Tiffany Haddish on Building Generational Wealth, Obedience to Self & Global Discoveries

Tiffany Haddish on Building Generational Wealth, Obedience to Self & Global Discoveries

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:06):
Really it's in the building today and all what you're
so sleepy about?

Speaker 2 (00:17):
What am I so sleepy about? Tell me, because I'm
sleepy too. It's because you're.

Speaker 3 (00:20):
Successful, you get tired. Yeah, because it's heavy to carry.

Speaker 4 (00:27):
Yeah, because nobody ever wants you to take a break.
But we also do it to ourselves.

Speaker 3 (00:32):
No, no, no, no, because I take breaks. So why
it's just when it's a long day, it's a long day.

Speaker 4 (00:39):
But also for you and your level of success and
also your personality, people expect you to have to come
with energy.

Speaker 2 (00:49):
I don't care what they expect.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
I come when I come with Even if I didn't
want to have energy, I'm still going to have the energy.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
I know.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
But that's like I don't want to right now, but
I feel like it's coming through anyway. It really manifested
through my huge risk or something.

Speaker 2 (01:05):
It's like a portal.

Speaker 4 (01:06):
You don't even seem tired, even with all that energy,
even with all even with all your sleep.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
Right now, you stop talking to me.

Speaker 3 (01:14):
If you stop talking to me and we sat here
for one minute in silence, I will be snoring.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
That is the beauty of me.

Speaker 4 (01:22):
And then what happens when I can.

Speaker 3 (01:23):
Fall asleep in the club. I can fall asleep in
the loudest place at a concert.

Speaker 2 (01:28):
It don't matter. And then you get up and it's
like I never would sleep.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
The energy is on a trillion all the time.

Speaker 3 (01:34):
I don't know, I don't, I can't. I don't think
I'm ever on a trillion. It's more like on eight.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
Okay, this is eight. This is eight.

Speaker 3 (01:42):
Now if I get like a good eight to ten
hours of sleep, then my energy would be like on twelve.

Speaker 4 (01:48):
Yeah, is it ever low? Do you ever? Like?

Speaker 2 (01:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:52):
But first thing in the morning, I'm usually like low energy,
and people I think everybody think I got an attitude problem.
And then I've just adopted that as yeah, because I'm
just like warming up to the room in the space.

Speaker 2 (02:03):
You're okay with it.

Speaker 4 (02:04):
Take how you want to take it, how you want.

Speaker 2 (02:06):
To take I really don't care what they think.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
You know, once you get to sabertooth tiger, No, once
you get to thundercat.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
Status, you really that's where you are, right, that's a thundercat.
I'm on my way to saber tooth.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
That's next tooth tiger status. When you get there, you
really don't give a fun tear everybody.

Speaker 4 (02:23):
Yeah, it's a good feeling. I'm kind of I'm kind
of there. I'm in that pocket, right in that pocket.
I very barely care.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's good, feel.

Speaker 4 (02:33):
Good pretty Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
Yeah, y'all, y'all can kiss my hand. Y'all going too
much to try to fit in? All right, tiff we
gotta work. You're working out here in these streets. You
got a new show, you stay working. A Girl's Trip
is coming back, Yes, yes, So I got my new
show coming out on NB on Peacock, actually on Peacock

(02:55):
on November thirteenth, called Tiffany Hottish Goes Off. And that's
why I take my real homegirls from like junior high
and high school on this.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
Girls trip basically to Africa.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
And it's something I have been talking about for years,
Like one day, we're gonna go to Africa, y'all.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
When we go to Africa, that's when we gonna know
who we really are. That's what we're gonna discover our
real roots. Like we're gonna go to Africa.

Speaker 3 (03:15):
And I've been saying this for over twenty years. But
we've been friends for I mean for like five years.
Because I'm only fourteen ye, like we've been I've been
saying it for a long time, so that's really awesome.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
And then growth is that your first time to Africa? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (03:31):
No, my oh no, my daddy from Eritrea and when
he passed away, it was my first time going. That's
the same year Girls Trip came out. Wow, and that
was my first time going to Africa. And then that's
when I started to realize what they show you on
TV is not what's really out here, and you have
to go see with your own eyes, like what you
see in.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
That algorithm and all this stuff, like.

Speaker 3 (03:53):
The things you see in the computer and on TV
is not necessarily what it really is.

Speaker 4 (03:58):
Africa is a constant. There's so many different experiences to have.
I've only been to like two street two countries which
I went.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
Well.

Speaker 4 (04:07):
I went. I went to a wedding. I went to
an amazing wedding in Morocco. I went to Zanzibar, yes,
Franz of Bars everything. I went as a part of
gab You Gabriel Union's fiftieth we went to Zanzibar and
oh my god, I'm blacking out, but we did a
little trip there. It was like a six or seven
day trip, which was amazing, but I want to go back.

(04:28):
I had the guys from ernial Leisure and they're doing
a lot of investments in development in different areas. I'm
dying to go to Ghana.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
It's the next out there too. You have for years.

Speaker 3 (04:38):
Yeah, I got a couple of houses in Eritrea.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
I got an.

Speaker 3 (04:42):
Island, island, I got a whole island now gets covered
up by the ocean there. But you know, some people
might call it a sand bar, but it's got stuff
grawing on it, So it's.

Speaker 4 (04:54):
Can you build anything on it?

