December 12, 2024 • 7 mins
Tiff got a talkback forma listener with a new baby who needs our insight.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You're waking up with fifth in the morning time kiss
what I was seven one? Good morning?
Speaker 2 (00:04):
How do you split time if you're a parent or
I guess I don't want to just limit this to parents.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
You could be engaged, you could be solo like me,
whatever the case may be.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
How do you manage and decide how you split time
for the holidays amongst.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Family, et cetera.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
There are times on this show where I get talkbacks
looking for advice that I can't be the answer to
because I'm not living it.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
So this is where I'm going to lean on you.
I got this talk.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Back good morning. The one thing I would like advice
line from people that have kids. I just had my
first uit, so this is like our first Christmas, having
decide where to.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Go, like what family.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Has for Christmas or hollidays? For people with kids out there,
have you choose which family to go to without making
something mat because I feel like it's repossible, So looking
for all the recommendations.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Thank you for the talkback with Tiff.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
The alternative way to comment on the show outside of
our phone line is by searching kiss on iHeartRadio. I'm
sorry if this sounds redundant, but you'll see the microphone
next to the play button. Then you hold that down
and it's like you're leaving a thirty second voice note
for your bestie.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
So this is where you come in. How do you
manage the holidays?
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Her specific ask was, Hey, I've got a new baby
and there's like a million people that want to meet
this baby. Do I go to his house? Do I
go to my house? How do you manage that? With
your family? Who's done this before that can be an
expert Outside of the talkback, I do want to talk
to you because I also have questions as well. Five one, three, seven,
(01:42):
four nine, one oh seven one?
Speaker 1 (01:44):
How do you manage this? Good morning?
Speaker 2 (01:48):
You're waking up with Tiff in the morning on kiss
one oh seven one, and we're in the midst of
talking about actually we're in the midst of getting some
advice for a talkbacker from earlier this morning. If you're
just walking into this, she had said, listen, I'm looking
for advice. I'm a first time mom and I don't
know how to manage the holidays amongst both of our families.
(02:09):
So what is your advicency? Obviously I don't have a kid,
so I'm leaning on you a little bit. Hi, good morning,
you're on the air.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
All right, So I have five kids a little round.
Speaker 5 (02:20):
Yeah, So we decide we do Christmas Morning at our
house and then we have a Christmas launch at my
mom's house, and then Christmas Dinner is at his house.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
That seems like a lot, though you're going You're going
to like three different experiences in the matter of a day.
Maybe I'm going to be a bad mom someday, but
I don't want to do that.
Speaker 6 (02:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Sometimes previous year we've done Christmas, but somebody else will
tell and then Christmas Day at the other parents how okay?
Usually parents do understand, especially when there's in your baby,
but we give them some time on our little sand.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Okay, So while I have you, remind me of your name?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
What neighborhood you call me from?
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Okay? Christina.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
If you were to say to your significant other's mother
in law, hey, I don't want to come to your
house for the holidays, I want to just stay at
my own, how would she or he respond to that?
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Well, unfortunately, I'm kind of deal it before. She was
really upset at first, but then she understood because we
had three under the age of three at the time,
they just can't.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Christina, you're cutting out a little bit. But thank you
for the call. I got the gist of what you
were saying. I am going to open a can of
worms right now. I'm not a mom, so I know
at some point when I am one, if I ever am,
you're gonna call me back and you're gonna laugh, and
you're gonna point my finger and you're gonna say, Tiffany,
I told you so. But as it stands as a
single solo woman right now, here's my stance on this.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
It is your family.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
You get to decide what you want to do with
your holiday morning, which means that you're gonna have to
stand up to your own mother in law or your
own mother. It's not their holiday anymore. I never understood
this where you're like, I gotta go to this person's house,
in this person's house, in this person's house, because if
I don't go to my mother in law's house, she's
gonna get mad at me and she's gonna do this,
(04:18):
and she's gonna do this. It's not her holiday anymore.
I'm sorry, Graham. You have to adjust.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
You have to.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
It doesn't matter if everyone's been coming to your house
for the last twenty or thirty christmases. If I have
my own baby, I'm going to do what I want
to do. And I know that that's probably gonna hurt.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
But that's the way I see it. And I said, I.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Know there's a can of worms on this one that
I opened up, but that's my stance on it. If
I've went three, seven, four, nine, one oh seven one,
do you agree, yes or no? Good morning you're waking
up with Tiff in the morning on kiss one oh
seven one.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
I appreciate your input.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I know I opened up a can of worms with
this one, but we're trying to get some advice for
our talkbacker She had said, it's my first year with
my kid, and I don't know how to manage the
holidays amongst both of our families.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
So Hi, you're on the air.
