Standing Up for Truth (S4) S44 E1

Welcome to Season 4, Episode 1 of “Inspirations for Your Life Podcast.” I’m your host, John C. Morley—serial entrepreneur, engineer, marketing specialist, video producer, podcast host, coach, graduate student, and above all, passionate life learner. In every season, I bring you wisdom you can use, strategies you can trust, and inspiration for building the world you want to see. This season’s theme, “Everyday Wisdom on Doing What’s Right,” is all about empowering you to stand tall, speak honestly, and lead with courage at work, at home, and beyond. Let’s dive into our first core topic: Standing Up for Truth.

1️⃣ Standing Up for Truth (30 In-Depth Reflections) 1️⃣ Truth matters, even when it’s unpopular. Truth rarely wins a popularity contest, but it is the backbone of real progress. When you courageously stand on what’s right—even if people disagree—you’re quietly changing the world for the better. Be the person who speaks up, even if you stand alone, because progress always begins with the bold.

2️⃣ Speak out, even if your voice shakes. True courage lives in the trembling voice, the pounding heart, the wobbly words. When you break your own silence—even nervously—you’re piercing the comfort zone that wraps around injustice. Your voice might start a conversation that changes everything.

3️⃣ One honest person can trigger real change. Don’t underestimate what one voice can do. Change doesn’t always start with crowds; more often, it begins with one determined, truthful person. Your willingness to be honest—in any room—can inspire others and reshape the entire culture.

4️⃣ Lies solve nothing—only create bigger problems. Short-term comfort through dishonesty sows seeds for long-term chaos. Every lie is a debt; eventually, the truth collects what it’s owed. Choose honesty—you’ll have fewer problems to manage later and much deeper peace now.

5️⃣ Silence can hide injustice. Evil and unfairness thrive in the quiet corners where no one objects. When you choose to speak up, you shed light. Your words matter, even when they tremble; by naming what’s wrong, you make space for what’s right to grow.

6️⃣ Bravery is saying what’s right, not what’s easy. It’s much simpler to nod along, but true bravery is politely disagreeing, sharing your values, or risking an awkward pause for the sake of what’s true. Others might resist, but respect for your character will last long after convenience fades.

7️⃣ If you won’t stand up, who will? Often, people wait for someone else to act. Be the person to raise a hand, ask a hard question, or gently call for fairness. Real leadership is turning “somebody should…” into “I will.”

8️⃣ Hiding from facts never ends well. It’s tempting to dodge the tough stuff, but those facts resurface, usually when consequences have grown. Face things head-on; the truth is your ally in solving the real problem, not just delaying its arrival.

9️⃣ Integrity: the ultimate superpower. Integrity is the rare trait that unlocks trust, respect, and enduring influence. When people know you stand for truth, you attract better opportunities and stronger partners—because everyone wants to build with someone real.

🔟 Change starts with one honest sentence. Sometimes all it takes is a single, direct statement—a gentle “can we talk about this?” or an honest confession—to disrupt years of pretending. Don’t underestimate the chain reaction from just one moment of realness.

1️⃣1️⃣ Speak the truth—even if it costs you. Yes, honesty comes at a price; you might lose comfort, convenience, or even approval. But with every honest stand, you build inner strength, trust, and a legacy that outlives you.

1️⃣2️⃣ Honesty breaks old cycles. Most toxic patterns survive because nobody calls them out. Your honest words can dismantle long-standing habits—in families, businesses, or friendships—making space for healthier ways of being.

1️⃣3️⃣ Right beats popular, every time. The world often cheers mediocrity or conformity, but history respects—and ultimately supports—those who chose right over easy. That’s how meaningful legacies are made.

1️⃣4️⃣ If you bend the truth, it bends you. Every distortion of honesty leaves a mark. Over time, it’s not just your stories that warp—it’s your character. Straight, honest living lets you walk taller and sleep better.

1️⃣5️⃣ The truth is patient—but it always arrives. No matter how well a lie is hidden, truth has a way of surfacing—often with greater weight. Face it early; own up and adapt. It’s the honest who recover fastest and build strongest.

