah, it was like 3 or 4 months.They was not 30 grand, making
these counterfeit IDs that were apparently spot on.
So in this like they they were arrested for it, but the judge
decided not to have any convictions linked to it.

(37:33):
And his words in stating that hesaid that he hoped that his
exceptional artistic talents would be good used for good
purposes only from this point forward.
But no, I think he had to do a little bit of community.
Service, that's all he got, but he didn't get any convictions,
no. So the other thing that he did
also do, which the police were blown away by, was his $50 note

(37:53):
that he counterfeit. But he never.
Actually, no, he never used it. But like, they were impressed
with his skills, even his forfeiting.
Like, yeah, yeah, the forfeiting.
Oh my God, what did I say? The forging forgery skills.
Forgery skills, I mean, yeah, apparently this banknote, this
$50 banknote was. Perfect.

(38:15):
Yeah, he just hadn't gotten to apoint yet where he was able to
print it. Incredible artistic ability.
And as the judge comments, you know, it's like, if if only he
could have used that ability andused it for good.
Yeah, he's talented. Incredible.
Yeah, but he was using it for evil.
And he is such an evil piece of shit.
All right, so we've kind of given a bit of a background on

(38:37):
him now, but a. Little bit further on to that.
So with that along with that there was also a a psychiatric
report that was done on Gable atthe time of this arrest etcetera
that had never, he had assessments done prior to this
as well. So they did a line, but he'd
never been fully diagnosed with anything prior to this.

(38:58):
But this is where he did receivea diagnosis from this
psychiatric report. So in that report, let me just
grab out what was actually. So was this the one in 2009?
No 2006. OK, so I think in 2006 they they
basically diagnosed him with autism spectrum disorder, but

(39:20):
Asperger's, which was which was what they were diagnosing at the
time. Yes.
And severe obsessive compulsive disorder.
Yeah. So it was stated in it that he
was considered as partially disabled.
Yeah. Was noted that he had a limited
social life or ability to socialise.
The psychiatrist noted that he didn't believe him to be

(39:42):
psychotic, but was he was not able to connect with other
people emotionally put and they put him at a major disadvantage
socially. Yeah.
And that is true. He didn't have many friends,
people he didn't. He was an outcast at school.
Aside from I think of these two friends who he was doing the
counterfeit. Which, yeah, I don't know what

(40:03):
kind of friendship they had as such.
But that's right, they were. Maybe.
Gaining something? Who knows?
Yeah, that's it. But he wasn't well liked at
school or anything like that. People found him really, really
weird. So because he was seeing a
psychiatrist after that diagnosis, which to to his
credit, I'm glad his parents sort of pushed him to do that
and ongoing with seeing this my.Question then, why that wasn't

(40:27):
looked at prior to 2006 where hewas clearly what in his early
20s by that stage, yes, he. I think he was 19 at that.
Yeah, so it's, it blows my mind that he's gone all through
schooling and I you couldn't tell me that some educator along
the way has not raised with them, that maybe there should be

(40:48):
some assessments. 100% and it's taken him.
Because mom was a teacher, yeah.It's taken him a like a court
hearing and being arrested and charged, Yeah, for them to go
down that path. But at least he think, I think
in some ways at least for a couple of years he still saw
this psychiatrist. Yeah.
Who at the end of seeing him in 2009, because then Tosti decided

(41:10):
he didn't want to borrow of it anymore.
Yeah, He basically said that it he basically said that he had
social anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder and
depression in addition to to what he'd previously been
diagnosed with, and it was impossible for him to establish
a rapport with his peers. Yeah.

(41:31):
So. But having all said of all of
that right now, being ASD, yeah,it doesn't make you like a piece
of shit. Like, you know, God, no.
I wanted to really look at this really carefully in respect to
like what, what similarities andwhat differences there are to
ASD and narcissism personality disorder, like as a actual part

(41:54):
personality disorder. Yep.
And some interesting things I think to note are that in terms
of social skills, someone with autism can have difficulty
initiating and maintaining social interactions right due to
their neurological difference. Yep.
However, someone who presents with narcissistic personality
disorder may strategically utilize social skills to

(42:18):
manipulate or control others. OK.
So these are I just want to keepall those things in mind that
difference between those two potentially which can be seen as
being the same thing on the surface.
Yep, Yep. But maybe actually going on
underneath is different, right? And he's a.
Clever. He's a he's very smart.
So his IQ was he He says his IQ was 150.

(42:40):
Yeah. I don't, I'm not gonna I I don't
know if he's accurate in saying that when he says it because
it's he's drunk when he says it.Yeah, but I wouldn't be shocked
if that if that was the case. He's so.
And then in terms of self esteemand the way that might present
in terms of someone with autism,this their self esteem can be
impacted due to their social challenges.

(43:01):
OK right. Yep.
But while someone with Gnostic personality disorder has an
inflated sense of self importance and a need for
constant admiration. Yeah.
OK. So that that really resonates
with me because he lost his virginity when he was 17.
He then didn't have sex again until he was in his.

(43:22):
What was he, 2425? Yeah.
So he and by that stage he needed, he needed that
validation. Exactly.
From an external source, becauseso he did lose a lot of weight
after school, he got into the gym.
He was like, you know, muscle man.

(43:44):
He was on these bodybuilding webs, like forums and websites.
Oh my God, some of the fucking banter on there is disgusting.
But you know what? I actually really thought he
would write something about women on there, something really
derogatory. 9 times out of 10 someone, another man on that
forum, on these bodybuilding forums would call him out.

(44:04):
For yeah, yeah. And thank fucking God there are
men like that out there. I mean, I know there are.
Unfortunately, there was more people who wanted his advice on
how to also do the same. So, OK, So what you're alluding
to now is when he started to getfit and obviously he had this
absolutely inflated sense of self and he needed that

(44:25):
validation from women. So he decided that he would
sleep with 100 women in 12 months.
That was his goal. Yeah, because he outright said
like that he had low self esteem.
Yep, and that sleeping with women made him feel better.
Yep, literally he wrote that on,on one of these forums, so.
And yeah, there were blokes who were like, oh, let us know how
you go. Let us know how you go about
doing that. Anyway, he does that.

(44:47):
He hits his hundredth women and he posts about it and he's like,
you know, loving himself sick. We could just have one of the
quotes he had on there was Had a21 year old Tinder date come
over for drinks. We're getting along fine, start
kissing, feeling each other. She's small so I go to hug and
lift her up and take her inside from the balcony.
But she totally freaks out, Mumbles something about getting

(45:10):
back to her parents and bolts out the door.
Deletes me off her both Tinder and Facebook.
Maybe I acted too abruptly and snapped her out of her little
lust. Trans by minute manhandling her.
Oh my God, he also, oh God, he'sfucking disgusting.
He called them all young sluts, sluts, IE sluts.

(45:30):
What a fucking tosser. Oh, like there's.
And multiple quotes like that onthere.
There's another one where he comments around that he had two
he slept with two women last night, one of them being a four
out of 10, so not even worth mentioning or.
Because normally he doesn't go below A7, he said.
He's. Just disgusting the way he
speaks about women. His absolute disrespect of women

(45:53):
is revolting. He also uses the word frigid a
lot and it's just I fucking hatethat word.
But because they didn't want to sleep with him the first time
they met him. Yeah, you know what?
They want to get to know you as a person.
Oh, shock. Or they were creeped out by him
because the other thing is. As this girl was, I think that
young, yeah. 20 year old you would be.

