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May 19, 2024 42 mins

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Is Constant Negativity Risking Your Relationships? 

Stephen and Sharlene are joined by the Author of “The Role of Love” Paul Zolman. He shares his incredible journey from growing up in an abusive, angry household to discovering a transformative path of love and compassion. 

Despite making a promise to himself in high school to never act out of anger, Paul found himself trapped in the same destructive patterns. It wasn't until a series of life-altering experiences that he began to take responsibility for his own actions and seek a new way of living.

Chapters: 03:06 - The Power of Small Adjustments 06:08 - Seeking Love Across America 12:12 - The Inspiration Behind the Love Language Game   30:58 - Creating and Cherishing a Journal for Memories 39:05 - Reflecting on Sunrise and Sunset During Work

Through small, consistent changes, he gradually shifted his focus from anger to love, using the principles of love languages and a unique tool, a game,  he developed to guide his daily interactions.

Listen, learn, and walk away learning the intentional actions and how to cultivate positive habits to overcome deeply ingrained negative behaviors.

Paul offers you actionable and practical advice to break free from a cycle of anger or negativity.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your healthcare provider or a qualified mental health professional with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition or mental health concerns.

 

 

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