1️⃣6️⃣ You can’t build trust on silence. Strong relationships are rooted in shared words, not blank spaces. Openness—even about uncomfortable issues—creates connection. Share your perspective. It might just build the bridge you need.

1️⃣7️⃣ Sometimes, being real is radical. In a world of highlight reels and “spin,” authenticity is almost rebellious. L

Episode Transcript

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off.
But first, I want to just let you
know what the title, the master topic is
for the week because it is Saturday and
that means we're kicking off a brand new
master topic for the week.
We go Saturday to Friday in case you
guys didn't know.

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It's Everyday Wisdom on Doing What's Right, and
we're in series four.
And the granular topic for tonight is Standing
Up for Truth, series four, show 44, episode
number one.
So guys, let's get this show kicked off.
I'm excited to have an amazing week with

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you guys.
So here we go.
Welcome to season four again, 44 is the
show and episode number one.
And you know, in just a few months,
we'll be out of series four, we'll be
on the air four years, and we will
actually have our celebration of starting our fifth

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year on the air on January 1st.
So welcome everyone to Inspirations for Your Life
podcast, the ever popular podcast that is getting
people excited all around the nation to become
better.
Who am I?
I'm your host, John Seymourley, serial entrepreneur, engineer,
marketing specialist, video producer, podcast host, coach, graduate

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student, and above all, a passionate lifelong learner.
You know, friends, in every season, I bring
you wisdom, you can use strategies, tips that
you can trust and inspiration for building the
world you want to see in front of
you.
This season's theme, as I said, for the

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week is everyday wisdom on doing what's right.
You know, we have to do what's right,
even when people are not watching us.
It's all about empowering you to stand tall,
to speak honestly, and lead with courage at
work, at home, and of course, beyond.
Let's dive into our very first core topic

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tonight, standing up for truth.
And standing up for truth is what this
night is about.
Standing up for truth, we'll be talking about
every night we have a different, we have
a different granular topic.
So number one is truth matters even when
it's unpopular.
I know your friends probably say, oh, don't
do that because you're not going to be

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liked.
Truth rarely wins a popularity contest, but it
is the backbone of real progress when you
courageously stand on what's right.
Even if people disagree, you're quietly changing the
world for the better.
I was at an event about a week

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ago with some gentlemen, and I was making
a comment about something somebody did that was
positive.
I wasn't stating a public, let's say, endorsement
toward any political candidate or anything like that.
I was just saying that was good they
did that.
Do you know, as soon as I did

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that, the person turned sour to me.
And it told me that they not only
don't have an understanding for people to agree
to disagree with them, they also are one
that wants to manipulate and control people.

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That's no way to be in life.
And if you're around somebody like that, get
away from them.
Be the person who speaks up, even if
you stand alone.
See, a lot of times, like in this
situation, these people didn't want to stand alone
because they were afraid to stand alone.
They didn't want to exercise that backbone, which

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we all have, but some people are afraid
to use.
Because progress always begins with the bold.
And I know that sounds hard for a
lot of people.
Another person said to me, John, I said
something about another positive thing somebody did in
the world, and I lost a friend.
Well, ladies and gentlemen, that's not really a

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friend in the first place.
That's an egotistical manipulator trying to befriend you,
but really only going to be your friend
on certain conditions.
That's not a friend.
That's certainly not a friend that you need.
I call that fair weather friendship.
Number two, guys, speak out.

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Even if your voice shakes, true courage lives
in the trembling voice, the pounding heart, the
wobbly words.
When you break your own silence, even nervously,
you're piercing the comfort zone that wraps around
injustice.
Your voice might start a conversation that changes

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everything, and that everything could be launching a
positive tsunami to literally reorchestrate things around you.
I think that's important to realize.
Number three, guys, one honest person can trigger
real change.
That's why some people that hang around others

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and they notice that you're honest might not
want to hang around you because their modus
in life is to try to get past
everyone, to try to, let's say, bewilder people,
to try to manipulate people.
There's an organization, I'm not going to get
into the details of it, there's an organization
right now that's saying they need to do

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something, and they're lying.
They're saying the reason they have to do
something is because of a shortage of people,
but that's actually a lie.
The real truth of the matter is they're
doing what they have to do because they're
getting sued.
I'm not going to get into all the
details, but I just want to let you
know it doesn't matter how small or how
high or how big you are, if you

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lie, you're eventually going to get found out,
and your reputation's going to go right down
the tubes.
The reputation that you had will become zero
or negative zero.
Don't underestimate what one voice can do.
Change doesn't always start with crowds.

