You’re not single because you’re broken—maybe you’re just asking the wrong questions.

In this deeply personal and hilariously honest solo episode, I share 30 questions you need to ask yourself if you’re serious about finding real love—not the situationship, not the trauma-bond, not the 2-week high followed by ghosting. We're talking love that lasts.

I also open up for the first time about being deaf—how it’s made me feel small, different, and deeply afraid of being pitied… and how I moved past it.

This is the episode where we stop waiting to be "healed enough" for love—and finally figure out what we actually want and deserve.

Tune in if:

You keep attracting the same wrong person in a different font
You’re overthinking love to death
You’re ready to be loved without fixing every flaw first

Listen ‘til the end for the story that might just change how you see yourself—and love—forever.

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30 Questions to Ask Yourself to Find Love

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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson