In this heartfelt episode of Unspoken Conversations with Candace, Jeremy Hansen shares his courageous journey of breaking free from a lifetime of psychological, emotional, and financial abuse at the hands of his parents. From growing up under strict control to discovering his voice, setting boundaries, and building an empowered life, Jeremy’s story is one of resilience, community, and hope.
Jeremy opens up about:
- His childhood experiences of control, manipulation, and competition with his sibling.
- The emotional and psychological toll of abuse and the impact on his self-worth.
- How the pandemic became both the hardest and most freeing time in his life.
- Writing six blogs as a form of healing and self-reflection.
- Recognizing and addressing his own toxic traits learned from his upbringing.
- The role of boundaries in reclaiming his independence.
- How supportive relationships and community work changed his life.
- Why forgiveness is a journey he’s still walking through.
This conversation is filled with deep truths, hard-earned wisdom, and practical encouragement for anyone struggling to leave a toxic environment or find their own voice.
⏱ Timestamps
00:00 – Welcome & Introduction to Jeremy
04:25 – Growing Up in a Controlled & Competitive Household
09:42 – Emotional, Psychological & Financial Abuse Explained
14:58 – Generational Trauma & Parental Patterns
20:40 – The Pandemic: Rock Bottom Meets Breakthrough
27:12 – Blogging as Therapy & Identifying Toxic Traits
34:15 – Learning Boundaries & Standing Firm
40:28 – Financial Independence & Support from a Trusted Friend
45:55 – Suicidal Thoughts & Choosing Life
51:33 – The Healing Journey & Resources for Understanding Narcissistic Parents
58:47 – Forgiveness from a Distance & Ongoing Safety Concerns
1:06:15 – Building a Purpose-Driven Life Through Community Work
1:12:00 – Full Circle Blessings: Gratitude & Looking Forward
No matter where you are in your healing journey, Jeremy’s story is a reminder that it’s never too late to set boundaries, find your voice, and create a life filled with purpose and freedom. If this episode resonates, please share it with someone who might need encouragement, and don’t forget to subscribe for more stories of resilience and hope.
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