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More oftenly, it begins with one determined, truthful
person.
Your willingness to be honest in any room
can inspire others and reshape the entire culture
within you and around you.
Number four, guys, lies solve nothing.
Not only do they solve nothing, if you

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lie, you're going to have to have a
very, very good memory because you're never going
to remember all the different things that you
said, and eventually, it's going to bite you
in the behind.
So only create bigger problems is what lies
do.
So don't lie in the first place.
Short-term comfort through dishonesty sow seeds for

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long-term chaos.
Even though it might make you feel good
today, it's going to bite you later on.
Every lie is a debt.
Eventually, the truth collects what it's owed.
Choose honesty, and you'll have fewer problems to
manage.
Later and much deeper, peace now.

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That's important, guys.
Number five, silence can hide injustice.
Evil and unfairness thrive in the quiet corners
where no one objects.
When you choose to speak up, you shed
light.
Your words matter, even when they tremble.

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By naming what's wrong, you make space for
what's right to grow.
Number six, guys, bravery is saying what's right,
not what's easy.
If you want what's easy, you don't want
success.
You just want to survive.
And we don't want to survive in life.
We want to thrive.

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Of course, to thrive, we have to survive,
but we want to thrive.
We want to do better than just live.
It's much simpler to nod along, but true
bravery is politely disagreeing, sharing your values, or
risking an awkward pause for the sake of
what's true.
You might lose some people or some colleagues.
Well, they were never really meant to be

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in your circle anyway.
Others might resist, but respect for your character
will always outlast longer than what we notice,
the convenience that will be fading immediately.
Number seven, if you won't stand up, who
will?
Often, people wait for someone else to act.

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Be the person to raise a hand, ask
a hard question, or gently call for fairness.
I found that when you do this around
people that are trying to manipulate you, they
try to put the blame back on you,
or they give you the silent treatment, or
they don't want to hang around you anymore
because they know that you're seeking the truth.

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Real leadership is turning somebody should into I
will.
I hate when people said, well, somebody should,
maybe they will.
That's not leadership.
That's oxymoronship.
Number eight, guys, holding from facts never ends

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well.
It's tempting to dodge the tough stuff, but
those facts resurface usually when consequences have grown.
Face things head on.
The truth is your ally in solving the
real problem, not just delaying its arrival.
And I think that's important to realize, guys.
Number nine, integrity, the ultimate superpower.

(11:33):
Integrity is the rare trait that unlocks trust,
respect, and enduring influence.
When people know you stand for truth, you
attract better opportunities and stronger partners because everyone
wants to build with someone real.

(11:56):
Number 10, change starts with one honest sentence.
Sometimes all it takes is a single direct
statement, a gentle, can we talk about this,
or an honest confession to disrupt years of
pretending.
Don't underestimate the chain reaction from just one

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moment of realness.
I think that's something that a lot of
people miss.
But we have to realize that one moment
of truth is not overrated.
Number 11, speak the truth, even if it

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costs you.
It might cost you a friend.
It might cost you a privilege, an opportunity.
Yes, honesty comes at a price.
You might lose comfort.
You might lose convenience or even approval from
someone.
But with every honest stand, you build inner
strength, trust, and a legacy that will outlive

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you.
Number 12, honesty breaks old cycles.
Most toxic patterns survive because nobody calls them
out.
Your honest words can dismantle longstanding habits in
families, businesses, or friendships, making space for healthier

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ways of being.
And I don't want you to go back
or kiss up to those people that have
tried to, let's say, plaster you or blast
you because you want the truth.
There's nothing wrong with wanting the truth.
And the fact that they don't want you

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to know the truth or be mad at
you because you're asking questions, a typical thing
is you might ask a question or you
might say something good about someone.
And then you might expect a response.
And they're going to do this.
They're going to be in silence.
And then they're going to ignore you.

