February 4, 2025 • 16 mins
On today's episode we talked about Valentine's day expectations and more!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Jess will not stop talking about her beef.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Yeah, her beef cut tempered.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
No, Olivia Rodrigo got her beef tempered. Really, Yeah, you
told us about it, Selena.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Now you're talking about another woman's beef.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I'd look at it. I mean you would too, of course, yeah,
I know you would.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
I feel like there's any place to talk about this.
It's on the Wild Thoughts and podcasting.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Welcome in, everybody, Welcome in. He's sick of welcome in.
Welcome in here?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
All right, Graham, do you have anything I want to
talk about?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
I was, you know, I was racking my brain to
think if I had, you know, a good story time
for everybody, like you know, some gross stories or something
like that. And I'm sure I've got some, but.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
I kind of there's that one that you've been hanging
on to.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
That one's never getting told, mom, keep that one. I
did think of a funny time because it was right
around Valentine's Day a way that my buddy got busted
like sort of cheating, Oh my god, his chick and
I can't remember if it was actual Valentine's Day or not,
but it was right around then. This was in college
and he was dating this girl. No, No, I never dated.
(01:06):
We went to lunch one time in like unch date. Yeah,
it was a lunch date. It was like friend zone. Anyway,
my buddy was dating this girl, and in my mind,
in the rest of our friend group's mind, she was
way out of his league, way out of his leak,
and so we're like, you should be like locked onto
this chick, like, do not screw this up because she's
(01:26):
like better than you and all facets and a lot
better looking than you. So like also made me wonder,
like why are you dating this guy? But well that's
not I don't want to Okay. So we're out at
the bars. She gets like drunk and annoyed with him, right,
and he had She left and he did not go
after her. She left. They didn't live together, but she
(01:50):
took a took a car home from the bars and
we were all and we stayed out and he stayed out.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
He didn't go after her. No, if you ever, if
your girl ever like leaves upset, you need to chase her,
especially if you.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Were at a public place and at a bar or something.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
No, yeah, you go after her.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
I feel like Kate stormed out one time, Like Kate
and I never fight. And I feel like very early
on she was upset about something, like she left and
I like didn't go after her. She was like she
still brings that up to this day. I'm just like
not a big drama person, Like I don't there was
no reason for us to be in an argument about something.
It was like a drunken thing. I'm just like, what
do we you know?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Like, anyway, that's it for a she left and you
had a better time without her wherever you are.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Are you talking about Kate or are you talking about
the story of both? Yeah? Both they were both true.
So she leaves in a car and goes back to
his place. She didn't tell him that she was going there,
and it was a house he lived at with a
few people, so like I'm assuming she just thought door
would be open. It was, and she let herself in,
climbed into bed, passed out. Now he doesn't know that
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she's there. No, he had like sort of been texting
this other girl on the side, which was like she
was very much in his lee and we're like, why
are you texting this other girl? Like why communicate with her?
You've got one that's out of your league and then
one that's maybe below your league.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Why are men so dumb?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
I don't know, trust me. We were like what are
you doing? But some people, I think just like kind
of feed up the drummer or whatever. Yeah, So that
girl meets up with us now at the bars, blah
blah blah. They're hitting it off. We go back to
their house afterwards, like because a few of us, like
some of the other roommates were my buddies and whatever,
we all went back there to hang out. He brings
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that girl back, thinking that they're gonna go climb in
to bed. When they go and she the sec this
is the side check. She goes and jumps in the bed,
not knowing the other girl is there, dives in, and
then obviously everything blows up in my buddy's spouse. Can
you imagine discovering your man is like cheating on you
(03:53):
by you climbing into what you think is an empty
bed and there's someone else already in there. I passed
that my brain, Who the hell is this chick?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
I feel like my blood pressure would just skyrocket in
that moment and I wouldn't even know what to do.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
So what happened? Do they like fight like like physically,
like what happened.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Or does I can't remember?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Oh, I'm sorry, and then she leaves like.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
I don't even know if the one girl even woke up,
but it was like at that point they both hated
his guts and like I just we all still to
this day, what were you thinking? Like, oh my, this
chick was way out of your league? What are you doing?
Is it offensive that I call him chicks?
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I don't take offense.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I think just twenty twenty five is chick?
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Okay, you're asking the wrong people. I wouldn't take offense to.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Tell his story. And it's like, well this woman went back
to weird, right, some old lady went back there. I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Wow, So women are just old ladies.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
When you're telling a story. Sometimes when you say women
as opposed to guy, like hey, I hung out with
some guys. I hung out with some women.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
And you also can't say girls because then it does
sound creepy, right.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Not allowed to say girls? But I said that, I
said that in that story.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I feel like this bitch times yeah, okay, so his.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Side bitch and his hot bitch, we're both there and
they discovered each other. The little thing blew up Valentine's
Day over whatever ruined and that's what happened. Okay, Now
onto Valentine's Day, because we talk a lot about the
birthday voucher being a thing. Oh yeah, and Valentine's Day
is one of those. It's the the most romantic holiday, right, Yeah.
(05:24):
Who gets a voucher for that day? Or is there
a voucher or is there just an assumed like understanding
that I'm hooking up is going to happen because it's Valentine.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
I think there's definitely an assumed understanding.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Okay, so it's like.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
A mutual so it's like a hookup. But I don't
believe that there is a voucher, got it.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Valentine's Let me ask this.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
There's no voucher, but we might throw in an extra favor.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Really, yes, depending on how the guarantees.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Yeah, at the date.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
If the date part went good, like we did a
good job planning the date and the flowers and all
that stuff, there might be an additional reward. Might you'll
don't light hired, We aren't light you'll be tired by
the time it comes up.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
For that always about my Valentine's Day because our dinner
reservations are until nine thirty at night. You think I'm
gonna stay awake and.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
After that you're going to be too tired. Pleads me
to my next question. If there is not a hookup
on Valentine's Day, is it not a successful Valentine's Day?
Is there in your mind a problem that it did
not happen, or you can have a great time of
Valentine's Day, go to sleep.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
I guess it would depend on why it didn't happen.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
But if it just didn't happen, then it would be
a little bit strange because that is part of, like
I guess, the night.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
It's just like what you're saying that guys have unless
theay colossally screw it up, they have a one chance
success rate on that day.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Are you talking about.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
I'm talking about hooking up like the success should be
one barring some incident like I just discribed for me.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Yeah, just because it is Valentine's Day and that's just
what happens.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
But we're not talking about like like a hypothetical if
you're going on a date with a guy, right, because
I that's another reason why I wouldn't go on a
on a first date with a guy, first.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Date, but if you're dating someone a long our relationship,
that you are, that you are, and but also if
you are comfortable enough going out with somebody on a
Valentine's Day date, like you've been dating enough that, like
it's assumed I'm going out to dinner with this person
on Valentine's Day because we've been seeing each other. This
success rate should be one expected. Interesting.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
I think it is expected.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
I wouldn't want that to be the first time that
I hook up at that person though.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Okay, what if when you got back to their place
there was like rose petals all over, bit bad and
a bubble bath? Like then does that? Does that apply
added pressure?
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Like?
Speaker 2 (07:53):
It does?
Speaker 3 (07:54):
It does, because what if you're still feeling the personnel
and you're like on your period.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
I was gonna ask that, but I didn't want to
ask that.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Well, yeah, there is pressure because then at that point
you feel bad, like.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Saying like, hey, I know you did all this. I know,
but then but then we shouldn't be expected to do anything.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
Right, so you can't be mad if it doesn't happen.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
I feel are guys mad?
Speaker 2 (08:19):
We can feel disappoint pointed? Right? Is that allowed.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
I think that's that would you think that would make
some guys not want to go all out and do
these nice things for them if they were like expecting it.