Speaker 2 (04:56):
Or you could build a dock? Yeah, you could, Like
you can build a structure.

Speaker 4 (05:01):
What made you by that?

Speaker 2 (05:03):
It's beautiful and it was I could? Yeah why not?
But I mean you could have bought it was affordable.

Speaker 4 (05:09):
You could have bought like a little house or a
little or home guy houses.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
Yeah, so I inherited those already.

Speaker 4 (05:15):
Oh so you have the house, so you like the house.
Let me get a piece of.

Speaker 3 (05:18):
Let me get an island. How mean, how many black
women can say that?

Speaker 4 (05:22):
I don't know, I don't know what the number is.

Speaker 2 (05:24):
Yeah, exactly exactly. I mean how many black women you met?
Like girl, Yeah, we go on to my island, Like.

Speaker 4 (05:29):
Did you go? Did you take your friends?

Speaker 2 (05:31):
No, I'm not.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
Taking my friends to the island because I don't want
them to be in Like, girl, this's a sandbar.

Speaker 2 (05:39):
They keep it one hundred with me. In my mind,
it is the island and that's what it is. That's that.

Speaker 4 (05:44):
Wait, so part what part? Did you go with your girls?

Speaker 3 (05:47):
So we went to Kpe Town, which was like really
beautiful and yeah, I came to some realizations there. But
I tell you a part time don't exist no more.
But I would beg to differ. Really, Yeah, people is
living in shipping containers but also living in the most glamorous,
most beautiful homes, you know, right there, right next to

(06:08):
each other, kind of like south central LA. But yeah,
not this, not not anyway.

Speaker 2 (06:14):
So we was there, lot of fun.

Speaker 3 (06:16):
We had fun at the nightclubs there, and we saw
we swam with sharks.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
There in Cape Town.

Speaker 4 (06:21):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (06:22):
Yeah, and it's you know, it's a beach town. So
it's like really beautiful. And then we went to Zimbabwe,
which I fell in love in Victoria Falls, like it's
the most beautiful place I ever been, like to see
the falls, and then we went throughing a full moon.
And I don't know if have you ever seen a
rainbow at night? No, a lunar rainbow is truly a

(06:45):
gift from God. Like I've never seen anything so beautiful
in my own life.

Speaker 2 (06:51):
The moon lights up all the water and then this
rainbow appears, and then there's like ten of them.

Speaker 4 (06:58):
Did you get it on camera?

Speaker 2 (06:59):
Girl?

Speaker 3 (07:00):
I can't get it on I try my best to
get it on camera. It is so difficult to catch
something that's something like.

Speaker 2 (07:07):
That's what I like. When I see things like that, it.

Speaker 3 (07:10):
Really makes me appreciate God so much, and it just
really makes.

Speaker 2 (07:13):
Me know that, like came no man trump what God made?

Speaker 3 (07:17):
Like, there's no You can make all the cameras in
the world, and you might capture that, but it's nothing
like how it looks in your eyeballs. You ever see
something beautiful and you try to capture it on yourself
on it you looking at it your phone, You're like,
this is garbage comparison what I fought with my eyeball.
My camera is better than any camera than any man
can make. And God made my eyes, and God made

(07:38):
us lunar rainbows, and it's this stuff.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
I just I don't know it.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
Just yeah, going to Africa and like seeing these things,
like seeing what God I did, Like it ain't came
on man trump that Yeah, they might have named the
Victoria Falls, but them is God doesn't God.

Speaker 2 (07:54):
God's wonder fault like and it's the most beautiful thing.

Speaker 4 (07:57):
And then was this an emotional trip for you? Girl?

Speaker 2 (08:00):
It was a spiritual journey if you will.

Speaker 3 (08:03):
And like I think, like to be on a trip
with people that I really love that I know love
me and I know there's no like I oh, I
love her because she's famous, or I love her because
she help me pay my rent.

Speaker 2 (08:18):
Like these are these girls, These are my real friends.

Speaker 3 (08:22):
They don't never ask me for nothing but time. Like
we we take care of each other, right, How lucky
you are to have that, girl? Yeah, And that's I
cultivated that. Like it's funny because each one of them
I walked up to them like you're gonna be my friend.

Speaker 2 (08:37):
We friends, and that's that.

Speaker 3 (08:40):
And for them to be good people like I'm I
have to say, like I got a lot of people
that say they're my friends, but I don't say a
lot of people are my friends. These are my these
are my sisters, my friends my everything, and so for
me to share them with the world was kind of
like I didn't want to at first, like maybe we
should get some fake friends, like after friends. These are

(09:04):
my real ones that I know how the world is,
I know how to work, and you know, like I've
been trying to prep them for like when it's come out.
Some people might be talking masks. You just be prepared.
If they ain't talking about you, that means you ain't
doing something right, like if they hating you, waning like
because I just know that's that's a part of the
that's a part of it. I wish somebody would have
warned me about that.

Speaker 4 (09:24):
I was gonna say you sometimes you get beat up.

Speaker 3 (09:27):
Sometimes sometimes I get jumped.

Speaker 2 (09:30):
Girl.

Speaker 3 (09:31):
How many gangs am I in? I don't know, because
I feel like I got jumped in a gang. I'm
a crip, I'm a blood. I'm but if that sloppy bitch,
I don't know what gangs they are, but I feel
like that's the game.

Speaker 2 (09:41):
What is that Why I'm shiny and they're jealous? That's
what I think.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
Sometimes people hate or jump on a person they they like.

