February 24, 2026 • 16 mins
Today on the pod Zoe tells us about the unusual thing she found in the women's bathroom, and toilet etiquette in general is discussed.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Daily bespoke content that you won't find on the radio
show The Hurdar Keep Breakfast podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Good afternoon, and welcome to the first of our group sessions.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Name is Jimmy Wells, Zoe Bush, Zoe welcome, Maurice Stewart
perhaps her welcome, and Ruder welcome. Yolder Zoe went to
the toilet. She would like to tell us about it. Okay,
to shear, Zoe, Now.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
You have the cry of belly out here. And I
went to the toilet and there was a lady standing
in the toilets, crying in.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Front of the mirror, right, So the cry the crier
of gate, three.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Different cry, not saying one as yeah, no, well, and
so when Zoe walked back in to the office, she
walked past me and she goes, what I heard was
I just had a cry in the toilet.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
I knew you did. I was like, hell, as long
as you're not doing it there around me, all good? No,
I had a crier, A crier, got it okay.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
So immediately when you see a cry, you think, what's
she crying about?
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (00:59):
He was, wasn't It was the female toilets though, Jerry,
that's true.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
But me and are allowed to go to the female
toilets too, are we No, really, you're not you and
I allowed to? I don't want it. Man, I've been
in there once and someone had bombed that.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
Wasn't in the marshmallow.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Man woman not gross the girls.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Yeah, so you were in there, and what was your
initial thought with this person crying and the toilet.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
Well, to be honest, at first, I was like, she's
just sniffling like mania think she's just the whole buildings
caught it. But then she sort of wiped her cheek
and I was like, oh, this isn't good. Anyways, I
went to the toilet and I was hoping that by
the time I got out, I maybe i'd ask her
are you okay? I was going through something, I think.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
I thought, it's crazy she's not in the cubicle now
she wasn't.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Fall out and about well I know, and then by
the time I left my cubicle, she was out the door,
so I didn't have the chance to.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
I don't know if I would have said anything.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Any I feel like, if you're doing it in the bathrooms,
you don't want anyone.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Yeah, what were you going to come out and be like,
oh my god? What's wrong? Is it your haircut?
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Is it the haircut they've chosen? Wrong? Close today, It's okay,
you can get changed here, put my jersey on.
Speaker 6 (02:14):
There would be groups of people though, that would cry
in public, just so you'd go up to them and be like,
hey you yeah, you are good.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
But it's not really in public.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
No really now, Well, that's what I wonder about the
crier of Babe Belly, because she was out there for oh,
probably like a month. They crying out there every day.
But I actually think in her mind she was hiding
from people. I don't think she knew that we could
see her. And we're using this to fuel our podcast. Okay,
so cry it.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
You said you had a different experience in the toilets.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
So I was in there and this lady was crying
out the thing, and then Zoe came it. I went
into the bathroom just before, and our bathroom lights are
on a timer, so when you walk in, the lights
switch on. I walked in, the lights flicked on, and
I could see one of the cubicles was occupied. That
has happened to me, so, and I could see this
guy's shoes. So some big shitter was in there. And
(03:12):
he was taking his mirrored time. It was so long
the lights had turned off and he was taken as
very old time before. No, I've never heard the lights
come off.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
You have to be in there for ten minutes for the.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
No bullshit by yourself. Ten minutes yeah, not move.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah, so ten minutes stationary st Well.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I'm not generally moving that much when I'm taking it, dumb,
You're not an active dumber.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
My bow might be moving, but the rest of me. Shit.
We got an active ship here, podcast, an active shitter
in the building. Yeah, active shadow. So what did he
say anything to you? I thank god you came in
because I was in the dark for a while. Then no,
but it maybe not want to be in there for
very long, you know what I mean? It is weird.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Also, if you're sitting in the last turned off, don't
you do one of the waving arm things to get
the lights?
Speaker 3 (04:04):
He's got nice shitting in the dark. We beat women
a shit in the do was waker? Aka shit, it's
nice sometimes?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
All right, Well, while we're here, does anyone I'm an
older man, so you're young. You probably haven't experienced shitting
in the dark. Pitch play, Yeah, just like fully sting
in the dark.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
You're young, you still like to leave the lights off.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
It's better for everybody that those lights are off.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Favorite cubicles. If we're going one being hard up against
the wall where the hand basins are on that same wall,
that's one, two, three, and then four is the accessible cubicle.