But they can't be upset, but they're disappointed.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
I don't know. I mean, I guess. See in my mind,
part of it is what day of the week does
Valentine's Day fall on? Like this one's on a Friday,
I expect there to be some hooking up. But if
it's like a Tuesday or Wednesday, and you got work
the next day, and like maybe the fireworks gets to
get postponed to the weekend, right.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Yeah, I think sometimes because I got a Friday, you're
going out, you're having drinks, and you know, it's like
it's a different vibe.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
But see here, Okay, so here's my you're telling.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
Me this one was on a Tuesday or Wednesday, you're
going to Poundtown?
Speaker 1 (09:08):
I mean me, So we don't if it's on a weekday.
Me and my husband don't celebrate Valentine's Day. We don't
have a babysitter, we don't do anything.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
We just okay, so no Poundtown on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Poundtown is like the least that we would do because
we're not going out anywhere.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
So Poundtown's back off.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Poundtown's back on. Maybe okay, probably.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Okay, Jess, is Poundtown on? If it's a weekday Valentine's Day?
Speaker 3 (09:31):
I think if I lived with my boyfriend, yes, because
then we'd probably do a little small celebration at home,
like I'd want to like cook him like a nice dinner.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
What would that meal? And let's let's let's unpack that.
What's the meal that you're making?
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Probably a recipe that I find on TikTok.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Got it, TikTok. Here's your TikTok food. Now let's go
to pound Now, let's go to Poundtown. Follow me on
this journey.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
You gotta set the mood with some nice little.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Because I guess again, I'm just asking because if this
one's on a fry day, I feel like that is
a guaranteed ticket to Poundtown. But the weekday ones, I
don't know. And you both, you ladies, are saying, that's
still guarantee.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
You don't do anything else Poundtown. You don't have to
get a babysitter for you know, it's free. If nothing
else Poundtown.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
It is okay, interesting, that's good news for you guys
out there.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Question I guess is not so much related to Valentine's date,
but sort of in the dating the dating scene. Do
you I know men will literally like pound anything basically yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
But not I that's not true.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
It's not yes, yes it is.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
I've turned down lots of pounding to my day.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
So that's my question.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
And I've also heard stories about ones that.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
You regretted, not me getting pounded. I've turned down you
did the pounding. I've turned on some of those regrettable
One was a giant San Francisco Giants player. Because anyway, WHOA.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
Because I feel like women we are more likely to
if that if a date doesn't go the way that
it that it I guess that the way that we
thought it was gonna go, or if the person is
just not who we thought they were gonna be and
they kind of you know, give you like some red
flags or the acre or whatever, more likely to be
like you know what, I'm not feeling this, but I
feel like if a guy goes on a date and
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it is a horrible date, they'll still if.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
The woman is willing to pound, but they'll still do it.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
That's probably true. Yeah, probably true.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
There's what are those the deal breakers with that?
Speaker 1 (11:24):
I mean if they yes, there are, No, there's not.
You're not gonna go bragging to your friends about it
afterwards if you don't think it's anything to brag about,
but you're still gonna smash.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
There are I feel like plenty of guys have turned
down a potential smash I have for sure.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
Just based on a date going wrong in them being
like annoying or something.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Yeah, I mean, maybe it wasn't a date, but maybe
it was like a you know, a rendezvous or a
meetup or somebody that you meet that wants to pound
you and you don't want to pound them. Like, hasn't
that ever happened to you? Guys? Of course?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
But I don't see that happening to men. It does
it every single time, It.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Does happen to men. There are we all have standards, Yes.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
We do have standards, don't I feel like men just
imagine somebody else and just go ahead, just do it.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
No, you don't, there's no, it doesn't know it doesn't
work like that. There are you you can like pass
on a pounding.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
Wow, I'm shook.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
I have Maybe I'm I is that you think other
guys are just like I'll take any port in a storm,
I'll take it. Yeah, let me dock the skin boat
in tune in town. I don't care where town is.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
Yep, stop it the only.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
One that's not true. It is not true. Guys have
like their standard. Okay, that you have like your ideal.
