May 6, 2025 • 35 mins
Are you stuck between dreams and action? In this electrifying episode, Kellan Fluckiger reveals why waking up at 2:30 AM might just be your ultimate life hack. Forget the myths, break through the fake hype, and discover the raw truth behind living a life of purpose, prosperity, and joy.
🔥 Key Takeaways:
✅ Why early risers unlock hidden productivity and creativity.
✅ How to shift from dreaming to doing — starting now.
✅ What most people get wrong about purpose, and how you can sidestep the traps.
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Welcome to the show.
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It's time for truth.
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So you can create the life youdream and deserve your ultimate life.
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You have infinite power.
Hey there.
Welcome to this episode ofyour ultimate life.
Really glad you're with us today.
Today I'm going to talk abouthow to, how to have a vision for
your ultimate life and thentake it to reality.
Because we all want stuff.
Like you want stuff, I want stuff.
And we think, I'd like to havethis, I'd like to have that.
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And sometimes we know exactlyhow to do it.
Okay, we want to buy a cartonof milk so we know where to go, we
know where the store is and webuy it.
No big deal.
Want to get a car a little bitmore complicated?
You look around.
We just got a car a few monthsago and we had been talking about
it for two years and we kindof settled on a model that we wanted
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and we looked around at thisand that and we didn't really want
to keep the one we had.
So we were looking to, youknow, do we sell it, we trade it,
you know, all of those kindsof things because it was a little
more complicated.
And in the end we found areally good deal on a, a little bit
upgraded model to the one we wanted.
It was one year old, it wasfabulous price.
We got it, so.
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But the process of creatingdreams or your vision into reality
is well known for some things.
This podcast is about creatingyour ultimate life, a life that you
love every day.
And I think about that.
I woke up really early this morning.
And by early I mean like 2:30.
Usually I get up at 5, butthis morning I woke up at 2:30.
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And it used to be in my lifethat when I woke up early like that,
an hour, two, three hoursearly, it was usually because something
was wrong.
I was frustrated, there wassome emotional baggage floating around.
You know, something wasbothering me.
And I noticed in the lastyears it's not that way.
I woke up this morning at 2:30and it was very peaceful.
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And I sort of checked in mymind to see if anything was poking
out and it wasn't.
It was quiet, it was peaceful.
And then I felt into thespirit because one of the first things
I do, the first thing I doevery, every day is create myself.
And I know that sounds alittle weird, but creating yourself
is a, is an option.
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And I offer you, I offer thatto you to consider.
Now you've read or heard ofthe 5am Miracle.
And phrases like, you know,the first hour of the day sways the
day.
I've got a, a mentor, a fellowthat says that.
And the morning miracle.
You know, there's all kinds ofthings written about the magic of
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early mornings.
Quiet, peaceful, creativity's high.
And then there's some peoplethat say, my clock doesn't work like
that.
I understand that.
What I want to talk about fora second is whatever time you choose
to get up, whatever yourschedule is, the first thing that
we could do is to create ourselves.
Now, I don't mean bodilybecause we already are there, but
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how often do we wake up and wegrab the phone and we, you know,
we just start doing things,read the paper, turn on the news,
whatever it is, instead of.
And we allow those things tocreate our mood, create our attitude.
You know, and maybe we look atthe calendar and look at, oh, I got
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these calls in these meetings,or I got to go here or there's.
And we allow thoseexternalities to create our mood,
our energy and our attitude.
And I've learned now, manyyears ago, and more powerfully as
each year goes by, the valueand possibility of creating yourself
like you want to.
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So I did that this morning,and about 3:00 I realized I'm gonna
get up.
There's something in my heart,my mind that says, get up, let's
go do some stuff.
So I did, and I'm really glad.
And yeah, I might need to takea nap for an hour later in the day,
but that's okay.
Today I want to talk aboutthose of you who are intent on creating
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a big impact on the world.
Creating money, in otherwords, becoming well paid, creating
even significant wealth,generational wealth.
I talk about purpose,prosperity and joy.
Purpose is something that youand I have the opportunity to choose.
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And there's a process to do that.
Everybody's different.
Like the way we come to thething we choose to have our have,
be our fire, our life mission.
Even if it changes over time.
But you know, your lifemission is different.
I have a process I helpclients with, you know, just mine,
your skills and your life,your divine gifts and your life experience
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to.
To find or choose a purposethat drives you.
And prosperity is the second word.
Purpose, prosperity and joy.
Prosperity means prosperity ofbody, spirit, relationships, love,
and the cash in the bank account.
Because money allows for anice lifestyle.
Yes.
But more importantly, at leastto me, it allows me to have a larger
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reach to do more, to add goodto the world.
And my mission is to Add goodto the world.
Like, you know, this year I'mafter reaching 300 million people,
300 million.
I want to reach with a messageabout your divinity, meaning you're
a child of God, yourcapability, because you've got that
divine DNA in you, yourcapability is amazing.
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And the possibility with thatcapability is to create whatever
you want, purpose, prosperityand joy.
In my case, and I invite youto use your own words to do that
now in the process to doingthat, creating purpose, prosperity
and joy, or choosing a purposeand then using it to run your life
and make boatloads of cash andhave insane fun.
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Here's what I will tell you.
You have an M E O mosteffective offering.
I've done other episodes onhow to find that.
And so I'll just tell youright now.
It's a mixture of the skillsyou've learned, the gifts you brought
with you, the divine gifts andyour life experience.
And if you go through aprocess to mine those together, you
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can find something that isjust lights you up.
Like Matt, you're driven,called pulled to do.
Now, I know that it has for meand has for many clients.
Right now I've got a group ofnine people going through a program
that I have to write books andcreate programs exactly from those
three things.
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Now, if that kind of thingexcites you, see this URL dream build,
write it.com dream build,write it.com if you have a mission
and purpose in your life andyou want to write about it, you want
to create a program that youcan use to serve others and get paid
and you or you want to write a book.
And I found that writing abook is the most effective and powerful
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way to organize, to mine andorganize your life experience so
that you're really good atwhat you do.
So many, many coaches andconsultants feel drawn to write a
book.
Many don't because they don'tknow how or, you know, just think
about it and think that's good enough.
It's not.
There's a rigorous process tomine your life for these events.
And you can find your meo mosteffective offering now in the place,
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in the process of doing that,there's a place that we all get to
one or more times that feelsreally difficult.
And I'll tell you what it is.
And I want to talk about howto, how to deal with it, how to live
with it, how to get past it,and how to get to that ultimate life
so you know how even thoughyou're successful and people say
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you're awesome, sometimes youstill feel like you really don't
matter.
