March 3, 2026 ⢠25 mins
No more happy tears?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, Kristen, will you do me a favor? Well, you see,
(00:02):
if you could find me somebody who is a who
is a I don't like saying a big crier like
that makes it sound like you're a big baby, which
they're trying to get.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Away from that stigma a big baby.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Times that answer was going to a different way, you know.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
The actually they actually say frequent crying is actually really
good for you.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Well, it's an emotional release, right see, well.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Not only is it an emo, it could be too
much they do. They do point that out when it
starts to interfere.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
The no, no, no, But they say it really regulates
the body. It's like it's like therapy for your body. Yeah,
that it resets you, It regulates you. It's a massive
stress reliever. It releases toxins in your body. Like they
say it honestly. They say it's really healthy and that
more people should be.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
What's the word that I'm looking for? What's the word
the open.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
To frequent criers, big criers?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Whatever?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
I like frequent choirs because it sounds.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah, okay that people should be more frequent criers.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
But there is a stigma about it. Well, oh, you're
being a baby.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
Well, now there is because you just told us the
what's that? I didn't think that before two seconds ago?
Speaker 1 (01:17):
What that that that there's a stigma that you thought
it was a big baby. No, you cry a lot though,
you you cry at TV commercials.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Yeah, if they're good, the but i'm happy and sad tears.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
The happy tears are very rare.
Speaker 5 (01:34):
What so you're gonna make an argument here that happy
tears don't exist?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Only they not me.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Researchers will tell you only sixteen percent of a of
crying is happy tears.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
Oh you may cry more when it's not happy. Oh yeah, okay,
I thought you were just saying happy tears aren't real.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
No, no, no, no.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
But they took happy tears and they broke them into
four categories, so they say that genuine happy tears are
really a very very small part of that sixteen percent.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Like go back to go back.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
To the guy who said he cried when no no, no no,
because that'll be a good setup that he cried when
the USB Canada to win the gold medal.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Right, very emotional moment, very emotional moment.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
And they brought like everybody cried when they brought Johnny
Goudreau's jersey out on the ice. But one of the
things they talk about and they use as an example
is when you see an athlete win a championship and
they start crying. It's they refer to those as achievement tears,
and it's not really.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
No, no, no, I'm not crying. I'm e see if the no.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
But they say it's not really it's not really happy tears.
It's achievement tiers as a way of recognizing and this
emotional release.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Over for the quote struggle.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Okay, so it's.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Not oh my god, I want a championship.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
It is the release of everything that I've been through
this season in my career and I finally got there,
and it is it is a release of days, months, weeks,
years of work and work and work. So it's not
really happy tiers. It's achievement and relief tiers.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
You better you are not happy to have overcome.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Yes, you are happy, but it's not just it's not
just oh I won, It is.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Everything that got poured into that.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
I understand what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Yeah, I just like that.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I like that those are a cheer and by the way,
that could be that that doesn't just have to be
for athletes, that's what they pointed out.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
It could be somebody who.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
What about like you're getting valedictorian or something.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I was just gonna say, somebody who never thought they'd
be able to go and you graduate high school.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Yeah, for a lot of people like that's that's an achievement.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
College, that's an achievement, getting a getting it, getting a
real job. Like, there could be all these things that
are It doesn't just have to be winning a world championship.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
That are achievements, and you would.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Cry not really happy tears, their achievement tiers, their achievement tiers,
affectionate tears, which again are not really happy tiers. According
to them, affectionate tears are associated with unexpected kindness, altruism,
(04:42):
or with exceptional love.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
So like you get emotional if you're helping somebody who's
in need and then you see how they react.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Or is like somebody treats you with unexpected kindness and
it brings it brings a tear to your eye or
you see this may sound familiar. You see your wife
for the first time or your husband for the first time,
that that is an affectionate tier. You're happy obviously, But
you're not crying just because you're happy.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
But you said it's because I'm so in love.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Yes, those are affectionate tears. Those are affectionate tears. The
birth of your child love, Your birth of your child
is affectionate and achievement.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
The wedding thing versus though unexpected kindness, those to me
seem very different.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Yeah, yeah, I understand, but they're not.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
I knew Lindsay was coming down that aisle.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Right, But part of that is also mixed in with achievement.
You've been dating, you got engaged, you planned a wedding,
you discussed we're gonna we're gonna be married, we're gonna
build a family. There's all this build up to that moment,
and now you become husband and wife.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Essentially just won the gold medal.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Oh we were never going to get through that tasting.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Yes, no, no, but you know what I mean like that,
So it's part affectionate, part achievement.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Yeah, man, Amusement tears what are these?
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Amusement tears are shed when something especially funny occurs and
includes feelings of pleasure.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
I get to hed people cry all the time watching
stand up comedy.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Yeah, exactly, I'm laughing so hard. I'm crying.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Yeah, you're tickling me. I'm laughing so hard, I'm crying.
Not those aren't you're happy, But those aren't happy tears.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
I actually like putting those in a different category.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Yes, they say there's only one real kind of happy tears.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Before you explain it.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
Do you think you've ever had legitimate happy tears after
reading this paper?
Speaker 6 (06:51):
No?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Oh my god, are you gonna say?
Speaker 6 (06:54):
That?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Could be all of our answers?