(46:13):
The other thing is, he had actually been banned from most
of the most of the nightclubs inSurfers Paradise because he was
such a fucking creep that he made all of the other patrons
feel so uncomfortable. To the yeah but women had
complained about him to to clubsand they banned him like they
would agreed with them and had it on camera and what have you
that they went Oh yeah yeah no, you're not coming back in here

(46:35):
like. So he couldn't actually go to a
club, thank God. Oh, this is it, yeah.
Oh. God, so fucking disgusting.
Yeah, so fucking disgusting. Anyway, so he links up with
Warina on Tinder on it was a that the day before I think they
met up, No. They didn't meet up, they just
chatted on. Yeah, but did that, Was that the

(46:56):
day before that? I think it wasn't long before,
yeah. Yeah, I think it was.
So they, yeah, it's not like they've been.
Chatting well they might have even as soon as she got almost
like arrived in Australia, I think they started talking and
then over those few days they were like they were chatting and
then they seriously they followed the day before they met
up, they said well, let's get. Together, OK, I know there were
like 180 odd messages between them before they, yeah, actually

(47:18):
met up, but they agreed to meet at A at the front of a Tavern in
Cavill Avenue. Surfers Paradise and CCTV shows
them both sort of meeting up at about 8:45 PM on the night of
the 8th of August. Yeah, in 2014.
And well, so. Right, So what they had

(47:38):
originally planned on doing is going to this beer garden.
They go to the beer garden, they're there for like 2 or 3
minutes and they obviously decide to go and get beer and
take it back to his apt. I don't know if it was busy.
I I don't, I don't know. But then they go, yeah, they,
they're then seen on CCTV going to a bottle shop and buying a

(47:58):
six pack of two. His extra dry.
Yeah, like, come on, show her a good time.
I could have at least gone a crowning.
Oh no, Peter will have you for that, No.
He will, but this is like a throwback to my mum.
We were out one day and I don't know, the boys had ordered beers
or whatever and mum's like, oh, why aren't you getting a Crowny?

(48:19):
Nothing better than a Crowny. My dad.
Maybe it's a generational thing on my mum.
There's so many benefits. And the crown, the the fancy
beer, Yeah. There's nothing better than a
Crowny. Well, turns out mom.
Yes there is, but there's also worse.
So the two is extra dry. 6 Pack goes home with them to to

(48:41):
Tosti's 14th floor apartment in Surfers Paradise.
Yeah. So with I think they arrived
there like 9:00-ish. It's not long.
It's like after the first meeting. 15 minutes or something
after they first met up that they were in his apartment.
Yeah. And According to him, they drink
the beers, the six beers, and then he has homemade vodka.
He's like moonshine. Moonshine essentially.

(49:01):
Now, I looked up a little bit about this.
So I think you are allowed to still.
Did you not do that? No, we used to do it.
All, Yeah. Yeah.
When I was like, yeah, yeah, we used to always make our own
vodka. How?
God, I can't remember now. We used to make it a friend's
place. She was, she was mad on making
her own vodka. And we because we always had it
in the freezer at her place whenever we'd go there and she'd

(49:22):
make different, like we'd make different combinations of things
like to go with it. And yeah, we used to do a
Skittles 10. Yes, I know we used to put like
Redskins in a bottle of Absolutethat was delicious back in the
day. Oh yeah, yeah, we do those like
and yeah, I just like, do different mixtures and things
with what you put in it. But yeah, we'd make her own
vodka. Not never, I've never done that.

(49:43):
But then what happens when you distill vodka is it comes out at
100% alcohol or 200 proof, and you've got to then dilute it to
be the right proof. And most vodkas are 40 to 50% or
Yeah, what would that be? 80 to 100 proof?
Yeah. But you don't know if you're
making moonshine, like, God onlyknows.
You could have it whatever concentration you want.

(50:06):
It's worth noting that Gable didhave a binge drinking problem.
You know, like he seriously had a drinking problem.
He he knows it. Even so, he was, he was very
used to his moonshine, I guess, that he was making.
I questioned that a little bit of how much he drank, but in in
comparison to her. But we also should say he was

(50:28):
quite a big guy in terms he was 6 foot three, you know, well
built not he was, you know, at the time very fit but very
muscular. Yeah.
Yeah. So he was very much into his
training and stuff. But she was 5 foot 4 Bailey sort
of thing. She was she.
Made like 55 kilos or something like she's.
Tiny in comparison. She was tiny, yeah.

(50:49):
So very different builds in terms of for their drinking,
yeah. Of what their their ability to
be able to take this and hold their liquor basically, I think
would be very different. Yeah.
But it was, would have been verystrong what he what he had made
for sure. Yeah, and she didn't know that.
Like she's drinking this moonshine.
God only knows what concentration it was.

(51:11):
And he was pouring them too. I mean, it's his house, I guess
that kind of. Makes sense and we and I know
they did have shots as well as some as mixers like so there was
a bit of both happening and theycan individually hit you at
different ways. Yeah, yeah.
So after having quite a few drinks, they then had sex in his
bedroom. Yep.
According to him it was consensual and.

(51:33):
But I mean, I guess we will never truly know because.
From the video from the recording, I would assume that
was a consensual act that that one.
Yeah, the OK. Yeah, OK.
I would go with that. Yeah.
I mean, the fact that she was still around and having the
banter, I suppose. Yeah, that makes sense.
We'll say at 1:00 AM they continue drinking and he turns
on his phone to record. Now from that recording, the

(51:56):
beginning of it, I would say, yeah, they're very much in it
that well, it was fun. They were having fun.
It was, it was playful. It was.
It was but. You could tell she was
incredibly inebriated. Yeah, and and just getting more
and more so. Throughout it, you can hear him
pouring her drinks. Yeah, he does make comments
about, Oh my God, you're so drunk, do you want something to
eat? But then you can also hear
drink, like a pouring of a drinkon the background.

(52:17):
So I'm like, OK, what is it? Yeah, but this recording, so
this is a three hour and 19 minute recording and you can
find it on YouTube and listen tothe entire thing.
Very fascinating. Have you listened to the entire
thing? Right through I have only
because we've had this extra week.
If we had have recorded this last week, I hadn't listened to
the whole thing right? Well.

(52:38):
I've listened through a snippet,I've listened to the whole thing
right through. Yep.
Twice. Yep.
Oh, wow. And I've listened to some
snippets back again quite a number of times.
OK, particular spot where we'll get to.
Yeah, it's a Now he did this regularly.
Yes. He would turn his phone on to
record. This was something he did,

(52:58):
apparently, because because he knew he drinks, he drank so much
he would forget parts of the evening.
And so he wanted to. He would, because he would
document his escapades on this forum as well as in a diary
entry style of like who we sleptwith, what they like.
Yeah. And so he would then use these
recordings to go back and remind, remember what happened.