Or you notice that overwhelmor fear is often running the show
with procrastination and selfsabotage right behind.
So even though you've got thisstuff in your mind you want to do
that.
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Those other things are gettingin the way.
Maybe you sometimes feel emptyor like screaming at the sky, what's
wrong with me?
Because you have thisbeautiful vision and you're not,
you're not doing it.
Or deep inside, maybe youstart believing that you're never
really going to make theimpact of money that you want to,
or that you could.
Or maybe you start to believeor blame.
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Sorry.
Maybe you start to blameeveryone and everything else.
Circumstances, mates, friends,job, economy.
And maybe you're questioningyour value and even wanting to quit.
Go back, get a job, forget it.
All this visionary stuff.
You ever felt like that.
Or maybe you notice that indoing it there rarely is any real
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joy.
Like you know, you feel thejoy that you thought you would.
So what do you, what do we do?
Well, we buy books or we buy.
We read more books and we goto buy programs and go to workshops
and we make more promises toourselves and our business and you
bust your butt and it doesn'tever seem to be really enough.
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Well, I'll tell you why thatis and then we'll talk about what
to do about it.
You, you and I, we've beentaught practically from the cradle
that were really not enough.
Maybe there were bad childhoodexperiences, grades, friends, betrayals,
trauma.
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Maybe there was some abuse ofsome kind.
Failures that haunt you,hidden struggles that nobody knows
about.
Or experiences at work, jobsand more drive home this pain.
Maybe you've come to the placewhere your inner critic is the loudest
voice in your head.
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Or you drink the poison thatsays you're only as good as the judgment
of others.
And you hear the advice grindharder and take massive action.
And it just feels so hollow.
Well, then you end upconvinced you're never going to cut
it.
And an invisible barrier stopsevery climb.
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You end up secretly afraidthat empty dreams, resentment, oblivion
and maybe a bit of guilt areall that you really get.
Now I.
I know I'm not looking at you,but raise your hand if you felt like
that.
I know I have.
I know lots of people in moredegree and less degree have felt
that.
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And that feeling, that set offeelings had, had, stop, have stopped
you.
And you know what?
We both know where this goes.
This, that kind of soulsucking treadmill eventually wipes
you out, right?
It leads to empty Mediocrityat best, where you settle for the
easy and obvious.
And at worst it goesfrustration, depression, ruined relationships,
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maybe addictions, personal andbusiness meltdowns, or worse if we
nothing changes.
Maybe you see others who winand somewhere inside you know it
could be different.
But for you, there seems to beno way out.
Now that's pretty bleak.
And I'll bet with all my heartthat you have felt like, or feel
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like some of that right now.
So what do we do?
Like, what is the exit strategy?
Well, what if you knew exactlywhat to do?
What if you knew exactly whatto do to totally change the game?
What if you were able toeliminate fear and obliterate doubt?
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Boom, done.
And every shout of your innerchorus like cheers you on.
You keep every goal andcommitment without fail.
What if you were able to do that?
What if you discovered amazingtools and power that you already
have, that you're not using?
Imagine for a moment thegrowth in your wealth, health, relationships,
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happiness and self image asyou master these things and create
everything you dream.
Well, I have spent the last 18years studying and working on those
very things.
First for myself and then for others.
And after, as I do that, I'vebecome the ultimate alchemist to
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help you with both the scienceand the magic, to access those personal
tools and power and todemonstrate for you precisely how
to use them to create anythingyou want.
Help you completely change thestory in your head and the game on
the ground as you move forward.
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So you can create yourultimate life that I keep talking
about and have purpose,prosperity and joy, at a level that
maybe today you can't even conceive.
So I want you to think aboutwhat that is.
What would it be like to, tohave that in your world?
Now I know, like, I'm nottalking to individually, but I talk
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to many, many brand new peopleevery week.
And I set up my calendar, mylife, my schedule to do that.
And there's a simple reasonI'm going to reach 300 million people.
So I need to talk to a lot of folks.
Often I'll invite them as guests.
Many of the guests that you'veseen on this show and on my LA talk
radio show come from those interviews.
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I met a lady yesterday who Ijust admire.
Wow.
She's doing so much aboutplacing kids in the adoption and
foster kids and so forth.
And she knew all thestatistics, how many there are and
you know, how many familiesthere are looking for kids to adopt.
And I was just blown away.
There's actually more familieslooking for kids to adopt than there
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are kids needing adoption.
Isn't that interesting?
And that was with a certain program.
And so I don't know thestatistics overall.
But the point is that was herpassion and she had all kinds of
reasons why that was her magic.
And I was blown away by hervision, commission, commitment, dedication,
and of course I invited her tobe a guest.
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And she'll be a guest in, youknow, some one of the next few weeks
here on, on the show to tellyou about her purpose, prosperity
and joy.
And she's just one of many examples.
And so I want to right nowissue you an invitation.
If you have a story you wantto tell, a story of resilience, of
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overcoming, of growth, offinding your passion, of how you're
executing what you're doing toadd good to the world, I'd love to
talk to you.
So please go tokellenflukermedia.com go there and,
and there's a contact form there.
So fill it out and let's havea conversation.
It's not a sales call, it'sjust a conversation because I love
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knowing people.
If you found your purpose andyou're living it hard and.
Yeah, excuse me, have amessage you want to share.
I want to be your megaphone.
I want to help you.
I have a large audience onthis show and on LA talk radio, a
large audience.
We're in the top few percentworldwide of shows and no surprise,
we're coming up on a thousand episodes.
Louisiana talk radio has ahuge audience, so there's an opportunity
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there to be amplified.
And I'd love to help you do that.
More than anything, I love tohelp people who have got this mission
that they're living in their hearts.
And I want to help you spread it.
Boom.
Let's create purpose,prosperity and joy for you.
So here's what I want you to know.
First of all, I read that listof things that you might feel at
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some time.
I certainly used to.
I want you to know you're not alone.
Every person breathing air,every single person I've talked to
at some point has feltoverwhelmed by that list of stuff.
So wherever you are in yourjourney, whether you're way overwhelmed
or not anymore, and you'repast it and you're stoked and focused,
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it doesn't matter.
You'll know exactly what I'mtalking about, about that feeling
of not good enough, notknowing what to do, never going to
make it, and that sort of thing.
So I want you to know, firstof all, you're not alone.
Everybody feels that I wantyou to know another thing, which
is you can make it now.
I don't know what you're goingto need because then you're not here
talking to me.
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And I'd love to be talking to you.
But what I needed to get mystuff accomplished is I needed to
get a lot of help for personal barriers.
