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Hi girlies, welcome to Girl Please podcast.
It's Elena here. Hey bitches, it's Amanda.
Happy Valentine's Day, Fiona's. What a day we love you when you
band shows you once a year. He like you.
Not mine though, not yours. Though I want to say there's
been APSA going around and I want to reiterate it because I
love it. While it is a blessing to be in
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a happy and healthy relationship, it is always
better to be single than to be in a toxic relationship.
Always. There is really nothing wrong
with being single. Like, I feel like there's this
fear of like being in a relationship that you don't, you
like, have to be stuck in it because you're so afraid to like
be alone. And it's like you're not alone.
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There's so much love around you.There's so much to do.
There's so much love to give yourself and like live your life
for you. And I just want to say it is so
much better over here when you are in a bad relationship.
But when you're in a good one, amazing, like amazing a
blessing. Like I wish that for all of us
one day. But like, it is so much better
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than sticking to a man just to be in a relationship.
Don't do that to yourself. There's so much better for you.
I agree, I think kind of like you mentioned, at the end of the
day you love yourself. Go buy yourself a gift for every
day you know. Remind yourself of the Queen you
are. My therapist always says like
romanticize your life. So if you're going to sit there
and like watch a show, like I always I'll say yes.
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Like having been in a long term relationship for five years and
then being single, I feel like Ialways like cooked a really nice
meal and did all these things for him where like for me, I'm
like, oh girl, dinner, like one meal a day type of situation.
And I was like one day it just hit me where I was like, why
don't I make myself the nice meal?
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And like when I'm sitting on thecouch and I put on a show, like
I light my candle, I put on a face mask.
I like dim the lights, I make itvibey and get my blankie and my
pup. And it's like, it's such a mood
and the concept of like romanticizing your life.
Like she said it, but like I started naturally kind of just
doing these things and she's like, that's it.
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That's romanticizing your life, exactly what you're doing for
Valentine's Day. First of all, we had the best.
Valentine's Day, Yes, we spent time with these.
We had a really nice day together and I also like bought
myself these really cute, so cute.
The cutest sneakers that were like a Valentine's edition.
They were Nike, but I I don't know if they were just for kids
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because they got them from kids,but all.
I buy is kids. Because like we're so tiny that
we wear kids clothes, kids shoes.
And so there were they were fromkids foot Locker, but they had
like little like Nike with a heart on it on the inside.
It's like be me instead of be mine, which I thought was so
cute with little hearts around it.
So I like bought them for my myself, but they came in to my
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package room and I did not. So what I did was I like took
the shoe box out of like the package box, but I wrapped it.
I didn't open them and I like had it pretty pink.
So like when I woke up, like I, it was just like, why not?
So? And I feel like those are the
things that she means when she says romance has your life and
they make you feel so freaking good.
Like, you know, when I was single, yeah, I go out all the
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time, a lot. Yeah, I don't care, especially
on like holidays. I'm like, you know, if I'm home
and I don't go home for Easter, I'm going to go sit at a bar,
have myself a nice meal, a drink, read a book.
So I agree with that and I love going out.
So me and my partner do that a lot.
But and I also last thing I wantto say about Valentine's Day,
and I don't care what any girl says, like yes, my man makes me
feel special all the time, but Ifeel like Valentine's that day
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where a man needs to show up foryou.
And I'm not saying you have to go out, but like, do something,
you know, I think I think it matters to women and I think a
man needs to at least get flowers.
Do. Something sometimes it's like I
feel like it comes across as a little bit of a defense.
I agree 1000% that you don't just show up on Valentine's Day
like you have to be putting in that effort and be that man year
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round for it to mean something. Otherwise it really doesn't and
you just roll your eyes at it. However, I do think that no
matter what, like yes, every girl, it's going to make them
give them butterflies and make them feel special.
And I think it's totally. You are not taking me out if you
did not make reservations. I am not waiting an hour or two
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to sit down and eat because it'sValentine's.
Period. That, that is so crazy.
I remember last year when I, I was telling you the story and
like we went to this really nicerestaurant and obviously, you
know, you walk right in, 'cause like I would like obviously like
bare minimum, you make a reservation.
Like I always had a nice Valentine's Day.
Fine, we walk right in. We walked past a line that was
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wrapped around the restaurant. It's so embarrassing.
I would be cranky if I were thatwoman.
I would be like, listen, let's just go home.
Like, this is silly at this point.
We're sitting for and you're standing there, gorgeous women
in heels in these beautiful dresses, dolled up to the nines
to stand on line for. And it was February freezing.
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It was freezing here. I can't imagine somewhere else,
like if it were in Florida, go home like that.
And I was like, Oh my God. And I felt bad, like walking
past these people like that. That's insane.
And I feel like this is comes back to the standard you set.
A man does that to you because he knows you'll be grateful that
you at least went out. I've always said this and I have
never like taken seriously or dated somebody that hasn't
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courted me. If you're not from the first
date, setting up a date setting reservation, I won't even
explore it to be honest. And I think there's different
phases like if you just want to be hooking up or chilling or
hanging out with somebody, that's totally cool.
But like I would not expect and maybe it naturally happens and
it just happens for you. But like, if you're looking for
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dating with intention for like towards a long term relationship
or marriage, set it up that way.Show up different.
Yeah. So like, I just do not tolerate
somebody that's not willing to do that.
Like if the first time you guys hang out and he wants to like
invite you out when he's out with his friend somewhere at a
bar or like go over to someone'shome or whatever.
Like you can do that, but it's it doesn't, it's not showing
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intention. And I don't care.
I already know women are gonna freaking come at me for this,
but I don't care. Going for a walk, going to grab
coffee. Like no, like I'm sorry.
I might as well be penthouse. Like people are doing the coffee
thing. I I get it.
If you're like maybe not really sure you wanna see.
If I'm attracted to this person,do they look like they're
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pictures? This.
Is when I'd rather grab a drink and then I'm like, oh, this
ain't working out, but I had a drink and I forgot.
I'm going home. Nice evening, goodbye.
But I think for people maybe whodon't drink coffee could be a
good option. Like I've never done that.
I've never personally done that.I can understand somebody who's
unsure wanting to not be locked into a long term like as a
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woman, like, you know, we're forthe girl, he's here.
So I'm thinking like, I personally for me, the way I
like to get that out of the way is a FaceTime.
I like to do a FaceTime, see thevibe.
I think women should FaceTime before going on any day.
Yes, I totally agree. Like that for me is the way that
like I feel like I've always done it.
Is it weeds it out in the beginning.
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You see if you have a little banter, you see what they look
like, how you guys are feeling. And then I'll be like, OK, I'll
go to dinner. But I think sometimes people may
want to do that just to like seehow they feel 1st.
And it's not my choice. Yeah, it's not my choice, but I
get it. I never get it.
Yeah. I I mean, yeah.
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I just I. Just I don't want to knock if
like people go on do that. I would meet like a girl on
bumblebee FF to grab coffee. I would meet if I'm going on an
interview. Yeah, you want some coffee?
Like, I know you know, But I also feel like we've also, and I
and I would say we've been fortunate, but it's actually not
true. It's because we've been
intentional about it. Like we've always had someone
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roll out the red carpet for our dates.
We've never not been treated like so well, I don't know,
first date every time. Like I just think that and like
the effort sometimes, like even with how with your boyfriend,
like driving an hour How I Met my ex too, like the overwhelming
effort to for those initial dates sets a standard and I you
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know. What else I've done in the past
that I'm like I look back on, I'm like, I was gonna but like
kind of like you mentioned, likedriving to the person instead of
them coming to me the first timeI look back at myself and I'm
like, what would? Well, those obviously didn't
work out because I kind of saw the bare minimum they were
already doing from the GET, yes,but yeah, I can't.
But I think that also is why we're always going to date the
man who makes the reservation and does the things because
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like, we've set a standard. We're like, yeah, the first
date, if we live far from each other, you're coming to the
woman. And a lot of times the men that
we date, you don't have to explain it to them because
that's that's how they show up, you know, and it's but you learn
that. You learn that, yes, I learned
that we were. Young like we were stupid.
I'm helping new women out now. Dumb.
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And I just want to say too, thatlike I think I was for being in
a relationship for five years, like I was, it's like you kind
of get comfortable with certain things.
And then you see a lot of women on the other side because I am
now that woman on the other side.
And they say like, oh, it's so much better over here or this or
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that, or I'm living for me or I love my.
And you think when you watch it,like maybe when I was in my
relationship, I would watch it and it looks really nice and it
sounds good, but you feel that it comes off as a defense.
Like, no, they're like, you know, they just, it's a pause.
There's some. I feel like some of them are
definitely like. Like say, yes, there's probably
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people that are just like, it's a defense mechanism and they're
really like just trying to act like they're so happy, but
they're not. But I am telling you, like it is
so fully true. If you're in a situation that is
not that does not serve you and you're settling, it is such a
release. It is such a feeling of peace,
of calmness, of just like I feellike such gratitude and like I
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wake up every day and I'm like, Oh my God, I'm in such heaven.
I also can't be friends with girls that are like, misery
loves company kind of single. Yeah.
And you know, like with me beingin a relationship and with you
being single, I would say like you're so positive, you're so
great. You're not like a like a hater.
Like there's some people that. Just love and I want everyone
around me. To be happy yes, and I think
that's the way to be like I evenme when I was single, my friends
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relationship. I'm happy for them.
You know, they chose their partner partner chose them.
That's great, that's beautiful. I love it.
You know I will never be like he's coming to you know like I
can't do that and there's girls like that they're like and I'm
like that's why you can't find aman.
You need to change that Oasis. Yes, well, first of all, and and
you know the balance, it's not like you bring your man around
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anyways, but like you always. But it's like when the way I
feel is like I get so excited, like when we went out for Super
Bowl and you're I was so excitedbecause your boyfriend works a
lot and I'm like, Oh my God, he can finally come out with us.
Like this is so nice. Like that's how you should feel.
And it's like my friends, partners are family and I, I
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mean, I literally when you go through something in life, like
you also see other people's truecolors.
And there were people that were like single around me who were
like, yay, she's single. Like finally I have a single
friend. Like if you want to know why I
don't talk to you anymore, that's why you were celebrating
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my breakup. Like you want me to be miserable
with you. Like it's so my message here,
pick, pick up what I'm putting down.
I can't believe anyone would saythat, that I would come out of.
Someone, Oh my God, I'm not the only one in the club anymore.
And you were like, what are you talking about?
And I go, she's talking about the single she's cheering on and
the fact that I'm going through a break.
I know. People, that's stupid.
But and that that moment, too, was like day three.
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Like it was like I was. It was you.
Every day like that was a reallyfresh time and you looked at me
and I was like, we gotta go, we got it, 'cause I just.
Say it, I'll punch her for. For legal purposes, that is a.
Joke. I'm joking.
I would never put hands on anyone.
No, but it like, that's why that's why I've been watching
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too much baddies more. That's why I don't talk to you
anymore. But yeah, like I, I love love
and I know it like it'll happen one day, but I'm so good.