Speaker 2 (09:50):
How she get to be this?

Speaker 3 (09:51):
I know it's a lot of very educated women that
are very upset that I am as successful as I am.
And you know why, because I'm myself and they've been
faked for so long and they see me being myself.

Speaker 2 (10:02):
They're like that, she gotta be faking.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
That's gotta be faking, and they one hundred percent of
the time, I'm always the same unless you pay me
to be different. When you say action, I'll be different
if you need me to. And when you say cut,
I'm back to this tift like in the fact that
I'm able. I think I know it does because some
people have told me it bothers them that I'm just

(10:25):
this regular person and I'm on this level and I'm
moving any circle I want to because I'm because I
don't give a.

Speaker 2 (10:34):
Fuck and I'm real.

Speaker 3 (10:37):
And when people start realizing that it's okay to be
who you.

Speaker 2 (10:40):
Are, even if you're a shit bag, you might be successful.
You might life might be a little bit easier. You
want to be sleepy.

Speaker 3 (10:49):
Sometimes the police might pick your ass up, but you
know what a good story to tell, and I got
buy mass stories to tell the police.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
Boyfriends on the side. Why you think I'm suffering, bitch,
I'm winning.

Speaker 4 (11:07):
I think about you, and especially like comedians or people
who are more free with what they say, what they do,
and sometimes this world because they criticize things all the time,
it's like it's jealousy. Well, I don't know, it's just
people just I don't know if it's human nature the
social media era of social media to just pick people apart,

(11:28):
but I would think it sometimes makes people not want
to be as free. Well, like even Carti has said
that Cardi B said, I'm not the same as I
was when I first came out, even though Carti seems
very free to me, but she even said she told
herself down because of the shit she got to deal with.
On the other side, I.

Speaker 3 (11:43):
Do think about like do I want to hear people
mouth about this? And then I'm like, I just won't read.
Sometimes I'll see the comments and I'll be like, dang,
I missed the day is when I was illiterate because
if somebody wanted to talk shit, they have to do
it to your face.

Speaker 2 (12:02):
They had to come up and tell you.

Speaker 3 (12:03):
And what's crazy is most of these people that talk
all that mess on the internet will never do it
to your face. And if they do do it to
your face. When you respond back, they're scared it. They
shut up. Like a dude came in me the other
day and said, you support genocide. I said, no, I don't.
I do not support genocide. What makes you think I
support genocide? Where did I say I support that? I

(12:25):
support human beings. I'm here for humans. I'm gonna show
up for humans. I invest my money in the Congo, putting,
building houses and all this, like building homes for them
where they are over twelve million being killed. Like I
do my research, and I show up where I want
to be, where I want to see with my own eyes.
I'm not gonna let the computer. I'm not gonna let

(12:46):
the algorithm. I'm not gonna I'm not gonna let that
tell me what's real. Even God says if you believe
in God, in every Bible, and I've read them all, okay,
because I can read now, So I've read the Koran,
the Torah, the King's James, the World Translated, New World Trips.
I've read them all, and they all say, behold with
your eyes, see see what your eyes, what God has done.

Speaker 2 (13:11):
See what is possible.

Speaker 3 (13:13):
Don't let man tell you whatever you need to go
see for yourself, as long as I got legs and
the ability to put money up to fly myself.

Speaker 2 (13:22):
Wherever I'm gonna go see.

Speaker 3 (13:24):
And I went and saw, and what I saw reminded
me of a lot, a lot of home, a lot of.

Speaker 2 (13:33):
I went to many parts. But let's go with Israel.

Speaker 3 (13:36):
Let's just go there. Let's go there where I get
accused of the stuff. So yeah, but I'm not spreading
that I care about people, right?

Speaker 4 (13:44):
What made you want to do that? Just to see you?

Speaker 2 (13:46):
But I have been bought a trip to go, but
I was too busy to go right.

Speaker 3 (13:51):
And then I had time because I guess people put
me on time out. So I'm gonna time in and
go see what's up. I paid the money already, so
I'm gonna go. And I ain't got to wait in
know lines. I want to see Jesus mama house. I
want to see everywhere Jesus was. Everybody's always talking about
what would Jesus do? Well, let's go see. Let's go
see where he was. Anybody that say that Christian and

(14:15):
they ain't been to Israel, I'm looking at you some
kind of way. All the Muslims go to Mecca, So
why you ain't going to Israel and go see for yourself.

Speaker 2 (14:23):
I went there. I learned there's over eighty nine religions there.

Speaker 3 (14:26):
I learned that Gaza is so close, like I could
see it. I could see the buildings running, I could smell.
I could smell the damage, and you know what it
smelled like, and remind me of South Central during the riots.
That was like back to trauma. I went through Heypha
and Order. I saw all of that and I could
just and I'm seeing the damage. I don't support none

(14:46):
of that. I don't support governments. I support people and
how I worshiped God, how I love God. Don't got
nothing to do with people. If I could have went
over there and rescued everybody, but I.

Speaker 2 (15:01):
Don't got that power. But I can show up and
bring awareness, and all the bots.

Speaker 3 (15:06):
Can say what they want to and people can say
whatever they want about me.

Speaker 2 (15:09):
But I put my money where my mouth is. I
show up.