Speaker 1 (07:00):
How I start crying the I'm gonna say Diana has
never had happy tears.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
I'm going to say you have.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Just because it's like better odds.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Yeah, yeah, you had happy tears last week.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
When I ripped ass. Okay, Kristen, that's.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
Not that's that's amusement.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
No, that's that's amusement and achievement because you knew my
struggle and disappointing genuine happy tears. I'm gonna say, Kristen
is a maybe, Diane's a no. I'm a no, and
I'm gonna say you're a yes.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
Can you see I'm not I'm not good enough to
make myself cry, but I am well enough.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Why are you welling now?
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Because we're talking about it. Oh my gosh, what is
this going to be?
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Now?
Speaker 2 (07:53):
I found Rusher.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
I don't think i've had this.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I have set myself up to say.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
That I believe that I would cry happiness tears if
something happened. Okay, so is this really specific for me? Yes,
but yes, it would be very very specific. They're referred
to as beauty tears. It's your way of conveying wonder
(08:25):
and awe, and you shed tears in response to natural beauty,
like a sunset or a work of art.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
All right, you called me no, no exactly, but I
always appreciate things, but I've never been brought to.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
What if I always said I think I would cry
if I saw the redwoods you have.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
That's the only thing.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
I've never seen anything and been like, I'm crying. No,
I've never like, I've never walked into like I've never
walked into a museum and like, oh my god, what.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
A work of art, What a work of art. I'm
crying here.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
If you also said it like that, people would think
that you were an alien.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
But but can I see this.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
I've seen things at a museum that aret that will
make you have.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Those aren't amusement tiers. No, but like will make you
emotional and and and and you would cry.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Those aren't happy tiers now, Like like for example, like
if you go to like the nine to eleven Music Memorial,
or if you go to the Holocaust Museum, or if.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
You go to the the what is it the the.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Black History Museum, Like you go, you go walking in
there and you see like the like like like the
stuff for till or like the the trains and stuff like.
You see that and you tear up thinking like this
is this is this is this went on? So yes,
like you could be emotional, but that's that is that
is that is just being emotional and understanding the.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Gravity of what it is. But I've never walked in
and been like, oh my god, look at that painting.
I'm crying here. Never have you.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Let's see when you started to here we go, here
we go. Yes, the answer is yes, Well you mentioned natural.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Oh my god, it's the welcome to New Jersey sign.
I'm crying here now.
Speaker 5 (10:24):
When you you first said natural and then you mentioned
like art, that's.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Well no, they no, no, but they say it could
be natural beauty or something like art. Remember I was
I've never seen a sunset and been like, oh, I'm
swim crying.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
I definitely cried standing this summer down the Jersey shore
looking at the sunset.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
But also I was with you guys, didn't I tear
up when I was looking at the Mississippi, at the
mighty Missisis?
Speaker 1 (10:54):
I said's right, you cried looking at the muddy waters
of the Mississippi.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Yeah, but was that was That's all natural? So that's what.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
That's fine.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
Weird that they also throw in like artwork.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Yeah, no, but you're.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
You're, you're, but you it's not It's not like you
were crying at the banks of the Mississippi thinking of
like old monars from from generations ago, you know, on
a you know, coal in a steam boat.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
It was that moment that was that the river was
so majestic.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
Yes, applied applying.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
No, No, there's no emotional or you didn't overcome anything.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
I didn't.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
It was it was a long fly we walked.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I don't think I've ever had I don't think I've
ever had beauty tears.
Speaker 5 (11:41):
But when when you were carrying that muffiletta and we
were splitting it into.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Four, you were trying the oh I was those are
hunger teers.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
I was a work of art.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
Those are hunger tears.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
Wait, those are beauty You called them beauty tears.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Beauty tears, actual beauty tears.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
I I can't believe it.
Speaker 6 (12:00):
Now.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
I think I've seen some unbelievable things in my life
and I and none of them have made me cry.
None of them have made me cry.
Speaker 5 (12:07):
But that's probably why you've always said that about the redwoods,
because you've never experienced that type.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
True, But I do think if I saw a redwood
tree in person. The other thing that I think would
make me cry is if I saw a polar bear
in the wild. I love polar bears, but I didn't like.
We didn't see polar bears on safari. But I saw
animals on Safari. I didn't cry.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
I think I did. We were just scaring. Well, not
during those moments.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
I know an Ostrich that cried Hi Elliott in the morning, Hello, Hello, yeah, Hi?
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Who's yeah? Hi? What can I do for you?
Speaker 6 (12:48):
Oh? Hey, this is all Joey. Yes, I'm acar, Yeah,
I'm mac Are you really?
Speaker 1 (12:54):
No? I applaud you. I applaud you for for admitting it.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Do you like you? You cry regularly.
Speaker 6 (13:04):
I don't know about regularly. It's it's it can be
like I can have gaps, but like then I'll have
then I can have these like spurred of months where
it'll happen a week, two weeks in between. It depends
to like movies, songs, certain times of the day, depending
on you know, whatever events are folding during that day.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
Oh wow, you know what the they say that, they
say that it is it is for for for for
people like you. They talk about how it is it
forces you to kind of think about things and almost
do like self therapy if you will, not that there's
anything wrong with you, but just kind of kind of
what do they call that, like digest what's going on.