Where? I'm I hope everyone had a nice
Valentine's Day. Yes, you got exactly what you
wanted. So.
So yeah, I got a Dyson. She did look at her hair.
Oh my God. Thank you, Gina.
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She's stunning. She's a star.
OK, let's pivot into our new relationship.
Speaking of Valentine's Day, KimK Kimi K Kim Kardashian debut.
Well, she made her like, she kind of launched at the Super
Bowl, her relationship with Lewis Hamilton, who is an F1
driver. And I, you know what, at first I
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wasn't like sure how I feel because I'm, I feel so
protective of my girls. But I just think he's like such
good energy. He's age appropriate.
He's in his 40s. He is so good at what he does.
He's like an elevated athlete. Like in a way that's just like,
I was listening to Giggly Squad and they were like, it's so chic
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a race car driver. And I was like, yes.
And she's like, and Paige was like how you know, like you have
to go to Monaco, like it's elite, like you need money to go
to these races. And it's Kim is just rolling up
in her front. And I'm like, yes, like I love
this for her. I feel like it's calm.
And I've seen him like just likegracefully speak out on like
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certain issues, just like in such like taking such care with
his words. And I was like, what a change up
from Kanye. This is refreshing.
What? A change up from all of them
from all of. Them so I'm like, get it Kim, I
love. That I shipped it from the
beginning yeah I like new like not all in the public eye kind
of men you know I I. Feel like thirsting for fame?
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No, I had no idea who he wasn't too.
I like I know him now because ofhim.
I didn't know who he was before.Darn.
Which I'm saying like I'm sure people in that field know him
for like wow. Like I'm not seeing him dating
all like these. Yes, so and can we just say like
she goes on my tits out? No.
I. No, I wasn't.
I was actually looking at your nails and I had a moment but you
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were touching your tits. OK, I'm going to take 2 seconds
to say how pissed off I was because I got these cat eye
nails done by the same person that that's what I was thinking.
I just had a moment of rage for two seconds and he kept it.
I got so mad because she has cateye.
French and I went to the same guy who did cat eye for me but
he was in a rush. I felt him.
He was doing 2 hands at once. He was trying to when I get out
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the door, I was like, I'm never booking him in the last hour
that the salon is open. And he didn't even do another
layer underneath. He didn't keep the magnet on.
And my cat eye didn't look like that.
And you know it. You saw my cat eye.
Oh yeah. It was like not cat eye.
No, it was like unfinished nails.
And yours just shines bright like a diamond in all ways
watching. I'm so pissed.
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So I just thought to myself, wow, fuck that guy even though I
love him. We love you.
But I am a. Little, but don't be rushing my
sis, no? More so pissed see up.
Anyways, so that was that moment, but I don't even know
what we were saying about. Kim K and yes, yeah.
So I'm happy for her. We'll see how that plays out.
Yes, oh what I wanted to say wasthe Kendall thing.
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Oh yes, people need to stop withthose stupid weird markets.
Everyone's like, and they know it's not true, but they're like,
oh, Kendall dated Lewis like lollike making dragging Kim for
this. They never dated.
And it's so funny because the people who post this like when
people are commenting and they're like, oh, did they
actually date? And then they're posting like
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shrugging emojis like I don't know.
OK, so then why did you post this?
And it has millions of views andyou're spreading misinformation.
I literally went in, you know me.
Of course I can't hold it in sometimes.
And I commented and I was like you.
And because you could see too, the way that the poster was was
responding to comments like acting like, I don't know.
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So I was like, you know very well that they never dated, yet
you just here for the engagementand you don't care that you're
dragging someone in the process because you're getting
engagements. And that's disgusting.
It's ridiculous. I don't even know, I have no
words for it. It's like people just want to
talk out of their ass now. Like why can't people have been
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friends? Why can't a guy and a girl be
friends? That doesn't mean they were
together. Yes, like they probably they
met. They mentioned they were just.
Saying and like whatever, let itgo.
It's so unhinged. It's really unhinged.
So I just had to get that out there.
Crazy. I had to shoot down the rumors
real quick while we had the opportunity.
I saw the rumors and the first thing I did was went to Google
to see if it was true and. The Google's like no.
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And then I was like, I don't I'mnot a like, I'm not crazy about
the Kardashians, but I was just like, oh, it's not worth my
because I don't want to just saybecause, you know, I just like I
didn't like if there's some people I always defend our girl
head up, always defend. I would be in them comments.
But I was like, I know Elena's probably taking care of you
somewhere. Like Elena is our Kardashian
representative, she'll she'll handle business.
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I do want to say one other thingabout the Kardashians.
I love this era of Kylie. I used to have a love hate for
Kylie because I used to be like,why can't she be more real?
Why can't she be more her, you know?
And I feel that these days. She's growing up.
But she lied a lot. She lied.
OK, yeah, she overfilled. Lips, like, she was like, you
know, she, like, felt weird to come forward about things.
Yeah. And but she learned.
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She learned wrong from her sister.
And then she decided. Wait a minute.
Yeah. She grew up.
Like, I didn't know what. I can't believe she's how much
younger she really was when, like, we were all, like, when
she put, like, lip kits on the map and all that.
She was a kid. Yes.
She was a whole child. Yeah.
But yeah. And Kim just come out and just
release it. Like, we know your butt ain't
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real. It's OK.
I'm still 5050 on that bitch because I feel like they that
family. Just looks very do not.
I don't know, you know I love them to death.
I will defend anything I don't. Know.
Okay, hold on, I'm gonna show you one picture.
Maybe you haven't seen enough like to know.
No, I've, I don't know. I can't.
No, no, no. I feel like, you know, I feel
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like some people's stuff can be done very well.
It looks natural. And then there's people that I'm
just like, it's obvious, you know?
I'm just letting you know like there's no I'm promising.
Like I like maybe she like gets stuff moved from her stomach or
stuff like I'm saying like maybe.
She's gotten a fat transfer for sure.
I don't think she has imprint plants.
That doesn't matter though. Like it's not in her butt and
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that's OK, but she that's so OK.I don't give a fuck.
Do it up. If I had a billion dollars, I
would look so good. Like I would look so good but I
also. Feel like Kylie like how she is
now a huge reason why she is also the way is minus like
obviously she's a lot older now she's grown.
I do think who you date too. Sorry she saw me.
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More pictures of Kim I keep showing her.
Kim's ass and I'm like sis. Stop.
I don't know. I don't know.
You don't know, OK? I'm just saying like I for you,
I don't have an issue with how I.
Have a problem? With with how any of the
Kardashians like what they do tothemselves, how they look like.
I think they look tasteful, likenone of them look bad.
They have great work where like there's some people I'm like,
you need to stop touching and. Kris Jenner that facelift bro
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godly. Yeah.
She's looking. Her 70th birthday was something.
She looked like this, like a star, like she is the star, but
like honey. And Kim was like, I'm just so
happy because now I know where to go.
And I was like yes, period, me too, period.
Me too, period. See, hurry up and subscribe.
Reshare girl please so that we can show.
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You we'll start a go fun with you.
What the after looks like honey period.
Speaking of our sis Huda Mustafa.
I love her so much, Oh my. God, what a queen.
New York Fashion Week art girl back at it at the Rick Ross Show
and she opened looking insane. I I love that whenever we see
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her, she's doing something. Oh my God, she's not out there
talking shit. She's not out there at freaking
DJ events like she. Is not chasing clout.
Yes, she's just living her life.She's being a mother.
Focus on her music, doing thingsthat are important to her, like
the fashion show. Yes, I'm here for.
Pop out with like a little like.Here's what I did and then it's
gone and it's just like, I feel like it's a great balance and
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she never like came out and was like doing all of these like
posts and lives and things and she really like it's very
tasteful and she's still protecting her like little her
life and her privacy. I watched her on that runway,
her outfit, her look, her hair and just the way she was just
like walking through. I was like, Oh my God, she looks
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incredible. She was eating.
I agree. And I would say out of everyone
in that season, obviously Nick and Alandra are doing their
thing. Yeah, I think some of the cast
did the show, like beyond the Villa, yes.
So which I haven't seen much of that.
I've seen a lot of Iris out yet.No, it's not.
But I mean, I think that's what they're working on.
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So have we have a seen Chris anywhere I want see.
My God, somebody shipped him overseas, I guess.
Who is Iris dating again? I don't know, I keep forgetting
his name. I.
Love that you know what it is. She's been with three different
guys there that I can't rememberthe No 3C.
Pepe, it's Hannah. Fuck.
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Hello. I'm getting my blondes confused.
OK, you're right too. Anyway, look a lot.
I love they're just blondes. I love Iris and we love the TJ.
They're so cute. I love them, they're adorable.
I do want to know what's going on with like the friendships
though, because we're always going to be hoda hoda hoda.
But like Iris and Huda and Amaya, like what's up with that?
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I would like to know. But I love Iris and TJ together.
Yes, obsessed with them. Honestly I hope Huda is not
friends with. I mean she said she is friends
with I guess someone asked her about does she still talk to
some of her cast mates and she said yes but I'm OK if she
doesn't. Yeah, whatever she wants.
You know, like after everything that happened with Huda Beauty,
some of them came for. It's just unnecessary.
I don't know, I just feel like. I agree with that.
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And I think it was so tasteful that when they were like, oh,
you're friends with some of the cast, she said.
Yes. And and they said who?
And she's like, I don't wanna dothat.
I love that she's so private. You know what?
She knows that the minute she name drops, it's going to be a
storm of people commenting on that person's page, bringing
negativity because unfortunately, that's how
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magnetizing she is and powerful.And it's like that was so
respectful to be like, you know what, we're not going to do this
here. Like we know that you're fishing
for information. And then what's going to happen
later once I like innocently name anybody.
So I have like just such respectfor her for for doing that.
And what you saw her pictured with Keke Palmer?
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Yes. And I was like, I love this
beautiful women coming together,you know?
I just feel like obviously when Kiki did the interview with
Shelley and Oleandria, yeah, youknow, I was like, oh, where's
this going? It was in poor taste, it feels
like, Yeah. But above it, obviously, you
know, I think she's. They obviously seem fine.
Yeah, I love to see it. I love that she doesn't like
hold this grudge and she's just like all embracing and like I
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had always loved Kiki too. So like, I just hope you know,
it's water under the bridge. Everyone can like see things
more clearly. Hopefully now like onwards and
upwards and let's just spread some positivity here.
Yes, I love it. Can't wait to see what else she
does. It's funny because I'm all over
TikTok these days. I love TikTok.
Yes, I talk to myself. She's a TikTok queen.
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I talk to myself all the time. Hi, Dad, it's Amanda.
And people will like talk about any other cast mates and somehow
Huda gets dragged into it and then, you know, she got a lot of
fans. Nothing to do with her.
And she's always I was, I was looking at we didn't talk about
this clown Kenny being on. What is that stupid Telemundo
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show that he's getting on now? Not that the show's stupid, he's
stupid for doing this, but somehow on that post people
start commenting about Huda and I was like you guys are so sick
in the head and then made it somehow about a Huda.
