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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Dashy and the jam In Morning Show with DJ Foreurn.
It's Sauntic Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four five.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
We're gonna start beyond the swipe out with a DM
I got and I love it because it's a specific
question for Foreign and Santi. But in the meantime six
one seven nine three one one nine four five. That
is six one seven nine three one one nine four five,
we're talking dating, love relationships. You could be in one
guys and want to ask us for advice. You could
(00:32):
be telling me a story. Uh it just you know,
it's so much more than just a tender story.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
We hear the craziest things.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
We also hear hear people just call in to get
it off their chest and complain that it's hard out there.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I get it.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
I do six one seven nine three one one nine
four five and know someone's in the corege.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Shut the hell up. You don't get it. You're married,
you have kids, bitch, all right?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
So this DM is from Annabelle. She wants to know,
specifically newly single. She's asking Santy and Foreign, what is
something that she could put on her dating profile that
would make her stand out from the rest of the girls.
Like you guys are just in there, you're you're quickly swiping.
What's something that would stand out to you? And I say,
we go beyond looks, right, because that's gonna be neurou.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Now for me, it's easy. It's something professional that makes
me feel like you have goals and they're not just
out here just doing like something that you have goals
in your focus on your careers.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Ambitious, go gett okay, gonna hook me?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I know because probably AJ saying the same thing. How
does one show they're an ambitious go get her?
Speaker 4 (01:33):
You said, what would they put on their profile? Like, yeah,
if you say I'm ambitious, go get them? Maybe they say,
you know.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Just those words. What about like just like employed.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Because you could be.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
A bad employee.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
There you go, okay, so you can be employed just
you know, again, no knock to anybody like that, but
you just have no driving.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Jay's editing her profile.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Now. I want somebody to tell me that the ambition
and they got drive once you talk to them, or
you kind of see you know what I mean. And
I'm in too. Travel now, so if I see that
you travel a lot, I might. I might. Yeah, oh okay, that.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Will take Well, since we're here, what kind of photos
do you want to say? Not group pictures because I
know guys don't like group pictures because what you.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Know, what your profession is. Yeah, if you're claiming to
be a nurse, for instance, you know what I'm saying, scrubs. Yeah,
if you if you claim to be a lawyer in
the courthouse, are you talking about your law firm or whatever?
It is just things to show that you're ambitious. If
you're ambitious person and you're doing your thing, you're going
to kind of show off that side of yourself. You know.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Also pictures of yourself like having fun And I'm not
talking about battie ones with like all your friends with
your butt out in the air, like you laughing, having
like a good time. No, but those battye pictures I
don't like.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
I don't like to picture.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Yeah, will talk for himself. I want to see the
out yeo, get out, because if you ain't got one.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Talking, that must be so hard.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
I'm sure do you go through this, but like you know,
you're trying to showcase yourself here on an app where
people are.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Shopping for humans so I understand the.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Question is what I'm saying, I think, and then I
wouldn't mind, uh if they have kids, A picture with
your kid, if it's yours.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yes, yeah, I don't mind kids.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Yeah, because some people both pictures of kids that aren't
there and the impression is that they have multiple kids and
all this stuff.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
So okay, picture of the kids or just in the profile.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I'm also a mom either.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
And how do you guys feel about people.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Right away putting on the profile they want kids or
they don't want kids.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Yeah, if you don't even want I mean, that's actually
good to put because if you want kids, then yeah,
me and you are not talking.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Right that, Like my dad would say the same thing.
But you know that's a.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Good one, especially if it's really important to you. Yeah,
you should definitely put whatever is really important to you.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
That's what I think too. I think if you have
but I can, I'm sure saw them all out.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
People have been like, well I do that, and then
I don't get any hits.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
But that's fine, But that's better than you want the
right hits.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
But sometimes you could get somebody who changes their mind.