(53:22):
I find this really intriguing ofthat.
I mean, it's an OCD potential, yeah thing.
I don't know. But it's a little bit
voyeuristic. It's it's a bit stalkerish.
It's a bit odd, but yes. And he leaves this recording on
from 1:00 AM right through, as Isaid, three hours and 19 minutes
long recording the. A lot of the recording is

(53:47):
there's no one talking. This is it like.
It's it's just blank space, which, OK, that's fine, but
what? Oh my God.
It's really worth noting, though, really important, I
think, and I don't think that this was emphasized enough in
the trial, that he was the only one who knew the recording was
on. Yes, I think Irena had no idea

(54:08):
she was being recorded, whereas he was fully conscious that he
was being recorded. I think it's also worth noting
that OK, that in the recordings you can tell she is wasted, but
he seems very coherent and very together and very controlled,

(54:29):
very in control. Yeah, there is definitely.
Look, I'm not. Yeah, as I say, I'm not not
saying that he wasn't drunk or that I don't.
I don't think they were going one for one.
No. You know.
Not no. And when you listen to the
recordings too, with the way her, I mean in that space of

(54:50):
because I say, OK, so at about the 2:00 AM mark and we're
saying it starts at 1, at about the 2:00 AM mark is where this
horrendous thing occurs. So it's only an hour of
recording of her, and in that time you hear her decline in
terms of her inebriation. Oh yeah.
And to me, I question and I could not find a pathology

(55:13):
report, toxicology report to find out.
I do question. Did he put something else also
in her drinks? But I also think if he's feeding
this 5 foot 455K it. Could.
Just be moonshine that we don't even know how potent that was.
Yeah, it could have just been that all catching up with her

(55:33):
because in that hour that you'retalking about, you can hear
drinking throughout that whole time.
So, you know, you might have oneor two drinks in an hour and
feel like a bit light headed, but if you've been drinking all
night and then on top of that, you're having concentrated
alcohol. Yeah.
I reckon it might even just be that.
I feel it could be. I feel like if there was more to

(55:55):
it, I'm sure a toxicology reportwas done.
Yeah. But I'm sure if there was more
to it, we would know about it. It would have come out in the
trial. It would have well, there was a
lot come out in the trial that should have true.
So yeah, I, I'm I really I, I would believe both.
I could definitely very much be led to say, yeah, absolutely,

(56:17):
she just drank a lot more than he did.
Yeah. And that he has more tolerance
than she does. I would say that's.
True that. So we could get to it for that
point, but I just there's a little question mark over it for
me that could there have been something else in her system as
well? Yeah, I think that's completely
fair. Her blood alcohol concentration
at autopsy. Yeah, this is actually really

(56:37):
friggin horrible. And just maybe skip ahead 30
seconds if you don't want to hear this, but due to the way
she died, there was not enough blood left within her body to do
a blood alcohol reading. So they actually had to take
vitreous humor from her eye. They took samples of her liver
in order to determine the fact that her blood alcohol level was

(57:00):
somewhere around the .156 mark, so three times over the legal
limit. So she, she was inebriated.
You've also got to understand that this happened like quite a
while later. And although when you die your
body stops processing alcohol like it, it would have been
somewhere around that, around that level anyway.
So she was drunk. Yeah, very much so.

(57:22):
All right, so the recording you can listen to is very
interesting and you hear like them just, as we said, bantering
bit of playfulness and they start sort of fighting, like,
but play fighting and like, I don't know, I just kind of
listening to it. You just really do the whole
like, Oh yeah, like it's two youngish people having a bit of

(57:43):
a, you know, play and I don't know it.
Gets a bit aggressive. Yeah, it it builds though.
But this is at 1:35 where Rena says to him.
So she accuses him of taking herphone.
Well, accuses him. It was in his pocket.
Yeah, it was, and it was still in his pocket after the fact as
well. Yeah, but she says to him, no.

(58:06):
Yeah, she says to him, are you going to my tie me?
Because I will fucking destroy your jaw.
And then. Like.
All of a sudden it kind of all comes down again.
It kind of goes up and down and.That's the thing, you only get a
getting recording. You're not getting any video.
There's no context of what is happening visually in that room.
You're only going by audio of what is happening and then his

(58:30):
word. Oh yeah.
So yeah, she did. She does get quite aggressive
in, but she's she's lost her phone and her wallet.
Yeah. Now that would be quite scary,
terrifying as a female in a male's apartment.
You can't find your wallet in your phone.
And maybe. And because there was a couple
of occasions where she had mentioned going home.

(58:50):
Yeah. And it would sort of, he would,
I feel, manipulate the conversation of be like, Oh,
yeah, I can walk you home if youwant, but how about have another
drink like it was, you know, it was redirect.
Music or like he'd changed the subject yes.
And she was so drunk, she kind of just.
Went with it so it sounds like he's doing the right thing of
offering to walk her home but then also knows it's.

(59:12):
Being recorded, yeah. Yeah, so it does, yeah,
obviously escalate at this pointbecause yeah, he.
And The thing is, he did take her phone and wallet.
He did hide it from it. Yeah.
So what the fuck was with that exactly?
What was that's not even goal inthis about in the trial, no.
So he's got her phone and her wallet and she's hunting
everywhere, trying to find it and going, getting angry and
angry. Like where is it?

(59:32):
You've stole my money, you know,yelling at him and he's calm as
fuck. Which is creepy.
During the whole like, well, what are you gonna do?
Like, oh, well, if you're gonna call the cops, how are you gonna
do it? I thought you lost your phone.
And then he says to her, Do you want me to call your phone?
What's your number? Which?
Which he has her number. They've been they've been
texting, not communicating through Tinder.
They've been texting each other.Yeah.
So he had her number. Yeah.

(59:54):
He's really fucking with her. Yeah, he.
This is the thing and I find andthat really, that's where these
are the moments where I go. This is an ASD.
This is narcissistic. Yeah.
This is manipulating her to feeling like, yeah, oh, look,
I'm doing nothing wrong. I'm trying to help you here.
Sliding her. Holy girl sliding her with his.
Her phone is fucking in his pocket and he knows exactly
where it is. But on the recording we don't

(01:00:15):
know that, you know what I mean?Not yet, no.
He's way too aware of himself and the situation to be 1.
As drunk as her, but also not controlling of the situation.
Yeah, yeah. I just finally.
I agree, at 2:10 AM there's a struggle.
Now this is really difficult to hear when you listen to the

(01:00:38):
audio. That's something you guys choose
to do. It is so incredibly full on.
It sounds as though she's actually being suffocated by
something. Yeah.
And her voice is muffled. She tries to say a couple of
things. Her voice is really muffled.
Yeah. And then you can quite clearly
hear after that her say that hurt my vagina.

(01:00:59):
What the fuck was he doing to her?
Yeah. What was he doing to her in that
few minutes? Honestly.
I really fuck. I think that's the key to it all
to be honest. I fully.
Agree. I fully fully agree.
I think it's been overlooked at the trial while 100%, yeah,
there's, there's more to that moment.
Yeah, that has been given creditto in the trial.

(01:01:19):
Yeah, yes. So he sort of laughs that off.
We just, I don't know he's. Well, he kind of.
No, he does. He goes.
Yeah, I don't know. He's just awful.
Then she starts playing with these like on his coffee table.
Well, again, this is his word. This is his word.
He says that she picked up theserocks off of like, obviously,
you know, one of those. Ornamentals.

