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November 3, 2025 36 mins

Hey, hey! Welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I am so thrilled to welcome back Dr Aly Ash! She’s a Stanford lecturer, author, and the founder of TurnON Love, and she has such a gift for turning life’s hardest moments into opportunities for growth. In this episode we’re talking about breakups; how to handle them with grace, how to process the grief without getting stuck in it, and how to reconnect to yourself and your pleasure after a relationship ends.

In this episode:

  • Why breakups can feel so intense on both a physiological and emotional level
  • How to know when a relationship is no longer serving you
  • Why clarity about your needs and values matters before and during relationships
  • What to focus on in the early stages of healing instead of rushing the process
  • Ways to reconnect to pleasure and your body after a breakup
  • What healthy no contact can look like and when staying friends is realistic
  • Why ending a relationship can sometimes be the most loving thing you do for yourself and your partner

Thank you so much for listening!  Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! 

Connect with Dr. Aly
Instagram, Tiktok, & Facebook: @TurnOn.Love
Website: www.turnon.love

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We all receive messages about who we are supposed to be, how we ought to feel, and how we should express ourselves, often enforced through shame and disconnection. Featuring 8 classes with a woven balance of science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining s3xual and emotional intim@cy in your relationship(s). Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Super early bird tickets available now for $200-$400 off!

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