Speaker 3 (15:17):
Because I know what it's like when don't nobody show up,
when nobody cares. I don't care what these people's religion is.
I don't care how they love God. Everybody deserves to live,
and everybody they do not deserve the stuff that is happening,
the things that are happening in Africa alone, when nobody

(15:39):
talks about that, but I show up what was going
on in Cameroon, what was going on in the Congo
and Very trail for over thirty years. Nobody talks about
that though they don't talk about it when it's nobody's Like,
all I be trying to do is bring joy. I
see so, friend, all the time, I grew up and suffering,

(16:03):
So all I'm trying to figure out is how can
I bring joy?

Speaker 2 (16:06):
So?

Speaker 4 (16:06):
What did you learn then from that trip?

Speaker 2 (16:07):
Like what I learned America got a lot to do
with everything?

Speaker 4 (16:11):
M hm, how did you learn that? There?

Speaker 3 (16:17):
You see our signs everywhere in the United States Heritage
National Heritage Park.

Speaker 2 (16:22):
Why do we have National Heritage Heritage Park? There is
that our heritage?

Speaker 4 (16:29):
What else did you learn?

Speaker 3 (16:33):
I don't know if I'm at liberty to say everything
that I learned that I saw a lot, a lot,
a lot that made me just sit back and go, well,
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (16:46):
I don't know how.

Speaker 3 (16:46):
I can make this better. I can't people come at
me like you could do to do this? Say this,
Why don't you go there first? And you tell me
what I should.

Speaker 4 (16:55):
Have you been No, No, that's.

Speaker 3 (16:57):
How you gonna tell me what I can do? Go
see for I'm just saying those people that be on there,
you should say this, you should do this. Why you
don't say this? Why you not speaking out about this?

Speaker 2 (17:07):
Okay? Have you gone? No? I haven't gone.

Speaker 3 (17:09):
You go first and then come back and tell me
what you think I should say when you go see
ben to it. If you ain't ever been in it,
shut the fuck up, because I've gone.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
I went to Eritrea.

Speaker 3 (17:21):
I saw the damage for the war for thirty years.
I went to I went to Israel. I saw, I saw,
I could see guys or they wouldn't let me over there.
They wouldn't let me into certain places. Yeah they I
can go, But I got to go to Demona, where
all the black people live.

Speaker 2 (17:38):
How was that baby off the chain? There's so many
black Hebrews, is it?

Speaker 3 (17:43):
Like? It's so beautiful all these black Jews speaking Hebrew freely.
Also they speak English very well, so it sounds like
I was in Harlem, right and then boom they hit
me with the with the Hebrew Like I'm like ah,
like that was so beautiful.

Speaker 2 (17:59):
And to eat the food.

Speaker 3 (18:01):
The food is real, The food is so good, and
I'm just like, why we don't have this in America?
Is this on watermelon? Taste like this at home? Because
it ain't got no seeds? Why they trying to take
the black out of everything? Have y'all noticed that they're
trying to take the black out of everything?

Speaker 4 (18:18):
Tiffany, what is the root of the reason you do things?
Is it curiosity? Are you looking to connect with people,
connect with God, connect with purpose?

Speaker 2 (18:28):
Like?

Speaker 3 (18:28):
What is I'm just being obedient to what's being said
in my heart in my head, which I believe is God.
So I'm just obedient and not obedient to men. I'm sorry,
I tried.

Speaker 2 (18:41):
I was married before. I'm just not obedient to men. Okay,
I just can't.

Speaker 3 (18:45):
Be obedient to me, but I can be obedient to
what I feel God is and that's in my heart
and my head and what it's like.

Speaker 2 (18:53):
If it moves me to go do that, that's what
I'm doing.

Speaker 4 (18:57):
That's gonna be what has brought you this far.

Speaker 3 (19:00):
Definitely, I'm obedient, but I'm not obedient to men. And
I think man don't like that. And when I say man,
I mean men and women they hate that because I'm like,
this is it different?

Speaker 4 (19:13):
You say you're not a bed in, But does it
ever wear you down? Criticism misunderstanding? I don't like it.

Speaker 3 (19:20):
I don't like it, and I wish if somebody want
to criticize me, I wish you would do it to
my face so we could just have a conversation. I
do not like it when it's just you know, online
or somebody making up stories about me lying on me.

Speaker 2 (19:32):
I do not like that.

Speaker 3 (19:34):
And I would, and if if I didn't think, I
would go to jail, I would roll up to your
house and had a whole full conversation with you. I'll
show up to your job. I sure would, and be like,
so you said, what say it? Now?

Speaker 2 (19:48):
God?

Speaker 3 (19:48):
Because I'm from the nineteen hundred. You remember the nineteen hundred.
Don't let your mouth write a check that your ass cash.
And I want to cash checks you like stirring up
a pop. Oh my god, we need to bring that back. No,
catch your checks. The first dumb past people ain't got
they checks.

Speaker 4 (20:08):
They don't the checks they need to cash.

Speaker 2 (20:11):
We need to cash them.

Speaker 3 (20:13):
But that's why I'm like, you know, I'm building grocery stores.
I'm trying to bring people the color together.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
We need one. If we get to get the stores.

Speaker 3 (20:21):
In south central LA right now, and it hopefully it
ends up everywhere stores because Okay, so if you think
about a grocery store, it's one of the few businesses
that holds thousands of businesses in one place. And if
if if I got all black and brown owned businesses
in that one place, that's creating generational wealth. And that's

(20:43):
all I really want to create, generational web. So if
they decide to cut off the food stamps, they decide
to cut off the snaps, that don't bother us. We
already know how to survive anyways, regardless, but it really wouldn't.

Speaker 2 (20:56):
Bother us at all.

Speaker 3 (20:57):
But then I think we need to teach the other
people how to survive without it too, because if we don't,
we'll be back to nineteen hundred and twenty five and
people will be.

Speaker 2 (21:06):
Hanging from things. Oh my god, I know.

Speaker 3 (21:10):
That's scary to think, totally scary because of christ jealousy
and then me, if they see you thriving, if your
neighbors see you thriving, right, you doing good and they
over here hungry, what they gonna do that first they're
gonna rob me? Yeah, and then if they and then
if they if you still keep thriving.

Speaker 4 (21:27):
Is this one of the things that go through your
mind when you decide to go liy books?

Speaker 2 (21:32):
History repeats itself, you know, I get it, I get it.
I read, I learned how to read. That's where they
fucked that. That's where they fucked that.

Speaker 3 (21:43):
Do you think Oklahoma happened because it's really Do you
think that happened just because some boy was flirting with
a lady?

Speaker 2 (21:49):
No, that was the that was the little thing that
that was an excuse and they burned down a whole town.

Speaker 4 (21:59):
Tiffany, Are you wearing all this on your like?

Speaker 2 (22:03):
No, I just told it all. I'm not wearing none
of that. You put it on me. I just put
it on you and everybody listen, listen.

Speaker 4 (22:11):
There's a lot of fun up ship that has happened,
gonna happen, is happening, yes, and the history is repeating itself. Right,
But so how do you navigate through life and not
let it all sit on you?

Speaker 2 (22:25):
You know what I'm saying? Like, I take trips with
my friends, Okay, Hello, I go on dates.

Speaker 3 (22:36):
I thought that's where you have real conversation, because if
you want to just talk about other things, let's just
talk about Diggs.

Speaker 2 (22:42):
Fuck it, we can talk about.

Speaker 4 (22:45):
Whatever you want to talk.

Speaker 3 (22:46):
I've had drinks.

Speaker 4 (22:52):
We have had had drinking.

Speaker 2 (22:54):
I don't drink, not more. Really, I just drink water.

Speaker 4 (22:57):
Was that was? That was the reasoning behind that.

Speaker 3 (23:00):
Was swelling up my elbows was looking like breast. The inflammation,
the inflammation.

Speaker 4 (23:06):
Inflation won't get you.

Speaker 3 (23:07):
Yeah, the inflammation made me stop. And so I was
waking up next to ugly people who want to do that.

Speaker 4 (23:12):
No, that's not good, never good.

Speaker 2 (23:14):
I'm like, how why did I let him inside my body? Alcohol?
The alcohol man, Alcohol to make you fuck a gooon?

Speaker 4 (23:21):
That would make you stop another gool?

Speaker 3 (23:24):
Yes, goblets, you're like, damn a mine in the under rounte?
What am I doing?

Speaker 2 (23:30):
The next thing? You know, you're pregnant by a bugle wolf?
The hell?

Speaker 4 (23:34):
What in the my blood?

Speaker 2 (23:36):
The fuck?

Speaker 4 (23:37):
What the fuck?

Speaker 2 (23:39):
You know? I'm telling the truth.

Speaker 3 (23:40):
You don't walk up next to a goon before I'll
sing you at the club.

Speaker 2 (23:44):
With a gooon. It was nineteen hundred and ninety nine.

Speaker 4 (23:51):
You saw me I was with a goon.

Speaker 2 (23:53):
In ninety nine. You didn't realize it because you had
your drunk goggle so on. You didn't know.

Speaker 3 (23:59):
You couldn't tell. You know, I ain't lying, and I
told you I was tired.

Speaker 4 (24:06):
I didn't know you was gonna come wearing my ass
out today.

Speaker 3 (24:09):
I'm tired too, But something about me being tired, I can't.

Speaker 2 (24:13):
I just talked too much. I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (24:15):
You asked me something education educational. No, no, we're not
gonna go education what I said. But you know what,
I believe it because I thought it.

Speaker 4 (24:26):
You just let it go. You say what you feel
all the time.

Speaker 2 (24:29):
Pretty much. It's like my strongest thing in.

Speaker 3 (24:32):
My weakest thing's like my best attributing Sometimes it's bad.

Speaker 4 (24:36):
Does it concern sometimes people on your team and your
squad and your friend.

Speaker 3 (24:39):
Sure, I'm sure. I'm sure they're scared. I'm sure they're like, God, damn,
she's not messed.

Speaker 2 (24:44):
With the bag. She didn't talk about that.

Speaker 4 (24:48):
Does it ever? Does it ever affect the bag?

Speaker 3 (24:50):
Probably? I don't pay attention. My bank account looks just fine.

Speaker 2 (24:54):
You're just good compared to.

Speaker 4 (24:55):
What it was before, So you got nothing to lose.
You're like fucking I.

Speaker 2 (24:59):
Mean, I mean, yeah, all that stuff is it's all
hemmed up. I got. Every time I do a movie
or TV show, I buy a piece of land and
I make sure the land is taking care of Is
that your man?

Speaker 4 (25:09):
Every time?

Speaker 2 (25:10):
Every time? Wow? Every time I buy a piece of land.

