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The Morning Show, This is Elvis Duran and the Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Were there were Last week we were talking to Any
turned Stephanie about shedding yourself from the world of toxic friends.
Just getting ready for getting rid of your toxic friends,
kicking them to the curb. We received this incredible text,
go ahead and pick up line nineteen. We picked up
this incredible text from our friend Amy. Hi, Amy, how
(01:00):
are you?
Speaker 10 (01:01):
I'm good?
Speaker 4 (01:02):
How are you guys doing great? I'm so glad we
could talk to you. Amy sentence a text. May I
read your text?
Speaker 11 (01:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (01:08):
Go ahead?
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Okay, we're talking about getting rid of toxic friends. But
she had friends that got rid of her. The text says,
I lost some good friends in the past because I
was such a heavy drinker. I'm sober now, so what's
your opinion about me trying to get back in touch
with them. I love this text. And by the way,
(01:31):
just because you're a heavy drinker doesn't mean you're toxic.
I don't want to mix those two. But if you're
a heavy drinker, sometimes you can it can be a
little rough with friendships.
Speaker 10 (01:42):
Right yeah, yeah, definitely.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
So I mean, how did they eliminate you from their lives?
In what way?
Speaker 10 (01:53):
Just kind of disappeared? I know I had one of them.
I think about out a lot. Is my best friend
from high school that we were really close, and she
got married to another guy from high school and we
had all gone to their wedding in Gatlinburg and everything,
(02:15):
and he was really upset with my drinking, right, and
so he told her that you should stop hanging around her,
and they moved I think to Akron or somewhere basically
somewhere in the woods, and she The only time I've
heard frommer since like the past thirty years is when
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her parents passed away.
Speaker 8 (02:39):
Wo and not that long ago.
Speaker 10 (02:42):
I tried to call and there was no answer, and
so I left a message, you know, like, hey, you know,
I'm if you're worried that I'm like drunk styling or something,
I'm not. I'm sober now, you know, I hope to
talk to you, and I didn't get a call that
but I mean, it could have been anything. But in
(03:02):
my mind, I'm all worried, like, you know, God, does
she still think I'm in that position? Because it got
really bad? I will admiss that well.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
But you know, Amy, she may have definitely seen you
on the caller Idea and heard your message and for
some reason decided not to reach back out. And you
did all you could do. I mean, you you did
what you might do to reconnect with her. But if
she doesn't reconnect with you, then you know that's on her,
you know. But I love the fact that you're thinking
about all these friends that you miss and may miss
(03:35):
you because of your past with drinking. But did you
go through the twelve step program or how if I
if I'm being too personal, let me know, but how
did you stop?
Speaker 11 (03:46):
Well?
Speaker 10 (03:47):
For me, it was really really bad, and I went
to a couple impatients. I did go to the twelve
step a couple of different times. They with that for
a while and everything, and for me, it just finally
got too bad and I, you know, went to an
impatient program and it just stuck, thankfully. And I think
(04:11):
part of it is that the guy I was with,
he was kind of I can't think of the word,
but basically he wouldn't if I wanted to drink, he'd
be like, Okay, you shouldn't. But or he'd be I'm
going to the store. Do you want me to pick
you up something?
Speaker 13 (04:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (04:31):
I'm likeful he was not helping him, I know he
was not.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
An ex boyfriend of mine was a He went through
twelve step and part of his twelve step steps was
calling the people he felt he had wronged. Right, did
you do that?
Speaker 14 (04:49):
You? Did?
Speaker 4 (04:49):
You have to do that? Right?
Speaker 10 (04:51):
No? I didn't get that far or deep into it.
I went to the meetings and stuff like that, and
I I did some of the step but I didn't
do them all.
Speaker 15 (05:02):
Okay, but Amy, you're not upset because a lot of
people might have been pissed off that their friends kind
of you know, left them when they needed them the most.
You don't blame them A good point. You don't blame
them though, for walking away from you.
Speaker 8 (05:14):
No, not at all.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Okay, Wow, good question.
Speaker 10 (05:17):
I've got one other friend I think of a lot. Actually,
I actually have dreams about her.
Speaker 16 (05:22):
And stuff.
Speaker 10 (05:22):
But he was a friend from college and then I
ended up working beside her. She was a coworker and
she was a really good friend, and I know when
she got married. I remember I got really bad drinking,
drunk whatever at her wedding. And I have a feeling
(05:42):
that's probably some hurt that she has that maybe she's
just like, okay.
Speaker 15 (05:48):
That's enough, Wow, Okay.
Speaker 10 (05:50):
So I haven't really reached out to her yet.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
Well, look, you know, I think it's admirable that you
are thinking of them and you're reaching out. If you
call maybe ten people and you get two callbacks, that's great,
you know. And it doesn't mean you have to be
besties and have to go to movies with each other.
It's just letting them know you're thinking about them and
letting them know how you're doing. I bet they've been curious, Gandhi,
what are you thinking.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
I think the making amens thing seems like an important
step to you at the moment, if you want to
reach out to these people and in your head you know, yeah,
this was an inciting incident and it caused them problems
and you are the person that brings it up. Maybe
that would do some good for all of you.
Speaker 10 (06:28):
That's a good idea.
Speaker 15 (06:29):
Yeah, and you know what I'm thinking. You know, Elvis
just said, like if two out of ten call you back,
it's great, So maybe start with that. But then maybe
those two, if they know any of the other people,
might be able to say, hey, I had a great
conversation with Amy, she's doing great. Maybe you should reach
out and you just never know how, like more people
will start reaching out.
Speaker 10 (06:50):
You guys have good information.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
I would also say, don't get too sad if you
do your part and you reach out and people don't
get back to you immediately, because everyone works through something
in their own time, and as long as you're happy
with what you've done and you've come to a better
place in your life and done everything you can, then
sometimes you just got to move on.
Speaker 17 (07:08):
And they might have things going away, their lives include
them from reaching back out to you.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
So it's not all about you never know, Amy. It's
been you know, Amy, And I'm loving the fact that
you're on with us because a lot of people are listening,
and maybe even people in this room who are thinking,
you know what, there was that person that I ran
away from back in the day for whatever reason, it
may be drinking or whatever, and I do wonder how
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they're doing. I guess it's been years. Time has passed.
I'm gonna give them a call just to let them
know I'm thinking about them.
Speaker 10 (07:40):
That's great.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
I think.
Speaker 10 (07:43):
Everyone gives people a chance. You know, everybody makes mistakes
in their life. You know, Like I said, mine got
very bad, and I wouldn't blame people for staying away
from me. But thankfully I'm out of that and hopefully
I can reconnect with some friends. And I'm just saying
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to everyone else, if there's anyone in your life like that,
give them a chance.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Let me ask you this amy, Has this process made
you more patient with your friends that otherwise would have
driven you a nuts? You know what I'm saying. I mean,
are you finding yourself going through life now with patients
for anything and everything, including traffic and bills and whatever
because you understand that people are more patient with you
at one point?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Not quite as well?
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Okay, Well, it's it's definitely something to think about, you know.
Speaker 10 (08:37):
Yeah, Well, the story, I don't have any friends. Unfortunately,
I'm like a lone person. I'm very good at talking
to people when they come to me. But I'm not
good at going to them, so that's something that maybe
this can help me work on.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Well, you have us, and I appreciate you spending time
with us, and I know that you really really made
a lot of people do some thinking. And thank you
so much. We appreciate it. Amy, and you have a
great day, and thanks for listening to our show, and
thanks for being a part of it.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Thank you always, thank you by congratulations.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
So what did you guys think about that?
Speaker 6 (09:16):
I think it's really interesting. I have a lot of
friends who have gone through their own struggles with addiction,
and of all of them, a couple have come out
on the other side. But when you're in it with someone,
addiction doesn't just affect the person that's addicted. It affects
the entire circle around them and things that have happened.
I understand both sides of it, and I see why
she definitely wants to reach out. I also see why
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maybe some people might not be ready for it. But
either way, she can only do what she can do.
Speaker 15 (09:40):
And she's got to be patient. She's got to let
them do it in their time too.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
You know, people come and go in and out of
our lives and they're there for a reason, and if
they leave, they leave for a reason, and we move
on to new victims. But that's just that's life, you know.
That's that's the way it is. And if someone you
(10:04):
have wronged in the past never wants to speak to
you again, Okay, well, no regrets, let's move on.
Speaker 15 (10:10):
You sound like you're singing a song from Wicked I Am. Yeah,
there's a song in it talking about how people come
into our lives for reasons and then they go and
you know, yeah, you're gonna make me cry.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
You know, Gandhi. It's like that guy and Drew Barry
Moore's show The Florist. Yes, people are asking him how
to prolong the lives of bouquets of flowers. What he
said was pretty cool, right.
Speaker 6 (10:35):
He said, flowers are meant to die. They bloom and
they die, and they teach us about living in the
moment and appreciating things while they're here. Don't waste your time. Well,
you can appreciate what's here on trying to prolong something
that's inevitably going away.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
There you go. It applies to friends and anything else
in life. Excellent.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
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Then you're like, oh.
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Speaker 4 (13:12):
Our special guest in turn, Leilani. Hello, Leilani. Hi, So
let's start with Leilani if we if we can? Okay, So,
Leilani is an artist. Not only is she an intern here,
but she's she does many things. Tell everyone if they
haven't met you, what exactly your artistry is all about?
Speaker 5 (13:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 21 (13:29):
So I make alt pop question mark. It's just under
my name, Leilani Pitau.
Speaker 5 (13:36):
It's like if a singer songwriter got hold.
Speaker 21 (13:41):
Of a drum machine and just what nuts is how
I like to describe it.
Speaker 4 (13:45):
Okay, Okay, So basically she's told us absolutely nothing.
Speaker 5 (13:50):
You gotta tune in and listen.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
Yeah, so you actually got a gig offered to you
here in Manhattan, right.
Speaker 21 (13:56):
Yes, which is not once in a lifetime, but it's
definitely big for me.
Speaker 5 (14:02):
But the unfortunate.
Speaker 21 (14:05):
Model of the show is that if I don't sell
at least ten tickets, I might be cut off the bills.
Speaker 5 (14:14):
Here's a gag.
Speaker 21 (14:15):
It's four hours, ten bands. We all get three songs.
Tickets are twenty dollars, so I have to beg on
my knees to all my friends twenty dollars to see
me play three songs.
Speaker 4 (14:27):
Otherwise you will be cut from the show.
Speaker 21 (14:29):
Yes, like they'll put me at the end of the show.
And if someone goes over Leilani's cut, I.
Speaker 15 (14:34):
Think they had. That's how they do it with a
lot of things like that. Yeah, so you because they
want you to bring the people in and if you don't, yeah, gone.
Speaker 5 (14:41):
Yeah, it's all about poll nowadays.
Speaker 4 (14:44):
Can you just say it? This is it when you
first get started in the business. This is not unusual, right,
it really is.
Speaker 13 (14:55):
I mean you've got to do the leg work for
the venue, bring the people in. You're there to play artist.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
Well she's not established quite yet. Where she's established, it
will be a whole o the world.
Speaker 21 (15:05):
Well, yeah, that's the thing. These are like showcases. So
it's people who are just starting out. I lament back
in the olden days, people just drunkenly got up on
stage and did whatever, and all of a sudden they're
Patty Smith.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
Well no, but see you've moved on to another level. Gandhi.
Speaker 6 (15:20):
Yes, So does it work in the opposite direction, where
if you sell thirty tickets, you're gonna move up and
they'll give you more space.
Speaker 8 (15:27):
Or is that it?
Speaker 21 (15:27):
Yeah, the more tickets you sell, the better the time
slot you get. So like, if you sell like like
fifteen ish, they'll put you at a prime spot around eight.
Everyone's there, everyone's happy, drinks everywhere, but if you're bad,
you go either at six pm or right at nine fifty.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
You know, is there a drink minimum?
Speaker 5 (15:50):
No, it's an eighteen plus show.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
It's all tickets. So let's say we gave you three
hundred dollars cash right now, and you got it's fifteen
tickets right.
Speaker 21 (15:58):
Well, I would just start handing out out to my friends.
I'd be like Elvis Duran paid for your ticket.
Speaker 5 (16:02):
Please please, please, please please be there.
Speaker 4 (16:04):
When is the gig coming up?
Speaker 5 (16:06):
It's coming up?
Speaker 4 (16:08):
Okay, Well, we'll give you three hundred dollars. Yes, I
mean are your friends I mean they're college friends. I
mean they don't have any money.
Speaker 5 (16:16):
Right, yes?
Speaker 4 (16:16):
No, what if we paid three hundred dollars and we
just moved you up. We're your manager.
Speaker 8 (16:24):
I like that.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
Oh that'd be wonderful to finally have management Okay.
Speaker 22 (16:28):
Subsequent question, is this like a school talent show where
I can just show up for you and then leave.
Speaker 21 (16:34):
Well, it's technically not a school. It's like a real venue.
Speaker 4 (16:37):
No, no, no, I get that.
Speaker 22 (16:38):
But if I'm showing up because I'm one of your
quote unquote ten people, I don't have to stay for
the rest.
Speaker 4 (16:44):
No, not at all. Yeah.
Speaker 21 (16:45):
The average person shows up for the one fifteen minute
set and then like goes out in the west Village
and it's done.
Speaker 5 (16:51):
Most of the bands don't even.
Speaker 4 (16:52):
Stick her ountd I paid six hundred dollars If I leave,
kids like, honey, we want to see you perform, but
I don't want see any of those other people. Please.
If this is how they get them in there, you
know they have no talent. Of course, You've got all
the talent in the world, all right. Well, so that's
(17:12):
how it works, all right.
Speaker 15 (17:13):
So you're gonna give her the money that she'll give
the tickets to her friends, yes, so that she can
fill it and then you'll get a better slot.
Speaker 5 (17:19):
Hey, that'd be fab I would love that.
Speaker 23 (17:21):
I can't you negotiate like a portion of the door
or a portion of the bar sales? Since you are
being a salesperson and you're bringing in all these people.