I know what yours is due. Yeah, I like accessible.
I like the room. Yeah. And I know people think
that's some kind of tournament on my behalf. It's not.
(04:57):
It's just let's be honest, how many people are using that?
Have anyone ever seen anybody come out of there who
needs an accessible toilet? Anyone? I'll tell you what I've seen, anyone,
I'll tell you what I have seen in there. We
are across the road from a prominent gym that might
(05:19):
be frequented by members of a community who had to
parade on the weekend and church. Yeah, and our toilets
used to be public toilets. And I believe that that
was a dogging spot for a while there, because I've
seen on multiple occasions multiple pairs of shoes underneath the
(05:41):
door facing the same way. That's what I've seen. That's
my lived experience. Six. I'm not. Well, is that your truth?
That's my truth, and I'm speaking it. But yes, I
have seen that that's the worst. But I know to
your point, I don't think i've ever seen weird.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
For me, that is far more palatable than someone laying
a mass of running ship in there and and then
like I'd rather, I'd rather come into a cubicle after
two dudes have made love or whatever the hell they
were doing making love. It's probably more like just probably
second basing.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
You reckon, maybe third home run you reckon? Surely not
well and a toilet. It's a home run, but it's
I wouldn't say it's making love. I don't think there's
any Okay, yeah you reckon.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
You reckon?
Speaker 6 (06:30):
Yeah, well which way round with the shoesman? Were they
both point in the same way?
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Way? There? You go?
Speaker 6 (06:37):
Okay, rechround?
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Well yeah, well it could be a reach around, and
I think members of that community definitely do do that.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
I don't know, I don't know. Good point it probably was.
I'd say it'd be a reach.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Around when my money's for me, My money is on
reach around because.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
The other and here like you need all sorts of
other things to do the other you can't. Oh really, Jesus, Chris, Okay, okay,
where did we actually? I blame you for this, man,
I blame Zoe toilet, But I mean none of us
could have known what was about time folded anyway, So
(07:16):
you're that one. I also don't think that there's any
shame in using it. I think that it is a
cubicle that is also accessible to people with additional needs.
It's not reserved specifically for them. Yes, thank you, it's
just thank you. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Different than I would never park in an accessible car back.
The other thing is unleass you.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Your nan had one of those things on her car
and you were driving her car and you just needed
to pop in the grab a box pisse totally pain
for example.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
But I would also say that if someone of the
accessible toilet community, that's.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
What they like calling themselves accessible toilet community, you know
the Middle East, they call them people of termination. But
if they knocked on the door and say I, you know, yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
I'm a member of the accessible tooy can mean I
need to get any I'd immediately drop what I was doing.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Even if I was medwipe, I'd drop what I was
telling you. I just I just get straight out of there.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Here's a question for you, I would you know, I
would move cubicle straight away.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
And finish what you're doing. Okay, Can I ask you
space you need? I would ask the question. It's like, oh,
you seem to be able to use that other one?
What you'd put them through? A t and a chair?
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (08:32):
What are you capable of? Well, if you're in a wheelchair,
sit down to around if you're not.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
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Speaker 3 (08:49):
More what okay, So, here's a scenario for you, cherry
and feel free to when So you're you're med number
twos at home? Uh accessible to or the non either either.
I think this scenario money to be harder than the accessible.
(09:11):
Your family's asleep, somebody breaks into your house. Are you
do you wipe or do you just go out there
and try and deal with the intruder?
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Like?
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Do you know what I do?
Speaker 2 (09:23):
I just give it a quick wipe, a quick wipe
and then move on. I mean I wouldn't look. I
just wipe and then and then wipe and drop in
the same motion.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
We're on and I'm out there defending my family totally. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Ah, there was always mat His's argument for why he
wears closed to be because I'm a Norde sleeper. But
he's always like I need to be like what happens
if there's an intruder. I'm like, Firstly, when the last
time he had an intruder?
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Secondly, you only get up and kung film are you
going to know? Yeah? Well no, for me, I sleep
in shorts because arounded something like that. It's just from
years of flatting. Someone's always going to burst into your
room and you don't want to just be you know,
winning the pulling in there.
