Stop Paying for Comfort (S4) S40:E1

Welcome to the Inspirations for Your Life Podcast. I’m John C. Morley — Serial Entrepreneur, Engineer, Marketing Specialist, Video Producer, Podcast Host, Podcast Coach, and lifelong learner. I’ve built businesses, launched podcasts, and helped countless people unlock their potential. But one truth stands above all else: comfort can be your enemy. It lulls you, numbs your ambition, and shrinks your growth. Today, we’re breaking down 25 truths about comfort — truths that can transform the way you think, act, and live.

1️⃣ Comfort zones shrink growth zones. Every time you settle for comfort, you limit yourself. Growth doesn’t happen on a couch or behind a screen where everything feels safe. Growth happens when you stretch, when you take risks, and when you challenge the boundaries of what you think is possible. Every uncomfortable choice you make expands your potential.

2️⃣ Too cozy, too blind. Life is full of signals — opportunities, warnings, lessons — but comfort clouds your vision. When everything feels easy, you stop noticing what’s around you. Stepping into discomfort sharpens your eyes, clears your mind, and allows you to see possibilities you would otherwise miss.

3️⃣ Comfort kills curiosity. Curiosity is the engine of innovation. But when life is too comfortable, you stop asking questions, exploring ideas, or seeking new experiences. Comfort lulls you into thinking you already know enough. The moment you stop asking “what if?” is the moment growth stops too.

4️⃣ Ease erases urgency. Nothing drives action like urgency, and nothing kills it like comfort. When life feels easy, we tell ourselves we have time — that there’s no rush to pursue dreams, take risks, or make bold moves. But ease today can become regret tomorrow if we don’t act while opportunity is knocking.

5️⃣ Growth lives past the couch. Your dreams don’t happen in your comfort zone. Every breakthrough, every new skill, every achievement exists beyond the safe space of ease. You must get up, move, take action, and embrace the challenges waiting for you. Growth demands effort, not comfort.

6️⃣ Comfort feeds complacency. “Good enough” becomes the enemy of greatness. Comfort convinces you that what you have is enough, that the status quo is sufficient. But the world doesn’t reward complacency — it rewards those willing to push, struggle, and exceed expectations.

7️⃣ Soft living, sharp decline. A life without resistance weakens us. Just like muscles atrophy without exercise, your mind, drive, and resilience fade without challenge. Soft living creates a slow decline, and comfort disguises the danger until it’s too late.

8️⃣ Comfort numbs ambition. Ambition thrives on hunger. Comfort is the sedative that quiets it. If you want to achieve extraordinary things, you must step into challenges, take risks, and embrace discomfort as a fuel for progress.

9️⃣ Progress hates autopilot. Living on autopilot may keep you moving, but it won’t take you anywhere new. Real progress requires focus, intention, and active effort. Comfort encourages routine — growth demands action.

🔟 Comfort is a silent cage. The walls are invisible, but the effect is real. Comfort can trap you quietly, year after year, until you realize that the life you wanted passed you by. The only way out is awareness and deliberate action.

1️⃣1️⃣ Too safe = too stuck. Playing it safe guarantees survival, but it guarantees stagnation too. The people who achieve remarkable things embrace risk. Safety without challenge leaves you stuck where you are, never moving forward.

1️⃣2️⃣ Comfort steals hunger. Hunger drives ambition, creativity, and resilience. Comfort dulls that drive until you stop striving. To stay hungry, you must embrace challenges that force you out of ease and into action.

1️⃣3️⃣ Growth hurts — comfort hides. Pain is the companion of growth. Comfort hides us from it, but in hiding we also hide from progress, achievement, and fulfillment. Growth is uncomfortable, but that discomfort is a signal that you’re moving forward.

1️⃣4️⃣ The easy road dead-ends. Shortcuts may feel rewarding in the moment, but they rarely lead anywhere meaningful. The road of ease brings quick comfort but rarely leaves a lasting impact. Real accomplishment comes from tackling the hard paths.

