Moving In Together

Melissa from East Windsor thinks her man is cheating because he's starting to pull away after discussing moving in together. She wants to know what's going on. 

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Are you guys ready for another edition of War of
the Roses? Yes, all right, So Melissa's standing by Melissa
in East windsor things that her boyfriend Ethan is cheating
on or he's been acting strange. Good morning, Melissa, Good morning, Hi, Hi, welcome.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
To the show.

Speaker 3 (00:16):
How are you You know I have been better?

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (00:21):
Well, hopefully we're going to get you some answers and
you'll be feeling better at no time.

Speaker 4 (00:26):
So years hope.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
So you obviously know War of the Roses. It's you know,
we do it when you think that your significant other
is cheating on you. Why do you think Ethan, your boyfriend,
is cheating.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
What's going on?

Speaker 3 (00:36):
Well, basically, we've been dating for eight months, okay, and
it's a great relationship. Everything's been really smooth. I would
say it moved pretty fast okay, and we've been talking
for the last month and a half. I would say
about living together.

Speaker 4 (00:53):
Okay, oh big step.

Speaker 3 (00:56):
And yeah yeah, but it just felt right and and
but recently, for the last couple of weeks, he's been
acting kind of distant and not calling me before bed
like he usually does, and I just have a bad feeling.
I just think something's going on.

Speaker 4 (01:13):
Okay, so that's it.

Speaker 3 (01:14):
That's all the evidence I have.

Speaker 1 (01:16):
Okay, but he used to call you every night, in
like a little good good night phone call.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
Yeah, even for like a couple of minutes, just to
touch base. He'd be like, hey, love you, sleep tight.

Speaker 5 (01:27):
But after a while that see, it gets to be
a nuisance and annoying and it's just too much work. Eventually, yeah,
eventually the guys will stop putting in the work just
because we got you and we're good.

Speaker 4 (01:42):
Always touch the.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
Romance after eight months though, my god.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
Yeah, he could send a tax right now.

Speaker 1 (01:51):
It's not a lot to go on.

Speaker 2 (01:52):
I gotta be honest.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
But the fact that he's been distant and not calling
you at night, let's just do it.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
We made it this far, we might as well. Right,
he's so grumpy, just ignore him?

Speaker 6 (02:03):
What is wrong with you today?

Speaker 2 (02:05):
Something so wrong with you?

Speaker 4 (02:06):
Jeff?

Speaker 2 (02:07):
All right, we're gonna give him a call.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
We're gonna we're gonna have right, you're gonna be listening
in when we call him, and you're gonna be able to.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
Talk to him if you want.

Speaker 4 (02:14):
Okay, Okay, all right.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
Who's the floorist?

Speaker 6 (02:20):
It's actually grumpy pants today, Jeff, get it together. I
don't know what crawled in his corn flakes, but geez,
I know where a crawl.

Speaker 4 (02:31):
All right, but you said it. Hello, Hi, good morning.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
Is Ethan there?

Speaker 1 (02:39):
This is Ethan.

Speaker 5 (02:40):
Hey Ethan, this is Zach from Flowers Express. How are
you this morning?

Speaker 1 (02:45):
All right?

Speaker 7 (02:46):
How you doing?

Speaker 5 (02:46):
I'm doing pretty good. Thank you for asking. I was
just shooting you called to let you know that you
actually won a dozen roses in our online weekly contest.

Speaker 4 (02:54):
Congratulations, man, that's friendom cool, Yeah, this is.

Speaker 5 (03:00):
An amazing deal. Basically, it's a dozen roses. We're not
gonna send the flowers so you We're actually gonna send
the flowers to someone else on your behalf, sort of
a like a pay it forward promotion.

Speaker 7 (03:13):
All right, I guess that makes sense.

Speaker 4 (03:15):
Okay, cool, all right.

Speaker 2 (03:18):
Here's the deal. We have a card.

Speaker 5 (03:21):
I can put a little message on the card and
we can get the flowers out.

Speaker 4 (03:25):
Okay, all right, what would you What would you like
to write on the card?

Speaker 7 (03:31):
You can write to my one and only, to.

Speaker 5 (03:34):
My one and only. All right, we can get that down.
And who should I address the card to?

Speaker 7 (03:44):
To Melissa?

Speaker 2 (03:45):
You said, Melissa?

Speaker 1 (03:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (03:48):
All right? Cool. So here's the deal.

Speaker 5 (03:49):
Not only are you getting one dozen roses today, but
we can actually hook you up with two dozen. If
that's something you're down with. We can send the second
dozen to Melissa, or we can hook someone outs up.

Speaker 7 (04:04):
Sure if you want to send the second dozen to
Melissa as well.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
There isn't anyone else you want to send flowers too.

Speaker 4 (04:11):
Nope, No, it's my girlfriend, so pretty lucky.

Speaker 5 (04:14):
She's gonna getting two thousand rowses. That's awesome. Man.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
All right, we're gonna jump in that Ethan. I gotta
just jump in real quick. It's Courtney, Savannah. The floors
is Walmart, Jeff, and Melissa. Your girlfriend's on the line.
Go ahead, Melissa, Hi, Hi, you're on the radio.

Speaker 7 (04:35):
Hey what why why are we on the radio?

Speaker 3 (04:39):
I know this is I know this is insane, but
I thought you were cheating on me, and like, because
you haven't been calling and it's felt really distant and weird,
like you stopped calling me before I'm dead, and we
stop talking about moving in together. So I did.

Speaker 7 (05:00):
This is honestly, I'm just kind of feeling like a
little pressure.

Speaker 4 (05:08):
How so, well, because.

Speaker 7 (05:11):
We've been talking a lot about moving in together and
I just like it just makes you feel pressure. I
don't know, I just makes you want to like get
some air, you know, Like I'm not cheating on you.
We're not. I don't want to break up or anything.
I just moving in feels like it just feels like
a huge step and stresses me out a little bit,
and I just kind of hmm, yeah, I just like
need more time to, you know, think about what that

(05:33):
all means.

Speaker 4 (05:34):
Listen.

Speaker 3 (05:35):
I'm so sorry. I didn't mean to pressure you, but
you know you could say that to me.

Speaker 7 (05:39):
You don't need to just pull away, all right. Well,
I mean I've said it now. Yeah. I just I
just need some air, that's all.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
I mean.

Speaker 7 (05:47):
I think we're great.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
Okay, So you're saying, Ethan, you're not cheating. You just
are backing off from like the nightly phone calls and
things like that because you're just feeling too much pressure
to like move in and like what's the next step?

Speaker 2 (05:59):
Get a ring and and it goes on from there.
Is that what you're saying?

Speaker 7 (06:02):
Yes, exactly, Yeah, Okay.

Speaker 6 (06:05):
Pressure, I mean I think that's fair moving in after
eight months. I mean for some people that's pretty quick.

Speaker 7 (06:10):
Yeah, yeah, I'm some people.

Speaker 6 (06:13):
Yeah, that's that's that's totally fine, like no judgment, honestly, all.

Speaker 2 (06:17):
Right, listen, Melisten.

Speaker 4 (06:18):
I don't think he's cheating.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
I think he's just feeling a little bit of pressure.

Speaker 6 (06:23):
Yay, you can take a deep breath now.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
Yeah, time to go go back to just having fun
being a couple and like honest communication.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
Yeah, honest communication.

Speaker 2 (06:35):
Well I love this. I love this.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Thank you guys so much for being on War of
the Roses and like, keep us posted, Linden, no pressure, Ethan,
but when you guys move in, can you let us know?

Speaker 7 (06:46):
Oh my god, yeah this is wild.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
Wait it's Twiss the Knife Corty. Yeah, no, no pressure,
but we want to know when.

Speaker 7 (06:52):
Thank you, all right bye,