Speaker 6 (10:11):
For me, I'm more terrifying with no clothes on. So
if I have to run out and an intruder and
if I've got no clothes on, that's frightening for any person, man, woman, intruder. Yeah,
so it would be stupid of me to wear clothes
to bid.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
Yeah, it's a deterrent. Yeah, it's a deterrent, saying on
a number of levels.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
It's a deterrent inside of the bed and outside of
the bed, marital deterrent and it's.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Also what happened to your elbow, bro, It's probably that's
start with. Every night you got to bed and you're like,
I'm doing this for the safety of our family, and
you deserve and you get into bed with.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
You you could you could just shine the torch on
your face with a cold saw and just come out
of the cold saw and they just get the fuck
out and be like, I need to get out of it.
I don't back up her.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Out of there. Are you want this? You come in
this house, We're not piece of this. I had a
South African fom who had bars across the windows of
his house because you know, all the crimes. One night
someone came in with a carjack. This is terrifying, and
they put the carjack between the bars, started turning the
jack and opening the bars to come through. Whow yeah.
Now imagine if as they're doing that, the robbers are
(11:21):
coming through. They got the jack in the bars, and
then all of a sudden, ruder with the phone torch
up to these flace comes out in the window with
the cults. Get out, just leave, leave the carjack, just
leave it. Whatever.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
I always find the bars on the windows seen quite
interesting Sydney, CBD. There's a lot of that and patting
turn et cetera. How many people are just smashing windows
and just forcing their way into your house? Is that
is that common over there?
Speaker 3 (11:45):
I think so? Yeah, because in Australia? Is that? Is
it because it's hot and you've got to leave your
windows open at night? Yeah, that's a good reason. Is
that what it is?
Speaker 4 (11:55):
I don't know that. It sounds like plausible.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Yeah. I think you get your windows smashed a couple
of times. You're like, all right, let's put a bar
on there, let's do something. You know, it'll be wasted.
People throw bottles through the windows and stuff. Kevin, they
look at you. And the other thing I've got when
we're talking windows, Nick, curtains. Why why does anyone have them?
Particularly therese like white sort of half sea through curtains
(12:19):
just on the top, you know, going down you see
a lot of them actually rurally.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Yeah, you know, if you go to the regions, you
see a lot. Every house in moment he's got them.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
Yeah, And so that you can have the curtains open,
there's a bit of light coming in, but people can't
see you. Yes, you know what I mean? But they
can't looking in. What do you do it? They are
they are our house where we from our lounge. You
could see into our lounge for the street. And it's well.
I mean, if you just want to line your own
isn't watch movies because you hung over, you know what
(12:51):
I mean? You don't want people looking at it. And
if someone can see through your window, they will look
through your window.
Speaker 6 (12:55):
You're in a high density area as well, so you
do need some kind of protection without just absolutely closing
the curtains and sitting there in the dark. I can
see why we got a fence.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
We put a fence up, is what we did, because
we didn't want to put the doilies up.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
I feel like anyone's looking in. I feel like you're
in the back of the house. I mean, yeah, don't
you worry about that now. What I wanted to know
was if I'm naked in my own house and someone
is staring at me, who's in the rock because I'm
in my own house? Yeah, I think just we you
can be naked in your own house allowed to do it.
(13:30):
In Singapore you're not allowed to be nerd, and you're
not allowed to be nerd in your own house. If
you get seen by someone being nerd through the window,
you get fine Jesus. Yeah, the Junta they don't like nudity.
And if you just have to be going out of
the showering on your wedding, someone's looking, you've got to
close your blind. Yeah, pretty intense.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
I'd like to see that.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
The town in New Zealand that has the most net
curtains per household.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
Why why can I reckon has got he while here?
I think communities of old people. There's a road in
white and I that has a hospital, a retirement home
and a cemetery on the same road. That's the last
road you level live on.
Speaker 6 (14:13):
Oh a handy Yeah, Havelock North. I feel like a
few oldies hang around, have norse and some gangs.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
Is it to keep this?
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Is it because somehowses some places if the sun comes
and it gets too hot in your house?
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Is that another? Is that? Another feature of the doly
the doiley window thing?