(01:01:40):
Ornamental things, sort of. Thing and she was piffing them
at him but. Oh, he could easily make that up
because she's incoherent at thispoint and he just goes ow, yeah.
Ow, what if I could do on that for you hurting me?
I could. And then he starts around at
once. At one stage he uses these, the
words. And I don't know if you've got
the exact quote there of the, you know, you're lucky I haven't

(01:02:01):
dragged you out on the balcony and throwing you off my balcony.
Yeah, which is just fucking awful.
Fucked it's I'll get that directquote.
In Yeah. But then she calls him Sam
Winchester then, which kind of brings him back.
It does it kind of like, flips him back into like a more
sympathetic tone. Like the way he switches is

(01:02:24):
another thing that really gets me.
And he says to her sexually, I'll be your slave.
Then in another second, he goes to a You've worn out.
You're welcome. You are not my kind of girl.
Yeah, yeah, you have to leave. And she says OK, but she's

(01:02:45):
gasping for breath. Yes.
And she? Goes.
OK, like it's, it's a real like.Yeah.
Desperation or something there's.
Something happening in that roomthat we're unaware of, but he's
fully aware of. Like she seems very at this
point, she is petrified in my mind.
You can hear it in her voice andshe I can sense this thing of

(01:03:07):
like, I need to work out how I'mgetting out of here.
So the prosecution allege at this point that her face is down
on the carpet and that's the muffled, like he's holding her
down face down into the rug or next to the coffee table.
Yeah. And that's the muffled noise,
because that's what's what he's restraining her.

(01:03:28):
And then he calls her fucking insane.
You're lucky I haven't chucked you off my balcony, you God damn
psycho little bitch. And then she says something
that's unintelligible to the recording and she.
Says. Can barely speak.
She can't speak. She he goes.
What? What?
You've got something to say. Yeah, it's really derogatory the

(01:03:49):
way he speaks to her at that point too.
Really demeaning like. Yeah, and he's got her face in
the fucking rug so she can't sayanything.
He's he's. Oh my God, yeah.
He's restraining her and he's he's he admits that he is
restraining her as if like she'ssome threat to him.
Yeah, She's half his size. Yeah.
So at this point he claims they were in the room and that the

(01:04:13):
door was the front door of his apartment was further away than
the balcony door. So why that matters, I don't
know. Because the front door is where
you send someone who you want toleave your apartment.
Absolutely right. What he says, he says to her, at
this point, you're not going to collect any belongings or

(01:04:34):
anything. You're just going to walk out
and I'm going to slam the door on you.
You understand? If you, if you try to pull
anything, I'll knock you the fuck out.
So she she does try to get out at that point.
Yeah. There's a gurgling and rasp
being sounded in the recording. And so we don't actually know
what she was trying to say. She was trying to say something.

(01:04:55):
The prosecutors allege that Tosti was actually strangling
her at this point, or he had herin some kind of hold.
So her hyoid bone wasn't damagedand there were no signs of
strangulation on autopsy. However, apparently there are
certain holds that you can do that don't leave a mark.
And that's what they believe he was doing at this point, Yes.
And because he had some martial arts training, he had this like

(01:05:19):
a lot of, I mean, he was on all these forums and stuff, they
allege that he used this hole, that that wasn't going to leave
any marks on her. He claimed at this point that
she was holding and threatening him with a telescope clamp.
Yeah. Yeah, OK, cool.

(01:05:40):
You're still also waiting to getbigger.
And yeah, and could overpower it, but whatever at 2:19 and.
Why did she feel the need to have a weapon at that point?
Oh, well, exactly. I mean, I think to me it's
undeniable. The fact that she was being
restrained and feeling threatened and feeling
threatened, she needed to, yeah,have something to defend herself
with. Yeah.
At 2:19 there are sounds that they think we think the balcony

(01:06:05):
door opening. Yeah.
Oh no, the balcony door was already open so you don't hear
it opening. Oh, yes, sorry, Yeah, yes.
Yeah, you can hear her being it being it closing but but.
In the preceding that sorry, yeah, you actually, she screams
the word no 31 times. Please, if you don't do anything
else just to hear the desperation in this poor girl's

(01:06:27):
voice, listen to this bit. It's horrific.
It's horrific because she's like, she's desperate and it's,
it's, it's almost animalistic the way she's screaming.
It's uncontrollable. She's like, she's desperate.
Desperate. Absolutely.
Just frightened. Terrified.

(01:06:48):
And interestingly, A neighbor reports that a similar no, no no
was heard by her at least about a month prior to this of the
exact same, you know, level of threat.
Yep, sorry. Yep, that's exactly right.

(01:07:08):
So the commotion and the noise. So now that what we think has
happened, I guess, or what's been reported to have happened
is that Tosti removes her to thebalcony and he clocks her out
there. He closes the balcony door.
On the click. Yes, you can.
So I guess the recording proves that he was inside when she was

(01:07:30):
out on the balcony. You can actually also hear now,
this is absolutely horrific, butyou can hear her scream as she
falls off the balcony to her death.
Yeah. Which 25 seconds after that
scream, you hear him ring his lawyer.
His lawyer, Not triple. O Nope.

(01:07:53):
Not the not an ambulance, not the police, not desperate for
help. He doesn't even go out and
check. Nope, you don't hear the door
open again to the balcony. He doesn't go out there and look
because in his words that would highlight where she came from
and that it would look bad for him and that he might have

(01:08:14):
pushed. Her.
Yep, he says. If he if someone had have seen
him on the balcony, they would have assumed he'd pushed her.
Yep, and he so he had the forethought to think that in
that moment of like a holy shit,she's gone over the edge and
then ring ring his and ring his lawyer who didn't answer.

(01:08:35):
And this is all on the recordingas.
Well, Yep, he's still got the recording.
Still got the recording Hours after this.
Yep, a bit over an hour and a bit after this.
What he does next is incredibly interesting.
Very. Now none of this, from this
point onwards, none of this was admissible in court.
So none of this was heard in thetrial.
And I really think that this goes back to that potentially

(01:08:58):
that comment around that hurts my vagina because, and I think
this is where the if the jury heard what happened here, the
the outcome could have been different.
I I agree with you so hard. And the reason it wasn't allowed
in is because the judge deemed it prejudicial.
And you know what? Because that would make him

(01:09:18):
guilty. Yeah, funny that.
All right, let's let's talk about it and tell everyone what
actually happened after this. So he rings his lawyer, who
doesn't answer. He then you can hear in the
recording a little. Well, I can't remember which
comes first. I've got it all you.
Can hear him putting his pants on.
Yep. So you can hear him help.
Doing those things, but you'll also hear a spinning and that

(01:09:39):
spin. Many people have played this
recording, have done it themselves at home of like
played that sound to see if it matches and it checks out in
terms of who he was as a person too.
That a dumbbell has like an end on it that holds the the weight
onto it. And it's that sound of one of
those coming off and suddenly being put down.
He is then seen exiting his apartment with an item in his

(01:10:03):
hand that looks like a dumbbell rod, like it's a long metal
thing in his hand. Yep.
He walks out of his apartment, goes down, and you can hear the
Ding of the elevator arriving. He weirdly does something and
you can hear it all. In the recording of life, we
think he must leave his door open or wait or press the button
of the of the elevator which must been right near his door.

