Comfort can dull awareness (S4) S40 E2

Welcome to another value-packed episode of “Inspirations for Your Life,” hosted by me, John C. Morley—serial entrepreneur, engineer, marketing specialist, dedicated video producer, podcast mentor, passionate business leader, and lifelong learner. Here, we don’t just talk about success—we explore how comfort, awareness, and bold action shape your journey to greatness. In this series, we’ll uncover 25 rarely-discussed truths that reveal how comfort zones can secretly diminish our vision, ambition, and impact. Get ready to ignite your growth, break through limitations, and create the extraordinary!

[1️⃣ Comfort breeds forgetfulness of dreams] When life gets too comfortable, it’s easy to lose sight of the dreams that once set your soul on fire. Comfort lulls us into routines where old aspirations become distant memories. To reclaim your ambition, revisit your biggest goals often and ask—am I still moving toward them, or have I let ease blur my focus?

[2️⃣ Living soft makes you miss hard truths] A life devoid of challenge can make us overlook difficult realities about ourselves and the world. When you choose the smoothest path, you miss essential feedback. True growth happens when we confront what’s uncomfortable; those hard truths reveal where we need to grow next.

[3️⃣ Complacency clouds your vision] Complacency is the silent enemy of progress. It clouds your creative vision—and the path ahead—by convincing you that “good enough” is actually enough. Visionaries know that settling is the first step to stagnation, so keep pushing past complacency.

[4️⃣ Comfort masks silent opportunities] Some of life’s best opportunities quietly pass by when we are too comfortable to notice. The pursuit of ease blinds us to new chances. Stay alert, remain curious, and let discomfort be an alarm that wakes you to each fresh possibility.

[5️⃣ Awareness grows in discomfort’s shadow] Awareness blossoms most in moments of challenge, not during calm. When you stretch beyond what’s familiar, you become hyper-aware of your strengths, weaknesses, and everything in between. Seek environments that challenge your awareness—your growth will thank you.

[6️⃣ Comfort interrupts intuition] Comfort tricks us into ignoring our deeper instincts. Your inner voice is sharpest when you step outside the familiar. Practice tuning into your gut in uncertain situations—it knows the way forward even if your comfort zones disagree.

[7️⃣ Ease delays discoveries] The best discoveries don’t happen on the couch. They’re born from restless curiosity, from trying something new, from failing and starting over. Accept that delay is a consequence of constant ease—accelerate your learning by seeking the new and unknown.

[8️⃣ Comfort hides life’s urgency] Comfort can make us believe tomorrow is always an option, blinding us to the urgency of today. Recognize that time is your most precious asset—don’t let comfort convince you there’s always more.

[9️⃣ Resting dulls risk-taking instincts] When we stay in perpetual rest, our instinct to take healthy risks fades. Success is built on embracing calculated risks. Remind yourself often: What’s the next bold step I’m avoiding?

[🔟 Habitual comfort dulls inner judgment] Constant comfort can erode your ability to judge well—about people, timing, and opportunities. Sharpen your inner compass by periodically inviting discomfort and uncertainty.

[1️⃣1️⃣ Routine comfort blurs self-awareness] Without disruption, routine becomes autopilot, and we lose track of our true feelings, goals, and values. Break your own routine now and then; self-awareness starts with noticing the little things you take for granted.

[1️⃣2️⃣ The easy route deadens ambition] Choosing easy repeatedly can sap the hunger that drives you toward big goals. Ambition is a muscle; it grows every time you pick the more challenging path.

[1️⃣3️⃣ Over-comforting weakens self-reflection] We reflect most deeply when we’re a bit uncomfortable. Reflection is powered by the “friction” of experience—don’t rob yourself of growth by seeking constant comfort.

[1️⃣4️⃣ Fewer challenges, fewer revelations] You learn less about yourself when challenges are rare. Every obstacle is a mirror reflecting your unrealized talents and showing you where you can go next.

[1️⃣5️⃣ Comfort numbs growth mindset] Being too comfortable fosters fixed thinking. To reignite your growth mindset, expose yourself to the unfamiliar and stay curious about failure.