1️⃣5️⃣ Comfort costs awareness. When life is easy, your senses dull. You stop noticing opportunities, threats, and the lessons all around you. Challenge sharpens awareness. Discomfort brings clarity.

1️⃣6️⃣ Chase challenge, not cushions. Cushions feel nice, but they don’t build character, skill, or resilience. Challenge does. Every obstacle you face and overcome strengthens you in ways comfort never can.

1️⃣7️⃣ Comfort zones are danger zones. They feel safe, but the danger lies in their invisibility. Stay too long in comfort, and life passes by. Growth, opportunity, and fulfillment exist beyond those inv

Episode Transcript

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Morley here, serial entrepreneur, traveling and a little
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All right, guys, without any further ado, let's
go ahead and get the show started.
But I want to let you know our
master topic for the week.
And that's also our topic for today.
And that, that master topic is what I
think you guys are going to find pretty
interesting.
And that's cost of comfort versus the power

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of awareness series for Show 40, episode number
one.
All right.
So welcome everyone to the Inspirations for Your
Life podcast.
I am John C.
Morley, serial entrepreneur.
I'm an engineer, marketing specialist, video producer, podcast
host, and podcast coach.

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And of course, a lifelong learner.
And you guys know that I am also
a graduate student.
So it is so great to be with
everyone here on the show again.
You know, I've built businesses, launched podcasts, and
help countless people unlock their potential in life.
But one truth stands above all else.

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Comfort can be your enemy.
It lulls your into numbness, your ambitions, and
it kind of, well, shrinks your growth.
Tonight, I'm breaking down 25 truths about, well,
what's really going on that can transform the

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way you think and live every day.
Are you ready for number one?
I know you are, guys.
So number one is a really good one.
And that is this.
That is that comfort zones shrink growth zones.
Every time you settle for comfort, you limit
yourself.

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Growth doesn't happen on a couch.
I want to be very, very clear on
that.
Or behind a screen where everything feels safe.
Growth happens when you stretch, when you take
risks, and when you challenge the boundaries of

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what you think is possible.
You see, every uncomfortable choice you make expands
your potential.
I bet you guys know that.
Yeah.
So number two is too cozy, too blind.
Life is full of signals, opportunities, warnings, lessons,
but comfort clouds your vision.

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When everything feels easy, you stop noticing what's
around you.
Stepping into discomfort sharpens your eyes, clears your
mind, and allows you to see possibilities you
would have otherwise, well, missed.
Number three, guys, comfort kills curiosity.

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Curiosity is the engine of innovation.
But when life is too comfortable, you stop
asking questions, exploring ideas, or even seeking new
experiences.
Comfort lulls you into thinking you already know
enough.

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The moment you stop asking, what if, is
the moment growth stops too.
Number four, guys, ease erases urgency.
Nothing drives action like urgency.
And nothing kills it like comfort.

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When life feels easy, we tell ourselves we
have time.
There's no rush to pursue dreams, take risks,
or make bold moves.
But ease today can become regret tomorrow if
we don't act while opportunity is knocking.

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Number five, guys, this is one I think
that's very important for a lot of you
to understand, and that is this, growth lives
past the couch.
Your dreams don't happen in your comfort zone.
Every breakthrough, every new skill, every achievement exists

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beyond the safe space, okay?
And that's important to ease up, to move,
to take action, and to embrace the challenges
waiting for you.
You see, growth demands effort, not comfort.
Number six, comfort feeds complacency.

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Good enough becomes the enemy of greatness.
Comfort convinces you that what you have is
enough, that the status quo is sufficient.
But the world doesn't reward complacency.
I'm sorry, guys, it doesn't.
It rewards those willing to push, to struggle,

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and exceed expectations.
That's the truth.
I know a lot of you are probably
saying to me, John, well, you know, I
don't really know if that's true.
I'm telling you it is very, very, very
true.
And with this truth, I think you can
understand that it's something you have to think
about, you know, right now.
I mean, I think that's a very important

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thing to realize.
Number seven, guys, soft living, sharp decline.
A life without resistance weakens us, just like
muscles atrophy without exercise.
Your mind, drive, and resilience fade without challenge,

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guys.
Soft living creates a slow decline, and comfort
disguises the danger until it's too late.
Number eight, comfort numbs ambition.
That's an interesting one.
Ambition thrives on hunger, okay?

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And oftentimes, it's sedative that quiets it.
If you want to achieve extraordinary things, you
must step into challenges, take risks, and embrace
discomfort as a fuel for progress.
I think that's something that a lot of
people miss.
They feel that they don't need to do

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that.
But I'm here to tell you guys that
you do need to do this.
This is a very, very important thing.
And I know some people, like, don't want
to hear this.
I'm here to tell you for your own
good that this is the truth.
Number nine, guys, progress hates autopilot.
Yeah, it does.
It really, really hates autopilot.

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Living on autopilot may keep you moving, but
it won't take you anywhere new.
Real progress requires focus, intention, and active effort.
Comfort encourages routine.
Growth demands action.

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Comfort is a silent cage.
Number 10, the walls are invisible, but the
effect is real.
You see, guys, what I want you to
understand is that comfort can trap you quietly
year after year until you realize that the
life you wanted, unfortunately, just passed you by.

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The only way out is awareness and deliberate
action.
I think those are important things.
And I think sometimes people don't understand, you
know, why they do things or why things
happen.
Number 11, guys, too safe is too stuck.
That's right.

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Too safe is too stuck.
Playing it safe guarantees survival, but it guarantees
stagnation too.
The people who achieve remarkable things in life
embrace risk.
Safety without challenge leaves you stuck where you

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are, never moving forward.
And I think that's a big problem for
some people.
They just feel that comfort is the way
they need to be, and they don't want
to move because they're happy and they're at
a status quo.
Number 12, comfort steals hunger.
It really does.

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And the drive of ambition, creativity, and, of
course, resilience.
Comfort dulls that drive until you stop striving.
To stay hungry, you must embrace challenges that
force you out of ease and into action.

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Number 13, guys, growth hurts.
Comfort hides.
Pain is the companion of growth.
I think that's an important one to realize
that it's about growth, right?
And I think sometimes we don't understand what

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growth is, but we need to.
We need to.
We need to understand that comfort hides us
from it.
But in hiding, we also hide from our
progress, achievement, and fulfillment too.
And growth is uncomfortable, but that discomfort is
a signal that you're moving forward.

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Number 14, the easy road dead ends.
Shortcuts may feel rewarding in the moment, but
they rarely lead anywhere meaningful.
The road of ease brings quick comfort, but
rarely leaves a lasting impact.

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Real accomplishments come from tackling the hard paths.
And I know you might say, John, but
I don't really want the hard path.
I know you may say you don't want
it, but if you don't embrace the hard
path, you will never, ever grow and you'll
never be bigger or better than what you

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are now.
Number 15, guys, comfort costs awareness.
When life is easy, your senses, they just
dull out.
You stop noticing opportunities, threats, and the lessons
all around you.
Now notice what I said, not just opportunities.

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You also stop noticing threats, right?
Threats.
This reminds me of something.
It's something you might've heard many times before.
It's called SWOT, S-W-O-T, Strengths,
Weaknesses, Opportunities, and Threats Analysis.

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So when your optimism wanes and when you're
not able to find new opportunities, you're also
not able to sense the threats that may
be around you.
I think that's important.
So guys, I want to encourage you to
challenge and sharpen your awareness.

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Discomfort brings clarity.
And I know you may not want to
hear that, but that is the ultimate, ultimate
truth.
It brings clarity every single day of your
life.
And if you could just understand that one
thing, then you could just grow exponentially.

