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October 23, 2023 22 mins

So, here's the deal - I've been getting a ton of messages from women just like you, asking how they can create the kind of deep intimacy and connection that I share with my husband. I totally get where you're coming from because I've been there myself.

In today’s episode, we're going to explore 3 practical ways to increase the intimacy in your relationship. Whether you're a busy mom, a career-driven boss babe, or simply juggling a million things at once, these tips will work for you! You’ll discover how to develop a pleasure practice with yourself, get curious about your partner's desires and fantasies, and create intentional moments of connection. These strategies have transformed my own relationship, and I can't wait to share them with you.

We’ll dive deep into:
❤️ Importance of intimacy in a relationship and practical ways to increase it.
❤️ Developing a pleasure practice, what it entails, and building a foundation of self-intimacy through pleasure practices.
❤️ Understanding the partner's desires and turn-ons.
❤️ Deepening intimacy and connection through shared pleasure.
❤️ How cultivating self-intimacy enhances intimacy with your partner.

Building intimacy takes time and effort, but it's absolutely worth it! By prioritizing pleasure, understanding your partner's desires, and embracing playfulness, you're nurturing a thriving and passionate relationship.

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