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Early Childhood Trauma Manifests in Adulthood

November 28, 201630 min
Maybe your anxieties and fears aren't your own. Traumatic experiences of your parents and grandparents can manifest in your life.Have you ever felt fearful, angry or depressed for no apparent reason?The study of epigentics is revealing that trauma (physical and mental) can be passed down a genetic line. It actually causes chemical changes in DNA, altering genetic expression.A trauma doesn’t change a sequence in DNA, but it informs a cell to ignore or utilize a specific gene. These genetic shifts affect how you think and feel.You may find yourself reactive to a situation similar to a trauma that happened to a previous generation. These gene changes can also be transmitted to your children. Mark Wolynn, expert on inherited family trauma, suggests thinking of this phenomenon in terms of your personal computer. It’s not like you’re born with a clean hard drive. There is already an operating system in place from previous generations that is intended to improve your survival.What made your parent act like a jerk? What happened to your mom or dad that could’ve led to that behavior? Learning about these situations can help you gain compassion.When you inherit family trauma, Wolynn says it can also express itself in physical ways.Four Unconscious Themes that Interrupt the Flow of Life1) You’ve unconsciously merged with the life experience of your parents and grandparents. Let’s say your parents divorced in their 30s and you experience a rocky marriage in your 30s. Then, you discover your grandmother was widowed in her 30s. The biological stream flows downward.2) You have rejected a parent and have unconscious effects. You may not see how you are like that parent and project those rejected qualities onto a partner. If you’ve rejected your dad for being critical, you may be inwardly or outwardly critical. You have to heal these rejections.3) You have an early break in the bond with your mother. A physical separation or trauma early in life can separate you from her, even if the separation was for a short time.4) You’ve identified with someone in the family other than a parent. You take on the characteristics of that person.It’s important to recognize the residue of these traumas. Ask yourself if you're having unexplained fears, anxieties or symptoms because of your own experiences. Or, are those feelings courtesy of your ancestral alarm clock?How can you heal? Have a powerful, new experience to override that trauma that lives inside you. Practice the new feeling from that experience. Find gratitude, compassion, love, kindness or meditation to give you peace. It needs to steal traction from the trauma cycle.Listen in as Wolynn joins HER Radio to share how inherited trauma manifests in our lives.

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