Always and then it's funny because people will come and be
like Huda's fans are crazy. No, no, no, no, no, no.
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We have to be like we just I just you're not making defense.
Yes, like our girl's silent. She has clap back at anyone.
She'll talk shit about no one. I'll do it for her.
Yeah, you know how they brought her in?
Because like, Leah clearly is defending her best friend Janae.
When if your ex pulled some shitanywhere close to what Kenny did
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and then decide. And then it's like, oh, no, I
don't want this. I'm not hungry for fame and this
and that. And like all of a sudden shows
up going to another like show like that.
She commented. She goes, oh, we not hungry.
Like, yeah, that's what I would be doing.
That's how I would be 10 toes down for you.
And then, of course, like the comment became like, oh, Leah,
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blah, blah, blah. But Hooda, I was like, what?
And why are we pinning these girls again?
Like, let's not, let's just stopenough.
But Speaking of Kenny, what a joke.
What a thirsty. The hell would put this man on a
show? That's actually so crazy and.
Crazy it is. And no offense, but especially
like Hispanic people, we are allcolors.
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We are. And we know that he is racist.
We know that it came forward. He said some crazy things about
a woman he's with and supposedlyloves.
I don't know how anyone gave himany kind of show deal contract.
I'm so disappointed. And it's funny because it's like
he had to go so far off the pathof like the typical US audience
that would be watching these, the types of shows that he would
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go on. So he had to go like find
another route to be able to be cast.
And like, honestly, it is disappointing that they would
spotlight him because he is sucha dog.
He's so undeserving. I mean, I hope like this just
ends badly for him in general just because like he shouldn't
be on our screens period. But I just, and it was so
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distasteful too, that it's like he, you see him like in a scene
that's like Love Island scene and then he pops over.
He's like, oh, my next journey. Like he's like, then it's like
he walks away and then he's in like the how I don't remember
what it's called, like Casa something.
Well, people just need to stay, like, hiding What?
And he's one of them. Yeah.
And you know what? You want to pop up on our
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screens? We're gonna make fun of you
every single day. Yeah, dear, give us material.
Yes. And you know who needed to be in
that bucket to Colton? He shouldn't have been cast on
traitors. While we're at it, throw his
name in that. Why was this stalker freak
casted on traders? Don't you guys have me on shows?
I'm so well-rounded cast. I love everyone.
In theory, cast Amanda. I have no hate in my heart,
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girl. Played podcast OK and.
The circle, I'm down for that. The circle I want us both to go
on. We bring our dogs.
Yes, that would be the funnest thing.
They would. Let us bring our dogs.
I would do it if we were together, yes, and our puppies,
yes. And they do let you bring your.
Dogs we would obviously do you doesn't like your face no bed
yes no Oh my God we should just do like a guy let's.
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We'd be so stupid. We could do that.
Would be Oh my God, that would be hell.
We know so much if we work. Huda in the circle and then I
walked out and I'd be like, wait, wait, wait.
Is it you? Guys sound alike teaser like.
No, I can't. I'm just flattering.
Myself. Oh, it's just so fun because.
You guys have common? Guys mess up my circle and tell
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them we want to be. So I'm pretending.
Actually I went to a comedy showand I was in the audience and
the comedian on stage was like hood in the house.
And I was like, Oh my God, you like say that again?
I said you said me on me. I was like me.
Confirm it anyways. But we need a side by side.
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Period. I can't wait to do tic tacs with
her when we have her on. We will, we will we post every
single one of your pictures. I want to do twin anyways.
Let me stop my delusion. Nobody let me let me stop my
delusion. Dial it back.
Manifest. Get into some of the things.
First of all, OK, apologies. We will be back on track.
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Like we skipped a week because Iwas in Arizona for a work trip.
This was busy. As soon as I touched down in
Arizona, I was like, I'm here tofind Nancy.
I am here to find Nancy Guthrie.Boots on the ground.
If the FBI won't do it, I. Will, I would have came with
you. Shame on them.
Shame on. Them and this.
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Where in the world is Nancy Guthrie?
Get this fucking woman who has apacemaker and needs daily
medication. Figure it out.
This is embarrassing. My first thing is like, don't
these pacemakers have GPS? They have now a helicopter
flying around with a detector like slowly going low and over
homes to like, like and why are we doing this two weeks out?
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Where was this day 2? Like why are we weeks in?
And then don't get me started. Officials come out the yesterday
and they were like, oh, it couldtake months or years to find
her. She's an 84 year old woman who
needs daily medication and is ona pacemaker.
Like get the fuck out of here. How do you say that?
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How do you say that? It's actually embarrassing.
Priorities are. Fucked like these are the I feel
like we're living. You know, when you watch those
documentaries like later on in life about things that happened
years ago and it's like it was abotched investigation, like the
FBI was messing up, like officials, like the law
enforcement missed ABCDE. Like that's what I feel like
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we're watching. Like they've just missed so many
things now. They finally got like issued
things to neighbors to like get other ring footage from other
homes. Where was that on the first
freaking day? Why are we doing all of this?
It's insane. You have ran some notes.
You have like a Bitcoin link, like trace it.
Isn't that what you guys do Hack, get like get people like,
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I don't understand. I mean, I, I'm not saying
they're not working, but they'rereally losing like crucial days
and like doing a lot of things later.
At this rate, you know how like that college room or like there
was a class that like solved thecase from like a murder police
and this is going to be there's going to be people right now
that are doing a better. Job like they're finding clues
(30:29):
and they're like this one neighbor, OK, A neighbor was
like, you know, it's interesting.
I saw her roof and I noticed it's like pristine.
And we had a storm days ago and like, our roofs don't look like
that. Like it looks like a freshly
done roof. Is there something up there I
would take a look like? And they go up there and they
find a camera. Hello.
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Why didn't you go to find this day one?
Like, did you not search? They're like, oh, the cameras
are smashed in. So you didn't go and look and
see if there's others. There's a camera on the roof.
Isn't that a normal place for security footage to be aimed
down? I just don't understand it.
It's like it's so it's gutting me for Savannah.
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And you give me the updates. Yeah, I mean, it's just, it's,
she's like, it's so hard to watch her.
It is so hard. And like, I, my mom and I are
just like, you know what it is too?
I keep picturing 'cause she's around the same age as my
grandma and my grandma, it's thesame situation.
My grandma lives alone, but likemy uncle, her son lives like 5
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minutes away. OK, so like always in and out,
takes care of her, takes care ofthe house, whatever.
But she's like in her home that she like raised her kids.
It's like her comfort, like that's her space and like my her
son is down the street. But that's how I feel about it.
Like her kids live right in the area and she's in her home and
like she was just and everyone'slike, oh, how do you leave her
(31:55):
alone and this and that? It's like, shut the fuck up.
But it's like also the fact thatit's just, it feels so familiar
and she was just taken and I just, I picture like my grandma
who needs her medication every day and.
Like I can't even, I'm already heart attacked.
From the anxiety, yeah, like, yeah, I, it just makes me sick.
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Like I I literally have. It's the not knowing is the
hardest, yeah. How do you sleep?
You don't. You don't.
Yep. Oh my God.
Oh my God. Sending prayers out.
Making me all sad now. I'm sorry.
But yeah, like. Now I'm like my grandma, live
alone. Too so many prayers like get it
together. I hope this is one of those ones
where it's definitely a happy ending.
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Me too and I feel like it soundsso weird, like they feel
confident that she's alive and it's like.
But it may take years to find. Her it was also weird that like
the ransom came in like days later unless they like couldn't
figure out how to make it so private like where it came from.
Like why did it take so long to set up a ransom?
Is it a ransom? But at this rate, I'd be like, I
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will pay whatever, just give me back like I I'd be like, yes,
forget the police. What do you need a wire?
You said that they. Said that they would pay it but
they did say like just show us that you have her and we'll send
you whatever you. Want otherwise, yeah, whoever
you're looking for so. Who knows what's going on?
And I feel like they're also letting everyone know, like a
lot of their moves, which I don't think they should be
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doing, like we shouldn't know that they're going around with a
helicopter looking for the pacemaker until that's done.
Yeah, You know what I mean? Like, cuz, you know, what are
they gonna do? And then even them saying like
it could take years, then they're gonna be like, oh, we're
never getting our money killer. Like we don't want to deal with
that, you know what I mean? Like shit, no, that's what's
this with the shit that I think about and I'm like, you guys are
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fucking pissing me off. I'm sorry.
I just justice for Nancy Savannah, we are thinking of you
like prayers, seriously prayers.I am praying for them like.
Generally, no, of course. Yeah, I hope for the best.
All right, all right. Speaking of.
Yeah, let's talk about new life,you know?
Yeah, go ahead. Not that not that new.
(34:00):
OK, this is getting remember anyways.
So Meghan Trainer, yes, has a daughter.
Yes. A new baby.
Yes. Congratulations, super exciting
and I just want to say I'm sick of you people on social media.
I'm sick I I'm literally sick atif you know, I make up words
she's. Trying to Oh my.
(34:20):
God, so she posts, you know, three weeks of the baby.
Super excited. I think it was 3 weeks, 3 months
I remember. But she named her daughter
Mikey. The comments are atrocious.
People are like, you didn't havea baby, your surrogate had a
baby. You you couldn't, you couldn't
give her a girl name. I'm sorry, unisex.
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I've always, that's always been a thing, Andy.
But also who cares if you don't like it?
Like you're sitting here, this child was just born and is
already like succumbed to bullying.
Like that is vile. Crazy.
All of these comments about her having a surrogate when she had
two other natural births that medically her doctors advised
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her not not to, not not to carryher third baby.
She had two boys. She wanted to have her girl.
And what a blessing she got a healthy baby girl.
And it's an amazing thing that we have the tools and resources
to do such incredible things to bring life into this world.
What a gift for mothers to have the option of surrogacy.
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What a gift for mothers to have the option of adoption.
What a gift for mothers to have doctors that can help them
safely deliver babies. Who cares what it is?
C sections, natural birds. I'm very grateful.
Like what a sick twisted joke that all of these comments are
about her not actually having the baby and it's not real and
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you bought a baby because she had a surrogate?
Grow up. And she someone made a post
saying, like it. It's what a what a in a world.
This is so crazy. Like, I feel bad for Megan
Trainer. And Megan replied back and was
like, yeah, I just. I can't get it.
Like, I don't understand it. Yeah.
Like. And I feel bad for her.
And it's like, you think she wants to think about her mental
health. She just had a baby.
(36:09):
Yeah. She's trying to raise this card
up. Yeah.
It's like, let her enjoy this time.
And instead she's getting bullied.
It's like, why leave her the hell alone?
Yeah, if, God forbid, I was not able to bear my own kids, yeah,
and I had the option of surrogacy for your baby, I would
carry your. Soon, my God.
You know, I think that's a beautiful thing.
Yeah. I don't think there's anything
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wrong with that. And people need to shut the.