(13:51):
They refer to it as as a pressure relief valve
of your of your system. They say, the only time,
the only time that you're crying too much is it
it interferes Like listen, there are people that cry at
work right sometimes, like it gets really stressful.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
They get yelled at, Yeah, no, that's okay.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
And so if you have to, if you have to
go into the bathroom for ten minutes and just kind
of gather yourself, that's fine.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
But they said if it's.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
Really interfering with either your job your home life where
it's like I just have to go sit in my
room and cry. Then you're crying too much and you
probably should talk to somebody. But if you're just boohing
because you're boo hooing, you're fine.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
You're fine. Yeah. I had I was in a Bokellys
this is really weird, and I had a Frank Sinatra
song came on and I was like, oh, this is
a nice song and it really started to like take
me and I'm like, no, no, I stop paying attention
to bo In my imagination, there was this lady who
(14:52):
was standing a little bit to my left and I
had envisioned myself reaching my hand out as the older
hand and I was like no, and I cut that off.
And then it kind of like that produced like some
kind of like emotional response in me where I started
to get emotionally overwhelmed by the song and yeah, Brian kellies.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Hey, what's just out of curiosity? What what song was it?
Speaker 6 (15:20):
It was, Oh man, it was a very romantic song
and it was something about holding hands by the under
the moonlight and I can't really, I don't listen to
a lot of Frank Sinatra, but it was it was
a very romantic song. You hear some of that in me,
(15:41):
but I deny that for myself. I don't know why.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
I just know that's okay, that's all right, very good,
very good. I appreciate it. Thank you, Thank you.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Was the flying of the Moon. I got those elements
in it.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Line me too. Oh he's probably he probably can't drive
the start. That's the problem. That's the mocking.
Speaker 5 (16:03):
That's the problem which makes me think of Kristen. Not
because of Sinatra. But I don't like what you just
wrote and published on the internet about your aunt.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
The wait, what did you say about your aunt? Turn
yourself on? What happened to your aunt?
Speaker 3 (16:19):
Sounds like she's the tyler of their family?
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Is she really? What she do?
Speaker 4 (16:24):
What doesn't she?
Speaker 7 (16:25):
She cries at everything, Like if she were to meet you,
she would start crying me.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
Specifically, anyone, anyone? Wait, So she cries when it's so
nice to you.
Speaker 7 (16:38):
Yes, you always have to take like as a joke.
We carry a thing of tissues with us.
Speaker 2 (16:43):
Oh my god.
Speaker 7 (16:44):
She also keeps a little thing in her purse because
she knows she's going to cry.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
So when we like.
Speaker 7 (16:49):
When I go home and I see her, she gives
us hugs and she starts crying.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Okay, but is that because there's like this emotion of
I haven't seen you no.
Speaker 7 (16:57):
When I lived at home growing up.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Oh she got home from school today. Oh thank god.
Speaker 7 (17:04):
She does it when we leave the house.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
A great day.
Speaker 7 (17:09):
At our graduations, all the cousins.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Okay, the.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
Graduation, I get seeing you because it's every day.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
Like that's a bit mutch.
Speaker 7 (17:18):
When a famous person passes away, she has never met them.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
She's sobbing, sobbing.
Speaker 7 (17:26):
My mom said when Elvis died, never met him. I
watched him on TV.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
Sobbing, sobbing.
Speaker 7 (17:35):
So anything happy, anything said, and everything in between, she
is sobbing.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
So she she's Tyler.
Speaker 7 (17:42):
She is the Tyler, worse than Tyler.
Speaker 3 (17:46):
You weren't at my wedding.
Speaker 7 (17:47):
We all make fun of her in front of her.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
I thought you were gonna say, we all make fun
of him, all right, very good, very good.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Yes, So a handful of people, Yeah, I have brought
up the monks.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
We are the monks, and they're.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
Curious what kind of tears those were?
Speaker 4 (18:03):
Yeah, because a lot of people said they got very
emotional seeing them.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
Oh, I'll be able to tell you. I'll be able
to tell you those are affectionate tears. Yeah, yeah, those
are affectionate tears, it says right here, associated with unexpected
kindness or altruism.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
But you no monks to be kind the no, No.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
But I think it's it's it is.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
I think it is that feeling of it's your expectation
and then you meet them, meet them, you hand them
an you see them, yeah, friendship bracelet or whatever, and
it is like you're you're now in their company.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
I think that's what it.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
Is, like they've received you.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Yeah, exactly, exactly, Like I think that's why people that's
why people like, like, don't people cry when they see
like if they go to.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Italy and see the pope?
Speaker 5 (18:47):
Oh yeah, definitely, yeah, same thing, same thing, but people
just didn't know what label to put on them.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Yeah, but those aren't.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
I mean, you're you're you're not crying because you're sad
or you're upset. It is a type of hat cheer tier,
but it's not a genuine happy tier unless the only
way that's seeing a monk would be it it would
be like I've loved monks my whole life.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
I'm seeing.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Well, no, that's an achievement tier. That would be an
achievement tier. Where am I going?
Speaker 3 (19:14):
I're going to get headaches thinking about how to classic.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
I'll classify it for you.
Speaker 8 (19:19):
Hi, Elliott in the morning, Hi, Good morning Elliott.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Yes, sir, who's this?
Speaker 8 (19:24):
It's just Tim. So I cry all the time, especially
at live music or live performances, and I thowt what
you would be very interested in is that I cried
at Toby's Dinner's Theater two weeks to go to see
in Rock of Ages. I was blowing my eyes out
and it was so good.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
Wait wait, but they would love to hear that for
what part though? Like what like? Was it? Was it
one of the songs or was it just the performance?
