F#ck You, Watch Me! Dialing Anger Into Dominance

In this episode of the Unit3d w/ Big Team at Indiana University podcast, PhD student Madeline Koch sits down with Dr. Mitch Abrams, the nation’s leading expert on Anger in Sport. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience working with anger and trauma, Dr. Abrams challenges common misconceptions about anger and reveals why this often-misunderstood emotion can be one of an athlete’s greatest assets, when properly dialed in. 

Together, they reclaim anger as an emotion of action—one that motivates people to course-correct, adapt, and change their circumstances. From the court to the NCAA Transfer Portal, to everyday life, the mindset of “F*ck You, Watch Me!” becomes a powerful catalyst for growth and performance when used intentionally. The conversation breaks down what many of us get wrong about anger, why it is a valid and necessary part of both sport and life, and how learning to understand and regulate it can unlock full potential. Dr. Abrams emphasizes the importance of identifying your optimal level of arousal, recognizing personal triggers and warning signs, and developing tools to keep anger from tipping over into detriment. Join this conversation to unlock the hidden power of anger and learn how top athletes harness it to dominate—not just on the field, but in life.