November 4, 2025 • 7 mins
Ryan from West Hartford thinks his wife is cheating. She joined a Pickle Ball league and never lets Ryan go to any of the games. He thinks she's cheating on him.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, we have got Ryan on the line wants
to be on War the Roses.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Good morning, Ryan, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Hey.
Speaker 4 (00:06):
I am sorry that you're on War the Roses, but
hopefully I can get you or we can get you
some answers. Producer says, your wife's name is Stacy, and
I think.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
The notes say you've been together like ten years.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
Yeah, okay, so obviously you know what War the Roses
is about, and that means you think Stacy's cheating on you.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Tell us what is going on.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
I don't know. She's just been acting really distant. Okay,
that's one thing. And also just just out of nowhere,
she started playing pickleball and okay, she doesn't even worked out,
like she's not even really an active person what and yeah,
it's pretty random. And then also she doesn't like want
(00:51):
me to watch any of her games, okay, and yeah,
just all these things just seem like just kind of
like red flags stacking on top of each other.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
All right, so you've been together ten years and she
has not been a physical person up to this point,
like physically fit going to the gym, working out.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
No that on a picklebacks and stuff. But huh no,
she doesn't do anything.
Speaker 5 (01:17):
Yeah, I don't know what it is with this like
pickleball craze, but pickleball is like the one sport you
can play if you are not athletic, because there's not
a lot of moving around.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
I feel like you do just stand there, maybe.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Stand there and wave the paddle around and kind of
let the ball come to you.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
I stop.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
So, but on top of this pickleball, which I guess
I think, I mean as a woman, I'd love to
join a pickleball league, but I would probably want to
join it if my girlfriends or friends are like a
significant other was doing it with me.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
She hasn't asked you to join the league with her.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
No, definitely not.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Let's catch this cheater.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Let's do it, all right, this is what we're gonna do.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Ryan.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
We're gonna call Jeff, We're gonna call Stacy.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
We're gonna offer Stacy. I think we.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Should offer her like a romantic weekend away. Okay, and
we'll try to get some information out of her and
see who she wants to go with. Okay, Okay, something
is definitely up. If it's cheating, is very strange. All right, Jeff,
you got it.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Let's do it.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Hello, Hi, good morning, is Stacy there?
Speaker 6 (02:28):
This is Stacey.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Hey Stacy, this is Tyler from Leisure Travel. How are
you this morning?
Speaker 6 (02:34):
Oh I'm good.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
How are you?
Speaker 3 (02:36):
I'm doing well? Thank you. Hey.
Speaker 5 (02:37):
I was just shooting you to call to let you
know that you actually won a weekend get away four
two to Lovely Vermont.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Congratulations.
Speaker 6 (02:45):
Oh is this for real?
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Like, yep, this is a one hundred percent legit. We got
your name and number from a third party company. Basically,
in the last six months you must have gotten a
massage or your nailstone or a hair appointment, and that's
how you get signed up.
Speaker 6 (03:03):
Oh my gosh. Cool, thank you.
Speaker 5 (03:07):
Yeah, this is a great deal. Like I said, it's
a trip to Vermont for two people. It can't get any.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Better than that.
Speaker 6 (03:13):
I love it. Wow, thank you.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Awesome. So here's the deal. So the trip is for
two people.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
A lot of times people like to take a romantic
partner with them and we can send them a digital
invite if that's something you're down for.
Speaker 6 (03:29):
Oh yeah, that'd be cute. Okay, yeah, I would love
to do that.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
So basically it's a digital invite. We'll send it to
their email. If you'd like to write a little message
in the invite. We can do that for you.
Speaker 6 (03:39):
Sure, yeah, let's do it all right.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
What would you like me to send in the email?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
Let's write let's take our game on the road.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
Let's take our game on the road. Yes, all right?
And who can I address that?
Speaker 6 (03:59):
To address it to Chase?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Chase?
Speaker 6 (04:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Who's Chase?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Stacey?
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Who's Chase?
Speaker 4 (04:12):
It's me.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
I'm going it's me.
Speaker 6 (04:15):
Who's cha?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
I'm gonna jump in, Stacy.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
This is Courtney, the guy giving you the weekend romantic
weekend get away in Vermont is actually Walmart.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Jeff. You're on the radio.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
You're on Kiss ninety five seven this morning War of
the Roses.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Your husband Ryan is on the line. Go ahead, Ryan, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Who is Chase? Who are you talking about?