Speaker 21 (17:29):
Well that's the stupid part is that ten guarantees you
get on and then after that you get if the
tickets are twenty, you get like ten of every ticket
after the first tax.
Speaker 13 (17:40):
So you do make some money, Yeah, get some cash back.
Speaker 5 (17:42):
Yeah it works out.
Speaker 4 (17:43):
Hold on, now I'm giving you money directly.
Speaker 5 (17:48):
Yes, I'm you're scamming you guys out of money.
Speaker 4 (17:53):
Now, the crappiest deal I've ever made. Anyway, It's all
a part of paying your dues.
Speaker 5 (17:59):
Yes, you know what I'm saying. Hey, Sabrina Carpenter started somewhere,
I gotta I.
Speaker 4 (18:02):
Don't think she paid this.
Speaker 21 (18:04):
I don't think you ever had to do this.
Speaker 22 (18:09):
Into account non tangible things like if you're talking about
this on a national radio show, will they bump you
up a little bit higher?
Speaker 4 (18:17):
If you talk about.
Speaker 15 (18:17):
This, Oh you have to say the venue the night, Yeah,
you read it, promote it on your social media.
Speaker 4 (18:23):
We call this a value.
Speaker 6 (18:24):
Yes, well, actually dormount for this would be crazy, more
than six hundred dollars for Elvis.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
Have you show at this point?
Speaker 5 (18:31):
I should?
Speaker 21 (18:32):
I should send them this little clip and be like,
so put me at the BRANCHI on spot.
Speaker 4 (18:37):
We're very careful not to give the name of the venue.
Speaker 5 (18:40):
I don't want to get in trouble.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
So far, we have not made an agreement with that.
Speaker 5 (18:44):
If you bring them.
Speaker 15 (18:45):
This clip and say look at this, listen, and then say,
if you agree to give me a better slot and
some more cash, we'll mention. Can we say there's illegal.
Speaker 6 (18:54):
I'm pretty sure that's.
Speaker 4 (18:59):
She's a yes' work here. Here's a thing. Yeah, but
you have to keep in mind we're talking about a
major difference in value. I mean they're talking about filling
that place up and making a couple of thousand dollars
for the venue. The value added we would give you
would be like fifty one hundred thousand dollars, maybe even more. Mentioned. Yeah,
(19:22):
it's pretty expensive stuff.
Speaker 5 (19:23):
Hey, any big deal here?
Speaker 10 (19:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 21 (19:25):
As an intern, I'm already getting to be on the
radio like I've hit my peak.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
It's not getting higher than this. I've called it.
Speaker 4 (19:31):
Well, that's sady.
Speaker 5 (19:34):
I got to keep my expectations low. You never know
what happens.
Speaker 15 (19:36):
I am higher.
Speaker 4 (19:39):
Let's think about this. After we're done here, we'll take
a break and listen, negotiate. Let's come up with some
business plan activity.
Speaker 5 (19:47):
That's good. Yeah, I'll call my booker. It'll be great.
I'll figure it out.
Speaker 4 (19:51):
What's that Gandhi?
Speaker 6 (19:52):
So don't forget you can throw an even more added
value with Instagram and tak We.
Speaker 4 (19:57):
Do have the gram yes, m all right, all right, okay,
what's you.
Speaker 17 (20:05):
Get?
Speaker 5 (20:05):
Half the door?
Speaker 4 (20:06):
You know I was going to cut you know that.
Well beside all of this, you know, Leilani, we love
you and we have nothing but great things for you,
but at a cost.
Speaker 15 (20:18):
And so it goes and the truth comes out.
Speaker 4 (20:23):
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Speaker 4 (20:54):
Hey, I don't know why this keeps coming up, but
again I read something this morning about how how a
person in a relationship can be considered toxic based on
their zodiac sign. Why is it's still? I can't believe
this is still a thing? But was reading? Of course
I read down to Leo me right in? Instead, how
toxic are you? Leo's are all about themselves, so you'll
(21:17):
likely find a lot of one sidedness should you ever
date one. Leo's narcissism stems from a deep seated self consciousness,
so they me I require an intense amount of reassurance
and validation for my partner. And still Leo's are bombastic
in their arrogance, which is annoying. That's not me at all?
Is it? Hello? All right? So it starts out with
(21:42):
Gemini Gemini men, It says Gemini men are the most
toxic of the zodiac signs to date, and of course
I'm married to one because they just don't know what
they want. As a result of behaviors they display in
romantic relationships are often confusing, argumentative, manipulative, and codependent. They
vacillate between complete apathy and acting dangerously clinging. Geminism will
(22:05):
often play devil's advocate, even if only to incite an argument.
Whoa okay?
Speaker 10 (22:11):
True?
Speaker 6 (22:12):
Oh really is that al?
Speaker 10 (22:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (22:15):
Yes, a little bit? Give me another one, Give me.
Speaker 6 (22:18):
One towards guy.
Speaker 4 (22:20):
Okay, okay, let me is a Brandon Taurus.
Speaker 6 (22:23):
He is a Taurus.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
Yes, Taurus men could be considered one of the most
stable signs to build a future with. They're generous, logical, determined,
and they know how to hustle. Don't let that fool you, though,
because turusmen can still be one of the most toxic
signs to date. A Tarus sometimes puts money and work
above their relationships and interactions. This sign doesn't like conflict,
so they often they avoid, and they're dismissive when a
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problem arises. Don't expect a Turis to be nurturing to
your emotional needs. With their stubborn nature, Taruses will rarely
apologize or admit wrongdoing. They're nearly impossible to level with,
by the way, so they're basically saying all star signs
are toxic.
Speaker 5 (23:00):
Yeah, so everyone's terrible.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
Give me another one.
Speaker 13 (23:03):
What does it say about the Aquarius male?
Speaker 4 (23:05):
Is that you? That's me scary? You are less so
emotionally manipulative and more so emotionally unavailable. Aquarian. Oh my god, scary,
this is you on a cracker. Aquarian men, bottle up
their feelings and emotions, making it difficult to get to
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the root of any problem. Aquarian men can come off
cold and unaffectionate in their romantic relationships, so it can
be hard to develop a deep and meaningful connection with one.
You know, I just you know what I'm hearing here.
Everything I'm reading about every one of these stars signs
you could basically apply to each and every one of
us or the person we're with. Of course, is this
a mind screw, then give me another one.
Speaker 6 (23:47):
What about the Sagittarius man.
Speaker 4 (23:50):
Sagmen may seem chill, but that's because oftentimes they just
truly do not care. Sagittariuses are also loud mouthed. You
can always count on one to stir up trouble then
sit back and watch the world burn while they enjoy
the popcorn.
Speaker 8 (24:08):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (24:09):
They deny any accountability and the drama they fuel, even
acting surprise or unfazed by the events that transpire because
of them. It's a tough feat to get a Sagittarius
man to calm down or to commit yikes.
Speaker 6 (24:22):
Wow, these are great. I would love to hear about
the toxic women at some point too.
Speaker 10 (24:25):
Well.
Speaker 4 (24:26):
You could probably apply this to men and women, everyone
under these signs. I don't know. Look, you know, I
always say it doesn't take much digging to find fault
with me. I will be the first to admit that
I'm not about to say that I'm perfect or good
at anything. When it comes to relationships and communication and
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you know me, I expect people to read my mind.
I expect you to know what I'm thinking. I expect
you to act accordingly. If you don't, I snap at
you and get mad. That's who I am. You know,
I don't know, Just describe me.
Speaker 15 (25:01):
I have a question, though, what's that? Why do they
say like certain signs don't mix with certain signs? Like
why is that such a like? I don't get that.
Speaker 4 (25:08):
I don't understand the science behind it. But apparently there
is some science behind it because of your star and
their star and what time you're born and I don't
know deal in India and in India, Okay, talk about
that then I'm gonna go to producer Sam. What's going
on in India? Nothing?
Speaker 6 (25:23):
Just when it comes to like matchmaking, your the house
of stars under which you were born is a huge deal.
I mean, they won't match certain people with other people
because they say, you guys are just not aligned. It's
just not going to work out. So when you're filling
out like these profiles, they look for it and that
is a really big deal.
Speaker 4 (25:39):
Well, I guess it gives you something to go on,
something to work on. Maybe.
Speaker 13 (25:43):
Look, but I'm not Look.
Speaker 4 (25:44):
I'm reading all this stuff about geminis about Alex. I'm
not going to kick him out of my life because
of these these things are true. I love him, you know,
I'll deal with him as he deals with me, but
much less to deal with with me, if you think
about it. Cancer cancer put off a hard exterior, but
they tend to be emotional wrecks on the inside.
Speaker 15 (26:06):
Oh wow.
Speaker 4 (26:07):
Dating one may seem sweet at first, as you'll be
one of the few they'll be totally vulnerable around, but
the constant melodrama you'll endure will soon turn it bitter.
Cancers are expert emotional manipulators. They love throwing themselves pity parties,
and you'll be at the top of the guest list.
Oh god, Okay, I tell you what. Rather than reading
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down all of these uh, feel free to this website
bold dot com. It's b O L D E dot com.
Bold Ay A B O L D E dot com.
Check them out on your own. What'd you say about?
Speaker 11 (26:41):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (26:42):
Nate? What are you saying about? What gandhis say? Nate? Nate? What? Nate?
What is your your sign? Because you're totally disconnected Bycorn
with aus cussp Oh, didn't I read Capricorn? You read
Aquarius Capricorn? Oh, let's see if this is Nate ready.
A Capricorn's attitude may not be the most toxic, but
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it can rub people in a negative way. Caps are
judgmental pessimists, that is Nate. They're not afraid to point
out the worst in people and in situations that's you.
How many times do I have to tell you to
lighten up on people? That true? I do that to
you a lot. Capricorn men are smart, but they're no
at all because of that. Who's more of a no
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at all? It is? And they often think they're better
than others. Who's more than that than no? Sometimes Nate's
the kind of guy who always looks you in the
eye and says you know what your problem is and
tries to tell you what your problem is. It's anyway
we're all being judged. Sorry about that once again? It's
bold dot com. Bold dot com. Nate's idea. If you
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wanted to go with Gandhi's things to list arrange marriages.
Who wants to talk about that? Call me up.
Speaker 6 (27:49):
Oh, I'm telling that's a big thing with the arranged marriages.
The House of Stars is a huge deal on Indian Matchmaker.
I think that that was part of the thing that
they touched on. They did a lot of really weird
things in that show, but it's a big deal.
Speaker 4 (28:02):
You know. What to add to that point line three
is Lee, Hey.
Speaker 25 (28:06):
Oh my god, good morning.
Speaker 12 (28:09):
Oh my god, I can't.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
Believe I got through.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
I'm so excited.
Speaker 12 (28:11):
Good morning guy.
Speaker 4 (28:13):
Well we love having you Lee talk about it. Why
in this conversation is sparking a thought in your head?
Speaker 26 (28:19):
Because in it because I'm Chinese and Vietnamese, and in
our culture, it's the same thing like they look at
the Chinese zodiac to see what signs match with you,
and it's really interesting because they'll say, like if you're
a tiger sign and if you're a snake, they really
don't get along at all, so they don't match them together.
So I can totally understand where Gandhi's coming from and
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so I'm about pre arranged marriages. My parents were arranged,
you know, back like thirty almost forty years ago. Actually
I just turned forty, so.
Speaker 4 (28:49):
Wow, it's it's a work. But how did it work
out for them?
Speaker 26 (28:53):
My parents still together, you know, forty years later. I
just turned forty, so they're hitting maybe forty two right now,
so going strong still.
Speaker 4 (29:02):
Well, look, Lee and Gandhi, I'm not about to say
anything that goes against the beliefs of the Asian culture
when it comes to star signs and pre arranged marriages,
of this and that. At the same time, to sit
here and use the blanket philosophy saying if you're Leo,
you are this period. There's no way around it. So
you could be dismissing someone who's actually really great for
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you because of what's written on a star sign, the description.
I don't know. I don't know, but it is funny.
You heard me reading those things. Lee, give me what's
your star sign? I'm a Libra? Okay, did I read
Libra already? Okay? This is for Libra men, but I'm
going to re see if it applies to you. Last
on the list is the Libra man. Libras usually maintain
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pretty healthy relationships, and most of their negative characteristics are
non threatening. Libra men can be flirts due to their
friendly nature, which may drive you nuts if you're easily
irked by that kind of thing. Their flirtations are harmless, though,
since libras are also known to be extremely loyal to
their significant others, likely the biggest concern with dating a
libra is their loftiness. You should expect to make most
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of the decisions in this So is it difficult for
you to make decisions in a relationship?
Speaker 11 (30:12):
Lee?
Speaker 4 (30:12):
Totally.
Speaker 26 (30:13):
I am indecisive beyond belief, so I need someone to
make that decision. But I don't say it's flictatious.
Speaker 12 (30:19):
I just say I'm very friendly.
Speaker 4 (30:23):
Which is fine with me.
Speaker 1 (30:25):
Exactly.
Speaker 4 (30:27):
What are your thoughts in this, Gandhi we're coming from.
Speaker 6 (30:32):
I totally get it, and I'm with you on all
of those things. And I also see where you're coming
from on the other side of it, saying, don't just
completely write somebody off because of a sign. However, when
the matchmakers get their little matchmaker hat on, there are
some big red flags and that's one of them.
Speaker 19 (30:47):
That's yes, completely, and Producer Sam, what was your thought, well,
something that I've learned is compared to nature, not nurture,
and we know nature and nurture are really important. None
of them exist without the other as far as who
a person is. So the stars and your zodiac sign
is just supposed to be kind of related to your
nature because of when you were born.
Speaker 5 (31:07):
Having said that a sagittary.
Speaker 19 (31:08):
Is born in one family is going to be completely
different than if that same person was born in another family.
So it's not something that should be totally written off.
It's just a small insight as to why a person
might be rooted in a certain way or.
Speaker 4 (31:20):
An escape patch to get out of a relationship. Got
to go. Yeah, hey, Lee, you have a beautiful day,
and thank you so much for listening. It's knowing. It's
great knowing that you're out there listening to us. Thank
you so much. Look, I'm not going to be able
to go down through all these star signs. If you
want to read all all the mean things about these
star signs, it's at a website called bold dot com.
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was that funny?
Speaker 8 (31:51):
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Speaker 8 (32:21):
Elvis Duran who why you hop and survive? Maybe you'll
come down a little And the Morning Show?
Speaker 4 (32:30):
Uh is it time to play the feud?
Speaker 8 (32:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (32:32):
Yeah, welcome to the feud. We've got our two families.
Speaker 17 (32:36):
Please everybody say hello and give a warm welcome to
the Durand family, the patriarch of the Durant family, Elvis, Elvis,
who did you bring with you today?
Speaker 4 (32:46):
I brought my brothers. I brought Froggy and Scary. I
was apted.
Speaker 17 (32:52):
Oh that's obvious, just look at your face. And then
we had up the Bnaro family. Yeah, y'all don't share
the same last names. And the mother of the Minario
family is Danielle Daniel who'ld you.
Speaker 4 (33:06):
Bring with you today?
Speaker 15 (33:07):
I brought my sister Gandhi with me. Today, and that's
because nobody else would come.
Speaker 17 (33:11):
Well, could bring there you little brother, Scotty b he's
sitting nothing.
Speaker 15 (33:15):
Scotty Bee sometimes is definitely questionable. So Scotty's not art.
Speaker 6 (33:20):
But you know what, Scotty plays this stuff at home
all the time. I have faith that he's gonna.
Speaker 4 (33:24):
Have some answers here. Yeah, no, no, no, no no. I
thought the Monaro family was Danielle Gandhi and producer Sam
was she's not here? Why not?
Speaker 5 (33:35):
She's missing?
Speaker 4 (33:37):
Let's get her in there.
Speaker 6 (33:41):
Let's Scotty.
Speaker 4 (33:42):
Okay, let's move on Scotty. Reason I have a problem
with Scotty is he's really good again? Exactly? Okay, I
choke under pressure. Well, you guys know how the feud
different game.
Speaker 17 (33:52):
Okay, you guys know how the feud works. We've asked
our studio audience hundreds of people several different question and
the top answers to those questions go on the board.
Speaker 4 (34:02):
So are you ready to play miner family? That's okay,
all right?
Speaker 17 (34:06):
First question, why might a woman pucker her lips?
Speaker 4 (34:13):
You just have to answer.
Speaker 15 (34:18):
To put on lipstick?
Speaker 17 (34:20):
Okay, that's a fair I would think. So you always
pucker your lips when you put on lipstick. Let's see
if that's on there.
Speaker 8 (34:26):
Oh, the hard.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
Most popular answer answer A chance for the guys the
Durant family to steal here. So say a woman will
purse her lips for a kiss.
Speaker 17 (34:39):
Speaking of kisses, give me one there, mister Durant. Let's
see a kiss tops lipstick? Yes, the number one answer,
why would a woman pucker her lips? There's top five
answers on the board. Number one is kiss. Number three.
Speaker 4 (34:55):
Do we want to play this? We play? Yeah?
Speaker 17 (34:59):
Okay, no women on this team.
Speaker 4 (35:01):
Let's see how this goes. All right, let's go.
Speaker 17 (35:05):
That's a good idea to your brother, Froggy, Froggy, it's
quite the SMI to wait, wait, wait, gave me.
Speaker 11 (35:10):
A kiss, Richard Dawson. I'm gonna go with take a
selfie or take a picture. That's very popular.
Speaker 4 (35:24):
Yeah, a lot of people do that duck face. Let's
see if it's on there. Oh, five people telling.
Speaker 17 (35:29):
Us that they make the duck face selfie. That's the
most popular answer. We're still missing number two and number four.
Now we come to little brother Scary Jones. Scary Yeah,
why might a woman pucker her lips?
Speaker 4 (35:43):
I'm gonna say to whistle asking get answered. I feel
like that's a good answer.
Speaker 17 (35:51):
Durand family, it's okay, yeah, you know what not that?
Speaker 4 (35:58):
Okay, your first strike on the board. Okay, asked me
the question? Okay, why might a woman pucker?
Speaker 27 (36:06):
Who?
Speaker 4 (36:07):
She ate? Lemon or some sort of citrus? That's that's
very sour.
Speaker 17 (36:15):
Give me another kiss there because I skipped Scary right,
So let me see eight a lemon or something sour?
Speaker 4 (36:26):
El E thinks like a woman. Obviously, here we go.
That was for the other team.
Speaker 17 (36:33):
It was so great because the number four most popular answer.
There's only one unknown left on the board. That's the
second most popular answer. So froggy, froggy, why might a
woman pucker her lips?
Speaker 11 (36:47):
Ah?
Speaker 4 (36:48):
I don't know.
Speaker 11 (36:49):
I was thinking sour, but Elvis got that one.
Speaker 4 (36:50):
It was good. I have no idea. You're like you,
of all people would just sorry, that's a buzz buzz.
You got one more wrong answer.
Speaker 17 (37:03):
Then it goes over the ladies, so scary give me
a kiss there quickly, because all right, why might a
woman pucker?
Speaker 4 (37:09):
Who lives?
Speaker 23 (37:11):
I'm gonna say to blow bubbles, who's that?
Speaker 4 (37:19):
Michael Jackson's was blow bubble. Let's see if that's on
theres So.
Speaker 15 (37:27):
Sorry, MANDI, what do you think?
Speaker 4 (37:31):
What do you think this is?
Speaker 25 (37:32):
Okay?
Speaker 17 (37:33):
Collective answer? Why might a woman pucker? You have a
few seconds taking a drink?
Speaker 4 (37:37):
Maybe?
Speaker 6 (37:38):
So I was thinking maybe a sip or blowing out
a candle, or she's sad, so you kind of are
like pouting.
Speaker 4 (37:45):
Or attracting attention at a bar. Which one are you
gonna do?
Speaker 16 (37:48):
Man?
Speaker 15 (37:49):
I think either likes. I think you're the sucking on
the straw or what was the other one that you said?
Speaker 28 (37:55):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (37:55):
I said, or she's sad like you're pouting like.
Speaker 15 (37:57):
No, there was another one too, attracting attention?
Speaker 4 (38:00):
No, there was another a commercial break coming up here.
I forget it smoking a cigarette?
Speaker 17 (38:06):
I got on an answer, Oh my gosh, we're gonna.
Speaker 4 (38:10):
Give you a buzz if we don't have people come on.
Speaker 15 (38:13):
Maybe maybe sip of okay, just say it.
Speaker 17 (38:16):
I don't know, sipping a drink, okay, okay, let me see.
Speaker 4 (38:19):
If sipping a drink wins the game. Sorry?
Speaker 17 (38:27):
Sorry, I thought Froggy would have gotten this. It's to
make her man really happy. A little lolly poppy, that's
what said blowing bubble clar.
Speaker 4 (38:46):
All right, I don't do the questions, ladies, please, whatever,
All right, let's move on to our next question. Round
one goes to the Fellas.
Speaker 17 (38:54):
Sorry, talk to your questions the Durand family. Okay, chance
for redemption here, ladies. I'm gonna let you go again first.
Speaker 6 (39:01):
Okay. O.
Speaker 5 (39:02):
Wait, so why.
Speaker 4 (39:03):
Are you letting her go first?
Speaker 17 (39:04):
Because we're gonna accuse me of cheating and I don't
want to get accused of cheating right now I'm accusing
you of Okay, fine, we'll go to the Duran tramily.
Speaker 6 (39:11):
That's not how it works. We could do it.
Speaker 17 (39:14):
You can't take it back, sir, Okay, Duran, give it,
give it? Okay anaraw family, Here we go, goand to
euro up.
Speaker 4 (39:24):
This is they can go first, as long as they
agree they're going to start answering a little faster.
Speaker 17 (39:28):
Okay, okay, whatever, okay. Top eight answers are on the board.
Name something a nudist would wear to a nudist colony
formal event?
Speaker 6 (39:38):
You oh oh oh a tie?
Speaker 17 (39:42):
Show me tie the number one answer? Number one answer
Top eight answers.
Speaker 4 (39:48):
Okay, thank you obviously, all right, here we go.
Speaker 17 (39:51):
Scotty Bee, little brother Scotty be what what a newdist?
Speaker 4 (39:54):
Where to a newdist colony formal event? Nothing? Let's see
if nothing is on there? Sorry, you gotta wear something,
that's the obvious answer.
Speaker 17 (40:06):
But you gotta wear something. There's so many little things
you can wear. Think about it. Think of those little
things you can wear. So, Danielle, something a nudist would
wear to a nudist colony formal event.
Speaker 15 (40:16):
I'm gonna say socks.
Speaker 4 (40:19):
Wears the sock.
Speaker 17 (40:23):
Let me see if socks is on the board, one
more strike it goes over to the draamt and okay,
so gandhi, you got to keep it alive. Nudist wearing
something to a newdist conny colony formal event?
Speaker 6 (40:37):
What is I'm going to say, dress shoes.
Speaker 4 (40:41):
Let's see if you're gonna be wearing shoes and nothing else?
Number five most popular answer.
Speaker 15 (40:49):
Okay, sucks if you're gonna wear shoes.
Speaker 4 (40:52):
What the hell is this to a formal event? There,
cumber Bun.
Speaker 16 (41:00):
Good answer, good answer, Not a good answer, that's the point.
Speaker 17 (41:06):
Scotti b All right, name something a nudist would wear
to a nudist colony formal event.
Speaker 4 (41:10):
How about a top hat? That's good? He is naked. Alright,
let's see if top hats are number two. Just remember
it's a formal event.
Speaker 15 (41:24):
Okay, Tom gonna say jewelry.
Speaker 4 (41:26):
Let's see if.
Speaker 17 (41:27):
Jewelry is on there? Popular answer number three. Okay, gandhi,
Now it's all to you. You got one strike remaining.
You got to keep it alive. Here, name something a
nudist would wear to a Newdiest colony formal event.
Speaker 6 (41:42):
Man, this just got really hard. I was gonna say jewelry.
How about you want to wear bra or underwear, shoes, necklace,
fancy gloves? Oh I changed it to a purse.
Speaker 17 (42:00):
Oh stop, Okay, let's see fancy gloves is on there
or a purse.
Speaker 4 (42:08):
I even let you have two answers.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
He did.
Speaker 4 (42:12):
What do you think, guys, a corsage, cumber bud.
Speaker 13 (42:19):
Thout, aless chaps.
Speaker 6 (42:21):
Yeah, yeah, that sounded like a good answer answer if
the other.
Speaker 4 (42:27):
Team could hush for just one moment. What a dickey
A dickey? And as gloves? Yes, I would say gloves
because it was somebody said gloves. Whatever. I don't know, guys,
come on with the answer. Come on, come on, Duran family.
You don't have a lot of time. It has to
be formal.
Speaker 13 (42:46):
It's a formal event.
Speaker 15 (42:47):
Come on, Duran family.
Speaker 11 (42:48):
Member from the cumber bund. I think cumber bund is
a decent answer.
Speaker 4 (42:52):
I think it's a good answer as well. I think
I thought cassage. All right, you guys want to.
Speaker 11 (42:57):
Go, what are you going to put the corsage on?
Speaker 4 (42:59):
Okay? The point answer? Okay, we say whatever they wanted. No, no,
I need an answer from the patriarch. They said, they
said cumberman. I don't think that's a good idea of it. Okay,
steal this round and win the game. Do I see
kumber bund up there?
Speaker 8 (43:17):
Sorry?
Speaker 4 (43:19):
Can I tell you?
Speaker 17 (43:20):
Had you said corsage, that would have been the seventh
most popular answer.
Speaker 4 (43:25):
Also also on there crown or tierra.
Speaker 17 (43:29):
Oh yeah, okay, watch and finally a ribbon or bow
around your private Oh.
Speaker 15 (43:36):
And by the way, Froggy, you wear a corsage on
your wrist too, so you have as long as you.
Speaker 4 (43:41):
Have a wrist. So is it time to do a tiebreaker?
It is? We do have a tiebreaker round.
Speaker 6 (43:49):
How does this work?
Speaker 4 (43:50):
We have to rush through this.
Speaker 15 (43:50):
By the way, we're running so exciting.
Speaker 17 (43:52):
We are very late, so let's just go the Duran famine.
Did you know the Manarow family. Let's go here, gotta
be okay, it's store, Okay, all right. Name something that
a good fairy tale would have. Top five answers are
on the board. Once upon a time, show me once
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upon a time. I'm actually surprised that's not on there.
If that's not on there, then this is crap.
Speaker 4 (44:26):
You'll have brody.
Speaker 17 (44:27):
Okay, name something a good fairy tale would have top
five answers on the board.
Speaker 4 (44:31):
A princess. Let me see if we got a princess
in that story.
Speaker 17 (44:36):
I do the number two answer, but since the Duran's
got it wrong, the board automatically goes to you.
Speaker 4 (44:40):
So, Danielle, name something a good fairy tale would have
a prince. Let's see if we had a prince. Yes,
prince the number three most popular answer game. Okay, gandhi, gandhi.
Something a good fairy tale.
Speaker 6 (44:54):
Would have a villain?
Speaker 4 (44:58):
A villain, Yeah, every good story. He's got somebody bad
in it? Yes, a witch or evil queen. That's the
number four most popular evil queen. I'm in this is
a running out of time, Scotty Bee. How about a
happy ending? Happy ending? Yeah, exact no, no, the answer
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would have been happily ever after, and he said the
wrong thing. Well, I'm sorry. Ending is something you get
in a massage.
Speaker 17 (45:29):
I'm sorry, mister Durand, but it is happy ending, according
I disagree with that.
Speaker 6 (45:33):
Okay, look, our show has an evil queen.
Speaker 17 (45:35):
However, you do have you do have the the fifth
most popular answer.
Speaker 4 (45:39):
You got to get this right where it goes over
to the guys.
Speaker 15 (45:41):
So, Danielle, I'm gonna says, maybe a fairy godmother.
Speaker 4 (45:49):
Fairy godmother wishing right, Yeah, let's see if we.
Speaker 17 (45:54):
Got fairy godmother to clean sweep the board. Let's see
if it's on there.
Speaker 4 (46:05):
Family all right, despite the fact we have the world's
worst host, I think it was fay. Listen, you give
me much less sass.
Speaker 5 (46:18):
My god, I can't breathe.
Speaker 15 (46:19):
I'm so excited.
Speaker 4 (46:22):
The one again. I'm happy for you, Danielle.
Speaker 8 (46:29):
Yes, another week and here we go into the day.
Calvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 9 (46:37):
Happy Thanksgiving from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (46:42):
Hey, we're talking for about the fact that you hear
these stories all the time. I don't know how they
do it, how they find time to do it, but
their husbands fathers out there who actually will have a
family on the west side of town and also another
one on the east side of town. And they're living
these double lives with two families, and they get away
with it. And so Gandhi made a comment. I thought
this was very, very telling, go ahead and tell everyone.
Speaker 6 (47:04):
So I saw a tweet the other day that said,
I feel like the female contribution to the family can
be summed up in the simple fact that mothers could
absolutely never have a secret second family. And I was like, oh,
that's so true.
Speaker 4 (47:17):
Never thought of it that way, but it is true.
Speaker 15 (47:19):
I can't even handle my first family. I'm so exhausted.
Speaker 4 (47:24):
Oh my gosh. Okay. It says a couple of things.
Number one about how being a mother is a full
time job, right, you don't have time for two full
time jobs an other job as well, maybe, But also
being a guy being a father in this type of relationship,
you have some wiggle room to go out there and
(47:44):
pull off some shenanigans, you know exactly.
Speaker 15 (47:46):
And you know what I also noticed, like, when you're
a girl, say you want to get your hair done,
and you have kids in a family, you have to say, okay,
I need a babysitter, or I need to get someone
to cover the kids, or anywhere a guy, normally, in
a normal situation will go, I'm going to get a haircut,
and watch out the Is he really going to get
that haircut to get other child's haircut? Who the hell is?
Speaker 4 (48:10):
Look, we're talking about one part of society, and we're
talking about married couples or couples with children. Okay, it
really shows you another example of how guys really true
have it, truly have it much easier than women. We
really do, I mean without doubt. And that is proof
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right there with what you're talking about, Gandhi.
Speaker 6 (48:32):
Yeah, I mean even just the biology of the whole thing.
As a mom, you're the one that's getting pregnant, then
having the baby, and then you're taking care of it
as a newborn, where your physical body is very important
for those first you know, few months to a year.
Guys just you know, get to drop the seed and leave.
It's amazing.
Speaker 4 (48:48):
Well, that's nice visual, all right. I tell you what,
all these texts coming in about what we're talking about,
it's totally easier or a husband to have a secret
family across town and neither family know about each other
than a woman, than a wife, yeah, than a mother
(49:08):
that can't do it? If you can, God bless you, man.
I don't know. You must have some crazy resources. People
are texting in a lot. Someone actually said, well, people
have step families all the time. Well, absolutely they do,
and they're not unusual. I'm talking about two totally top
secret families.
Speaker 6 (49:25):
Wow, you know, I don't know, totally different thing.
Speaker 4 (49:29):
And a lot of people are texting and saying, you
know what you said in that comment about how guys
have it much easier than women, Well, I work really hard.
Please understand what we're saying, what we're talking about before
you get butt hurt. Really, we're talking about people who
have the ability to have secret families that know nothing
about each other, and it's very obvious in our opinion,
it's easier for men to do that than women. That's
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what the topic is about. Let's stay clear on that. Line.
Twenty is Jay from Rutherford, New Jersey. Hello, Jay, what's
going on?
Speaker 9 (49:56):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (49:57):
How are you?
Speaker 18 (49:58):
Is it?
Speaker 10 (49:58):
Jay? Or?
Speaker 4 (49:58):
Do I have a dirt blotch on my screen?
Speaker 13 (50:02):
Is your name?
Speaker 4 (50:02):
Ja?
Speaker 12 (50:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (50:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (50:04):
Just all right? So you always thought your husband was cheating?
What did you find out.
Speaker 18 (50:10):
Well, I had always found you know, text messages, and
he denied it. Uh, So I finally left him, and
then I needed something for health insurance, and I went
on to his health insurance and found another child's name
and found out he had had a child. He got
the woman pregnant while we were still married, and then
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when I found out it was two years later. So
he had a baby and then kept the baby. He
gret for two years even though my daughter was also
around this baby. Oh wow, and his whole family knew
too well.
Speaker 4 (50:47):
And so he was was he active as a father
or did he just visit and pay money every once
in a while. And how actively was he into that
other family?
Speaker 18 (50:56):
Oh he was. He was never at home.
Speaker 2 (51:01):
When we were when my daughter was little.
Speaker 18 (51:03):
Yeah, he was always out and said he was working.
Speaker 4 (51:06):
But but Jade, did she know about you and his family?
Speaker 2 (51:13):
I believe now she did.
Speaker 18 (51:15):
Yes, I don't know in the beginning and she did.
But yeah, she definitely knew about me when she was
pregnant because I have a three year old.
Speaker 4 (51:25):
So you're still together.
Speaker 28 (51:28):
They're still together.
Speaker 4 (51:29):
Oh, they're still together.
Speaker 8 (51:30):
And they have more kids, him and.
Speaker 18 (51:32):
The other and they have two more kids.
Speaker 4 (51:33):
Yeah, wow, okay, interesting, Yeah, everyone knows a different story. Jay.
I wonder how many fathers are out there who tell
family A that they have a night job in family
B that they have a day job and they just
basically don't work. Just go back and forth. I don't know.
Speaker 13 (51:52):
I mean it's a lot of work.
Speaker 11 (51:54):
I mean, yeah, it is exhausting, all the lies and
all this stuff together.
Speaker 4 (51:58):
That's so that's got to take a toll. It just
got to take a mental toll. All right, Jay, thank
you for listening to us, and you go have a
good day. Best of luck to you.
Speaker 18 (52:06):
Okay, thank you you too.
Speaker 4 (52:08):
All right? Jen is on twenty one currently the part
of a secret family and you know all about the
other family. Now are you okay living like that?
Speaker 10 (52:16):
Jen?
Speaker 4 (52:17):
I mean are you? Are you mentally cool with all this?
Speaker 17 (52:21):
No?
Speaker 8 (52:21):
Not at all.
Speaker 4 (52:22):
Yeah, it's got to be very very taxing on you.
Speaker 2 (52:27):
It is. But I mean, what else can I do?
Speaker 29 (52:29):
I mean, you know what I mean, Like, we got
two kids together, I'm like busting my ears or I'm sorry,
I'm busting my butt trying to support my two kids.
Speaker 2 (52:38):
What else can I do? I Like, I depend on him,
I need his help. With our children. It's not like
and it's not easy now.
Speaker 4 (52:48):
Like it can't be. I cannot imagine what you're we both.
Speaker 29 (52:51):
I mean, honestly, he does sit here and tell me
that he loves both of us, and he doesn't know.
Speaker 27 (52:56):
What to do.
Speaker 2 (52:59):
I mean, I don't know what to believe or what
not to believe.
Speaker 4 (53:01):
But you you know that you gotta keep something else
in mind, Jen, Just a thought is if you take
the kids out of the equation for a second, which
is impossible almost I'd go, but no, but no, but wait, okay, exactly,
so it really so it isn't about love. It's about
keeping your kids, uh well fed and taken care of
along with the two jobs.
Speaker 2 (53:24):
Right, and they have a relationship with their father.
Speaker 4 (53:27):
Wow, so so you need to stand by.
Speaker 2 (53:30):
How can I treat that away from them? How can
I take that away from them?
Speaker 4 (53:34):
How old are your kids?
Speaker 2 (53:36):
Fifteen and three?
Speaker 4 (53:39):
So they know what's going on? Yeah, well you're fifteen
years old.
Speaker 2 (53:43):
She has an idea about it.
Speaker 4 (53:45):
You It just seems like she needs to know the truth.
I would think. I'm not a parent, so I'm just
my opinion, and my opinion is not always right. Keep
that in mind.
Speaker 29 (53:53):
I have no problem on that. I have no problem
with her knowing the truth. But my opinion is it
needs to come from.
Speaker 2 (53:58):
Him, not nay.
Speaker 4 (54:01):
You know what, can we talk about Jen? Can we
talk about you and how strong of a woman you
are and how as a matter of fact, to the
point of you're doing the best you can to be
a good mom for these two kids. You got to.
I mean, I hope you stop down and give yourself
some credit, even though you're not in a position that's
enviable at all, and you know that, but you you,
(54:24):
you are working your You're working your ass off, as
you said, and uh, I mean you you need some
credit here for being a good mom doing your best.
Speaker 2 (54:32):
I mean, thank you.
Speaker 29 (54:33):
But I can't look at it that way. I mean,
any mother would do this and it comes to your kids.
You gotta do what you gotta do.
Speaker 2 (54:38):
I mean, you can't.
Speaker 5 (54:39):
You're a mom.
Speaker 2 (54:40):
You you don't have the choice to fail.
Speaker 4 (54:43):
That's the way I look at Gandhi. What's your thoughts
for Jen?
Speaker 6 (54:47):
Do you ever wonder if those kids want to meet
their half siblings from the other His daughter?
Speaker 2 (54:53):
Oh, I know, I know, my daughter does, I know
she does.
Speaker 29 (54:57):
She's been asking about it since I mean she was,
I mean four, she because you overheard somebody say something
where we live, and she was like, wait do I
and was like, no, you do not have brothers, No
you don't. And then as she got older, she actually
found something in his car and she was like, who's death?
Speaker 4 (55:16):
And so so the other mom, the other mother has
no clue about you. You think you.
Speaker 2 (55:20):
Believe No, I think she might have some idea. But
I'll be honest with you. If it it would get
it would be I could tell you right now, I
get physical.
Speaker 4 (55:30):
If it well, okay, well that's a whole other layer,
physical as in physically abusive.
Speaker 29 (55:36):
If no, no, no, no, I and like she would
probably try, and you know it would it would turn
into a.
Speaker 2 (55:44):
Fist fight more than likely then us just talking trash
to each other.
Speaker 11 (55:47):
Well yeah, right.
Speaker 4 (55:48):
But but as far as your as far as the
father of your your children goes, this is this is,
this is all on him.
Speaker 2 (55:56):
I don't think I don't want to kill him at times.
Speaker 4 (55:58):
But how no, I know that. But he's the issue.
He's the problem, and he really truly is the problem.
He's the hinge on this door, right, Gandhi, I mean you.
Speaker 2 (56:06):
Agree with that right a thousand percent.
Speaker 6 (56:09):
Yeah, absolutely, so Jen is he.
Speaker 29 (56:13):
I've been giving him the ultimatum, like, yo, you mayor her.
Speaker 2 (56:17):
There's been many times where it's may or her. Okay,
So with him.
Speaker 6 (56:24):
So he goes and spends time with this other family
and then comes and spends time with you guys as
a family. So it's actually like he has two full
family units.
Speaker 21 (56:32):
One.
Speaker 11 (56:33):
Yes, who is the first family? Were you the first family?
Or were they the first family?
Speaker 18 (56:39):
No?
Speaker 29 (56:39):
They were, they were, but that I was told they
weren't together anymore.
Speaker 2 (56:45):
It was what it was.
Speaker 15 (56:46):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (56:47):
See this guy, he does not sound like a good guy.
He just does it. I mean, I'm sure he has
great qualities, and I don't know him.
Speaker 2 (56:56):
He's not a bad guy at all. He's actually a
really good guy. He's an encredent do father.
Speaker 29 (57:01):
I know you may not think so, and I know
people are probably going to bash me for saying that,
but he is. His kids come first, and that is
the reason why he can't make a decision.
Speaker 4 (57:10):
Okay, Well that's one compartment. It's it's compartmentalizing. He's a
great father, but everything else, he's sucking at everything else. Yeah,
and you know, and you need a life as well.
You need a life as well with your kids. And
I just I really think this guy needs to come
clean and fix it because he's going to live the
rest of his life like that. Who was to live
like that? He is zero integrity when it comes to
you and your kids.
Speaker 6 (57:29):
Say, and he can have a relationship with all of
the kids without having the relationship.
Speaker 8 (57:34):
With the two of you.
Speaker 16 (57:35):
No no, no, no, no no, because the other one
has flat out told him, if I ever fucked out
that you are cheating on me or whatever, I'm taking
your kids away from it.
Speaker 2 (57:45):
And she means it. She literally has papers drown up
already stating this.
Speaker 4 (57:51):
Okay, well, see the over the overarched, the overarching theme
for all of us here and people who are listening
and try to make life decisions. Look at what a
simple what you think is a simple decision can do
for the rest of your life. It can f your
life up in this guy's life without.
Speaker 29 (58:08):
A doubt, without a doubt that I can't.
Speaker 2 (58:13):
I can't take my kid's father. I thought about it. Listen.
Speaker 29 (58:17):
I've got times where my whole house has been packed
and I was all my way to Florida, like I
am not joking.
Speaker 2 (58:23):
Plane tickets, bought, apartments, running out. We were done. I
am dead. It was over. And I mean not to Florida.
Speaker 29 (58:31):
There's been other places too where I've literally I've tried
to uproot my whole life and been like, will never
find me. My family ain't gonna say anything to him,
They ain't gonna tell him, And it.
Speaker 2 (58:43):
Would always turn out.
Speaker 29 (58:44):
Where I'm the idiot because then I'm sitting here and
get a car and be like, I can't do that
to my kids.
Speaker 4 (58:49):
Well, look, you know what, but you're You're not You're
your kids are not the only victims here. You're a
victim as well. And I just I hope that you've
come up with a solution because you've been living like
this for fifteen years. That's that's a chunk of your life.
Speaker 2 (59:02):
But I look at it like this is my I
did something wrong.
Speaker 4 (59:05):
No, no, no, kids are not anished. Kids are not
a punishment.
Speaker 2 (59:10):
I'm about my kids.