Speaker 8 (19:51):
It was the finale when it come out and everyone's
being introduced and everyone's you know, collapping form and cheering,
and I don't know, I have nothing invested in that,
So it's not my achievement. But I guess like I
kind of projected onto them because they're so excited that
they did a phenomenal show and everyone's excited, and I
just I lost it at that moment. I usually do
(20:13):
like at the end of like a standing ovation or
something to that effect, and yeah, it just really hit me.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
So if you if you see somebody get like a
like a standing ovation, like who would?
Speaker 4 (20:24):
Who would?
Speaker 2 (20:24):
I can't think who gets a standing ovation? I don't
know why.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
Like I think of like like whenever they have like
one of the award shows or.
Speaker 4 (20:31):
Something, they Gatherine O'Hara a standing ovation.
Speaker 1 (20:34):
Yeah exactly, exactly, Yeah, but she's dead I'm talking about no, no, no, no,
But like when somebody goes up to it except an
award and they're like, oh, what a great Like who
got the SAG Lifetime Achievement Harrison? Harrison, I didn't see it,
but I'm assuming the whole room stood up.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
He got Emotionally, yeah, well he should.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
He's on the receiving end. This pussy is sitting in
the crowd crying.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
Now now I get what he's saying about. Curtain calls.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
For they come back out.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Do you now, let me ask you, this is that
only in theater or do you do you also cry
at like if a band doesn't encore.
Speaker 3 (21:14):
No, it would mostly be live theater.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
But that's life, you say.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Songs can make me cry easily, I.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
Can tear up during some songs, but not number one,
not very often.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
But I don't I if, like I know what is
the last? Like?
Speaker 1 (21:31):
I also went to Toby's Dinner theater. No offense to
the cast if they're listening. I didn't cry, Christian saw
Rock of Ages.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
Did you cry?
Speaker 2 (21:38):
No?
Speaker 8 (21:39):
Just Mike, I was actually a Little Mermaid with you Elliott,
Oh did you cry?
Speaker 1 (21:47):
I did?
Speaker 8 (21:47):
I always wanted to contest winners.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
God, are you a big pussy? You cried at Little Mermaid?
The way that they moved on those.
Speaker 8 (21:54):
Roller blades, I think I did not dooring. But at
the end, like I said, it's just it's like a
doat up over to two three hours. And when I
see all the performers so excited, Yeah, I just it
gets to me every time.
Speaker 6 (22:08):
By the way.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
No, I think that's great.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
No, and and I just I love that you're they'll
tell you you are very comfortable in your skin. That's
good for you, that's good for you. All right, very good,
thank you, sirry, thank you, my friend.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
Wow, So where does that leave us?
Speaker 2 (22:26):
Who?
Speaker 5 (22:29):
Just another uh confirmation that it's okay to let it.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Out the oh yeahs unless it is interfering with your
work or home life. Like if it is really interfering,
then they do say that that you should either.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
You know, they don't say just stop crying.
Speaker 4 (22:53):
Talk to somebody, yes, yeah, buckle up, or or.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Yes, go talk to somebody. And and let's like the
only the only thing that I think, listen, I cry
like a baby when they and it doesn't matter which
which which one it is, but when either of the
boys like come home for a break and then they leave,
or if I see them and I leave, I cry
like a baby. But those aren't happy tears. Those are
(23:17):
just emotional tears, well.
Speaker 3 (23:18):
Not happy tears. Any of your categories are emotional tears?
Speaker 2 (23:21):
Yeah, no, no, I'm sad, Yeah no, I'm sad. Sad tears,
sad tears. I don't know the last time I had
happy tears.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
And I've never experienced real happy tears, which are the
beauty tears.
Speaker 5 (23:35):
Right, you said you did cry for the gold medal game,
but you said it was during the Gudureau stuff, which
obviously isn't happy tears.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
No, that's not happy tears. That's not happy tears at all. Right,
those are just emotional tears.
Speaker 5 (23:52):
I think I know, I know I cried during the
Traders finale?
Speaker 2 (23:57):
Are you serious?
Speaker 3 (23:58):
But then the more recently than that, cried during a
walk with the dog over the weekend.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
Did you see the Mississippi?
Speaker 4 (24:06):
It was the song?
Speaker 3 (24:07):
Yeah, it was during Springsten on Sunday.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
But it wasn't because you were like, this is my
best friend.
Speaker 5 (24:16):
Like it wasn't that whot? Yeah, No, I could have
been talking about myself. Oh okay, I have nothing to
do with the dog. The I just happened to be.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
You cry a lot, but it's good.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
That's good because I'm the healthiest.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
The How about Tyler?
Speaker 1 (24:34):
How about we nailed Tyler to a beauty teer? I
guess we would, But I totally forgot about the Mississippi?
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Yeah, what I unleashed with you? Man? That stuck with
us for a while, didn't it?