Speaker 3 (25:13):
So where do I invest? Like I'm invested in Africa?
Like all these rappers wearing all these diamonds on their neck.
But don't got no mind.

Speaker 2 (25:22):
You using batteries. But you ain't got no I like,
but all the things I use. Yeah, yeah, I.

Speaker 3 (25:29):
Try to make it better for the people that's doing
what they're doing to get me what I use.

Speaker 4 (25:33):
Give me a little, give me some I know the
grocery stores, I know the sandbar slash islands slash islands.

Speaker 2 (25:41):
Yeah, but you know, I've been.

Speaker 4 (25:42):
With the relery stores.

Speaker 3 (25:44):
So I started the nonprofit Diastera Grocery Cares, and We've
been helping black on black businesses. I've been taking those
food on companies and getting them on shelves. So in
the past year, I've gotten like four brands on shelves
and Costco routes, Currow Girls, uh Stam's Club. Like, I'm
really excited about that. We creating generation with training them,

(26:06):
getting them the training they need to get their business going,
customer service skills, proper skills, proper scaling, so they're not
taking super big like they they can meet the requirements
of what they're being ordered, right, So like I'm really
proud of that.

Speaker 2 (26:21):
I'm just you know, like these type of things.

Speaker 3 (26:24):
That's the stuff I really care about, seeing seeing us
grow and seeing us work together, becoming that fist. Because
when you were fist, they can't take you apart. They're
gonna have to They're going to beat your ass. And
if we all doing it, they can't get us all
at once.

Speaker 2 (26:39):
We all fuck them out.

Speaker 3 (26:41):
Of course, we the devil because he is a lie.

Speaker 4 (26:45):
Oh my god. And on that note, no, I don't know.
I don't know where you chance, where you go from.
You want to ask me the stuff on a question?

Speaker 3 (26:53):
Yeah, we got to doing the question because they're telling
me you only have a couple of minutes, and why
did I fill out that damn question?

Speaker 2 (26:58):
And we ain't talking about it. Let's get to it.

Speaker 4 (27:03):
I need a second, I need one second.

Speaker 3 (27:05):
No, you don't a shot of that water and let's
keep going. Come on this, I can tell if I
could water.

Speaker 2 (27:13):
I know the difference.

Speaker 4 (27:14):
They moved different in the cup and the Tiffany had
his questionnaire. Who is your celebrity crush? You say, whoever
likes me?

Speaker 2 (27:23):
Now? Which one? Y'all? Which one? Which one? You know?
I can't handle this.

Speaker 4 (27:34):
You don't give me pick me energy, you don't give
me like, you don't give me like, pick me, pick me?

Speaker 3 (27:40):
No, Well, you know, first he gotta like me, okay,
and then you decide. Then I gotta find out what's
his credit score. It gotta be over seven hundred. Do
he got an E I N number?

Speaker 2 (27:49):
He gotta have that.

Speaker 3 (27:50):
Then he gotta have employees, at least five of them,
because then I need to interview those employees and find
out what kind of leader he is, because once a
man get inside you, he thinks.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
He owned you, like he leaving you.

Speaker 3 (28:00):
Well, I need to know where you're gonna leave me,
and so I need to talk to these employees and
find out do you feel like you in a safe
work environment? Do you feel valued? Does he remember your birthday?
Do you get mental health adays? Because I'm gonna need
the mental health days? And I need to know that
he got at least five employees and they like working
with him because I got at least five personalities and
they gotta like him. Also, this is true, you can't

(28:24):
see her and act like you ain't got multiple ones too.
We all do. I need to make sure we all
get along.

Speaker 4 (28:31):
You've really thought this out, like you have a system.

Speaker 3 (28:33):
Oh yeah, I got a whole system because men be
trying to be inside of me. And much like I
need to know you got a good credit score, because
that's your grown up report card, right And how responsible
you are with your money is how responsible you're gonna
be with my heart. And I cannot let no man
just frivously spend my heart no more. I only got
so much heart left. After that, I'm gonna be an
evil ass motherfucking saber tooth tigra'ma rip your motherfucker soul.

Speaker 2 (28:56):
About your body. You hurt my heart? You understand what
I'm say?

Speaker 3 (28:58):
I do action. I almost want to go on YouTube
and learn witchcraft so I could just yak a man's
hold out his fucking chest if you play with mine.

Speaker 2 (29:07):
It's just like a bank.

Speaker 3 (29:09):
If a bank won't give you a loan or or
finance you to start a business or buy a home,
why would I loan you my body. You're not gonna
be responsible with it, So why would I give it to?

Speaker 4 (29:24):
What if he's if you think he's really fine.

Speaker 2 (29:26):
And I've had all the fine men. Girl, I did
that on me.

Speaker 3 (29:32):
That's how your heart. That's why my heart fucked up.
Now that's why I'm like it heatn't half.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
Because it's not.

Speaker 3 (29:38):
I don't need his money, right, I don't need that,
but I do need you to be a good person.

Speaker 2 (29:43):
I do need you.

Speaker 3 (29:44):
To have your own so like like, I don't need
a man to be super rich, but I need him
to have his own business. I need him to have
his ego, need to be intact right. And from what
I've learned, okay, cause I dated a man that worked
at the little fast food place and all this while
I'm making movies and doing all and that doesn't They
don't suit their ego, that don't sit well with their ego.