Then you have like your standard like this is the
lowest I'm going to go on here. Then add twelve
beers and then that's the low she'll go. And then
add like eight more shots and then that's the low
she'll go. Drop in the scales drop, But eventually it
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hits a point where like even you know, like yeah, but.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
What if it's the lowest of the low, but you
just got out of a breakup or you just like
you've gone on a super long dry spell and now
it's like this is your chance.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
But also like ladies, you have that same scale like
these are my standards. I would never pound anybody lower
than this, And then like you've had a few martinis
and then like that, you know, your standard gets lowered
a little bit and your beer goggles and like you've
dropped the scale before.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Yeah, but I feel like we're more likely to be
okay with not doing it, or to be like, you
know what, I'm good, I'm just pick here. Yeah. Maybe, yeah,
I think that's what it is because men kind of
are just like, sure, it has a face.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Yeah, I mean I just like a face. It's breathing,
it's breathing, pound on. I mean, I'm just I've I
was bartender for a long time. I witnessed a lot
of you know, standards being lowered and hook up that
you're just like, never in a million years to see
that happening.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Wait, so what about a San Francisco Giants player?
Speaker 4 (14:06):
Yeah, what'd you guys do?
Speaker 2 (14:08):
There was one that used to come to the bar
that I worked at. A lot of Giants players.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
Used to come to the bar that I but he
wanted to pound you worked at and he made it
to third base.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
He would make like a lot of references about wanting to.
Speaker 4 (14:19):
Do it with you.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Yes, it was like would be like legit hitting on me?
Speaker 1 (14:24):
Did it make you uncomfortable?
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Is he still playing?
Speaker 2 (14:27):
He also used to tip hundred dollars bill, so like whatever,
play player. God, he's not currently on the team anymore,
but he also used to He used to bring home
a lot of ladies too, So I think he's a
switch hitter.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
Okay, was he like a big name? Like yeah, oh
my god?
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Anyway his name I could, but like.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Okay, allegedly, we'll just leave it at that first name.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
No people figured that out.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
To last name.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
No people figured out way?
Speaker 4 (14:56):
What was his?
Speaker 3 (14:57):
No?
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Not Timmy. We did party with Timmy.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
A lot though. That's the only the person I can
thinke Timmy.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
Timmy was kind of shy, give me a name, smoke
a bunch of pots, and.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
It looks like it was right Buster.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Post kidding me. Buster Posey's not out here trying to
take He.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Has a standards standards, I'm not so who was it?
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Anyway, we'll leave it at that.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
We can't just leave it at that, Graham.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
We'll leave it at that.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
I literally cannot. It's going to bug me all.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
You probably don't even know who it is. I don't
say his name.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
If I don't know, what difference does it mean? What
is the rhyme with no not playing that first initial?
No last initial?
Speaker 2 (15:35):
No beard, no beard?
Speaker 3 (15:36):
What?
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Okay? What year?
Speaker 1 (15:38):
What year?
Speaker 2 (15:39):
Caaren used to hang out the beard used to hang
out there all the time. Brian Wilson. Remember the beard
he was a giants. Yeah, party with him.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Okay, it's kind of no beard giants players stop it
was he bald.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
No. People listening to this probably no.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
They're like, so you've mentioned it before.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
No, but I'm just like, the guy had a bit
of a reputation anyway. But people shocked to learn that, Like,
I think you a switch hitter.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Interesting, not that.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
There's anything wrong with that.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
Who is it?
Speaker 2 (16:08):
I'm not going to tell you anyway, Oh my god.