Speaker 29 (59:11):
I'm talking about me making that choice to stay with him,
knowing damn. Well, like when I was pregnant, we didn't
found out I was pregnant with my first one until
I was about three and a half months.
Speaker 2 (59:23):
Pregnant, and at that point it was like what do
I do?
Speaker 29 (59:26):
And it was like I gave him the option, like yo,
you sign your rights over and get out, and he
chose to.
Speaker 4 (59:32):
Say, hey, other than us, I mean, do you have
a circle of friends you can talk to about this
and kind of vent and bounce? I okay, good, because
you need friends. Well, of course they Well you know,
I don't blame him, to be honest, right, he's a
he's a turd, to be honest, but a good dad.
(59:53):
I won't give him that. I don't think. I don't think.
I just don't think he's being a good dad at
all because he may support and whatever, but this isn't
good for anyone. Look, we got a run, but I
want nothing but good for you. And I hope that
your I hope your friends can keep you in check
because you need we all need to be put in
check from time to time, and you need support from
(01:00:14):
them as much as possible. And it's all the best
for you. And you actually gave us a slice of
life story that we had never heard before. And I
think it's important for people to know this is going on,
so you make the right decisions in life and there
you go.
Speaker 2 (01:00:28):
To say, don't believe everything they say.
Speaker 4 (01:00:31):
I agree with that. Believe me. All right, thank you
for being a.
Speaker 2 (01:00:36):
Part of We love you guys, so thank you.
Speaker 4 (01:00:40):
Well, no, thank you and all the best to you. Thanks,
thanks a lot, bye bye, and there you go. I know,
I know it's her reality though, you know, and it's
not it's not as easy as seeing oh just leave him.
Well no, that's it's not that simple. You know. You
may have that ability to just pick up and leave.
Not everyone does. And that's why. Jeez, it's good to hear.
(01:01:02):
It's good to hear other people's stories.
Speaker 12 (01:01:05):
Oh, no, we gotta go.
Speaker 9 (01:01:08):
Elvis Daran in the Morning Show. No, I'm done, Elister
Ran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (01:01:24):
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Speaker 15 (01:01:44):
To get up at this time?
Speaker 4 (01:01:45):
I know, early morning.
Speaker 8 (01:01:47):
Elvis ter Ran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (01:01:50):
You know what I want to do what. I'm gonna
go around the room, around the room. Let's see what's
on the minds of people in the room. Let's go around, Froggy,
I'm gonna start with you today. What's going on.
Speaker 11 (01:02:00):
Well, I'm going to need everybody's opinion. So if I
go to the grocery store and I buy let's say,
I don't know, just like peppermint bark, just to just
to name something, and it's for everybody in the house,
but the last one belongs to me because I bought it.
Speaker 4 (01:02:14):
You agree, no, no, yes, so Danielle ar no, Gandhi's undecided.
Speaker 6 (01:02:22):
I'm contemplating because I think if you buy it as
a gift, then it's a gift everyone.
Speaker 4 (01:02:25):
No, it's not a gift.
Speaker 29 (01:02:26):
No.
Speaker 11 (01:02:26):
So I went to the store and I brought home
a bag of peppermint bark and everybody can have it.
But I knew there was going to be one last
piece left. I saw it, somebody ate it. I just
feel like, if I buy it, it's my idea, I'll
share it with you, but I.
Speaker 4 (01:02:38):
Want the last one.
Speaker 6 (01:02:39):
Okay, Okay, I accept, you agree, I agree?
Speaker 4 (01:02:43):
Yes.
Speaker 15 (01:02:43):
I think maybe someone should ask, like, hey, is anybody
want this last piece. Everyone who ever puts their hand
in the bag.
Speaker 6 (01:02:51):
I'll show your pepper store.
Speaker 4 (01:02:53):
It was all gone. Somebody ate the last piece and
now I can't get it. And you think it's rightfully
yours because you bought it.
Speaker 11 (01:02:59):
It was my idea to buy it has not a
money thing. It was just it was my idea. It
was my ide to bring it into the home, so
therefore I should be able to.
Speaker 4 (01:03:05):
Bought it for the house. Otherwise you have to hide
it is that? Was it hidden? No? I gave it
to everybody, all right, but then it belongs to everybody.
Speaker 6 (01:03:13):
Dart hiding.
Speaker 4 (01:03:13):
Yes, my name on the next one.
Speaker 15 (01:03:16):
Publix is like right around the corner you can go
get another thing.
Speaker 4 (01:03:18):
Did you know? My father used to hide cookies all
over the house. He passed away ten years ago. They
don't even have that house anymore. They're still finding cookies.
Speaker 15 (01:03:29):
Never when my dad did that with the cinnamon buns
in the trunk of his car, and I go, Dad,
what is this your mother?
Speaker 4 (01:03:35):
Will he passed away? Are they still there? Might be scary?
What's that with you?
Speaker 14 (01:03:39):
Well?
Speaker 23 (01:03:39):
I can always tell how big of a pig I
am when I'm ordering my uber eats by the number of.
Speaker 13 (01:03:44):
Plastic utensil sets they give me.
Speaker 23 (01:03:47):
Guys, I had a four plastic utensil set kind of
night the other night.
Speaker 4 (01:03:51):
I cannot believe it.
Speaker 23 (01:03:52):
I I just don't know what I did, but I
like to have leftovers on leftovers on leftovers.
Speaker 13 (01:03:56):
But they assume that I'm far of four people that.
Speaker 4 (01:03:59):
The Cuban rest he set us. He set us the
total the total bill of everything he ordered delivered. It
was enough for a family for ten.
Speaker 11 (01:04:11):
Total.
Speaker 23 (01:04:11):
They said, that's four portioned meals according to the restaurant.
Speaker 4 (01:04:16):
But you can eat it later. You still having the fridge? Right?
Speaker 3 (01:04:18):
Sure?
Speaker 23 (01:04:18):
Do?
Speaker 4 (01:04:18):
All right? Gandhi, what's up with you?
Speaker 8 (01:04:19):
All right?
Speaker 6 (01:04:20):
I just want to remind everybody that one of the
nicest things that you should be doing all the time
is entering a room and acknowledging everyone in the.
Speaker 4 (01:04:26):
Room very well. Put, we deal with.
Speaker 6 (01:04:28):
A lot of people from a lot of different places
who will walk into this studio and either acknowledge Danielle,
Elvis and myself and nobody else, or just Elvis and
nobody else. And I just find it to be the
rudest thing that people can do when you walk into
a room look at everyone say hello. You don't have
to have a conversation, but just acknowledge that there's a
human being there. I think that's important, and we see
it a lot around here.
Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
I don't like it.
Speaker 4 (01:04:50):
You know. The other night we were down to dinner
and we met with a family and the wife of
the of the husband who was hosting that table was
in another conversation. But we had to leave and I
didn't get a chance to even say hello and meet her.
And I couldn't sleep all night, but I couldn't say
hi to her. I owe her. I'm going back to
that restaurant to try to find her to say hi.
(01:05:11):
Because you're a decent person, you gotta say hy to everyone,
acknowledge them, just at least to shake their hands.
Speaker 6 (01:05:15):
So good to see you eye contact of some sort, Hey,
and acknowledgment.
Speaker 4 (01:05:19):
I agree. Eye contact is very easy to do. Hello, producer, Sam,
what's up right?
Speaker 20 (01:05:23):
So I want to either remind people or let people
know that online there is such a thing as calculated controversy.
It is something that people do intentionally. So I was
chatting with a friend and she was so up in
arms about a posts someone made and didn't think it
should get out ay traction, So what did you do?
Commented her thoughts about how bad it is and how
people shouldn't be paying attention. I'm like, babe, that post
(01:05:44):
was probably literally put up there so people like you
can comment and give them more legs. Yes, if there
truly is something that you are feeling raged baited by it.
Speaker 6 (01:05:55):
It's calculated controversy. They're doing it on purpose. The best
thing you could do is just scroll on.
Speaker 4 (01:06:00):
Don't add to the don't add to the leave it alone.
Very good, very good advice. Danielle, what's up all right?
Speaker 15 (01:06:05):
I don't know if we had this conversation before, but
if you could pick the rudest animal, which animal do
you think it would be?
Speaker 4 (01:06:13):
Gandhi?
Speaker 15 (01:06:14):
Yeah, she does not count.
Speaker 4 (01:06:15):
She's a human rudest, they're not rude.
Speaker 15 (01:06:19):
If an animal could talk, like say a geese cat cat,
So you say cat, I say, you know those geese.
Speaker 4 (01:06:24):
That, yeah, they mean, they mean.
Speaker 15 (01:06:26):
They would be very mean because they bite you right
in the ass.
Speaker 6 (01:06:28):
I think there's a lot of pretty birds, like a peacock.
A male peacock seems like a butthole.
Speaker 4 (01:06:32):
Because they're cocky.
Speaker 15 (01:06:34):
Yeah, and what do you think a cat would say
if it could talk, and it was rude.
Speaker 4 (01:06:37):
Well, I don't know, but they just show their buttthole
all the time.
Speaker 6 (01:06:40):
They look you in the eye and knock something off
the counter.
Speaker 15 (01:06:42):
I like that on purpose.
Speaker 4 (01:06:43):
Yeah, you table. So you think geese? I think cats.
Speaker 15 (01:06:47):
Yeah, maybe skunks because they just feel bad for themselves
because they smell.
Speaker 5 (01:06:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:06:52):
No, I think they're sweet. Here's the thing about cats.
So I love cats, but I think they're the meanest.
Speaker 15 (01:06:56):
I love my cat.
Speaker 4 (01:06:57):
Hey, straight and eight, what's up? I think I'm to
start walking around with my zipper down. Hear me out?
Speaker 30 (01:07:03):
What I'm hearing you out? You get a little air
flow down there? It cools you down. Is your thing hot?
It's hot, it's moistage, So you get.
Speaker 4 (01:07:16):
A little air flow. Uh, it is okay, So the
zippers down.
Speaker 17 (01:07:20):
It's actually more functional that way, because what did Grandma say?
Speaker 15 (01:07:24):
They're air it out.
Speaker 17 (01:07:27):
So if it's all cooped up there, cramped up, it's
gonna be hot and sweaty.
Speaker 4 (01:07:31):
Get some are in there. Pull that zipper down. Boys,
all right, walk around town. We'll see you as we be.
You out of jail. What the first precinct.
Speaker 15 (01:07:38):
Hear me out.
Speaker 6 (01:07:40):
You wore looser pants.
Speaker 15 (01:07:41):
That would help.
Speaker 4 (01:07:42):
Doesn't help. The airflow doesn't help it.
Speaker 6 (01:07:46):
You don't have.
Speaker 21 (01:07:49):
Pants.
Speaker 15 (01:07:49):
And I sit right next to you, and I gotta
stare at your quatch all the time because.
Speaker 4 (01:07:53):
That you don't have to. It's hard not to look
at it. Moose knuckle, moose knuckle. All right, Well, I'm
sure many people agree with you. Hey, our guest on
around the room today, Scotty Bee, scott Bee, what's going on?
Speaker 18 (01:08:06):
Hi?
Speaker 31 (01:08:07):
Well, you know how much I love nostalgia. I urged
you to be nostalgic as well. This past weekend, I
wound up being in the Poconos. I haven't been there
in probably twenty five years, and I went to the
old flea Market and the old Country Kettle, and it's
all these places that I went to when I was
a child, because we used to go there every weekend.
And I was like, oh my god, that's still there,
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Oh my god, that's still there. And it made me
so happy. And I bought a bunch of candy from
the barrels at the Country Kettle, and it just it
totally made my entire weekend. So if you have the
opportunity to go back to someplace that you used to
go as a kid. I think it'll bring a smile
to your face.
Speaker 4 (01:08:40):
I met everyone's thinking about that right now, where they
went as a kid and they ate something, you know,
like we used to go to Stuckies. Yes, remember Stucky
I do remember stuck. It was a roadside restaurant. They
sold pray lanes and you could eat there and you
could get gas and the stuck keys near a house.
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The sign actually said eat with us and get gas.
Speaker 31 (01:09:03):
They had the log, they had that big Where was
that log or something?
Speaker 4 (01:09:07):
Ye? Log? Yeah, go back to those those childhood places.
If they're still there. What's exactly the same going in
it coming out? Oh my god, left the prellene log
on the ground. All right, there you go. We wereent
around the room.
Speaker 9 (01:09:23):
Happy Thanksgiving, Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (01:09:28):
Hey, so uh, hopefully you had a nice, safe, event
free holiday with your family, your friends, your friends giving,
your Thanksgiving, your family giving. Whatever the hell you did
not all of us did, a lot of us had
to take a trip to Do you have music for
the security? Oh we'll use this one all right. So
hopefully you had a nice, safe and sound holiday with
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your family. And friends. Not all of us did. Some
of us had to take a trip to the dock
in the box, the emergency care center, the emergency room,
whatever you want to call it. Thank you to the
men women who gave up their time and their holiday
to be with us, Yes, to take care of our
booboos and our gunshot wounds, et cetera.
Speaker 6 (01:10:09):
You decided to deep fry a turkey. I know that
that happened. People had to get burned.
Speaker 4 (01:10:13):
Yeah, I don't know. Hey, Nicole, how are you hi?
Speaker 11 (01:10:16):
How are you doing?
Speaker 4 (01:10:17):
Okay? So did you guys have to run to the
emergency room for some reason?
Speaker 1 (01:10:22):
I didn't.
Speaker 28 (01:10:22):
But the day after being was giving, my mother in
law in the morning went to the walk in because
on Thanksgiving in the late afternoons, she had sliced almost
off her tip of her finger.
Speaker 4 (01:10:36):
She sliced the tip of her finger almost completely.
Speaker 28 (01:10:39):
Off, oh well, pretty deep. When she ripped away from
the knife and my counter, the blood squirted all over.
Speaker 18 (01:10:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:10:49):
The cleanup, the cleanup is always hell, isn't it. I know.
Here's the time I have. I have sliced the tip
of my finger almost off, completely off several times, and
I've noticed it if you just hold it on there.
It grows right back as long as you don't take
any bone with it. So how is your mother in
law doing? How's her her falange?