Look at your brother for example. You know what I'm
true wife. You might end up being like, yo, let's
have some children, but.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
That's also like to because you spend of them, and
then like no, I actually don't kids.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
To roll the dice for sure, all right.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Six one seven, nine three one one nine four five
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
I know it's tough out there. We're talking at dating,
love and relationships. It's beyond the swipe only on jam
and eighty four five. Come on, hi, everybody, good morning,
it's Ashley in the gam In Morning Show.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
I hate when you guys are doing Try stop dming
me and call me.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
I mean, it's fine, you can absolutely DM me at
Ashley Felman two he's on the Ashley, but I would
much rather you call. I don't know everyone's being so
shy today.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
And you can also be like Anonymous.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Yeah you got Anonymous.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
You could call and just you know, make up Chelsea
from Randolph. You know, I always go to Randolph. I
don't know why. I don't know what it is about Randolph,
but I always use that. But in the meantime six
one seven, nine three one one nine four five six
one seven nine three one one nine four or five
you have a dating story, relationship stories. You need advice,
you want to complain about the apps, being single, anything
(04:57):
you want. I already know the two of you are
going to say about this, and I like, this is
to me encapsulates why dating is trashed these days because
everybody is overthinking everything.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Guy just d m me.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
He and this girl are going out in a first
date for some odd reason. She wants to go out
Sunday morning for brunch. Do we know what Sunday morning is?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
It's Easter Jesus.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
So she clearly has hates her family or has none
or whatever, you know, and she doesn't want to be
with them, or maybe she really doesn't have any, which
is also sad. But either way, he agreed to it,
and now he's saying feels pressure like that he needs
to shoot, like basically saying to.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Me, Ashley, should I just bring something small? It's a
first date. Should I bring her something small chocolate for.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Easter for Easter? No, it's too much.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
No, it's this is where it's getting crazy.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
I remember it's the first story.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Can I also say I remember somebody had hit us
about going on. I think it was like a fourth
or fifth date on Valentine's Day, and I did say
to that, Yeah, like you could bring a little something Easter.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
But you don't think it's odd that she wants to
go out on Easter for brunch. I think that's even
odd in itself. He should have said no, one said
like a different day and just said he's meeting up
with his family.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Okay, but I know, but like that's just hypothetical. Maybe
she doesn't have a family, and she doesn't she's going
to see everybody's posts on Easter and be like, damn,
I wish I was with my family. So she wants
to go do something to distract her. You know there's
people like that too.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Yeah, but she I feel like she could find some
friends to go tag along with to their holiday, to
their birthday or sorry to.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
The family, seventy things, but Easter thrown off.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
She wants to go on a day on Easter like
before church in the middle of the day, doesn't go
to church. I just think it's Easter. They do with family,
they do not for first day.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
I'm not mad at the Eastern thing. Again, some people
don't don't get along with a family. Some people, like
you said, don't got family. Maybe she works a lot,
and this is only.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Tom all well, and I said, maybe she doesn't want
to be some that's like looking at her phone like damn,
everybody's doing Easter things and I'm not.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
But listen, I'm not mad at it. What I'm mad
at is the chocolate.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Could he listen, I'm putting myself in this situation. Easter brunch.
He shows up and he slides me like a reasty
cup egg bro Stop.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Stop. The only time I'll even consider anybody should consider
on the first day doing that if it just so
happens to like fall on their birthday or like Valentine's
Day for some odd reason. And you're just like, let
me just be a little bit more romantic, you know
what I mean? Show my good Easter by the.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Way, just wrote me. Y'all are reading into it too much.
It was just the day that worked. Well, I'm sorry, you.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Tell me, the only day that works is Easter. And
in all, in the entire year.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Someone who wants to buy her a chocolate bunny broo much.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Honestly, okay, candy wise hit her with a jelly bean.
It doesn't say too much chocolate means love. Jelly Maybe
like one of those little eggs that they sell the
pre made ones over at CBS where there's a starbars
or a jelly that's like, Hey, I'm nodding that it's Easter,
but I'm not committing to you. That's not like Phillip's
chocolate or something something off.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
With this girl. No, I say just leave the date
just wholeheartedly.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
We're quote reading into it too much though, but I listen,
does it show that he's thinking about with the day that?
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Yes, it does. It does give that off. It gives
that impression.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Could be a nice thing to do.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Yes, put it this way. That's me. I don't feel
weird if he if he, you know, slides over lint
l a n DT.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
Chocolate, anybody would. I don't think anybody would feel weird.
It's just like, but why, We'll never meant why. No,
it's like, why why are we doing the extu? You
might go on this date and she might be horrible.