I had, you know, struggledwith depression for decades.
So I needed that, someprofessional help there.
And I needed some professionalhelp with coaches, mentors that had
already walked, walk thispath, that were further along the
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purpose, prosperity and joyroad than I was, who were able to
guide me and say, do this, try this.
Help me with my mindset,remembering and understanding, my
divinity, capability and possibility.
And that has moved me, youknow, massively forward over the
years.
And now I'm in a position ofbeing able to reach back and help
you and others create yourpurpose, prosperity and joy.
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One of the things I love doingis I mentioned earlier, helping people
write books and createprograms that you sell from your
book.
That's a fun thing to do.
It's easier than you think.
And then you have a permanentprogram you can sell to begin making
the impact you want and to get paid.
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So if you're a coach,consultant, or person with a mission
or message and you have notwritten that book yet, that tells
how you got where you are, itgives your most powerful help to
the world.
Go to Dream, Build, write it.
That's coming up in June, andlet's get you on the way to do that.
The second thing I want totalk about in terms of fixing is
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you need to claim your power.
We live in a sort ofabdication mode where we give up
our power to everyone andeverything else.
And what I mean by that is we,we act and believe as if the weather,
our mate, family, kids, job,circumstances, the economy, God,
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someone else controls your attitude.
It's an easy default thing toslide into.
All this crap happened to me,therefore today sucks, my life sucks,
you know, that kind of thing.
Why is that that way?
And so it's not weird that wethink that, but it's very disempowering
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because it acts like, well, Ican do nothing about it.
And if all this crap wouldfix, then I'd be okay.
Well, all the crap is nevergoing to fix.
It just changes color.
You know, this happens andthen that happens.
I've got clients that do thatover and over again.
This crisis comes and theyfuriously work and manage that crisis,
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and then another one, and thenanother one, and then another one.
And they seem to Beperpetually in crisis mode when the
truth for all of us, and Iwant you to hear this carefully,
is to manage our own attitude.
There's no such thing as acrappy day.
There's no such thing as acrazy week.
It's only our thoughts.
It's only crazy or ugly if Isaid so, if I think so, if I believe
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it, even urgent things.
I've told the story before,you know, I woke up paralyzed on
December 5, 2018, paralyzedfrom the waist down.
And on the way to the hospitalin the back of the ambulance, My
first question was, what isthe gift here?
Well, I didn't automaticallylearn to do that.
I learned to think that waybecause it was so empowering.
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And as I thought about it, inpain on the way to the hospital,
I found several gifts thatmattered over the next couple of
weeks.
And I had some emergencysurgery and, you know, fixed the
problem and was able to walkand, you know, got it, got it underway.
But I also found several giftsfor internally patience, different
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perspective, realization thatlife would go on no matter what,
and that I could still do mywork of reaching.
It was not 300 million in thatyear, but reaching the people that
I wanted to.
To love them, love you, liftyou, and bless you.
And so I just thought, okay,not what I wanted, but I can do this.
So with all the love in myheart, I invite you to consider the
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possibility that you createyour life.
You don't control theingredients in the cake, right?
Circumstances, other people,illness, governments, revolutions,
wars, wherever you are andwhatever you're doing, all those
things play a role, but theydo not have the final say.
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You do, I do.
What would it be like if Irefuse to allow those externalities
to control me?
What would it be like if Ijust said, no, I see it, it happened,
and I won't be defeated by that.
No, you can't make me mad,sad, or broken, you know, right to
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the core.
Understanding that.
Understanding that becauseyou're a divine being, because you
were created with love andintention by the divine, you have
the ability to overcome, toget past, to go through, to master
any situation.
And that magic didn't comefrom nowhere.
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It came from your divine creation.
So here's the truth about howto create.
First of all, we need torecognize that we have the ability
to create.
If I don't, if I don'tacknowledge or understand my ability
to create, then I won't use itright now.
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I've been blessed.
One of the gifts that I have.
I talked about gifts.
You have a Bunch.
One of them that I know I haveis music.
I was blessed with an ear, aperfect pitch, and can I.
You know, people play note onthe piano and I know what it is,
and chords and progressionsand, you know, I was blessed with
that particular thing.
I know you have several gifts.
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Do you know what they are?
Are you intentionally usingthem or are they just, you know,
seasoning in your day?
If you.
If you intentionally figureout what your gifts are and you combine
them with the skills you have.
And skills are usually thingswe've learned to do and maybe we've
sold them in the marketplace.
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You go to school, you get alaw degree, pass the bar, you're
a lawyer.
That's a skill, a gift youmight have to amplify.
That is, if you're blessed asa good listener or you're really
good at abstract reasoning.
If you marry the gifts andskills, you obviously have something
more powerful.
If you add a third element,which is your life experience, then
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you have skills, gift, andlife experience, and that creates
that triple helix, your mosteffective offering.
I'll give you an example, andI'm glad I used lawyer, because this
person's a lawyer.
So I know a woman who's aclient, not an active one now, but
a few years ago, and thisparticular woman decided to go to
law school late in life, laterin life, I think she was in her early
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50s, and she just decided shewas going to go to law school.
And I'll tell you why in a minute.
So she did.
She passed the bar and sheentered a very particular kind of
law, family law.
And.
And she represented menbecause her son had gone through
some difficulties with thelegal system in terms of custody
or whatever.
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So she devoted her skill,which is lawyer.
Her passion life experiencewas the experience of her son.
And then her.
Her gift was to study and beempathetic and learn.
So she combined all that andbecame a powerful force for that
particular thing.
So that's an example ofcombining a skill, gift and life
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experience into a veryeffective life offering.
That's one of the favoritethings I do, is to work with people
to help you find that meo mosteffective offering.
So if you don't know what itis, again, kellenfluecigermedia.com,
go there, get the contact form.
Let's talk.
Let me help you find that.
Because when you find that, itenergizes you, right?
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It makes you excited.
It's like that thing you can't wait.
Wait to get up and do.
So I got up at 3 this morning,after I laid there for half an hour,
I was really excited aboutmaking this episode about some other
things that I'm going to doright now that were on my mind, that
were heavy on my heart.
Not heavy bad, but exciting togo do.
So.
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And that's.
It's so available.
It's.
It's.
We.
We don't do it, and it's so available.
And instead we.
We settle for mediocrity.
We settle for what's easy and obvious.
Well, I have this job.
I hate it, but it pays thebills, and that's okay.
And maybe I'll have time toeither relax or, you know, pursue
my hobbies or passion projectson the weekend.
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You can do that, and many,many, many, many, many people do.