Hell up. It's so crazy that we have to
even entertain or speak about this.
I just thought, my God, this is so beautiful.
And then I go to the comments and I'm like what is wrong?
With people, Are you well going on in the universe?
Genuinely, I'm so tired of the Internet.
Especially if these are like parents commenting stuff like
that if you are grown. Insane.
(36:50):
It's like. Are you good?
Just consider yourself privileged that you never had to
resort to such measures because I think that you would be
thinking very differently. It reminds me of like there was
this video that like there were these women that were like
rioting on the streets with these signs and they had all
their signs said like choose adoption.
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Choose adoption. Did you see?
It and then they asked them you adopt how many kids that you
adopted. Not one of them has adopted a
kid. And they were all like, oh,
well, I had my own. Oh, I had my own.
And like, it was just so fun. It's so tone deaf.
Like, get out of here. Get out of here.
Yeah, like. I think adoption is beautiful,
yeah. I even think about people that
have been adopted, that they love the thought of doing that
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as well. And you know, if it came to a
point where I couldn't have, that would be a notch for me.
I would want a family, but I don't think it's wrong for
someone to want their own. No.
Whatever route is right for you is route is a route that's
beautiful. Whatever works for your journey.
I just love a growing family, period.
I just think let people have their choices.
Thank you very much. Goodbye, like hello and Mike.
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He's not even I don't I have no issue.
I think it's a beautiful name for a guy.
It's fine. You know, I see some people name
their kids out of pocket stuff and I'm just like, you ain't say
nothing about that name. Yeah, yeah.
The thing is this like you just don't need to comment this on
the mother and the baby's video like you a.
Beautiful. Video If you don't like it,
don't name your child Monkey. That's it.
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Like, hello, Meghan. Trainer, let me know if you want
to go in on these people. Yeah, I'll be in your comment
section real quick, Meghan. Trainer we.
We got you. You're right, girl.
Please. HQ.
OK, What should we get into next?
What's an Alista la Lista? OK, should we do our shows?
Yeah, thank God for this. Oh.
My God, really quickly. I mean, I just, we can.
(38:38):
We're not really watching the Olympics.
We're really not doing. Which is so funny because last
night Nico, my partner, was like, can we watch like the
hockey? I said, no, no, no, you can
watch. I.
Would watch hockey #heated rivalry, yeah.
I just, I feel bad. I feel like I should watch it,
you know? I just don't have an inkling to
do it. I know.
(38:58):
And we were out on Valentine's Day and they were.
They had. So we did.
We had no choice. Yeah.
We barely you. Bitch, I looked up a few times.
I looked up a few. Times.
I know I love all the videos. This is the extent of the
Olympics I'm watching. I'm watching the people doing
these crazy things, like on skis, like in the air.
Have you seen them do that crazyjump where they're flying?
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Are people beating records like I, I hear about them, those
things? What I've been seeing a lot is
like, if you see the people likethey're like on skis and they do
this huge jump and then it's airborne and they're like, how
do you? Train for this your whole life.
How do you know that you're goodat this?
How do you discover that you're good at this?
This all of my video like my FYPlike.
You wake up and then you're like, this is what I want to.
(39:39):
Do how do you know that you're good at this flying ski shed or
like the bobs, like I call it a bobsled.
I don't know what to call it when they're just like in the
thing and they're I would love to do that one where we go in
and you can go in with your partner, like me and you in in a
thing in a sled and you're just lay flat and then you just
maneuver the turns. No, it's like going down a
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slide, kind of like a snow sled.I watch you do it sledding.
Listen, skiing, snowboarding, all those things, I will be the
girl at the bar having coffee and Jamie.
I will be in the hot tub at the cabin.
Everyone else enjoys it. Exactly.
Yep, I will do ski resorts for tubing, hot tubs, spas.
Hot tubs and alcohol, yeah. That's mine by the fire, a buck,
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that's what we'll do. So yeah, there was a Norwegian
by athlete at the Olympics who took an opportunity after
winning his bronze medal to air out all of his.
This is men's brains. He decided what a time to try
and win back my girlfriend aftercheating on her.
(40:45):
AKA embarrassed her. Embarrassed the fucking life out
of her. He goes to the podium, he's in
an interview and he was like, I just need to like talk about
this. Like I the I met the love of my
life six months ago and I ruinedeverything.
Like 3 months ago. I cheated on her and I just told
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her a week ago. So it's been 6 months and three
months and he cheated and just told her a week a week before
that moment. This is how I would have rather
it played out. I would have been like I I think
you're the love of my life. You know?
I know I cheated on you but I still have an inkling that you
are the 1. So I think we need to try this
again because to say I'm the love of your life and then cheat
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on me 3 months and is insane. It's so and then you tell
everyone, why couldn't I just accept?
I forgive you on the low. Here's the thing.
Like nobody looks. First of all, you will never get
her back. Never sway, I will shake her.
Period cheating like you won't get her back but like if there
was a chance you telling everyone in the world that you
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cheated on her, she's not going to be the girl that's going to
be like the poster child for taking back a man after
cheating. Imagine you asked for my
daughter's hand in marriage and you said that.
At the very literally period, atthe very very least, he could
have said I messed up and lost the love of my life and like I'm
here to publicly like declare mylove for her.
Oh, I would like I. I would know he.
(42:10):
Cheated. It was yeah, we would all be
like cheating dog, clown, loser.But you know, if you don't say
it, it's only speculate. I would.
Have just been like and I just want to give a great shout out
to my girlfriend. I love you so much.
And even in her head she's like,but like, that was, you know
what I mean? Then that would have been better
Anything. Yeah.
Then trying to do anything thesedays is but like.
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And then they she like issued a statement and was kind of like,
I never asked to be a part of this narrative.
I never asked for it to be put in this position or for this
attention. Like he knows how I feel about
it. It's been addressed.
And like then kick rocks. He did a follow up like at his
next. He's been winning like medals.
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And he did like a follow up where he was like, I should have
never aired this out. And I apologize for bringing
this personal like stuff to light.
I'm like, Oh my God, just stop. Drop.
If you love her so much, drop out of the Olympics.
I wouldn't like if you love me so much, why you win an award?
Why aren't you traumatized? Get out.
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Stop winning medals. What does he do?
He's a a biathlete. I don't know he does.
Some are they like runners? What is that?
What? They mean, you know, he's doing
some stuff with Snell, like what's his?
Yeah, he should be like falling on his face.
Why are traumatized? Drop out of the Olympics, tell
her you love her and say becauseI love her so much I cannot go
on and leave. I will not participate, so she
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says she's mine. And then we'll decide, period.
And then we'll decide if you areworthy of our Queen.
Like what a joke. I want to see what he does.
But like, it's also not loading and it's not.
It's irrelevant. Yeah.
No, it's he's. Doing something in this one or
something. Like his name is Sterla Holm
Leigh Greed. I can't pronounce it properly,
(43:56):
and I apologize for butchering. OK.
It looks like he's doing curling.
Is that curling? I don't know if that's him,
though. You know what?
Yeah, it's fine. He's got some weird gear that
looks a little Oh, skis. Is that skis?
Who knows? Who knows who?
Cares. All I care about is that girl.
Feel better, sis. You got this.
And honestly, this just goes to show who he really is.
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I'm glad the world knows, too. So that he, you know, anyone who
dates him has this PSA in front of them.
Let's get into our shows. Yes.
We have a lot to discuss. Do you want to just get traders
out of the way? Since I feel like that's not
going to be a long one. Yeah.
So we're going to talk about traders.
We're going to talk about Tommy Lies and we could do a little
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Summer House and the Love is Blind first drop of episodes.
Yeah, let's do Summer House after this.
Yeah, yeah. OK.
So really quickly with traders, I don't think that we discussed
this last time, but like Colton went home, Candace went home and
now we just had who went home this last round.
(45:03):
Hold on, it's coming to me. It wasn't.
Did you watch? I knew you weren't good.
I'm like you fucking bitch aftercatching.
After Kansas left, I was just. You're such a bitch.
This is our I Literally I was like on a work trip.
I was like my. Homework.
Because, I don't know, I sat anddid all this stuff because Tara
and Johnny. It was such a good episode.
(45:24):
For them, watch the rest of the shows for us.
Though you better watch traders.I will yell at you like I'm so
mad at it over yet no. So Tara and John, we're almost.
At the end. Tara and Johnny killed it this
last episode and it was going tobe one of them the entire
episode going home. Like it was so lit.
(45:46):
And then they just like came outat the table because they were
like, you guys are such this at the end and they're like, Oh
yeah, wait, wait, wait, we have to reveal something.
We're best fucking friends. We love each other.
And like I know that like he's funny.
They like swerved everything at the last minute to be able to
like send Steven home. It was so crazy and they just
(46:11):
hold on. I have whole list.
Just give me a segundo because yes, so it was just he was
literally going to be either terror or Johnny.
And it's like I've seen so many memes that it's like if the if
the house can't figure out that the two Figure skaters are best
friends, like they're not going to find the.
(46:32):
Trainer. Literally.
They are best fucking friends. Like Johnny was in her wedding.
Like it was just so funny. I love watching their clips
together. There was like a moment too on
the episode where like people are walking by and they're in a
room alone. So she quickly jumps on him and
they like hug and whatever because they take every second
that they're alone to like show love and it's so cute.
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I'm so here for this duo and they have been announcing at the
Olympics and people are posting videos of them and they're like,
am I watching trainers? Cuz they're like sitting
together with the mics, like judging and commenting and
they're doing they're like, they're being really cunty and
like savage like at the skaters.And they're like, whoa, well,
that wasn't a great deal. Like their personalities are
(47:13):
like that nuts. Like they're so funny.
I'm living for them. And the fact that they swerved.
I mean, I'm gonna guess that oneof them will go home next
episode, but I'm telling you I it might even be the finale, to
be honest, the next episode. So they may have made it through
together. Like so funny but no one.
(47:35):
Would make me watch but I thought it was on it.
But I'm just here for Rob. He's so fine.
And Oh my God, you have to watchbecause Rob recruit's another
traitor. That's.
What's I saw fills me in. So you know who Rob recruited?
I'm. Not good with names, but yes.
Oh my God, sis, I'm going to getso mad at you.
(47:55):
Like even the. People's names.
I'm like, oh, the skaters. Oh my God, it's Eric and Eric is
so full of anxiety. I know the poor guys, he follow
up behind the. Stairs and he can't even do
this. He was like I'm watching rob and
he's so calm, cool, collected. He's laying on the couch of his
little crop top vest. He's just because he never when
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he got recruited. Basically what happens is like
in the middle of the night, they're like, OK Rob, like you
can recruit someone and like they're either going to say yes
to join you or they're murdered.So like they presented to Eric
and Eric's like Oh my God, like,like because he's like such a
faithful and he was like, I don't know, like how am I going
to do this? So like obviously he doesn't
want to go home, so he has to bea traitor now.
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So he goes to turret shocked outof his mind.