Maybe that's the story time for another day. But I've
made a lot of money off that.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
I gotta go to. Guys, you gotta go to I
gotta go do some research on the giants. We're gonna
recall this right here, Okay,
Jess will not stop talking about her beef.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Yeah, her beef cut tempered.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
No, Olivia Rodrigo got her beef tempered. Really, Yeah, you
told us about it, Selena.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Now you're talking about another woman's beef.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I'd look at it. I mean you would too, of course, yeah,
I know you would.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
I feel like there's any place to talk about this.
It's on the Wild Thoughts and podcasting.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Welcome in, everybody, Welcome in. He's sick of welcome in.
Welcome in here?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
All right, Graham, do you have anything I want to
talk about?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
I was, you know, I was racking my brain to
think if I had, you know, a good story time
for everybody, like you know, some gross stories or something
like that. And I'm sure I've got some, but.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
I kind of there's that one that you've been hanging
on to.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
That one's never getting told, mom, keep that one. I
did think of a funny time because it was right
around Valentine's Day a way that my buddy got busted
like sort of cheating, Oh my god, his chick and
I can't remember if it was actual Valentine's Day or not,
but it was right around then. This was in college
and he was dating this girl. No, No, I never dated.
(01:06):
We went to lunch one time in like unch date. Yeah,
it was a lunch date. It was like friend zone. Anyway,
my buddy was dating this girl, and in my mind,
in the rest of our friend group's mind, she was
way out of his league, way out of his leak,
and so we're like, you should be like locked onto
this chick, like, do not screw this up because she's
(01:26):
like better than you and all facets and a lot
better looking than you. So like also made me wonder,
like why are you dating this guy? But well that's
not I don't want to Okay. So we're out at
the bars. She gets like drunk and annoyed with him, right,
and he had She left and he did not go
after her. She left. They didn't live together, but she
(01:50):
took a took a car home from the bars and
we were all and we stayed out and he stayed out.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
He didn't go after her. No, if you ever, if
your girl ever like leaves upset, you need to chase her,
especially if you.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Were at a public place and at a bar or something.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
No, yeah, you go after her.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
I feel like Kate stormed out one time, Like Kate
and I never fight. And I feel like very early
on she was upset about something, like she left and
I like didn't go after her. She was like she
still brings that up to this day. I'm just like
not a big drama person, Like I don't there was
no reason for us to be in an argument about something.
It was like a drunken thing. I'm just like, what
do we you know?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Like, anyway, that's it for a she left and you
had a better time without her wherever you are.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Are you talking about Kate or are you talking about
the story of both? Yeah? Both they were both true.
So she leaves in a car and goes back to
his place. She didn't tell him that she was going there,
and it was a house he lived at with a
few people, so like I'm assuming she just thought door
would be open. It was, and she let herself in,
climbed into bed, passed out. Now he doesn't know that
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she's there. No, he had like sort of been texting
this other girl on the side, which was like she
was very much in his lee and we're like, why
are you texting this other girl? Like why communicate with her?
You've got one that's out of your league and then
one that's maybe below your league.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Why are men so dumb?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
I don't know, trust me. We were like what are
you doing? But some people, I think just like kind
of feed up the drummer or whatever. Yeah, So that
girl meets up with us now at the bars, blah
blah blah. They're hitting it off. We go back to
their house afterwards, like because a few of us, like
some of the other roommates were my buddies and whatever,
we all went back there to hang out. He brings
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that girl back, thinking that they're gonna go climb in
to bed. When they go and she the sec this
is the side check. She goes and jumps in the bed,
not knowing the other girl is there, dives in, and
then obviously everything blows up in my buddy's spouse. Can
you imagine discovering your man is like cheating on you
(03:53):
by you climbing into what you think is an empty
bed and there's someone else already in there. I passed
that my brain, Who the hell is this chick?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
I feel like my blood pressure would just skyrocket in
that moment and I wouldn't even know what to do.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
So what happened? Do they like fight like like physically,
like what happened.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Or does I can't remember?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Oh, I'm sorry, and then she leaves like.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
I don't even know if the one girl even woke up,
but it was like at that point they both hated
his guts and like I just we all still to
this day, what were you thinking? Like, oh my, this
chick was way out of your league? What are you doing?