(01:10:25):
I think it was. He's pressed the button of the
of the elevator and then insteadof waiting in the hallway, he's
waited inside his apartment for the the elevator to arrive
because you hear the door close of his apartment after the Ding
of the elevator arriving. So he's left his door open.
It did have some sort of auto close function on it too.
So he's he's waited inside rather than waiting out in the

(01:10:47):
hallway, which again, sounds really SUS.
Totally. And then, so he gets into the
and then you can see him on the CCTV as he's come down through
the elevator again carrying thatitem.
He then wanders around the streets.
He calls his dad. I believe it's before he calls
his dad. You hear him dispose of whatever

(01:11:08):
that was in his hand and you hear the clunk of it.
Like where he put it. Nobody knows.
We don't know. He's not on CCTV at the point of
like that of the recording, but he disposes of this metal thing.
You can hear it clear as day drop where it was in a bin or
something, don't know, but he's definitely disposed of it at
that point because he didn't have it on him later.

(01:11:29):
As far as we're aware, he calls his dad.
Well, first of all, he gets a slice.
Of no, that's after Oh no no, hegot the pizza for pizza.
First he does. He goes to some pizza shop
that's open on Cavill Ave., getsa slice of Supreme Pizza.
Sits down and calls his dad. Yep, I think I could be in
trouble here, Dad. At this point, swarming around

(01:11:51):
the the bottom of the apartment block are police officers,
ambulances, gathering people. Because So just to go back a
little bit, yeah. I mean, no, I mean, that's
totally all relevant. But there were three
eyewitnesses to Werena's death. Yeah.
So the first was Nick Casey. So he was two floors below

(01:12:13):
Tosti's apartment and visiting his friend Emily.
She was. They were both hairdressers.
And the other person was directly below Tosti's
apartment. Her name was Gabrielle Collier
Widener, and she's the one who heard someone a few months
earlier saying no, no, no, no, no as well out on the balcony in
the same panicked sort of tone. They hear all of this banging

(01:12:37):
and yelling and that that causesthem to come out onto their
balcony to find out what is actually going on.
And when they look up, they see Wright standing on a concrete
ledge on the wrong side of the balconies.
Glass balustrade and Nick says that he remembers right, saying
she just wanted to go home and he said you've got to get over

(01:13:00):
the other side. You can't get.
Out this. Way and but she kind of like
turns to twist around to then face the Bella straight so she
was facing out at that point shegoes to twist around to.
In her sober world, she was quite athletic, you know, have
ability to climb things and stuff like that.
But I mean in a drunken but there was no way they knew that.

(01:13:22):
There was no way she could get where she was trying to get to
by coming over that way. That's right.
But in sheer panic, desperation,She wanted to get out of there,
however. However she could, I think yes.
But in the turning around of that, she's then let go of the
balustrade and they actually seeher fall to her death.
Like, so Nick actually was interviewed by a New Zealand

(01:13:44):
newspaper a few years later and he said, I think he's studying.
Like, no, actually, this might have been Gabrielle.
Actually, she said that she could have reached out and
touched her. That's how close it was.
Yeah. But she still can see the wide
eyed panic and desperation in her face as she felt.
You would never forget that. No way.

(01:14:06):
That's with you for life. It's Oh my God, it is absolutely
with you for life. So they're the ones who call
000? Yes.
And both, both, both of them do.And obviously that prompts
ambulance police firies to come.And they are, as Gable says to
his dad's, swarming the buildingbecause a woman has fallen to

(01:14:26):
her death. Well, the.
What did he expect? Yeah.
The coroner's report stated thather body had practically, well,
not practically, it had folded itself in half.
She'd lost all of her blood volume on impact, so you can
imagine the scene, it would havebeen horrific, absolutely
horrific. The only thing of that is that I

(01:14:48):
bloody hope then she just didn'tfeel any of it.
Oh, it would have been instant. Yeah, it would have.
Been that is the instant only redeeming, if anything, of that.
Yeah. Oh God, a terrible, terrible way
to go. Horrific.
But yes. So we're back to Gable Tosti
sitting there having his pizza, recording himself call his dad.

(01:15:10):
And that conversation on the phone gets me with his dad on
both sides. So his comment to his dad is
yet, oh, I think I might be in abit of trouble here.
And he starts explaining to his dad the night that he had this
girl over, we would just play fighting.
And she's gone off the balcony. Now, Dad's reaction on the phone

(01:15:31):
is basically, oh, have you called?
Called Miss? Mr. Potts, the lawyer?
Oh, yeah, he's not answering. Like, you know, not not Is she?
Is she OK? Is she?
OK. Have you called Triple O he?
Has to he immediately defends himself of like, you know, Oh
no, I had nothing to do with it like I didn't push her or
anything it's like I I just blows my mind the conversation

(01:15:53):
between the two of. Them I know because like I'm in.
And how about have you called Triple O, mate?
Yeah, why are you calling me? Triple O, I'll be there in a
SEC. Yeah.
Oh wait, you're not there. Fucking get back.
Then where are you? Where are you, You know, kind of
stuff. He's like, he's just like, I
mean, I get it. It's 2:00 AM and 2:30 AM in the
morning, like kind of stuff. He's getting a phone call.
He'll be a bit, you know what? What?

(01:16:13):
But I think that it's sober and wake you up pretty bloody
quickly once you hear that a girl has gone over the balcony
from his apartment and you'd be like, whoa, mate, what is going?
Where are you? Like, what's going on?
It wasn't that kind of panic state.
It was like, okay, well, I'll come and get you.
Yeah. And but hang on what?
I'll come and get you and bring you home.
Not not take you to this. You should be.

(01:16:36):
I would have been like, go over to the police, talk to them,
tell them. Was in my exactly.
If you are actually innocent andyou think you've got nothing to
do with this, why the fuck a didyou not call triple O straight
away and B why have you fled thescene?
Why have you disposed of something?
Yep. Why?
Why all of it? Why all of it?
All of his? Why have you gone and eaten a
fucking slice of pizza? You.

(01:16:58):
Oh, he's hungry. She's hungry.
Oh, I. Just can't.
So obviously, because as you said before, he had her purse
and her mobile phone in his pocket.
So the police were actually unable to.
Identify what actually pissed meoff the most, like in that in
that moment of like, you're not even going over there and
identifying who this person is and saying I know who she is.

(01:17:19):
She's fallen from my apartment. Yes, like that shows more
innocence than walking away going oh, I don't want to be
involved because like they mightthink I did this.
For sure. Like. 100%.
Oh, I just just can't. So anyway, his dad picks him up,
takes him home, and it's not until the next day that he goes
and does turns himself into the police, to which his lawyer, I

(01:17:43):
mean, at that point, I mean, yeah, get a lawyer, whatever, as
you should. We always say lawyer up.
But so his lawyer directs him tomake no comment.
So he literally from that point to trial makes no comment to the
police. So they put their case together
entirely without any statement from him.