And it's sure a miserable wayto live.
You can have your passion beyour center, your life, your focus,
and you can get paid and have fun.
Why wouldn't we do that everytime, every day?
So, like I said, it's a.
An invitation.
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So I want to talk about theprosperity part.
The prosperity.
I have worked with many peoplewho are coaches.
They've decided to be coaches.
Now, most of my clientsaren't, but I have worked with many
over the years, and peoplemostly become coaches of some kind
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because they've gone throughsome life experience and they realize
their own journey throughthat, you know, trauma or challenge
or whatever.
They've successfully navigated it.
They learn some things andthey're like, wow, I can sure help
people that have whatever, youknow, whatever the struggle is, whatever
the.
The situation is.
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And so then they yearn to do that.
And we, every one of us,yearns to love and serve each other.
That's how we're built.
It's part of that divinenature I talked about.
But anyway, they want to dothat, and then they end up thinking
or, you know, becoming acoach, quote.
But they don't make a livingat it.
They don't make much money.
The average income for a coachis less than 50,000 a year.
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I think it's around 30 orsomething, which certainly not enough
to live on anywhere.
So where does this prosperitycome in?
Prosperity comes frommaximizing the skills, gifts, and
talents that you have.
And what I mean by that is,yet there are more skills that you
need to make a successfulbusiness than just this passion.
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Knowing that you can helppeople because of your experience.
That's a starting point, a skill.
Remember, I said it wasskills, gifts, and life experience.
Your life experience haspulled you in and driven you to be
of Service in the way ofmentoring or coaching or consulting
in a particular area.
But a skill you have to learnis you have to learn how to market
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in some way.
Maybe you use social, maybeyou use more traditional ways, doesn't
matter.
But you have to get in frontof people.
If you live by a referral onlybusiness, you're dead.
That doesn't mean you can'tlive make a decent living.
You're never going to grow andyou're never going to get the freedom
you thought you were going to have.
So you have to learn theprinciples of business.
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You have to learn the skill of marketing.
And so those are two skills to learn.
And maybe you didn't have thembefore, maybe you weren't ever in
a position.
I wasn't.
When I started to decide, whenI decided to be a coach, I didn't
know anything about marketing.
I had never done anythingrelated to that in my whole career,
so I hadn't had to do it.
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I had never had a salesposition of any kind, so I didn't
know any of it.
And I was really bad at it.
And so you have the passionand that has come from your life
experience.
Maybe it's also come from your gifts.
Maybe you're a lover of peoplenaturally and you love helping people.
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That's certainly not a gift I had.
I've learned that.
But a really important thing Ihad to learn was I had to learn how
to market.
I had to learn how to network,which I was terrible at.
I had to learn how to, youknow, the skill of communication
and not speaking.
I had a.
I have a gift of speaking, butthat's not the same as creating connections
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so you can build a business.
So there were a lot of skillsI had to learn.
Even though I was already veryempathetic, I could listen well and,
you know, be a powerful coachin terms of helping people.
Because of my life experience,I had to learn a set of skills in
order to make purpose,prosperity and joy come true.
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Now purpose, prosperity andjoy is true.
It has come true.
And I love the life that Ilive every day.
It's funny, people ask meoften, you know, I said, I meet all
these new people.
They asked me often, oh man,like, don't you get tired or, you
know, what are you going to dofor vacation or something?
Reaching my 300 million is my vacation.
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It's my passion, it's my love,and I do it.
Yeah, Joy and I go places andhave fun and do stuff.
Sure, we do.
But she's my passion too.
She's an angel.
I live with an angel.
I just am blessed that way.
A holy angel.
She just is stardust as she walks.
And if you know her, then youknow what I mean.
And that's true.
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But the, the key here, the keyis understanding your life experience
and choosing your passion.
It is then figuring out whatskills you need to learn, and learn
them so you can marry themwith your passion to create prosperity.
Prosperity means not justcreating the cash you need, which
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is not difficult.
We think that making money ishard, and it's not.
Money follows value.
You're infinitely valuable.
All you got to do is figureout how to channel and present that
value.
And you can make boatloads of cash.
You now can make boatloads of cash.
And if you'd like to talkabout how.
Kellenflukermedia.com let's talk.
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One of the things I love doingis, especially you people that have
that yearning to serve is helpthem get it organized, which is happening
in writing a book.
And I've learned all these onmy own journey doing this.
And, you know, I've written 20 now.
But the process has been sorewarding because I've learned so
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much that I can now pass onand share.
Now, the last piece of thisequation is joy.
Now, the fun part is purposeyou can get by mining your life experience
and your gifts and skills.
Like I said, prosperity islearning the right skills and marrying
them so you can createwhatever kind of business you're
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looking to create.
And that takes some time,takes some learning and some evolution.
The good news about joy, notmy wife joy, but about having purpose,
prosperity and joy is youdon't, you don't need to wait for
that.
You can have joy today, rightnow, right here.
Joy is a choice.
It is a decision that whateveryou're doing and wherever you are
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on this journey of learning,finding your purpose and creating
your prosperity, wherever youare on that journey, you're going
to be happy.
And that means getting rid ofthe disease of.
I'll be happy when, when Ihave a million dollars in the bank.
The first time I have a$25,000 month in sales or a million
dollar month, you know, Idon't know where you are in your
business, but the first time Ihave that, oh, then I'm happy.
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I will make you a promise.
Whatever jolt of joy you getfrom some big sale or some big month
or some big year only laststhat long.
And the reason is because thatby itself isn't the creator of happiness.
Joy is a thing that comes from inside.
When you know you're livingyour purpose, you know you're adding
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good to the world.
You know you're doing what youcame to do, what you love to do,
and what you were built to do.
When you know that and you'reliving it, you.
You're.
You have joy.
Joy does not depend onexternal circumstances, doesn't depend
on what anyone else does or says.
So joy you can have right now,from today, all the way forever.
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Purpose you can find quickly.
And if you can't do that, talkto me.
Let's create that.
And prosperity just depends ontaking that purpose and figuring
out what you need to know,what you're missing in terms of skills
in marketing or sales orability to get that in front designing
programs.
Those kinds of things are allwell known.
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Tens of thousands, hundreds ofthousands of people have done it
before you.
And it's well known.
If you need help with any ofthat, let's talk.
Because that's all I do.
300 million people I'mreaching this year with this message
of divinity.
That's who you are.
Capability, which means whatyou're the capabilities you have.
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And possibility is theinfinite vision you can create on
your journey to purpose,prosperity and joy.
And if you're stuck anywhere,don't stay stuck.