Speaker 1 (24:52):
The only one that you know where I was where
I was iffy on Kristen was and I wasn't there
so I couldn't see.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
I was iffy on Kristen when she saw Times Square
for the first time. But no, she didn't cry.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
No, she's excited. No, but even the face is like, yeah,
kind of, I don't know. Hot dog was pretty good
Hey, Kristen, will you do me a favor? Well, you see,
(00:02):
if you could find me somebody who is a who
is a I don't like saying a big crier like
that makes it sound like you're a big baby, which
they're trying to get.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Away from that stigma a big baby.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Times that answer was going to a different way, you know.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
The actually they actually say frequent crying is actually really
good for you.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Well, it's an emotional release, right see, well.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Not only is it an emo, it could be too
much they do. They do point that out when it
starts to interfere.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
The no, no, no, But they say it really regulates
the body. It's like it's like therapy for your body. Yeah,
that it resets you, It regulates you. It's a massive
stress reliever. It releases toxins in your body. Like they
say it honestly. They say it's really healthy and that
more people should be.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
What's the word that I'm looking for? What's the word
the open.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
To frequent criers, big criers?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Whatever?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
I like frequent choirs because it sounds.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah, okay that people should be more frequent criers.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
But there is a stigma about it. Well, oh, you're
being a baby.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
Well, now there is because you just told us the
what's that? I didn't think that before two seconds ago?
Speaker 1 (01:17):
What that that that there's a stigma that you thought
it was a big baby. No, you cry a lot though,
you you cry at TV commercials.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Yeah, if they're good, the but i'm happy and sad tears.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
The happy tears are very rare.
Speaker 5 (01:34):
What so you're gonna make an argument here that happy
tears don't exist?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Only they not me.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Researchers will tell you only sixteen percent of a of
crying is happy tears.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
Oh you may cry more when it's not happy. Oh yeah, okay,
I thought you were just saying happy tears aren't real.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
No, no, no, no.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
But they took happy tears and they broke them into
four categories, so they say that genuine happy tears are
really a very very small part of that sixteen percent.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Like go back to go back.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
To the guy who said he cried when no no, no no,
because that'll be a good setup that he cried when
the USB Canada to win the gold medal.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Right, very emotional moment, very emotional moment.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
And they brought like everybody cried when they brought Johnny
Goudreau's jersey out on the ice. But one of the
things they talk about and they use as an example
is when you see an athlete win a championship and
they start crying. It's they refer to those as achievement tears,
and it's not really.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
No, no, no, I'm not crying. I'm e see if the no.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
But they say it's not really it's not really happy tears.
It's achievement tiers as a way of recognizing and this
emotional release.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Over for the quote struggle.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Okay, so it's.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Not oh my god, I want a championship.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
It is the release of everything that I've been through
this season in my career and I finally got there,
and it is it is a release of days, months, weeks,
years of work and work and work. So it's not
really happy tiers. It's achievement and relief tiers.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
You better you are not happy to have overcome.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Yes, you are happy, but it's not just it's not
just oh I won, It is.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Everything that got poured into that.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
I understand what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Yeah, I just like that.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I like that those are a cheer and by the way,
that could be that that doesn't just have to be
for athletes, that's what they pointed out.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
It could be somebody who.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
What about like you're getting valedictorian or something.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I was just gonna say, somebody who never thought they'd
be able to go and you graduate high school.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Yeah, for a lot of people like that's that's an achievement.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
College, that's an achievement, getting a getting it, getting a
real job. Like, there could be all these things that
are It doesn't just have to be winning a world championship.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
That are achievements, and you would.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Cry not really happy tears, their achievement tiers, their achievement tiers,
affectionate tears, which again are not really happy tiers. According
to them, affectionate tears are associated with unexpected kindness, altruism,
(04:42):
or with exceptional love.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
So like you get emotional if you're helping somebody who's
in need and then you see how they react.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Or is like somebody treats you with unexpected kindness and
it brings it brings a tear to your eye or
you see this may sound familiar. You see your wife
for the first time or your husband for the first time,
that that is an affectionate tier. You're happy obviously, But
you're not crying just because you're happy.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
But you said it's because I'm so in love.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Yes, those are affectionate tears. Those are affectionate tears. The
birth of your child love, Your birth of your child
is affectionate and achievement.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
The wedding thing versus though unexpected kindness, those to me
seem very different.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Yeah, yeah, I understand, but they're not.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
I knew Lindsay was coming down that aisle.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Right, But part of that is also mixed in with achievement.
You've been dating, you got engaged, you planned a wedding,
you discussed we're gonna we're gonna be married, we're gonna
build a family. There's all this build up to that moment,
and now you become husband and wife.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Essentially just won the gold medal.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Oh we were never going to get through that tasting.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Yes, no, no, but you know what I mean like that,
So it's part affectionate, part achievement.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Yeah, man, Amusement tears what are these?
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Amusement tears are shed when something especially funny occurs and
includes feelings of pleasure.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
I get to hed people cry all the time watching
stand up comedy.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Yeah, exactly, I'm laughing so hard. I'm crying.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Yeah, you're tickling me. I'm laughing so hard, I'm crying.
Not those aren't you're happy, But those aren't happy tears.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
I actually like putting those in a different category.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Yes, they say there's only one real kind of happy tears.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Before you explain it.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
Do you think you've ever had legitimate happy tears after
reading this paper?
Speaker 6 (06:51):
No?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Oh my god, are you gonna say?
Speaker 6 (06:54):
That?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Could be all of our answers?