Speaker 28 (01:11:11):
It's fine, fully attached. We used liquid bandaid and then
Musico get stitches on Thanksgiving because.
Speaker 4 (01:11:19):
Here's a problem. You just want to be relaxing, because
those are supposed to be the days you don't have
to give a crap. But now you have to go
to the emergency room and no offense. I know that,
you know, she sliced the tip of her finger off,
but what about the rest of you. You had to
sit there and hold her other hand, the good hand,
I know, a right, Thank god, she's okay, right, We're
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all good. Thanks for listening to us, Nicole. I'm glad
you still have all your tips. So didn't you have
to go to the emergency room? I did.
Speaker 15 (01:11:48):
I went to the walk in medi clinic. So doctor Scott,
who is like my new best friend and sues me
all the time, and yeah, because I'm still having bad
back pains and chest pains and I didn't know what
the hell was going on because I had bronchitis recently,
so I wanted to recheck and I, nothing's really there?
Speaker 4 (01:12:06):
You straight in eight? Didn't you have to go? This
is a this is an interesting one and tell everyone
why you had to go to the emergency room.
Speaker 17 (01:12:11):
I woke up on Wednesday morning and I went to
pee and it looked like Rose. Oh, I'm like, this
isn't normal. You know, I've gone some dedications. I'm like, well,
if it says if you're you'rein is this color, go
see a doctor immediately.
Speaker 4 (01:12:29):
So that's what I did. But you're okay now, I'm okay.
It came out clear like an hour and a half away. Oh,
I don't know what's happened.
Speaker 6 (01:12:35):
Did you bottle any of it?
Speaker 4 (01:12:37):
You know what? It looked like? Rose so much? I'm like,
I wonder if it tastes like yeah, yeah, what do
you pair that with? I don't know? All right, all right,
Uh okay, let's see. Uh would you have another line
of sho go too?
Speaker 13 (01:12:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:12:52):
Go to what? Go to one?
Speaker 10 (01:12:53):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (01:12:53):
Here we go? Thank you there Rose p Hello, Dominique, Hi,
all right, so you had to go into the emergency room?
Why why I did?
Speaker 25 (01:13:01):
Because my husband couldn't stop.
Speaker 32 (01:13:03):
Popping and we couldn't figure out what was going on.
At first we thought it was bronchitis, and we went
to the urgent care and they were like, oh, no,
it's just your asthma. So they made him sit there
for an hour and doing inhaler and we left and
he thought he was like hi because he hadn't done
it inhaler in so long.
Speaker 4 (01:13:20):
Right, And now we look back and laugh and laugh
and laugh.
Speaker 15 (01:13:25):
Yeah, because those those inhiler's, if you've never done them,
I did it for my bronchitis. They make you sit
there for a while because you are looply athletely that.
Speaker 4 (01:13:33):
So, Dominique, it only really took like an hour of
your day and then you were fine to go, right. Yeah, yeah,
it was quick, so no big deal. Doesn't sound like
you were highly affected by it.
Speaker 7 (01:13:43):
No, no, not me.
Speaker 32 (01:13:44):
It was just it was more my time than anything else.
Speaker 4 (01:13:47):
I know, it was an hour, I know, I know,
but it's an hour of your time shopping. I mean, really,
I'm with you, I'm with you. Interesting the other emergency
room visits, like Amanda, Amanda, why did you have to
go to the er?
Speaker 29 (01:14:00):
So someone put two boxes of Legos on top of
the cabinet in my classroom and they sell on my head,
got concussion.
Speaker 4 (01:14:07):
I've never heard of people being in the head with legos.
Speaker 15 (01:14:09):
Wait, you got a concussion from lego?
Speaker 4 (01:14:11):
Usually a step on them and you have to go
to the hospital. Well yeah, but just box. These boxes
are heavy.
Speaker 6 (01:14:15):
Yeah, get attacked from the top.
Speaker 7 (01:14:18):
I know.
Speaker 4 (01:14:19):
So so you're okay now.
Speaker 33 (01:14:21):
Yeah, I'm okay.
Speaker 1 (01:14:22):
Now on my way back to work.
Speaker 4 (01:14:23):
But okay, Well, how much time was lost in the
emergency room?
Speaker 32 (01:14:28):
I was there for probably.
Speaker 1 (01:14:29):
It was like an hour and a half.
Speaker 4 (01:14:30):
Oh, it's a long time.
Speaker 7 (01:14:31):
I know.
Speaker 4 (01:14:32):
Then they have other people to look at people with
spurting blood and rose I was like, yeah, I was.
Speaker 33 (01:14:37):
Like the last of their worries.
Speaker 32 (01:14:39):
They were like, oh, okay, walk in a straight line.
Speaker 4 (01:14:43):
Okay, I got hit in the head with legos. All right,
hello Mike, Yes, yes, you went to the emergency room
for your dog. What happened?
Speaker 3 (01:14:52):
My dog has to go to the emergency room.
Speaker 1 (01:14:55):
We let her.
Speaker 28 (01:14:55):
Out in the yard.
Speaker 27 (01:14:56):
We live in Montown.
Speaker 28 (01:14:58):
We're in the.
Speaker 3 (01:14:58):
Woods a little bit and with her screech and we
saw her burning black as she started walking back.
Speaker 4 (01:15:06):
So, what happened to your dog?
Speaker 3 (01:15:07):
We're worried she was attacked by the.
Speaker 4 (01:15:10):
Attacked by a coyote. No, no, that's not good. So
what what what happened? I mean, what they have to
do to your dog?
Speaker 3 (01:15:18):
So she had to get a bunch of stitches on
her back and across her leg. She's doing better now,
except she's wearing a shade.
Speaker 4 (01:15:30):
She's wearing the lamp shade of shame. Well, thank god,
your dog's okay, thank god, I know. See all right.
It's one thing when mom slices her finger off with
the electric knife. Happens. It's another thing when Fluffy gets
eaten by a coyote. Not okay, what line you want
to go to? What's that? Gandhi?
Speaker 6 (01:15:48):
I actually saw online there was a little dog who
was getting attacked by the other dogs in the neighborhood
all the time, and his owner made him a jacket
of spikes.
Speaker 18 (01:15:55):
Good.
Speaker 4 (01:15:55):
Yes the dogs were bullies. Yes, a jacket of spikes.
I'd like to borrow that. I would Hello, Sophie, Hello,
Now who had to go to the emergency room.
Speaker 25 (01:16:05):
Over the weekend, my younger cousin, my aunt, was taking
the turkey out of the oven and it was in
a big glass dish whatever you want to call it,
and she pivoted, turned around, and stopped her child in
the face and she had a second degree, burned down
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her mouth and lost her front tooth.
Speaker 4 (01:16:27):
Oh my god, holy crap. Knocked at her front tooth
and burned her face. Oh my god, she's doing okay.
Speaker 6 (01:16:38):
Now, yeah, she's okay.
Speaker 33 (01:16:40):
They went home earlier that day.
Speaker 7 (01:16:42):
For sure.
Speaker 4 (01:16:42):
There you go. Well, thank you. Oh my god, I
need line nine back. Hello, give me my okay this
phone system it was it was a hunting accident. I
really wanted to go to that. Oh no, shot in
the legs. They're okay, they're okay. How about line five? Hello, Alan, Hey,
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how's it going. We're doing okay. So they had to
rush you to the R E R. And why is that?
Speaker 27 (01:17:10):
Well? Wednesday, I went to the chiropractor because I've had
a sore back for a while. Apparently I had four
dislocated ribs and he set those four ribs. I went home.
About an hour later, they popped back out. I went
back to the chiropractor. He set them again. The pain
got progressively worse. That night, I went to the er
and he ended up fracturing the ribs when he put
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them back in place.
Speaker 4 (01:17:35):
Eating. Yeah, not for popping.
Speaker 27 (01:17:38):
No, And I missed all of Thanksgiving because I was
on pain pills, so I slept the entire day and.
Speaker 4 (01:17:47):
All right, Alan's okay, you know, let's just look forward
to next year. You're an erase e race, You're gonna
be okay. Sorry about that rib pain. That sounds awful.
It was, yeah, I know, had stories. Finally we talked
to Gina.
Speaker 1 (01:18:01):
Hello Gina, Hi, guys, Hello lady, Hello lady, tell.
Speaker 4 (01:18:06):
Everyone why you had to rush to the ear.
Speaker 7 (01:18:08):
So I had my potato peela broke Wednesday night as
us for pairings. I told my husband on the way
home to go get a new one and it was
freshly sharp. And then my little toddler, my two year olds,
was distracting me and I split off my nail and
gripped my capillary. Oh wow, yeah, so that was on Thanksgiving.
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Everyone said, oh, what a great job for you making
posting this great, great dinner with one with one last finger.
Speaker 15 (01:18:36):
There must have been blood everywhere.
Speaker 4 (01:18:38):
I'm not she hit a capillary with her her brand
new Oxo. I know, Axo. I gotta tell you Oxos
are a little too sharp. They're great. Oxo is my
favorite brand in the kitchen.
Speaker 7 (01:18:51):
They say I was holding the potato peela wrong but ollo,
but there you go.
Speaker 4 (01:18:57):
You're okay, now, okay? I found my hunting. Hello, Tammy, Hello,
how are you doing? Okay? So where'd you go hunting?
Who went hunting? And who went to the er? What happened?
Speaker 12 (01:19:08):
And my brother was hunting in upstate New York and
I live in Florida, and they called me to tell
me he got shot in the leg. He's so lucky
it only hit it. It went through the back of
his leg, his right leg, and out the front of
his left leg.
Speaker 4 (01:19:27):
No, how did he get shot? Did he shoot him?
Or did someone else shoot him?
Speaker 11 (01:19:31):
No?
Speaker 12 (01:19:31):
Someone else shot him.
Speaker 4 (01:19:33):
Yeah, there's got to be like a high level of guilt.
Shoot your friend right now? He wasn't out hunting with
Dick Cheney, was he?
Speaker 10 (01:19:43):
No?
Speaker 4 (01:19:43):
He was not all right. But he's okay luckily.
Speaker 12 (01:19:46):
Yes, he's in a trauma unit, but he's up and
talking and today he's going to try to walk and
see how that goes.
Speaker 4 (01:19:53):
Oh, man, that must be a weird thing. You're all
the way down in Florida here your brother is shot.
You're like, what right?
Speaker 18 (01:20:00):
Yes?
Speaker 12 (01:20:00):
And it's two thousand dollars to fly into New York
on Thanksgiving weekend, So you're thinking about driving, and Froggy
could probably remind you it's cold up there.
Speaker 4 (01:20:12):
It's okay, you can come visit your shot brother when
it's a little warmer. Yes, I'm cheaper, all right, Well,
thank you, Tamy. We tell your brother to men quickly. Okay,
thank you, thank you, and there you go visits to
the er. I know if it's not a lobster allergy
like my Alex head.
Speaker 8 (01:20:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:20:30):
Oh that was bad.
Speaker 15 (01:20:32):
The pictures and you should post that, Victor.
Speaker 4 (01:20:35):
No, I don't think you're supposed to see that.
Speaker 6 (01:20:39):
Oh I didn't, Sure, I didn't.
Speaker 4 (01:20:41):
There's no picture, no, Victor. He doesn't look like the
guy I know. It was so weird anyway, So I
hope everyone's on the mend today.
Speaker 8 (01:20:49):
Elvis ter Ran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 11 (01:20:52):
Turkey Turkey, Turkey, my baby, gobble gobble gobbling God.
Speaker 14 (01:21:00):
Be Thanksgiving Turkey have even on Elisa in the Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (01:21:15):
Let me ask you guys a questions. Is there anything
you're watching that you haven't shared with us or the
room because you just wanted to be yours? Oh, because
I have something I've I've been watching. What is well,
I'm not going to tell you, well, no, the point
of the conversation is what we do for a living.
Or if you if you're listening to us and you
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hang out with your friends, you know, you share things
all the time. It's conversation, it's you back and forth,
banter or whatever. There are some things in life that
can be just ours, Like it's mine. It's like I
watched this show because it's mine. Is it controversial? No
not at all? No, no, no, no, no, there's you don't
read anything into it. There's nothing I'm embarrassed about. It's
just sometimes we don't have to always live a life
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that's an open book. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (01:22:00):
What Godi, I do that sometimes with like clothing, or
if I have something cool in my apartment and people
keep asking like, oh, where'd you get that? Where'd you
get that? I'll be like, I don't know, just because
I don't want everyone to have it. Y.
Speaker 4 (01:22:13):
Yeah, I used to say that too scary people. Would
you get that shirt?
Speaker 23 (01:22:16):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (01:22:16):
I don't know?
Speaker 15 (01:22:18):
Yeah, but you have to some people because they'll run
right out and buy it.
Speaker 13 (01:22:21):
Why wouldn't you share, though, because I.
Speaker 4 (01:22:22):
Don't want you to wear my shirt?
Speaker 6 (01:22:24):
It's mine.
Speaker 4 (01:22:25):
It's gonna no, it's gonna be on me.
Speaker 15 (01:22:27):
I have one friend though, that we buy the same
of everything, Like if she has it, I usually have it,
either in a different color, or we share, or sometimes
we buy a joint shirt, like we'll both like the
shirt and I'll go, I'll buy it, and then you
borrow when you want it, and she'll do it the
next time. So we do that with each other.
Speaker 4 (01:22:43):
What's up? Frog?
Speaker 11 (01:22:45):
I do that with dinner sometimes, so I'll be I'll
go to dinner with somebody and go, so.
Speaker 4 (01:22:48):
What are you ordering?
Speaker 11 (01:22:49):
I'll lie because I don't want them to order what
I'm gonna order, So I'll say, oh, because I because
order something different or what I'm gonna get. So I'll
just say, yeah, I'm gonna get this, and they'll so
then when the when know, when the server comes over,
I'm like, you go first and they order, and then boom,
my change my order. Why didn't you say that's what
you were geting?
Speaker 4 (01:23:06):
Okay, let's let's hold on. Let's let's dissect this. What
is wrong with us ordering the same thing?