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They're going to walk away.
And they're going to pretend like you don't
exist.
And when you say to them, hey, well,
what happened?
Oh, yeah, yeah, sorry, I'm over here.
And they'll placate you enough to be enough
for the conversation, but they're really just lying
to everyone, including you and themselves.
Number 13, right beats popular.

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Every time the world often cheers mediocrity or
conformity, but history respects and ultimately supports those
who choose right over easy.
I know we want it to be easy.
I know this, I want things to be
easy, but success doesn't always come with easy.
It comes with some challenges.

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See, that's how meaningful legacies are built and
made.
Number 14, guys, if you bend the truth,
it will bend you.
Every distortion of honesty leaves a mark.
Over time, it's not just your stories that

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warp, it's your character.
Straight, honest living lets you walk taller and
sleep better, knowing that what you said is
the truth, knowing that you can say something
behind someone's back or in front of their
back, because it's the same thing.
It's the truth, it's not a lie.

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That's important, guys.
Number 15, number 15 is one that I
think a lot of people try to avoid,
but it's really important.
And that, ladies and gentlemen, is this.
The truth is patient.

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The truth is patient.
But it always arrives.
No matter how well a life is hidden,
truth has a way of surfacing often with
greater weight.
Face it early, own up, and adapt.
It's the honest who recover fastest and build

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strongest.
Notice I said the honest.
A lot of people will build fast by
lying, okay?
But as quick as they made their empire
is as quick as it'll fall.
Number 16, you can't build trust on silence.

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Strong relationships are rooted in shared words, not
blank spaces.
Openness even about uncomfortable issues creates connection.
Share your perspective.
It might just build the bridge you need.
People that don't wanna have the conversation with

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you are the ones that are gonna hide
their entire life.
Number 17, sometimes being real is radical.
In a world of highlight reels and spin,
authenticity is almost rebellious at times.
Let your guard down and show your full

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self, faults and all.
That's not weakness, guys, that's influence.
Again, that's not weakness, that's influence.
That's not weakness, that's influence.
Choose to be a little vulnerable and you'll
see that you might actually get some respect
from people you didn't even know were watching

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you.
Number 18, dare others to join you.
Sharing truth isn't just for your benefit, it
signals to others that honesty is safe and
it's valued.
Thus, invite colleagues, friends or family into a
culture of real talk led by example, not

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by rubbish or by lies that constantly morph
and change, worse than the game of telephone.
Number 19, guys, truth is louder than noise.
And I don't mean loud as in decibels,
I mean it has more importance so it

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gets people to pay more attention when you
tell the truth.
When people know you tell the truth, it
builds a certain connection between you and them.
We're bombarded every day with opinions, rumors and

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distractions.
Your clear supportive honesty will always cut through
the chatter and the static that seems to
surface.
People listen to what resonates as true, not
the loudest person, just remember that, not the
loudest person.

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Number 20, no one can erase a true
story.
True stories are resilient, even if ignored for
a long time.
They persist fueling learning, recovery and shared wisdom.
Give voice to your story.
It is the beginning of someone else's freedom.

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You never knew that your story could help
someone get their freedom, but it can, it's
motivation.
Number 21, stand for truth.
Someone needs your example right now.

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If you lie, you'll hurt yourself and you'll
hurt the people around you.
You never know who's watching, learning or needing
permission to be honest.
Your courage empowers silent allies to come forward
and multiplies positive change, positive change.

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We're not trying to be positive so that
we can get a merit badge, even on
an Eagle Scout.
We're not trying to be positive so that
we can attract someone's attention.
We're being positive because it's the right thing
to do.
And if people connect with us, well, that's
just a bonus, but you should be positive
because it's the right thing for you to
always be doing.

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Number 22, guys, lies are loud.
Honesty outlasts them.
Falsehoods dominate headlines and gossip, but their shelf
life is short.
Honesty spoken quietly, but consistently becomes the foundational

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pillar everyone would build upon.
It's not something that's fashionable today or a
fad that's gonna be in for the next
month.
Integrity, honesty is something more people need to
live by.