He's like Rob has been playing so such a good game because like
you would never know. And then he's like, doesn't know
how to act, like at breakfast, doesn't know how to talk to me,
see. And then he's like, I'm looking
over and Rob's like laying, taking a nap.
And he's like, and I'm sitting here, I'm like, I don't know how
to talk. What do I say?
(48:58):
So Rob recruited him, yes, whichI think is a setup because I
think if he's this obvious, you know, he wants he's trying to
get it away from him and that if.
He yeah, it works because like Eric could like be a great
target and somebody said it to you and they're like Eric, you
kind of switched up like you haven't you didn't say anything
at the table like what's happening?
Like so that was it was so, but it's so funny how you.
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See, I feel like Rob is like, This is why it's all so hard for
me. I'm like, how do so many people
believe him? Mine is being a cute face.
Like I feel like he seems obvious.
Especially everything that happened with Candace.
I was just like, OK, now it's looking a little too obvious.
But I was just like, you know? Candace drew herself when
Candace. Was kicked out and left and
became and was a traitor and shethrew Rob's name.
(49:45):
I thought that would have been aYes, I thought that would have.
Been somebody said, I think, oh,good for nothing.
Maura was like, but why would why would she say that?
Your name Rob? And then Rob was like, well, she
was trying to take the guilt offof her and just like, yeah,
like, come on. And somebody was like, Maura,
girl, you're so close. But like, so I saw this
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breakdown from a psychologist that posted on TikTok and they
were like, here's why everyone trusts Rob.
People who are like guilty or nervous or anxious are over
explaining themselves or being like, like they have to, they're
so defensive. They're extra loud.
They're they're trying to like point out their things like they
don't know how to, they don't know what to do with their
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hands. Like they're just like acting up
and people confuse steadiness and calm and like this
confidence of just being like, yeah, like, just not.
He doesn't feel the need to like, go the extra mile to over
explain himself, cover himself doing it.
He's just chilling. Which is crazy people.
She said that what's wrong? Like the scariest part is like
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people who can be. So people confuse calm and
confidence, like just being verylevel and stable with trust.
Crazy people seeing like the people get antsy over
explaining, being too loud, doing too much, doing too
little. They're not stable.
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And so they start to look at those people.
And that's why in your mind you just gloss over 'cause you.
He feels like stability, calm, truth.
They must not have watched this season.
Yeah, well, he was, he said, He has said and I, I respect him
for this. He was like, I was obvious and I
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felt for him, too. He was like in Love Island, like
people are acting like, oh, you know, you were loud and
emotional and different. He's like, yeah, I was going
through an extremely emotional experience and like, those were
real feelings I was having. This is different.
And I get that. So I.
Don't know, I just can't get youdon't like it because your team.
Candace Well, no, I also just. The show, just like I love it.
(51:54):
It bores me. I don't know what it is.
It's like too much personalitiesfor me, you know, People annoy
me. I don't know, I just just can't
get into it. Yeah.
And I, I was like, oh, maybe I like the UK when I was like, I
can't even get. Into it.
Oh, no, no. I can't I.
Tried the UK one over season 3. I will.
No no no, I tried it when it first came out and there was auk
UK. 1 is so bad. The first season that came out
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of the Uki couldn't do it, I couldn't do it.
It's so bad, I couldn't do it. And Alan like makes it.
I love I live for all the outfits.
It's so good. Like if they just serve every
time someone walks in, I'm like that fit period.
Like, obsessed. When Gabby Wendy was coming in
to breakfast every day in her fits, I was sliving for it.
I just love all the outfits. Why?
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I love that for you. Yes, thank you.
Thank you for keeping me thankful.
Period. Watch it.
I'll watch it. This.
Watch it. Thursday What is it Tuesday
Thursday I confused tell me liesand.
Also, I have to tell you about Tell Me Lies.
I know we're gonna do a watch party for the finale.
It drops at midnight on Tuesday,so we're gonna have to watch it
on Wednesday. Why would they do that?
They've, it's been, I think it'sbeen like that.
(53:01):
It drops always Pacific Time. I get so mad.
Kardashian says the same thing. We when they drop something
every Tuesday night, drop it 9:00 PM Pacific, 12 AM ET.
No, but we've been watching it the next day.
No, I've been watching it with Nico on.
Tuesday nights, yeah, because I saw I'm.
Like oh, new episode of telling me lies and then it'll say new
episode and then I'm like, oh, Ihave to wait till Nico.
(53:22):
Tell me lies, but I think that'sWednesday We watch finale.
I looked it up because. No, I'm wondering.
I'm planning us a sourdough guys.
Me and my sourdough we've taken over the world.
I am like obsessed with sourdough making.
(53:42):
It's so funny because I think I've consumed the least amount
of bread but I keep making breadfor everyone and it's just been
such a fun journey. But I'm going to make a cheesy
garlic sourdough for our tell melies watch party.
But it said I swear. On Hulu on Tuesdays at 12:00 AM
(54:02):
Eastern Time, with new episodes releasing weekly following.
See. That's crazy.
New episodes are available on Mondays at 9:00 PM.
Oh, Mondays. So that maybe that's why we can
watch a Tuesday Mondays. For viewers on the West Coast,
this means new episodes are available on Mondays at 9:00 PM.
Oh, so that's midnight for us Tuesday.
We can watch it. So we're good for Tuesday night.
(54:25):
Yeah. Oh, so it's Tuesday.
Yeah. So it's like Monday for them
and. That's good though because we
don't have to wait till late at night at least.
Like we can pick whatever time like right after.
Work. Yeah, I'm like, I'm pretty sure
I was watching it too, except. Yeah, to watch it.
So it's Monday midnight, not Tuesday midnight.
Yeah, OK. Thank you for clear SO.
For West Coast, they're able to watch it sooner.
Yes, that's why they get to TikTok fast.
OK guys, we're gonna talk about Tell me lies, then we're gonna
(54:47):
So if you. No, let's do Summer House, tell
me lies, and then love is mine. OK.
Cuz summer house, let's do. Summer House real fucking quick.
Yeah, Summer House. There's new people I don't
Remember Remember. Their names?
Yeah, None. They're fine.
No team. Kyle should not.
He wasn't ready for TV like he'she's.
An emotional wreck. He has been.
He did the same thing. He has these boy little boy
(55:08):
tantrums. Yes.
And your wife has been telling you this for years.
You never got your shit togetherand you lost her.
She's she's tapped out, I can tell.
She's done. She is too late.
I'm so proud of her. What are you looking for?
Why? Because you finally am not or
not getting like the attention. She stopped speaking up, she
(55:30):
stopped saying it to you, she stopped asking for it.
You literally have not heard herfor your entire relationship.
She's been very candid about herfeelings.
She's told you exactly what she needs.
You haven't done it. Why is she going to be there?
I feel like you're not spending time with me.
I feel like you're hanging out with everyone.
Where the hell were you when youguys were about to get married
(55:50):
and you're hanging out with fans?
Yeah, shut the hell up. And no, she's has to see these
rumors. Go to bed next to you every
night and be normal. Get out of here.
Get out of here. I'm so over it.
I am disgusted by it. I'm not mad at Sierra this
season. I'm like she's doing she looks
so beautiful. I will say she always looks
good. She looks stunning.
(56:11):
She's definitely like loves a Jessie W attention moment like
she's. Yeah, I'm waiting for that to
unfold more like we didn't see much of it yet.
Yes, but I feel like I want something.
I I know I'm not gonna like it as much.
I feel like I'm bored. I'm just like, there's no the
new cast, like, all right, who? You the boy.
The new boy is sweet. He looks very young, but maybe
(56:36):
I'm just getting older because he just looks like a little boy.
Yeah, he's nice. He's really sweet.
Is. This the one that Amanda my
helping. Man that has emotions the I
think he's is he black or dark skinned?
No, I think it's just a new guy that the one that all the girls
are drooling over. No, that's Ben the Aussie, the
guy that's Wes's best friend. That's who Amanda has a thing
(56:59):
with. Oh, no, no.
No, no, they showed previews with you talking.
About some of the new cast members.
And I'm saying that. Guy What is the black guy's?
Name, I don't know, but I'm saying the Aussie guy.
I think that's the one Amanda has a thing with in future
episodes. Yes, I don't think there's a
thing. Like they like flirt and stuff
and like it's helping her. Do you think it comes?
Do you think that the things that we saw comes from the night
where she like, skinny dipped and Kyle got upset or there's
(57:21):
more? No, this is like the trailer
showed us this for the future. There's more.
That her and this guy start likeflirting.
Which kind of leads to the depththat we've already seen, no?
No, no, I'm talking about what Isaw from the trailer.
I see. So I think the Aussie guy is
gonna like make a man to feel good about herself.
Yeah, which guy? I'll never do.
Yeah. I'm not saying new infidelity.
I'm not saying there's any infidelity.
I'm not saying that. No, no, no.
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Yeah, we know that summer house.What is his name?
New cast, Neat. No, don't you know what I'm
talking about? Yes, of course.
They drove your car together. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I don't remember his name though.
I don't. I don't know the girls.
That's the. Problem like we're watching this
and we don't know like. There's two new girls. 2 new
girls like Levi and let me see I'm.
(58:05):
So bad at. AIDS I'm so mad that like they
let Lexi go. The one girl though, that does
like the IT girl thing. I've definitely seen her stuff
pop up so like in the park. Good for her.
I think it was a lot at like thefirst dinner to like unload your
ex relationship trauma. She's like he broke up with me
(58:27):
in a squeak green and like you just walked out on that.
Like I know that's sad, but likeit's like second one of the
show. So I don't know.
I I guess I was. Just did you try to?
Play. No, I'm just looking to see who
these people are. Levi and Bailey are are the 2
girls. Yes, just like I thought Yeah
really. Then the friend that Sierra
(58:49):
brings in the new episode of Mia, KJ is a friend of Wes and
then Ben is the Aussie. Got it.
OK, I thought I said his name was Ben though.
Oh yeah, maybe you did. I'm.
I'm bad. But but he's Ben.
He was on the Bachelor in Australia, I believe.
And he's like, don't watch it. What you do.
(59:13):
What did you do? Ben Hammer.
Yeah, I feel like I'm watching it just cuz.
Not that I'm enjoying it. Yes, but like I'm here for
Amanda, just like thinking Kyle's irrelevant because at
this point like. I also paid how like this is
last summer and now we know a lot more so it's like I'm
watching already knowing how it's going to end I'm.
So tired of Kyle's excuses too, being like he always does this
(59:35):
like he deflects from like just taking accountability for his
actions or became a DJ to save my business like it's it's paid
the bills I had to put I stoppedtaking your salary.
I 500,000 like no, you're just like spinning out bullshit that
you're like angry about to she'ssacrificed for all of your
actions. Like that does not excuse the
(59:57):
fact that you're not a present husband, that you don't come
home at night, that you're out partying, that you sleep out.
There's this Facebook group thatI'm in.
It's like an entertainment news like pop culture girly group.