Speaker 6 (04:37):
Wow? Wow, this is crazy, This is insane. Who is Chase?
I told you whose Chase is. He's a guy in
my pickleball league, remember, And why are you.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Taking him out on a romantic vacation? It's not Why
did you not say my name?
Speaker 6 (05:00):
Let me speak? Because we discuss like going on like
tournaments and stuff like on the road, and so I
was saying, like that.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Not true? Why are you lying right now? Who is
this guy?
Speaker 6 (05:16):
I just told you who he is. He's in my
pickleball league and we're going on the road to like
compete in pickleball.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
But I don't buy this one bit because I asked you,
I said, I said, a lot of times people will
bring a romantic partner, and you are down for bringing
your game on the road.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
What's up with that?
Speaker 6 (05:34):
I'm I'm not using it in a in a romantic way, Like.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Stop lying, you're lying right now. You're absolutely right now.
This is exactly what they asked you. You want to
go on a romantic weekend and you're bringing another.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Guy exactly, That's that's basically it.
Speaker 6 (05:51):
Yes, I literally said, like he's on my pickleball team
and like I wanted to go and like you know,
have like room to breathe and like practice our game
and like yeah, but you know, we have a stay,
have a friendship.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Like it's not like you're I just I cannot believe
you're saying all these things like this is all this
is all fine, right now, You don't just go out
on the road to play pickleball with somebody when they
ask you if you want to go on a romantic
stay was like it's nothing is adding up. You're acting
(06:28):
like very distant and yeah, you don't let me come
to any of your games. I never come watch you play,
And like it makes sense. You're just trying to go
hang out with this guy. This is what I wanted
for ten years.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
All right, this is where this is. We're not gonna
get any more answers than this.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
I'm gonna put you both on hold, Ryan, just so
you know, we offer a couples counseling if it's something
and you don't have to go as a couple, if
you decide you want to go by yourself, get to
the bottom of it. Sometimes you know it helps. So
I'm gonna put you on hold. You guys can talk
off the air and Ryan just know that we'll pick
up the tab for any type of counseling you guys decide.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Okay, awesome, Thank you,
All right, we have got Ryan on the line wants
to be on War the Roses.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Good morning, Ryan, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Hey.
Speaker 4 (00:06):
I am sorry that you're on War the Roses, but
hopefully I can get you or we can get you
some answers. Producer says, your wife's name is Stacy, and
I think.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
The notes say you've been together like ten years.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
Yeah, okay, so obviously you know what War the Roses
is about, and that means you think Stacy's cheating on you.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Tell us what is going on.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
I don't know. She's just been acting really distant. Okay,
that's one thing. And also just just out of nowhere,
she started playing pickleball and okay, she doesn't even worked out,
like she's not even really an active person what and yeah,
it's pretty random. And then also she doesn't like want
(00:51):
me to watch any of her games, okay, and yeah,
just all these things just seem like just kind of
like red flags stacking on top of each other.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
All right, so you've been together ten years and she
has not been a physical person up to this point,
like physically fit going to the gym, working out.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
No that on a picklebacks and stuff. But huh no,
she doesn't do anything.
Speaker 5 (01:17):
Yeah, I don't know what it is with this like
pickleball craze, but pickleball is like the one sport you
can play if you are not athletic, because there's not
a lot of moving around.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
I feel like you do just stand there, maybe.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Stand there and wave the paddle around and kind of
let the ball come to you.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
I stop.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
So, but on top of this pickleball, which I guess
I think, I mean as a woman, I'd love to
join a pickleball league, but I would probably want to
join it if my girlfriends or friends are like a
significant other was doing it with me.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
She hasn't asked you to join the league with her.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
No, definitely not.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Let's catch this cheater.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Let's do it, all right, this is what we're gonna do.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Ryan.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
We're gonna call Jeff, We're gonna call Stacy.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
We're gonna offer Stacy. I think we.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Should offer her like a romantic weekend away. Okay, and
we'll try to get some information out of her and
see who she wants to go with. Okay, Okay, something
is definitely up. If it's cheating, is very strange. All right, Jeff,
you got it.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Let's do it.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Hello, Hi, good morning, is Stacy there?