Is it offensive that I call him chicks?
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I don't take offense.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I think just twenty twenty five is chick?
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Okay, you're asking the wrong people. I wouldn't take offense to.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Tell his story. And it's like, well this woman went back
to weird, right, some old lady went back there. I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Wow, So women are just old ladies.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
When you're telling a story. Sometimes when you say women
as opposed to guy, like hey, I hung out with
some guys. I hung out with some women.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
And you also can't say girls because then it does
sound creepy, right.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Not allowed to say girls? But I said that, I
said that in that story.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I feel like this bitch times yeah, okay, so his.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Side bitch and his hot bitch, we're both there and
they discovered each other. The little thing blew up Valentine's
Day over whatever ruined and that's what happened. Okay, Now
onto Valentine's Day, because we talk a lot about the
birthday voucher being a thing. Oh yeah, and Valentine's Day
is one of those. It's the the most romantic holiday, right, Yeah.
(05:24):
Who gets a voucher for that day? Or is there
a voucher or is there just an assumed like understanding
that I'm hooking up is going to happen because it's Valentine.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
I think there's definitely an assumed understanding.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Okay, so it's like.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
A mutual so it's like a hookup. But I don't
believe that there is a voucher, got it.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Valentine's Let me ask this.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
There's no voucher, but we might throw in an extra favor.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Really, yes, depending on how the guarantees.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Yeah, at the date.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
If the date part went good, like we did a
good job planning the date and the flowers and all
that stuff, there might be an additional reward. Might you'll
don't light hired, We aren't light you'll be tired by
the time it comes up.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
For that always about my Valentine's Day because our dinner
reservations are until nine thirty at night. You think I'm
gonna stay awake and.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
After that you're going to be too tired. Pleads me
to my next question. If there is not a hookup
on Valentine's Day, is it not a successful Valentine's Day?
Is there in your mind a problem that it did
not happen, or you can have a great time of
Valentine's Day, go to sleep.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
I guess it would depend on why it didn't happen.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
But if it just didn't happen, then it would be
a little bit strange because that is part of, like
I guess, the night.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
It's just like what you're saying that guys have unless
theay colossally screw it up, they have a one chance
success rate on that day.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Are you talking about.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
I'm talking about hooking up like the success should be
one barring some incident like I just discribed for me.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Yeah, just because it is Valentine's Day and that's just
what happens.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
But we're not talking about like like a hypothetical if
you're going on a date with a guy, right, because
I that's another reason why I wouldn't go on a
on a first date with a guy, first.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Date, but if you're dating someone a long our relationship,
that you are, that you are, and but also if
you are comfortable enough going out with somebody on a
Valentine's Day date, like you've been dating enough that, like
it's assumed I'm going out to dinner with this person
on Valentine's Day because we've been seeing each other. This
success rate should be one expected. Interesting.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
I think it is expected.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
I wouldn't want that to be the first time that
I hook up at that person though.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Okay, what if when you got back to their place
there was like rose petals all over, bit bad and
a bubble bath? Like then does that? Does that apply
added pressure?
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Like?
Speaker 2 (07:53):
It does?
Speaker 3 (07:54):
It does, because what if you're still feeling the personnel
and you're like on your period.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
I was gonna ask that, but I didn't want to
ask that.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Well, yeah, there is pressure because then at that point
you feel bad, like.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Saying like, hey, I know you did all this. I know,
but then but then we shouldn't be expected to do anything.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
Right, so you can't be mad if it doesn't happen.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
I feel are guys mad?
Speaker 2 (08:19):
We can feel disappoint pointed? Right? Is that allowed.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
I think that's that would you think that would make
some guys not want to go all out and do
these nice things for them if they were like expecting it.