[1️⃣6️⃣ Awaken potential outside comfort] Your biggest breakthroughs happen the moment you step out of what’s known and into what’s possible. Make courage, not comfort, your north star.

[1️⃣7️⃣ Comfort invites distraction] When life gets too cozy, distractions multiply. Challenge yourself with ambitious projects and you’ll find focus comes naturally—ease breeds idleness, challenge channels energy.

[1️⃣8️⃣ Comfort dilutes

Episode Transcript

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Well, hey, guys.
It is John C.
Morley here, serial entrepreneur.
We were traveling the other day, but we
still got the show out, even broadcast it
at a hotel.
And it was actually pretty good.
The stream went out pretty well.
So it's great to be with you guys.
It's a Sunday evening.
That means we're on day two of our
Master Topic.
I'll let you know what that Master Topic

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is in just a moment.
But I do want to thank you for
taking the opportunity to join me here tonight
or this afternoon or in the morning.
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Very grateful, whether you're here the first time
or you've come back many times.
So our Master Topic for the week is
Cost of Comfort versus the Power of Awareness.
Wow, that's a really cool one.
And the granular topic for today is Comfort
Can Dull Awareness, Series 4, Show 40, Episode
2.

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Can you believe, guys, that in just a
couple months, we will be through Series 4
and we'll be on to Series 5?
That's pretty amazing if you guys ask me.
So really, really cool.
All right, guys.
So now that you know the topic, if

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some RO water.
I got some before.
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whether it's healthy, tart, sweet or not.
That's totally up to you.
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creations after the show.

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You can do that 24 hours a day.
All right, guys.
Without any further ado, let's kick this show
off.
All right, everyone.
Great.
So again, I want to say welcome.
If I didn't say that already to you
guys, you didn't hear me say that.
Welcome and thank you for joining me for
another powerful, value-packed episode of, that's right,

(02:31):
Inspirations for Your Life, hosted by myself, John
C.
Morley.
I'm a serial entrepreneur.
I'm an engineer, marketing specialist.
I'm a video producer, a graduate student, and
I'm a dedicated lifelong learner as well as
a podcast mentor, in addition to being a
host.

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And it is my pleasure to be with
you and also to be a passionate business
leader and lifelong learner to share my stories
and lessons with you guys.
So here, we don't just talk about success.
Nope.
We explore how comfort, awareness, and bold action

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shape your journey to greatness.
In this series, I'm going to uncover 25
rarely discussed truths, just today, that reveal how
comfort zones can secretly diminish our vision, ambition,

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and impact.
So let's get ready, guys, to ignite your
growth, break through limitations, and create the extraordinary
life you've been waiting for.
Number one, comfort breeds forgetfulness of dreams.

(03:58):
When life gets too comfortable, it's easy to
lose sight of the dreams that once set
your soul on fire.
Comfort lulls us into routines where old aspirations
become distant, far-gone memories.

(04:21):
To reclaim your ambition, revisit your biggest goals
and aspirations often, and ask yourself, am I
still moving toward them, my vision, or have
I let the ease blur my focus?
Number two, guys, living soft makes you miss

(04:42):
hard truths.
A life devoid of challenge can make us
overlook difficult realities about ourselves and the world.
When you choose the smoothest path, you miss
essential feedback and lessons to help you with

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the rest of your life.
True, growth happens when we confront what's uncomfortable.
Now those hard truths reveal where we need
to grow next.
Number three, complacency clouds your vision.
Complacency is the silent enemy of progress.

(05:26):
It clouds your creative vision and the path
ahead by convincing you that good enough is
actually enough.
But really, it's not.
Visionaries know that settling is the first step
to stagnation.

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So you've got to keep pushing past complacency.
You've got to get off that couch.
You've got to practice getting comfortable being uncomfortable.
I said it again, you've got to practice
getting comfortable being uncomfortable.
Number four, comfort often masks silent opportunities.
Some of the life's best opportunities quietly pass

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by when we are too comfortable to notice
them.
The pursuit of ease blinds us to new
chances.
Stay alert, guys.
Remain curious and let discomfort be an alarm
that wakes you to each fresh possibility.