Speaker 6 (05:04):
Ah. So I think that when it comes to the holidays,
when you have a newborn baby, especially but those are
the more kids you have too, it becomes like kind
of more of an inconvenience than anything to like try
to make everybody else, the older generations happier. Exactly new generation, yeah, right,
that's exactly for the baby, Yes, what's that for mommy?
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Exactly, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
And I thought that I'd probably get some hate for
this because I don't have a mother in law and
I also don't have a baby, but from observation, because
I've seen it on so many different levels from so
many friends, that it always feels like you're trying to
appease either your own mother or your mother in law.
And I think at one point, it's not their holiday anymore,
(05:47):
it's your own. It's the one that you want to
spend with your family.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
Yes, And I think.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
At that point you could even offer to start hosting
at your place. And I know, at first, with a
new baby, that seems like a big order feel, but
you can kind of do it casually, Like how about
you guys stop in and see me. I'm I'm going
to be at home with the baby. We'd love to
see you. We'll have like some roast on the on
the so going for us, and you could host something
real casual that way people can still see baby. It's
(06:15):
not like you're staying away, but you're not going out
of your way and exhausting yourself and putting the baby
out there, exposing them to all that weather and everything.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Exactly, and like at one point or another, it's not
your mother in law or your own mother's holiday anymore.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
It's not they have to let go like you have to.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
It's you have to let go. Yes, you're the mother. Now,
you're the mother. Now they're the grandma.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
Now present and deliver.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I'm you and I agree, but I think that there
are going to be some sad and angry mother in
law's listening right now and or mother.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Oh yeah, it's hard. Change is hard.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
Change, It is hard.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Remind me of your name of what neighborhood you're in.
Speaker 6 (06:59):
I'm Amanda. I'm from Norwood.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Amanda.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Thank you so much for the call. You're more than
welcome to contribute to this as we get some advice
for our talkbacker. You'll search kiss on iHeart and you'll
see the microphone next to the PLAYBND.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
That's how that goes.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
All right, we're gonna put a pin in this now
because I have the three things you need to know
to get your day started. Sincey started in Sincy coming
up here in a few minutes. I've never seen Joe
Burrow kind of borderline Tira, So I've got that for
you and more coming next
You're waking up with fifth in the morning time kiss
what I was seven one? Good morning?
Speaker 2 (00:04):
How do you split time if you're a parent or
I guess I don't want to just limit this to parents.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
You could be engaged, you could be solo like me,
whatever the case may be.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
How do you manage and decide how you split time
for the holidays amongst.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Family, et cetera.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
There are times on this show where I get talkbacks
looking for advice that I can't be the answer to
because I'm not living it.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
So this is where I'm going to lean on you.
I got this talk.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Back good morning. The one thing I would like advice
line from people that have kids. I just had my
first uit, so this is like our first Christmas, having
decide where to.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Go, like what family.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Has for Christmas or hollidays? For people with kids out there,
have you choose which family to go to without making
something mat because I feel like it's repossible, So looking
for all the recommendations.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Thank you for the talkback with Tiff.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
The alternative way to comment on the show outside of
our phone line is by searching kiss on iHeartRadio. I'm
sorry if this sounds redundant, but you'll see the microphone
next to the play button. Then you hold that down
and it's like you're leaving a thirty second voice note
for your bestie.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
So this is where you come in. How do you
manage the holidays?
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Her specific ask was, Hey, I've got a new baby
and there's like a million people that want to meet
this baby. Do I go to his house? Do I
go to my house? How do you manage that? With
your family? Who's done this before that can be an
expert Outside of the talkback, I do want to talk
to you because I also have questions as well. Five one, three, seven,
(01:42):
four nine, one oh seven one?
Speaker 1 (01:44):
How do you manage this? Good morning?
Speaker 2 (01:48):
You're waking up with Tiff in the morning on kiss
one oh seven one, and we're in the midst of
talking about actually we're in the midst of getting some
advice for a talkbacker from earlier this morning. If you're
just walking into this, she had said, listen, I'm looking
for advice. I'm a first time mom and I don't
know how to manage the holidays amongst both of our families.
(02:09):
So what is your advicency? Obviously I don't have a kid,
so I'm leaning on you a little bit. Hi, good morning,
you're on the air.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
All right, So I have five kids a little round.
Speaker 5 (02:20):
Yeah, So we decide we do Christmas Morning at our
house and then we have a Christmas launch at my
mom's house, and then Christmas Dinner is at his house.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
That seems like a lot, though you're going You're going
to like three different experiences in the matter of a day.