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When you're honest, you always do the right
thing, even though it might be hard.
Number 23, guys.
You're ready for number 23?
Number 23 is this, don't, don't, don't, don't.
Don't you ever trade your voice for comfort.

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I know it might sound easy.
Staying quiet for the sake of avoiding conflict
only breeds more contempt, internal tension, and external
confusion.
Don't be afraid to rock the boat.

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You might be keeping it from sinking.
You might be keeping it from sinking.
That's a truth, right?
Number 24, real power, using words to heal.
Truth isn't about calling out problems.

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It's about mending what's broken.
Be honest about what hurts, what matters, and
what you hope for.
That's where healing and reconciliation begin.
They may not be glamorous at first.

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I didn't say truth was glamorous.
I said it was about building connections and
about building truth and about knowing that you
can count on a person.
I'll give you an example.
There was a person I was working with
a few months ago, a friend that I
made about maybe six, seven months ago.

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And they always do where I stood on
something, but they wanted me to do something
in December.
And I said, I would love to do
December.
It's not gonna make business sense.
And you know that whenever I tell you
to do something, I am always there.
I'm not doing this.
If you want me to do the next
thing, then you're gonna need to do X,

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Y, Z, so it is gonna be a
good ROI for me.
And when people know that you operate on
your word, they never question what you say,
what you do, or even if you leave
them hanging for a little bit, because they
know there's a reason why you did not

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get back to them.
They know that.
Number 25, when you name injustice, you shrink
it.
Problems thrive unnamed by calling out unfairness.
Discrimination or neglect, you draw boundaries that make
positive action possible.
Even gentle truth-telling shrinks unhealthy patterns.

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Number 26, stand up now, thank yourself later.
The best time to do what's right is
always as soon as you notice it.
The rewards aren't always instant, but you'll carry
less regret and more confidence through every future
challenge.
Oh, and you'll sleep better.
Number 27, your story matters.

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Start telling it honestly.
Your lived experience is a lifeline for someone
out there.
By sharing your struggle, growth, and truth, you
help others feel less alone and more empowered.
Number 28, truth has gravity and it pulls
others with you.

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Honesty is magnetic.
When you embrace it fully ethically, collaborators understand
and you get thoughtful discussions and abundant opportunities
before you.
Just seem to magically align.
Be the force that draws others upward.

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Number 29, guys, the world needs less pretending,
more truth.
Pretending is exhausting and it's just in the
movies.
And unproductive, by the way.
The more honest we are in all settings,
the more creative, productive, and supportive our workplaces
and lives become.

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Now, doing this day one is gonna sound
hard, especially if you've been lying or the
easier way to say that is being a
prevaricator.
A prevaricator is just another nice way of
saying liar.
So lots of us say to somebody, I
understand where you're coming from.
I don't like to say, hey, you know,
I know you're a liar.
You seem to be prevaricating to me.

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They know what it means, but it just
seems a little more respectful.
It's still lying though.
Number 30, if in doubt, be transparent.
When you're not sure what to do, clarity
is the safest compass.
State your intentions, share your uncertainties, and invite
feedback immediately.

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I wish more organizations would be transparent, whether
that be our government, whether that be certain
people that I connect with daily.
But when you are around a culture of
people that are prevaricators or liars, they kind
of do that without even thinking.

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It's like an autonomous reaction, they just lie.
I think that's bad.
Ladies and gentlemen, this is gonna be an
amazing week.
I am John C.
Morley, serial entrepreneur.
I invite you to connect with me after
the show at believemeachieved.com.
There you can get my short form content,

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my long form content.
You can read articles, replay this show, other
shows will elevate your life.
You'll get podcast wisdom, inspirational stories, and leadership
success.
I know it's gonna seem like lying is
gonna get you to the top, and it
might, but you're gonna drop and sink even

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faster than you rose.
And that's not really a victory that we
wanna celebrate, is it?
Guys, have yourself a great rest of your
day or evening.
I'm John C.
Morley, serial entrepreneur, and be sure to check
out believemeachieved.com.