You're gonna regret buying that candy.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
It's a dollar it's a dollar egg.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
I'll still regret it. Like, why do not waste my
time to get that? You gotta go divert to a
different store, go to a dollar tree. Or something. Go
look through the aisle, buy it. Go deal with the
rude register person at the register. Jump back in your car,
drive over there, smile and be like, yo, I'm about
to hell out of shorty as you get there. Come on,
I got it.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Get her a pack of peeps.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
That's even worse.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
No one likes them. No, listen, listen, listen.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Listens are discussed.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
That's what I mean. They're gross. No one likes them.
But it acknowledges it's Easter. And I picked you up because.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
That's an that bro.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
Don't do that. Don't listen to Ashley. I'd rather you
buy her the chocolate bunny. Go ahead, do that.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
Kelsey is in Rhode Island, Kelsey, I stop it. She
knows what Sunday is. You can't escape, Are you kidding me?
Everybody knows it's Easter.
Speaker 5 (09:46):
I honestly forgot that it was Easter until this past week.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Okay, but your hip now this past week. But you
know you can't. It's everywhere.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
If she doesn't celebrate, what if it's what if?
Speaker 6 (09:58):
What if she's Jewish? Jewish? Oh?
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Good point, it's not on their radar. You know it's
not on their rad that's.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
How that's a solid And then what if she's offended
for the chocolate bunny or the peep?
Speaker 6 (10:10):
You know this is I don't think he needs to
bring anything on a first date.
Speaker 4 (10:13):
Yeah he doesn't.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Okay, thanks?
Speaker 6 (10:16):
I think yes is good enough.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Yeah that's true. I mean thanks, Kels.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
And who knows, maybe that person doesn't celebrate and whatever,
but okay.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
So yeah, I wouldn't think it weird. Like, forget it's Easter,
y'all wouldn't think it weird if a guy showed up
to a date with a first day if.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Yes, I would, but it's because of the holiday. Any
other time it is straight stage five clinger. But if
it's Valentine's Day and you just haven't have a first
day or Easter and you fine.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
Valentine's Birth?
Speaker 3 (10:48):
What is your guys offense to the bunny? Like, let
the bunny hop around and deliver it's chocolate. If we
miss anything, you know, you can DM me.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
But I would love a call six one seven, nine
three one one for five are talking dating, love relationships?
Speaker 3 (11:02):
It's beyond this white.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Hi, everybody, Good morning, sashly in the gym of morning.
So dating is so weird these days, and I listen.
I think this segment really proves that that it's just
not it's not easy out there. What do I put
on my dating profiles?
Speaker 3 (11:17):
What do I bring to a date? If it's on Easter?
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Guy hits me in the DMS. I wish he would crawl.
I'm still trying to get him to call, but he won't.
But girl asked him to go out Sunday. They're going
to brunch. He's like, do I acknowledge that it's Easter?
Speaker 3 (11:32):
I said, listen, that's me. I don't mind if somebody
passes me a chocolate bunny. I like candy.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
Uh. But the boys are like, absolutely not. That's that's
a little too much. Well Son, you're kind of in
the middle on it.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
I think the whole day of the date is odd completely.
The girl sounds lonely.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
Anonymous says Anonymous.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
I like this.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
I like this attitude, putting us in our place a
little bit.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
You think it's weird that we're saying it's weird to
bring a gift because back in the like chivalry is dead.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
Essentially.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
Yes, it's so crazy to me to hear kind of
like the general consensus was like, no, this is weird.
Where men used to show up with flowers on your
first date to court you, and everybody's like, no, only
if it's a Valentine's Day or a birthday. And it's like, what, no,
bring back the men that are bringing stuff on dates.
(12:22):
A flower, A little stuffed bunny would be cute, you know,
like you said, chocolate, but men bring something to a date,
show a pre something like.
Speaker 6 (12:32):
So that was my big no.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
And I don't hate you for that take.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
And as I take a step back, and I'm like,
if I'm talking to somebody and we're leading up to this,
this first date, and he, you.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Know, he brings something. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Maybe I had mentioned to him that I liked twizzlers
and he brings I don't know. I can't put myself
in I think it was weird or not. But my
point is like, listen, these holidays, you want to go
out on a date, It's okay to show the person like, hey,
I'm acknowledging that the Easter bunny came today and he
brought this bunny of chocolate to my house for you.
Speaker 4 (13:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (13:04):
Yeah, yes, even if somebody Another caller said that. Another
point that a caller said before me was if she
that's just not her religion and stuff, and that's even
sweet even if she wasn't celebrating. But the other person
is of that denomination wants to be like, Hey, this
is my holiday and you know we're going on a
day today. Here's something cute, even if they're not of
that religion. I feel like that's sweet and heart So, oh, guys,
(13:27):
come on, he has risen.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Here is a jelly bean. You know what I mean?