Don't blame things.
Love yourself enough to takethe action you need today to create
right now.
The beginning or thecontinuation on your move to create
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your ultimate life right here,right now.
Your opportunity for yourmassive growth is right in front
of you.
Every episode gives youpractical tips and practices that
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You have infinite power.
Hey there.
Welcome to this episode ofyour ultimate life.
Really glad you're with us today.
Today I'm going to talk abouthow to, how to have a vision for
your ultimate life and thentake it to reality.
Because we all want stuff.
Like you want stuff, I want stuff.
And we think, I'd like to havethis, I'd like to have that.
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And sometimes we know exactlyhow to do it.
Okay, we want to buy a cartonof milk so we know where to go, we
know where the store is and webuy it.
No big deal.
Want to get a car a little bitmore complicated?
You look around.
We just got a car a few monthsago and we had been talking about
it for two years and we kindof settled on a model that we wanted
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and we looked around at thisand that and we didn't really want
to keep the one we had.
So we were looking to, youknow, do we sell it, we trade it,
you know, all of those kindsof things because it was a little
more complicated.
And in the end we found areally good deal on a, a little bit
upgraded model to the one we wanted.
It was one year old, it wasfabulous price.
We got it, so.
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But the process of creatingdreams or your vision into reality
is well known for some things.
This podcast is about creatingyour ultimate life, a life that you
love every day.
And I think about that.
I woke up really early this morning.
And by early I mean like 2:30.
Usually I get up at 5, butthis morning I woke up at 2:30.
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And it used to be in my lifethat when I woke up early like that,
an hour, two, three hoursearly, it was usually because something
was wrong.
I was frustrated, there wassome emotional baggage floating around.
You know, something wasbothering me.
And I noticed in the lastyears it's not that way.
I woke up this morning at 2:30and it was very peaceful.
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And I sort of checked in mymind to see if anything was poking
out and it wasn't.
It was quiet, it was peaceful.
And then I felt into thespirit because one of the first things
I do, the first thing I doevery, every day is create myself.
And I know that sounds alittle weird, but creating yourself
is a, is an option.
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And I offer you, I offer thatto you to consider.
Now you've read or heard ofthe 5am Miracle.
And phrases like, you know,the first hour of the day sways the
day.
I've got a, a mentor, a fellowthat says that.
And the morning miracle.
You know, there's all kinds ofthings written about the magic of
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early mornings.
Quiet, peaceful, creativity's high.
And then there's some peoplethat say, my clock doesn't work like
that.
I understand that.
What I want to talk about fora second is whatever time you choose
to get up, whatever yourschedule is, the first thing that
we could do is to create ourselves.
Now, I don't mean bodilybecause we already are there, but
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how often do we wake up and wegrab the phone and we, you know,
we just start doing things,read the paper, turn on the news,
whatever it is, instead of.
And we allow those things tocreate our mood, create our attitude.
You know, and maybe we look atthe calendar and look at, oh, I got
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these calls in these meetings,or I got to go here or there's.
And we allow thoseexternalities to create our mood,
our energy and our attitude.
And I've learned now, manyyears ago, and more powerfully as
each year goes by, the valueand possibility of creating yourself
like you want to.
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So I did that this morning,and about 3:00 I realized I'm gonna
get up.
There's something in my heart,my mind that says, get up, let's
go do some stuff.
So I did, and I'm really glad.
And yeah, I might need to takea nap for an hour later in the day,
but that's okay.
Today I want to talk aboutthose of you who are intent on creating
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a big impact on the world.
Creating money, in otherwords, becoming well paid, creating
even significant wealth,generational wealth.
I talk about purpose,prosperity and joy.
Purpose is something that youand I have the opportunity to choose.
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And there's a process to do that.
Everybody's different.
Like the way we come to thething we choose to have our have,
be our fire, our life mission.
Even if it changes over time.
But you know, your lifemission is different.
I have a process I helpclients with, you know, just mine,
your skills and your life,your divine gifts and your life experience
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to.
To find or choose a purposethat drives you.
And prosperity is the second word.
Purpose, prosperity and joy.
Prosperity means prosperity ofbody, spirit, relationships, love,
and the cash in the bank account.
Because money allows for anice lifestyle.
Yes.
But more importantly, at leastto me, it allows me to have a larger
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reach to do more, to add goodto the world.
And my mission is to Add goodto the world.
Like, you know, this year I'mafter reaching 300 million people,
300 million.
I want to reach with a messageabout your divinity, meaning you're
a child of God, yourcapability, because you've got that
divine DNA in you, yourcapability is amazing.
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And the possibility with thatcapability is to create whatever
you want, purpose, prosperityand joy.
In my case, and I invite youto use your own words to do that
now in the process to doingthat, creating purpose, prosperity
and joy, or choosing a purposeand then using it to run your life
and make boatloads of cash andhave insane fun.
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Here's what I will tell you.
You have an M E O mosteffective offering.
I've done other episodes onhow to find that.
And so I'll just tell youright now.
It's a mixture of the skillsyou've learned, the gifts you brought
with you, the divine gifts andyour life experience.
And if you go through aprocess to mine those together, you
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can find something that isjust lights you up.
Like Matt, you're driven,called pulled to do.
Now, I know that it has for meand has for many clients.
Right now I've got a group ofnine people going through a program
that I have to write books andcreate programs exactly from those
three things.
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Now, if that kind of thingexcites you, see this URL dream build,
write it.com dream build,write it.com if you have a mission
and purpose in your life andyou want to write about it, you want
to create a program that youcan use to serve others and get paid
and you or you want to write a book.
And I found that writing abook is the most effective and powerful
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way to organize, to mine andorganize your life experience so
that you're really good atwhat you do.
So many, many coaches andconsultants feel drawn to write a
book.
Many don't because they don'tknow how or, you know, just think
about it and think that's good enough.
It's not.
There's a rigorous process tomine your life for these events.
And you can find your meo mosteffective offering now in the place,
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in the process of doing that,there's a place that we all get to
one or more times that feelsreally difficult.
And I'll tell you what it is.
And I want to talk about howto, how to deal with it, how to live
with it, how to get past it,and how to get to that ultimate life
so you know how even thoughyou're successful and people say
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you're awesome, sometimes youstill feel like you really don't
matter.
Or you notice that overwhelmor fear is often running the show
with procrastination and selfsabotage right behind.
So even though you've got thisstuff in your mind you want to do
that.
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Those other things are gettingin the way.
Maybe you sometimes feel emptyor like screaming at the sky, what's
wrong with me?