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Also Doyley? Why do people put them on the top
of things? We ran ornaments on a doily? Why I
put it on a doesn't leaves on there?
Speaker 4 (14:39):
Well?
Speaker 6 (14:40):
They look like hanging down, you.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Know, like a crochets are from white something.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
You put your pot on, yes, and some people.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
Putting on the back of the lazy boys. Yeah, they'll
put it doily on the back of the lazy boy.
I get that, because you don't want your greasy here,
staying the lazy boy.
Speaker 6 (14:56):
We ran a sheer we didn't call it, and it
didn't look the doily, but it looked like a sheer curtain.
And we were in a high density area and we
had really big bifold doors, ranch slides, its really big
ranch sliders, and so we and I at first remember
thinking this is going to look shit, but of course
I didn't pick and I have to say it was
(15:18):
pretty It was pretty good just being able to But
that was also a time in my life when I thought, well,
if anyone's going to look through the window at this, yeah,
that's not really.
Speaker 4 (15:27):
My problem is that if you get a curtain, it's
got to be ceiling to floor.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
N Yeah, I went. I made the mistake of cheaping
out and getting blinds in my bedroom and there's a
slit were the blind I come in the office one day.
We used to have a gilla worked over at the
a SEC. She was begin to crystals and astrology and
that kind of shit. And I come in one morning.
I was like, I could not sleep last night because,
(15:50):
oh my god, Say why And I said because of
the moon. She goes, oh my god, same, what's your
star side? And I was like no, the moon was
coming straight through the fucking curtain, hit my eyes and
woke me up up. Yeah, and I'm a cancer. I'm
not blinds. They suck blinds. There's a blind time. My
mum's obsessed with blind Yeah, get out with you.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
You know they have moved into a ninth floor apartment, right,
so they're on the ninth floor.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
Nobody can see you. Yeah. Why would you close the
blinds at night? I just I guess spider Man was
to have a perv into the lounge, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
They think a drone's going to turn up and take
photos of you, eighty two year old.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Getting changed or something like what are you? What are
you doing? Blinds? People looking?
Speaker 4 (16:37):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (16:37):
Well who kids? Oh that's on you. Yeah, get a
bit of this a should we pull the blinds on
this podcast?
Speaker 4 (16:43):
Yeah, we go cry in the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
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Speaker 2 (00:05):
Good afternoon, and welcome to the first of our group sessions.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Name is Jimmy Wells, Zoe Bush, Zoe welcome, Maurice Stewart
perhaps her welcome, and Ruder welcome. Yolder Zoe went to
the toilet. She would like to tell us about it. Okay,
to shear, Zoe, Now.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
You have the cry of belly out here. And I
went to the toilet and there was a lady standing
in the toilets, crying in.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Front of the mirror, right, So the cry the crier
of gate, three.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Different cry, not saying one as yeah, no, well, and
so when Zoe walked back in to the office, she
walked past me and she goes, what I heard was
I just had a cry in the toilet.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
I knew you did. I was like, hell, as long
as you're not doing it there around me, all good? No,
I had a crier, A crier, got it okay.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
So immediately when you see a cry, you think, what's
she crying about?
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (00:59):
He was, wasn't It was the female toilets though, Jerry,
that's true.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
But me and are allowed to go to the female
toilets too, are we No, really, you're not you and
I allowed to? I don't want it. Man, I've been
in there once and someone had bombed that.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
Wasn't in the marshmallow.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Man woman not gross the girls.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Yeah, so you were in there, and what was your
initial thought with this person crying and the toilet.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
Well, to be honest, at first, I was like, she's
just sniffling like mania think she's just the whole buildings
caught it. But then she sort of wiped her cheek
and I was like, oh, this isn't good. Anyways, I
went to the toilet and I was hoping that by
the time I got out, I maybe i'd ask her
are you okay? I was going through something, I think.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
I thought, it's crazy she's not in the cubicle now
she wasn't.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Fall out and about well I know, and then by
the time I left my cubicle, she was out the door,
so I didn't have the chance to.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
I don't know if I would have said anything.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Any I feel like, if you're doing it in the bathrooms,
you don't want anyone.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Yeah, what were you going to come out and be like,
oh my god? What's wrong? Is it your haircut?
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Is it the haircut they've chosen? Wrong? Close today, It's okay,
you can get changed here, put my jersey on.