But they can't be upset, but they're disappointed.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
I don't know. I mean, I guess. See in my mind,
part of it is what day of the week does
Valentine's Day fall on? Like this one's on a Friday,
I expect there to be some hooking up. But if
it's like a Tuesday or Wednesday, and you got work
the next day, and like maybe the fireworks gets to
get postponed to the weekend, right.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Yeah, I think sometimes because I got a Friday, you're
going out, you're having drinks, and you know, it's like
it's a different vibe.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
But see here, Okay, so here's my you're telling.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
Me this one was on a Tuesday or Wednesday, you're
going to Poundtown?
Speaker 1 (09:08):
I mean me, So we don't if it's on a weekday.
Me and my husband don't celebrate Valentine's Day. We don't
have a babysitter, we don't do anything.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
We just okay, so no Poundtown on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Poundtown is like the least that we would do because
we're not going out anywhere.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
So Poundtown's back off.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Poundtown's back on. Maybe okay, probably.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Okay, Jess, is Poundtown on? If it's a weekday Valentine's Day?
Speaker 3 (09:31):
I think if I lived with my boyfriend, yes, because
then we'd probably do a little small celebration at home,
like I'd want to like cook him like a nice dinner.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
What would that meal? And let's let's let's unpack that.
What's the meal that you're making?
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Probably a recipe that I find on TikTok.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Got it, TikTok. Here's your TikTok food. Now let's go
to pound Now, let's go to Poundtown. Follow me on
this journey.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
You gotta set the mood with some nice little.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Because I guess again, I'm just asking because if this
one's on a fry day, I feel like that is
a guaranteed ticket to Poundtown. But the weekday ones, I
don't know. And you both, you ladies, are saying, that's
still guarantee.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
You don't do anything else Poundtown. You don't have to
get a babysitter for you know, it's free. If nothing
else Poundtown.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
It is okay, interesting, that's good news for you guys
out there.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Question I guess is not so much related to Valentine's date,
but sort of in the dating the dating scene. Do
you I know men will literally like pound anything basically yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
But not I that's not true.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
It's not yes, yes it is.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
I've turned down lots of pounding to my day.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
So that's my question.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
And I've also heard stories about ones that.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
You regretted, not me getting pounded. I've turned down you
did the pounding. I've turned on some of those regrettable
One was a giant San Francisco Giants player. Because anyway, WHOA.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
Because I feel like women we are more likely to
if that if a date doesn't go the way that
it that it I guess that the way that we
thought it was gonna go, or if the person is
just not who we thought they were gonna be and
they kind of you know, give you like some red
flags or the acre or whatever, more likely to be
like you know what, I'm not feeling this, but I
feel like if a guy goes on a date and
(11:12):
it is a horrible date, they'll still if.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
The woman is willing to pound, but they'll still do it.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
That's probably true. Yeah, probably true.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
There's what are those the deal breakers with that?
Speaker 1 (11:24):
I mean if they yes, there are, No, there's not.
You're not gonna go bragging to your friends about it
afterwards if you don't think it's anything to brag about,
but you're still gonna smash.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
There are I feel like plenty of guys have turned
down a potential smash I have for sure.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
Just based on a date going wrong in them being
like annoying or something.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Yeah, I mean, maybe it wasn't a date, but maybe
it was like a you know, a rendezvous or a
meetup or somebody that you meet that wants to pound
you and you don't want to pound them. Like, hasn't
that ever happened to you? Guys? Of course?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
But I don't see that happening to men. It does
it every single time, It.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Does happen to men. There are we all have standards, Yes.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
We do have standards, don't I feel like men just
imagine somebody else and just go ahead, just do it.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
No, you don't, there's no, it doesn't know it doesn't
work like that. There are you you can like pass
on a pounding.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
Wow, I'm shook.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
I have Maybe I'm I is that you think other
guys are just like I'll take any port in a storm,
I'll take it. Yeah, let me dock the skin boat
in tune in town. I don't care where town is.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
Yep, stop it the only.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
One that's not true. It is not true. Guys have
like their standard. Okay, that you have like your ideal.