Because you have thisbeautiful vision and you're not,
you're not doing it.
Or deep inside, maybe youstart believing that you're never
really going to make theimpact of money that you want to,
or that you could.
Or maybe you start to believeor blame.
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Sorry.
Maybe you start to blameeveryone and everything else.
Circumstances, mates, friends,job, economy.
And maybe you're questioningyour value and even wanting to quit.
Go back, get a job, forget it.
All this visionary stuff.
You ever felt like that.
Or maybe you notice that indoing it there rarely is any real
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joy.
Like you know, you feel thejoy that you thought you would.
So what do you, what do we do?
Well, we buy books or we buy.
We read more books and we goto buy programs and go to workshops
and we make more promises toourselves and our business and you
bust your butt and it doesn'tever seem to be really enough.
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Well, I'll tell you why thatis and then we'll talk about what
to do about it.
You, you and I, we've beentaught practically from the cradle
that were really not enough.
Maybe there were bad childhoodexperiences, grades, friends, betrayals,
trauma.
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Maybe there was some abuse ofsome kind.
Failures that haunt you,hidden struggles that nobody knows
about.
Or experiences at work, jobsand more drive home this pain.
Maybe you've come to the placewhere your inner critic is the loudest
voice in your head.
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Or you drink the poison thatsays you're only as good as the judgment
of others.
And you hear the advice grindharder and take massive action.
And it just feels so hollow.
Well, then you end upconvinced you're never going to cut
it.
And an invisible barrier stopsevery climb.
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You end up secretly afraidthat empty dreams, resentment, oblivion
and maybe a bit of guilt areall that you really get.
Now I.
I know I'm not looking at you,but raise your hand if you felt like
that.
I know I have.
I know lots of people in moredegree and less degree have felt
that.
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And that feeling, that set offeelings had, had, stop, have stopped
you.
And you know what?
We both know where this goes.
This, that kind of soulsucking treadmill eventually wipes
you out, right?
It leads to empty Mediocrityat best, where you settle for the
easy and obvious.
And at worst it goesfrustration, depression, ruined relationships,
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maybe addictions, personal andbusiness meltdowns, or worse if we
nothing changes.
Maybe you see others who winand somewhere inside you know it
could be different.
But for you, there seems to beno way out.
Now that's pretty bleak.
And I'll bet with all my heartthat you have felt like, or feel
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like some of that right now.
So what do we do?
Like, what is the exit strategy?
Well, what if you knew exactlywhat to do?
What if you knew exactly whatto do to totally change the game?
What if you were able toeliminate fear and obliterate doubt?
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Boom, done.
And every shout of your innerchorus like cheers you on.
You keep every goal andcommitment without fail.
What if you were able to do that?
What if you discovered amazingtools and power that you already
have, that you're not using?
Imagine for a moment thegrowth in your wealth, health, relationships,
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happiness and self image asyou master these things and create
everything you dream.
Well, I have spent the last 18years studying and working on those
very things.
First for myself and then for others.
And after, as I do that, I'vebecome the ultimate alchemist to
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help you with both the scienceand the magic, to access those personal
tools and power and todemonstrate for you precisely how
to use them to create anythingyou want.
Help you completely change thestory in your head and the game on
the ground as you move forward.
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So you can create yourultimate life that I keep talking
about and have purpose,prosperity and joy, at a level that
maybe today you can't even conceive.
So I want you to think aboutwhat that is.
What would it be like to, tohave that in your world?
Now I know, like, I'm nottalking to individually, but I talk
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to many, many brand new peopleevery week.
And I set up my calendar, mylife, my schedule to do that.
And there's a simple reasonI'm going to reach 300 million people.
So I need to talk to a lot of folks.
Often I'll invite them as guests.
Many of the guests that you'veseen on this show and on my LA talk
radio show come from those interviews.
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I met a lady yesterday who Ijust admire.
Wow.
She's doing so much aboutplacing kids in the adoption and
foster kids and so forth.
And she knew all thestatistics, how many there are and
you know, how many familiesthere are looking for kids to adopt.
And I was just blown away.
There's actually more familieslooking for kids to adopt than there
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are kids needing adoption.
Isn't that interesting?
And that was with a certain program.
And so I don't know thestatistics overall.
But the point is that was herpassion and she had all kinds of
reasons why that was her magic.
And I was blown away by hervision, commission, commitment, dedication,
and of course I invited her tobe a guest.
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And she'll be a guest in, youknow, some one of the next few weeks
here on, on the show to tellyou about her purpose, prosperity
and joy.
And she's just one of many examples.
And so I want to right nowissue you an invitation.
If you have a story you wantto tell, a story of resilience, of
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overcoming, of growth, offinding your passion, of how you're
executing what you're doing toadd good to the world, I'd love to
talk to you.
So please go tokellenflukermedia.com go there and,
and there's a contact form there.
So fill it out and let's havea conversation.
It's not a sales call, it'sjust a conversation because I love
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knowing people.
If you found your purpose andyou're living it hard and.
Yeah, excuse me, have amessage you want to share.
I want to be your megaphone.
I want to help you.
I have a large audience onthis show and on LA talk radio, a
large audience.
We're in the top few percentworldwide of shows and no surprise,
we're coming up on a thousand episodes.
Louisiana talk radio has ahuge audience, so there's an opportunity
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there to be amplified.
And I'd love to help you do that.
More than anything, I love tohelp people who have got this mission
that they're living in their hearts.
And I want to help you spread it.
Boom.
Let's create purpose,prosperity and joy for you.
So here's what I want you to know.
First of all, I read that listof things that you might feel at
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some time.
I certainly used to.
I want you to know you're not alone.
Every person breathing air,every single person I've talked to
at some point has feltoverwhelmed by that list of stuff.
So wherever you are in yourjourney, whether you're way overwhelmed
or not anymore, and you'repast it and you're stoked and focused,
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it doesn't matter.
You'll know exactly what I'mtalking about, about that feeling
of not good enough, notknowing what to do, never going to
make it, and that sort of thing.
So I want you to know, firstof all, you're not alone.
Everybody feels that I wantyou to know another thing, which
is you can make it now.
I don't know what you're goingto need because then you're not here
talking to me.
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And I'd love to be talking to you.
But what I needed to get mystuff accomplished is I needed to
get a lot of help for personal barriers.
I had, you know, struggledwith depression for decades.
So I needed that, someprofessional help there.
And I needed some professionalhelp with coaches, mentors that had
already walked, walk thispath, that were further along the
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purpose, prosperity and joyroad than I was, who were able to
guide me and say, do this, try this.