Maybe I'm going to be a bad mom someday, but
I don't want to do that.
Speaker 6 (02:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Sometimes previous year we've done Christmas, but somebody else will
tell and then Christmas Day at the other parents how okay?
Usually parents do understand, especially when there's in your baby,
but we give them some time on our little sand.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Okay, So while I have you, remind me of your name?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
What neighborhood you call me from?
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Okay? Christina.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
If you were to say to your significant other's mother
in law, hey, I don't want to come to your
house for the holidays, I want to just stay at
my own, how would she or he respond to that?
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Well, unfortunately, I'm kind of deal it before. She was
really upset at first, but then she understood because we
had three under the age of three at the time,
they just can't.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Christina, you're cutting out a little bit. But thank you
for the call. I got the gist of what you
were saying. I am going to open a can of
worms right now. I'm not a mom, so I know
at some point when I am one, if I ever am,
you're gonna call me back and you're gonna laugh, and
you're gonna point my finger and you're gonna say, Tiffany,
I told you so. But as it stands as a
single solo woman right now, here's my stance on this.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
It is your family.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
You get to decide what you want to do with
your holiday morning, which means that you're gonna have to
stand up to your own mother in law or your
own mother. It's not their holiday anymore. I never understood
this where you're like, I gotta go to this person's house,
in this person's house, in this person's house, because if
I don't go to my mother in law's house, she's
gonna get mad at me and she's gonna do this,
(04:18):
and she's gonna do this. It's not her holiday anymore.
I'm sorry, Graham. You have to adjust.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
You have to.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
It doesn't matter if everyone's been coming to your house
for the last twenty or thirty christmases. If I have
my own baby, I'm going to do what I want
to do. And I know that that's probably gonna hurt.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
But that's the way I see it. And I said, I.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Know there's a can of worms on this one that
I opened up, but that's my stance on it. If
I've went three, seven, four, nine, one oh seven one,
do you agree, yes or no? Good morning you're waking
up with Tiff in the morning on kiss one oh
seven one.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
I appreciate your input.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I know I opened up a can of worms with
this one, but we're trying to get some advice for
our talkbacker She had said, it's my first year with
my kid, and I don't know how to manage the
holidays amongst both of our families.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
So Hi, you're on the air.
Speaker 6 (05:04):
Ah. So I think that when it comes to the holidays,
when you have a newborn baby, especially but those are
the more kids you have too, it becomes like kind
of more of an inconvenience than anything to like try
to make everybody else, the older generations happier. Exactly new generation, yeah, right,
that's exactly for the baby, Yes, what's that for mommy?
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Exactly, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
And I thought that I'd probably get some hate for
this because I don't have a mother in law and
I also don't have a baby, but from observation, because
I've seen it on so many different levels from so
many friends, that it always feels like you're trying to
appease either your own mother or your mother in law.
And I think at one point, it's not their holiday anymore,
(05:47):
it's your own. It's the one that you want to
spend with your family.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
Yes, And I think.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
At that point you could even offer to start hosting
at your place. And I know, at first, with a
new baby, that seems like a big order feel, but
you can kind of do it casually, Like how about
you guys stop in and see me. I'm I'm going
to be at home with the baby. We'd love to
see you. We'll have like some roast on the on
the so going for us, and you could host something
real casual that way people can still see baby. It's
(06:15):
not like you're staying away, but you're not going out
of your way and exhausting yourself and putting the baby
out there, exposing them to all that weather and everything.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Exactly, and like at one point or another, it's not
your mother in law or your own mother's holiday anymore.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
It's not they have to let go like you have to.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
It's you have to let go. Yes, you're the mother. Now,
you're the mother. Now they're the grandma.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
Now present and deliver.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I'm you and I agree, but I think that there
are going to be some sad and angry mother in
law's listening right now and or mother.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Oh yeah, it's hard. Change is hard.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
Change, It is hard.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Remind me of your name of what neighborhood you're in.
Speaker 6 (06:59):
I'm Amanda. I'm from Norwood.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Amanda.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Thank you so much for the call. You're more than
welcome to contribute to this as we get some advice
for our talkbacker. You'll search kiss on iHeart and you'll
see the microphone next to the PLAYBND.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
That's how that goes.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
All right, we're gonna put a pin in this now
because I have the three things you need to know
to get your day started. Sincey started in Sincy coming
up here in a few minutes. I've never seen Joe
Burrow kind of borderline Tira, So I've got that for
you and more coming next
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