(01:18:03):
Again, if you were innocent, wouldn't you tell them what
happened that night? They do produce very quickly the
recording his his defense fully believe from the get go that
that recording will prove his innocence because the door lock
is heard prior to her falling. However, that is not how the law

(01:18:25):
works. So he they, the police were able
to charge him with murder, potentially manslaughter.
So the trial was based around the fact of was it murder or
manslaughter or neither? Because did he his actions
create an environment where she plummeted to her death due to

(01:18:49):
his intimidation and his behaviour?
Yes, yes, yes, 100% no. I think, I think the see to me,
the recording shows that he's called.
I I really do. I don't know how.
I don't know how you would thinkotherwise, although I I
understand. Yes, he did not push her.

(01:19:10):
There are theories that people have put out, like I'm talking
Reddit threads and that kind of thing.
But people are like, well, maybewhen he physically manhandled
her out onto the balcony, did heplace her on the other side of
the balustrade? We don't, we don't know.
Nobody saw that, no. And so then.
Her. Seat and to climb back over.
Did she fall? That's right, we don't.

(01:19:31):
We don't actually know. We don't know that mechanism.
What we know and what wasn't presented at trial is what he
did after, which I think shows that he's he's guilty.
Like something happened. Person would have called 000,
rushed down those fight 14 flights of stairs or whatever as

(01:19:51):
quickly as they possibly could. They would have given the police
every every assistance, every piece of information from the
night that they could. Yeah.
I I just. So the, the, the wording in this
is that was he responsible for her death?
And I fucking believe he was. Yeah.
He was the one who fed all that alcohol.
Yeah. He was the one who put her on

(01:20:12):
the balcony. Terrified.
Yep. And knowing she was obviously
she was very dazed and confused.I mean, if he had of just
suffocated her slash strangled her, she was possibly like
oxygen deprived. We don't actually know.
Yeah, what the I don't know. I, I just, I can't believe that

(01:20:34):
the way that this was presented in court was allowed, to be
honest, I think, I think the jury would have, I mean, the
fact that they heard all of the recordings up until the point
where the balcony door locked. Basically they, and I mean you
can actually then hear her scream as she falls as well if
if you listen carefully enough, which is.

(01:20:56):
Absolutely horrific. I did have to listen quite a few
times to get that I didn't hear it straight up.
Same and he claims he didn't. Hear it again, but.
He would have looked out and seen that she wasn't there.
Like to me, that's not an excuse.
Yeah, he claims he doesn't hear that, but hang on.
Wait, why did you call the lawyer?
Exactly 35 seconds or 2525 seconds later.
Like seriously, fuck off. Oh God, you knew what had

(01:21:18):
happened. Yeah, this is it.
He or he did, and I really then go back to OK, right, he's left
that apartment with this very unusual piece of weaponry
potentially in his hand. What was that used for and why
is he having to dispose of it exactly?
Now in an autopsy of her, as we said, had horrendous her body

(01:21:38):
had been impacted by this and not saying that he would have
known that that's what would happen at the end of it all, but
what did he do with that implement?
And there's a statement from hersaying that hurt my vagina.
Did she did something happen with those two things to equate

(01:22:00):
her feeling very much because itgets escalated very quickly
after that of did he do something to her that made her
go this is I got to get out of here.
This isn't OK. And that's where it's ramped up.
And and she did fear for her, for her life then.
I think my personal theory is, and this is just what I think,

(01:22:21):
but I think that is exactly whathappened.
He's used that weapon in the perpetration of some kind of
sexual act potentially, and he'sneeded to dispose of that
because it would have contained the DNA and evidence.
And then that would have been been able to show that there was
a reason for her to. Be, that's right, a reason for

(01:22:42):
her to be. Scared and want to get out of
there? He was able to think so clearly
and concisely in that moment. Just makes me feel like a lot of
this was either he's done it before and he's, you know, and
Yep, we've got eyewitnesses who say they've heard or, you know,
auditory witnesses who've who'vesaid that they've heard similar
sounds coming from his apartmentin the past.

(01:23:04):
We know he has swindled at leasta.
Well, what was it by this point,128 or something moving into
sleeping with him. Yeah, he is an absolute piece of
shit. So there's another bit of
evidence that I don't know if you call it evidence, but
something else that was held from the withheld from the jury
and they didn't know about was that.

(01:23:24):
So there was a long time betweenthis occurring and the trial
happening in 2016, right? So 2.
Years, a long time part. Of the reason of that was that
he had not too long after this occurrence with Wirina, he had
been Oh no, it might have been before it actually it was.
It was before. It was before he had been

(01:23:45):
leaving Splendour in the grass yes, and had a high speed chase
with the police across the NSW border.
And after they finally did actually capture him by using
spikes on the road to slow to get him to slow down to capture
get get to him, he refused A breathalyzer and a blood sample.

(01:24:08):
Eventually they got a a reading off of him of .2.
Yep. So I mean, this is I mean he
must have been absolutely off his nut because that's much
light later after the fact that I finally got that out of him
that he refused it for so long. So his reading was probably even
higher when they first he was when he was in that.

(01:24:29):
Vehicle. Oh yeah, for sure.
So from that incident, he then actually was given six months in
in jail, Yeah. So that he did that sentence
between. Yeah.
Between the the Warina case and having his trial, yeah.
So that was not admissible in court and I can understand the
lawyer arguing that to do with it.

(01:24:50):
However, it does paint a pictureof who this douchebag is.
Have you seen the OR heard the footage from that from?
Oh, no. So of course he was recording it
because he recorded fucking everything.
Yeah, but in it he goes, he saysto the police officer.
So yeah, as you said, he's been pulled over.
He was going 195 kilometres now.What a fucking toll.

(01:25:10):
Well. Maybe if he'd killed.
Himself. Oh, if only he said he said to
the police officer, all this is being recorded and the police
officer goes recorded. Is it?
God you're a Dick head. And nail on head.
And the and the he says to the police officer, well what are
you arresting me for? I think police officer goes for
being a Dick head. If only that was a charge.

(01:25:37):
Well-being, a Dick head and driving at 200 kilometers an
hour. Yeah.
And being four times the legal limit, yeah.
Maybe that just thinking. Just maybe.
Yeah. Well, so anyway, obviously the
the jury did have an issue at trying to come in to come to a
conclusion on this. It took them after a six day
trial, it took them four days tocome up with a verdict.
And they had so many questions. Yeah, they came back after six

(01:25:59):
hours and they had like a whole list of questions.
They then had to go and talk about that for longer and.
Yeah, which I think led the prosecute, the defence.
Sorry to believe that. Oh, God, he's gonna get it, you
know, get caught here. Gonna be done here.
Yeah. So there was an incident where
one of the jurors actually posted onto social media a
picture of a coffee cup and likeout the front of the, you know,

(01:26:20):
Supreme Court kind of stuff saying, oh, another day on jury
duty. I've got a tough one turned out,
you know, yeah, she's one of thejurors from, you know, his
trial. I think she actually named it.
I think she did too, which So the defence then wanted to have
a mistrial based on that becausethe jury aren't allowed to talk
about them being on the case that I think the judges credit.

(01:26:40):
I don't think that equal to mistrial.
And he did say no, no, no, we'regoing with this.
We're going to let them go, keepgoing because she didn't say
anything about the actual case in terms of like discussing it.
So, you know, yes, it was not right, but it's toe line, toe
over the line stuff, not not as bad as it could have been.
And when it's escaped enough of to warrant a mistrial.