Speaker 7 (13:33):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (13:34):
All right, an otymous thanks for the call. Thoren says,
we have to very quickly. Where do you want to
talk to for say? Sway? Are you saying sway? Either way?
You're bringing something to the date, whether it's on Easter,
on a holiday or not.
Speaker 6 (13:50):
Well, this same sway. This is Tony from Decha.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
Oh my bad, Tony.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
That's no real quick only.
Speaker 6 (13:57):
Thing you got to bring to the date? You bringing
his wallet and he's paying for the food. I mean,
what else more does she want? Because I don't know you,
you don't know me, but I'm not expecting nothing but
the girl that was just on the phone previously. Oh, guys,
bring something to the date. Every time you go out
with your man. What if he bring it to the date,
that money out of his wallet to pay for your food.
(14:17):
So there's the gift right now.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
Yeah, but that's different. We're in the courting phase here.
Speaker 6 (14:21):
We're not together, all right, so look at it asthlete.
We're not we're not in a relationship. We're dating for
the first time. I'm still paying for your food because
I'm not asking you to do nothing.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
No, and I like that out of you.
Speaker 7 (14:32):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
But well, okay, bye, I get what I get it.
Speaker 4 (14:37):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
It's just it's weird out there because.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
By the way, I believe this in my soul that
there are some females that would be like like texting
their girlfriends like, oh god, he brought me.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
He brought me jellybeans?
Speaker 4 (14:47):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (14:49):
He brought Swedish fish.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
But it is a nice thing to do. I just
think the Eastern candy doesn't hit like Valentine's Day though, No,
but it's so cute.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
It like he sits down and he puts a cadberry
egg on the table.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Come on, and then they have some ham. Right, Yeah, fine,
it's true.
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Maybe like a mimosa, but for you know, a big
slab of Ham as well. We love you guys as always,
Thank you for participating.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
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Speaker 3 (15:18):
Good morning after Tuesday
Dashy and the jam In Morning Show with DJ Foreurn.
It's Sauntic Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four five.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
We're gonna start beyond the swipe out with a DM
I got and I love it because it's a specific
question for Foreign and Santi. But in the meantime six
one seven nine three one one nine four five. That
is six one seven nine three one one nine four five,
we're talking dating, love relationships. You could be in one
guys and want to ask us for advice. You could
(00:32):
be telling me a story. Uh it just you know,
it's so much more than just a tender story.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
We hear the craziest things.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
We also hear hear people just call in to get
it off their chest and complain that it's hard out there.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I get it.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
I do six one seven nine three one one nine
four five and know someone's in the corege.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Shut the hell up. You don't get it. You're married,
you have kids, bitch, all right?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
So this DM is from Annabelle. She wants to know,
specifically newly single. She's asking Santy and Foreign, what is
something that she could put on her dating profile that
would make her stand out from the rest of the girls.
Like you guys are just in there, you're you're quickly swiping.
What's something that would stand out to you? And I say,
we go beyond looks, right, because that's gonna be neurou.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Now for me, it's easy. It's something professional that makes
me feel like you have goals and they're not just
out here just doing like something that you have goals
in your focus on your careers.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Ambitious, go gett okay, gonna hook me?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I know because probably AJ saying the same thing. How
does one show they're an ambitious go get her?
Speaker 4 (01:33):
You said, what would they put on their profile? Like, yeah,
if you say I'm ambitious, go get them? Maybe they say,
you know.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Just those words. What about like just like employed.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Because you could be.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
A bad employee.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
There you go, okay, so you can be employed just
you know, again, no knock to anybody like that, but
you just have no driving.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Jay's editing her profile.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Now. I want somebody to tell me that the ambition
and they got drive once you talk to them, or
you kind of see you know what I mean. And
I'm in too. Travel now, so if I see that
you travel a lot, I might. I might. Yeah, oh okay, that.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Will take Well, since we're here, what kind of photos
do you want to say? Not group pictures because I
know guys don't like group pictures because what you.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Know, what your profession is. Yeah, if you're claiming to
be a nurse, for instance, you know what I'm saying, scrubs. Yeah,
if you if you claim to be a lawyer in
the courthouse, are you talking about your law firm or whatever?