Speaker 1 (07:00):
How I start crying the I'm gonna say Diana has
never had happy tears.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
I'm going to say you have.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Just because it's like better odds.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Yeah, yeah, you had happy tears last week.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
When I ripped ass. Okay, Kristen, that's.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
Not that's that's amusement.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
No, that's that's amusement and achievement because you knew my
struggle and disappointing genuine happy tears. I'm gonna say, Kristen
is a maybe, Diane's a no. I'm a no, and
I'm gonna say you're a yes.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
Can you see I'm not I'm not good enough to
make myself cry, but I am well enough.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Why are you welling now?
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Because we're talking about it. Oh my gosh, what is
this going to be?
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Now?
Speaker 2 (07:53):
I found Rusher.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
I don't think i've had this.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I have set myself up to say.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
That I believe that I would cry happiness tears if
something happened. Okay, so is this really specific for me? Yes,
but yes, it would be very very specific. They're referred
to as beauty tears. It's your way of conveying wonder
(08:25):
and awe, and you shed tears in response to natural beauty,
like a sunset or a work of art.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
All right, you called me no, no exactly, but I
always appreciate things, but I've never been brought to.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
What if I always said I think I would cry
if I saw the redwoods you have.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
That's the only thing.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
I've never seen anything and been like, I'm crying. No,
I've never like, I've never walked into like I've never
walked into a museum and like, oh my god, what.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
A work of art, What a work of art. I'm
crying here.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
If you also said it like that, people would think
that you were an alien.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
But but can I see this.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
I've seen things at a museum that aret that will
make you have.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Those aren't amusement tiers. No, but like will make you
emotional and and and and you would cry.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Those aren't happy tiers now, Like like for example, like
if you go to like the nine to eleven Music Memorial,
or if you go to the Holocaust Museum, or if.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
You go to the the what is it the the.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Black History Museum, Like you go, you go walking in
there and you see like the like like like the
stuff for till or like the the trains and stuff like.
You see that and you tear up thinking like this
is this is this is this went on? So yes,
like you could be emotional, but that's that is that
is that is just being emotional and understanding the.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Gravity of what it is. But I've never walked in
and been like, oh my god, look at that painting.
I'm crying here. Never have you.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Let's see when you started to here we go, here
we go. Yes, the answer is yes, Well you mentioned natural.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Oh my god, it's the welcome to New Jersey sign.
I'm crying here now.
Speaker 5 (10:24):
When you you first said natural and then you mentioned
like art, that's.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Well no, they no, no, but they say it could
be natural beauty or something like art. Remember I was
I've never seen a sunset and been like, oh, I'm
swim crying.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
I definitely cried standing this summer down the Jersey shore
looking at the sunset.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
But also I was with you guys, didn't I tear
up when I was looking at the Mississippi, at the
mighty Missisis?
Speaker 1 (10:54):
I said's right, you cried looking at the muddy waters
of the Mississippi.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Yeah, but was that was That's all natural? So that's what.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
That's fine.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
Weird that they also throw in like artwork.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Yeah, no, but you're.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
You're, you're, but you it's not It's not like you
were crying at the banks of the Mississippi thinking of
like old monars from from generations ago, you know, on
a you know, coal in a steam boat.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
It was that moment that was that the river was
so majestic.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
Yes, applied applying.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
No, No, there's no emotional or you didn't overcome anything.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
I didn't.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
It was it was a long fly we walked.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I don't think I've ever had I don't think I've
ever had beauty tears.
Speaker 5 (11:41):
But when when you were carrying that muffiletta and we
were splitting it into.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Four, you were trying the oh I was those are
hunger teers.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
I was a work of art.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
Those are hunger tears.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
Wait, those are beauty You called them beauty tears.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Beauty tears, actual beauty tears.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
I I can't believe it.
Speaker 6 (12:00):
Now.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
I think I've seen some unbelievable things in my life
and I and none of them have made me cry.
None of them have made me cry.
Speaker 5 (12:07):
But that's probably why you've always said that about the redwoods,
because you've never experienced that type.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
True, But I do think if I saw a redwood
tree in person. The other thing that I think would
make me cry is if I saw a polar bear
in the wild. I love polar bears, but I didn't like.
We didn't see polar bears on safari. But I saw
animals on Safari. I didn't cry.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
I think I did. We were just scaring. Well, not
during those moments.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
I know an Ostrich that cried Hi Elliott in the morning, Hello, Hello, yeah, Hi?
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Who's yeah? Hi? What can I do for you?
Speaker 6 (12:48):
Oh? Hey, this is all Joey. Yes, I'm acar, Yeah,
I'm mac Are you really?
Speaker 1 (12:54):
No? I applaud you. I applaud you for for admitting it.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Do you like you? You cry regularly.
Speaker 6 (13:04):
I don't know about regularly. It's it's it can be
like I can have gaps, but like then I'll have
then I can have these like spurred of months where
it'll happen a week, two weeks in between. It depends
to like movies, songs, certain times of the day, depending
on you know, whatever events are folding during that day.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
Oh wow, you know what the they say that, they
say that it is it is for for for for
people like you. They talk about how it is it
forces you to kind of think about things and almost
do like self therapy if you will, not that there's
anything wrong with you, but just kind of kind of
what do they call that, like digest what's going on.