Speaker 6 (02:14):
There would be groups of people though, that would cry
in public, just so you'd go up to them and be like,
hey you yeah, you are good.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
But it's not really in public.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
No really now, Well, that's what I wonder about the
crier of Babe Belly, because she was out there for oh,
probably like a month. They crying out there every day.
But I actually think in her mind she was hiding
from people. I don't think she knew that we could
see her. And we're using this to fuel our podcast. Okay,
so cry it.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
You said you had a different experience in the toilets.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
So I was in there and this lady was crying
out the thing, and then Zoe came it. I went
into the bathroom just before, and our bathroom lights are
on a timer, so when you walk in, the lights
switch on. I walked in, the lights flicked on, and
I could see one of the cubicles was occupied. That
has happened to me, so, and I could see this
guy's shoes. So some big shitter was in there. And
(03:12):
he was taking his mirrored time. It was so long
the lights had turned off and he was taken as
very old time before. No, I've never heard the lights
come off.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
You have to be in there for ten minutes for the.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
No bullshit by yourself. Ten minutes yeah, not move.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah, so ten minutes stationary st Well.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I'm not generally moving that much when I'm taking it, dumb,
You're not an active dumber.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
My bow might be moving, but the rest of me. Shit.
We got an active ship here, podcast, an active shitter
in the building. Yeah, active shadow. So what did he
say anything to you? I thank god you came in
because I was in the dark for a while. Then no,
but it maybe not want to be in there for
very long, you know what I mean? It is weird.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Also, if you're sitting in the last turned off, don't
you do one of the waving arm things to get
the lights?
Speaker 3 (04:04):
He's got nice shitting in the dark. We beat women
a shit in the do was waker? Aka shit, it's
nice sometimes?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
All right, Well, while we're here, does anyone I'm an
older man, so you're young. You probably haven't experienced shitting
in the dark. Pitch play, Yeah, just like fully sting
in the dark.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
You're young, you still like to leave the lights off.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
It's better for everybody that those lights are off.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Favorite cubicles. If we're going one being hard up against
the wall where the hand basins are on that same wall,
that's one, two, three, and then four is the accessible cubicle.
I know what yours is due. Yeah, I like accessible.
I like the room. Yeah. And I know people think
that's some kind of tournament on my behalf. It's not.
(04:57):
It's just let's be honest, how many people are using that?
Have anyone ever seen anybody come out of there who
needs an accessible toilet? Anyone? I'll tell you what I've seen, anyone,
I'll tell you what I have seen in there. We
are across the road from a prominent gym that might
(05:19):
be frequented by members of a community who had to
parade on the weekend and church. Yeah, and our toilets
used to be public toilets. And I believe that that
was a dogging spot for a while there, because I've
seen on multiple occasions multiple pairs of shoes underneath the
(05:41):
door facing the same way. That's what I've seen. That's
my lived experience. Six. I'm not. Well, is that your truth?
That's my truth, and I'm speaking it. But yes, I
have seen that that's the worst. But I know to
your point, I don't think i've ever seen weird.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
For me, that is far more palatable than someone laying
a mass of running ship in there and and then
like I'd rather, I'd rather come into a cubicle after
two dudes have made love or whatever the hell they
were doing making love. It's probably more like just probably
second basing.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
You reckon, maybe third home run you reckon? Surely not
well and a toilet. It's a home run, but it's
I wouldn't say it's making love. I don't think there's
any Okay, yeah you reckon.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
You reckon?
Speaker 6 (06:30):
Yeah, well which way round with the shoesman? Were they
both point in the same way?
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Way? There? You go?
Speaker 6 (06:37):
Okay, rechround?
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Well yeah, well it could be a reach around, and
I think members of that community definitely do do that.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
I don't know, I don't know. Good point it probably was.
I'd say it'd be a reach.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Around when my money's for me, My money is on
reach around because.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
The other and here like you need all sorts of
other things to do the other you can't. Oh really, Jesus, Chris, Okay, okay,
where did we actually? I blame you for this, man,
I blame Zoe toilet, But I mean none of us
could have known what was about time folded anyway, So
(07:16):
you're that one. I also don't think that there's any
shame in using it. I think that it is a
cubicle that is also accessible to people with additional needs.
It's not reserved specifically for them. Yes, thank you, it's
just thank you. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Different than I would never park in an accessible car back.
The other thing is unleass you.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Your nan had one of those things on her car
and you were driving her car and you just needed
to pop in the grab a box pisse totally pain
for example.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
But I would also say that if someone of the
accessible toilet community, that's.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
What they like calling themselves accessible toilet community, you know
the Middle East, they call them people of termination. But
if they knocked on the door and say I, you know, yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
I'm a member of the accessible tooy can mean I
need to get any I'd immediately drop what I was doing.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Even if I was medwipe, I'd drop what I was
telling you. I just I just get straight out of there.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Here's a question for you, I would you know, I
would move cubicle straight away.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
And finish what you're doing. Okay, Can I ask you
space you need? I would ask the question. It's like, oh,
you seem to be able to use that other one?
What you'd put them through? A t and a chair?
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (08:32):
What are you capable of? Well, if you're in a wheelchair,
sit down to around if you're not.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
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Speaker 3 (08:49):
More what okay, So, here's a scenario for you, cherry
and feel free to when So you're you're med number
twos at home? Uh accessible to or the non either either.
I think this scenario money to be harder than the accessible.
(09:11):
Your family's asleep, somebody breaks into your house. Are you
do you wipe or do you just go out there
and try and deal with the intruder?
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Like?
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Do you know what I do?
Speaker 2 (09:23):
I just give it a quick wipe, a quick wipe
and then move on. I mean I wouldn't look. I
just wipe and then and then wipe and drop in
the same motion.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
We're on and I'm out there defending my family totally. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Ah, there was always mat His's argument for why he
wears closed to be because I'm a Norde sleeper. But
he's always like I need to be like what happens
if there's an intruder. I'm like, Firstly, when the last
time he had an intruder?
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Secondly, you only get up and kung film are you
going to know? Yeah? Well no, for me, I sleep
in shorts because arounded something like that. It's just from
years of flatting. Someone's always going to burst into your
room and you don't want to just be you know,
winning the pulling in there.
Speaker 6 (10:11):
For me, I'm more terrifying with no clothes on. So
if I have to run out and an intruder and
if I've got no clothes on, that's frightening for any person, man, woman, intruder. Yeah,
so it would be stupid of me to wear clothes
to bid.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
Yeah, it's a deterrent. Yeah, it's a deterrent, saying on
a number of levels.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
It's a deterrent inside of the bed and outside of
the bed, marital deterrent and it's.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Also what happened to your elbow, bro, It's probably that's
start with. Every night you got to bed and you're like,
I'm doing this for the safety of our family, and
you deserve and you get into bed with.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
You you could you could just shine the torch on
your face with a cold saw and just come out
of the cold saw and they just get the fuck
out and be like, I need to get out of it.
I don't back up her.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Out of there. Are you want this? You come in
this house, We're not piece of this. I had a
South African fom who had bars across the windows of
his house because you know, all the crimes. One night
someone came in with a carjack. This is terrifying, and
they put the carjack between the bars, started turning the
jack and opening the bars to come through. Whow yeah.
Now imagine if as they're doing that, the robbers are
(11:21):
coming through. They got the jack in the bars, and
then all of a sudden, ruder with the phone torch
up to these flace comes out in the window with
the cults. Get out, just leave, leave the carjack, just
leave it. Whatever.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
I always find the bars on the windows seen quite
interesting Sydney, CBD. There's a lot of that and patting
turn et cetera. How many people are just smashing windows
and just forcing their way into your house? Is that
is that common over there?
Speaker 3 (11:45):
I think so? Yeah, because in Australia? Is that? Is
it because it's hot and you've got to leave your
windows open at night? Yeah, that's a good reason. Is
that what it is?
Speaker 4 (11:55):
I don't know that. It sounds like plausible.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Yeah. I think you get your windows smashed a couple
of times. You're like, all right, let's put a bar
on there, let's do something. You know, it'll be wasted.
People throw bottles through the windows and stuff. Kevin, they
look at you. And the other thing I've got when
we're talking windows, Nick, curtains. Why why does anyone have them?