(01:27:03):
So they did push forward, but then unfortunately the jury then
came back after four days with anot guilty verdict for both
murder and manslaughter. I, I, I don't know how that that
came about. I do think they were obviously,
I think I. Think we need, as you said, to
put this in context of what theyheard because they didn't hear

(01:27:26):
the full. Story This is it.
And probably, to be honest with you, I've given this a lot of
thought over the last week. Yeah, I I do feel like they,
given that if we only knew what they were told, I can kind of
see that that the bar was too high.
That that screen that no no no gets me every.

(01:27:47):
Time I've listened, that's why I'm thinking like it surprises
me that there wasn't a manslaughter charge.
I do understand the murder charge because yes, he didn't
actually physically push her, yes, but.
I do think he's. Responsible.
I do think he's responsible. So I fully think he should have
received at least a manslaughtercharge.
Yeah. So, yeah, I don't know.
And we'll never know why the jury made the decision that they

(01:28:09):
did but that but they. Did look his family again, very
wealthy, had very good lawyers, no question.
Yeah, again, this come of the Earth, but he, he had very good
lawyers who did a very good job of painting a picture that he
wasn't responsible for this, I think.
Yeah, unfortunately the judge didn't allow things into the

(01:28:29):
trial that should have been. And I understand, you know, the
fact that he ate pizza and wandered around for like nearly,
you know, for an hour and a halfafterwards before I think that
element of after the fact not being included, I could have
come out, but the fact that there was more evidence of him
disposing of something. Yes.

(01:28:51):
Was overlooked and should have been included.
Yeah, even the fact that he didn't seek attention for her,
seek medical help or yeah, anything.
Like the fact that he called hislawyer the 1st.
Yeah, exactly, exactly 25 seconds later, like I think that
shows such culpability like. If he drank his dad 1st and then
a lawyer, I could have come at that easier, you know what I

(01:29:12):
mean? Like but to ring the lawyer
first. Yeah, I just all of it just does
not sit right. He.
Literally had a lawyer on speed dial because he's always in
trouble. This was not the first time he
was in trouble. This was not the first time that
he'd been called out for being aDick with women.
There was a pattern here, well and truly, of behaviour that was

(01:29:32):
Red Flag City. 100%. And it doesn't just stop there,
because this man, obviously not being convicted of this,
continues to walk the streets and behave atrociously.
So he was so you, as you said, he did not give any statement to
the police, right. So this put him in really great

(01:29:55):
stead for 60 minutes to offer him 250,000 Australian dollars
for an exclusive interview. Which of course he was like huh
fucking AI don't know how. Anyway, yeah, that's that's that
is what it is. I don't know if it did him any
justice though. It didn't.
I mean, they were. So they did their job.
The was the of the Yeah. And he's good a.

(01:30:18):
Journalist. He's.
All been a he's could have been a Dick.
But he also, he wasn't gonna lethim off.
No. But.
And OK, it didn't pay him in a great light, but what difference
did that make to him? No, like people already knew.
That what had happened, double jeopardy.
He could have literally sat there and went, yeah, yeah, it
was my fault and it wouldn't have got anything.
So yeah, he could speak freely at that point without any

(01:30:39):
consequence. He used all of his behaviour.
He took zero responsibility. He could have taken
responsibility and been like, yeah, look, I probably shouldn't
have given her that much to drink, or maybe I should have
walked her home. When things started to escalate,
there was nothing, nothing. No, he made excuses for all of
his behaviour. When he was asked about how many
women he'd slept with, he's like, Oh yeah, men, men of my

(01:31:01):
age have slept with that many women.
That's not abnormal. Well, that's not unusual.
Like it's fucking really unusual, yeah.
That's and the way you talk about it is what's more unusual.
Yeah. Like there's one thing of like,
if that's I don't know what you do or, you know, Yeah.
But the other thing, other way, like it's the way he spoke about
women generally speaking, was what's really gross.

(01:31:24):
I don't care what your number is.
No, like that's such an irrelevant thing.
It's the fact of how you speak about those people that you've,
you know, had those sorts of relationships with.
Yeah. Well, you know, you call them
relationships, relations. Yeah.
He just, he was, he had a very poor opinion of women, women in
general, which to me equates to someone who is dangerous to

(01:31:47):
women. Absolutely.
He he doesn't respect them, to have to care for them enough to
not have them be hurt or injured.
Yeah, because he continues to this day to get into trouble.
So he's he's now legally changedhis name.
Yeah, so Eric, Eric Thomas, Thomas so and 20 I think, I
can't remember what it was, 22, I think he was coming.

(01:32:08):
He came to Melbourne for something, for some reason.
He was in Melbourne and there's a Facebook group that outed him
on there saying that if he's in Melbourne women and he's, he's,
he is gay Tosti. He's known as Eric Thomas on
Tinder and all these sorts of things.
So don't date him. Like don't go out with him.
He's this, he, this is who he is.
He tried to sue them for it, butthat that didn't, didn't fly

(01:32:34):
because he's, he's well known inareas for doing awful things.
So he's been banned. There's a number of brothels
around the Gold Coast area who have banned him because he's
beaten up women like that. Yes, he's paying them for sex.
He's certainly not paying them to be able to beat them up.
So they have had to ban him frommultiple brothels.

(01:32:55):
He's also, he was, oh God, I've got to find the quote of this.
This is disgrace. He was actually pulled over
again for speeding and and driving under the influence and
found to be driving naked in 2019.
And his statement by the from the police when they asked him,
he crashed the car and when theypulled him out of the car, not
wearing anything, he said they they asked him why he wasn't

(01:33:17):
wearing any clothes and he goes,oh, I was just in that state.
You know what? What?
Sorry, what state? What?
What state? Not, not not usually.
Do you get Like, what's the state that creates you to be
naked in your car driving? How gross.
He's got butt juice all over hiscar seats too.
Yuck. So at that he was like only

(01:33:38):
given 12 months probation for that and fined 350.
Dollars. This is the thing now?
What the fuck? Yeah, he like all of this other
shit that he's done too. Does that not count for
anything? No.
Like fucking put this joker in jail.
He's going to kill someone else.He will.
He will, he will with his reckless behaviour.

(01:33:59):
Yeah. He could not give a fuck about
anyone else or the consequences of his actions.
No. So the biggest one he's had any
kind of consequences too, though?
Yeah, is the most recent in thatin 2022, he was at the Grand
Hotel in Broadbeach, which is operated by the casino, right?
So he was found in a hotel room on top of a woman who was laying

(01:34:22):
on her back with her dress and skirt up around her hips, right?
And he was hitting her. How did?
He was fighting her, who found her security.
They came to a rescue, right, and got him off.
Like, did they hear her? Yeah, yeah.
So they dragged him off him and everything, right.
He was choking her too, by the way.

(01:34:42):
Yeah. So they pulled him off and they
banned him from the casino, right.
And that and because they're they're a group, he was banned
from all their their venues, I believe.
So good fucking well, yeah. But then he being a Dick, so
requested for that ban to be removed because it was.
It was. What did he say?