Then you have like your standard like this is the
lowest I'm going to go on here. Then add twelve
beers and then that's the low she'll go. And then
add like eight more shots and then that's the low
she'll go. Drop in the scales drop, But eventually it
(13:01):
hits a point where like even you know, like yeah, but.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
What if it's the lowest of the low, but you
just got out of a breakup or you just like
you've gone on a super long dry spell and now
it's like this is your chance.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
But also like ladies, you have that same scale like
these are my standards. I would never pound anybody lower
than this, And then like you've had a few martinis
and then like that, you know, your standard gets lowered
a little bit and your beer goggles and like you've
dropped the scale before.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Yeah, but I feel like we're more likely to be
okay with not doing it, or to be like, you
know what, I'm good, I'm just pick here. Yeah. Maybe, yeah,
I think that's what it is because men kind of
are just like, sure, it has a face.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Yeah, I mean I just like a face. It's breathing,
it's breathing, pound on. I mean, I'm just I've I
was bartender for a long time. I witnessed a lot
of you know, standards being lowered and hook up that
you're just like, never in a million years to see
that happening.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Wait, so what about a San Francisco Giants player?
Speaker 4 (14:06):
Yeah, what'd you guys do?
Speaker 2 (14:08):
There was one that used to come to the bar
that I worked at. A lot of Giants players.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
Used to come to the bar that I but he
wanted to pound you worked at and he made it
to third base.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
He would make like a lot of references about wanting to.
Speaker 4 (14:19):
Do it with you.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Yes, it was like would be like legit hitting on me?
Speaker 1 (14:24):
Did it make you uncomfortable?
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Is he still playing?
Speaker 2 (14:27):
He also used to tip hundred dollars bill, so like whatever,
play player. God, he's not currently on the team anymore,
but he also used to He used to bring home
a lot of ladies too, So I think he's a
switch hitter.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
Okay, was he like a big name? Like yeah, oh
my god?
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Anyway his name I could, but like.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Okay, allegedly, we'll just leave it at that first name.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
No people figured that out.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
To last name.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
No people figured out way?
Speaker 4 (14:56):
What was his?
Speaker 3 (14:57):
No?
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Not Timmy. We did party with Timmy.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
A lot though. That's the only the person I can
thinke Timmy.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
Timmy was kind of shy, give me a name, smoke
a bunch of pots, and.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
It looks like it was right Buster.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Post kidding me. Buster Posey's not out here trying to
take He.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Has a standards standards, I'm not so who was it?
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Anyway, we'll leave it at that.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
We can't just leave it at that, Graham.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
We'll leave it at that.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
I literally cannot. It's going to bug me all.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
You probably don't even know who it is. I don't
say his name.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
If I don't know, what difference does it mean? What
is the rhyme with no not playing that first initial?
No last initial?
Speaker 2 (15:35):
No beard, no beard?
Speaker 3 (15:36):
What?
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Okay? What year?
Speaker 1 (15:38):
What year?
Speaker 2 (15:39):
Caaren used to hang out the beard used to hang
out there all the time. Brian Wilson. Remember the beard
he was a giants. Yeah, party with him.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Okay, it's kind of no beard giants players stop it
was he bald.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
No. People listening to this probably no.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
They're like, so you've mentioned it before.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
No, but I'm just like, the guy had a bit
of a reputation anyway. But people shocked to learn that, Like,
I think you a switch hitter.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Interesting, not that.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
There's anything wrong with that.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
Who is it?
Speaker 2 (16:08):
I'm not going to tell you anyway, Oh my god.
Maybe that's the story time for another day. But I've
made a lot of money off that.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
I gotta go to. Guys, you gotta go to I
gotta go do some research on the giants. We're gonna
recall this right here, Okay,
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