And this one girl was like, I'm so happy for Amanda because we
were out in the city one time and the boys were out like Kyle
and Jesse and Wes and like a bunch of the Carl was there.
(01:00:19):
And they were like, there was this group of girls like, and
it's always these young like college girls in the street,
like flirting it up with the boys.
And Kyle was like living for it all about it, like talking with
the girls, da, da, da. And the boys kept wanting to
leave, and they left him there, and he just stayed with this
group of girls. And that's disgusting.
(01:00:41):
Like the fact that Amanda has tosee all of these things all the
time. The fact that he doesn't come
home and he falls asleep at a fans house, that's insane.
Calls him, he doesn't even answer and it's 6:00 AM.
Honestly, after the next day, I.Then there's times I don't feel
bad she married this man, getting into that like he was
always. Like this?
This is not new. So I'm happy she's choosing her.
(01:01:01):
You know I. I know.
I'm happy for her. Yep, and I just don't like that
he's trying to make it like. He never wants to.
She's Peter Pan. She.
Doesn't pay attention to me. Shut the F up.
Please cheat her like and all ofus women get like that.
We get to a fact where like I I just don't care anymore, like
I'm I'm tapped out, you know, I feel like women and then men
(01:01:22):
will do this thing where it's like, oh shit, she's definitely
like shift drifting away, like Ineed to do it like.
It's too late. Yeah, it's too late.
Period. Period.
OK, tell me lies. Yes.
OK, and if you guys don't watch Tell Me Lies, you can Fast
forward and then we'll do Love is Blind.
Yes. OK, Do you want to go first?
I have a love hate with this show.
(01:01:42):
Like everyone annoys the shit out of me.
Lucy is insufferable. I cannot stand her almost as
much as I cannot stand Steven. Like he, I'm, I tell you, I say
this all the time. He wakes up and he's like, who's
life can I ruin? Not stand it.
You know, now that more things unfold with like Bree and Evan
and Wrigley and Pippa, the only person I like is Diana.
That's the only person I like. Diana puts herself first.
(01:02:05):
Diana's done with the bullshit. Diana lives with so much regret
with everything with Steven because he's a fucking life
runner and Pippa forcing to do like, Pippa's just out of her
mind and Diana's like, whoa, whoa, chill the fuck out, girl,
Girl. Yeah.
And that's how I feel about. That I think Diana too has, you
know, lived and learned and she has tried to be like this voice
(01:02:25):
of reason as well for Lucy, likeshe has been like, just don't
say anything, like just don't doanything.
Like she knows and she's been through it and she knows that
like Lucy's a victim of his shitand she really has like tried to
be there for her. And I applaud Diana's role in
all of this. We got to the point now where
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Wrigley and Bri have actually kissed.
I do. I mean, that whole situation is
obviously messy, but like, Pippawas cheating the entire time and
Bri is a mess with like Evan andwhatever.
But I will say, like, I was definitely proud of Wrigley for
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being like, OK, this happened, I'm going to nip it immediately
goes to Pippa, breaks up with her.
I think like I was annoyed with Pippa, like, first of all,
Wrigley's like, I, I'm shocked that this isn't mutual because
like, first of all, it is mutual.
Like Pippa knows it's mutual because she's having a whole
side relationship and she just wouldn't admit it.
(01:03:32):
And I think she just like, felt this like lack of like love or
like whatever. And that bitch got broken up
with twice. I was like, yes, what?
The fuck? Like you know this is more than
mutual. He's like, I haven't felt you
like loving me or wanting anything or being present or any
of this. He's like, I feel like we've
just been friends. Like I don't feel that you love
me. You've been checked out.
Like, you don't think that you have been.
She was fully checked out. You abandoned your boyfriend.
(01:03:54):
You have a whole other relationship.
Just be like, yeah, like, have some respect for yourself and
for him at least. So that was annoying then.
So, like, I, I was like, in the grand scheme of like the levels
of how bad everyone's been, I have.
I wasn't mad at Wrigley. As soon as something happened,
he nipped it. Then I was like, then Diana,
(01:04:14):
good for her. Like ended shit with Pippa.
Then Pippa feels sorry for herself and begs this man to
fuck her. I was like, and he was like, he
was not about it. So it just felt icky to me the
whole thing, Like I wasn't, I don't know, like I, I was stupid
of him to even do, but like, whywas she, I don't know, like
(01:04:37):
that's not his problem. Like you've been cheating and
your side piece broke up with you.
He doesn't owe you anything, right?
Now I was here for it. I was like, now he's here for
her getting broken up with twice.
Yes. And Wrigley's just such a good
person where he felt like she was down because he broke up
with her. So I don't blame him for going
over and sleep with her. Especially because Bree's doing
her own thing and obviously still choosing Evan.
She thinks Evan is his great brag when he's really a fucking
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douche bag. Her mom's a dodo bird, but I
just. Evan is a dirty dog.
He is a dirty dog but then I'm also like the mom can't have
fucking self-control and then you get there and you continue
to drink. That was I wish I wanted her to
say so do anything brought her to a bar.
He didn't like OK, she chose to pick up that drink and continue
to pick up every drink. And not only that, she also
(01:05:21):
became a freaking bitch that night.
Like her daughter was like look at my art.
Like look at this photo I took of my mommy and like, she's
like, EW, you didn't I? Don't blame her, she's an
alcoholic. She who's drunk being mean to
her, I blame Evan for Yeah, I don't think she would have drank
at all. Yeah, if she, I think she tried
to do the right thing. Evan is a fucking piece of shit.
And then you go to this fucking professor.
(01:05:41):
Your girlfriend's predator for advice on how to manipulate her
into staying is crazy. Insane.
That was cuz this man, like you know that that's her fucking
predator. You kill him.
Like you do something, like you take this man down, you get him
out of his position at the school, like you beat his ass,
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like something you go to him foradvice on how to lock down.
Bree is unhinged. Behavior it gives like he's a
narcissist like he wants controlover her like I don't want you
to have a relationship with yourmother because I want you to be
reliable only on me well and I. Think that was the mind.
Like I never saw Evan like that and I think he like took this
advice from this dirty professorand like use that to manipulate
(01:06:28):
Brie like this seed was planted like, oh, I have to get her to
do that. Like he's turning because he
heard this advice like and it's disgusting.
Well, he went into that conversation like you fucked
with her mind. Like, you know, what did you do
to make her this craft? And it's like, you should be
wanting to beat this guy's ass, not freaking asking for advice
like he's a fucking father. Almost become like, I remember
(01:06:48):
watching the first two seasons and I could not get enough.
And it's almost become so unrealistic, out of touch
diabolical, that it's like, I don't I like this season the
least. It's yeah, it's hard.
It's really hard to watch. It's just too much of, like, so
many things happening every second that is like, OK, all
(01:07:08):
right. Is any of this really realistic?
Like it's just too much. And then Lucy's doing so much,
like, you got the tape back. Like, I feel like she's just so
up his ass. Yeah, I do feel for her.
I don't feel for her one end, like 1 Inkling, like a little
bit nothing. Like she's just so stupid with
him. I don't get it.
Yeah, I don't get it. I feel like she needs to be big.
(01:07:31):
I understand what she did. She got her tape back like now
she feels so free and light and I'm hoping like that's supposed
to lead her into a better direction.
Now she can just like be done with that.
But I don't think he doesn't have another copy like he does.
Well she gets a tape back and then the next day she bumps into
his ex-girlfriend or girl he's messing with and then repeats
(01:07:52):
herself And I'm like if he gave you back the tape why are you
putting more fuel to the fire? Even though she doesn't remember
she already told her that that. So that to me is like why are
you still talking about Steven? Why is Steven still in your
mouth? She's probably trying to save
her, I know, but I'm wondering. But that's scary, scaring me
that yeah, OK, it could backfire, but she's trying to
save her. She's doing what, Diana?
Said well she's also stupid. How didn't she when she already
told her that that's. Maybe she's that we need to
(01:08:14):
explore. Maybe she's dead.
I think that's that. Someone said someone said that
on TikTok that she's not even really there.
No, Oh my God, that's hilarious.That in the future, like she's
not really. Scaring me that like sorry, what
does that actually mean, if that?
She's not getting any sleep. Is that what that?
Means that's what I took from her.
I'm like, was she drugged? Like, what does it mean that
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Lucy didn't remember? And I, you know, it was funny.
The same thing. That's the thing that I'm afraid
of. Like that's a big deal.
Like we don't just see that likethere's other ways to show that
she was she's not sleeping, likeshe could be stumbling.
She could be like losing your mind a little.
The fact that she like made thiswhole speech at her you when I
was watching, I was like, did I watch this already?
(01:08:56):
Should I rewind? Like I genuinely was like Oh my
God, did I already like I was like, did I see this on TikTok?
Like how did didn't she already do this?
And then the girl was like you just had this already.
I was like, Oh my God, something, nothing happened with
Steven. Did he drug her?
I don't know, but I saw someone on TikTok and I think he was
going down a rabbit hole, but hewas like, if you think about it,
(01:09:16):
when we flip like to the future,yeah, you know, we think Lucy's
there, but she's not really there.
Oh my God, maybe something happens to her and God, just
like, stop it. Don't say oh, nothing and I'll
forget. Ghost is walking.
Around we go like this for a second.
You got like right here. It's like probably from your
like cold from. Did I get it?
Let me see. You got a You're good, you're
good. I'm like you're saying, did I
get it? And you're putting your fingers
(01:09:38):
on your lips the whole time, so I can't see, can't see your lips
to tell you if you got it. All right, but I want to do
predictions. Yes please, because you told me
the most insane. Person, it's the only thing that
makes sense. So I want to make a prediction.
Yes. So because the episode ends
where Bree kind of puts togetherthat Evan and Lucy got together.
Yes. At that party, I think she's
going to be really upset with Lucy and either go ask Steven
(01:10:03):
for the tape or go into Lucy's room and find the tape because
she has the copy or the originaland she's going to release it
because she's upset with her about not saying anything about
what happened with her and Evan.I don't think she's going to
punish Evan for it because obviously we know they get
married, but yeah, I think that's what's going to happen.
So you think this is diabolical?So you think too that like, I
(01:10:25):
kind of feel like with this theory, all this time, Lucy's
going to think that Steven released the tape, but it was
actually Bree the whole time andshe's like holding this in and
that's why she's OK with the phone call.
Yes, this is. Insane and she thinks Steven
ruins that year for her. But I think it will be Bree.
And she's like taking it to the grave.
And we know that she knows that there was a tape because just
(01:10:48):
before that Lucy hinted at it and was like, he's been holding
this over me and like blah, blah, blah.
And they were like, what was thetape?
And she's like, don't worry about it, bitch.
This is like prediction of this.This would be diabolical.
Like that's why Lucy doesn't give a fuck when Steven calls
and I would. You're a genius.
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I just, I feel like it, it's thelast episode and it's going to
be something big, so it has to be that.
And Steven has done so much damage.
I'm like, how much more can you do?
It has to have something to do with Bree and I think that the
best way to handle this is Lucy needs to come clean.
