Who Mic'd Up the Church, the Colonizers, and the Creepy Uncle?

Who the hell gave the patriarchy a mic—and why is he still talking? In this fiery and unfiltered episode, Dr. Misty traces how religion, colonization, and white supremacy shaped our most shame-filled beliefs about sex and pleasure. From demonizing desire to rewriting sexual freedom as deviance, this episode is a wild ride through history, rage, and radical reclamation. You’ll laugh, you’ll learn, and you’ll probably want to light something on fire (metaphorically… probably).

Includes a reflection prompt + exclusive worksheet for deeper unlearning inside The Ember Society.

 

Episode 7: Who Mic’d Up the Church, the Colonizers, and the Creepy Uncle?
Theme: How history, religion, and white supremacy created today’s sexual expectations

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In This Episode:

• How religion made orgasms feel like sin

• Why colonizers erased Indigenous sexual joy

• The phrase “Less is Morally Superior” and how it f*cks us up

• The real reason shame was invented (hint: it’s about power)

• Why pleasure is a form of rebellion

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This Week’s Journal Prompt:

What’s one belief you were taught about sex, gender, or pleasure that didn’t come from you—but you still carry it?
Who put that idea in your head? Do you even want it there anymore?

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Companion Worksheet: “Unlearning the Inherited Script”
Available exclusively inside The Ember Society
You'll get:
✅ A deep dive into where your sexual beliefs originated
✅ Tools to identify shame patterns in your body
✅ A guided process to rewrite your erotic narrative on your own terms

Join here → members.untamedember.com

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Let’s Get Real About Sex, Shame, and Why Your Ex Was Probably the Problem.
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Chapters

• (00:00:10) - Intro: Who Gave the Patriarchy a Microphone?
• (00:00:58) - Sex Ed from the Church Basement (If You Orgasm, Satan Wins)
• (00:02:16) - Colonization and the Sexual Censorship Industrial Complex™
• (00:03:07) - Who Let the Patriarchy Into the Group Chat?
• (00:04:10) - Key Takeaways: Shame Was Never About Protecting You
• (00:04:55) - Reflection Prompt: Who Put That Idea in Your Head?
• (00:05:12) - Worksheet: Unlearning the Inherited Script
• (00:05:39) - Sign-Off: You Never Had to Earn Your Pleasure