It is just things to show that you're ambitious. If
you're ambitious person and you're doing your thing, you're going
to kind of show off that side of yourself. You know.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Also pictures of yourself like having fun And I'm not
talking about battie ones with like all your friends with
your butt out in the air, like you laughing, having
like a good time. No, but those battye pictures I
don't like.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
I don't like to picture.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Yeah, will talk for himself. I want to see the
out yeo, get out, because if you ain't got one.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Talking, that must be so hard.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
I'm sure do you go through this, but like you know,
you're trying to showcase yourself here on an app where
people are.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Shopping for humans so I understand the.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Question is what I'm saying, I think, and then I
wouldn't mind, uh if they have kids, A picture with
your kid, if it's yours.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yes, yeah, I don't mind kids.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Yeah, because some people both pictures of kids that aren't
there and the impression is that they have multiple kids and
all this stuff.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
So okay, picture of the kids or just in the profile.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I'm also a mom either.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
And how do you guys feel about people.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Right away putting on the profile they want kids or
they don't want kids.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Yeah, if you don't even want I mean, that's actually
good to put because if you want kids, then yeah,
me and you are not talking.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Right that, Like my dad would say the same thing.
But you know that's a.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Good one, especially if it's really important to you. Yeah,
you should definitely put whatever is really important to you.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
That's what I think too. I think if you have
but I can, I'm sure saw them all out.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
People have been like, well I do that, and then
I don't get any hits.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
But that's fine, But that's better than you want the
right hits.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
But sometimes you could get somebody who changes their mind.
Look at your brother for example. You know what I'm
true wife. You might end up being like, yo, let's
have some children, but.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
That's also like to because you spend of them, and
then like no, I actually don't kids.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
To roll the dice for sure, all right.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Six one seven, nine three one one nine four five
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
I know it's tough out there. We're talking at dating,
love and relationships. It's beyond the swipe only on jam
and eighty four five. Come on, hi, everybody, good morning,
it's Ashley in the gam In Morning Show.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
I hate when you guys are doing Try stop dming
me and call me.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
I mean, it's fine, you can absolutely DM me at
Ashley Felman two he's on the Ashley, but I would
much rather you call. I don't know everyone's being so
shy today.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
And you can also be like Anonymous.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Yeah you got Anonymous.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
You could call and just you know, make up Chelsea
from Randolph. You know, I always go to Randolph. I
don't know why. I don't know what it is about Randolph,
but I always use that. But in the meantime six
one seven, nine three one one nine four five six
one seven nine three one one nine four or five
you have a dating story, relationship stories. You need advice,
you want to complain about the apps, being single, anything
(04:57):
you want. I already know the two of you are
going to say about this, and I like, this is
to me encapsulates why dating is trashed these days because
everybody is overthinking everything.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Guy just d m me.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
He and this girl are going out in a first
date for some odd reason. She wants to go out
Sunday morning for brunch. Do we know what Sunday morning is?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
It's Easter Jesus.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
So she clearly has hates her family or has none
or whatever, you know, and she doesn't want to be
with them, or maybe she really doesn't have any, which
is also sad. But either way, he agreed to it,
and now he's saying feels pressure like that he needs
to shoot, like basically saying to.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Me, Ashley, should I just bring something small? It's a
first date. Should I bring her something small chocolate for.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Easter for Easter? No, it's too much.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
No, it's this is where it's getting crazy.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
I remember it's the first story.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Can I also say I remember somebody had hit us
about going on. I think it was like a fourth
or fifth date on Valentine's Day, and I did say
to that, Yeah, like you could bring a little something Easter.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
But you don't think it's odd that she wants to
go out on Easter for brunch. I think that's even
odd in itself. He should have said no, one said
like a different day and just said he's meeting up
with his family.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Okay, but I know, but like that's just hypothetical. Maybe
she doesn't have a family, and she doesn't she's going
to see everybody's posts on Easter and be like, damn,
I wish I was with my family. So she wants
to go do something to distract her. You know there's
people like that too.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Yeah, but she I feel like she could find some
friends to go tag along with to their holiday, to
their birthday or sorry to.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
The family, seventy things, but Easter thrown off.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
She wants to go on a day on Easter like
before church in the middle of the day, doesn't go
to church. I just think it's Easter. They do with family,
they do not for first day.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
I'm not mad at the Eastern thing. Again, some people
don't don't get along with a family. Some people, like
you said, don't got family. Maybe she works a lot,
and this is only.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Tom all well, and I said, maybe she doesn't want
to be some that's like looking at her phone like damn,
everybody's doing Easter things and I'm not.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
But listen, I'm not mad at it. What I'm mad
at is the chocolate.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Could he listen, I'm putting myself in this situation. Easter brunch.
He shows up and he slides me like a reasty
cup egg bro Stop.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Stop. The only time I'll even consider anybody should consider
on the first day doing that if it just so
happens to like fall on their birthday or like Valentine's
Day for some odd reason. And you're just like, let
me just be a little bit more romantic, you know
what I mean? Show my good Easter by the.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Way, just wrote me. Y'all are reading into it too much.
It was just the day that worked. Well, I'm sorry, you.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Tell me, the only day that works is Easter. And
in all, in the entire year.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Someone who wants to buy her a chocolate bunny broo much.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Honestly, okay, candy wise hit her with a jelly bean.
It doesn't say too much chocolate means love. Jelly Maybe
like one of those little eggs that they sell the
pre made ones over at CBS where there's a starbars
or a jelly that's like, Hey, I'm nodding that it's Easter,
but I'm not committing to you. That's not like Phillip's
chocolate or something something off.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
With this girl. No, I say just leave the date
just wholeheartedly.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
We're quote reading into it too much though, but I listen,
does it show that he's thinking about with the day that?
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Yes, it does. It does give that off. It gives
that impression.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Could be a nice thing to do.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Yes, put it this way. That's me. I don't feel
weird if he if he, you know, slides over lint
l a n DT.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
Chocolate, anybody would. I don't think anybody would feel weird.
It's just like, but why, We'll never meant why. No,
it's like, why why are we doing the extu? You
might go on this date and she might be horrible.
You're gonna regret buying that candy.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
It's a dollar it's a dollar egg.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
I'll still regret it. Like, why do not waste my
time to get that? You gotta go divert to a
different store, go to a dollar tree. Or something. Go
look through the aisle, buy it. Go deal with the
rude register person at the register. Jump back in your car,
drive over there, smile and be like, yo, I'm about
to hell out of shorty as you get there. Come on,
I got it.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Get her a pack of peeps.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
That's even worse.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
No one likes them. No, listen, listen, listen.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Listens are discussed.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
That's what I mean. They're gross. No one likes them.
But it acknowledges it's Easter. And I picked you up because.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
That's an that bro.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
Don't do that. Don't listen to Ashley. I'd rather you
buy her the chocolate bunny. Go ahead, do that.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
Kelsey is in Rhode Island, Kelsey, I stop it. She
knows what Sunday is. You can't escape, Are you kidding me?
Everybody knows it's Easter.
Speaker 5 (09:46):
I honestly forgot that it was Easter until this past week.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Okay, but your hip now this past week. But you
know you can't. It's everywhere.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
If she doesn't celebrate, what if it's what if?
Speaker 6 (09:58):
What if she's Jewish? Jewish? Oh?
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Good point, it's not on their radar. You know it's
not on their rad that's.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
How that's a solid And then what if she's offended
for the chocolate bunny or the peep?
Speaker 6 (10:10):
You know this is I don't think he needs to
bring anything on a first date.
Speaker 4 (10:13):
Yeah he doesn't.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Okay, thanks?
Speaker 6 (10:16):
I think yes is good enough.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Yeah that's true. I mean thanks, Kels.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
And who knows, maybe that person doesn't celebrate and whatever,
but okay.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
So yeah, I wouldn't think it weird. Like, forget it's Easter,
y'all wouldn't think it weird if a guy showed up
to a date with a first day if.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Yes, I would, but it's because of the holiday. Any
other time it is straight stage five clinger. But if
it's Valentine's Day and you just haven't have a first
day or Easter and you fine.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
Valentine's Birth?
Speaker 3 (10:48):
What is your guys offense to the bunny? Like, let
the bunny hop around and deliver it's chocolate. If we
miss anything, you know, you can DM me.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
But I would love a call six one seven, nine
three one one for five are talking dating, love relationships?
Speaker 3 (11:02):
It's beyond this white.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Hi, everybody, Good morning, sashly in the gym of morning.
So dating is so weird these days, and I listen.