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Number 16, guys, chase challenge, not cushions.
Cushions feel really nice, but they don't build
character, skill, or resilience.
Challenge does.
Every obstacle you face and overcome strengthens you
in ways that comfort never could even start

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to.
Number 17, guys, comfort zones are danger zones.
You might say, John, well, no, they're not.
They're keeping me safe.
Actually, they're not.
They're keeping you from your victories.
You see, they feel safe, but the danger

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lies in their invisibility.
Stay too long in comfort and life just
passes you by.
Growth, opportunity, and fulfillment exist beyond those invisible
walls.
You might say, John, I want to stay

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there.
I'm so comfortable.
But you're never going to grow.
You're never going to progress.
You're never going to, what I like to
say, reinvent yourself.
You know, make connections.
You're just going to be basically taking life
and surviving.

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But I don't want to survive.
I want to thrive.
And I hope you do too.
When you thrive, that's when your life can
take on this whole new dimension, a new
meaning, and it gives you something special, which
is your purpose.
Number 18, guys, ease today, regret tomorrow.

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Every time you choose comfort over courage, you
risk future regret.
Don't trade long-term success and satisfaction for
temporary ease.
Your choices today shape your reality tomorrow.
And I know that sounds like something nobody
really wants to hear, but this has been

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proven with science so many times that I'm
hoping that you will choose to understand this.
And by understanding this, I think you can
make, well, you can make a huge, huge
difference in your life.
But I don't want to tell you that
it is going to be easy, because I'd

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be lying to you if I told you
that it was going to be easy.
It is not going to be easy.
Definitely not going to be easy, guys.
I think that's important to realize, guys.
I think that's really important.

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I think these are things that sometimes we
get stuck in our own pathways.
And I think the reason we get stuck
in them is because we feel that the
comfort we are with is everything.
But really, it's the comfort that's locking us
out, all right?

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I know this is hard to embrace, but
it is the truth, guys.
It's absolutely the truth.
Number 19, guys, comfort blinds us.
Struggle will always sharpen us.
Struggle forces learning, resilience, and creativity to be

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at their peak.
Creativity is something that some people, well, they,
let's say, forget about it.
They don't realize that they can harness creativity.
Comfort blinds you to growth and keeps your
potential dormant, right?

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Do you want your skills and your potential
to be dormant when it could be thriving?
Survive.
Make a choice, guys.
Embrace the tension.
It's where transformation happens every single day.
I'm not telling you guys that it is

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going to be easy.
If I did, I would be lying to
you.
I'm not telling you it's going to be
easy.
But the more that you practice getting comfortable
being uncomfortable, the easier that that becomes.
Number 20, don't let comfort kill the calling
that you were meant here to be your

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purpose.
Everyone has a purpose.
Comfort whispers to play small.
Avoid risk and stay hidden.
It'll be better that way.
But your calling demands courage, effort, and the
willingness to face challenges head-on.

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You see, comfort slows, 21, innovation.
Innovation requires risk, experimentation, and occasional failure.
Comfort encourages repetition and routine.
To create something new, you must disrupt the
familiar and venture into uncertainty.

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I know that sounds like something that nobody
wants to do.
Because again, it's, well, it's uncomfortable, right?
And when I say something's uncomfortable, that's a
big problem for a lot of people.
It is definitely uncomfortable.
So I want to tell you that you
can practice getting comfortable, being uncomfortable, and your

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life will be a lot easier.
Again, I'm not telling you that this is
going to be something that is so easy
to just pick up like, you know, a
drop of the hat.
It's not, guys.
But I can promise you that the reward
from being patient and persistent will definitely pay

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off.
Number 22, guys, comfort robs our resilience.
And it has no right to do that.
Resilience grows when you face adversity.
Nobody wants to face adversity.
But if we could think about adversity as
being magical, helping us to change the course

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of where we are, just like a GPS
does in our car, right?
We make a wrong turn, it tells you
recalculating, or make a legal U-turn, or
what have you.
It keeps us on track.
So our adversities keep us on track to
help us sharpen our curiosity, help us sharpen
our resilience.
Comfort, guys, makes you fragile.