(13:51):
They refer to it as as a pressure relief valve
of your of your system. They say, the only time,
the only time that you're crying too much is it
it interferes Like listen, there are people that cry at
work right sometimes, like it gets really stressful.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
They get yelled at, Yeah, no, that's okay.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
And so if you have to, if you have to
go into the bathroom for ten minutes and just kind
of gather yourself, that's fine.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
But they said if it's.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
Really interfering with either your job your home life where
it's like I just have to go sit in my
room and cry. Then you're crying too much and you
probably should talk to somebody. But if you're just boohing
because you're boo hooing, you're fine.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
You're fine. Yeah. I had I was in a Bokellys
this is really weird, and I had a Frank Sinatra
song came on and I was like, oh, this is
a nice song and it really started to like take
me and I'm like, no, no, I stop paying attention
to bo In my imagination, there was this lady who
(14:52):
was standing a little bit to my left and I
had envisioned myself reaching my hand out as the older
hand and I was like no, and I cut that off.
And then it kind of like that produced like some
kind of like emotional response in me where I started
to get emotionally overwhelmed by the song and yeah, Brian kellies.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Hey, what's just out of curiosity? What what song was it?
Speaker 6 (15:20):
It was, Oh man, it was a very romantic song
and it was something about holding hands by the under
the moonlight and I can't really, I don't listen to
a lot of Frank Sinatra, but it was it was
a very romantic song. You hear some of that in me,
(15:41):
but I deny that for myself. I don't know why.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
I just know that's okay, that's all right, very good,
very good. I appreciate it. Thank you, Thank you.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Was the flying of the Moon. I got those elements
in it.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Line me too. Oh he's probably he probably can't drive
the start. That's the problem. That's the mocking.
Speaker 5 (16:03):
That's the problem which makes me think of Kristen. Not
because of Sinatra. But I don't like what you just
wrote and published on the internet about your aunt.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
The wait, what did you say about your aunt? Turn
yourself on? What happened to your aunt?
Speaker 3 (16:19):
Sounds like she's the tyler of their family?
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Is she really? What she do?
Speaker 4 (16:24):
What doesn't she?
Speaker 7 (16:25):
She cries at everything, Like if she were to meet you,
she would start crying me.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
Specifically, anyone, anyone? Wait, So she cries when it's so
nice to you.
Speaker 7 (16:38):
Yes, you always have to take like as a joke.
We carry a thing of tissues with us.
Speaker 2 (16:43):
Oh my god.
Speaker 7 (16:44):
She also keeps a little thing in her purse because
she knows she's going to cry.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
So when we like.
Speaker 7 (16:49):
When I go home and I see her, she gives
us hugs and she starts crying.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Okay, but is that because there's like this emotion of
I haven't seen you no.
Speaker 7 (16:57):
When I lived at home growing up.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Oh she got home from school today. Oh thank god.
Speaker 7 (17:04):
She does it when we leave the house.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
A great day.
Speaker 7 (17:09):
At our graduations, all the cousins.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Okay, the.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
Graduation, I get seeing you because it's every day.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
Like that's a bit mutch.
Speaker 7 (17:18):
When a famous person passes away, she has never met them.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
She's sobbing, sobbing.
Speaker 7 (17:26):
My mom said when Elvis died, never met him. I
watched him on TV.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
Sobbing, sobbing.
Speaker 7 (17:35):
So anything happy, anything said, and everything in between, she
is sobbing.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
So she she's Tyler.
Speaker 7 (17:42):
She is the Tyler, worse than Tyler.
Speaker 3 (17:46):
You weren't at my wedding.
Speaker 7 (17:47):
We all make fun of her in front of her.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
I thought you were gonna say, we all make fun
of him, all right, very good, very good.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Yes, So a handful of people, Yeah, I have brought
up the monks.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
We are the monks, and they're.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
Curious what kind of tears those were?
Speaker 4 (18:03):
Yeah, because a lot of people said they got very
emotional seeing them.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
Oh, I'll be able to tell you. I'll be able
to tell you those are affectionate tears. Yeah, yeah, those
are affectionate tears, it says right here, associated with unexpected
kindness or altruism.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
But you no monks to be kind the no, No.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
But I think it's it's it is.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
I think it is that feeling of it's your expectation
and then you meet them, meet them, you hand them
an you see them, yeah, friendship bracelet or whatever, and
it is like you're you're now in their company.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
I think that's what it.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
Is, like they've received you.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Yeah, exactly, exactly, Like I think that's why people that's
why people like, like, don't people cry when they see
like if they go to.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Italy and see the pope?
Speaker 5 (18:47):
Oh yeah, definitely, yeah, same thing, same thing, but people
just didn't know what label to put on them.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Yeah, but those aren't.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
I mean, you're you're you're not crying because you're sad
or you're upset. It is a type of hat cheer tier,
but it's not a genuine happy tier unless the only
way that's seeing a monk would be it it would
be like I've loved monks my whole life.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
I'm seeing.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Well, no, that's an achievement tier. That would be an
achievement tier. Where am I going?
Speaker 3 (19:14):
I're going to get headaches thinking about how to classic.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
I'll classify it for you.
Speaker 8 (19:19):
Hi, Elliott in the morning, Hi, Good morning Elliott.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Yes, sir, who's this?
Speaker 8 (19:24):
It's just Tim. So I cry all the time, especially
at live music or live performances, and I thowt what
you would be very interested in is that I cried
at Toby's Dinner's Theater two weeks to go to see
in Rock of Ages. I was blowing my eyes out
and it was so good.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
Wait wait, but they would love to hear that for
what part though? Like what like? Was it? Was it
one of the songs or was it just the performance?
