Treating the Cause, Not the Symptoms: A Listener's Life-Changing Lifestyle Story

On this episode of Our American Stories, "On the outside I looked pretty good, but inside, I felt like I was dying." Tim Hennessey was appalled at his late 30s experience and went to a doctor, and came home with a big decision to make.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:10):
This is Lee Habib, and this is our American Stories,
the show where America is the star and the American people.
Up next, a story by Tim Hennessy. He's an IT
professional from Texas, and, like so many families in America,
grappled with his own health issues, primarily pain. Here is
Tim Hennessy on the story of his own health journey.

Speaker 2 (00:39):
The late nineties. I was in my late thirties and
I had all kinds of health problems. On the outside, physically,
I look pretty darn good, you know. I worked out
a couple hours a day, I played racketball for two
or three hours. I lifted weights. So on the outside
I looked pretty good. By the inside, I felt like
I was dying because I had chronic pains all day

(01:00):
long my elbow, my knees, my back, had hard time sleeping.
I had migraines literally a couple times a month, the
kind of migraines where you got to shut the light
out from your eyes. I used to put ice on
my neck laid down. I had this pulsing almost like
you hear a drum boom boom boom. I had higher

(01:22):
blood pressure, I had skin issues. I would play racquetball
and the next day I could barely walk down the stairs.
And I'm in my late thirties, thinking what's it going
to be like if I make it to fifty. So
I was recommended to visit a doctor in Calabasas, California,
where I lived, and he was a pretty famous doctor.
A lot of Hollywood people would go see him. And

(01:44):
he took a look at me and he basically diagnosed
with a form of autoimmune disease. When I looked at him,
I said to him, doctor, could it be what I'm
eating and drinking? Could it be my diet? Because I
knew a secret that he didn't know. I knew my
diet was horrible. He kind of gave me an out.

(02:06):
He says, no, Tim, it's nothing you're doing that caused this.
It's more likely hereditary. So I'm like, oh good, I'm relieved,
and he says, these things kind of happen to people,
but the good news is we can control it. And
you know, some people get heart disease, some people get cancer.
You're lucky it isn't cancer. As he pats me on

(02:26):
the shoulder, you know, with his gentle bedside mare that
he had, you know, and I wanted to believe him
because I wanted to continue drinking my diet Doctor Pepper
for breakfast with four milk chocolate macadamie, not pepper charm cookies.
That was my typical breakfast, and I will alternate the
next day, I have donuts instead of the cookies. With

(02:47):
my diet Doctor Pepper. I wanted to be able to
go to McDonald's or other fast food places at lunchtime,
and I didn't want to think about what I was eating,
so I didn't tell him that was my diet. But
I thought, well, good, you can control this. I can
continue eating crappy food. Great, this is awesome. Then he
handed me a prescription. He said, Tim, why don't you

(03:10):
take a look at some new drug And I asked him, well,
how long do I have to take this drug? And
he said most likely for the rest of your life.
There is no cure for what you have. And he
said the best we can do is help control what
you have. And he said, I'm pretty confident that we
could help you. So I drove home from the doctor's

(03:31):
office with this prescription and I didn't know quite what
to do at first, so I talked to my wife
and I said, She said how to go? I said, well,
the doctor gave me a prescription for this drug and
he told me to look it up, and I decided
to look it up. With the internet in the late

(03:52):
nineties isn't what it is today, but each company had
a website. I went to this company's website and I
looked up this particular drug. Yeah. The funny thing is
the first thing I noticed when I looked the drug
up it said for the symptom of this, for the
symptom of that, and what I was looking for, and
maybe naively, I was looking for the word cure, but

(04:15):
I didn't see the word cure. I then saw the
side effects, and the first thing I noticed was it
said lower your immune system. The second one was potentially
increase risk of heart disease, and the third one was
potentially increased risk of cancer. So I turned to my

(04:37):
wife deb, I go, Wow, what could possibly go wrong?
I take this drug to the rest of my life
and I had a lower immune system, a greater risk
of heart disease, and greater risk of cancer. But I
got rid of my migraines and my pain. Needless to say,
I didn't want to take this drug. I wanted to
see if I could find another way. Then there's a

(04:59):
woman to came into my life through another front of
my wife's and she handed me this book. It's called
You're Not Sick, You Are Thirsty by doctor bat Melanjahel
and something. It's a long Indian name. I call him
doctor Batman. I think that's his nickname. So I decided
I'm gonna increase my water and get rid of my
SOA have it. And I haven't had one since. And

(05:20):
that that was August two thousand and four. And I
have to tell you, I haven't had a migraine. I
haven't had a headache, maybe mild headache once in a
while if I don't sleep enough. My blood pressure was
back to normal and it continues to be back to normal.
All my pains went away. So I thought, well, what
can I do if I change my diet. Here I am.

(05:40):
I'm in my sixties now, I still have normal blood pressure.
I have no more pains than my knees, back and
elbow like I did in Originally, I haven't had a
migraine in twenty years. I don't My diet is not
perfect by any means, but I know if I get
a little bit off track. I got to get back
to the green juices and making sure or I exercise,
making sure I get vitamin D and sunshine. So the

(06:04):
proof is in the pudding. I could have been twenty
five years ago on medication the rest of my life,
as I mentioned, and who knows that my immune system
would have been. Who knows if I'd still be alive
today being on medication for twenty five years with a
increased risk of cancer, increased risk of heart disease, and
a lower immune system. You know, for me personally, I

(06:25):
have an open mind. I'll hear both sides, but let
me decide. As an American, I should have the personal
freedom to choose my doctor, to ignore my doctor if
I don't agree with him, to choose an alternative health practitioner,
to ignore their alternative healthcare practitioners advice. If I choose

(06:46):
to let me decide what my health is. And I
believe that's what all Americans really want. Let us choose
And a.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
Special thanks to Greg Hangler on the production of the
story of Special Thanks to Tim for sharing his story
and so many Americans grapple with these choices. Do I
just work on my diet and health. Or do I
go see a doctor and it's not an either, or
you need doctors and you need to eat better. The
story of Tim Hennessee's health journey, the story of so

(07:16):
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(07:36):
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