Speaker 11 (01:23:14):
What is wrong because I don't want you to order
it because I ordered it? Why does it matter what
I'm ordering.
Speaker 4 (01:23:17):
Well, no, no, no, why does what I'm ordering change
your order?
Speaker 6 (01:23:20):
And I kind of don't want.
Speaker 15 (01:23:22):
You to order the same thing because I want to
taste what you have.
Speaker 4 (01:23:25):
Keep your fork out first of all. See that's my
point right there. But this is a thing where people
and I go, I think we're all maybe guilty of it.
At some point. It's like, well, I'm not going to
order that. If you're gonna order that, well why not?
If you both want it, why why don't you order
what you want? It may just so happen to be
the same thing.
Speaker 5 (01:23:42):
No, No, I want to.
Speaker 4 (01:23:44):
Get what you want.
Speaker 11 (01:23:44):
I don't want you to know what I'm having because
then I don't want it to reflect on what you're
going to order. And number two, like Danielle said, you're
not putting your COVID ritten fork into my food.
Speaker 4 (01:23:53):
No not.
Speaker 15 (01:23:54):
You just cut it and put it on my plate
first before we start eating. And we share that way.
Speaker 4 (01:23:59):
Okay, okay, sharing aside, let's say no sharing aloud. Okay,
just for the sake of the conversation. If I say
I want a cheeseburger and I ordered cheeseburger and you
originally wanted a cheeseburger. Will you now change your order
because you don't want to order what I ordered?
Speaker 6 (01:24:11):
I wouldn't why.
Speaker 4 (01:24:13):
I don't understand. This is the dubbest crap ever.
Speaker 11 (01:24:16):
I don't want you to know what I'm having, so
I do. There is that little bit of anxiety where.
Speaker 4 (01:24:20):
I want to answer my question. If I order a
cheeseburger and you originally we're going to order one, will
you then still order a cheeseburger or will you order
something different?
Speaker 11 (01:24:27):
No, I'll find something else on the fly.
Speaker 4 (01:24:32):
Why can't we enjoy bonamas, enjoy what we originally wanted.
I don't understand it.
Speaker 13 (01:24:36):
You can tell me.
Speaker 15 (01:24:37):
Isn't part of the conversation too? When you sit down
and you're looking through the menu, you all go like, oh,
what are you thinking? What are you going to order?
Like it's part of the whole process.
Speaker 4 (01:24:46):
It can be Nah, Okay, I'm not going to descer.
I'm going to give you the don't show your your
hand until you order you. I don't understand why two
people can't enjoy the same dish at lunch. I don't
understand that makes If you think about it, it really
makes no sense.
Speaker 11 (01:25:02):
You can, but I don't want you to do it
because I'm doing it. I don't want you to go Oh,
it's just simple. I'll order what you get. I don't
want you to do that. I want you to put
a little more effort into what we're eating.
Speaker 4 (01:25:15):
You you'm weird on your hand as a child, but
you but you're not getting my question. Though I'm not
not talking about copying you. Why would you not order
cheeseburger if that's what you your taste just wanted, just
because I already ordered one.
Speaker 11 (01:25:32):
I don't want to sit there and eat the same thing.
Speaker 4 (01:25:34):
I want to I want to stop. Stop answer me?
Why why do you not want us to eat the
same thing?
Speaker 11 (01:25:40):
Because I want us both to have a different culinary
experience at the restaurant and I both eat the same thing,
or we might as well just eat off each other's plate.
Speaker 4 (01:25:47):
We could have ordered one thing and share it. Oh no, no,
I want you order what you get.
Speaker 11 (01:25:51):
I'm ordering something different and we'll be able to compare
our two meals and talk about how great they are separately.
Speaker 4 (01:25:56):
That is hogwash, no scary. Do you think I'm crazy? Scarier?
Do you agree?
Speaker 23 (01:26:02):
I've noticed it with drinks though, I don't know about
the food portion. But when you want to drinks, you
ever have, like somebody like, oh that sounds good, I'll
have that, and everybody has the same cocktail. When I
think there should be diversity around the room.
Speaker 11 (01:26:15):
I want food diversity. That's what I wanted to I
want you than what I.
Speaker 4 (01:26:21):
Have next drink the next round. I may want that.
Why do you want we all having the same You
have to agree. Isn't it a little strange that you
know I'm gonna you go to the bartender.
Speaker 6 (01:26:31):
Don't let everyone know what I'm worry I know.
Speaker 4 (01:26:33):
I want a Moscow mule, and don't let anyone know.
I don't want them to have it. I want this mine.
I want to own the Moscow mule in the bar
right now. It makes no sense to me.
Speaker 8 (01:26:43):
That's weird.
Speaker 6 (01:26:44):
We are being good mad just because it's ruins the
Instagram picture that he's gonna post if everyone has the
same drinks.
Speaker 23 (01:26:51):
Right, because when you do the boomerang with the drink click,
you want all the different drinks coming together, all the colors.
You know, you don't want somebody to change their order
after they made the order in the like you know
what that sounds good.
Speaker 13 (01:27:01):
I'm gonna switch my order to that.
Speaker 4 (01:27:02):
I don't get it. I don't get it. Why don't
we think about this way? Order what you want? I do?
Speaker 11 (01:27:09):
But in my mind, I have two orders, So in
case you order something, I'm going to order that, I'll
order the second.
Speaker 4 (01:27:14):
Fine, fine, do that. Do that.
Speaker 15 (01:27:15):
You're not going to change his mind. So I don't
know why we're born.
Speaker 4 (01:27:17):
You're right, You're right. It's I'm trying to understand why
I'm not. Yeah, yeah, gandhi what froggy?
Speaker 6 (01:27:25):
So do you always insist on ordering last? Because what
if you order first?
Speaker 11 (01:27:28):
And what I won't order first? If you yep, but
if you ever go to if you ever if we
if you ever noticed when we go to dinner, I
won't order first. I will always order last. And I
do it to sound like I'm being polite, I'm like, no, no,
you go ahead and order first, you order for I
don't want to be first.
Speaker 4 (01:27:42):
We got a move.
Speaker 15 (01:27:43):
Now we know it's because you're a jackass.
Speaker 4 (01:27:46):
You knew that anyways. Well scary, I bet knowing scary,
I bet scary dies a little inside when we all
order the same thing.
Speaker 23 (01:27:51):
Oh my god, it kills me because if I want
to see how well the chef or the restaurant prepares
that dish and that dish and that dish.
Speaker 4 (01:27:59):
I want to see. I'm all, you're not going to
use my taste budgets your experiment.
Speaker 13 (01:28:03):
I just I like to see diversity at the table.
It's just a little thing that I have going on
in my head.
Speaker 4 (01:28:07):
You both have that thing going I know. But okay, fine,
but from now on, I'm going to order first. I
don't give a rant ask what you order. I don't.
Speaker 11 (01:28:17):
My only problem is when you go to dinner with Scary,
he orders one of everything on the menu, so there's
pretty much nothing less to orders only when I'm paying.
Speaker 15 (01:28:32):
I love how frustrated Elvis gets though, He's just like,
what what, what else can we say about that?
Speaker 4 (01:28:38):
I just I'm trying to get into the psychology of wine.
Speaker 13 (01:28:40):
Don't you think the restaurant makes fun of you like this?
Speaker 4 (01:28:43):
I don't think they care. They don't care you look
at this table. They are the same thing, a bunch
of assholes. Okay, we have a couple of calls lined up.
Let's go to line twenty and Sherry and then, oh
my god, Emily, we have to get you to your call,
and I'm going to question you why you're saying such
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nice things. But first, Sherry Sharry, you agree with Froggy, right?
Speaker 18 (01:29:11):
I do.
Speaker 1 (01:29:12):
I thought I was alone on this, but I have
to agree team Froggy with this one.
Speaker 4 (01:29:16):
Why why can you not have the same thing someone
else is having?
Speaker 12 (01:29:21):
I kind of feel like it's everything he's saying.
Speaker 28 (01:29:23):
Like there needs to be some difference on the table.
Speaker 25 (01:29:25):
And honestly, if I don't like mine, you know there
might be a chance to try something different.
Speaker 8 (01:29:31):
Hell yeah.
Speaker 28 (01:29:35):
I also if if when we're ordering, I'll say no, no, no,
it's cool you go first.
Speaker 33 (01:29:40):
I'm still trying to figure it out.
Speaker 4 (01:29:42):
Yes I do, all right, Okay, So I'm going to
go ahead and be open minded and say there are
those who order like that and those who don't. I
am one who doesn't. You are one that does. We
can still enjoy our dinner. I'm gonna order first, though,
And you know what, you may have wanted that cheeseburger,
but now you're not going to get to enjoy cheessburger
because I ordered one and it's mine. I own the
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cheeseburger category at the table. No one else can come
in my lane.
Speaker 15 (01:30:07):
Next time we all go out with Froggy, not one
of us is going to open our mouths until he
orders to.
Speaker 4 (01:30:13):
Have a long night at that table him fillow, thank you, Sherry,
good luck ordering. Next time, have a dry day. And finally,
in line twenty fours, Emily, let's switch gears here. Hello Emily,
Hi guys, good morning, well, good morning. I'm so sorry
you had to sit on a hold during all that crap,
but that's all right. I want we saw your text
(01:30:34):
and we wanted to get you on the air because
we want to see how you're doing. I know that
you're on your way to pick up your husband at
the hospital today. Obviously he's alive.
Speaker 33 (01:30:45):
Yeah, he's doing well, but it has just been the
week from hell. He he had a major bowel obstruction. Unfortunately.
Sorry you're eating breakfast. And while that was all happening,
my daughter also broke her arm.
Speaker 29 (01:31:01):
Oh god.
Speaker 33 (01:31:02):
So it's just it's been a week and you guys
have kept me laughing, and I just I really really
appreciate it.
Speaker 4 (01:31:07):
You know what. And your daughter broke her leg you said.
Speaker 28 (01:31:10):
Or arm?
Speaker 33 (01:31:11):
She broke her arm into places she was racing with
her cousins, and she lost. So she fell and I
got a call from my mother in law when I
was sitting in the hospital with my husband, telling me
that she was on her way to the emergency room.
Speaker 4 (01:31:23):
With Yeah, at any point, at any point, did you
look up in this guy and go, Hello, why are
you doing this to me right now? You know? I
hope you're okay?
Speaker 26 (01:31:35):
Yeah, kin kind of.
Speaker 33 (01:31:36):
Yeah. We my husband and I we met when we
were in the hospital, actually when we were four years old,
so I knew it was I was signing up for
when when I married him. So we're used to it.
But it doesn't get any easier.
Speaker 4 (01:31:49):
Well, look, you know everyone's going through their thing right now.
You know everyone's going through and you definitely are going
through a thing or two this week. I hope that
you can find a moment to find a corner in
the house to take a deep breath and just take
care of yourself and just have some quiet and just
relax and just and congratulations, you got through another day.
(01:32:10):
It's like that's what we are these times. It's like
now we're celebrating, Oh I got we got to another
hour in life. Yeah. I hope you have a much
better time ahead and God bless you and your family.
Thank you for listening to us, and I hope that
we can take your mind off that every once in
a while.
Speaker 33 (01:32:24):
Love you, Emily, Thanks, thank you, Love you guys. Have
a great day, all right?
Speaker 4 (01:32:29):
Thank you.
Speaker 18 (01:32:30):
Hey?
Speaker 4 (01:32:30):
What's up?
Speaker 11 (01:32:31):
This is full out boys?
Speaker 8 (01:32:32):
I'm doing Hey, I'm at Sharon.
Speaker 11 (01:32:33):
Hi.
Speaker 19 (01:32:34):
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Speaker 8 (01:32:36):
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Speaker 8 (01:32:57):
Happy Thanksgiving, Elvis d And in the Morning.
Speaker 4 (01:33:00):
Show, usually our first day back from Thanksgiving break, we
have just an avalanche of people contacting us to let
us know like the crazy things that happened at the
table or with their families, big fights, yeah, shifts in
philosophical thought for whatever reason. In the potato my grandma
fell asleep in potatoes. Whatever, what did you witness that
(01:33:23):
was just awful?
Speaker 15 (01:33:25):
I like those major announcements that.
Speaker 4 (01:33:27):
Yeah, what major announcements made at your table? I want
to just like a huge, huge mountain of anything and
everything that happened over Thanksgiving break we need to hear
from you.
Speaker 6 (01:33:37):
Those are my favorite stories. I love them because then
it also makes me feel a little bit better about
my own dysfunctional family. I'm like, oh, great, you did that.
We're fine.
Speaker 4 (01:33:47):
We'll start here in the room. Any revelations like things
that just went off the tracks, No, I see we
did okay.
Speaker 6 (01:33:54):
Yeah, I did okay, we did okay this this year.
Speaker 4 (01:33:57):
Yeah, what do you mean this year? In past years
that Gandhi families food fights, we.
Speaker 6 (01:34:01):
Have definitely gotten into all out brawls about stuff. It's
usually about politics, or one of my cousins will get
drunk and say something horrible to one of my other cousins,
and then they'll act like they're fine with it, and
as the wine keeps flowing, they're not fine with it,
and then there are temper tantrums and stomping out, you
know that kind of stuff.
Speaker 4 (01:34:17):
The wine gets flowing. Usually typically that's the beginning of
the year.
Speaker 6 (01:34:21):
No, it continues all day. You can throw the little
barb early in the afternoon, but then by the time
evening comes around, it's like, I was not okay with that,
by the way.
Speaker 4 (01:34:30):
And then it goes they had time to think about it. Yeah, scary. Yeah.
How was everything at your house? Well it was great.
Speaker 23 (01:34:36):
I told you I am now an uncle again because
I had a baby nephew, you know, Jack was born
to my brother and my sister in law. But then
it was kind of eventful after that. And Millie, who
did a lot of sleep things. So did Uncle Joe, Ny.
Speaker 4 (01:34:53):
Froggy. How was your Thanksgiving? Any fun? Wild announcements? No,
everything was good.
Speaker 11 (01:35:00):
Everybody behaved and nobody said anything out of line, no
political talk.