Stop protecting Pippa. Pippa is being a shitty friend.
Yes, and when it like came out, this whole thing like and Lucy's
(01:11:29):
like still like taking it to hergrave for Pippa.
Like when you know that it's coming after Lucy to this
extent, you just need to own it.Like, why is your friend doing
this to like, be there to protect you?
And now it's like completely like dog piling on her.
Like it's become such a thing with other people.
(01:11:50):
People are getting mad at her for people are involving her in
conversations at the school. Like enough.
It's gone way, way, way too far.Like Pippa needs to snip it.
One more prediction, yes. So with oh.
My God, I'm here for your takes.I think we might have spoke
about this or you may feel the same, but I think with Diana, I
think she purposely told Steven she wasn't going to yell.
And you know, he used for like how dear you don't want to be
(01:12:10):
around me and she throughout other schools that she could go
to. I think he's going to send the
the pictures that he has of her to those schools so she can't
get in. And I think she's going to use
that as her way to go to Yale and him not like, look what he
did. This is the person you guys want
at your school. When he said yes.
And I, I, but then I feel like in the future we see he's
successful. It looks like he like.
(01:12:32):
So I don't know if he takes another route, but I think
Diana's planning like something she's plotting.
She's got to going. Because she's always going to
get her way and she works very hard for it, and she's not going
to let him stop her from going to Yale.
That's interesting because I originally thought when we just
saw him sending off the picturesand not who the the recipient
was going to be. I, I initially did think that
like those photos were intended for Yale to get her out, but
(01:12:54):
like hoped it would backfire on him because that's like revenge
porn. But it, they still could be used
for something. So we don't know.
Yeah, we know. I went to the parents.
To her dad. Yep.
But yeah, I can't imagine that she won't go to Yale.
I I feel like I would be happy for her if she's just moving on
but I want her to do something twisted to get back.
Totally. We need something like, come on,
(01:13:16):
Diana. We're all rooting for you, sis.
OK, Are we good with tell me lies?
Yes. All right, last one.
Last but not least, or maybe least.
You know Matt's got. To pull up these blind premiere,
Love is blind premiere. I know there's so many couples,
so little time. I have so many notes.
I don't know. OK, can we just start with our
(01:13:37):
faves, Victoria and Christine? I love them.
Netflix, you should be embarrassed sending one couple
to a different destination because you can't afford to send
them all to Mexico is so crazy. You are Netflix.
It's one couple. If you I understand like
sometimes they just like cut outa couple and like there's not
(01:14:00):
enough budget to send them all. But like the fact that they're
still keeping them in the loop, but they just send off this one
couple. Not only did they send them off,
they don't have production. So they're like filming on their
phones like this is embarrassing.
If you still want to tell their story, follow them around and I
genuinely think you could have gotten one more room because all
the other freaking group activities are in 1 space or.
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Get rid of a couple we know is not gonna.
Last, I don't understand what the choice was also to choose
Victoria and Christine. Like I feel like if you have an
eye for this stuff, you know that they're gonna be a
favorite. Like they had such a beautiful
story. I loved them they're so solid.
Why would you not follow their journey?
It's it's really embarrassing that they're like, oh, we're
gonna show this like shipped offcouple to the side on their
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phones. How do you I think they feel?
I'm wondering what it really means.
Does that mean they don't make it?
Like, are we gonna not see them in future episodes?
No, they are in future episodes.They do follow them when
everybody comes back home to theStates.
It just doesn't make sense to me.
I I know it doesn't make sense. Like you tell me you don't have
camera. Men in Malibu.
Yeah, they just. Recorded this.
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Like tell me how embarrassing they're Netflix.
Like who has more money than Netflix?
Yes, the budget thing just makesno sense.
I would have rather them have this.
Is one of their one of them shows.
Have a passport? I would have rather you have
said that. Genuinely, this is one of their
biggest shows. It's so embarrassing, like I
hope it's that one of them don'thave a passport.
I heard that I want to throw them under the bus.
Yeah, I heard that. Well, this is what people are
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speculating. Yeah, Oh my God.
Like, it's so embarrassing. It is.
And why would you choose them genuinely?
Like, I feel like they're such agreat couple.
I can already tell you like two or three couples that went to
Mexico that are not going to make it.
Yeah, well, period. Do you want to get into Alex and
Ashley? Because they get me so angry.
Well, he gets me so angry. When I was watching, I'm very
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big on watching, pausing, recording on TikTok and then
going back. When Alex first came on the
screen, I paused it. I said, what in the hell is this
casting? I said, there's no way.
I said this man is shallow douche.
So shallow. Yeah.
Oh, when I go out, you know, that attraction has to be there.
Like, why are you on this show then?
Because now you're telling me how shallow you are.
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And like, I mean, I think he ends up with a beautiful girl
like. She's a gorgeous.
Gorgeous girl, but I already know he's just such like this a
dog. And he's no offense.
You're not that cute. Yeah, you.
You would be so much more attractive if he was sweet and
nice. Yes, but how douchey he is.
I'm like. He the whole athlete storyline
like I just can't with these like narcissist men acting.
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Like he's a soccer coach. It's literally he acts like he's
freaking. So crazy he and he has this
beautiful girl and then by the end he's like trying to get one
of his friends fiance's to be his instead because she has dark
features in his Morris type. Like that was so disgusting.
And The thing is like Ashley hasno idea like this whole time,
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he's like you're everything, you're perfect.
There's no problems. There's this, there's that.
She's given him so many opportunities to have candid
conversation. I don't see one thing.
There's nothing like it's amazing.
Like when is the shoe going to drop?
Like she has so many conversations with him and he
gives no inclination that there's anything different.
And I saw someone say this take and I fully agree.
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This is how exactly how I felt when I was watching it.
When he met her, he kept saying her, looking at her, looking at
her eyes, oh, you're trouble, You're trouble, you're
dangerous. And he kept saying that to her.
And somebody was. And I watched this TikTok and it
was so spot on of how I felt. You're sitting there going, oh,
you're trouble, you're trouble. Why?
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This is your fiance. She's going to be your wife.
Like that's this is your your wife.
So what's the issue? Like what?
Why would she be trouble? She's not like some side piece
for your relationship like, oh, you're attracted to her.
Great. Like, how does that make any
sense? How is she?
What is she going to be trouble about?
She's going to be your wife, isn't she?
You're getting you're engaged. Like what's the issue here?
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Saying that is so diabolical. Like I even noticed that like
when guys message me and they say high trouble I literally am
like I will never answer you. That's disgusting to say.
Like what do you mean trouble for what?
What's it's? I agree it's sick.
It's so off putting. It doesn't.
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It's such dog behavior. So I'm just trying to find the
couples together. And then, OK, so I'll switch to
another one. OK, good.
You're good with names. I'm sorry.
Yeah, you bring up the names andI'll tell you my.
Name Connor and Bree. I'm like, are you?
So when Connor was torn between Bree and Emma, and Emma was torn
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between Connor and Mike, I got those right so.
I. Connor's hard for me because he
seems very insecure. He seems.
I feel like he didn't open up asmuch as I would have liked.
Like it was hard for me to see why Bree or Emma like fell for
him or wanted to pursue things with him.
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That's how I felt about Connor. I think he was a nice guy.
I think just once they've matched and stuff, like he's
just insecure and nervous and I think Bree is the worst for him
because like she's not giving him any sort of security in the
situation. I think that three like she's
fun, she's loud, she's like big personality and I think Connor
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needs some reassurance and it's understandable.
But like going to the mixer and I understand Bree's perspective
of being like, whoa, like we just went through this crazy
experiment. Like why are we not talking
about that? Like we just had this crazy like
psychological mind fuck happenedto all of us and now this is our
big reveal and like everyone's like, hey, I'm very like surface
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level bullshit. I fully understand that.
But the fact that she made it about like Chris knows things
that like I've never told anyoneI need a Part 2.
I really need a Part 2. Like the way she went about
saying it to Herman to her fiance.
I think she her delivery could have been better.
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And then after getting this timewith Chris, which I thought the
conversation leaned a little inappropriate, then just going
back to Connor and being like, Ineed a part three.
If that were a man talking to mesaying I need a Part 2 and a
part three with another woman. I would be like you can have all
the parts go. Yeah, I think Bree needs someone
that's a little more confident. Like, I I get that too.
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Like I would feel the same. I understand opening up to
someone in the pots and wanting that closure.
Like this is someone you poured your heart.
I get that. And I think Connor and Emma,
like, that should have been a conversation too, because she
told him so much and, you know, I'm sure he felt something.
But yeah, Bree was definitely over the top, I think.
OK. I think her delivery was weird.
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And then the part three extra weird.
Yeah, I was like, is this drop it, let it when she.
First was talking about a Part 2.
I was like, oh, she wants closure.
Yeah, she's saying it like a fucking weirdo, but she wants
closure. And then Connor's so like
reserved and was like, yeah, like, not yeah, I I feel like
Connor outside the pod is exactly who I thought he was in
the pod. He he, he's nice, but it was
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like the same to me. Yes, very like didn't stand out.
Yeah, yeah. Exactly.
And then Chris is with Jessica. I think they're so cute.
I think that they actually like each other.
But after that convo I don't know like.
I'll explain that part too. The part I think we're talking
about the same part where they're in the pods and she's
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talking about how she's like a doctor.
I wanna say trauma. I'm not sure.
Trauma nurse. She does something in the
hospital. And then he's like, oh, yeah.
During that time during COVID, it must have been like all the
outside noise, but I mean, a lot.
And then she's like, yeah. So then they leave and they go
on their honeymoon and then she's like, you know, I post a
lot of things on social media, political stuff.
And then he's like, I love that about you and like, and when I'm
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both their Instagrams. So she follows people like Waltz
and like, you know, a lot of herfollowers.
Very, very, yes, exactly. Very Democrat, very like liberal
views. And then you go on his page, he
follows all the Trump's. Oh no.
So he's like, mad. So I'm like, we did not.
I'm like, did they talk about itreally?
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Or is it all that we saw becausetheir political views are
different? But then I'm like, maybe they
did talk about it, we just didn't see it.
And they have like a common ground where it didn't matter.
They respect each others choices, but we don't know yet.
So I'm just like, I'm curious how this is going to play out.
But I did like how cute they were and you know, cuz people on
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TikTok were hinting to it like wait, I don't understand like
how they match what? And then I was like what are
people talking about? And then I went to and I was
like, oh. And also I thought it was sweet
that one of them said like I think it was Chris where it's
like they he was just kind of explaining like, but with my
like, yeah, like the girls are attractive this that like, but
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just with that person, with my person, it's just so different
because we just have that connection and that emotional
piece that like it just far exceed like you can feel them
like swooning over each. Other I think Chris is full of
shit. But I think I yeah, he could be.
Once I saw he was in sales, I was like God I.
Think OK, but I I think up untilthey before they get into the
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deep things, I felt like it would they genuinely were into
each other. But I think that production
keeping in that comment was intentional to unpack later.
Oh. That makes sense.