Particularly therese like white sort of half sea through curtains
(12:19):
just on the top, you know, going down you see
a lot of them actually rurally.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Yeah, you know, if you go to the regions, you
see a lot. Every house in moment he's got them.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
Yeah, And so that you can have the curtains open,
there's a bit of light coming in, but people can't
see you. Yes, you know what I mean? But they
can't looking in. What do you do it? They are
they are our house where we from our lounge. You
could see into our lounge for the street. And it's well.
I mean, if you just want to line your own
isn't watch movies because you hung over, you know what
(12:51):
I mean? You don't want people looking at it. And
if someone can see through your window, they will look
through your window.
Speaker 6 (12:55):
You're in a high density area as well, so you
do need some kind of protection without just absolutely closing
the curtains and sitting there in the dark. I can
see why we got a fence.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
We put a fence up, is what we did, because
we didn't want to put the doilies up.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
I feel like anyone's looking in. I feel like you're
in the back of the house. I mean, yeah, don't
you worry about that now. What I wanted to know
was if I'm naked in my own house and someone
is staring at me, who's in the rock because I'm
in my own house? Yeah, I think just we you
can be naked in your own house allowed to do it.
(13:30):
In Singapore you're not allowed to be nerd, and you're
not allowed to be nerd in your own house. If
you get seen by someone being nerd through the window,
you get fine Jesus. Yeah, the Junta they don't like nudity.
And if you just have to be going out of
the showering on your wedding, someone's looking, you've got to
close your blind. Yeah, pretty intense.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
I'd like to see that.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
The town in New Zealand that has the most net
curtains per household.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
Why why can I reckon has got he while here?
I think communities of old people. There's a road in
white and I that has a hospital, a retirement home
and a cemetery on the same road. That's the last
road you level live on.
Speaker 6 (14:13):
Oh a handy Yeah, Havelock North. I feel like a
few oldies hang around, have norse and some gangs.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
Is it to keep this?
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Is it because somehowses some places if the sun comes
and it gets too hot in your house?
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Is that another? Is that? Another feature of the doly
the doiley window thing?
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Also Doyley? Why do people put them on the top
of things? We ran ornaments on a doily? Why I
put it on a doesn't leaves on there?
Speaker 4 (14:39):
Well?
Speaker 6 (14:40):
They look like hanging down, you.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Know, like a crochets are from white something.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
You put your pot on, yes, and some people.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
Putting on the back of the lazy boys. Yeah, they'll
put it doily on the back of the lazy boy.
I get that, because you don't want your greasy here,
staying the lazy boy.
Speaker 6 (14:56):
We ran a sheer we didn't call it, and it
didn't look the doily, but it looked like a sheer curtain.
And we were in a high density area and we
had really big bifold doors, ranch slides, its really big
ranch sliders, and so we and I at first remember
thinking this is going to look shit, but of course
I didn't pick and I have to say it was
(15:18):
pretty It was pretty good just being able to But
that was also a time in my life when I thought, well,
if anyone's going to look through the window at this, yeah,
that's not really.
Speaker 4 (15:27):
My problem is that if you get a curtain, it's
got to be ceiling to floor.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
N Yeah, I went. I made the mistake of cheaping
out and getting blinds in my bedroom and there's a
slit were the blind I come in the office one day.
We used to have a gilla worked over at the
a SEC. She was begin to crystals and astrology and
that kind of shit. And I come in one morning.
I was like, I could not sleep last night because,
(15:50):
oh my god, Say why And I said because of
the moon. She goes, oh my god, same, what's your
star side? And I was like no, the moon was
coming straight through the fucking curtain, hit my eyes and
woke me up up. Yeah, and I'm a cancer. I'm
not blinds. They suck blinds. There's a blind time. My
mum's obsessed with blind Yeah, get out with you.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
You know they have moved into a ninth floor apartment, right,
so they're on the ninth floor.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
Nobody can see you. Yeah. Why would you close the
blinds at night? I just I guess spider Man was
to have a perv into the lounge, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
They think a drone's going to turn up and take
photos of you, eighty two year old.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Getting changed or something like what are you? What are
you doing? Blinds? People looking?
Speaker 4 (16:37):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (16:37):
Well who kids? Oh that's on you. Yeah, get a
bit of this a should we pull the blinds on
this podcast?
Speaker 4 (16:43):
Yeah, we go cry in the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
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