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Number five, awareness grows in discomfort's shadow.
Awareness blossoms most in moments of challenging times,
not during the calm moments.
When you stretch beyond what's familiar to you,

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you become a little hyper aware of your
strengths, your weaknesses, and everything in between those.
Seek environments that challenge your awareness, your growth,
and your body will thank you.

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Because you're going to reach heights that other
people are still trying to figure out how
to even get close to.
Number six, guys, comfort interrupts intuition.
Hmm.

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Comfort tricks us into ignoring our deeper instincts.
Your inner voice is sharpest when you step
outside the familiar.
I didn't say it was going to be
easy, but I said you need to do
it.
Practice tuning into your gut in uncertain situations.

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It knows the way forward, even if your
comfort zones disagree with you.
Number seven, ease delays discoveries.
You see, the best discoveries don't happen, folks,
on the couch.

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Nope.
They're born from restless curiosity, from trying something
new, from emerging after failing and starting over
again and again, accepting that delay is a
consequence of constant ease.

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Accelerate your learning, folks, by seeking the new
and unknown.
Number eight, guys, comfort hides life's urgency.
Comfort can make us believe tomorrow is always
an option, blinding us to the urgency of

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today.
Recognize that time is your most precious asset.
Don't let comfort convince you there's always more.
Number nine, resting dulls the risk and taking

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instincts.
When you stay in perpetual rest, our instinct
to take healthy risks, well, it fades.
Success is built upon embracing calculated risks.
Remind yourself often what's the next bold step

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I'm avoiding.
And I think some of you are going
to say, well, John, I'm not avoiding anything.
Well, you are, but whether you want to
share that with yourself is maybe something you're
wrestling with.
Maybe you know you're able to do more,
but you just don't take the step.

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You're afraid.
Number 10, guys, habitual comfort dulls the inner
judgment.
Constant comfort can erode your own ability to
judge well about people, timing, and opportunities.

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Sharpen your inner compass by periodically inviting discomfort
and uncertainty into your life.
I know you might be afraid about it,
but trust me, you're going to live and
you're going to thank me for it because
you're going to grow.
And next time you'll be like, oh, that

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part's easy.
Now you're going to push yourself a little
further.
Number 11, guys, routine comfort blurs the self
-awareness.
Without disruption, routine becomes autopilot and we lose
track of our true feelings, our goals, our
aspirations, and our core values.

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You see, break your own routine now.
And then self-awareness starts with noticing the
little things you take for granted.
I think that's a pretty powerful thing.
The little things you take for granted.
Is that a glass of water like my
RO water here?

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Is it the clothes you're wearing?
Is it where you live?
Is it your car?
What is it?
Number 12, the easy route deadens ambition.
Choosing easy repeatedly can sap the hunger that
drives you toward the big goals.

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Ambition is a muscle, guys.
It grows.
Every time you pick the more challenging path,
it grows.
But if you don't exercise, it becomes like
any muscle in your body.
It atrophies.

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And it's harder to get a muscle that's
atrophied back into full commission again.
Number 13, over comforting weakens self-reflection.
We reflect most deeply when we're a bit

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uncomfortable.
Reflection is powered by the friction of experience.
Don't rob yourself, folks, of the growth potential
by seeking constant comfort.
I know comfort sounds great, but you're not
going to grow.

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Number 14, fewer challenges, fewer revelations.
You learn less about yourself when challenges are
rare.
Every obstacle, folks, is a mirror reflecting your
unrealized talents and showing you where you can

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go next.
Number 15, guys, comfort.
It numbs our growth.
And the complete mindset that's behind that.
Being too comfortable fosters fixed thinking, putting us

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on autopilot.
You know, you ever drove somewhere and you're
going to grandma's house, and then all of
a sudden you're making a turn on a
street you always go to, but then for
whatever reason you want to go a different
place.
But suddenly you're making the left to go
to grandma's house because you're just on autopilot.
To reignite your growth mindset, expose yourself to

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the unfamiliar and stay curious about failure.
Number 16, guys, awaken potential outside comfort.
Your biggest breakthroughs happen the moment you step
out of what's known and into what's possible.

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What's possible.
Make courage not comfort your north star.
Number 17, guys, comfort will always invite distraction.
When life gets too cozy, distractions, well, unfortunately

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they multiply.
Challenge yourself with ambitious projects, and you'll find
focus comes naturally, and easing breeds illness.
Challenge channels.
Challenge yourself.

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Challenge your energy, and you'll see that you'll
get stronger, you'll get smarter, you'll get wiser.
Your intuition will become even more heightened.
I know if you've never done this before,
it's like that muscle of atrophy, right?
The muscle that maybe you know somebody that
maybe broke a leg or something, and they

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were in a cast, and when they got
out of that cast, it was like they
had to do a lot of physical therapy
to get that leg or that arm or
that joint or whatever part of their body
back in the groove so it could function
again.
But the comfort, people just wanted to stay
there and atrophy, and if you atrophy, well,
the legs or the joint or the muscle

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or the arm or the finger, it's not
going to work.
So you have to remember, if you let
something get easy and you keep doing that,
it's going to be harder for you to
change.
So do it now.
Number 18, comfort dilutes decision.

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Making important decisions requires clarity and true conviction.
Continual comfort can water down your firmness.
Hard choices made in discomfort shape leaders.

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Comfort obscures clarity.
Comfort clouds your perspective.
To see clearly occasionally disrupt the status quo.
Fresh eyes require a break from smooth surfaces.

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Number 20, guys, comfort delays meaningful change.
Every revolution, whether it's personal or professional, begins
with the choice and the decision to leave
comfort behind.

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Make peace with temporary struggles to gain lasting
transformation in your life.
Number 21, guys, over-reliance on comfort shrinks
your courage.
Courage is, well, the currency of all progress.

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But you see, it dwindles in the presence
of too much comfort.
Your boldness, like a muscle, needs to grow
stronger.
You don't want it to atrophy, like I
said.
Through use.
Number 22, comfort makes you less observant.

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Great leaders are keen observers.
But comfort dulls our senses.
You might say, Chama, how's the impossible?
I mean, I'm just sitting here.
I'm taking care of my body.
Yeah, you're taking care of your body, but
you're missing all the opportunities.
You're missing life.
Life, life is passing you by.
That's what you're missing.

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So, you know, you might not want to
get into the ice rink, or you might
not want to get on the field.
You may want to just have coach keep
you on the bench, because it's safe there.
You know that if you don't go in
and play, well, at least you know you
don't have to worry about missing anything, right,
or scoring, because you're just nice and comfortable

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on the bench with your Gatorade and warm,
you know, let's say long pants covering your
shorts.
I mean, this is truth, guys.
But I think many people want to circumvent
the truth because, well, they're lazy.
And because, well, a nice, warm, plush chair

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or that nice bleacher seat on the bench
or the chairs is more attractive than going
in the game.
Maybe you'll do well.
Maybe you won't.
But that's something you've got to face.
And if you don't do well today, well,
you've got to learn what you can do
tomorrow so you can be better.

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You know, guys, I want to encourage you
to stay vigilant.
Make conscious effort to notice what happens around
you and within you.
Become aware of your environment.
Become aware of the people around you, the
energy around you.

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Become aware of you.
Everything from, you know, how you stand, your
posture, your heartbeat.
Become aware of these things.
So many people don't because they don't think
they're important.
But these are the golden gems to keeping
us healthy and keeping us in alignment with

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our purpose.
Number 23, guys.
Comfort weakens accountability.
Staying too comfortable can and will make it
easy to avoid responsibility.

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For your actions and your results will show.
I was somewhere the other day.
And I learned that there was a change
in plans for something.
When I talked to the person about it,
they're like, well, didn't you know?
I said, no, I didn't know.