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Without struggle, you won't know how strong you
really are until, unfortunately, guys, you don't want
to hear this, until it's too late.
Number 23, guys, comfort will always drain your
creativity.
Creativity thrives on friction, tension, and the challenges

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are real.
And that's what's around you.
Comfort removes the pressure that sparks new ideas,
leaving imagination stagnant.
Comfort delays destiny.
Every time you choose what's easy over what's
bold, you delay life.
You're meant to live.

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And I think that's something that a lot
of us need to come to grips with.
Comfort is a thief of time.
It really is.
But it robs so many people in such
an innocent way.
And you can never get time back, guys.
And of course, by robbing that, it also

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robs our dreams and our true potential in
life.
And I think when we could think about
our true potential, that's when we could say,
you know what?
I could be doing this.
I can do this.
I know that I'm better at this, right?
I know that that's how it should work.
But again, I'm not going to tell you
that this is going to be easy because
I'd be lying to you.

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Number 25, comfort feels safe, but it costs
us our freedom.
It costs us our freedom.
True, freedom does come from growth, courage, and
action.
I'll admit that.
But comfort may feel safe, but it keeps

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you chained to mediocrity.
You might say, John, what's the big deal?
Plenty, guys.
If you're chained to mediocrity, it's like you're
never going to be able to grow.
You're never going to be able to expand.
You see, the price of ease is the
loss of extraordinary life that you know you

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deserve.
And I think sometimes when we might put
down that, you know, we're not worthy enough,
we're not this, we're not that.
When we do the, I'm not this, I'm
not this, I'm not that, we put all
this in our mind and we start to
focus on these things.

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And the brain and body is like, okay,
that's what you want.
More you don't deserve coming up.
I think that's important to realize that.
To realize that we're paying a price, and
I don't mean a price by dollars and
cents.
I mean, we're paying a price, whether it's

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losing time, could be relationships, it could be
allowing us to unfurl our wings, to be
able to explore what maybe we didn't even
know existed.
See, that's a key point, guys.
A very, very key point.
You know, I want to take this moment
to tell you guys that tonight's episode of

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Inspirations For Your Life brought a lot of
key points together.
Remember, guys, and I know this is something
you may not want to hear me say.
Remember, remember, remember, letting go of comfort isn't
weakness.
I've been saying a lot of things aren't

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weakness, getting the point, right?
Letting go isn't weakness.
So this is important to understand.
It's wisdom.
Every step into a challenge, every risk you
take, every time you choose, every growth over

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ease brings you closer to the life you
were meant to live, every move you make,
right?
Those are important things.
And I think if we can maybe just
have an awareness of what's around us, guys,
that's just so powerful.

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I mean, more powerful than any words.
We know that our emotions drive us.
We know that our emotions, we learned last
week, have the ability to push us forward
or to pull us back.
Those are important things.

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I want to invite each and every one
of you, after the show here today or
tonight, I'd like you to connect with me.
It's very easy to do.
You can just visit BelieveMeAchieve.com.
What are you going to find there?
That's a great question.
You're going to find replays of the shows,

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Inspirations for Your Life, the Jay Moore Tech
Talk show.
You're going to find other short form content,
such as my reels.
You're going to find my articles that I
write and other posts.
And I think just making the choice to
want to know will give us what we

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need to be in the right place at
the right time to actually know.
Somebody once said to me, John, you know,
the most important thing in life is what
you don't know.
What you don't know is so valuable, guys.
So there is more great content at BelieveMeAchieve

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.com.
Now, I can ask you to go there.
I can't make you go there.
I think the important thing is that when
you make these choices in life and you
know that you are destined for great things,
this is when magic happens in your life.

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And I hope that this entire week about
cost of comfort, OK, versus the power of
awareness will not only reshape, but give you
a whole new lease on life.
That is my wish and dream for you.
I thank you so much for tuning into

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Inspirations for Your Life podcast.
As we're getting very close to yearing out
our fourth year, we'll be kicking off our
fifth year.
I can't believe that, guys.
Have yourself a fantastic evening, and I'll catch
you real soon, everyone.