Speaker 6 (02:28):
This is Stacey.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Hey Stacy, this is Tyler from Leisure Travel. How are
you this morning?
Speaker 6 (02:34):
Oh I'm good.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
How are you?
Speaker 3 (02:36):
I'm doing well? Thank you. Hey.
Speaker 5 (02:37):
I was just shooting you to call to let you
know that you actually won a weekend get away four
two to Lovely Vermont.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Congratulations.
Speaker 6 (02:45):
Oh is this for real?
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Like, yep, this is a one hundred percent legit. We got
your name and number from a third party company. Basically,
in the last six months you must have gotten a
massage or your nailstone or a hair appointment, and that's
how you get signed up.
Speaker 6 (03:03):
Oh my gosh. Cool, thank you.
Speaker 5 (03:07):
Yeah, this is a great deal. Like I said, it's
a trip to Vermont for two people. It can't get any.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Better than that.
Speaker 6 (03:13):
I love it. Wow, thank you.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Awesome. So here's the deal. So the trip is for
two people.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
A lot of times people like to take a romantic
partner with them and we can send them a digital
invite if that's something you're down for.
Speaker 6 (03:29):
Oh yeah, that'd be cute. Okay, yeah, I would love
to do that.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
So basically it's a digital invite. We'll send it to
their email. If you'd like to write a little message
in the invite. We can do that for you.
Speaker 6 (03:39):
Sure, yeah, let's do it all right.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
What would you like me to send in the email?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
Let's write let's take our game on the road.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
Let's take our game on the road. Yes, all right?
And who can I address that?
Speaker 6 (03:59):
To address it to Chase?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Chase?
Speaker 6 (04:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Who's Chase?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Stacey?
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Who's Chase?
Speaker 4 (04:12):
It's me.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
I'm going it's me.
Speaker 6 (04:15):
Who's cha?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
I'm gonna jump in, Stacy.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
This is Courtney, the guy giving you the weekend romantic
weekend get away in Vermont is actually Walmart.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Jeff. You're on the radio.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
You're on Kiss ninety five seven this morning War of
the Roses.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Your husband Ryan is on the line. Go ahead, Ryan, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Who is Chase? Who are you talking about?
Speaker 6 (04:37):
Wow? Wow, this is crazy, This is insane. Who is Chase?
I told you whose Chase is. He's a guy in
my pickleball league, remember, And why are you.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Taking him out on a romantic vacation? It's not Why
did you not say my name?
Speaker 6 (05:00):
Let me speak? Because we discuss like going on like
tournaments and stuff like on the road, and so I
was saying, like that.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Not true? Why are you lying right now? Who is
this guy?
Speaker 6 (05:16):
I just told you who he is. He's in my
pickleball league and we're going on the road to like
compete in pickleball.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
But I don't buy this one bit because I asked you,
I said, I said, a lot of times people will
bring a romantic partner, and you are down for bringing
your game on the road.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
What's up with that?
Speaker 6 (05:34):
I'm I'm not using it in a in a romantic way, Like.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Stop lying, you're lying right now. You're absolutely right now.
This is exactly what they asked you. You want to
go on a romantic weekend and you're bringing another.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Guy exactly, That's that's basically it.
Speaker 6 (05:51):
Yes, I literally said, like he's on my pickleball team
and like I wanted to go and like you know,
have like room to breathe and like practice our game
and like yeah, but you know, we have a stay,
have a friendship.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Like it's not like you're I just I cannot believe
you're saying all these things like this is all this
is all fine, right now, You don't just go out
on the road to play pickleball with somebody when they
ask you if you want to go on a romantic
stay was like it's nothing is adding up. You're acting
(06:28):
like very distant and yeah, you don't let me come
to any of your games. I never come watch you play,
And like it makes sense. You're just trying to go
hang out with this guy. This is what I wanted
for ten years.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
All right, this is where this is. We're not gonna
get any more answers than this.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
I'm gonna put you both on hold, Ryan, just so
you know, we offer a couples counseling if it's something
and you don't have to go as a couple, if
you decide you want to go by yourself, get to
the bottom of it. Sometimes you know it helps. So
I'm gonna put you on hold. You guys can talk
off the air and Ryan just know that we'll pick
up the tab for any type of counseling you guys decide.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Okay, awesome, Thank you,
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