Help me with my mindset,remembering and understanding, my
divinity, capability and possibility.
And that has moved me, youknow, massively forward over the
years.
And now I'm in a position ofbeing able to reach back and help
you and others create yourpurpose, prosperity and joy.
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One of the things I love doingis I mentioned earlier, helping people
write books and createprograms that you sell from your
book.
That's a fun thing to do.
It's easier than you think.
And then you have a permanentprogram you can sell to begin making
the impact you want and to get paid.
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So if you're a coach,consultant, or person with a mission
or message and you have notwritten that book yet, that tells
how you got where you are, itgives your most powerful help to
the world.
Go to Dream, Build, write it.
That's coming up in June, andlet's get you on the way to do that.
The second thing I want totalk about in terms of fixing is
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you need to claim your power.
We live in a sort ofabdication mode where we give up
our power to everyone andeverything else.
And what I mean by that is we,we act and believe as if the weather,
our mate, family, kids, job,circumstances, the economy, God,
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someone else controls your attitude.
It's an easy default thing toslide into.
All this crap happened to me,therefore today sucks, my life sucks,
you know, that kind of thing.
Why is that that way?
And so it's not weird that wethink that, but it's very disempowering
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because it acts like, well, Ican do nothing about it.
And if all this crap wouldfix, then I'd be okay.
Well, all the crap is nevergoing to fix.
It just changes color.
You know, this happens andthen that happens.
I've got clients that do thatover and over again.
This crisis comes and theyfuriously work and manage that crisis,
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and then another one, and thenanother one, and then another one.
And they seem to Beperpetually in crisis mode when the
truth for all of us, and Iwant you to hear this carefully,
is to manage our own attitude.
There's no such thing as acrappy day.
There's no such thing as acrazy week.
It's only our thoughts.
It's only crazy or ugly if Isaid so, if I think so, if I believe
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it, even urgent things.
I've told the story before,you know, I woke up paralyzed on
December 5, 2018, paralyzedfrom the waist down.
And on the way to the hospitalin the back of the ambulance, My
first question was, what isthe gift here?
Well, I didn't automaticallylearn to do that.
I learned to think that waybecause it was so empowering.
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And as I thought about it, inpain on the way to the hospital,
I found several gifts thatmattered over the next couple of
weeks.
And I had some emergencysurgery and, you know, fixed the
problem and was able to walkand, you know, got it, got it underway.
But I also found several giftsfor internally patience, different
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perspective, realization thatlife would go on no matter what,
and that I could still do mywork of reaching.
It was not 300 million in thatyear, but reaching the people that
I wanted to.
To love them, love you, liftyou, and bless you.
And so I just thought, okay,not what I wanted, but I can do this.
So with all the love in myheart, I invite you to consider the
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possibility that you createyour life.
You don't control theingredients in the cake, right?
Circumstances, other people,illness, governments, revolutions,
wars, wherever you are andwhatever you're doing, all those
things play a role, but theydo not have the final say.
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You do, I do.
What would it be like if Irefuse to allow those externalities
to control me?
What would it be like if Ijust said, no, I see it, it happened,
and I won't be defeated by that.
No, you can't make me mad,sad, or broken, you know, right to
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the core.
Understanding that.
Understanding that becauseyou're a divine being, because you
were created with love andintention by the divine, you have
the ability to overcome, toget past, to go through, to master
any situation.
And that magic didn't comefrom nowhere.
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It came from your divine creation.
So here's the truth about howto create.
First of all, we need torecognize that we have the ability
to create.
If I don't, if I don'tacknowledge or understand my ability
to create, then I won't use itright now.
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I've been blessed.
One of the gifts that I have.
I talked about gifts.
You have a Bunch.
One of them that I know I haveis music.
I was blessed with an ear, aperfect pitch, and can I.
You know, people play note onthe piano and I know what it is,
and chords and progressionsand, you know, I was blessed with
that particular thing.
I know you have several gifts.
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Do you know what they are?
Are you intentionally usingthem or are they just, you know,
seasoning in your day?
If you.
If you intentionally figureout what your gifts are and you combine
them with the skills you have.
And skills are usually thingswe've learned to do and maybe we've
sold them in the marketplace.
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You go to school, you get alaw degree, pass the bar, you're
a lawyer.
That's a skill, a gift youmight have to amplify.
That is, if you're blessed asa good listener or you're really
good at abstract reasoning.
If you marry the gifts andskills, you obviously have something
more powerful.
If you add a third element,which is your life experience, then
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you have skills, gift, andlife experience, and that creates
that triple helix, your mosteffective offering.
I'll give you an example, andI'm glad I used lawyer, because this
person's a lawyer.
So I know a woman who's aclient, not an active one now, but
a few years ago, and thisparticular woman decided to go to
law school late in life, laterin life, I think she was in her early
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50s, and she just decided shewas going to go to law school.
And I'll tell you why in a minute.
So she did.
She passed the bar and sheentered a very particular kind of
law, family law.
And.
And she represented menbecause her son had gone through
some difficulties with thelegal system in terms of custody
or whatever.
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So she devoted her skill,which is lawyer.
Her passion life experiencewas the experience of her son.
And then her.
Her gift was to study and beempathetic and learn.
So she combined all that andbecame a powerful force for that
particular thing.
So that's an example ofcombining a skill, gift and life
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experience into a veryeffective life offering.
That's one of the favoritethings I do, is to work with people
to help you find that meo mosteffective offering.
So if you don't know what itis, again, kellenfluecigermedia.com,
go there, get the contact form.
Let's talk.
Let me help you find that.
Because when you find that, itenergizes you, right?
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It makes you excited.
It's like that thing you can't wait.
Wait to get up and do.
So I got up at 3 this morning,after I laid there for half an hour,
I was really excited aboutmaking this episode about some other
things that I'm going to doright now that were on my mind, that
were heavy on my heart.
Not heavy bad, but exciting togo do.
So.
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And that's.
It's so available.
It's.
It's.
We.
We don't do it, and it's so available.
And instead we.
We settle for mediocrity.
We settle for what's easy and obvious.
Well, I have this job.
I hate it, but it pays thebills, and that's okay.
And maybe I'll have time toeither relax or, you know, pursue
my hobbies or passion projectson the weekend.
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You can do that, and many,many, many, many, many people do.
And it's sure a miserable wayto live.
You can have your passion beyour center, your life, your focus,
and you can get paid and have fun.
Why wouldn't we do that everytime, every day?
So, like I said, it's a.
An invitation.
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So I want to talk about theprosperity part.
The prosperity.
I have worked with many peoplewho are coaches.
They've decided to be coaches.
Now, most of my clientsaren't, but I have worked with many
over the years, and peoplemostly become coaches of some kind
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because they've gone throughsome life experience and they realize
their own journey throughthat, you know, trauma or challenge
or whatever.
They've successfully navigated it.
They learn some things andthey're like, wow, I can sure help
people that have whatever, youknow, whatever the struggle is, whatever
the.
The situation is.
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And so then they yearn to do that.
And we, every one of us,yearns to love and serve each other.
That's how we're built.
It's part of that divinenature I talked about.
But anyway, they want to dothat, and then they end up thinking
or, you know, becoming acoach, quote.
But they don't make a livingat it.
They don't make much money.
The average income for a coachis less than 50,000 a year.
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I think it's around 30 orsomething, which certainly not enough
to live on anywhere.
So where does this prosperitycome in?
Prosperity comes frommaximizing the skills, gifts, and
talents that you have.
And what I mean by that is,yet there are more skills that you
need to make a successfulbusiness than just this passion.
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Knowing that you can helppeople because of your experience.
That's a starting point, a skill.
Remember, I said it wasskills, gifts, and life experience.
Your life experience haspulled you in and driven you to be
of Service in the way ofmentoring or coaching or consulting
in a particular area.
But a skill you have to learnis you have to learn how to market
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in some way.
Maybe you use social, maybeyou use more traditional ways, doesn't
matter.
But you have to get in frontof people.
If you live by a referral onlybusiness, you're dead.
That doesn't mean you can'tlive make a decent living.
You're never going to grow andyou're never going to get the freedom
you thought you were going to have.
So you have to learn theprinciples of business.
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You have to learn the skill of marketing.
And so those are two skills to learn.
And maybe you didn't have thembefore, maybe you weren't ever in
a position.
I wasn't.
When I started to decide, whenI decided to be a coach, I didn't
know anything about marketing.
I had never done anythingrelated to that in my whole career,
so I hadn't had to do it.
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I had never had a salesposition of any kind, so I didn't
know any of it.
And I was really bad at it.
And so you have the passionand that has come from your life
experience.
Maybe it's also come from your gifts.
Maybe you're a lover of peoplenaturally and you love helping people.
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That's certainly not a gift I had.
I've learned that.
But a really important thing Ihad to learn was I had to learn how
to market.
I had to learn how to network,which I was terrible at.
I had to learn how to, youknow, the skill of communication
and not speaking.
I had a.
I have a gift of speaking, butthat's not the same as creating connections
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so you can build a business.
So there were a lot of skillsI had to learn.
Even though I was already veryempathetic, I could listen well and,
you know, be a powerful coachin terms of helping people.
Because of my life experience,I had to learn a set of skills in
order to make purpose,prosperity and joy come true.
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Now purpose, prosperity andjoy is true.
It has come true.
And I love the life that Ilive every day.
It's funny, people ask meoften, you know, I said, I meet all
these new people.
They asked me often, oh man,like, don't you get tired or, you
know, what are you going to dofor vacation or something?
Reaching my 300 million is my vacation.
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It's my passion, it's my love,and I do it.
Yeah, Joy and I go places andhave fun and do stuff.
Sure, we do.
But she's my passion too.
She's an angel.
I live with an angel.
I just am blessed that way.
A holy angel.
She just is stardust as she walks.
And if you know her, then youknow what I mean.
And that's true.
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But the, the key here, the keyis understanding your life experience
and choosing your passion.
It is then figuring out whatskills you need to learn, and learn
them so you can marry themwith your passion to create prosperity.
Prosperity means not justcreating the cash you need, which
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is not difficult.
We think that making money ishard, and it's not.
Money follows value.
You're infinitely valuable.
All you got to do is figureout how to channel and present that
value.
And you can make boatloads of cash.
You now can make boatloads of cash.
And if you'd like to talkabout how.
Kellenflukermedia.com let's talk.
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One of the things I love doingis, especially you people that have
that yearning to serve is helpthem get it organized, which is happening
in writing a book.
And I've learned all these onmy own journey doing this.
And, you know, I've written 20 now.
But the process has been sorewarding because I've learned so
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much that I can now pass onand share.
Now, the last piece of thisequation is joy.
Now, the fun part is purposeyou can get by mining your life experience
and your gifts and skills.
Like I said, prosperity islearning the right skills and marrying
them so you can createwhatever kind of business you're
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looking to create.
And that takes some time,takes some learning and some evolution.
The good news about joy, notmy wife joy, but about having purpose,
prosperity and joy is youdon't, you don't need to wait for
that.
You can have joy today, rightnow, right here.
Joy is a choice.
It is a decision that whateveryou're doing and wherever you are
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on this journey of learning,finding your purpose and creating
your prosperity, wherever youare on that journey, you're going
to be happy.
And that means getting rid ofthe disease of.
I'll be happy when, when Ihave a million dollars in the bank.
The first time I have a$25,000 month in sales or a million
dollar month, you know, Idon't know where you are in your
business, but the first time Ihave that, oh, then I'm happy.
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I will make you a promise.
Whatever jolt of joy you getfrom some big sale or some big month
or some big year only laststhat long.
And the reason is because thatby itself isn't the creator of happiness.
Joy is a thing that comes from inside.
When you know you're livingyour purpose, you know you're adding
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good to the world.
You know you're doing what youcame to do, what you love to do,
and what you were built to do.
When you know that and you'reliving it, you.
You're.
You have joy.
Joy does not depend onexternal circumstances, doesn't depend
on what anyone else does or says.
So joy you can have right now,from today, all the way forever.
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Purpose you can find quickly.
And if you can't do that, talkto me.
Let's create that.
And prosperity just depends ontaking that purpose and figuring
out what you need to know,what you're missing in terms of skills
in marketing or sales orability to get that in front designing
programs.
Those kinds of things are allwell known.
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Tens of thousands, hundreds ofthousands of people have done it
before you.
And it's well known.
If you need help with any ofthat, let's talk.
Because that's all I do.
300 million people I'mreaching this year with this message
of divinity.
That's who you are.
Capability, which means whatyou're the capabilities you have.
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And possibility is theinfinite vision you can create on
your journey to purpose,prosperity and joy.
And if you're stuck anywhere,don't stay stuck.
Don't blame things.
Love yourself enough to takethe action you need today to create
right now.
The beginning or thecontinuation on your move to create
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your ultimate life right here,right now.
Your opportunity for yourmassive growth is right in front
of you.
Every episode gives youpractical tips and practices that
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will change everything.
If you want to know more, goto kellenfluekegermedia.com if you
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