Foreshadowing. Yeah.
Like they're like, like they have so much footage and they're
like, I'm gonna put in this little comment that that didn't
cause any issue for a reason, because down the line we'll see
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it unfold. Yeah, and to be honest, like,
even though they follow, they follow like, like she obviously
is very adamant and open about it.
Maybe he's not. Maybe he can be more open
minded. Yeah.
And maybe it may work out. But yeah, once Chris's ex came
forward on TikTok, girl, I was everything.
She said was so funny she did itfor the girls she went in on.
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You guys just go on TikTok type type in Chris literally Chris's
ex love is blind you will find it Sis ate and love no crumbs
she said. She even said like she just had
so many funny liners and they were so good and she was like,
when you go on a trip, it didn'thappen.
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Not a fact. She's like I.
Definitely paid his way. I was like oof.
I was like, first of all, not only even split, she went in on
his debt. She went in everything much.
The fact that he's not paying for it.
Yeah, I know. His debt.
Now I know how he lives. God, he's dirty.
She's like you're going. To get some bacteria I.
Was like, she's like his bathroom never seen a cleaning
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product. I went oh Yup, she was ready to
serve. And that's what I'm saying.
Like if before, yeah, he made just just be putting on a front.
And when he first started talking?
When? Even before, who was justice so
sweet? I liked him because I don't like
him, but like, I like her she's.So sweet.
I love her. She's so sweet.
I love her. She's so sweet.
Like such a precious Angel. And I'm like no.
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And when he was talking to Bree?I had to pause, yeah.
And record, yeah. And.
I was like, this man's in sales.I know he's in sales.
I know he's in sales. I Googled him.
I went, I was like, he's in sales because the way he's
talking to Bree, he's like, you know, I really want to push you
and like, you know, like he's talked like this power couple
making moves. I can, I can show you things and
I'm like, yes, that's the part that made me turn when he also
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said. That Connor's not strong enough
to be her man. Like secure enough and like
confident. Meanwhile, your ex says you're
like, I didn't think that. You were that type to be honest.
Like he doesn't give alpha. He doesn't.
Yeah. So that's why I was like, must
be. You're not a fail spider.
If you woman's paying for your trips, yes, hello.
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And especially if you're racked up and all these debt.
What are you paying for? No, generously the whole.
Thing was so crazy. Yeah, I was rooting for them in
the beginning, but now that likethings are.
Starting to unfold, I was like. Sorry, Chris.
Yeah, that was crazy. OK.
Also we got we have to talk about Emma and Mike first.
Of all from the pods, like regardless of who we ended up
with, I was kind of like Mike isa nice guy.
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I loved Mike. I find I love him like the fact
that he was. A second was crazy to me.
He that he would like to Emma like he.
Was first. I was shocked.
I was. Shocked, but also like.
I really, really like him, but him?
He and Emma are not a match at all, which is crazy that this
experiment is based off of like connection only and nothing
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else. Because to me they're not a
match And there's such fundamental differences and
having to convince a woman to like want a kid.
Like you don't want that. You he you could tell he's like
so excited to have a family and like he wants a mom that's like
like so obsessed with the familyand like wants the same thing.
And like she's just like gives off like no mad like free bird.
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Like I just want to live my lifelike I'm messy, I'm selfish.
I don't want to take care of no kids.
Like I don't know why she keeps leaning on this issue of like
genetics, because that's clearlynot the reason.
Because even when he saw that he's like, well, what if we like
he was trying to hear her? Like what if we do adna test and
like you feel more comfortable And, you know, there's so many
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people who don't know who their parents are, one parent or or,
you know, are adopted who go on to amazing families.
Like there are options for you to to make sure rule out certain
genes that you may have, like for cancer, whatever you want to
do if kids are part of your future.
But when he gave that as a nice solution and compromised like
she was just like, yeah, but I'malso like, I don't know if I
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want them. Like, OK, so that's the story
then. Yeah.
If you don't want kids, you don't want kids perfectly fine.
But maybe they're not. That could be an issue for them.
The same thing. Like, why would they be a match?
I couldn't. It's just so hard because, like
you said, Mike is such a good guy.
And I was like, Oh my God. Anyone would be lucky to have
him. And when he was like, I even
thought I liked his response better then Connors when Emma
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was opening up. Like he then he told her
something personal, that he was premature and, you know, so I
was like, oh, this is so sweet. Like this has to be her top.
And then when it wasn't, I was like, you know what?
Maybe her and Connor are good together.
Yeah. You know, but shocked.
I I agree with you. I think like if.
A woman's adamant about. Saying she's not sure if she
wants kids I don't think a man should try and change that but I
do think her reasoning I didn't fully understand you know my
stepdad's adopted. I have two sisters that are
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beautiful. You know, he doesn't know the
history of his previous family, but but it just and if that is
really her deep because she has a lot of deep rooted trauma.
With like her surgeries and her birthmarks and I get that
totally. So that could be, you know, but
it just felt as though it wasn'ther reason.
Like, because even when he wouldtry and work through that with
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her, she came up with other reasons that were totally
unrelated. So it's, yeah.
Even if this is like like, I do think sometimes it takes someone
like a man. Or a woman to meet a person, the
like person that they're wanna family.
Yeah, that exactly. But I do, I do feel like.
Watching them like honey I do. Not think they're a match.
I do not think they're gonna last.
I think they're both really niceway of people, which is for
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someone else. Yeah.
And yeah, let's talk about thosenow.
We need to, now that we're talking Emma, we need to talk
about dirty dog Steven. I don't wanna.
We already were thrust. Into these allegations about
Steven so. Much to say and we already knew,
but regardless of these allegations, which are bountiful
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and disgusting, you can I could see it the minute I saw this
man. I said that's the one once he
opened his mouth, you know, likeI was just like, But you know
what was? It, that really was a cherry on
top. He's having this conversation
with them. But she opens up the first thing
out of his mouth is, are you sadover there?
Should I lighten the mood? Should I change the
conversation? Let me tell you about my first.
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Kiss how was your? First time the fuck does that
really thanked me for not pushing her.
During the first time and it waslike the notebook.
It was disgusting. He is.
Great. First of all, the late bloomer
comment, she's like, yeah, I don't really like that.
Then he was so the fact that shefinally, this was the first
person that she opened up to, she was so traumatized.
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She's like, I don't know if I could go through this experiment
anymore after that experience. He left her feeling so violated
and traumatized after sharing like such a deep story.
And instead of being there with her in that moment and making
her feel safe to open up and understand, hearing her,
validating her, he's like, exactly what you said, my first
kiss. Oh, tell me about how you lost
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your virginity. And then so he's sharing all
the, it's very childlike, bizarre behavior.
Who asks about and also on television, but period, who asks
about how you lost your virginity and your first kiss?
Like, are you not 30 years old? It is very bizarre behavior.
And I thought it was so interesting that even when he
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asked this story about her virginity, she goes, I was in
college. Oh, like, bloomer, Like bloomer.
Then you just see, the entire time she's telling the story,
he's not listening. He's just fixated for some
reason on how old she was. So first he says late bloomer,
then she says, I don't like thatcomment.
Then she's going on saying, so anyways, I was in college.
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But he's like, oh, so early on, freshman, sophomore, was it
like, yeah, you got to college early on?
She doesn't answer. She keeps going with the story.
So he goes, oh, 1920, why the hell are you sitting here trying
so hard to pin how oh, you beat me, call it.
Why are you trying so hard to pin an age on when she lost her
virginity? It was just such bizarre.
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Then he takes a bizarre fixation.
He takes a White Claw and he's like, I need another drink for
this conversation. Because she opened up about her
like, deep trauma. You know what?
Netflix is dirty for he doesn't have a storyline minus that one
part. With her he they didn't need to
have his we didn't need to see that period.
If you regardless of knowing, especially if you want to lean.
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On You didn't know about the allegations.
OK, Netflix, you didn't know about the allegations.
One conversation with this man will tell you like watching that
unfold. We didn't need the allegations
to know. So like, if you went through a
thorough process interviewing and speaking to this man, the
things that he would have brought up about dating would it
should have been enough of a redflag to know that this person is
(01:32:23):
not safe or the allegations comeout And before these episodes
are released, you wipe that. Yeah, he's not even needed.
It's just they probably, yeah, Idon't know.
I feel like it was so inappropriate and I like.
I felt for like, I'm not. Even a mother, she was like back
in. There she's like, I can't do
this like he's so. Insensitive.
I'm so proud too that like she took on that reaction and.
Immediately. Was like, I don't like that
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comment. He gives me a restraining order.
He gives me like I would be scared.
Like don't talk to me, yes. Even the way that he was like
talking about the notebook, like.
She could not say no to him likehe.
I was like you're, I just thought that comment.
I was like you. You sound like you pressured
her. By having to keep saying you
didn't. It's weird.
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Yeah, I know. Aside from loser.
Asked Steven. Then there was.
Brittany and Devante, which we'll see more about.
Obviously this man is giving hernothing, nothing.
She's devastated like she's and she's just like, hey, can you
give me like some sort of attention or she wakes up, he's
not there. He walks right by her, never
makes her feel beautiful, doesn't give her a comment,
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doesn't anything. And he's just like, oh, I have a
lot on my mind. Oh, my family.
Oh, I just need some alone to. Hello.
Like, what's with the excuses? Just hear her and be like, you
know what? Yeah, like, let me do better.
You don't. You don't actually care about
her. Just like, have a conversation
with her and be like, you know what?
Like, I wasn't sure. I'm not sure how I feel yet.
This that the other like, why are you pretending and making
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excuses and getting defensive? She's every right to say those
things. I don't care for their scenes
because they're not going to last.
He's like you said, he's not giving her anything.
I can tell that he's not happy with the way she looks.
You know, I feel like he's just like, even the not them being.
Yeah. And that's crazy.
She's gorgeous. You know, I just feel like he's
giving. He's giving.
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A hole. And it's like he's not.
Even like being thoughtful like even mindful like human about
her and I just I feel for her. I feel for her.
Yeah, I do too. And then lastly, before we wrap
up because our episode. 'S getting long, but we'll get
into it more after the next episode.
Drop Kevin and the two girlies Kia and Tyler.
Proud of them both. Yep, proud of them both.
They caught that shit as soon aswhichever one was in front of
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him was his front runner. You're the one da, da, da, da,
da. The next one, the same thing.
He flip flops. He played them both.
They were both. And I was like, they were 10
toes down for each other. They were just like, I don't
want this girl picking out her engagement.
We're both fucking sitting here thinking like, oh, we're the
one. And he made them both feel that
way. He gave them no inclination.
Like I was so proud of them for both being like, what the hell?
(01:34:51):
Like he is not ready for any of this.
Like no. Yeah.
And Netflix kind of send anothercouple anyways, no?
Literally, that was, that was and.
All that. No, genuinely.
We'll get more into this as it unfolds next week, Amanda, let
them know where they can find. You can find us on TikTok and
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Instagram at girl, please under score podcast.
Bye, guys.