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October 20, 2025 39 mins

Hello everyone! This week I’m joined by the incredible Dr. Diane, a clinical psychologist and relationship expert who helps couples keep long-term love and libido thriving. Her work focuses on keeping connection and libido alive through honest communication, curiosity, and care. Dr. Diane has a gift for making complex topics feel approachable and real, and her insights on desire, intimacy, and partnership are ones every couple can learn from.

In this episode:

  • How desire naturally shifts in long-term relationships
  • Why communication is key to keeping intimacy alive
  • How curiosity can reignite attraction and connection
  • How to approach low libido without blame or shame
  • Practical ways to bring novelty back into a long-term relationship
  • How to talk about sex when it feels awkward or vulnerable
  • Dr. Diane’s advice for couples who feel disconnected but want to rebuild intimacy

Thank you so much for listening!  Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! 

Resources
Libido Quiz:  libidoquiz.com
Novelty Checklist: mysexdoc.com
For more freebies and discounts on paid products: havehotsex.com
Her Book: Want to Want It: How to Want Sex, Be Better At It and Get More Of It: WantToWantIt.com

Connect with Dr. Diane
Instagram & YouTube: @mylibidodoc


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Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine
Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise
YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf
Facebook: Rachel Maine
Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

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