(30:06):
And and and I'm I'm a nurturer, but I'm not
gonna be your mama, and I'm not gonna stap. I'm
not gonna turn my light down so that you can
be comfortable. Heard you, But if you come inside my house,
don't be surprised if I don't talk because I'm real.

Speaker 2 (30:24):
I'm real quiet in the house. Men, be shot.

Speaker 4 (30:26):
I don't believe you.

Speaker 2 (30:27):
I'm quiet in the house. Quiet quiet. I do not
speak unless you speak to me.

Speaker 4 (30:32):
That's only one of your personalities.

Speaker 3 (30:34):
That's in my house, and I need peace. I go outside,
everybody's talking to me, everybody's in my face. I'm always
I have to recharge. So some men they come to
my house and that looking for jokes.

Speaker 4 (30:45):
What's wrong with her?

Speaker 2 (30:49):
I'm like, I'm on the fucking charger. I'm charging right now. Yeah,
some men get mad at me because I won't make You.

Speaker 4 (30:55):
Need him to be your peace. You need him to
be there when.

Speaker 3 (30:57):
You Yeah, I want to listen to his heartbeat. Let
me put my head on your chest.

Speaker 2 (31:02):
Oh tis, I love them sound of a man's heartbeat.
I love life.

Speaker 3 (31:08):
I love that you feel like that's what life begins.

Speaker 4 (31:11):
Do you have any prospects right now? Any good prospect
got prospects?

Speaker 2 (31:14):
I heard you. I always urge you, beautiful.

Speaker 3 (31:17):
You are out here in these streets at least two
three hangouts a week.

Speaker 2 (31:23):
You know I'm not having sex.

Speaker 4 (31:26):
Like that though, Okay, but just hangouts.

Speaker 2 (31:27):
I mean, if they want to eat my ass. Is
this a bell?

Speaker 4 (31:34):
I don't know when to ring the bell anymore?

Speaker 3 (31:37):
Your favorite go to song is oh my God karaoke song.

Speaker 4 (31:42):
Your favorite karaoke song is Proud.

Speaker 3 (31:44):
Mary, Yeah, Proud Mary Week by s w V One
Way or Another by Blondie. Or these boots are made
for walking. You are from one of these days. These
boots are going to walk all over you.

Speaker 2 (32:00):
Keep playing with me, keep playing with my spirit, watch
what God walk?

Speaker 3 (32:06):
Or it always comes back to because my period about
the star girl.

Speaker 4 (32:12):
It's okay, so fine, Okay, I.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
Act like you don't remember my god.

Speaker 4 (32:22):
One thing on your bucket list, how their ballue? Last
thing you ate? Chicken salad? That's a good that sounds delicious.
What is the last thing that sent you down on YouTube?

Speaker 2 (32:31):
Rabbit holes? Subliminal success?

Speaker 4 (32:35):
What is that?

Speaker 3 (32:35):
YouTube's so so you know they been like using these
subliminals to program you for success, or for beauty or
for to make money. And so I've been like digging
into that, and like I've been playing that subliminal success music.
You know, pretty pretty face, pretty bank accounts, big bills,

(33:00):
legend that success in this money like something like that.

Speaker 2 (33:05):
Yees, I haven't never heard this before. Get my phone,
I'll play it for you. Get repeat.

Speaker 3 (33:11):
Subliminal success music music, yes, so they have like underneath
it it be like I'm successful.

Speaker 2 (33:18):
I am this.

Speaker 3 (33:20):
Like money's constantly coming in or whatever, like and then yeah,
I've been on that for like a year and a half.

Speaker 2 (33:25):
Manbe too, like I'm reversing in age.

Speaker 3 (33:28):
There's one that's like subliminal to like knock you down
ten years and ever since, I've been listening to the
people like, I'm like, i just need something about you.

Speaker 2 (33:34):
It's like you're very singing age, and I'm just like.

Speaker 3 (33:38):
I've been listening to the subliminals programming myself to be young.
You do amazing, say to yourself, right, and whatever you're
listening to, like you got to think your eyes, your ears,
your mouth, your nose, all this is taken in, right,
So whatever you're taking in, that's what you program in
every selling your body to do. So I'm constantly like,

(34:01):
I listen to a stem cell one this morning because
I want to rejuvenate my stem cell so I'm activating
my ball marrow to heal organs and whatnot. I listened
yesterday to one where I'm like ten years younger, and
then people been complimenting that all day. It's like, whatever
you take in, that's what it's gonna be. So I
try my best not to listen to like, you know,

(34:21):
I used to listen to hardcore rap music like kill motherfucker, die,
bitch whatever, whatever.

Speaker 2 (34:25):
I used to listen to that shit all the time,
and that's what I was getting all the time. So
more you listen to what you take in. It's just
like food.

Speaker 3 (34:34):
So also association. I don't trauma bind with people. I
only want a success bond. If you always giving me
bad news and always trying to trauma with me, bitch,
I'm out of here. I'm done with you because that's
all you wanna bring to my life. And when people
say what you bring it to the table, what you're
putting on a tabe, I'm putting success and abundance on

(34:55):
the table. What you're putting on the table, I'm bringing
the whole fucking table today.

Speaker 2 (35:00):
What we gonna put on it? Though.

Speaker 4 (35:03):
I love you, Tiffany, I love you too.

Speaker 2 (35:05):
You know I love you. I've been to your house, girl.
I don't go to everybody because I don't know what's
in the house. You walk in that motherfucking threshold. It
could be poisoning there, but I know you got good home.
You can. I love.

Speaker 3 (35:21):
I'll talk about anything with you. This might be, this
might be torture for me in two days. But whatever,
long as I stop reading, I'll be all right if
you stop reading. Yeah, as long as I stop reading,
I'm just gonna read encyclopedia. Like half the half the
people don't even know what the hell a encyclopedia. They like,
they do love that when you don't read down, But

(35:42):
that's too bad because I still do and I.

Speaker 2 (35:45):
Will be in the fucking d ms.

Speaker 4 (35:47):
Tiffany, can we just talk about Can we just talk
about the Warner because you're about to leave, and we
didn't talk about the one or two things that we
should be promoting right now, which is number one, your
show Hulu right and then no, I mean pe cocks are.

Speaker 2 (35:59):
I mean I do have Hulu too.

Speaker 3 (36:01):
While you're bushiting, just all the Hulu and put in
Tiffany how that you will see me. But on November thirteenth,
on Peacock Tiffany How, it goes awful be coming out,
and that's you know, that's that's the we take a
trip to Africa. And you know what I love about
the show is it's showing to me the real Africa,
like the the because I feel like all the time

(36:24):
when I see Africa on TV, it's like the disparity
and it's one of the richest continents in the world.
It has all the resources, every resource, every country trying
to get on that continent, every country trying to dominate
and own some other country in Africa because they got
all the good stuff. And so we're showing a lot
of the good and how it can be healing. And

(36:46):
what I hope it does is build a bridge between
America and Africa, and African Americans can see and they
will go. And there's a lot of people out here
that got a little African in them. Okay, you need
to take your little African ass over there to go see.

Speaker 2 (37:04):
Don't just go see for sure, to come home and share.

Speaker 4 (37:07):
And then and then when it's Girl's Trip too happening
because this has been ten years right since.

Speaker 2 (37:12):
Yeah, I don't know what that's about. But you don't
know about that. I do know about it. I'm just
saying I don't know why it took so long, but
it is happening. That is happening.

Speaker 3 (37:21):
I've been told Okay, I've been told multiple times that
it is happening this summer, but by reliable sources, by
very like I mean, we sat down, we all talked
about Okay, all the girls coming back, everybody amazing, everybody's
coming back.

Speaker 2 (37:34):
And I've been told it. We're supposed to shoot this summer.
We'll see.

Speaker 4 (37:39):
Wow, how was that being in the room with every
were you in the room with everybody? It was so good?

Speaker 3 (37:43):
It was I mean, I see all of them at
different points together together. Yeah, you know, I cut up
to you know, I can't help myself up.

Speaker 4 (37:55):
That's a real full that's a real full circle moment
for you, right, because that was a that was a
big moment in your life.

Speaker 3 (38:03):
Yeah, you know, in the moment, it just felt like
it was just another job. But I got to work
with them, some of some people I just I always
wanted to work with. And it's crazy that they were
like what's on my wish lists of people to work with?
And then I'm working with them and we're having the
most amazing time and and like for us to still
be all cool and enjoy each other's company is like,

(38:27):
I can't I can't ask for anything more. I mean
it's I mean, Billy Crystal is my uncle, yo, like
not by blood, but damn then it feels like it,
you know, like it's and you don't have nothing to
do with gross trip.

Speaker 4 (38:40):
I'm just saying, I like, what is he in the
second second movie?

Speaker 2 (38:45):
Love it if he's in there.

Speaker 3 (38:48):
I just brought that up because like all the jobs
that I've had, you know, I enjoy working with everybody,
but it's like it's something about certain people.

Speaker 2 (38:56):
You know, they become like your real friends.

Speaker 3 (38:59):
Like it's something about like as soon as you see them,
evokes joyne your heart. And that's how I feel about
those girls. And that's how I also feel about Billy Crystal.

Speaker 2 (39:10):
It is mad random people I work with that I
just really truly just enjoy Rose Burn too too.

Speaker 4 (39:18):
That's so dope. Well we're excited.

Speaker 2 (39:20):
I'm excited too. Maybe I'll get Billy Crystal and Rose
Burn and being girls trip too.

Speaker 3 (39:27):
Look at at some of these finite celebrity mail actors
that got crushes on me, Maybe they'll get in into
that's a way to do it, that's a way to
go about.

Speaker 2 (39:34):
I don't know who got a crush on me.

Speaker 3 (39:35):
But do you.

Speaker 4 (39:38):
I don't know, but I could do some research.

Speaker 2 (39:40):
Yeah, let me know. Okay, let me know what you
find out.

Speaker 4 (39:43):
I'll do a little intel see if I can find out.
The next couple of months of interviews, i'll.

Speaker 2 (39:47):
See it, like, how do you feel about Tiffany Haddick.

Speaker 4 (39:50):
Yeah, I'm gonna ask you.

Speaker 2 (39:52):
That's gonna be like a first what's your credits? Squing?
Is it seven hundred higher?

Speaker 4 (39:56):
All right, we're gonna bet a few for you.

Speaker 2 (40:00):
All right.

Speaker 4 (40:00):
Well, I can't wait to see the show, and I
will be eagerly waiting for Girls Trip too, And it's
going to be very interesting to see where this interview
lands in the world.

Speaker 3 (40:07):
Girl listen, You're welcome, Tiffany who welso everybody, thank you.