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And they said, well, didn't you talk to
X?
And I said, yes, I did.
And they said, well, they told me it
was this reason.
Oh, no, no, we knew since X that
that wasn't going to happen.
And I said, really?
So it's a lot easier for people to
hide behind a text, maybe call in sick.

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I'm not saying everybody does this.
But sometimes people don't show up because, well,
they feel like they've let you down.
But if you could just be accountable in
the beginning about what you said, then you
did your best.

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That's an important thing, guys.
Accountability thrives only when you choose to step
into discomfort and own your journey.
Wow.
That's powerful.
Do you own your journey every day?
Do you take the time to find

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the resources to repel your journey forward?
Do you do that?
Or do you just complain because that's what
everybody else is doing?
The state of your life, and whether you're
successful or not, doesn't have anything to do

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with things you hear on the news.
Because you can still overcome those things.
You can.
But when people hear things in the news,
oh, this is this way, this is that
way, oh, I don't have a chance.
Guys, if somebody tells you to go jump

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off the Brooklyn Bridge, are you going to
go jump?
I hope not.
This is media.
And most of the media does things because
they want a story to lead, so they
make it bleed.
It doesn't even have to bleed.
But they make it bleed so that it
leads in their publication.

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Number 24, guys.
24.
Too much comfort blocks new perspectives.
Perspective shifts happen only when you're out of

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your element.
Seek out new experiences and people who challenge
your assumptions.
Growth will follow, guys.
I promise you growth will follow.
But I don't want to tell you that

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growth is going to be easy because it's
not easy.
And if you're looking for people around you
that haven't grown and they're pulling you down,
it might be time to maybe get them
out of your energy field.
Number 25, guys.
Comfort can and will stall self-invention.

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Many of us are really smart.
But we don't tap into even 2%
of our total intelligence because of something we
heard, something we saw, something we were told.
That's not right.
Personal reinvention, guys, requires discomfort.

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By definition, if you want to transform your
life, make discomfort your friend, every new version
of yourself is waiting just outside your comfort

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zone.
Wanting to get loose and make a difference.
Letting go, guys, is not weakness.
I've said these things before.
A lot of things aren't weakness.
Letting go is not weakness.
It's wisdom.
I've been saying this a lot lately.
I guess I want you to know I
want it to sink in.

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To truly evolve, you must decide right now
that you're going to let go of what
makes you too comfortable.
We had a saying when you go camping.
I'm an Eagle Scout.

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When we went camping in the beginning, it
was like you leave the amenities at home.
I remember actually a camper who came to
camp.
His older brother was a patrol leader.
He was actually my patrol leader, too, a
couple of years.

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He was a no-nonsense kind of person.
You were going to do things by the
book.
You were not going to deviate from things.
You were not going to have any type
of, let's say, amenities.
His brother, a little bit younger than him,

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always liked to watch a certain sports game.
He brought a television, and he had it
in his tent.
There was no electricity, but this TV was
charged, and it probably could work.

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I don't know.
Maybe it had enough time to work for
eight hours.
Every night, he would turn on the TV,
like wake everybody who goes to sleep, and
he'd put it under his covers there.
Sleeping bag.
I remember this.
He'd always wait to his brother, Patrick.
His brother's name was Patrick.
He would go to sleep, and then he

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would turn it on.
He said, you want to watch?
I said, no, no, I'm good.
Well, one night, I think it was just
out of the blue, his brother comes right
in.
He just opens the tent up.
He just walks right in.
He goes, what the blank is this?
He said some choice words.
And well, let's just say he took that

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TV away from him.
It was confiscated for the rest of that
camping trip.
The people that have the comforts don't grow.
Don't learn.
They don't learn the scouting.
They don't learn skills.
Just like in our life, we don't learn
the skills if we have the comforts all
the time.
So we have to practice getting comfortable being
uncomfortable, guys.
That's really important.
Growth lives in the space between who you

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are and who you can become.
I'm John C.
Morley, serial entrepreneur.
Be sure to check out BelieveMeAchieve.com for
more of my amazing, inspiring creations.
I'll catch you real soon.
And practice getting comfortable being uncomfortable.