Speaker 8 (19:51):
It was the finale when it come out and everyone's
being introduced and everyone's you know, collapping form and cheering,
and I don't know, I have nothing invested in that,
So it's not my achievement. But I guess like I
kind of projected onto them because they're so excited that
they did a phenomenal show and everyone's excited, and I
just I lost it at that moment. I usually do
(20:13):
like at the end of like a standing ovation or
something to that effect, and yeah, it just really hit me.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
So if you if you see somebody get like a
like a standing ovation, like who would?
Speaker 4 (20:24):
Who would?
Speaker 2 (20:24):
I can't think who gets a standing ovation? I don't
know why.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
Like I think of like like whenever they have like
one of the award shows or.
Speaker 4 (20:31):
Something, they Gatherine O'Hara a standing ovation.
Speaker 1 (20:34):
Yeah exactly, exactly, Yeah, but she's dead I'm talking about no, no, no, no,
But like when somebody goes up to it except an
award and they're like, oh, what a great Like who
got the SAG Lifetime Achievement Harrison? Harrison, I didn't see it,
but I'm assuming the whole room stood up.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
He got Emotionally, yeah, well he should.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
He's on the receiving end. This pussy is sitting in
the crowd crying.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
Now now I get what he's saying about. Curtain calls.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
For they come back out.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Do you now, let me ask you, this is that
only in theater or do you do you also cry
at like if a band doesn't encore.
Speaker 3 (21:14):
No, it would mostly be live theater.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
But that's life, you say.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Songs can make me cry easily, I.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
Can tear up during some songs, but not number one,
not very often.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
But I don't I if, like I know what is
the last? Like?
Speaker 1 (21:31):
I also went to Toby's Dinner theater. No offense to
the cast if they're listening. I didn't cry, Christian saw
Rock of Ages.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
Did you cry?
Speaker 2 (21:38):
No?
Speaker 8 (21:39):
Just Mike, I was actually a Little Mermaid with you Elliott,
Oh did you cry?
Speaker 1 (21:47):
I did?
Speaker 8 (21:47):
I always wanted to contest winners.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
God, are you a big pussy? You cried at Little Mermaid?
The way that they moved on those.
Speaker 8 (21:54):
Roller blades, I think I did not dooring. But at
the end, like I said, it's just it's like a
doat up over to two three hours. And when I
see all the performers so excited, Yeah, I just it
gets to me every time.
Speaker 6 (22:08):
By the way.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
No, I think that's great.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
No, and and I just I love that you're they'll
tell you you are very comfortable in your skin. That's
good for you, that's good for you. All right, very good,
thank you, sirry, thank you, my friend.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
Wow, So where does that leave us?
Speaker 2 (22:26):
Who?
Speaker 5 (22:29):
Just another uh confirmation that it's okay to let it.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Out the oh yeahs unless it is interfering with your
work or home life. Like if it is really interfering,
then they do say that that you should either.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
You know, they don't say just stop crying.
Speaker 4 (22:53):
Talk to somebody, yes, yeah, buckle up, or or.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Yes, go talk to somebody. And and let's like the
only the only thing that I think, listen, I cry
like a baby when they and it doesn't matter which
which which one it is, but when either of the
boys like come home for a break and then they leave,
or if I see them and I leave, I cry
like a baby. But those aren't happy tears. Those are
(23:17):
just emotional tears, well.
Speaker 3 (23:18):
Not happy tears. Any of your categories are emotional tears?
Speaker 2 (23:21):
Yeah, no, no, I'm sad, Yeah no, I'm sad. Sad tears,
sad tears. I don't know the last time I had
happy tears.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
And I've never experienced real happy tears, which are the
beauty tears.
Speaker 5 (23:35):
Right, you said you did cry for the gold medal game,
but you said it was during the Gudureau stuff, which
obviously isn't happy tears.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
No, that's not happy tears. That's not happy tears at all. Right,
those are just emotional tears.
Speaker 5 (23:52):
I think I know, I know I cried during the
Traders finale?
Speaker 2 (23:57):
Are you serious?
Speaker 3 (23:58):
But then the more recently than that, cried during a
walk with the dog over the weekend.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
Did you see the Mississippi?
Speaker 4 (24:06):
It was the song?
Speaker 3 (24:07):
Yeah, it was during Springsten on Sunday.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
But it wasn't because you were like, this is my
best friend.
Speaker 5 (24:16):
Like it wasn't that whot? Yeah, No, I could have
been talking about myself. Oh okay, I have nothing to
do with the dog. The I just happened to be.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
You cry a lot, but it's good.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
That's good because I'm the healthiest.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
The How about Tyler?
Speaker 1 (24:34):
How about we nailed Tyler to a beauty teer? I
guess we would, But I totally forgot about the Mississippi?
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Yeah, what I unleashed with you? Man? That stuck with
us for a while, didn't it?
Speaker 1 (24:52):
The only one that you know where I was where
I was iffy on Kristen was and I wasn't there
so I couldn't see.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
I was iffy on Kristen when she saw Times Square
for the first time. But no, she didn't cry.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
No, she's excited. No, but even the face is like, yeah,
kind of, I don't know. Hot dog was pretty good
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