(01:35:04):
Sorry he was. It was discriminate.
They were discriminating againsthim for being a man.
Oh fuck off. Real men don't choke women.
No. Well, so I love that the fact
that the a judge in this, I don't think it's a judge for the
civil court sort of stuff like Idon't know who the magistrate,
yeah, who they basically turned to him and said no, the ban is

(01:35:25):
staying in place because your claim of gender bias is not
here. This is called domestic
violence. And they most certainly can ban
you for domestic violence in their venues.
It is there is no relevance whatsoever of your gender
claims. So thankfully that one stood

(01:35:46):
but. He's clearly he'll just find
someone. Else this is it.
He's an absolute pest and criminal.
Yeah. He will kill someone else I
reckon. I really, I just feel we will
hear of him again. I, I, well, listen to this,
right. So there's a, an article in, I
think it's like the New Zealand advertiser or something, and

(01:36:08):
where Rena's dad, it's the one and only time he's ever spoken
about the case to this reporter.And he says in it he says please
charge him with the right thing,false imprisonment resulting in
death. I don't know what the charge is
in Australia, but that is 100% what he's guilty of.
That and being an arrogant son of a bitch, but I guess there's
no crime against that. But then at the end he says, he

(01:36:32):
says, I know we haven't seen thelast of him.
That is the nature of the beast.And he's right.
We haven't seen the last of him.I think.
I think her dad is on the money.We haven't seen the last of this
story. Like he hasn't learned anything
from this experience. Because he's not ASD.
He's fucking narcissistic personality disorder.

(01:36:53):
Yep, he's it's. I honestly don't feel that that
ASD covers who he is. Maybe there is ASD there as
well. Yep, not saying that that's not
a possibility. Yep, because he does have
certain traits of like the artistic ability and the
intelligence level, all these other sorts of things.
But there is a narcissistic streak in this person.

(01:37:13):
Both things can be true and. Both of those things can be
true, absolutely. Because he is an absolute sack
of shit. And he will.
He's he has injured women. He's made women feel incredibly
uncomfortable prior to this as well at nightclubs being banned
for that. His alcoholism and drinking and
driving is putting people in danger.

(01:37:33):
There are so many elements of this man that he should be
locked away, or at at very leasthe should be in therapies, well
and truly getting support and help for whatever is going on
for him. From what I can gather, since
2009, he's had no psychological intervention.
There's well, certainly there's nothing reported.

(01:37:54):
Whether he is or isn't, I don't know for sure, but from what I
can see, it's it's stopped at 2009.
So that's five years before thisincident took place and far too
long ago for it to have any effect now, especially if he was
medicated back then. I don't know.
But I, I just think he's dangerous.
I think women need to be aware that he's out there and he's on

(01:38:16):
Tinder again. He should be fucking banned from
all of this. Like he shouldn't be allowed
there. There was a ban while he was
awaiting trial that he wasn't allowed to be on Tinder or any
any. Well, he wasn't allowed on
social media, but he was social.Media, Yeah.
So he, he just doesn't give a shit.
Oh. That was the other thing that
I've I've found more recently. Yeah.
So what he he oh gosh. Now where am I?

(01:38:40):
So, yeah. So he was banned from using
Tinder, right. And being on social media, which
he heavenly heavily was still going as onto his forums and
claiming his his innocence. And he used the name GT when he
was on those forums when he wasn't supposed to be.
Yeah, it was clearly him. Like GT, you think he could have
come up with something a little more anonymous, but OK.

(01:39:01):
But even then, so this Eric Thomas though person who's been
who boast boasted about having sex with 260 women.
Just recently he was boasting these things again on none other
than a page called Blokes Advice.
Now if you've heard of this pagebefore, there's some amazing

(01:39:23):
people out there highlighting how toxic and disgusting this
is. These guys have a podcast as
well. And sometimes men shouldn't have
microphones. They are atrocious.
Absolute toxic masculinity. So this blokes advice pages
supposedly, you know, to help men's mental health, it does the

(01:39:43):
complete opposite because guess what they promote?
Oh, blokes need to have a beer with each other, you know, cope
with these things. Now that will send me off the
edge. Alcohol is part of the problem.
So they're, they're so not equipped to actually support
people's mental health. Yeah.

(01:40:04):
And so, and surprise, surprise, Eric Thomas or Gable Tosti,
whatever you want to call him, is well and truly in on that
page. So that's where he's getting his
mental health advice. He fits the fuck me.
Doesn't he like, you know, that his opinion of women?
Oh yeah, his, just the way his mannerisms, the way he goes

(01:40:25):
about things, it doesn't surprise me that he's on.
A pitch like that? Not at all.
But God, we need to do better. I don't know how we do, how we
fix these things. I don't know.
The legal system doesn't help us.
No, no, because it was certainlywhat I think.
What I see in this is that it was coercive control in terms of

(01:40:48):
how she was being manipulated inthat room.
Agreed. And so there are laws around
that now. And no, in 2016 there weren't.
And I wonder whether it would have been looked at differently
today, even even though it's notin huge amount of time.
But a lot has been changed in that time.
Yeah, there has been things put in place and I would I would
hope that we would see this differently now.

(01:41:08):
Yeah. I don't really hope we're
learning slowly. Yeah, yeah.
I, I look, I would hope so too. I would hope that there'd be a
different lens cast upon it, knowing that as time goes on, we
know more and when you know more, you can do better.
But then I I also understand that the law, while progress has
been made, it still probably hasn't fully caught up to the

(01:41:30):
point where you know, where, forexample, this entire story could
have been told to the jury. And you know what I think would
be the right outcome could have could have come to the fore.
But it just, I don't know, I think there's so there's a lot
of gaps and there's a lot more room for us to to be better and
do better in this in this space.Yep, Yep.

(01:41:54):
Absolute piece of shit. And I'm actually done talking
about him now. I've had enough.
No, I know I can't agree. I think it's.
Worth ending this episode with Werena's family, you know in
mind because they are now havingto live the rest of their lives
without their daughter and theirsister and I can't even imagine

(01:42:14):
how hurtful that would be and. Especially just getting an
outcome, you know, that's right.Someone having being held
accountable, it just makes it even another layer of shit with
this. It's awful.
Yeah, when he is responsible. Yeah, so.
We're thinking of them. Yep.
We're thinking of them for. Sure, Yeah, where are you now?
Most well and truly did not deserve this to occur.

(01:42:36):
She was an incredible young woman and this was just
absolutely an outcome of an evening out where she should
have been that started that started that recording where
there's a bit of fun and banter stuff.
If the the night had ended therefor everyone it would have been
amazing. Yep, Yep, Yep, Yep.

(01:43:01):
I think we're done. I think we're done.
Yeah, we could go on and like the incredulity of it all could
see us through. But anyway, have you looked up
to see what we're doing next week?
Actually, Actually I did. Play around with oh, it's
childers. Oh, the backpacker fire.
Yeah. Oh, this, this is a this is
actually a really fascinating. Yeah, I'm intrigued.

(01:43:21):
I remember obviously occurring, but I actually don't feel like I
know a lot about it. Yeah, so we're sort of back into
Outback ish. Australia too, yeah.
Going back to the Outback, Yeah,yeah.
All right, backpackers. Yeah.
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