Speaker 4 (01:35:03):
It was great. That guy's a lot of these texts
coming in. There were a lot of arguments with my family.
My dog humped the turkey. Yes, uh, that's a very
good question question.
Speaker 6 (01:35:16):
I love that dog. We've all felt like doing that
to the turkey at some point, haven't we.
Speaker 4 (01:35:20):
I propose to my now fiance at the Thanksgiving dinner table.
That's great. I acquired a child over Thanksgiving break. How
does one acquire a child?
Speaker 15 (01:35:30):
Someone shows up at your door, Hello, daddy.
Speaker 4 (01:35:33):
After eight years, the mother in law got drunk and
told me she wished I'd never married her daughter.
Speaker 2 (01:35:38):
Yes, I love those.
Speaker 4 (01:35:39):
See these are the stories. Yeah, we had a dead
skunk that wouldn't stay buried. What I don't know, you know,
we're just hearing part of it. My cousin told us
he's gay, which happens in a lot of families.
Speaker 15 (01:35:51):
Sometimes those aren't surprises, though, You're like, yeah, we kind
of know.
Speaker 4 (01:35:54):
Yeah. One of our dogs got into the room where
we were storing the pies and licked the pumpk pie
filling out of the pumpkin pie, left the crust.
Speaker 5 (01:36:02):
Yes, dog.
Speaker 8 (01:36:04):
Smart.
Speaker 4 (01:36:05):
My boyfriend drank too much with his friends, says giving Eve,
and dumped me. Forgot that he did it and showed
up for dinner after I told everyone he had dumped me.
My grandma reached in the middle of the table to
grab what she thought was a roll and actually just
stuck her hand in mashed potatoes.
Speaker 6 (01:36:20):
Grandma can't see.
Speaker 4 (01:36:21):
Oh, found out I'm having a baby girl. I burned
my boob.
Speaker 6 (01:36:35):
More details on that.
Speaker 4 (01:36:37):
These are great. My aunt asked a family friend if
she wanted to have a threesome. Oh what was the answer.
Speaker 6 (01:36:43):
Oh, my gosh, I have so many follow up questions
for these people.
Speaker 4 (01:36:45):
Here's someone who got a handy under the table.
Speaker 11 (01:36:47):
Wow, that only happened in the porn movie.
Speaker 4 (01:36:51):
It was a text Hello Tara or is this Tara?
Speaker 15 (01:36:54):
Or Tara?
Speaker 4 (01:36:58):
Is your name Tara?
Speaker 26 (01:36:59):
Ashly?
Speaker 7 (01:37:00):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (01:37:00):
Ashley, Hi Ashley? Sorry about that on my computer? What's
going on? Ashley?
Speaker 1 (01:37:06):
So we had a little incident during Thanksgiving where my
sister's boyfriend smashed out her new boyfriend's car windows. So
her ex boyfriend smashed out her new boyfriend's car windows.
Speaker 4 (01:37:19):
Whoa your sister's ex boyfriend shows up and breaks out
the new boyfriend's car windows during Thanksgiving? Yes, yeah, oh
that's trashy.
Speaker 15 (01:37:30):
That's not nice.
Speaker 1 (01:37:30):
So Carrie under one of him, very very carry under
one of them.
Speaker 4 (01:37:34):
How did we recover? Is everything okay? Didn't?
Speaker 10 (01:37:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:37:37):
So everything everything's fine now when those are fixed and everything.
But it was just it was a lot for I
think all of us to witness.
Speaker 6 (01:37:44):
Oh you've witnessed it too, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:37:47):
Wow, did an you want to have the phone out
recording it?
Speaker 10 (01:37:50):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:37:50):
No, we weren't that bad man.
Speaker 4 (01:37:53):
Oh my god. But everyone's okay.
Speaker 1 (01:37:54):
Now and everyone's yeah, everyone's fine. Now we'll call it
us it his passion?
Speaker 17 (01:37:59):
Right?
Speaker 8 (01:38:00):
Oh sure?
Speaker 4 (01:38:00):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (01:38:01):
Was there like a cheating situation involved? Or was this
guy just super bitter?
Speaker 15 (01:38:06):
I okayed?
Speaker 1 (01:38:13):
Either yeah, on eitherfferent.
Speaker 4 (01:38:18):
It doesn't matter what happened. Don't show up my house
and bash my windows.
Speaker 6 (01:38:21):
No, I just need to know the motive behind things.
Speaker 4 (01:38:23):
Well, there was anger, there were anger management issues, right,
you know? All right? Actually, thank you? That was juicy.
I loved it.
Speaker 1 (01:38:31):
Thank you you.
Speaker 4 (01:38:34):
Too. Can you imagine?
Speaker 6 (01:38:36):
No, I imagine that stuff all the time.
Speaker 15 (01:38:38):
Do you remember grand like before my grandparents passed away
years ago, Like Grandma would say things at the table
and then you would yell at her, and she say,
I can say anything I want. I've been around a long.
Speaker 4 (01:38:47):
Time, and she can't. And she did.
Speaker 9 (01:38:50):
Don't answer the phone, Elvis Duran, the Elvis Duran phone tap?
Speaker 4 (01:38:54):
All right? Into the phone tap? Whose phone tap is it?
Speaker 10 (01:38:56):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (01:38:56):
It belongs to Froggy. Froggy really real for Froggy phone
taps are always festive.
Speaker 11 (01:39:02):
So our our listener page called this. She's been telling
her mom that there is a service that brings a
live turkey to your house on Thanksgiving, and her mom
wants nothing.
Speaker 4 (01:39:13):
To do with this service. Turkeys are nasty. No one
wants anything to do.
Speaker 11 (01:39:16):
So I call us Tommy from Tommy's Turkeys, and I'm
ready to deliver the turkey on Thanksgiving.
Speaker 4 (01:39:24):
All right, Tommy from Tommy's Turkey's is calling in phone tapping,
let's listen.
Speaker 11 (01:39:28):
Yeah, I'm looking for Gail. Yeah, this is Tommy from
Tommy's Turkeys. I'm coming to deliver your Thanksgiving turkey in
a couple of weeks. Just wanted to touch base with
him before we head on over.
Speaker 10 (01:39:42):
I didn't order a turkey.
Speaker 11 (01:39:43):
I need to get a time you're going to be
home so that before I can deliver this turkey, because
delivery in your area on the shame.
Speaker 4 (01:39:51):
I didn't order a turkey.
Speaker 11 (01:39:53):
Yeah, were somebody to order the turkey for Gail's your
attemption and you should be delivered on Wednesday, the day
before Thanksgiving, and I'm coming.
Speaker 4 (01:39:59):
To your house.
Speaker 18 (01:40:04):
Hello.
Speaker 11 (01:40:05):
Yeah, I think we were disconnected. This is Tommy from
Tommy's Turkeys. Somebody's ordered it free as a gift.
Speaker 2 (01:40:11):
Right ultimately name name my daughter.
Speaker 15 (01:40:14):
I don't know I've got it.
Speaker 4 (01:40:15):
I gotta talking.
Speaker 11 (01:40:16):
I've got a forty five pound live bird right here
that I'm bringing to your house.
Speaker 4 (01:40:22):
It could be a live You wouldn't want it to
be dead now thanksgiving us in a little ways away.
Speaker 16 (01:40:27):
It wouldn't be fresh, But no one wants to be
the turkey alive.
Speaker 4 (01:40:32):
Now, I'm gonna handle all of.
Speaker 2 (01:40:34):
That well an apartment.
Speaker 11 (01:40:37):
I promise you right now, he will not be alive
when he gets on the table.
Speaker 2 (01:40:42):
He's gonna kill this turkey.
Speaker 11 (01:40:44):
If no, I'm gonna I'll take care of all that.
You don't worry about any of that kind of stuff.
All I need is to finish up the form of
payment prior to arriving at your residence.
Speaker 28 (01:40:55):
I thought this was a gift.
Speaker 11 (01:40:57):
Well, it was only a percentage was paid for it
just cure of turkey, because you know there's not a
lot of forty five pounds birds running around rampant.
Speaker 28 (01:41:05):
Okay, so how is gonna cost me?
Speaker 11 (01:41:07):
Well, they put down a two hundred dollars deposit. I've
already got that cleared. That's a deposit.
Speaker 4 (01:41:17):
I'm gonna need the remainders.
Speaker 11 (01:41:20):
I'm gonna need the remaining eight hundred dollars in order
to start my trip a.
Speaker 2 (01:41:27):
Thousand buck.
Speaker 11 (01:41:28):
I'm coming from a long distance like ten states shaway.
You'll be paying for lodging for me and your turkey.
That's the only way we can get there.
Speaker 2 (01:41:38):
I order turkey.
Speaker 4 (01:41:41):
It's a gift. It's a gift. You get worked it out.
Gonna do you work it out with the gift giver?
After I get there?
Speaker 11 (01:41:49):
I'm not.
Speaker 18 (01:41:52):
Well?
Speaker 2 (01:41:54):
Say what are you doing that? Some idiot keeps calling me?
Do you want to bring a turkey for this? Yeahs
to be what?
Speaker 1 (01:42:03):
I gotta pay a thousand dollars.
Speaker 15 (01:42:06):
You're welcome. I don't want to.
Speaker 2 (01:42:08):
You know you ordered? Somebody even tell me what's.
Speaker 16 (01:42:11):
Along with you?
Speaker 26 (01:42:12):
That's what it is.
Speaker 8 (01:42:14):
Mom.
Speaker 28 (01:42:14):
I thought you'd be happy.
Speaker 15 (01:42:17):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 12 (01:42:17):
What are you doing things behind my back?
Speaker 2 (01:42:19):
And then I gotta pay a thousand bucks?
Speaker 7 (01:42:21):
What do you think money?
Speaker 4 (01:42:22):
Clothes?
Speaker 28 (01:42:22):
Iran, I'm helping you.
Speaker 2 (01:42:23):
I'm helping you.
Speaker 28 (01:42:24):
You are not helping.
Speaker 7 (01:42:26):
You shouldn't say thank you.
Speaker 2 (01:42:28):
This is my gift, is not a thank you. All right,
he's showing up.
Speaker 1 (01:42:32):
I gonna say him a thousand bucks.
Speaker 6 (01:42:33):
I gotta put him up locally, forget a wife bird
in my apartment?
Speaker 4 (01:42:36):
What are you crazy?
Speaker 11 (01:42:38):
Listen, I'll cut you a discounts this time instead of
a thousand dollars on the phone instead of.
Speaker 4 (01:42:46):
A thousand dollars.
Speaker 11 (01:42:48):
How's about you give me four hundred and I'll eat
Thanksgiving dinner with you.
Speaker 7 (01:42:54):
It's what's going on.
Speaker 11 (01:42:56):
This is Froggy from Elvison Ran in the Morning show
Mom and you've been phone tapped.
Speaker 27 (01:42:59):
Oh oh my god, I got time for I'm.
Speaker 8 (01:43:05):
Gonna be Elvis Duran phone tap.
Speaker 23 (01:43:09):
This phone table was pre recorded permission granted by all participation.
Speaker 9 (01:43:13):
The Elvis Duran phone tab only on Elvis Duran in
the morning show Happy Thanksgiving Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (01:43:33):
Regifting were talking about the concept of regifted.
Speaker 2 (01:43:36):
I love it.
Speaker 4 (01:43:36):
We're actually talking this straight and night about this earlier.
I think you regifting's fine if someone gives you a
great gift and it's still maybe in the original rapper
or maybe it's still even be like men condition, But
you know it's not for you, it's not for your life.
Why would you not regift it to someone who you
know would love it.
Speaker 17 (01:43:52):
Yeah, the key is not getting caught. Regifted gives right
when I want to. For instance, I'm gonna hold something up.
We can't talk about it. I will never use this,
but I know a lot of people it probably will,
you know, So I'm like, all right, as long as
they don't know that I got it as a gift,
that I'm fine.
Speaker 15 (01:44:10):
And the problem is, don't forget who gifted it to
you and don't regift it to them.
Speaker 4 (01:44:16):
And you have to.
Speaker 6 (01:44:17):
Regift it outside of the circle. Even you can't even
regift it inside the same circle, you'd have to give
it to someone else that you don't hang out with
and make sure that they don't post it on social media,
because then that you get out of that way too.
Speaker 4 (01:44:28):
Yeah, I mean regifting. It's another way of saying recycling
all about it.
Speaker 6 (01:44:33):
And I would have no problem knowing that I got
something that was regifted. If I liked it, I wouldn't
care if somebody else doesn't like it and I love it,
give it to me.
Speaker 4 (01:44:40):
Great, there you go. So I don't feel so guilty
about what's going to happen with all of you this year.
Speaker 26 (01:44:45):
Oh, I'll take it.
Speaker 11 (01:44:49):
I sometimes when I when I'm in the process of
actually opening the gift, I know while I'm opening it, oh,
this is going to be a regifter. But I act
like I like it. I act like it's something that
I would need and that I'm going to use.
Speaker 4 (01:45:00):
But in the back of my mind, that's going to
be a regift.
Speaker 11 (01:45:04):
Even like save the I even saved the packaging and
like the stuff on it, because I know in my head,
I'm not keeping this.
Speaker 4 (01:45:10):
Here you go and see.
Speaker 17 (01:45:12):
Yeah, the way I look at it is the person
that gave me the gift that I'm about to regift,
they just saved me a shopping trip for somebody else.
Speaker 4 (01:45:19):
So in essence, it's a great gift. So we're in.
We're done, so regifting all in favor, saying all opposed,
so carried.
Speaker 15 (01:45:30):
Please don't give me the clinic bonus though that you
got for free that I will not like.
Speaker 11 (01:45:34):
It is still a gift, still a gift. They thought
of you. No, Danielle, they thought of you. It's the
thought that counts, and it's a gift.
Speaker 8 (01:45:42):
It was free, you know, Elvistan who.
Speaker 9 (01:45:49):
Surve Maybe you'll calm down a little and the Morning Show.
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(01:46:16):
but we're coming back. Don't you worry until next time.
Say peace out, everybody, Peace everybody,