I think this segment really proves that that it's just
not it's not easy out there. What do I put
on my dating profiles?
Speaker 3 (11:17):
What do I bring to a date? If it's on Easter?
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Guy hits me in the DMS. I wish he would crawl.
I'm still trying to get him to call, but he won't.
But girl asked him to go out Sunday. They're going
to brunch. He's like, do I acknowledge that it's Easter?
Speaker 3 (11:32):
I said, listen, that's me. I don't mind if somebody
passes me a chocolate bunny. I like candy.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
Uh. But the boys are like, absolutely not. That's that's
a little too much. Well Son, you're kind of in
the middle on it.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
I think the whole day of the date is odd completely.
The girl sounds lonely.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
Anonymous says Anonymous.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
I like this.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
I like this attitude, putting us in our place a
little bit.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
You think it's weird that we're saying it's weird to
bring a gift because back in the like chivalry is dead.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
Essentially.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
Yes, it's so crazy to me to hear kind of
like the general consensus was like, no, this is weird.
Where men used to show up with flowers on your
first date to court you, and everybody's like, no, only
if it's a Valentine's Day or a birthday. And it's like, what, no,
bring back the men that are bringing stuff on dates.
(12:22):
A flower, A little stuffed bunny would be cute, you know,
like you said, chocolate, but men bring something to a date,
show a pre something like.
Speaker 6 (12:32):
So that was my big no.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
And I don't hate you for that take.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
And as I take a step back, and I'm like,
if I'm talking to somebody and we're leading up to this,
this first date, and he, you.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Know, he brings something. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Maybe I had mentioned to him that I liked twizzlers
and he brings I don't know. I can't put myself
in I think it was weird or not. But my
point is like, listen, these holidays, you want to go
out on a date, It's okay to show the person like, hey,
I'm acknowledging that the Easter bunny came today and he
brought this bunny of chocolate to my house for you.
Speaker 4 (13:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (13:04):
Yeah, yes, even if somebody Another caller said that. Another
point that a caller said before me was if she
that's just not her religion and stuff, and that's even
sweet even if she wasn't celebrating. But the other person
is of that denomination wants to be like, Hey, this
is my holiday and you know we're going on a
day today. Here's something cute, even if they're not of
that religion. I feel like that's sweet and heart So, oh, guys,
(13:27):
come on, he has risen.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Here is a jelly bean. You know what I mean?
Speaker 7 (13:33):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (13:34):
All right, an otymous thanks for the call. Thoren says,
we have to very quickly. Where do you want to
talk to for say? Sway? Are you saying sway? Either way?
You're bringing something to the date, whether it's on Easter,
on a holiday or not.
Speaker 6 (13:50):
Well, this same sway. This is Tony from Decha.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
Oh my bad, Tony.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
That's no real quick only.
Speaker 6 (13:57):
Thing you got to bring to the date? You bringing
his wallet and he's paying for the food. I mean,
what else more does she want? Because I don't know you,
you don't know me, but I'm not expecting nothing but
the girl that was just on the phone previously. Oh, guys,
bring something to the date. Every time you go out
with your man. What if he bring it to the date,
that money out of his wallet to pay for your food.
(14:17):
So there's the gift right now.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
Yeah, but that's different. We're in the courting phase here.
Speaker 6 (14:21):
We're not together, all right, so look at it asthlete.
We're not we're not in a relationship. We're dating for
the first time. I'm still paying for your food because
I'm not asking you to do nothing.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
No, and I like that out of you.
Speaker 7 (14:32):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
But well, okay, bye, I get what I get it.
Speaker 4 (14:37):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
It's just it's weird out there because.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
By the way, I believe this in my soul that
there are some females that would be like like texting
their girlfriends like, oh god, he brought me.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
He brought me jellybeans?
Speaker 4 (14:47):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (14:49):
He brought Swedish fish.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
But it is a nice thing to do. I just
think the Eastern candy doesn't hit like Valentine's Day though, No,
but it's so cute.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
It like he sits down and he puts a cadberry
egg on the table.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Come on, and then they have some ham. Right, Yeah, fine,
it's true.
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Maybe like a mimosa, but for you know, a big
slab of Ham as well. We love you guys as always,
Thank you for participating.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
You can call us, or you can Dowald the free
iHeartRadio app, put on jammin and leave us to talk back.
Speaker 3 (15:18):
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